Thank you so much for being here and taking the time to listen!! ❤❤If you’re going through something similar, I’d love to hear about you story. Drop me a comment!! :-) 🫶
Please anyone watching and thinking of doing this without a massive emergency fund saved up, a great safety net (move back home with parents, rely on spouse's income etc) great networking connections or a guaranteed job (your own self sustaining business or other employment) lined up, THINK TWICE, LONG AND HARD before doing this also. THE JOB MARKET IS BRUTAL RIGHT NOW, people that have been fired or quit jobs are finding it's taking them up to 6 months or even longer to find another job. It can be good to take risks in life but in times like this, take VERY CALCULATED risks.
I am 32, quit my 232k salary job cause: 1. I was only getting 4 hours of sleep from Monday to Friday. 2. I was having dreams about work and nightmare about if something bad happened at work that I wasn't able to resolve it under 10 mins 3. Even thought I was making more, I was not happy. I got a pay check but it didn't really make a difference. Now I am on a path to starting my own business.
@@KelsJune In terms of what I was previously doing? I was a trading production support engineer with a 7 years exp. Now moving to HVAC due to I have a background in blue collar work due to my experience as a child. So I love working with my hands. So much easier to understand the job. Stressful on the physical body. But, I rather that than keeping up to date constantly with learning new skills in tech or being replaced by AI. PS. I love the smell of diesel and wd40. So refreshing.
I am a bit older and in the same situation with long hours. I am so impressed that you guys have the strength and determination to change and improve your life. I average about 4-5 hours of sleep and every other moment is for work or work-related activities. The stress is never ending and I didn't have time for anything besides work and chores. I even streamline groceries and food, so I can speed up cooking. Jobs with higher pay are also in some of the most expensive areas in the country, so the cost of living is also high and imparts its own stress. Just so you know, you are not alone...but glad you guys were able to make the change.
@@_w_w_ My change was that I can easily do physical exhausting work such as mechanic or hvac. But, when it comes to mental exhaustion, it has a severe impact on the person's mind. I was at point of critical memory loss. To the point, I was not remembering details within 1 hour span. When there is a fire in trading. Its like having a gun to your head and say solve this if not you cost the company x million of dollars within a 15 min window. Second my move was to not have someone control my income stream, like I can fix someone car or heating system and I can build a clientele list and my income is based on the series of clients I have attained. If one leaves, well I can have 20 more that depend on my service. Where as doing trading support, unfortunately your client is your employer. Which is highly dangerous cause that impacts not just your livelihood but the family you support and finance that you depend on.
i started tech in 2006 and it took me 18 years to figure out that i’m done with tech. i felt since it’s good money, i “should” love this job. but i felt like you mentioned, a cog in the machine. i never felt more alive then when i became unemployed and enjoyed the simple things in life like being with family and friends, going outdoors, or focusing on doing things that i truly love.
Yep that's tech for you, you never feel like your done for work for the day or for the week because you are always thinking about work and the issues you are trying to solve
It's true most experience this. I did. But now as a manager I can make sure work has a stopping point and my folks get to celebrate accomplishments not just move on to the next ticket.
@@strantheman that's incredible that you do that as a manager! celebrating every win is such an important part - it makes employees feel valued and more connected to/purposeful in the work they're doing
Yea but that’s better than a job where you do the same mundane repetitive thing every day. Yea you know how to do it well and don’t have to think about it but that’s depressing and gets boring. At least tech jobs keep you on your feet. However I agree it is stressful too bc you’re constantly trying to figure things out.
I have been watching a lot of these videos of young people being burned out by university or corporate culture or going through a lay-off. I am 70 yo and have been through it all…. I know your pain. There are no easy answers to any of this. I have been through it all back in the 70’s to the 90’s. Things are not all that different now … the tech is different but the human dynamics are the same…All I can say to you and others struggling is that you will likely all find a way to a good life. Appreciate all that you do have…. It helps.
THIS. I completely resonate with you. On my last job, I was suddenly assigned multiple tasks beyond contract and beyond my role's responsibilities without any title change, a raise in compensation, or even one ashamed act from my boss, and I saw how this exploitation would go on forever. I was SO upset not mainly because of the overloaded work, but because I felt disrespected as a human being that deserves to be treated with genuineness. I always gave this role all my effort, and the boss always praised me, but this is what I got in return? So I quit without hesitation, and I can't be more satisfied. "If you work hard, you'll be rewarded with more work" is the absolute truth.
as someone who was part of the layoffs in tech last year, I second everything that you said in this video... while my leaving wasn't on my own terms, it was an incredible opportunity to take a break and re-evaluate that I want my life to look like. I went to one of Canada's top business schools and because of my experiences in corporate, I'm not sure that the 9-5 life is the right fit for me... and THAT'S OKAY!!!!!!
I quit my cozy tech job 10 months ago to start my own business! It took me about 8 years to build a career in tech and get to the top of my career mountain only to realize the view sucked so I left and started building the dream life I actually want! Good on you for following your own process and sharing with us! Excited to keep following along :)
I feel like I am listening to myself talk lol 😂 this is crazy. I just left my 9-5pm last month, after feeling exactly like you did. Thank you for sharing your story!
@@fromsarahjolieIf you dont have children or a family you can easily do Consulting gigs not for all 12 months of a year. People barely get to live and have regrets later in life doing the 9-5pm with just 2 or 3 weeks or so ONLY a year to themselves.
thank you for sharing your journey! I had a similar experience as a product designer for a big tech company. tech is in absolute shambles; the dream has been shattered for sure.
It's comforting to hear that someone can relate ❣and absolutely! Money is just a tool for us to have experiences we want, but I wouldn't trade all my time for it.
yep. Been in tech for 25 years and still am. I am very good at it, but the toxic people we deal with (in all job types) really makes it rough. It will wear you down. Would love to work at home for myself!
I’m in my 27th year. If you care about what you’re doing you need to be a nerd in the original sense. I need to look at it like I get paid to learn and take pleasure in that but if I want to get paid I can’t control what I need to learn. If I lean into what I need to learn and not what I want to learn it makes things simpler. Someday I’ll quit and be a more self directed learner but probably only if I can find something that other people value a lot. I think it would suck to be learning about something people don’t care about or there are a lot of people better than you already. So for me a job gives me a place to learn that other people value but at the steep cost of not having a life or the life of a nerd, which does make me boring to most people.
I appreciate you so much for sharing your story and what you’ve learned! Everything happens for a reason and honestly I’m so hyped just listening to how everything worked out for you so wonderfully!! I’m so thankful for our friendship and am constantly inspired by you❤
Absolutely!! I truly think that everything is happening at the perfect time for all of us, even if we don’t see it in the moment. So so SO grateful for our friendship!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story, it took me 12 years and 9 months to leave my last job, with a large portion of that time feeling like I wanted to leave. In fact I nearly quit 3 weeks in. It's terrifying, isn't it? It's tough being out of work since August 2023, but the most empowering thing about this whole situation is, I'm actually okay, the world didn't come crashing down on me, life actually does go on. Bad managers can significantly affect our physical and mental health, we need to talk about this more. It's refreshing to hear that you have found a wonderful new place of work and are enjoying life 😊 I used to be an extremely creative person, I gave up on life, in fact it has been almost a decade since I've been able to write any music. Maybe with these changes I've made I can find myself again.
I love this - thank YOU for sharing. I definitely felt this too - life does indeed go on! It's scary, it's hard, it might suck for a while but we can make it through. I hope you take this time to explore the things that make you happy - if that's writing music or any other hobbies! Best of luck to you :)
this video is amazing. literally i cannot thank you enough. i'm in the process of quitting my toxic job and i seriously needed to hear all of this. thank you SO MUCH!!
I soooo commend your courage. Prioritzing yourself takes practice - you did it! Leaving your job sends multiple messages and while corporate America may not change-YOU did, please never lose sight of this. YOUR journey is far more pertinent than a role. I too recently left 6-figures as they promised autonomy and delivered chaos. I look forward to watching your journey.
this video made me so happy!! but im 36 and left my high paying job in finance, literally had almost an identical experience and tried to ride it out for too long. I was miserable for years and just quit with probably much less of a back up plan but it was too depressing to continue. luckily I'm a saver so I do not have to worry about money for a while but the last few months have been interesting. I am trying to let myself mentally recover but I've found people to be very judgmental. I'm also willing to work a low wage job if it comes down to it... when I mention this to family / friends they are not supportive. I kinda feel like everyone thinks I lost my mind or secretly got fired LOL the judgement has been hard to deal with. thank you for your story !!
Thank YOU for being here!! I'm happy you made the decision to leave for your own wellbeing :) I'm sorry you've been dealing with unsupportive folks. I know how hurtful that can be, especially going through this type of experience. After a while, I gave up on explaining myself... bc I don't owe anyone an explanation! You do what's best for you. Wishing you the best on this journey!!!
Very interesting story. You are so right, you really have to take care about your mental health. Wise decision. New subscriber here 😊 Greetings from Switzerland, Susanne
Really related to your comments on corporate. Inspiring that you could get back into it after 6 months, that gives me hope as someone working on themselves for 4+ months.
I’m 39 and quit my sales job to become a bellman. Thank God I’ve aggressively saved enough from the 5 years I worked there allowing myself to retire early in the next 1-2 years span.
Savings are so important to set ourselves up for future success / happiness (something I learned a little too late...) Happy early retirement to you! :)
I quit a permanent role for a job on 10k less. It was liberating. Led to better opportunities in the long run but came with its struggles. My partner supported my decision 100%.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, I recently got unemployed and I feel like I could relate to so many things you were talking about, glad to hear that you’re enjoying your role now and wishing you all the best in everything ! ❤
I understand this. I could never do a 9-5 job. I was prior military right out of high school and realized I love traveling so I became a flight attendant. Note both jobs pay is not great but overall the experience out weighed the pay. ❤
This is exactly where I’m at, down to the blog I want to invest time into! So so helpful to hear from someone on the other side and motivating to know it’ll all be ok 💗
I'm so glad your video came into my feed. I am currently in a situation where I have been at a job for 6 months while being underpaid because it was the first offer I got after graduating. The job is great, but the structure surrounding what I do is so poor that it causes more stress than it is worth. To make matters worse, I feel afraid to bring it up to my manager for fear of making my work life more stressful or suddenly getting fired. I'm glad you addressed these things as well as being real about the fear of the unknown; I feel empowered knowing that someone else has gone through something similar and ended up okay. I look forward to watching more of your videos, you seem like a very down to earth, honest person that I could learn a lot from. :)
First job out of school is always difficult bc you're still learning how to navigate work! It's not easy integrating into a new experience and having a poor structure makes it 100x harder. I know how it can feel scary to bring it up to your manager - that's definitely something I struggled with early in career. I always tell myself that I have the power to change my circumstances at any time: if something's not working, it might suck for a while to get myself out of it, but I'll eventually get out! You got this - best of luck with everything :)
This video resonates with my entire being. Currently working a soulless corporate job straight out of undergrad with no idea how to move forward or find a direction. Hearing you share your experiences felt like a warm, validating hug ❤ Would you ever be open to having a virtual coffee chat? I’d love to learn more about your approach to navigating life in your 20s.
I love this. Sometimes I think, if I put this crazy energy I am putting into maintaining this societal standard of the 6 figure salary with a stable career, if it would have fruited into a similar income but with more freedom and flexibility to do what I wanted in my life Currently flipping a coin between pursuing medicine because it’s a sure path, or going off the beaten path to pursue a business or other prospects that would let me travel and escape America’s grind! The American dream no longer exists We narrowly define success as a society. I want to pave my own path on what my version of success is even if it’s happily living with half my previous income but seeing the world and having something to remember when I’m 80. I won’t remember grinding in my 20s that fondly when I’m that old.
Absolutely - this resonates with me so much. It's so difficult to know how to balance the future (work hard now, enjoy later) and the present (living in the moment). You're right, the cookie-cutter American dream is no longer as obtainable for us as previous generations (cost of living rising disproportionate to rising wages). I wish you ALL the best in your journey, I know things will pan out for you the way they're meant to!! :)
Working in tech is a very love hate relationship. One week things could be amazing. You’re on top of your shit and feel great about it. Only for monday to happen and a ton of new work is coming for the next few months. It truly is a roller coaster of stress. Even if it doesn’t matter all that much in the end you pretty much feel a constant state of stress in your stomach that never quite goes away except for on those rare occasions between one shitshow to the next. And that stress only gets worse as you progress into your career as you become expected to take on more responsibilities.
my Definition of True Success: (1).A lot of Free Time / "Me Time" & be able to do only the things you truly like - (Avoid Toxic Productivity, Embrace Simple & Slow Living instead.. Life is meant to be Slow)... (2).Healthy (3).Financial Freedom / Financial Security (4).Have only Few Wants & Living with gratitude.. #BeYourOwnBoss
The message is cool. Like, going into the unknown to find something that fits what you're looking for. My only issue with a lot of these videos (and shes actually really good at giving proper acknowledgement) is the fact that there's a DEFINITE safety net to do this. Her boyfriend was still working a 6-figure tech job and even though she was responsible in saving, she definitely couldn't have done this otherwise. I also see A ton of these influencers that do this also move back in with their parents. I'm okay with all of that but most of these situations are ideal. She's absolutely right: be picky where you work but also give yourself the expertise to be picky (as she did).
Thank you so much for this comment, I feel heard haha. The message I wanted to convey is that the unknown and change is scary for all of us and to encourage others to make a pivot (big or small!) if they’re not satisfied with their current situation. And yes, I agree - I owe a lot of this experience to my incredibly supportive partner, for which I’m so grateful. I know that this isn’t a position that many might start out in, as it decreases the perceived risk for making such a decision. Thank you again for the comment!! I really do appreciate it!
Is it true that you can leave certain jobs off your resume? Like for example let's say you work as a software developer and all of a sudden you wanna quit because your burned out and you decide to work at McDonald's or Walmart cashier, or Amazon warehouse. When you go back to apply for another software developer role, does adding McDonald's, Walmart, and Amazon affect your hiring probabilities? Will hiring managers think you're stupid for downgrading to a lower end job? The reason why I ask is because I work at Sherwin Williams and I want to quit because they don't offer a legit 1 hour lunch break. Well we are allowed to eat but if there's a long line of customers, then you're forced to stop eating and help them out. Summer time is our busy period because this is when everyone wants to buy paint for their house. There where times where I had to stop eating, help a customer with a BIG paint order that took me 2 hours to make, only to comeback and see flies laying eggs on my Chick Fil A sandwich 🙃. I was thinking about working at Walmart (because I know that they offer a legit 1 hour lunch break) but I'm scared of downgrading. Any advice?
Great question!! My personal opinion is that yes, you can leave jobs off your resume! When I started applying for jobs, I obviously had a gap in my experience (~4+ months). I do think that employers may ask you why there's a gap while you're interviewing, so prepare a solid explanation why. I'm sorry that your current job isn't giving you a proper lunch break :( Down time is so important!! You could definitely try to bring it up to your manager before making the decision to switch to a new role. Good luck!
I’m 25 and I am so scared. I finish university and ended up working in something completely different (as an English teacher in Asia) I make good money, but I feel so scared because it’s not a long term career, and yet when I think of working on a company I feel like I will loose a lot of the financial stability that my current job gives me. I Don’t know what I like and I feel like I wasting time and so much pressure to find something and do something that people respect
There is absolutely NO rush!! Enjoy what you're doing now - being an English teacher in Asia is a phenomenal experience that not many people have! I know society puts a lot of pressure on us to know exactly where we want to go in the future. While it's great to have a plan, it's also okay to spend time exploring :) Focus on things that bring you joy and excitement, that's what will matter in the long-run! Plus, your experience now has SO many transferable skills that will help open up other career paths you might want to go down.
No offense, but you aren’t missing much in “financial stability” as an English teacher in Asia. You can find a job that pays better pretty easily. So just do whatever you want now and take the risk.
Of course!! Here are some ideas of questions I would ask or try to get a feel for: Specially for managers: How do you develop / grow directs? How do you help your directs navigate difficult situations? How do you support career development and personal growth? What does career progression look like here? What you consider success on your team/in this role? For everyone: What is the most difficult part or biggest painpoint of the job / onboarding? What do you find most valuable in a teammate? What do you appreciate about the culture here and where are there opportunities? What do you enjoy about your work?
Don’t quit, find a new job first and then go quit after you found one, that’s what I did many times before until I found the job and employer I like where I stayed until retirement
I'm in the beauty industry and i also want to quit. My menral health has hit an all time low , I'm not treated like a person , i cry atleast once or twice a month. They give me more work, for less pay and I've had to fight my boss to give me a salary increase for the past 2 years. I have the skill so i want to take the leap of faith & start working for myself or find a part time job to help with some bills.
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through that :( I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself and getting those raises - that's huge! Could you try working for yourself on the side for a little bit before you leave? I know it'll be extra hours, but starting my blog before I left was insanely helpful because it showed me what I could expect. Wishing you the best in everything ❤
I worked at Meta and felt the same burnout - my entire life quickly became all about work, and I had 0 WLB. The pay was good, but nowhere near good enough for how much work it was edit: and how much STRESS it was. The stress was unreal
Great video😊Try working non stop for the last nearly 13 years since you were 20 after college then you will feel the corporate burnout lol😂😅I am lucky that I love my role that I’ve been in for the last 4 years [Executive & personal assistant to the CEO of a tech startup] but it is a LOT of work and I work long hours. I am lucky that i really enjoy it & am paid well and get to work from home full time after years of office based jobs.
Definitely seeing that trend too, I think more people are feeling burnt out from the 9-5 and are trading the 6 figures for something more meaningful :)
Having a degree (thats a backup plan) - Having a degree that can get you a 6 figure job (thats a backup plan) - She has a guy with a 6 figure job (thats a back up plan) Shes young, Pretty and educated (thats a back up plan). The reason I mention looks is the the incredible statistics that prove being pretty gives you an easier life. This is not to say she necessarily had an easy life but it makes it EASIER especially in social media, where lets face it we all like to look at pretty faces , thats why we love celebrities for the most part. I would assume she knows how invest and save money as she was able to travel etc. (thats a back up plan) .I give her 100% credit for working hard, getting education, and being disciplined enough to save or invest money. I am going through a turning point in my life and dont have any of these back up plans, I accept responsibility for this but in regards to these type of videos they just make me feel worse. I suppose for the niche amount of people that make great money and have a job with air conditioning and are beautiful this is probably great motivation. For me it just makes me feel worse. Theres people out there that are "cog in a wheel" that are breaking their back ,making 40k a year. Please stop making these videos.
Hi there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate your perspective. While this is my story, I’m sorry that made you feel worse about your own situation. It’s never my intention to make anyone feel lesser than! You’re absolutely right - I come from a place of privilege (access to education and an incredible support system). I know not everyone has the same starting point or safety nets in place. I shared this to express my own struggles after reaching the “dream life” - 6 fig, cushy tech job - in hopes that it would resonate with others that found themselves in a similar position. I wanted to show others that $$/status didn’t bring me the happiness I thought it would. I now understand why this can also bring feelings of disparity and frustration - thank you for your honesty. I wish you the absolute best as you navigate this turning point in your life! I truly believe we all have the strength and potential to find what we want. I’m cheering for you stranger!! :)
@@fromsarahjolie Thank you for your kind reply as I know I come off bitter and jealous. Maybe I just need to seek out more "salt of the earth" tales of success. Best of luck, for real.
Are you young to be burnout? I worked for 32+ years as a Software Engineer. I only took 2 weeks off every years. I am single, live frugally and save every penny to invest. I retired at the age of 56 as a millionaire and now enjoy my life.
I think burnt out can occur at any age :) truthfully it was less about being burnt out and more about wanting something more out of life. It’s cool to see that the 9-5 path did work out for you! Enjoy retirement!! 🎉🎉🎉
Agreed. No one should burn themselves to ground from work, waiting for retirement to actually ‘live’ life. Definitely a lesson to learn younger in life. Work to live, not live to work. Only taking 2 weeks off every few years doesn’t seem enticing at all.
This generation is utterly spoiled. Try working in a call centre for minimum wage, wanting to kill yourself every day but keeping at it because you have to. These non-stop "I am 19 and just quit my $250,000 a year job in tech after two months because I didn't like it!" videos are, quite frankly, fucking retarded at this point.
Please kids, all of you, get back to work, hit that hamster wheel and don't stop running. I retire in a few years and you guys are funding my social security check. Can't have you getting funny ideas about actually having choices.
If I don't work for 6 months, my kid would starve to death and everybody will blame this on me. *exaggeration*. But, this is the bubble I live in and why I put my head down, don't complain and work better/harder.
The minimum wage jobs aren't hiring people my age in my city. I have gone to several job interviews and now I think the universe might be sending a sign that I should work for myself. Maybe employers prefer to hire teenagers because I don't want to jump to thinking it's a diversity issue... Thanks 4 sharing
So just so you understand what happened there when your corporation made you do more work than your level, and didn’t reward you for it: With layoffs happening everywhere, corporations know that employees don’t want to get laid off since it’s going to be really difficult to get back into the industry with all of the competition now. They’re using these market forces to squeeze existing employees and get maximum value out of them. So they’re lowering titles, firing more easily, and giving smaller bonuses across the board. If you get fed up and quit, they just replace you with the most qualified applicant currently begging for your job, and have them do your job for an even lower salary. Believe it or not, it isn’t personal. It’s just capitalism. Not saying it’s ethical either. It’s just how shareholders would want the leaders of your firm to act in order to optimize profits and honor their fiduciary duties.
I am currently one of these employees who is being squeezed by a greedy employer. I think about quitting my job the same way as you did, but I suppose I’m less courageous. So I continue to suffer and get taken advantage of in order to maintain my financial security and peace of mind.
100%! Absolutely. I fully agree with everything you've said here. It's highly economical for corporations - why pay someone more if they're willing to do the extra work for free? Especially when it's an employers' market right now. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling the same way. Even though it's not "personal," it sure doesn't feel good. I commend you for sticking through it! Financial security is incredibly important. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!
Don’t follow advice from random people on instagram and RUclips. It’ll leave you broke and more anxious. Nothing wrong with the 9-5 life. Just learn to be more content and grateful for what you have instead of having FOMO.
Oh I agree. Like I said in this video, there are many perks of being at a 9-5!! Quitting your job isn't for everyone. I ultimately went back to work too. If you can find what you need in a 9-5 then that is incredible :)
Most people that make these type of videos have a good amount of savings and a “back up plan” behind the scenes which is usually another 9-5 job within 3-6 months. Then make a new video “why I went back to a 9-5” 😬
I empathized with you until you said your BF helped you financially. Nah. You and I are not the same. I had to gutter my way without any help. Still unemployed since last October. Like the attitude but your safety net is a totally different situation than what a regular laid off person goes through.
I'm sorry to hear it's been difficult and I truly wish you the best in finding your next step. Unemployment isn't easy and it's definitely not easy to go through that alone. I recognize how privileged I am to have a safety net (both financially and emotionally) and my experience was pretty different compared to being laid off (ie. I chose to leave and didn't have severance/unemployment benefits) so I know I can't completely empathize :(
#Same !!! Thank you for this perfect summary of what I've experienced & how I feel & why I do what I do. I will forward it whenever someone questions my choices again so I don't have to explain all of this myself. 🤣 I'll go subscribe to all of your Social Media now. Get ready for being online-stalked by me (in a non-creepy way, I promise!). Thanks again and have a great day! ❤
Very contradicting video, first you mention recognition and pay as the main reason for why you left. Then when your manager asked you to build a portfolio within the next 6 months you start talking about mental health. Obviously, having a rich boyfriend pay for your financial expenses for 6 months while you try to get big on RUclips certainly doesn’t make your experience relatable.
There seems like there's a bit of confusion here! Feeling overworked and undervalued (inadequate recognition and pay) was the direct cause of my poor mental health. Sorry if that wasn't well articulated. Regarding my partner, I recognize that I am privileged to have such a strong support system! Going from being a dink to a sink, we lived frugally during this time (cut travel, eating out, seeing friends, and any other superfluous expenses). While he helped cover our utilities, I paid for the bulk of my living expenses (housing and food). Since this was a decision I made *for me* and *my* mental health, I wanted to make sure that taking this risk didn't jeopardize his financial well-being. I hope that clarifies things! :)
Yeah, 996 is real in US if you care to do good work. You may not be clocked in but you are recovering, learning, thinking about, or getting ready for work. If you happen to find a healthy company with a good boss it may be different but probably true in Asia too.
LOL I'm sorry :'( still working on my speaking/storytelling skills. Tried to make this video as short as possible -- raw footage was 2+ hours. But good feedback!
These influencers are too much for me! It’s easy to quit a six figure job as you can save up A LOT of money whilst you’re employed and the chances of you getting a highly paid job later on is a lot easier as you probably already have all these credentials, experience and connections! Hard to feel any sympathy for them!
Yesterday my ex CEO / boss posted two open positions to replace me... that's how this would look for them if you decide to leave. Get another job, start seeking @@robnelson6545
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Thank you so much for being here and taking the time to listen!! ❤❤If you’re going through something similar, I’d love to hear about you story. Drop me a comment!! :-) 🫶
You make millions become a hooters girlfriend
I quit my job 5 days ago with no backup plan
Please anyone watching and thinking of doing this without a massive emergency fund saved up, a great safety net (move back home with parents, rely on spouse's income etc) great networking connections or a guaranteed job (your own self sustaining business or other employment) lined up, THINK TWICE, LONG AND HARD before doing this also. THE JOB MARKET IS BRUTAL RIGHT NOW, people that have been fired or quit jobs are finding it's taking them up to 6 months or even longer to find another job. It can be good to take risks in life but in times like this, take VERY CALCULATED risks.
I couldn't agree more. You have to be financially independent to jump that high. That's craziness do this without being stable.
I am 32, quit my 232k salary job cause:
1. I was only getting 4 hours of sleep from Monday to Friday.
2. I was having dreams about work and nightmare about if something bad happened at work that I wasn't able to resolve it under 10 mins
3. Even thought I was making more, I was not happy. I got a pay check but it didn't really make a difference.
Now I am on a path to starting my own business.
Wow, thank you for sharing! No amount of money is worth our health and happiness. Best of luck on your new journey, excited for what’s to come!! 🎉🎉
You don’t mind sharing what role? Your problem seems like a dream for many
@@KelsJune In terms of what I was previously doing? I was a trading production support engineer with a 7 years exp.
Now moving to HVAC due to I have a background in blue collar work due to my experience as a child. So I love working with my hands. So much easier to understand the job. Stressful on the physical body. But, I rather that than keeping up to date constantly with learning new skills in tech or being replaced by AI.
PS. I love the smell of diesel and wd40. So refreshing.
I am a bit older and in the same situation with long hours. I am so impressed that you guys have the strength and determination to change and improve your life. I average about 4-5 hours of sleep and every other moment is for work or work-related activities. The stress is never ending and I didn't have time for anything besides work and chores. I even streamline groceries and food, so I can speed up cooking. Jobs with higher pay are also in some of the most expensive areas in the country, so the cost of living is also high and imparts its own stress. Just so you know, you are not alone...but glad you guys were able to make the change.
@@_w_w_ My change was that I can easily do physical exhausting work such as mechanic or hvac. But, when it comes to mental exhaustion, it has a severe impact on the person's mind. I was at point of critical memory loss. To the point, I was not remembering details within 1 hour span. When there is a fire in trading. Its like having a gun to your head and say solve this if not you cost the company x million of dollars within a 15 min window.
Second my move was to not have someone control my income stream, like I can fix someone car or heating system and I can build a clientele list and my income is based on the series of clients I have attained. If one leaves, well I can have 20 more that depend on my service. Where as doing trading support, unfortunately your client is your employer. Which is highly dangerous cause that impacts not just your livelihood but the family you support and finance that you depend on.
i started tech in 2006 and it took me 18 years to figure out that i’m done with tech. i felt since it’s good money, i “should” love this job. but i felt like you mentioned, a cog in the machine. i never felt more alive then when i became unemployed and enjoyed the simple things in life like being with family and friends, going outdoors, or focusing on doing things that i truly love.
this resonates with me so much!!
Yep that's tech for you, you never feel like your done for work for the day or for the week because you are always thinking about work and the issues you are trying to solve
yup, knew it was bad when it started infiltrating my dreams lol 🙃
Thats most jobs with responsibility. lever pullers get paid less for a reason.
It's true most experience this. I did. But now as a manager I can make sure work has a stopping point and my folks get to celebrate accomplishments not just move on to the next ticket.
@@strantheman that's incredible that you do that as a manager! celebrating every win is such an important part - it makes employees feel valued and more connected to/purposeful in the work they're doing
Yea but that’s better than a job where you do the same mundane repetitive thing every day. Yea you know how to do it well and don’t have to think about it but that’s depressing and gets boring. At least tech jobs keep you on your feet. However I agree it is stressful too bc you’re constantly trying to figure things out.
I have been watching a lot of these videos of young people being burned out by university or corporate culture or going through a lay-off. I am 70 yo and have been through it all…. I know your pain. There are no easy answers to any of this. I have been through it all back in the 70’s to the 90’s. Things are not all that different now … the tech is different but the human dynamics are the same…All I can say to you and others struggling is that you will likely all find a way to a good life. Appreciate all that you do have…. It helps.
Thank you for the encouragement :) Yes, gratitude is key! It's all about our mindsets and how we choose to approach our lives
THIS. I completely resonate with you. On my last job, I was suddenly assigned multiple tasks beyond contract and beyond my role's responsibilities without any title change, a raise in compensation, or even one ashamed act from my boss, and I saw how this exploitation would go on forever. I was SO upset not mainly because of the overloaded work, but because I felt disrespected as a human being that deserves to be treated with genuineness. I always gave this role all my effort, and the boss always praised me, but this is what I got in return? So I quit without hesitation, and I can't be more satisfied. "If you work hard, you'll be rewarded with more work" is the absolute truth.
as someone who was part of the layoffs in tech last year, I second everything that you said in this video... while my leaving wasn't on my own terms, it was an incredible opportunity to take a break and re-evaluate that I want my life to look like. I went to one of Canada's top business schools and because of my experiences in corporate, I'm not sure that the 9-5 life is the right fit for me... and THAT'S OKAY!!!!!!
everything happens for a reason!! I'm so happy you had the space and time to reflect. 9-5s aren't for everyone for sure ❤️❤️
I quit my cozy tech job 10 months ago to start my own business! It took me about 8 years to build a career in tech and get to the top of my career mountain only to realize the view sucked so I left and started building the dream life I actually want!
Good on you for following your own process and sharing with us! Excited to keep following along :)
CONGRATS you!! such a big decision! wishing you the absolute best with everything :)
I feel like I am listening to myself talk lol 😂 this is crazy. I just left my 9-5pm last month, after feeling exactly like you did. Thank you for sharing your story!
I’m so glad someone relates!! You go! Best of luck on your journey ❤️🌸
@@fromsarahjolieIf you dont have children or a family you can easily do Consulting gigs not for all 12 months of a year. People barely get to live and have regrets later in life doing the 9-5pm with just 2 or 3 weeks or so ONLY a year to themselves.
thank you for sharing your journey! I had a similar experience as a product designer for a big tech company. tech is in absolute shambles; the dream has been shattered for sure.
tech has definitely been knocked off its pedestal for me over the past year… layoffs have destroyed employee sentiment / trust & culture for sure :/
Thanks for sharing your story, I totally agree on so many levels. It’s not about the pay check for me but having a better work life balance.
It's comforting to hear that someone can relate ❣and absolutely! Money is just a tool for us to have experiences we want, but I wouldn't trade all my time for it.
She quit a corporate job to go to another corporate job and started being an influencer in between.
Yes. You use your 9-5 until your side job pays more.
Hahaha thanks..not gonna waste my time here
"without a backup plan"... (but with a 6 figures salary)
yep. Been in tech for 25 years and still am. I am very good at it, but the toxic people we deal with (in all job types) really makes it rough. It will wear you down. Would love to work at home for myself!
Absolutely - navigating people politics is incredibly frustrating & exhausting
I’m in my 27th year. If you care about what you’re doing you need to be a nerd in the original sense. I need to look at it like I get paid to learn and take pleasure in that but if I want to get paid I can’t control what I need to learn. If I lean into what I need to learn and not what I want to learn it makes things simpler. Someday I’ll quit and be a more self directed learner but probably only if I can find something that other people value a lot. I think it would suck to be learning about something people don’t care about or there are a lot of people better than you already. So for me a job gives me a place to learn that other people value but at the steep cost of not having a life or the life of a nerd, which does make me boring to most people.
absolutely love your transparency! I recently just quit my 9-5 and am excited for the journey ahead!
You got this!! Best of luck!
@@fromsarahjolie thank you 🤍
I appreciate you so much for sharing your story and what you’ve learned! Everything happens for a reason and honestly I’m so hyped just listening to how everything worked out for you so wonderfully!! I’m so thankful for our friendship and am constantly inspired by you❤
Absolutely!! I truly think that everything is happening at the perfect time for all of us, even if we don’t see it in the moment. So so SO grateful for our friendship!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story, it took me 12 years and 9 months to leave my last job, with a large portion of that time feeling like I wanted to leave. In fact I nearly quit 3 weeks in. It's terrifying, isn't it?
It's tough being out of work since August 2023, but the most empowering thing about this whole situation is, I'm actually okay, the world didn't come crashing down on me, life actually does go on. Bad managers can significantly affect our physical and mental health, we need to talk about this more. It's refreshing to hear that you have found a wonderful new place of work and are enjoying life 😊
I used to be an extremely creative person, I gave up on life, in fact it has been almost a decade since I've been able to write any music. Maybe with these changes I've made I can find myself again.
I love this - thank YOU for sharing. I definitely felt this too - life does indeed go on! It's scary, it's hard, it might suck for a while but we can make it through. I hope you take this time to explore the things that make you happy - if that's writing music or any other hobbies! Best of luck to you :)
this video is amazing. literally i cannot thank you enough. i'm in the process of quitting my toxic job and i seriously needed to hear all of this. thank you SO MUCH!!
Ahh I'm so glad you found this helpful!! Wishing you the best of luck with everything!! :)
I soooo commend your courage. Prioritzing yourself takes practice - you did it! Leaving your job sends multiple messages and while corporate America may not change-YOU did, please never lose sight of this. YOUR journey is far more pertinent than a role. I too recently left 6-figures as they promised autonomy and delivered chaos. I look forward to watching your journey.
Thank you for the kind words!!
Experiencing, connecting, and learning! I love all of these things too and relate to this video SO much.
this video made me so happy!! but im 36 and left my high paying job in finance, literally had almost an identical experience and tried to ride it out for too long. I was miserable for years and just quit with probably much less of a back up plan but it was too depressing to continue. luckily I'm a saver so I do not have to worry about money for a while but the last few months have been interesting. I am trying to let myself mentally recover but I've found people to be very judgmental. I'm also willing to work a low wage job if it comes down to it... when I mention this to family / friends they are not supportive. I kinda feel like everyone thinks I lost my mind or secretly got fired LOL the judgement has been hard to deal with. thank you for your story !!
Thank YOU for being here!! I'm happy you made the decision to leave for your own wellbeing :) I'm sorry you've been dealing with unsupportive folks. I know how hurtful that can be, especially going through this type of experience. After a while, I gave up on explaining myself... bc I don't owe anyone an explanation! You do what's best for you. Wishing you the best on this journey!!!
Very interesting story. You are so right, you really have to take care about your mental health. Wise decision. New subscriber here 😊 Greetings from Switzerland, Susanne
Absolutely - our health is most important (mental and physical)! Wow, Switzerland!! :)
Really related to your comments on corporate. Inspiring that you could get back into it after 6 months, that gives me hope as someone working on themselves for 4+ months.
You absolutely got this!! Taking time to work on ourselves is invaluable :)
I’m 39 and quit my sales job to become a bellman. Thank God I’ve aggressively saved enough from the 5 years I worked there allowing myself to retire early in the next 1-2 years span.
Savings are so important to set ourselves up for future success / happiness (something I learned a little too late...) Happy early retirement to you! :)
I quit a permanent role for a job on 10k less. It was liberating. Led to better opportunities in the long run but came with its struggles. My partner supported my decision 100%.
These experiences are so liberating! I'm so happy to hear it worked out and that your partner was supportive 🥰
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, I recently got unemployed and I feel like I could relate to so many things you were talking about, glad to hear that you’re enjoying your role now and wishing you all the best in everything ! ❤
So glad this video resonated. Wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out :)
I understand this. I could never do a 9-5 job. I was prior military right out of high school and realized I love traveling so I became a flight attendant. Note both jobs pay is not great but overall the experience out weighed the pay. ❤
That is incredible!! I love how you were able to make work fit into what you wanted out of life! :)
It’s wild how so many of us feel this
This is exactly where I’m at, down to the blog I want to invest time into! So so helpful to hear from someone on the other side and motivating to know it’ll all be ok 💗
Hi fellow blogger!! :) Wishing you the best with everything!
I'm so glad your video came into my feed. I am currently in a situation where I have been at a job for 6 months while being underpaid because it was the first offer I got after graduating. The job is great, but the structure surrounding what I do is so poor that it causes more stress than it is worth. To make matters worse, I feel afraid to bring it up to my manager for fear of making my work life more stressful or suddenly getting fired. I'm glad you addressed these things as well as being real about the fear of the unknown; I feel empowered knowing that someone else has gone through something similar and ended up okay. I look forward to watching more of your videos, you seem like a very down to earth, honest person that I could learn a lot from. :)
First job out of school is always difficult bc you're still learning how to navigate work! It's not easy integrating into a new experience and having a poor structure makes it 100x harder. I know how it can feel scary to bring it up to your manager - that's definitely something I struggled with early in career. I always tell myself that I have the power to change my circumstances at any time: if something's not working, it might suck for a while to get myself out of it, but I'll eventually get out! You got this - best of luck with everything :)
Thank you so much for the encouragement. :) @@fromsarahjolie
I love the underlying message and the energy of the video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🤗
Thank you for watching :)
This video resonates with my entire being. Currently working a soulless corporate job straight out of undergrad with no idea how to move forward or find a direction. Hearing you share your experiences felt like a warm, validating hug ❤ Would you ever be open to having a virtual coffee chat? I’d love to learn more about your approach to navigating life in your 20s.
💗I'm so glad it resonated! I know how painful that experience can be. Send me a DM on insta, I'd love to chat!!
I love this! I can totally relate despite having a different role
It's comforting knowing that many of us are going through similar experiences / feelings! 💗
I love this. Sometimes I think, if I put this crazy energy I am putting into maintaining this societal standard of the 6 figure salary with a stable career, if it would have fruited into a similar income but with more freedom and flexibility to do what I wanted in my life
Currently flipping a coin between pursuing medicine because it’s a sure path, or going off the beaten path to pursue a business or other prospects that would let me travel and escape America’s grind! The American dream no longer exists
We narrowly define success as a society. I want to pave my own path on what my version of success is even if it’s happily living with half my previous income but seeing the world and having something to remember when I’m 80. I won’t remember grinding in my 20s that fondly when I’m that old.
Absolutely - this resonates with me so much. It's so difficult to know how to balance the future (work hard now, enjoy later) and the present (living in the moment). You're right, the cookie-cutter American dream is no longer as obtainable for us as previous generations (cost of living rising disproportionate to rising wages). I wish you ALL the best in your journey, I know things will pan out for you the way they're meant to!! :)
Working in tech is a very love hate relationship. One week things could be amazing. You’re on top of your shit and feel great about it. Only for monday to happen and a ton of new work is coming for the next few months. It truly is a roller coaster of stress. Even if it doesn’t matter all that much in the end you pretty much feel a constant state of stress in your stomach that never quite goes away except for on those rare occasions between one shitshow to the next. And that stress only gets worse as you progress into your career as you become expected to take on more responsibilities.
Just discovered your channel and absolutely loved the content you're putting, I'm sticking around ♥
❤️💗 this comment made my day!!
my Definition of True Success: (1).A lot of Free Time / "Me Time" & be able to do only the things you truly like - (Avoid Toxic Productivity, Embrace Simple & Slow Living instead.. Life is meant to be Slow)... (2).Healthy (3).Financial Freedom / Financial Security (4).Have only Few Wants & Living with gratitude.. #BeYourOwnBoss
I love this so much. Thank you for sharing :)
The message is cool. Like, going into the unknown to find something that fits what you're looking for.
My only issue with a lot of these videos (and shes actually really good at giving proper acknowledgement) is the fact that there's a DEFINITE safety net to do this.
Her boyfriend was still working a 6-figure tech job and even though she was responsible in saving, she definitely couldn't have done this otherwise.
I also see A ton of these influencers that do this also move back in with their parents. I'm okay with all of that but most of these situations are ideal.
She's absolutely right: be picky where you work but also give yourself the expertise to be picky (as she did).
Thank you so much for this comment, I feel heard haha. The message I wanted to convey is that the unknown and change is scary for all of us and to encourage others to make a pivot (big or small!) if they’re not satisfied with their current situation.
And yes, I agree - I owe a lot of this experience to my incredibly supportive partner, for which I’m so grateful. I know that this isn’t a position that many might start out in, as it decreases the perceived risk for making such a decision.
Thank you again for the comment!! I really do appreciate it!
OMG I was Rebekah's vlogs all the time, so cool to know about you two :)
She’s the absolute best!! 🌸
Certainly, it is a much better to be an owner of business. So, please do not give up and a success is waiting for you.
Thank you for the kind words!! :)
Such a great video! Thank you 😊
Thank YOU for watching :)
Is it true that you can leave certain jobs off your resume? Like for example let's say you work as a software developer and all of a sudden you wanna quit because your burned out and you decide to work at McDonald's or Walmart cashier, or Amazon warehouse. When you go back to apply for another software developer role, does adding McDonald's, Walmart, and Amazon affect your hiring probabilities? Will hiring managers think you're stupid for downgrading to a lower end job?
The reason why I ask is because I work at Sherwin Williams and I want to quit because they don't offer a legit 1 hour lunch break. Well we are allowed to eat but if there's a long line of customers, then you're forced to stop eating and help them out. Summer time is our busy period because this is when everyone wants to buy paint for their house. There where times where I had to stop eating, help a customer with a BIG paint order that took me 2 hours to make, only to comeback and see flies laying eggs on my Chick Fil A sandwich 🙃. I was thinking about working at Walmart (because I know that they offer a legit 1 hour lunch break) but I'm scared of downgrading. Any advice?
Great question!! My personal opinion is that yes, you can leave jobs off your resume! When I started applying for jobs, I obviously had a gap in my experience (~4+ months). I do think that employers may ask you why there's a gap while you're interviewing, so prepare a solid explanation why. I'm sorry that your current job isn't giving you a proper lunch break :( Down time is so important!! You could definitely try to bring it up to your manager before making the decision to switch to a new role. Good luck!
Good video. Just use what you learned. Take it as a blessing of what happened. Be thankful it happened so it won’t happen again.
Great video!
I’m 25 and I am so scared. I finish university and ended up working in something completely different (as an English teacher in Asia) I make good money, but I feel so scared because it’s not a long term career, and yet when I think of working on a company I feel like I will loose a lot of the financial stability that my current job gives me. I Don’t know what I like and I feel like I wasting time and so much pressure to find something and do something that people respect
There is absolutely NO rush!! Enjoy what you're doing now - being an English teacher in Asia is a phenomenal experience that not many people have! I know society puts a lot of pressure on us to know exactly where we want to go in the future. While it's great to have a plan, it's also okay to spend time exploring :) Focus on things that bring you joy and excitement, that's what will matter in the long-run! Plus, your experience now has SO many transferable skills that will help open up other career paths you might want to go down.
No offense, but you aren’t missing much in “financial stability” as an English teacher in Asia.
You can find a job that pays better pretty easily. So just do whatever you want now and take the risk.
such a nice video!
I quit my job 2 months ago and my stress level decreased so much
I'm so happy to hear that!
I dread becoming a 9-5 zombie but so far it's loooking like my only option....
NOO pls that’s never your only option!! So many ways to make $$$ outside of that :) even volunteering for stay/food could be an option
Thank you for sharing valuable lessons! Do you think you can share the questions you asked the potential employers?
Of course!! Here are some ideas of questions I would ask or try to get a feel for:
Specially for managers: How do you develop / grow directs? How do you help your directs navigate difficult situations? How do you support career development and personal growth? What does career progression look like here? What you consider success on your team/in this role?
For everyone: What is the most difficult part or biggest painpoint of the job / onboarding? What do you find most valuable in a teammate? What do you appreciate about the culture here and where are there opportunities? What do you enjoy about your work?
@@fromsarahjolie That's really helpful. Thank you!
I’m considering quitting with over a year of expenses saved and I still can’t bring myself to do it yet…
And that's okay!! Everyone's timeframe and comfortability is different. I know you'll make the right decision for you!!
Don’t quit, find a new job first and then go quit after you found one, that’s what I did many times before until I found the job and employer I like where I stayed until retirement
I'm in the beauty industry and i also want to quit. My menral health has hit an all time low , I'm not treated like a person , i cry atleast once or twice a month. They give me more work, for less pay and I've had to fight my boss to give me a salary increase for the past 2 years. I have the skill so i want to take the leap of faith & start working for myself or find a part time job to help with some bills.
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through that :( I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself and getting those raises - that's huge! Could you try working for yourself on the side for a little bit before you leave? I know it'll be extra hours, but starting my blog before I left was insanely helpful because it showed me what I could expect. Wishing you the best in everything ❤
God if this is your message, I am all in.
Hope you found some comfort in this video and wish you the best in your next steps!
I worked at Meta and felt the same burnout - my entire life quickly became all about work, and I had 0 WLB. The pay was good, but nowhere near good enough for how much work it was
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and how much STRESS it was. The stress was unreal
YES the stress. Absolutely horrendous for my physical health, let alone my mental health haha. Thanks for sharing :)
Great video😊Try working non stop for the last nearly 13 years since you were 20 after college then you will feel the corporate burnout lol😂😅I am lucky that I love my role that I’ve been in for the last 4 years [Executive & personal assistant to the CEO of a tech startup] but it is a LOT of work and I work long hours. I am lucky that i really enjoy it & am paid well and get to work from home full time after years of office based jobs.
I'm so glad you found something that you enjoy - that's most important!!
That's all you needed. Frequent trips to Thailand
Everybody on youtube quit their six figure job
Definitely seeing that trend too, I think more people are feeling burnt out from the 9-5 and are trading the 6 figures for something more meaningful :)
Yea 5 figure jobs aren’t as glamorous for RUclips clicks/views.
lol Same! I miss the money but focusing on what you want to do is more rewarding than money
so true :)
I also quit my job last year and started a channel and it still has 93 subscribers I can say growing a channel is hard but giving up is not an option
It's a lot of work! You got this!
Having a degree (thats a backup plan) - Having a degree that can get you a 6 figure job (thats a backup plan) - She has a guy with a 6 figure job (thats a back up plan) Shes young, Pretty and educated (thats a back up plan). The reason I mention looks is the the incredible statistics that prove being pretty gives you an easier life. This is not to say she necessarily had an easy life but it makes it EASIER especially in social media, where lets face it we all like to look at pretty faces , thats why we love celebrities for the most part. I would assume she knows how invest and save money as she was able to travel etc. (thats a back up plan) .I give her 100% credit for working hard, getting education, and being disciplined enough to save or invest money. I am going through a turning point in my life and dont have any of these back up plans, I accept responsibility for this but in regards to these type of videos they just make me feel worse. I suppose for the niche amount of people that make great money and have a job with air conditioning and are beautiful this is probably great motivation. For me it just makes me feel worse. Theres people out there that are "cog in a wheel" that are breaking their back ,making 40k a year. Please stop making these videos.
Hi there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate your perspective. While this is my story, I’m sorry that made you feel worse about your own situation. It’s never my intention to make anyone feel lesser than!
You’re absolutely right - I come from a place of privilege (access to education and an incredible support system). I know not everyone has the same starting point or safety nets in place. I shared this to express my own struggles after reaching the “dream life” - 6 fig, cushy tech job - in hopes that it would resonate with others that found themselves in a similar position. I wanted to show others that $$/status didn’t bring me the happiness I thought it would. I now understand why this can also bring feelings of disparity and frustration - thank you for your honesty.
I wish you the absolute best as you navigate this turning point in your life! I truly believe we all have the strength and potential to find what we want. I’m cheering for you stranger!! :)
@@fromsarahjolie Thank you for your kind reply as I know I come off bitter and jealous. Maybe I just need to seek out more "salt of the earth" tales of success. Best of luck, for real.
Are you young to be burnout? I worked for 32+ years as a Software Engineer. I only took 2 weeks off every years. I am single, live frugally and save every penny to invest. I retired at the age of 56 as a millionaire and now enjoy my life.
I think burnt out can occur at any age :) truthfully it was less about being burnt out and more about wanting something more out of life. It’s cool to see that the 9-5 path did work out for you! Enjoy retirement!! 🎉🎉🎉
Agreed. No one should burn themselves to ground from work, waiting for retirement to actually ‘live’ life. Definitely a lesson to learn younger in life. Work to live, not live to work. Only taking 2 weeks off every few years doesn’t seem enticing at all.
This generation is utterly spoiled. Try working in a call centre for minimum wage, wanting to kill yourself every day but keeping at it because you have to. These non-stop "I am 19 and just quit my $250,000 a year job in tech after two months because I didn't like it!" videos are, quite frankly, fucking retarded at this point.
I hope you mean “multi millionaire”. If you worked for 32+ yrs as a software engineer, you should have at least 5mill saved up.
@@The.Harsh.Truths Yes, I am.
This video was meant for me 🤣 Thank you so much.
Yay I'm so glad!! Thanks for being here :)
Please kids, all of you, get back to work, hit that hamster wheel and don't stop running. I retire in a few years and you guys are funding my social security check. Can't have you getting funny ideas about actually having choices.
LOL this comment made my day
"You can change your mindset when you have enough money to do it."
I am 32, quit my 932k salary job
If I don't work for 6 months, my kid would starve to death and everybody will blame this on me. *exaggeration*. But, this is the bubble I live in and why I put my head down, don't complain and work better/harder.
Luckily for her, she doesn't have a child to worry about.
The minimum wage jobs aren't hiring people my age in my city. I have gone to several job interviews and now I think the universe might be sending a sign that I should work for myself. Maybe employers prefer to hire teenagers because I don't want to jump to thinking it's a diversity issue... Thanks 4 sharing
I’m sorry to hear it’s been hard landing a job. If working for yourself is calling to you, do it!! Now’s your chance :)
So just so you understand what happened there when your corporation made you do more work than your level, and didn’t reward you for it:
With layoffs happening everywhere, corporations know that employees don’t want to get laid off since it’s going to be really difficult to get back into the industry with all of the competition now.
They’re using these market forces to squeeze existing employees and get maximum value out of them. So they’re lowering titles, firing more easily, and giving smaller bonuses across the board.
If you get fed up and quit, they just replace you with the most qualified applicant currently begging for your job, and have them do your job for an even lower salary.
Believe it or not, it isn’t personal. It’s just capitalism. Not saying it’s ethical either. It’s just how shareholders would want the leaders of your firm to act in order to optimize profits and honor their fiduciary duties.
I am currently one of these employees who is being squeezed by a greedy employer.
I think about quitting my job the same way as you did, but I suppose I’m less courageous.
So I continue to suffer and get taken advantage of in order to maintain my financial security and peace of mind.
100%! Absolutely. I fully agree with everything you've said here. It's highly economical for corporations - why pay someone more if they're willing to do the extra work for free? Especially when it's an employers' market right now.
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling the same way. Even though it's not "personal," it sure doesn't feel good. I commend you for sticking through it! Financial security is incredibly important. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!
Don’t follow advice from random people on instagram and RUclips. It’ll leave you broke and more anxious. Nothing wrong with the 9-5 life. Just learn to be more content and grateful for what you have instead of having FOMO.
Oh I agree. Like I said in this video, there are many perks of being at a 9-5!! Quitting your job isn't for everyone. I ultimately went back to work too. If you can find what you need in a 9-5 then that is incredible :)
I traded my entire career from the beginning for 100% mindfulness, which is life
You fire them before they lay you off. Good job
LOL it was good for my ego, maybe not financially since I couldn't get severance or unemployment oops
Most people that make these type of videos have a good amount of savings and a “back up plan” behind the scenes which is usually another 9-5 job within 3-6 months. Then make a new video “why I went back to a 9-5” 😬
Good luck to you
thank you :)
wow everyone is quitting
Considering the job market, sorry, but these videos are not going to be very popular.
9-5 still exists?!
You all had to do is work to get fired 🤷🏿♂️. Collect that severance.
I thought you only usually get severance if you get laid off, not fired!!
@@fromsarahjolie you’re right! I would’ve til the next rounds. It’s hard to get fire from tech nowadays anyway unless you work at Amazon
You mean unemployment
@@174mars both severance & unemployment!
lmao the amount of "i quit my 6 figure job" videos on youtube in the past few months is insane. ayy but whatever it takes to get those views amirite
i think people are also just... quitting their 6 figure jobs LOL. def has become more normalized to leave your 9-5 in pursuit of something better
I empathized with you until you said your BF helped you financially. Nah. You and I are not the same. I had to gutter my way without any help. Still unemployed since last October. Like the attitude but your safety net is a totally different situation than what a regular laid off person goes through.
I'm sorry to hear it's been difficult and I truly wish you the best in finding your next step. Unemployment isn't easy and it's definitely not easy to go through that alone. I recognize how privileged I am to have a safety net (both financially and emotionally) and my experience was pretty different compared to being laid off (ie. I chose to leave and didn't have severance/unemployment benefits) so I know I can't completely empathize :(
This was comment i looking for.
I hope 9 to 5 jobs go away. They seem like a relic of the past anyway.
guess you do not need a backup plan if you have enough money ;D sounds like it is time to enjoy life now!
#Same !!! Thank you for this perfect summary of what I've experienced & how I feel & why I do what I do. I will forward it whenever someone questions my choices again so I don't have to explain all of this myself. 🤣
I'll go subscribe to all of your Social Media now. Get ready for being online-stalked by me (in a non-creepy way, I promise!).
Thanks again and have a great day! ❤
It feels so validating knowing others feel the same way!!! We are not alone 💓💓 HAHA i am honored to be supported by you!! thank YOU!!
Very contradicting video, first you mention recognition and pay as the main reason for why you left. Then when your manager asked you to build a portfolio within the next 6 months you start talking about mental health.
Obviously, having a rich boyfriend pay for your financial expenses for 6 months while you try to get big on RUclips certainly doesn’t make your experience relatable.
There seems like there's a bit of confusion here! Feeling overworked and undervalued (inadequate recognition and pay) was the direct cause of my poor mental health. Sorry if that wasn't well articulated.
Regarding my partner, I recognize that I am privileged to have such a strong support system! Going from being a dink to a sink, we lived frugally during this time (cut travel, eating out, seeing friends, and any other superfluous expenses). While he helped cover our utilities, I paid for the bulk of my living expenses (housing and food). Since this was a decision I made *for me* and *my* mental health, I wanted to make sure that taking this risk didn't jeopardize his financial well-being.
I hope that clarifies things! :)
All these “quit the six-figure job” videos are the same.
I thought it happens in a typical asian company but apparently it happens every where
Yeah, 996 is real in US if you care to do good work. You may not be clocked in but you are recovering, learning, thinking about, or getting ready for work. If you happen to find a healthy company with a good boss it may be different but probably true in Asia too.
Me, Im jobless for almost a year😪
Don't lose hope!! The right fit role will come your way :)
@@fromsarahjolie I hope so😪😪
What kind of work do you do?
What type of corporate job do you have? You didn't really talk much about that.
I was in various role titles in different spaces! My job responsibilities/skillset were centered around data and program/project management.
Plot twist: Her investments paid off more than enough to justify her quitting
LOL I wish 🥲
Talk to some gig work delivery drivers and you'll feel better.
Seems phony to me, there's a plague of these videos "I quit." or "I learned 3 things" etc. Come on.
Adam this “plague” of videos is ur RUclips algorithm sending u a sign to quit ur job 🤠🤠
lol at least pays good what about take out pays good part and extend 2hr per day. Thats my everyday life 😂
Limit your videos to 25mins, it started going downhill after that. But all in all really enlightening thanks.
LOL thanks for sticking around anyway :)
Why don't you just read out the alphabet and then cut and paste the words you want to say from the letters. Edits every 3 seconds, argh.
LOL I'm sorry :'( still working on my speaking/storytelling skills. Tried to make this video as short as possible -- raw footage was 2+ hours. But good feedback!
This is american work culture in a nutshell. i hate it with a passion.
Where are all the great jobs the model minority promised us?
These influencers are too much for me! It’s easy to quit a six figure job as you can save up A LOT of money whilst you’re employed and the chances of you getting a highly paid job later on is a lot easier as you probably already have all these credentials, experience and connections! Hard to feel any sympathy for them!
Come here. Hug me. You are describing my ex-job haha. Thank you.
🥺🥺 big hugs to both of us!!!
She’s describing my current job except I didn’t get a promotion I got demoted and got more responsibility
Yesterday my ex CEO / boss posted two open positions to replace me... that's how this would look for them if you decide to leave. Get another job, start seeking @@robnelson6545
Jesus loves you❤
"6 figures"... "no backup plan" ... Come on...
hi sarah, your videos and thumbnail can be edited better and can be improved, do you need editor?
I can help you get more views as well. let me know so i can share portfolio
your videos are actually helpful to me, just subscribed your channel.
Hi there!! Thanks for reaching out :) I don't need an editor for now!
Awe cry me a river. Abunch of starving kids in Africa and you are over here complaining