Honestly a physically attractive guy crying is going to get more sympathy from women than an ugly guy crying. It’s as simple as that. Crying in and of itself is not attractive or unattractive.
I’ve also noticed the spread of the naive mentality that everything will be okay if you just stay positive on Reddit, people there seem not to be able to comprehend that life is not their friend
I'm an American. The last times I recall crying were over my best friend's body after he had just passed away from brain cancer, he wasn't yet 21 years old. I made sure I was alone with his body before I did, refused to let his mother see it. And during the movie Black Hawk Down when the two Delta Force guys descended from their chopper to defend an injured fellow servicemen from an angry mob of Somalis. The Elite Deltas gave their lives. Their lifeless bodies were dragged through the street by those animals like trophies. I recalled while watching the film seeing the actual footage of that event on the news as a kid. It moved and angered me how we spent those lives for nothing. The later event's tears were far fewer though than the loss of my friend. All that said, we are becoming a civilzation of jelly boys.
Gen-X was the last generation of masculine men. But, it was Gen-X that raised the weak men we have today. Thankfully, as a Gen-X male, I have no kids. Cheers!
There is a certain time and place for everything, even crying but doesn't mean you need to everyday almost every hour. Mental fortitude is needed, not just testosterone, they can just have soft feeling's. Higher amount of testosterone can be hairline,beard,body hair,muscle mass, bone density, recovery speed (fights,gym,etc). So this is a complicated thing.
I think a problem here is that you used online enterntainment as broad examples of men crying more. Since there is a large incentive to get more views, you as a creator might decide to do over the top displays of emotionality, be it excitement, anger or sadness. The squid games examples they likely show heavily edited footage that might take one scene where a character is showing emotion and stick it to a completely seperate event. Hell they probably incentivize the people on those shows to show exaggerated emotions in order to get more footage like that. Love the Deus Ex music in the background btw.
Not sure about it general, but specifically for the examples that are mentioned: crying and whaling probably has more to do with it being more entertaining to watch. People exaggerate their reactions on social media and reality TV all the time.
Crying rules. I think some people cry too much or too easily, in the sense that they probably could benefit from seeing a therapist. I cry over songs, movies and television series way too easily. But idk, it's mostly because I just don't feel the need to resist it. I can and do hold it in around certain people though, and it's really impressive how its IMPOSSIBLE to resist crying when I'm alone, but when I'm around most masculine males, I find it impossible to cry about anything.
Please, don't fall in this 'beta masculinity' aka red pill, where crying and showing vulnerability is bad, but then 'oops men feel lonely and commit uicide'. Crying is a way to express sorrow and can really help negate some stress. Yet yeah, we (men and woman alike) should train to have higher threshold and be more resilient, because sometimes tough times can be cruel
i cant say i dont get upset every once in a while, but i much rather turn it into brain power to solve the issue or get angry, i know its not better to get angry instead of cry but i am one of those that takes out the anger on inanimate objects that belong to me.
Outing your anger on inanimate objects is still outing it, just as crying is a way to out it. I'm not saying you must cry to get shit out of your system, but lashing out or getting angry isnt a good way either.
Yeah just rq to the squid game one, I think that this one is one of the more understandable ones, because it could very well be, that they needed the money really badly for surgery or something like that, so I can kind of understand that one.
The squid game reality show example is a bit silly if you ask me, 4.56 million is a life changing amount that could mean that they never have to work again and they’ve just lost all the money because they couldn’t carve a sugar cookie properly
Low test is an issue and can be treated in a relatively easy way. It's becoming less taboo. As for western tears. Being a victim is often given value. Hopefully it's a passing phase. I watched both those TV shows. The Korean show was far more honourable, with badass male and female competitors.
I don't go out of my way to cry. I try and act like Ultimate Warrior but when i start to feel like it behind scenes i will. Even men like Macho Man admits to crying before picking yourself up. OHH YEAHHHH. I'll admit it if asked. If people have a problem with it then me being around them was never meant to be.
The example from neflix's squid game show is not good example. netflix wants drama for rating therefore they: select people who more dramatic, incourage people to be dramátic, and use selective edits to change context. Also netflix known to starve, sleep deprive and give no rest to contestants which would affect their mental. Not really indicative of how folks are moving day to day.
Not to mention that this kind of show attracts narcissists. They build specific pictures in their heads where they slay in the show 😅 Facing reality is difficult for them
Crying is natural and going against your natural instincts is damaging but these men are crying over things that are rudimentary/ unnatural is where the problem lies
1:33 “ not being spoken about in society” dude you’re like the 10,000th person I’ve heard say this random bullshit about testosterone levels. Please go further than just the surface level understanding of testosterone and hormones in general, The reason why smart people don’t really talk about it is because they actually understand the balance of hormones and the irrelevance of the actual testosterone count.
You have to be a man before you can be a "Crying man" Love conquers Hate I am Rich, I am Strong!!! Thy will be done! Believe in Jesus Christ for Salvation~!
crying as a man you should hide your cry for emotional control I hide my cry every night before I sleep when praying. they dont see me cry they say Im stoic.
@gagetomerlin2497 sometimes if you explain your problems to people they don't understand. and sometimes explaining more your honest by your mistake makes it even worse. so thats why I pray to God I believe he understand me the most. and tomorrow it feels better🙂
@@Parcother People need to know that they don't have to understand your problems. People experience problems differently. If people will treat you differently after opening up a bit, then they arent good people to be around.
Thank you for calling this out, I'm 27 and haven't cried in 15 years at least. If I ever mention this people turn on me saying that I'm trying to act hard or pushing 'toxic masculinity'. Men aren't supposed to cry, unless your family member dies lol.
Not really. I am 39 and going through depression after my fiance broke up with me. Sometimes life sucks. On the other hand nobody knows that. Nobody knows that I had self-delete thoughts. I was putting a mask, hell - full-on costume for couple of years. This is not healthy. So cry - but don't show that to others
@@HCforLife1 I recommend getting your T-levels checked and going on the carnivore diet, will fix the chemical imbalances that are causing your depression
@@gagetomerlin2497 Because it was an androcentric society where women couldn't shame men. Wifes were property and every man had sex slaves or cheap whores at his disposal. The Ancient ones had it figured out.
I dont know about the last point. South Korea doesn't have as hostile places as cities in the West. Especially the US, which also borders onto Latin America, the region with the highest murder rates currently.
There's an epidemic of low testosterone in our society. Hopefully, with the appointment of RFK jr. to the FDA, he can help clean up the US food supply.
How is a politician going to solve this?😂 people in the past had more test because they actually worked physically for some that was like an 8 hour workout no amount of grass fed beef will compensate for the modern day 8 hours behind a screen
He is talking about removing fluoride from the water supply, which I think is an amazing idea. The issue I have with Trump's campaign and RFKs FDA stance, is that the recent Boar's Head E.Coli outbreak was directly caused by Trump's reduction of regulations regarding processed meats.
Crying is ok. But not because of silly reasons. Also - it's brutal, but men should cry in silence. Noone cares besides your parents and siblings (if you lucky)
It is crying like a woman. To get a reward. Womens social currency is also emotions. Men cannot trade these for any benefit. It is even more accepted to show rage as a man then to show sadness or worse, weakness. I guess it is an evolutionary trait. Can't fight predators when overly emotional. Men trst their resilience by jokes and playfights. To harden your sroicism, cause women select for it. The call for being emotional is just a trst from them. As they tend to do with Men. They want something different from what they claim though. An emotionally stable Men who shows select emotions for the specific Woman only, which also benefits her. Weak towards her only, not others while also being in a narrow frame of excepted expression. Men who slay tend to be more emotionally cold. Talking about Emotions makes you her best friend, not a Lover.
This was terrible to read, not only the grammar but also the points being made and i disagree with a lot. But i do agree with the first part, these people use emotional responses and cry to cope or gain some kind of benefit from it, either social or emotional. The brain looks for the best ways to use as less energy as possible, and crying in response to the mildest of inconveniences instead of handling the situation responsibly (like actual adults), is their way to preserve that energy. And it's even more easy to tell since they most of these reactions are being published in social media for attention and validation
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crying its ok , but why post it on social media, if i have a desire to cry bc idk i miss my dead pet, or someone from my family who died i do it alone
A man shouldn't cry over a pet, its not even a human bro...
@@Mikuzan What? Bro there is nothing wrong with crying over a dead pet or a human
@@bromomento6998 meant to say 'its' not even a human
@@Mikuzan clearly you've never had a pet before
@@Mikuzan you arent as tough as you are bruh
Honestly a physically attractive guy crying is going to get more sympathy from women than an ugly guy crying. It’s as simple as that. Crying in and of itself is not attractive or unattractive.
Lol exactly. The problem isnt that men are crying. Its that normies and sub 5 men are crying. No sympathy for your face.
Nothing wrong with crying as a man, but a mans tears should be expensive
It takes everything to hold back the tears
That makes zero sense.
Why?
Bro that sounds sus.
@@Rango-Bot-dq1eu it does icl
i disagree. society allowing men to cry is a psyop imo
I’ve also noticed the spread of the naive mentality that everything will be okay if you just stay positive on Reddit, people there seem not to be able to comprehend that life is not their friend
I'm an American.
The last times I recall crying were over my best friend's body after he had just passed away from brain cancer, he wasn't yet 21 years old. I made sure I was alone with his body before I did, refused to let his mother see it.
And during the movie Black Hawk Down when the two Delta Force guys descended from their chopper to defend an injured fellow servicemen from an angry mob of Somalis. The Elite Deltas gave their lives. Their lifeless bodies were dragged through the street by those animals like trophies. I recalled while watching the film seeing the actual footage of that event on the news as a kid. It moved and angered me how we spent those lives for nothing.
The later event's tears were far fewer though than the loss of my friend.
All that said, we are becoming a civilzation of jelly boys.
Or maybe in the last 30 years there's just been an increase in men filming themselves crying and putting it on RUclips?
Trust me man, crying is more than okay, the problem is when you are traumatized by a life event and you just CAN'T cry it away.
Gen-X was the last generation of masculine men. But, it was Gen-X that raised the weak men we have today. Thankfully, as a Gen-X male, I have no kids. Cheers!
There is a certain time and place for everything, even crying but doesn't mean you need to everyday almost every hour. Mental fortitude is needed, not just testosterone, they can just have soft feeling's. Higher amount of testosterone can be hairline,beard,body hair,muscle mass, bone density, recovery speed (fights,gym,etc). So this is a complicated thing.
I think a problem here is that you used online enterntainment as broad examples of men crying more. Since there is a large incentive to get more views, you as a creator might decide to do over the top displays of emotionality, be it excitement, anger or sadness. The squid games examples they likely show heavily edited footage that might take one scene where a character is showing emotion and stick it to a completely seperate event. Hell they probably incentivize the people on those shows to show exaggerated emotions in order to get more footage like that.
Love the Deus Ex music in the background btw.
A man may cry - but not in public. And only for a valid reason (Not Soy Wars trailers, for example).
Stories can be powerful.
im not political but i see this trends mostly with leftist/woke/librALS men for some reason
Pee on a bible and see who cries
well duh
Low testosterone.
yeah, conservatives just pay money to Andrew Tate and other 'red pill' gurus, which much cringe from my perspective
they coming for u
Not sure about it general, but specifically for the examples that are mentioned: crying and whaling probably has more to do with it being more entertaining to watch. People exaggerate their reactions on social media and reality TV all the time.
Rambo after loosing everyone he cares about 🗿
Crying rules. I think some people cry too much or too easily, in the sense that they probably could benefit from seeing a therapist. I cry over songs, movies and television series way too easily. But idk, it's mostly because I just don't feel the need to resist it. I can and do hold it in around certain people though, and it's really impressive how its IMPOSSIBLE to resist crying when I'm alone, but when I'm around most masculine males, I find it impossible to cry about anything.
Yeah give them to the people who get paid to make them cry, see you guys are so detached form reality it's like the blind leading the blind...
Crying, screaming, rage, it’s all normal and natural human emotions
However if you need to record it and put it on social media then it’s not genuine
Please, don't fall in this 'beta masculinity' aka red pill, where crying and showing vulnerability is bad, but then 'oops men feel lonely and commit uicide'.
Crying is a way to express sorrow and can really help negate some stress.
Yet yeah, we (men and woman alike) should train to have higher threshold and be more resilient, because sometimes tough times can be cruel
hamza flashbacks
Low testosterone type ahh comment 💀
xD
i cant say i dont get upset every once in a while, but i much rather turn it into brain power to solve the issue or get angry, i know its not better to get angry instead of cry but i am one of those that takes out the anger on inanimate objects that belong to me.
Outing your anger on inanimate objects is still outing it, just as crying is a way to out it. I'm not saying you must cry to get shit out of your system, but lashing out or getting angry isnt a good way either.
Yeah just rq to the squid game one, I think that this one is one of the more understandable ones, because it could very well be, that they needed the money really badly for surgery or something like that, so I can kind of understand that one.
The squid game reality show example is a bit silly if you ask me, 4.56 million is a life changing amount that could mean that they never have to work again and they’ve just lost all the money because they couldn’t carve a sugar cookie properly
Crying is a manipulation tactic for kids & women
Not always but yeah
Low test is an issue and can be treated in a relatively easy way. It's becoming less taboo.
As for western tears. Being a victim is often given value. Hopefully it's a passing phase. I watched both those TV shows. The Korean show was far more honourable, with badass male and female competitors.
Antidepressants indeed killed my libido and made me weaker in some aspects, although more emotionally stable in others.
I don't go out of my way to cry. I try and act like Ultimate Warrior but when i start to feel like it behind scenes i will.
Even men like Macho Man admits to crying before picking yourself up. OHH YEAHHHH.
I'll admit it if asked. If people have a problem with it then me being around them was never meant to be.
The example from neflix's squid game show is not good example. netflix wants drama for rating therefore they: select people who more dramatic, incourage people to be dramátic, and use selective edits to change context. Also netflix known to starve, sleep deprive and give no rest to contestants which would affect their mental. Not really indicative of how folks are moving day to day.
Not to mention that this kind of show attracts narcissists. They build specific pictures in their heads where they slay in the show 😅 Facing reality is difficult for them
I’m a very empathetic adult male age 31 years old. You have understand pain of others
what about some of us that literally feel nothing? i wish i could have cried
Maturity levels are different throughout our lives. No reason to shame ourselves for not feeling specific feelings.
Just be good looking and suddenly your crying is no longer off-putting
I'm not lying, the guy at 0:54, I went to high school with that guy.
Crying is natural and going against your natural instincts is damaging but these men are crying over things that are rudimentary/ unnatural is where the problem lies
@DeusExMachina50 well duh yeah if you're gonna cry in front of others do it with your loved ones atleast
@@Dondraper87104 That's the problem with these soy boys - they're all self absorbed narcissists.
The problem that is hurting literally no one.
1:33 “ not being spoken about in society” dude you’re like the 10,000th person I’ve heard say this random bullshit about testosterone levels. Please go further than just the surface level understanding of testosterone and hormones in general, The reason why smart people don’t really talk about it is because they actually understand the balance of hormones and the irrelevance of the actual testosterone count.
Please get another hair color man 😭
black would look really good on you
I agree with the first part but not the second he would look goofy, no white person looks good with black hair
Fuck whats wrong with me. I didn’t even cry when my own father died.
same
thanks mom
Life Hack: When you feel like crying, put your phone away
You have to be a man before you can be a "Crying man"
Love conquers Hate
I am Rich, I am Strong!!!
Thy will be done!
Believe in Jesus Christ for Salvation~!
Hey bro do u edit with capcut pc
When CHad crys hes opening up. When Sub5preet cries, they call the national guard.
crying as a man you should hide your cry for emotional control I hide my cry every night before I sleep when praying. they dont see me cry they say Im stoic.
Its okay for people to see you cry dude. Open up.
@gagetomerlin2497 sometimes if you explain your problems to people they don't understand. and sometimes explaining more your honest by your mistake makes it even worse. so thats why I pray to God I believe he understand me the most. and tomorrow it feels better🙂
@@Parcother People need to know that they don't have to understand your problems. People experience problems differently. If people will treat you differently after opening up a bit, then they arent good people to be around.
That Deus Ex music caught me off guard
Thank you for calling this out, I'm 27 and haven't cried in 15 years at least. If I ever mention this people turn on me saying that I'm trying to act hard or pushing 'toxic masculinity'. Men aren't supposed to cry, unless your family member dies lol.
Not really. I am 39 and going through depression after my fiance broke up with me. Sometimes life sucks. On the other hand nobody knows that. Nobody knows that I had self-delete thoughts. I was putting a mask, hell - full-on costume for couple of years. This is not healthy. So cry - but don't show that to others
@@HCforLife1 I recommend getting your T-levels checked and going on the carnivore diet, will fix the chemical imbalances that are causing your depression
💀 @@Mikuzan
I'd cry right in front of you and I'd dare you to say something about it to me or do something about it 😌
@@IbnRushd-mv3fp If you cried in my field of eyesight it would be the last thing you do on this earth.
Now the question is: How can we get men back up there
I think it ties with the lack of shame throughout our society because it wasn't something a man shows off.
If we shame men for it, we should shame women for it all the same. Otherwise it aint fair.
@adelb7897 but we do shame men for it, really this video is a completely nothing burger because NOBODY even likes seeing that.
Not true. In Ancient Greece and Rome, men crying was seen as manly.
@@gagetomerlin2497 Because it was an androcentric society where women couldn't shame men. Wifes were property and every man had sex slaves or cheap whores at his disposal. The Ancient ones had it figured out.
Pretty bold of you to assume I didnt have testosterone as a child, I’ve had a full beard since I was 16 😂 /s
I dont know about the last point. South Korea doesn't have as hostile places as cities in the West. Especially the US, which also borders onto Latin America, the region with the highest murder rates currently.
Can you make a video about mewing bro? It seems interesting. And it fits this channel well
Pseudo bullshit
It's over for bro -💀💀😭😭
It's just clickbait, people want to go viral. Exaggerated things get more clicks & views.
There's an epidemic of low testosterone in our society. Hopefully, with the appointment of RFK jr. to the FDA, he can help clean up the US food supply.
1. No there isn't. You have zero evidence.
2. Low testosterone isn't even bad.
3. RFK Jr. is a crazy person. Leave your echo chamber.
How is a politician going to solve this?😂 people in the past had more test because they actually worked physically for some that was like an 8 hour workout no amount of grass fed beef will compensate for the modern day 8 hours behind a screen
He is talking about removing fluoride from the water supply, which I think is an amazing idea. The issue I have with Trump's campaign and RFKs FDA stance, is that the recent Boar's Head E.Coli outbreak was directly caused by Trump's reduction of regulations regarding processed meats.
Bro is RFKmaxxing
1. No there isn't.
2. Low testosterone isn't even harmful for men. (At least not seriously.)
3. RFK is a nutcase. Leave your echo chamber.
Crying is ok. But not because of silly reasons. Also - it's brutal, but men should cry in silence. Noone cares besides your parents and siblings (if you lucky)
It is crying like a woman. To get a reward. Womens social currency is also emotions. Men cannot trade these for any benefit. It is even more accepted to show rage as a man then to show sadness or worse, weakness. I guess it is an evolutionary trait. Can't fight predators when overly emotional. Men trst their resilience by jokes and playfights. To harden your sroicism, cause women select for it. The call for being emotional is just a trst from them. As they tend to do with Men. They want something different from what they claim though. An emotionally stable Men who shows select emotions for the specific Woman only, which also benefits her. Weak towards her only, not others while also being in a narrow frame of excepted expression. Men who slay tend to be more emotionally cold. Talking about Emotions makes you her best friend, not a Lover.
Incel detected, jeez
This was terrible to read, not only the grammar but also the points being made and i disagree with a lot. But i do agree with the first part, these people use emotional responses and cry to cope or gain some kind of benefit from it, either social or emotional.
The brain looks for the best ways to use as less energy as possible, and crying in response to the mildest of inconveniences instead of handling the situation responsibly (like actual adults), is their way to preserve that energy. And it's even more easy to tell since they most of these reactions are being published in social media for attention and validation
@@purple_harlequin i had sex like...today?! I am just realistic about women. Basic knowlegde. Ever read Schopenhauer? Or read up on Evopsych?
@@quincho6949 Cry about it
Don't generalize massive groups of people like that. Based on nothing to boot.
What is this channel
deus ex music spotted
No Testosterone for your face....
Go ER
americans
This video, this creator is the problem
😂😂😂