When Adults Are Not Taking Kids Seriously
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Imagine being so insecure that when a kid corrects, you just argue.
Well actually it's usually because when teenagers become adults they feel more powerful and therefore see kids as people who don't know anything because they didn't know anything when they were their age. But I'm just assuming I guess
@@AriLolzz Your theory isn't far fetched. It is called "power trip". It isn't necessarily by age, it is more on authority. Whoever has more will think their underlings knew nothing.
@@AriLolzz my year 4 teacher tricked me into writing my brother's name as reeee instead of Reece
My mum had this issue. She always argue that whoever corrected her heard wrong or that they're imagining things because she always has to be right. She never apologises either.
@@ultimatewierdo1525always happens
If you're paying so little attention to your kid that them doing something drastic "for attention" starts to sound like something they'd reasonably do maybe it's time to seriously reevaluate your parenting strategy
FAR too many adults not just parents are like this tho.
Ignoring or being extremely dismissive of the youth/kids just because they're the adults.
Heck older adults do it to the younger adults just off the strength of "i've lived longer so AUTOMATICALLY I know better".
@@shopece8807 you can only say you are smarter than children
I just had the same thought lol.
THIS
someone give this man a gold.
"I can't deal with this right now." Well that's too damn bad. You had a kid you're gonna have to deal with it for your whole life. That kid is always gonna need you. If you didn't want to deal with it, you shouldn't have children!!
Exactly, like when my older sister and mom says that I don't understand how the human body works at age 15 and my sister daughter is alright I Yelled at her saying if the water is to hot or too cold for your hand then don't let her drink it. She gives me the "I don't have time for this" almost 3 weeks later her baby is hurt from the inside to outside I called the CPS on her saying she not fit to care for a baby. All it took was one check up and they found burns on her. She said that she will disown me and I said go ahead at least i can care for a baby unlike you. My mom became legal guardian actually caring for her health physically, my mom said that I should have told her but I gave her the "I don't have time for this" Today I am 18 with my sister resenting me but came to the fact that if I didn't stop her the baby would be dead and would. Today she finally gets to be her mother again with actual knowledge of caring for a child
As I have said to numerous people, once you have children, it isn't about you anymore, and it will not be about you ever again.
@@dashamanstevo5326 exactly. They come first
There are people on social media that says we want children and this and that but we don't like how much time they take up, well then don't have them
@@shadowboom3915 your sister is really stupid to not understand that babies shouldn't eat or drink anything too hot or too cold
I was 12. I was in the back of the class having a panic attack. Teacher asks what’s wrong. I tell her that I feel panicked and I don’t know why, it feels like I can’t breathe, and I feel trapped. Teacher says I’m just being an overdramatic teen. Sure enough, 8 years later, I’m diagnosed with severe anxiety
the teachers are even worse then the parents 90% of the time ;-;
I also had a panic attack in the back of my classroom in 1st year(13-14) because the teacher was talking about bullying.I had been bullied for years and it had given me depression and caused me to attempt to take my own life at age 11
I had PTSD after I had cancer and used to have panic attacks. It would become next to impossible to breathe, my chest would tighten, my heart rate would jump through the roof, I'd get dizzy, then start sweating, to where it felt like I'd jumped in a pool of water with my clothes on.
The things I learned to help stop panic attacks, or control them when they start to happen, are:
-Put a cold, wet wash cloth (or papertowel) on the back of your neck
-Sit down and put your head between your knees
-Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth and concentrate solely on your breathing; blocking everything else out
-While still breathing, close your eyes, think of happy memory, and focus on that until the panic attack passes.
-Keeping a spongy, or soft rubber ball, with you that you can squeeze, and focus on when you feel anxious can help in preventing panic attacks (If you'll type in: "Splash balls" in a search engine online, you should get a number of places to order the spongy balls, which you leave dry and squeeze)
-Take a spiral bound notebook with you and a pen, or pencil, wherever you go, and if you start to feel overwhelmed, you can draw or write in it. Even if it's nothing more than writing, "I feel anxious. I feel anxious. I feel anxious," focusing on something else will help you get through that moment of panic. Or you can draw simple happy faces, like this :) Anything to refocus you will help!
-If you have a cell phone that has access to the Internet, you can go to your Play Store and type in: "Apps for anxiety" and it will give you a list of applications you can download onto your phone, which will be a click away, that can help you, when you're feeling overwhelmed.
I hope these things will help!
Sorry! I forgot:
If you'll smell rubbing alcohol, it will help prevent you from vomiting. If you don't have a bottle of rubbing alcohol, you can buy individually wrapped rubbing alcohol wipes, and keep a few with you at all times!
Thanks, i just learned what happens when you have a panic attack, and i realised that i had a lot of panic attacks when i was young, since i would often “forget” how to breathe when i woke up at night, i also for some reason crawled aggressively on my bed sometimes imagining i was like far away from the wall or something. This would happen for no reason
A few years ago I got in an argument with my father; I told him blackholes exist, I pointed out all the facts and he still refused to believe me. A few weeks later the black hole image is showed to the public and I look over at him with the largest smug look on my face.
Sigma
LMAO
Was half expecting him to believe it was "FaKE NewS"
It infuriates me that these stories don’t really include the parents/adults apologizing. Then again, most parents I know don’t apologize to their children anyway...
Why should they? They're adults, they never commit mistakes!
It's kid's fault for being kids...
@@onyxdragon1179 what?
@@switzerland1394 it's a joke
@@switzerland1394 sarcasm?
@@spidertransrightsarehumanr5433 ah okay
As a parent myself, I vow to never ignore my child's medical concerns. It's disgusting knowing how lazy, ignorant and unloving some parents can be
I a random 14y old salute thee o7
Hats off to you!
There's some sick part of me that really hopes they felt so awful after ignoring their kids and finally finding out what was going on.
You, are a better parent then these people. Thank you.
we salute you, thank you o7
-a random kid on the internet
"They're just doing it for attention." Well, maybe your child NEEDS some frikking attention!
YES!
ATTENTION!
AS IN "THEY PROBABLY NEED TO BE FUCKING CHECKED RIGHT NOW"
Good point children need attention you cannot neglect them if they say they are sick or not feeling well trust them
EXACTLY THIS! I feel like people don’t talk about this part enough
@@ozzy8950 once I was feeling sick and my mom said " stop faking it you just don't want to babysit your cousin and stay at home instead " I ended up throwing up in her car🤠
THANK YOU! FINALLY SOMEBODY GETS IT!
"I smell smoke, dad."
"Shut up! Don't be stupid."
*2 minutes later*
"GET OUT, SON! FIRE!"
"why would i?Thats stupid"
"Shut up! I see no fire!"
My school guidance counselor called my parents because "a bunch of my friends heard about me hurting myself and were concerned." Found out it was one chick who did this a lot but I was having suicidal thoughts, the counselor didnt help me and when I saw my parents reaction to it I lied and said I did it for attention (which wasnt too much of a lie since I did want attention but in this case I wanted help and sympathy) it was them guilt tripping me and saying I'd be hurting them and killing myself is a sin that I said I did it for attention. Instead of helping me they made everything worse. I'm now on medication and diagnosed with ptsd, severe anxiety, and severe depression, my doctor went so pale when she looked over my paperwork it made me want to say "oh no I'm just kidding." Parents stop being dongs to your kids!
Relatable
My parents dragged me on a week long road trip up north to visit all the cousins and tourist spots, meanwhile I was sick and getting sicker every day. They thought it was the usual teenage exhaustion until I was lying flat on a hotel bed, sweating and saying "If you knew how much pain I was in, you wouldn't be doing this to me". They finally cut the trip short and took me home to see a doctor. I had a severe case of swine flu.
Oof
underrated 👏 comment.
I once worked for a department store while living at home, & got sick. I wanted more than anything to stay home, but because of my job & "responsibility", they sent me to work. I was unable to do anything but stand leaning on a display, obviously sick. My supervisor sent me home, with strong words about sending me to work sick.
Job mostly sucked, but at least they had my back one time!
You hit them with the "I told you so" look after, right?
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In the third grade, I did a project. I was so good at using adult vocabulary and wrote very professionally that my teacher thought I plagiarized my work. She yelled at me for 20 minutes, to which 8-year-old-me had to push back tears. I was so humiliated and sad that I never told her that I actually did write that. I purposely wrote like a kindergartener on my project so she would believe that I wrote it. I got a bad grade on my project.
id yell at her
I m so sorry that happened to you.
That teacher is a fucking disgrace for a human.
Ok where the fuck is that teacher? We would like to talk, and when I say talk more like killi- I mean a nice talk
Teachers are just fucking rude. Adults just assume your lying if they think so without any evidence.
I have a father who 'if you feel weird or any kind of pain, just tell me and we will bring you to the doctor or hospital type' so my diseases are always diagnosed on the first place. Unfortunately, my friend has parents that always shrugging off his pain problem and always told him that it was just 'a little bit pain' or 'attention seeker kid'. It turns out he got a blood cancer and it's already waaaayy too late for him to get diagnosed.
Today was 8 years after his death due to Leukemia, rest well Zuan.
Im sorry. Im sure he was a good guy
that last part makes me happy my parents arent like that
Rip
I do hope that his parents at least felt bad..?
those parents should be charged with criminal neglect. R.I.P., Zuan.
I have horrible anxiety, my dad told me “Your faking anxiety to skip school”
A doctor even recommended Medications for my anxiety..
My parents don’t take me Seriously at all, they just laugh at me and tells me I’m mad
You are fully in your rights to be angry with your parents and I hope you receive the care and medication you need soon. With hardship comes ease; things will get better for you, and you will find people who will respect you and your suffering. In the meantime, may you be guided for your struggles with anxiety, and may your parents make up for their wrongs towards you soon.
Your parents are absolutely awful!
"I'm being abused."
"Kids get abused all the time."
I was 16 and tried to hang-out with friends.
Just take a deep breath and calm down... and think of yeet memes
@qwert ΔΔΔ look them up
@qwert ΔΔΔ no
I told my mom she broke my heart because of the bad things she has said to me, for example, " Why won't you just die already!?" and she told me every parent wishes their kid would just die at some point... I really hope that isn't true
@@dontcallmeblanca3594 your such a Blanca
“What do you mean you broke it on accident? You did it on purpose!”
*10 years later*
“Why don’t you tell us when you break stuff?”
Same situation with my family
one time i bumped into my mom and made her drop something while running around the house, i said it was accident but she kept saying, "No, you did it on purpose. You know you did, okay? go to your room." I did and then probably cried or something and slept.
*_"STOP FUCKING QUESTIONING ME IT'S YOUR FAULT MOM"_*
parents r just idiots most of the time-
This is the reason I never let my mom know if something's broken, she reacts like this everytime.
These are adults who shouldn't be around children
And adults that shouldn’t have children in general.
Yes, Some people just don't deserve children.
Nah My Guy. Its fine. Its Kids fault for well being Kids
@@anderstermansen130 You'd be an almost interesting person if your attempts at trolling were flavorful, funny, elaborate, creative, not see-through, or made any sense at all
An older friend of mine lost his 12 year old daughter to leukemia because him and his wife thought she was faking and it was too late by the time she was diagnosed. He ended up hanging himself and she's hooked on drugs. This was probably 10 years ago or so, now anytime my soon to be 13 year old son has any reoccurring ailments it's straight to the doctor, the doctors kinda brushed it off a few times and I had them take blood work, x-rays and a bunch of other shit the last time. He's fine
Honestly, they should've believed their child in the first place so she wouldn't have to die.
But at the same time, I feel REALLY bad for the parents.
@@indrimza i feel bad for the fact that a child is no longer in the world, but I have no sympathy for the parents
@@indrimza That would be about the worst experience a parent could have
@@indrimza I could care less for the parents being negligent and crappy
This is heartbreaking
I have studied hurricanes for as long as I remember and really love and am obsessed with them.
When hurricane Irma first formed I was 12 and I studied it for hours every single day. Then I started to notice the track trend was going closer and closer to our house and I kept warning them that it could directly hit us as a major hurricane. They ignored me and didn't prepare and eventually basically told me I'm just a stupid kid and too shut up.
We ended up needing to evacuate right at the last minute costing a ton of money and my town was devastated.
I hope at least this made them more prone to believe you. I hope you said "I frickin' told you so!" when the situation was right for it.
my parents aren't to blame for this one, but my kneecaps sometimes slide out of place because my ligaments don't do jack shit to keep them in place. this has been happening since i was super little, and it happens usually when i'm running. obviously, it would happen during gym, and the teachers thought i was faking to get out of gym. i would be crying in pain, and they'd say "you're fine, get up." it wasn't until my mom had pulled me out of public school that she noticed. we were moving and i was helping carry some boxes, and lo and behold my knee popped out. thankfully my ligaments are stretchy enough to not sustain any injuries, still hurts like a bitch though
you seem like if superpowers were a thing that you would be the first one,and over time the powers would get stronger, but of course there would only be stretch superpowers
@@splitfancycake9069 idk how to feel abt this but thank u
i cant even imagine how painfull that was holy shit.
@@Bruno-dv3ym it varies, sometimes it hurts so much that i can't walk afterwards and sometimes it's just kinda "ow :/"
I can’t get over the sentence “My knee fell out”
I had one of these. My dog was peeing on the floor uncontrollably every time we left the house. When my mother finally agreed to take her to the vet, the damage was almost permanent. If she would have just listened, we could have caught it early.
Edit: The damage wasn't permanent, to be clear, my dog is doing fine now.
same thing happened to my dog but sadly he didn't survive, i told my mom he was sick and she didn't believe me till he peed blood.
@@winglessbat so sad poor doggy :,(
RELIVED
Glad the damage was reversed
My dog used to pee uncontrollably when one of us entered the house (mainly because of joy) my dog stopped doing this now and just jumps at us to greet us i guess
When I first got my bearded dragon I was telling my mom that I wanted to just get him checked up at the vet to just make sure he had a clean slate to start with, especially because at that age it was a lot easier for small things to kill or permanently harm him, she ended up saying that she 'wasn't ready for that' which honestly didn't even make sense cause she doesn't and never has taken him to the vet because of allergies. Anyways long story short he ended up having parasites and it took to rounds of meds to get rid of them and while he's still alive and healthy he's permanently stunted in size because the parasites ate all the nutrition he should've been using for growth in that super important stage of growth.
Some of the most still resented, still hurting comments years later, are caused by teachers. Teachers, you really *really* need to remember you're dealing with small people, not small intelligence or small emotions or small minds. In fact, children are more in touch with their instinctive responses to criticism, dismissive comments etc. and can feel that cut for decades. Be more careful.
I am 33yo and still harbor dislike towards my Kindergarten teacher. She _graded our drawings._
We had to draw a face. Little me was so proud! I worked so hard on it! Then I got it back, and it was covered in *thick* red check marks. I had forgotten to draw a neck, ears, the lips were somehow wrong, the nose didn’t look like a nose?, and “no one has green hair”. 5yo me just quietly cried and threw it away. The picture and that feeling stuck with me for a while.
Screw you Ms. Sorry. (that’s how it’s pronounced)
Seriously, how miserable do you have to be to decide to do something like that?! I even stopped drawing for a bit; I told my parents “I’m a bad drawer.” I want to punch her on my tiny self’s behalf.
@@j_g9109 damn thats just sad for your teacher to do
@@j_g9109 who the hell grades a kindergarteners art based on professional level standards? Thats a child for christs sake, they aren't fucking Da vinci
@@j_g9109 Wait, she wrote her remarks on your drawing ?!
@@petitesayo4542 I was confused by all the red checks; I didn’t understand, so I asked her what they were. That was her reply.
One time my dad got mad at me for complaining every bone in my body hurt, he said I was faking it and yelled at me for an hour about how I’m just lazy .... I had arthritis in my entire body at age 15
*ouch.*
Holy fuck
This is why I’m happy that I absent my biological father
Bro has inside out thorn III
Oouch.
“Sir, I need to go to the bathroom.”
“In a minute”
“Sir, can I go now?”
“10 more minutes.”
“Sir, I really need to go!”
“It’s almost end of class.”
“I’ll be covered in blood then-”
My choir teacher did that once this year, ugh I hate when teachers do that
My parents ignored me showing signs of having suicidal thoughts and they didn't even believe me when they walked in on me writing a suicide note. They still don't believe me.
Same. They only realized I was even depressed when I up and told my mom all of a sudden "I just barely stopped myself from cutting myself just now because of how bad i feel." or something like that. And then she denied that it could possibly be that bad or some such nonsense. Luckily, I didn't need her to feel needed. And, I'm not only still here, but I also defeated those feelings. Only every now and again do I slip into slightly negative thoughts, but I now have a way of recognizing it and pulling myself out of it before it gets bad enough to affect me. 😊 ...I'm more likely to get insomnia instead 😅
Dang I was expecting more:
"Mom theres a dog in the garden"
"honey, no there's not"
*next day*
"mY dAfFoDiLs!!!!"
"Tolda!"
It really makes me sad how many negligent and abusive parents there are
My mom was constantly blowing off our health problems growing up. When I was 8 I had a painful bump on my gums above the upper right back tooth that i told my mom about, but she kept telling me it was normal and it was just my adult tooth growing in. It kept getting bigger everyday to the point where it was noticable, but the pain went away on its own so i didnt complain. When my dad saw me 2 weeks later he asked what happened to my cheek and i told him that i had a bump in my mouth but mom said it was normal. He took one look at it and was like "yeah, thats not normal" and immediately took me to his dentist. turns out it was an absess. the infection ate away at the nerves in 3 of my teeth (explaining the sudden loss of pain). i ended up needing all 3 molars removed, which gave me a whole wack of other dental issues down the line but thats another story...
Wow just....wow
No words
Good dad!
That must of sucked, I've gotten hurt in my mouth multiple before and it makes it hard for me to eat. It also hurt a lot.
An 8yo with a mouth abscess ☹️ That breaks my heart; those are excruciating. You were a tough little cookie! I’ve seen one debilitate a grown man.
I’m glad your dad noticed something was off though. I’m sorry it caused problems down the line.
@@iatemycat5320 I see you everywhere
@@boxinabox6608 im not sure if thats good or bad lmaoo
When I was 8 the local casino just opened my parents had the bright idea to leave my 15 yr old cousin to baby sit us, the first time my brother and I were sent to bed right when they left my mentally slow brother said no and got hit with a phone book, I tried telling my parents but they didnt believe us as there were no Mark's or bruises, so the next time he watched us he hit me with the same phone book for being a rat, I purposely held my hand over a kettles steam and gave my self a pretty bad burn and hid it from him he sent us to bed at 5 pm the moment they got home I showed them the burn and told them he held my hand over the kettle cause i was a rat, my cousin then got punched out by my dad and I have no regrets, now my cousin is 42 years old and isint allowed around his own kids unsupervised for being a abusive POS....
A small price for salvation
@@lexo6987 yup, and when I was an adult my parents mentioned the event and I said yup its too bad you didnt believe me about the phone book the first time I wouldn't have had to burn myself the second time, I figured you needed to see a mark and so I made a mark,
Finally some justice!
That’s what i call taking one for the team!
You.....you are super cool
After listening just 9 minutes in, I am so glad that my mom is a nurse who took me and my siblings just serious enough when it came to our medical needs (i.e. going to the ER for a simple cold/cough: complete overkill; going to the ER for a sprained ankle: not overkill).
Compared to most parents on this thread she's alot better
wow 👏
my parents never took me to the doctor unless I had an infection or something real serious, and I've never gone to the ER. "103 fever going on 104? nah, we don't need a doctor for that."
When I was 17 (I think) I went to my mom because I believed I had PTSD and wanted to be tested (I had good reasons for believing I did too) her response? "There's nothing wrong with you, you just don't know how to let s**t go"
Jokes on her, as an adult i got myself a referral to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and C-PTSD. I love my mom but I'll never forget what she said to me, especially when she told me to get back on antidepressants just because I stood my ground against my abusive sister
It was years before I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. The time I spent recovering, I'll never get back. Please listen to your kids.
I remember when I was 11 I told my mom that my uncle...did something to me, and she just kinda brushed it off. Brought it back up a couple years ago and it was like she was hearing it for the first time. I still resent her for tuning me out so easily.
Edit: thanks for all the well wishes. What my uncle did was in no uncertain terms SA. My parents have since taken the proper action and he is now banned from our house and the other adults in the family know what happened and have taken the proper action to protect me and their own children. My mom still feels just awful about it, and it's something that we have to work through together. I love my mom, but she can be a little ditzy at times. She's a good mom, though. The best she can be. I'm her first kid and I'm absolutely not what they expected (ND, queer, etc.) so they pretty much had to wing it for my entire childhood.
Wow i’m so sorry!
I saw this comment and realized that I have a similar experience where my mother didn’t listen to me, and I almost started balling my eyes out ranting about it.
WHAT DID YOUR UNCLE DO
@@rafaelallengamboa3611 Woah, slow down there, she might not be comfortable saying it
@@rafaelallengamboa3611 I don’t think they want to share that information
Had joint pain and swelling off and on for awhile “just growing pains” turned into “too many sprains doing gymnastics” whcih eventually was juvenile rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis at 13 which was 2-3 years after it started
Basically the same here....sucks
Same here. Growing pains my foot. Rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis as an adult.
Yep, knee problems all the way through comp (high school) in patches of a couple months. Then had a huge flare at 16, its been super aggressive ever since, and will likely be for years.
My ailment is different, but with similar symptoms, and that's almost word for word what my parents told me too. I didn't get diagnosed until 15 years later when it became impossible to ignore any longer. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone, but all the same, it's almost a relief to know it's not just me.
i had a borderline flu (99 degrees idk) back in 2016/17 or so but i got sent home after i got meh temp checked and it said 102 and after a while reached 105 which was le peak and i ended up being at home for 5 days
When I was about 11, I noticed something weird was going on with my left eye. The vision in it just started getting muddier and muddier. I told my mom, but she just brushed it off over and over again stating nothing was wrong and I was probably exaggerating. I eventually told my dad and he convinced my mom to take me to the eye doctor. They said I probably had a detached retenia and needed to see a specialist right away or else I might loose vision in my eye forever. Fast forward a few weeks and we find out it's not only a detached retina, but I also used to have a very rare parasite in my eye that my body thought was still there (ocular toxicara) and was trying to destroy, which in turn was causing me to go half blind. Still on all of my medicine and haven't gotten eye surgery yet, but if I hadn't been taken to the eye doctor sooner, I might have even lost vision in both eyes
my mom shouts at me cause I had corona. she believes healthy people cant have it. so she shouts at me for having it. fast forward 10 days-
i tested negative
fast forward 10 more days- she tested positive and is in a very bad condition. i hope she never heals
@Tayler Muilenburgstill tho
Imagine having ur mom yell at you because you happend to get unlucky and get corona and saying "dUdE hEaLtHy pEoPlE cAnT gEt cOrOnA sEe ThIs iS wHy i tOlD yOu tO eAt ThOsE pEaS" and then ur mom got the same thing you had, whos the one who didnt eat their carrots now
I do feal bad its just that this mom clearly isnt ready to have a child, she doesnt even know the only way you can be protected by corona is to either
Get vaccination or follow the god damn covid rules. This mom is on another level of stupid
Edit: well following thr covid rules doesnt mean you cant get it, its only to decrease the possibility of getting covid, or just stalling for time to get the cure
@Tayler Muilenburg Not everyone has a good family, congrats to you that you grew up in a loving home but people with shitty parents might be happy to see them go. Personally, if my parents passed I probably wouldn't be too affected because of how horrible they were to me. Don't presume to tell people how to feel about THEIR parents unless you know exactly what they go through and how it feels. Shame on you. The way you worded that screams manipulation and I won't have it. People are allowed to hate, they're allowed to be mad, they're allowed to say they won't cry when their abusers pass. don't like it? Scroll and move on. Period.
@Tayler Muilenburg
I wish my father was dead.
“Shame on you”
Things my father has done at the age of 35~:
-had children with a minor (my mom who was 14/15 at the time)
-shot someone (and left the body to die)
-cheated multiple times on his wife’s then divorced them
-walked around with a large gun threatening to kill people
-drank then drove passed a shit ton of red lights with the intent of being arrested
-sexually assaulted a minor
-verbal and physical Abuse to his wife’s
-verbal and physical abuse to his children (I included)
-forced his child who was inexperienced in driving to drive on the highway at age 12
🖕Please kindly shut the fuck up 🖕
You don’t know what op’s mother may have done.
@Tayler Muilenburg hey fun fact: some parents are abusive, and yeah, we would be very happy when they finally close their stupid eyes.
I hope you all find happiness in life, whether it be in a partner, job, or anything else...I can't say anything else....I'm not in any situation to talk about that...
Mine was running into a girl who was a kidnap victim but no one wanted to listen. It was years later that she was saved in the interview she said the closes came to freedom earlier was when she ran into a boy her age that tried to help her but no adults wanted to help.
That's so sad but wholesome at the same time
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That makes my blood BOIL. glad to hear she’s safe and talked about it
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I hope you can meat up with her one day. I lowkey just want your parents to meat her and try to explain why the hell they didn't help her.
Okay, so, my arm broke in half, teachers ignored me for a good long 4 minutes till I kicked the vice principal in my rollerblades. He halfway scolded me till i shoved my broken forearm in his face and he fainted.
The image of a school principal fainting is halarious too me!!!🤣
@@sierrastanley3109 To*
@Mark Campos bruh
Sorry I just find this so funny imagining a person fainting and you flopping a broken to his face now that I reread it you actually just showed it to him not slap him in the face but that imagination is still funny lol also rip for your arm hope it's ok now
As you should
They didn't saw the fucking piece of scrap metal in my leg it was quite litteraly 6 INCHES
Amazing. Rent a metal detector, sit in the doctor's office, and turn it on.
6 inches? Wait how long is that...
*15 cm* AYOO how the fuck did they miss that?!
... W- How?
@@hopeatlast9617 lol where you from
cuz i thought the same thing and i even took a measuring scale for inches
They didnt see, or they don't "see"
When I was ten, my best friend was regularly beaten up by her father, and the mother wouldn't protect her. I mentioned everything my friend had told me in an essay we had to write at school, but my teacher never even inquired how I got that story. Today, as an adult, I cannot understand why not.
I'l never understand parents who call their kids "attention seeking" or looking for attention. Ofcourse they are, thats the age you need your parents attention. I'm not understanding the problem here
My brother had a tack in his eye as a baby from pulling something off the wall. He didn't lose his vision all the way. He lied in third grade about waking up blind to get out of a test. He is eleven years older. As a kid I couldn't see for a damn thing. Was the tallest girl in class but always sat in front. I would scoot my desk so far forward I could touch the board if I wanted to. Begged for six years for glasses. She always said I was exaggerating. In ninth grade she had eye insurance so she took me. She said and I quote "you're gonna be embarrassed when you don't need any" I started doubting myself.
What should you know? Legally blind with no glasses on. I am convinced the only reason I lived up to that point was because I knew where everything was by heart. She cried and said she was sorry, but that whole issue with my brother made her so cautious and I hadnever had a teacher say anything so she didn't think it was that bad. My teacher just improvised. But long story short She felt bad and I learned trees had individual leaves and not blobs that separated into leaves when they fell.
Hiking is so fun now :)
i feel so bad for you
Holy shit, I’m sorry, but I’m happy you’re not depressed over it
At least she apologized after, a lot of parents just brush the child off without acknowledging their mistakes. Glad you can see now.
It's really not as bad as it sounds lol. Or maybe it's because it's my story. It might also be that fact that it has been years but , but she got glasses that day. So that was fun because I teased her about not realizing she was blind too. Over all she is an amazing mom. I would never fault her for one mistake.
These are why we can't have nice things, really. Parents are so aware of the fact that some children will lie, fake illness or injury - for attention, to skip school, whatever - that their first reaction is to brush things off. And the worst versions of this are when you have a literal boy who cried wolf scenario where you are not even the guilty party. I hope your brother felt bad when he found out you'd been ignored on something important because he had faked it.
i HATE when people disregard anyone's pain
And people hate when other people taking advantage of their pain to other people
Got a new dog beeper that’s ultrasonic.
I can hear it
My younger-younger brother can hear it
My older-younger brother was beeping it before an uno game because the dog were barking.
He got death glares from his siblings and a reprimand from dad.
Damn thing sounds like a high-pitched concert. Puts pressure in my ears.
I accidentally poked my eye with a pencil before and my parents said I was saying that so it didn't look like I was crying because of the sad movie.
THAT HURT A LOT THOUGH
And if still kinda salty that they didn't apologize
like periods XD
@@coolboy4410 wow that's really bad parenting, I'd expect that from siblings but not from parents!
When a kid, especially a kindergartner, says they need to go to the bathroom, it's a warning
Right? It's never just a question, it's going to happen unless you let them. It's like a tornado, you can't stop it but you can listen to the siren and ~evacuate the area~
I wish I had the guts to do that, either that or I don't remember...
I hated in school when teachers reacted that my needing to go to the toilet was 'wrong' and I was a 'bad child' just for wanting to go to the loo. Why do so many so called 'grown ups' teach children that going to the toilet is as bad as committing a crime (even though they also go to the toilet - a natural bodily function)?
Literally went pee 20 times in 5 hours, my dad brushed it off but my mom, on a road trip, notoced I was peeing a lot and recognised it as a diabetes symptom.
I was diagnosed 2 weeks ago.
I had an experience in kindergarten and I’m blind in one eye so when ever someone wouldn’t behave the “teacher” would play a super damn loud alarm I was in front of class and I had better hearing then anyone I was in pain everyday until I got transferred I was so damn tired that my kindergarten self told my mom my ears ring I don’t know if it’s tinnitus but I never told my parents and I’m not gonna I’m 12 I was 6-7 at the time
(If your wondering no the “teacher” never got fired)
when i was 11, i noticed one of my nails started becoming a darker color. i told my mom almost immediately and she told me she couldn’t see anything wrong.
nearly a year later, she finally started to notice the discoloration after dismissing it. we went to the hospital and the doctor hadn’t seen anything like it before.
i was concerned about the whole nail thing because when i looked up photos similar to mine, those photos where associated with melanoma (a skin cancer).
that wasn’t fun 😀👌
Ok, but what was this? Do you know or still to figure it out?
@@joannapohorecka3136 sorry, i should of put what it actually was. it was basically a mole that grew in my nail tissue that caused the brown/black discoloration to grow from underneath the cuticle.
@@shichu8 Mole? Wow! I didn't expect this! I'm happy that you okey! ☺️
I remember having something wrong with my hearing when I was in sixth grade, and my teacher threw me out of class because I kept answering "What? What!?" when she'd tell me to do something. She thought I was being obstinate and disrespectful. Turns out I had a massive ear infection and had fluid in my ear. The incident led to yet another confrontation between her, my parents and the principal. Eventually, I was transferred to another school, because an investigation revealed she was targeting all the minority kids as well as me for harassment. She was never actually fired, though.
Wow, the parents ignoring their children when complaining about pain somewhere are terrible. My parents are like, “If there's a bad pain somewhere let us know, if it persists let us know. If you don't feel good let us know.” it makes me appreciate my parents more.
Also, the parents ignoring their depressed children are bad too. Like you don't do that! If they say they are depressed listen or you might lose them forever.
uHuM- for some reason I read: "if you have pain let us know, if it persists let us know, IF IT FEELS GOOD LET US KNOW"?!?¡
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@@iatemycat5320 Lmao. 😂😂😂
@@adventurekitty1016 idk whats wrong with me 😳
@@iatemycat5320 my first degree burn feels good mum.. is that bad?
tbh im 99% sure im depressed (bc fucking grades lul)
Moral of the story: you should listen to your child, even if they're probably faking it.
Ye I mean.. It never hurts to be sure
Something from my experience that kinda pisses me off is that if the kid tells you that there is something wrong and you do something that odds are won't do anything - as a kid I had multiple issues and my mom just tried brushing it off or using essential oils which even to this day I can't wrap my head around
@@Thebigcoffee is ur mom a karen or an anti vaxxer?
@@indrimza she acts like a Karen really
@@Thebigcoffee u dont have 2 answer my question, but r u somewhere away from ur mom?
For me it was whenever I felt like I was gonna throw up. My dad would tuck me in some nights and I would say "I feel like im gonna throw up." My dad would reply "hopefully you feel better in the morning." Every time that happened, I ended up puking in the middle of the night
i have kinda the same thing whenever i get in a car and i know its going to be a really long ride, i get sick ( maybe a unique case of motion sickness?
I threw up a lot when I was little (stomach issues I grew out of) so my dad always told me to go get a bucket. If it was bed time, the bucket sat next to my bed. I have never considered that other households did not have a designated throw up bucket to walk around with in case they could not make it to the bathroom.
@@takami_0710 and @SundryTomato if you'll keep a bottle of rubbing alcohol on you, or disposable rubbing alcohol wipes and wave them/smell them beneath your nose in 15 to 30 second increments, remove them for 15 to 30 seconds, then repeat, this can help in keeping you from vomiting, when you feel nauseated!
When you feel nauseous it's actually the best to just go to the toilet and puke if you can. It really relieves your stomach. Eat a banana or crackers and avoid dairy products. Drink some tea with honey to calm your stomach.
@@AmandaGarrellArt we call ours The Barf Bucket lol
My family argued alot and as a teenager, I generally tried being a peacekeeper and tried suggesting actions to calm down and consider solutions, but whenever I did, I ended up getting yelled at and told to butt out. My mid teens were an era when everyone in my family just went their own ways because nobody ever wanted to admit the way they handle things/act was wrong.
The most irritating part was I had a really good reputation in my community for being kind and a deep thinker, and my family was very proud of it and would always brag to everyone about how knowledgeable and good I am, so basically they loved bragging to everyone about how much I knew but never wanted to actually listen.
Same, family still acts like shit to each other, but when it comes to other people their all "normal" all of a sudden. They never think I am right, even when it's shoved in their face.
9-year-old me: mommy, I hear voices in my head.
Mom: I'm sure it's nothing.
6 years later
Therapist: your child has DID
DID?
@@ryanhughes6405 dissociative identity disorder
When I was in pre K I got super sick and felt terrible and told my parents I thought I was dying because I felt so awful but I just kept getting told I just have a cold or something and that I was fine. It wasn’t until my dad legit thought I was dead (sunken eyes, extremely pale skin, etc.) when I was taking a nap that they took me to the hospital. Yeah turned out i had a really bad kidney infection that spread to my blood so I was in septic shock and my kidneys were failing. Doctors said if I was brought in any later and I would’ve died
Went through something similar. When i was 6 i kept getting weird rashes and my i couldn't feel my legs then i would feel it the next day. Doctors kept saying it was growing pain. Went to a different doctor and found out i had kidney failure.
Im sorry you had to go through that. I want to know what about our parents is so fucked up and broken in their brains, that they think we fake these things? Who made them so angry they decided to take out their pent up shit on tiny children who are crying out in pain
Did they apologize?
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Please tell me they apologized after almost killing you
@@rougestarlight4308 they actually did and they blamed it on hospitals being so expensive
When I was 8 I told my parents that our dog had a growth on the back of his knee. They ignored me. He had to get put down because of cancer and his failing body a year later. R.I.P. Mac
That’s sad, sorry for your loss
I am so sorry for your loss R.I.P. Mac
That’s the saddest one I’ve seen, and it’s not even from the post
awh, sorry about mac, 8 months ago i lost my pupper so i feel you. but damn your parents are lazy asf if they cant be bothered to check.
@@pickledfeet77 I'm sorry for your loss.
I never understand parents who ignore their children when they say they don't feel well, or that they need to pee.
I hope I never become that parent, thats honestly disgusting and makes your kids think you don't care about them or what they have to say
I used to work as a daycare provider. Time out is an effective teaching tool when you use it wisely. Time out is usually suggested as 1 minute per year age of he child. When certain craftier types of small children earned a time out to calm down, they would suddenly have to use the bathroom.
Okie dokie. You go right ahead little buddy. We will pause your time and when you're done you can finish up time out.
Often it would take two or 3 attempts of this carrying over into the next day or eating into other activities kids enjoyed before they'd knock it off. No anger, no frustration, no unfairness. Just these are the rules, these are the consequences, I'm here if you need me no matter what. While these methods were always discussed and agreed upon by parents beforehand I had two which initially became upset when their kid told them they spent "all day" in time out. They'd be more understanding when gently explained the situation xD and encouraged not to punish the child at home but just let the child have the time to figure it out on their own.
On the flip side, it was much easier to help inform a parent when a kid had an actual issue because they knew there was no benefit in lying to me, as I had never given them reason to not believe them if they told me they were unwell.
When my own kid started not to want to go to school because of bullying I believed them immediately. When after several very serious abuses, and very serious attempts to work with the school to fix the issue, I finally told them they were either going to fix the situation or I was going to pull my child out school. They first said they saw no reason to do so and I replied "Well of course you don't see a reason. Look at how far this has gone and how ineffective your zero tolerance bullying pledges have been."
I told them either they changed the classes the bully was in, b/c THEY were the one disrupting MY child and MY child was not changing their whole life to suit the bully, and make it very clear that the bully was never again to speak or be in the same vicinity as my child, because obviously the parents of the bully, the bully themselves nor the school were capable of controlling the abuse...
or I take her out and "seek further advice" with a lawyer. They listened, but we wound up moving the next year to a much better school at the first opportunity.
That bully kid had some major abusive red flags both displayed for themselves, and inflicted on my kid. I hope to god that kid got or gets what they need to be healthy and safe, and have healthy and safe relationships in the future b/c holy shit...
@@mel7906 I think you meant to reply to someone else, I never mentioned time out
@@PoptartParasol oooh no, I meant to reply to you xD it was relating to punishing kids by ignoring them or whatnot, for having to pee or otherwise needing something. I agree with you and told a story meaning to show the differences and consequences. When adults listen to kids and meet them on their level things only really work out for the best.
@@mel7906 oh okay, right I reread it and understood. I was only confused because the context of my comment was of parents simply not believing their children when they claim they are not feeling well, or simply too busy to even walk their children to the bathroom because they are too absorbed into whatever they are doing at the moment- like the story of the girl whose mother was too busy with working out some car transaction or whatever and completely ignored her daughter when she kept repeating to her that she wanted to puke. Then only payed attention when she finally, and inevitably, puked on the floor.
but yeah, I agree with you on that last bit. I don't understand where parents get this mentality of not believing or taking their children seriously when they have not encountered any situation that would make them think their children are dishonest. This happens so often and has even happened to me several times, it gave me massive trust issues and that what I think or feel inevitably doesn't matter, feelings that I'm still trying to overcome to this day
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For years I dealt with the worst pain in my head (I still do but I have closure now that I know what exactly it is). It started in fourth grade and my mom (who is a nurse) told me they were headaches and I needed to sleep more. Understandable, that’s a common side effect of sleep deprived children. In fifth grade, I brought them up again after they still didn’t go away, this time the answer was I needed to drink water and stay off of electronics (I didn’t even own a phone). So I drank more water. Years later in eighth grade, I told my mom I think I’m having migraines and she comes right out and says “no, you aren’t having migraines. That is the worst pain you could ever feel when it comes to headaches. You just need to drink more water.”
I was taken to the doctors in ninth grade and it turns out they were migraines and I’ve been out on a strict schedule of pain medication and sleep. My mom still doesn’t listen to me when health comes into play and the same thing has happened for years now with my other health issues (my back pain, my stomach aches, my anxiety). Looking back, my mom was always a little too focused on my sister (who had ADHD, depression, and anxiety) and my brother (who had depression and anxiety and couldn’t function on his own) to notice me, someone who didn’t have any mental health issues at the time. I still try not to contact her often though, because she was always a little emotionally abusive
16:47
Honestly, this was kind of the same for me. I have extremely severe OCD, autism (didn’t know until I was 15, 4 years later, I was 11 when I tried), anxiety and depression. When I was in younger grades, 2-5 I tended to come home angry and upset and they thought I was just being a moody kid. In reality, I spent my entire day listening to my OCD and trying to keep it together and not flip out at school that I didn’t have the energy left to keep it together at home. Honestly, if I hadn’t had a meltdown in grade 5 because my OCD was stressing me so much because a girl kept scratching her head every time she walked past my desk and had dandrift fall onto it and told my mom alllll about the stressful thoughts I’ve had, we may have never realized I had OCD. While my OCD was pretty goodly understood, it wasn’t fully understood how severe it was until I tried to hang myself to stop the thoughts and fear that came with having OCD my extremely severe OCD. I was then put into a sort of mental health centre(?). I stayed there for 3 months with several other girls, and while I hated it there thanks to the doctor and therapists there I was put onto medication that made my OCD easier, and made me not want to die anymore, so that was good.
So, moral of the story: kids don’t act up for no reason, and you should listen to them when they do. Who knows, maybe your moody, angry kid actually has a (or multiple) (maybe severe) mental illness.
I was 18 (I have autism and I’m told I seem younger mentally and I really want to tell this story so shush!!) and my dad decided to finally buy a truck. I asked to go along and was pretty excited when he said yes.
We saw 2 trucks (3 technically) the first was a newer truck that was beat to shit, that a legitimate branded sales shop was willing to tell us all the problems. It was a list to say the least, but they were only charging 3k for it (which is still highway robbery, but still, listen.)
The second smelt fishy from the start. It was a back roads ‘dealership’ with like 6 vehicles on the premises. It was a 05 grey, looked pretty old, but omg what a deal, only 5k! (Third was on lot a newer truck in my favorite color, orange, that looked in better shape for 10k)
My dad’s chatting these people up like they’re his best friends, then I hear their ‘story’. That it was their teenage son’s truck but he ‘decided’ to switch to a ‘car’, and pointed to a boring, crappy beater in their yard.
Red flags all over the place. I took my dad to the side and told him in no uncertain terms that he should not get this truck. “Aww lol you just want the orange one.” I second guess myself from ptsd a lot, so I had to take a second til I said the obvious.
“Dad, there is no teenage guy in (oursmallstate) who would take a crappy beater car over a freaking truck. Something is wrong with this truck, don’t get it! Let’s get the broken one at the dealership! At least we know what’s wrong with it!” I thought he was listening to me, since we didn’t get it that day. He just said goodbyes to the owners (“oh by the way, we’re moving soon” definitely makes them that much more trustworthy, right?)
About a week later, my mom tells me he went to get the truck. I asked which truck. When she said grey, I blurted out “R U FUCKING KIDDING ME??” To which she told me to watch my language.
He expected a heroes welcome when he got back. He was all proud that he got a ‘warranty’ roped into the price and all, I just couldn’t hide it for once. I couldn’t put up a facade and I chewed him out, and after he sputtered bullshit for a bit, I told him I would absolutely tell him I told you so when this truck broke down.
Surprise, literally within the month, major repair was needed. And that ‘aMaZiNg WaRrAnTy!!!” Rejected any attempts to claim. I didn’t think to ‘claim my right’ there, but within another few months, another repair was needed, and I made sure to absolutely say this time “I. Told. You. So.”
Well done
How did he react?
@@bensoncheung2801 said I wasn’t being empathetic of course.
It’s been years and we’re fine now, but damn if I don’t see that truck and get pissed at the sight of it. Thankfully, it has been breaking down hard and they are finally thinking of selling it (and the other car) and getting vehicles we actually need, like an suv and a better truck.
@@Norinia Seems like everything related to the story is fine now, ok.
It's absolute bs how people ignore autistic pattern detection. We know when smth is up, we can tell when things are sketchy, but it's always SUCH a surprise when we're right. Smh, no accountability.
Parents always thought I was lying about forgetting I even had homework, because it's what every kid lies about. Figuring out now my own brain wanted me to forget something that ALWAYS brought me stress so I'd at least have some moments of happiness in my depressed childhood. Thanks mom and dad for making me feel like a failure for things that were completely out of my control
What sucks is that can be hard to believe for many.
Don't get me wrong I do believe you.
Weirdly, most parents aren't trained in psychology. So kids presenting with "stomach pains", or forgetting homework, or forgetting about projects, it doesn't even occur to them that said child is having problems doing this work, or getting bullied at school. In my opinion, that's a failure to educate would be parents about how kids describe their issues. But you cannot blame them for failing to read your mind, because last time I checked, telepathy and mind reading were regarded as bunk. Also, kids explain their issues in different terms, if they ever explain them at all (or their parents ever ASK them what's going on really? kind of thing). I used to try and figure out what was happening at school, with kid's friends etc. if one of my kids started wanting to be home all the time. I used to have one half day off a week, and invariably, trying to sleep in, the same kid would have teacher call and say come collect, she's not well. Every single week. For months. We sorted it out eventually, but parents get weary too and sometimes too busy to ask the right questions at the right time. You yourself probably took quite a while to figure out why you were forgetting something so "important". It's kind of unfair to expect God-like Omniscience from parents. They cannot know everything about you, despite giving birth and raising you. You're an individual with accompanying issues which can be totally unrelated to their parenting attempts. Time to grow up, and forgive your folks for being imperfect humans, don't you think?
@@Kayenne54 please don't respond to posts of someone venting about their parents with "forgive them, grow up"
You don't know their situation. Not every parent is good. There are those who mean well, but there are also a lot of abusers out there and you don't know if OP is one of them or not. For all you know OP tried to talk this out with them and they were unreasonable or even hostile about it.
There are so many parents out there that think being a parent entitles them to being worshiped and that their child is an object they own, and those parents can't be reasoned with no matter how well or how often the child tries to communicate, because some parents just don't care.
Never tell a stranger that they should forgive or rely on their parents. You don't know if those parents are abusive or not. You don't know the context of this vent.
Sometimes, "getting in trouble" means they got screamed at or beat for something they couldn't control, and because this is a stranger, you don't know that they weren't.
(I mistyped. "There are a lot of abusers out there and you don't know if OP was abused or not." RUclips won't let me edit so I suppose my shame is permanent, whoopse)
@@Kayenne54 I don't blame them for not understanding. I DO blame them for not reading the large red flags that should've been obvious to anyone who knew me. I know they tried, but they completely ignored the red flags of my depression, my inability to remember anything that my brain recognized as a threat to it's safety, my extreme eating disorder that even they admitted they noticed my eating habits changed overnight, and they never thought to take me to see any kind of professional who may understand their "lazy, failure of a child"? It goes from just missing the signs to complete denial when the flags are so in-your-face that you have to willingly come up with excuses to never go see a professional. While I understand they care for me, their actions have shown they don't know how to care for me. Doesn't help they bounced around with other mistakes with my brother and sister. Basically, I was the first attempt, sister was the second where they went too far in the other direction, and then brother got the right middle ground. Unfortunately, they never attempted to change how they interacted with my sister or I, so we just were just left to flounder in the cesspool that is life.
I was 12 back then I started to cut my wrist and arm , my mother saw it but she ignored , then I attempted to hang myself but the rope broke , I cried a lot in that age and I feel depressed since I have a friend who was toxic to me and I decided to cut her off . I told everything to my mom but all she said was "ok" it made me felt like trash and that no one cares . thankfully im fine now and trying my best .
I tried to kill myself a few times (but would chicken out). My bio dad found out, broke down crying and hugging me, said he was going to get me help. Then the next morning, it was like it never happened. He never brought it up again and it's one of the last times i ever remember him showing me compassion
I feel like parents who ignore their children's suicidal tendencies should be arrested/jailed for negligence
@@DirtyPrancing Must be those middle-aged hormones I hear so much about...
13:08 "literally incapable of empathy" Jesus Christ I was 8 when someone would be sad and I would feel bad the rest of the day
I told my teacher that I wasn't feeling well and she brushed it off saying " You were fine at recess." Not even a few seconds later after I went to sit down, my vision was blurry, I was on the ground and I had thrown up. My mom wasn't exactly in a good state at the time either and I felt bad for her.
I remember when my two brothers and myself all said that we don’t feel well. My mom was like idc ur still going to school. Then my youngest brother threw up, about 20 minutes later my younger brother threw up. It takes a lot to make me throw up ( didn’t throw up for 8 years until I went to a restaurant and was served a raw egg). Both of my brothers got to stay home while I had to sit at the front office with a fever for the whole day unable to eat any thing or be picked up by anybody and wasn’t allowed to fall asleep. Parents you don’t have to throw up to be sick. I can’t tell you how many times I was sick but was forced to go school bc I didn’t throw up. It’s kinda messed up.
This whole thing just reminds me of when my parents didn't want to believe I had depression. Took them 5 years to get me to a doctor and was put in a mental hospital.
Same. My parents kinda still don't believe me though. My sister faked a suicide attempt and was put into a mental hospital 4 separate times.
I tried seriously several times with pills, bleach, cutting, ect...but was/am told that a mental hospital and therapy were too expensive.
@@playergirl306 I bet if you actually did it, they wouldn't bother doing a funeral for you because its too expensive
@@grayscale888 I know. My dad said that he was just going to cremate me. Only $500
@@playergirl306 one of my ex friends also faked a sucide attempt its fucked up because he just acts like my deteriorating mental health is a whole joke
My mom: I’ll get you a therapist i promise
Years later:
Mom: *hasnt gotten me a therapist*
I have back problems. So I can't do stuff like running because it will end up pretty bad.
My PE teacher didnt believe me, so he forced me to do running for 10 minutes or I would fail the assignment.
I ended up almost 3 days in bed from the pain. After my best friend complained to him he ended up apologizing to me and never forced me to do anything like that again.
edit: I forgot my parents were also mad at him. My mom yelled at him
Wish I could’ve seen the yelling
@@sobbingpillow69 Wish so too. I couldn't cuz I was in bed, pff.
@@valchely2832That sucks, probably would have been entertaining
@@sobbingpillow69 Yeah probably was. But hey, at least I don't have to see that teacher and others cuz I graduated in 2019!
Now my back is doing a bit better because I lost some weight since then, still have to be careful because sometimes pain gets caused by some silly stuff, but I know how to handle it
@@valchely2832 definitely a positive! Hope life is good 👍🏻
(I say that when I don’t know what to say in a conversation, I’m very awkward so I apologize)
When I was in kindergarten I remember watching cartoons teaching about the earth and one episode was of trees, so I learned a fact about them, then on a school trip I remember we went to a museum and the guide asked the same fact I learned about trees, I answered him and one of the parents who went with us told me I was wrong, but then the guide said I was correct, that parent never apoloigized to me and that moment seriously affected me and my self-esteem a lot.
One that still bothers me was when I was 14 at Christmas. My cousin handed off her kid to me to change. I noticed tons of bruises all over him and told my parents and my aunt and uncle (her parents). They said, "he's young and bruises easily." Some of those bruises were in hard to reach areas for a child under 2. Following year we're at the kids funeral. Why? Because my cousin's live in boyfriend (not the father) had been abusing the kid and shook him to death. So much sorrow; and it could have been avoided if someone had just listened to the nerdy teen. Smh
Okay, that is traumatizing and messed up on too many levels. I hope you can recover from this. Did your relatives at least told you they're sorry they didn't believe you? Was the bastard sent to prison?
I hope you get therapy if you need it.
When I tried telling my dad that the cut on my knee needed stitches and my Dad just said ‘It’s not that deep’. It was that deep.
When I tried telling my dad I needed therapy. ‘I’m sure it’s not that bad’
When I tried telling my mum my sister just sexually assaulted me. ‘uhuh’
YOUR SISTER SEXUALLY ABUSED YOU?!
YOU HAVE to get out of there. Im so so sorry this is happening
@@iatemycat5320 it happened a while back ago and thankfully she hasn’t touched me again that way in years. I think she had an online predator telling her about that stuff as well, so I think that’s why she did it..? I don’t fully blame her for what happened, but I’m still kind of angry at my mum for ignoring me about it.
@@aphelion7756 as you should. Sexual harrasment is NO joke, your mother should have payed attention because the consequences of this are awful.
Hope your sister is ok now but I hope you are better
@@iatemycat5320 She’s doing fine now. Luckily for her my parents listened and got her out of that situation.
I’m doing alright. Granted they still ignore me quite often but I guess that’s what happens when you’re quiet
@@iatemycat5320 but thank you for caring, I hope you’re doing well yourself :)
It took me 4 months to convince my mother that the “cacti” we got from our friend that had paper flowers hot glued on the top were fake. 4 months of watering a fuckin fake cactus
Ok, thats actually funny-
@@iatemycat5320 yeah-
@@iatemycat5320 Wait, have I seen you before....
@@peskypigeonx Im adicted to youtube so most likely lmaoo
@@iatemycat5320 you eat birds HEEHEE HAHAHAHHAHHAHA YOU ARE SO CORRECT YEAH HAHAHAHAH
All throughout Middle School CPS ignored my repetitive abuse reports despite having more than enough evidence each time.
*VIsible confusion*
That’s fricked up
CPS just doesn't care, and is looking for children to exploit, not to rescue. That's why most abuse cases they look into are reported by outside observers rather than by the children themselves. If they take on children who report abuse themselves, they won't be able to take advantage of them as easily.
Omg, same.
Bruh..
I literally broke my right leg when I was just a kid and as a kid I didn't knew many things , when I told my mom that my legs hurted , my mother just said it will be ok in a few days.
Few months ago I joined dance classes and I noticed how I couldn't do a step because my right leg was hurting, I went to the doctor and he said that it seems that the bones in my leg may have dislocated
when I was 10 years old I told my mother that I wasn't seeing well and she ignored me for months, I couldn't even study because of that
we went to an ophthalmologist and he was like "Your kid need glasses...."
it was funny
We were hundreds of miles from home when my parents had a fight at the motel and we were leaving for home. No breakfast, just going home. I tried to ask a question, but was told to shut up. I tried over and over till we were 15 miles from home and one of them finally said, "What to h*ll do you want?" I replied, "Why did you leave the suitcases at the motel?" Another time I told my dad the chairs that were in the trunk were going to fall out. He said when he packed the trunk it would stay packed. Well, he found out there was a state trooper following him when the chairs fell out.
Okay, that’s funny as hell. Did you go back for your luggage? 🤣
The first one-
What happened after-?
They had to go back to the motel the following weekend.
It was when I was in 4th grade. All of a sudden, I was hit with a monsterish pain in my chest. It was so bad that I was crying. My teacher sent me to the office to call my house for someone to come get me. When my mother got there, she started calling me a liar and that the pain wasn't really as bad as I had said it was and that I just wanted to skip class. When we got home to my grandparent's house, they told me that I was lying and agreed that I was just trying to get out of school. 35 years later, I still do not let anyone know when I am in pain. If the three people that I loved betrayed me so easily, I don't trust anyone else- period. Come to find out a few years later, that it was the beginning of my life with chostocondroidis.
LOL.
I’m so sorry that that happened to you! That’s legitimately horrible! You deserved to be believed and listened to. I hope you find peace and comfort with those who will treat you like you deserve!
Also, ignore the comments troll. They’ve commented on almost every post saying awful things to get reactions out of people.
@@anderstermansen130 bro literally said lol to a person who now has chostocondroidis
same, but only the pain
@@anderstermansen130 dude what the hell
Several years ago I woke up feeling like shit. I had a throbbing headache and I told my parents I didn't feel like going to school but they made me go anyway. When I got to my first class my teacher noticed me putting my head down and reccomend I go to the nurse. The Nurse checked my temperature and turned out I had a fever. So my mom was sent to pick me up. She apologized and I got to lay in bed and watch cartoons all day.
@Tuxedo wolf I totally agree I'm 14
@Tuxedo wolf her mom is apologizing to him wtf, like stop it ain't that bad lmao
@@aestheticsvibes6435 you should still admit fault when you’ve done wrong in general. Just because they’re a kid doesn’t mean they don’t deserve apologies.
@@HackiePuffs kid should have more serious talk to their parents and parents should took kids more seriously
@@HackiePuffs its actually parents fault but that doesn't means it always the parents its their environment in general
So, I take medication for what I call mini seizures and told my mom that I needed an up in dosage. She ignored me. Couple of months later I have a full blown seizure.
The funny thing is is I was called the strict uncle but I listen to everything they had to say and I actually helped my nephew with an issue that his parents didn't pick up on. Thank God it was early on and I could do something about it at that time I ended up talking to my sister and her husband about it after I solved it and helped my nephew understand why it was bad.
This is why kids either die or grow up not trusting their parents
Yup
Taxi drive in Morocco. Felt like I was about to throw up, and told the driver many times, driver being impatient and saying "2 more minutes, 2 more minutes!" same for my Mom and Family in the taxi. Karma, cause I actually threw up, successfully ruining the taxi driver's career, ruining my big sister's pants and ruining my little sister's sleep. Serves 'em right lmao, when someone needs to throw up there's no 2 mins to wait.
Sounds like the Taxi driver was fired after cleaning the Taxi.
@@fabianmichaelgockner5988 Facts lmao! In reality my mom gave him a hefty amount of money as a tip for him to clean his car, and I had diarrhea and a bit of vomiting for a couple of days, but medicine helped greatly. I was completely fine near the end of the trip.
@@broncored Geez, not everyone know that to be aware of it.
Your kinda being a douche
@@broncored what the brick is emetophobia?
I woke up and was feeling really sick. I asked my parents to keep me off school but they sent me on the school bus anyway. It was really bumpy, and to make a long story short, the entire bus was covered in pink sick, the windows and seats and everything. This happens well over 2 years ago and they still say that it was my fault for “faking being sick all those over times” even though it was the first time I missed fucking school.
but like, how many times did u fake b4 that?
@@frde2190 i dont know if strict is the word, assholes looks better
"That incident on the bus was your fault for faking being sick all those times, we didn't know you were telling the truth!"
"But I've never faked being si-"
"I don't want to hear about it"
9:20 Good for them. Even after vomiting or passing out for half a day my mom never believed me. This is why I have an overreacting significant other. I rather they make a big deal about it than disregard it.
As a child i could read a person's "vibe" and every boyfriend she had (until current one) had a bad vibe. Everytime they ended up being abusive or just plain mean.
the one about the dad abused almost made me cry, I hate when someone tells the truth and people don't believe and one of my fears is that happening to me, which is probs why I get angry when someone asks me if I'm sure about something or if they ask many times, which can be seen as a sign of lying. ;-;
Ask them if they actually believe you or if they're just asking so many times because they're hoping they won't have to do anything to help you. It makes for an interesting turnaround, because if they don't want to deal with you, they'll immediately find someone different who will, and you'll better know who you can trust.
Having a teacher with a superiority complex, and talking to your parents about it. My math teacher in 5th grade would make fun of me and use my work with my name and all as examples of what not to do on assignments.
For the last semester of seventh grade I told my Mom almost daily that I couldn't see the board. My teachers had spoken to her several times about why I was always seated in the front of the room. On our annual road trip that year she berated me for not telling her what the road signs said:
"Pay Attention!"
"You aren't a child anymore!"
"It's right in front of you, just focus!"
My grandmother took me to Walmart, where we found out I'm halfway to legally blind, and bought me my first pair of glasses. Thanks Gramma! 😘
That happened to me too. I don't know why we had to take those eye tests in school. They never told my mom I was almost blind!
Your grandmother is better than 90% of the people I have met
@@myusernameissolonglolimgon8700
Gram's the best!
@@myusernameissolonglolimgon8700 yo, u need 911? i can help with seizures
This is why we respect grandmas here
I was in middle school at the time, and we were in the waiting room of the dentist for my brother's appointment, and I had such intense pain in my stomach I was crying and making a scene because it just hurt SO MUCH. Turns out I had had an ovarian cyst burst and that's what it felt like. Mom told me years later that she refused to acknowledge my pain was because she believed I was pregnant and in labor and was waiting for me to confess to her.
When I was younger I was in a lot of pain and was begging my parents to take me to the ER. They refused thinking I just wanted attention. I had to call the doctor myself when I was curled up in a ball crying on the floor and beg my older sister to take me to the doctor the next day. Turns out I had a really bad UTI (I hadn't had one before so had no idea what it was) and got put on medication that made me not feel anything for a few days. So many stories I could write about them...
I remember having 2 goldfish when I was younger. I named them Orangy and Browny based on there colours. Some time later, we went on some trip, leaving the goldfish at my dad's friend's house. My dad's friend bought plastic decorations to put in the tank but he forgot to sanitize it or something and basically it poisoned the water for goldfish. 2 days later, we come back home and Orangy is dead. Browny was acting weird and was seemingly trying to come out of the water. I told my mom and she said its fine(very annoyed) so just go to school. My dad was at work so I couldn't tell him and as my mom said, I was going to be late for school so I left.
Browny died that day.
This happened multiple times with many different pets I had.
I will never forgive her for these, even though she is my mom.
Your mom in a nutshell :
"Mom , he's breaking stuff"
*"That's fine"*
Leave
Would definitely not trust her around any kind of pet
I hate when parents condition their kids to follow without question (and often follow in fear), rather than teach them to form their own thoughts and grow into their own persons
Yup, that was my former mother-in-law. And when I started standing up to her she and my former wife would scream at me for questioning them.
Those are my folks, but I don't hate them. If anything, I love them. I just wish they can try to understand where I'm coming from and can try to reason with me as an adult. I am 21, I deserve to be treated like an adult!
@@FlareJollyDragoness you're better than I am, then. Just about everything I do is in spite of other people. A life of spite, however, is definitely not something I'm proud of.
@@Ilikebunnies-metoo I want to be my true self, but as long as I remain living in this strict household, I can't. I'm in the closet.
@@FlareJollyDragoness how sad it is, then, that we share the same fate at this time. Perhaps one day we shall unbind ourselves from the thorns that surround us.
15:23 “oh look at the adults walking around pretending they’re being productive”
I once slid on the gym floor. The gym teachers said I was fine dispite me saying it felt like I was stabbed. When I got home, Mom looked at my knee. It was red and swollen.
Used to have sever panic attacks and told my parents things like "everything is too loud" and "why is everything shaking?" My step-mum told my dad it was I was "watching to many videos before bed." it later turned out I had epilepsy of the frontal lobe causing disfunctions of senses. For reference these panic attacks used to also happen in class so no idea how she thought they were for watching to many videos. They could even get bad enough that I would get under my desk and cry for 30 minute periods or wake up and be breathing so fast I was close to suffocation. I am now clear and it has been cured but it was horid
Now realise why my mum is so over protective over minor things
Me and my mama were at some fossil museum in Alabama, I was 4 at the time and REALLY loved this one show called "Dinosaur Train"
my mama points up at a fossil of a winged dinosaur hanging from the ceiling and says, "Look *name*! It's a teranadon!(main character from the show)"
I simply tell her, "no it's not, that's pterodactyl. It has a shorter beek, longer wings, and a stubby tail."
She gives me this look like I had no clue what I was saying, and just tried to correct me. I still said she was wrong. Eventually, she reads the description of the dinosaur; pterodactyl. I was right, It was a fvcking pterodactyl.
i remember that show, my dad would try to correct me each time i said the name of one i saw but i was always right
ong the was obsessed with that show-
I was also obsessed with that show lol
I know the show too!
I can understand some things going ignored because sometimes the kid is on bs, but if it's something serious like I don't know, CANCER, wouldn't it be in your best interest to check it out just to be safe? You really have nothing to lose and a whole lot to gain.
Told my mom at a buffet i was full. She didnt listen, what did that get her? A 6 year old kid puking all over the buffet table infront of everyone who just heard the kid whine aloud to their mom that they coikdnt down another bite a few minutes earlyer
11:33 I relate to this so much! I have moderate to severe hearing loss. I was the one that figured it out but my parents thought I was ignoring them on purpose or having “selective hearing” I always had the TV up extremely loud because I couldn’t hear it if it was turned down (this annoyed everyone in the house) my parents would call me to come down for dinner at least 5 times, then get pissed off and storm up the stairs, demanding an answer for why I wasn’t coming down for dinner and all I could say was, “wait- you called me? I didn’t hear you.. I- I swear I didn’t…” They of course, didn’t believe me. It wasn’t until I broke down saying, “mommy, daddy, I promise that I’m not ignoring you I seriously can not hear you!!!” I was in literally TEARS, so that’s when it finally clicked and my mom said, “okay, let’s get you scheduled for a hearing test.” Fast forward to the day of the hearing test, I’m in a sound proof booth doing all these things were I have to raise my hand if I hear a whistle or beep or noise in general, repeat words that a man says, all that jazz. They finally send me back to the room to wait for my results with my mom. We’re sitting there anxiously and nervous until the lady walks in and sits down all serious like and says, “Mrs. Clark, you daughter has moderate to severe hearing loss. Had it not have been caught she would’ve been deaf not even a week later.” My mom went ballistic, “what do you mean? She.. she wasn’t lying? She was.. she was telling the truth.. this whole time?” The doctor nodded her head, my mom started crying and she looked at me with such sadness that it hurt me. “I’m so sorry Alena, I- I should’ve listened to you. I can’t believe I- I’m such a horrible mom…” and she’s going on and on and on so eventually I grab her and we hug for what seems like forever but I guess my mom was so very disappointed in herself as a mother for not listening to her child. From that day forward she has never assumed that I was lying or faking anything.
So the moral of the story is, not all children are liars, and not all children tell the truth either. Regardless of that, listen to your kids.
I've got a good story for this.
I have severe anxiety and depression, plus good ol PTSD. And that's just the mental stuff, there's also Ehlers Danlos Syndrome Hypermobilty, Postural Orthostatic Trachycardia Syndrome, and more. My primary care doctor diagnosed me with anxiety and then refused to believe that anything else was wrong. She eventually told "You are producing these symptoms for attention and to get out of school, it's in your head."
I'll never forget that quote because even after 7 suicide attempts, she still says it's just anxiety. She also said my strep throat was "anxiety", my ankles dislocating (caused by hEDS) was just "growing pains", and that my passing out (caused by POTS) was just "panic attacks".
I've got all the symptoms of ADHD and possibly bipolar but they won't take me to see anyone, even as I struggle to keep up with schoolwork. Probably because my dad will then have to confront all the same things about himself.
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD at age 35. Somehow I was able to scrape by in school and earn a degree and have a decent job. Sad part is, if my stupid parents had listened when the school told them I should see a psychiatrist, they did nothing about it. Granted, this was the mid 90's and there wasn't a lot of information available about ADHD especially how it presents in little girls. I figured out I probably had ADHD a couple years ago after watching a Netflix documentary and I advocated for myself and got tested. My point is, its never too late. Once you're older and are able to, go get a diagnosis right away. I am so sorry you're suffering. Best of luck to you.
This. This is happening to me right now and I don't know what to do
@@MizJuli23 Thanks dude.
@@Thebigcoffee It really sucks. Hopefully we'll both sort it out eventually. Best of luck.
i have autism and every adhd symptom + mild tourretes or shit then meh parents expect meh to have an 85 (bare minimum 75) in every class. im not an academic person at all lul soooo uh ye getting an 85 is rly hard
Was told I 'didn't actually feel that way' when I tried to tell my mom I had depression.
Twelve years later mom tells me she's finally getting treated for depression. Turns out it's prevalent in her side of the family.
I'm the worst, I would be so happy to say I told you so.
I suspect that she was trying to deny her own condition as well as yours there.
I had a warts on my feet and something happened that I got gangrene. Apparently me crying and not being able to walk is just attention seeking, when I went for another wart treatment(by myself and I was 11 mind you) the doctor sent me to the ER and they had to hunt down my mom.
My sister was cutting her hair, and would come to our parents saying I did it. After she ran back to her room, she would cut it again. I told my parents the truth and they thought I was lying, and she did this four times in a row. I got sick of it and just sat in the same room as my parents knowing she would come back, and she tried to lie again. The found out the truth, barely apologized, and let her get off scotch free.
I am very sorry that your dealt with that
I bet your sister is bald now after cutting her hairs just to lies to your parents
"my mum said 'I can't deal with this right now'..."
I can relate to this on a personal level. I have this experience in many areas of my life daily.