I'm listening to this song, alone, stoned, deciding at this point it's over, enough is enough, I don't want to live like this. After 11 months I did it again but I promise myself that I'll get up, life puts heavier and heavier burdens on my shoulders but I won't fucking give up. My heart goes out to all addicted people.
Can I just take a moment to talk about how well this video was made. It’s a simple concept but it really brings the feeling and theme of the song out really well. Masterpiece
Dude u got me realizing. I used to listen to this when I was a kid and sing to it thinking it’s a cool fun song but now I just be laying on da bathroom floor n shit
This song randomly popped into my head today. Never seen the video before, decided to give it a watch… and cried. This does a beautiful job of capturing how intertwined addiction is with grief/trauma.
@@sallybaaby6165 nah 5 and 6 y.o me would have just been quiet liste ing to the song Currently? I completly understand this stuff life is screwed up big time and i learned that at an early age
We have to learn how to truly live in the moment. Not thinking about the past or worrying about the future. It's not easy, but when done right it's very powerful.... Manifest the life you want.
Being stuck in an abusive relationship for a decade then getting back with the love of your life for the last 14 years and yall decide fuck everything else, yall love each other and are going to be together. He doesn't care that you have 2 kids with abusive baby bf of 10 years. He has loved you this whole time and he knows you love him from your multiple confessions over the last decade after you realized he was the most genuine person you had ever met and how you wish you neverlet him go but life kept you away from each other for most of the last 14 years except a few brief reunifications before he had to leave again. Now that he's back for good he wants to marry you and be a dad to your 2 kids and be a family together and have more kids together one day. Your kids love him. After 2 blissful months back together and you both feeling things you didn't know you could possibly feel again in your lives and being the happiest you've been.. probably ever in your life (and you know you both feel the same way because you have such a perfect way of communicating with each other and understanding the other person that you've never experienced with anyone in your whole life. Someone that just gets you and completely accepts you even though your not the same shape you used to be. Every time you make love its better than the previous time which would seem impossible after a certain point since it already was the best you've ever had from the start of getting back together but it really does. Everything the other one says about experiences of being back together is exactly how the both were already feeling.) [Please excuse my grammar] after 2 blissful months back together he dies at the age of 35.. so unexpectedly and in such a fucked up way and even over a year later there's no real answers as to exactly what happened and the obvious killer still not charged with anything.. I lost the most beautiful human being I've ever met in my life.. he was one of those rare people that radiated a positive energy and love for life that it was impossible to not notice to everyone he met... Now he's gone forever and I'm still balling my eyes out randomly from hearing certain songs.. Forget the past and live for today? I try but its easier said than done for some people..
When this song VERY first came out I got addicted to crack and use to jam this shit like no tomorrow. 7 years later and I'm listening to this sober and I'm just so proud of how far I've came as a person, and how I'm not sitting in a crack house wasting my life away. Still rebuilding my whole life but man its so much better than what its been. It gets better no matter how dark it gets. Keep going.
I'm going to be 28 in a few days, I've never once been high in my life, I've never drank alcohol even a single time, and I've never been through a bad breakup that had me feeling this type of way. I can't relate to this song in any way, but damn if I don't sometimes feel like I can understand it just a little bit with how expressive Tove Lo sings about it.
@@anthonyochinero854 Most of my friends are stoners, and several of them are psychonauts too and like to use things like magic mushrooms or LSD. I've never had a dislike or distaste for drug usage, I just never really felt curious about trying it myself, and because they're expensive and can cause health problems, I just never really bothered to try them. The only one I have an objection to is alcohol. I just really dislike being around people who drink a lot.
I'm 32, I don't drink, I've never smoked in my life, I've never done drugs either so I probably cannot relate but I can relate to this feeling of wanting to numb all the pain after a breakup. In my case it wasn't a breakup, it was a broken marriage. And it was my choice too and I knew I had to make that choice because there wasn't anything else left to save or do really. The sad part was however toxic he was for me, I missed him back then. I felt so broken. I wanted to numb my brain...erase allllll the memories we had. I just couldn't. I kept wishing for memory loss. That's how low I was at. I didn't want anything from life those first two months apart. I cut off all communication and deleted my social media accounts. I recreated them but didn't want friends and I hadly used them. But I know I couldn't even STAY inside my own room. I had to literally do a revamp and change things up...taking my clothes from the room felt suffocating. Waiting inside the room was worse. It took me Atleast two months and a LOT OF TALKING AND VENTING proper venting to get over it. To realize how toxic he really was for me and it was his loss not mine. So glad it's over.
@@anthonyochinero854 Hey thanks, I appreciate that. I have absolutely nothing against drug usage; most of my friends are stoners or psychonauts. I just never did it myself out of fear. I'm so afraid of becoming addicted that I haven't ever tried using anything. My one true addiction though is sugar. I'm such a hopeless sweets junkie. But I'm also skinny af so you can't even tell lol
Melanie Godoy Personnaly, I think that loosing your loved one, especially if its your first one, is the deepest form of loss a human being can feel. Like the feeling is barely describable. Just kinda feels like your sun left and youre left there all alone to slowly rott away. You love that person so much that you can't get over her/him.
didn't realize how relatable this song would be one day update 2 years later I've moved on and life's actually good lmao i got jacked and got a v pretty loyal gf I'm just saying this so that whoever is in my that position 2 years back don't stop working on yourself be patient and keep fighting!!! cheers to better days!!
Flashbacks to when a six year old me would find my sister crying to this song after a breakup, and now being able to feel the same comfort this song gave her
@@apmaz6112 mature people can handle this types of situation due to their experience in life....but for teenagers it really hard cause they don't know enough about how life goes and how to handle different situations... I can see that in my little sister... I was the same when i was in her age So you don't have to laugh on teenagers :)
I hate to be the bearer of bad news..but the older u get the more songs like this hit u in the gut. The lyrics are so TRUE. The older u get the darker life is. Welcome to the beginning of getting jaded.
Reminds me of how I felt after my 6year old son died. Cried every day at some point for 10 years. Drove home from hospital (2 hour drive) with my wife in total silence. We cried in the driveway for an hour before we could get out of the car. Did not think the marriage would survive. 21 years an 2 kids later.... still cry about once a week. Will never get over it.
I never considered this song to be about someone dying tbh. I mean, it definitely could be about death, but it always hit me as a breakup song. Definitely resonated with me after a non-mutual breakup.
It's about death for sure. If someone is suffering this hard over a break up, like "all my life" then they need serious help. Grieving people need help as well but most don't seek it. It makes a big difference when you know that person is gone forever. No FB, no IG, no bumping into them. It's over and you'll never see them and neither of you wanted this.
This song is brilliant. It hides so much darkness and sadness with catchy lyrics and danceable beats. It is a very raw exploration of heartbreak, loss, drugs/sex addiction. There is nothing sexy or glamorous about it, but the unwary listener may be completely oblivious to how dark this song truly is. If you have seen the movie "Shame" with Michael Fassbender, you know what I'm talking about.
What’s pretty cool is that the album that this is about is about a relationship. The start, the butterfly period, the deterioration, and then, the destruction of both the relationship, and the people in it. This song is part of that final act. It’s pretty cool that the album goes from that bright, pop sounding songs, with that sexy and glamorous feel to it and slowly drops to darkness. It’s this song where I caught it.
This song is just freaking awesome, particularly because I heard it for the first time under after a break-up. And I know exactly what's like to try to numb the pain through getting high... then, again. I've grown from it. Like, why destroy yourself for someone who doesn't love you back?!
I heard this song a couple years ago and just thought it was cool. Now I'm listening to it again. Song hits differently when you understand the lyrics and actually feel what's being said in the song.
that's where we are nowadays in the music industry, sadly. there are tons of examples like this. just (an)other one: 'i follow rivers'... heart breaking original version with so much tension and feeling, but ya know whut? naaa we don't need stuff like that make our brains go dump with a pure four quarter time bassdrum beat and neverchanging melodies ._.
my opinion is, that if you're doin' it properly, remixing and sampling is okay. it's just sad when people remix stuff and let music losse it's heart. it's different for people like Lil Peep for example, cause he took things and added his own ideas and creativity to it making it something completely new... there's an sample i think it wasn't even cleared (The Postal Service - Such Great Heights) in 'white tee'. that's something different in my point of view.
This song came out just as my journey through addiction began. This is one of the songs that helped me through the darkest time of my life. I have been sober for 14 months now and I am very grateful for music like this. If you’re struggling with addiction I want to tell you that recovery is possible and that you are not alone. You are worth it right now, just the way you are. Be kind to yourself. You’ve got what it takes to get out of that cycle ❤️
@@notedonconsole2044everybody quits at the start!Its not the getting off,it’s the staying off the drugs that’s the hard part!Living without drugs after using them to basically hide from the world is very hard to come to terms with again!This is why so many fail at the start,it’s such a fright!It takes some getting used to!Its a very hard thing to do and there’s not many people can do it!You don’t see many old junkies,do you?Thats a sad fact but so true!🇬🇧💯👌🏻
yea but without partying and weed distracting me i’d be doing worse things so as of now i’ll just deal with it and continue to lie to myself that i’m ok
This song is not sending out the wrong example, it's art. I wouldn't personally get high to ignore my troubles but I love how this song makes me feel, like I can somehow feel the reasoning behind why this person is getting high and shit. Ahh don't listen to me people, I'm high as fucckkk.
Cioaca Cristian i think some guys who listen to this might see her as a kind of surrogate X girl friend who is in pain ... most people between 15 and 35 deal with trouble like this... it has been going on for 150 years.... i would not like it to change ..... my x ran away from home because of her mother .... she was this kind of person .... i hope she is dealing with change in a good way ...
It's really awesome that you managed to stay away from these habits like drugs and addictions, i hope the people around you can see you as inspiration and look for art, music and other non destructive ways of explore their own feelings.
15 year old me blasted this in my room and filmed myself crying and being dramatic lmaooo Now 21 year old me sheds a tear knowing I actually ended up going through a situation fitting to the lyrics
Anyone else get this mysterious, eerie feeling from this song that just makes you think about looking out the window in the night with the lit up city looking back at you?
The saddest thing is that in the shots where she's just walking or with her friends, you can still see a falter in her smile. like the person she's trying to not think about is still in her mind no matter what she does. really just captures what it's really like trying to move on from someone:(
The reality of what happens when you lose someone you can't get over. You do everything to try to get over them but end up losing yourself in the process.
That loss of ones self.. Is only a portal to true self discovery and evolution. If you can break it before it breaks you Pain is the single most important emotion. Without pain all other emotions would be but a nothing more than a high the masses ingest like a trend untill they fizzle and forever remain unnapreciated
It's what I'm going through rn I haven't lost him exactly I just don't know how to tell him I love him and if he doesn't love me that I would like to have a friendship like we use to have because I don't want to lose him 😭
Actually i think this song is about her running away from tge memories, but in driver license it's about her reminding herself of the memories even though it gives her more pain
@@NatKhatoon The only reason they’re comparing the two songs is because they were both really popular when they first came out. They’re not saying they have the same meaning lmao.
I honestly got really sad and emotional watching this music video. This song is simple yet raw. It's melancholic in its brutally honest depiction of heartbreak and depression. Now watching the video that goes with the song adds something even more devastating and lonelier to this already gloomy song... Watching Tove emotionally break down in certain parts of this video was so saddening because I know what it's like to break down in the dead of night all alone, and not have anyone hear you, and wanting to always separate yourself from reality because your life feels like shit.
My daughter said she's really happy to have a dad in her life. And looking at all these poor girls in the comments who letting it slip how they f-d up their relationships bad, I'm double glad God put it to me to rise to the occasion.
i remember this song being a vibe when i was younger and didn't understand the lyrics, now i understand, and it's still a vibe, but for different reasons 😂
I'm 12 yet I understand this. XD I guess I'm "old enough" to know that she had to stay high to get the man she loved the most off her mind. She had to hang out with others to forget about him while she was slowly falling apart inside. It's pretty messed up once you get the true meaning of the song, and watch all those people make-out with her like that in the sex clubs.
Carlos Velasquez sane here. When I was 17 during my high school years, I’ve been always wondering what this song was truly about until 5 YEARS LATER!!! XD
At that time, this song remained on the charts for weeks and you could listen to it anywhere, listening to it today makes you immerse yourself in moments lived in 2014.
@@viktoriaszilvasi I understand but why Tibetian monk lol Its literally rarest situation in life n she would not be so sad cause he didnt even left her for someone.
this song isnt just about the sex and drugs. there is a deeper meaning of numbing the pain of missing someone you desperately need in your life. numbing a pain thats so severe without numbing it you may just die. i understand it.
This song reminds me of losing 3 loved ones in a span of two and a half years. I was just a teenager at the time. The losses killed me and I spiraled into opioid and alcohol addiction as a way to numb the pain. The lyrics "I gotta stay high all the time to keep you off my mind" definitely resonated with me. I'm doing better these days, it's been about a decade or more now but the pain and grief will always be there and I still cry about missing them like I am tonight listening to this.
@@mepsiemopar8991 im sorry bro you had to go through something like that it will be hard but keep your head high you can get through it never stop believing
I loved this song when it released, back when I was a teenager. Now being a young adult, I love it so much more. Revisiting this after so long, the lyrics relate to me so much more, and I understand them completely. 😭
man.. ever been to that point when reality is so far behind you in your depression where you play Russian Roulette standing on a bridge to see if you jump or stay? Pretty fucking awful.
LETRA: I eat my dinner in my bathtub Then I go to sexclubs Watching freaky people gettin' it on It doesn't make me nervous If anything I'm restless Yeah, I've been around and I've seen it all I get home, I got the munchies Binge on all my Twinkies Throw up in the tub Then I go to sleep And I drank up all my money Days get kinda lonely You're gone and I gotta stay High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Spend my days locked in a haze Trying to forget you babe I fall back down Gotta stay high all my life To forget I'm missing you Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Pick up daddies at the playground How I spend my daytime Loosen up the frown, Make them feel alive I'll make it fast and greasy I'm on my way to easy You're gone and I gotta stay High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Spend my days locked in a haze Trying to forget you babe I fall back down Gotta stay high all my life To forget I'm missing you Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Staying in my play pretend Where the fun, it got no end Ooh Can't go home alone again Need someone to numb the pain Ooh Staying in my play pretend Where the fun, it got no end Ooh Can't go home alone again Need someone to numb the pain Ooh You're gone and I gotta stay High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh High all the time To keep you off my mind Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Spend my days locked in a haze Trying to forget you babe I fall back down Gotta stay high all my life To forget I'm missing you Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh Oh-oh
This song may be 10 yrs old but its impact on me only grows stronger with time. Especially when you face different kinds of loss. It still has me on chokehold.
Like you can HEAR the pain and sorrow in her voice. especially during and after the "staying in my play pretend" part. so heart felt and real. I love this artist so much!
Went through it a decade ago and feeling that dead inside then I would do all kinds to feel alive again. Turns out scar tissue itches always from time to time but sure toughens the skin.
I just really like the song, mostly because this is what I was like in my early twenties and now I'm 30 getting my self on track studying to be a civil engineer (loving it BTW) and not letting myself get in this state again.
wow thats so deep you must be like 13 now you are so old and wise please tell me more about all of life you have experienced and how you can most definitely relate to this song :|
4 years ago I listened to this with my girlfriend, I thought it was a catchy song. We recently broke up and I accidentally came across this song and realized that it is depressing.
So, basically quarantine has bought everyone to old legendary songs. The song lyrics weren't this depressing when we were younger now I clearly understand it
Shit man, all these people saying they were 11 when they heard this. I was 21 when I heard this and knew full well what this song meant and it still cuts me. Felt it then and I feel it now, love this tune
When I first heard this song which was in the family van when I was a kid with my siblings on our way to school I thought it was the weirdest song ever, but coming back to it years later halfway through my teen years and understanding the lyrics, it’s just so sad. I can really feel this song man.
Thank you. I hope so too. It is the hardest thing to loose your spouse. It is even harder when you have done everything possible to get them to stop using just for them to pass in the end and leave you to pick up the pieces of a new life. And the new life is empty and horrible. Waking up each morning to a empty bed breaks my heart over and over. That is also the place I found her the last time. I hate that so many people are selfish and can’t listen to words of love ones that often say you must stop. Addicts do not see the pain caused. My LW also left me a solo father. She abandoned, not only me, but her 3 year old son. She put alcohol over everything.
I don't think people understand the meaning to the video. This song is about a girl who has suffered a major loss or break up. As she says, "Can't go home alone again, need someone to numb the pain." and "You're gone and I gotta stay high, all the time, to forget i'm missing you." She's trying to deal with her problems with drugs, or sex. She's technically trying to deal with the loss. And people are underestimating this video. I think it's quite creative, with the camera views and the constant changing scenes. It's showing how she is dealing with the pain, or how this is turning into an average day for her. And this is a normal thing. People find a way to deal with a loss, it could be watching movies or eating ice cream. Or crying. And some people turn to drugs and sex to distract them, as crying can hurt. People hurt. This video is exactly what the song means, I see nothing wrong with it.
When me and my x split she had already been cheating so they moved in together with my kids.. I then went down one darkest roads of my life. I stayed high all I mean all the time for a year straight. I had always been messing up on drugs but when she left after being with her for 16 years ...I swear that it had dazzled and dizzied me almost to a point of nomadic madness ...sometimes I think I enjoyed the pain still not sure to this day why that is. I think Eminem referenced it best in his song love the way you lie when he says the more I suffer the more I love it. Anyways break ups are a mofo I first heard this song in rehab that's how bad the break up got for me.. Six months in rehab. Still bad ass song. True to the core
5 years ago and the memories are still crystal clear.
felt that
"Crystal"- yeah ..
Yakkis MD Nice to see you taking notes on words you find difficult... Must be very hard to understand huh
@@tab6203 sorry please don't take me serious. It was just a bad joke.
Yakkis MD And I oop- sorry I thought you were being rude and we don’t tolerate that 🤠🗿
This song hits harder when you grew up realising the lyrics "gotta stay high all my life to forget im missing you" :(
Im saying
Yeah......
Yes My Friend
wait those r the lyrics... well fawk 😃
Forget i'm missing me
2022 and this is still blasting through my speakers
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Hi
Same
I'm listening to this song, alone, stoned, deciding at this point it's over, enough is enough, I don't want to live like this. After 11 months I did it again but I promise myself that I'll get up, life puts heavier and heavier burdens on my shoulders but I won't fucking give up. My heart goes out to all addicted people.
you’ll accomplish your goal I promise! I’m wishing you the best on your journey❤
All love over here , struggling with the same thing . Shit rough right now but we got this . Stay up ❤️💯
@@Kishpish12 ❤️
@@JordanBrassell ❤️
things will get better!! all we need is a little of confirmation that we can embrace future and need no one to be ok ;)
This really hits harder when you come back to it 9 years later.
boujeefer so true it’s more Relatable now
Especially when you been through stuff similar
Oh Yeah for sure
Especially when you’re sitting here at 4:30 AM just chilling listening to music on your old iPod
Facts
Can I just take a moment to talk about how well this video was made. It’s a simple concept but it really brings the feeling and theme of the song out really well. Masterpiece
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when music videos were everything
little did we know, once we got older this song would represent us all
i use to listen to this when I was little and now I’m a depressed pothead, sad that I can relate to this
Dude u got me realizing. I used to listen to this when I was a kid and sing to it thinking it’s a cool fun song but now I just be laying on da bathroom floor n shit
*I’m in this picture and I don’t like it*
If you don't conform to society's--familys, then ITS THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY YOLO! DRINK UP!💔🖤💪
I respect this comment
anyone in dec 2024 ?
❤️🤘😊
Me
I am here
Yupp
sadly, yes...
this hits harder when you come back to it 5 years later
ikr
Tru
It's TRUE. When I was younger I didnt pay attention, but now I know what's going on.
Adolescence sucks ass :(
So tru
This song randomly popped into my head today. Never seen the video before, decided to give it a watch… and cried. This does a beautiful job of capturing how intertwined addiction is with grief/trauma.
Ditto. ❤
Me too 😢
this song is somehow my childhood because everywhere I went I heard it. Radio, store..etc.
Me too.😢😢
It made me cry too
12 year old me would’ve never thought this would be the story of our life
Ana Madrid growing up was a scam 😭
i feel you ana
Would love to give a like but it's 420 so I can't
@@sallybaaby6165 nah 5 and 6 y.o me would have just been quiet liste ing to the song
Currently? I completly understand this stuff life is screwed up big time and i learned that at an early age
I’m 12 and it’s my life
10 years past and the pain still lasts
I cant stop crying 😢😢
At some point you gotta late it go, focus on the future man & live with it
We have to learn how to truly live in the moment. Not thinking about the past or worrying about the future.
It's not easy, but when done right it's very powerful.... Manifest the life you want.
Being stuck in an abusive relationship for a decade then getting back with the love of your life for the last 14 years and yall decide fuck everything else, yall love each other and are going to be together. He doesn't care that you have 2 kids with abusive baby bf of 10 years. He has loved you this whole time and he knows you love him from your multiple confessions over the last decade after you realized he was the most genuine person you had ever met and how you wish you neverlet him go but life kept you away from each other for most of the last 14 years except a few brief reunifications before he had to leave again. Now that he's back for good he wants to marry you and be a dad to your 2 kids and be a family together and have more kids together one day. Your kids love him. After 2 blissful months back together and you both feeling things you didn't know you could possibly feel again in your lives and being the happiest you've been.. probably ever in your life (and you know you both feel the same way because you have such a perfect way of communicating with each other and understanding the other person that you've never experienced with anyone in your whole life. Someone that just gets you and completely accepts you even though your not the same shape you used to be. Every time you make love its better than the previous time which would seem impossible after a certain point since it already was the best you've ever had from the start of getting back together but it really does. Everything the other one says about experiences of being back together is exactly how the both were already feeling.) [Please excuse my grammar] after 2 blissful months back together he dies at the age of 35.. so unexpectedly and in such a fucked up way and even over a year later there's no real answers as to exactly what happened and the obvious killer still not charged with anything..
I lost the most beautiful human being I've ever met in my life.. he was one of those rare people that radiated a positive energy and love for life that it was impossible to not notice to everyone he met...
Now he's gone forever and I'm still balling my eyes out randomly from hearing certain songs..
Forget the past and live for today? I try but its easier said than done for some people..
“The Order” is genius for incorporating this song.
Yeah
Definitely a high point for the series. Time to suffer the wait of the next season.
Facts
I think the same
I just comment that lol the order made me like this song again
It took everyone five years to realize how deep this is
The Soat hahaha
ikrr???lol
Deep? Lolz... I think it is called be in your twenties. Well, except the sex clubs...that shit is just nasty, but whatev's you do you booberry crunch.
YUP
The Soat It took me five days to find this comment
When this song VERY first came out I got addicted to crack and use to jam this shit like no tomorrow. 7 years later and I'm listening to this sober and I'm just so proud of how far I've came as a person, and how I'm not sitting in a crack house wasting my life away. Still rebuilding my whole life but man its so much better than what its been. It gets better no matter how dark it gets. Keep going.
I’m proud of you
If I may ask. how do you feel about the new direction the US going, when it comes to legalization of it? Are you in favor of it or against it?
👊
I am so proud of u!! keep it up
Good work, brother, wish you a bright future
Can't believe she's already 37..I'm in early 40s.Time flies so fast!
I know it's crazy!! I was an 80's bb too. 👍🏼♥️
this song becomes sadder with every passing year wtf
For sure and the older I get
Better*
True
heartbreakingly sad. Especially her face just makes this so real and relatable
omg yes
Whoever had the idea to direct this video like this deserves a medal
So, basically quarantine has bought everyone to old legendary songs.
mhm
exsraz yep
Yessir
Yeah 😳💯
facts
I'm going to be 28 in a few days, I've never once been high in my life, I've never drank alcohol even a single time, and I've never been through a bad breakup that had me feeling this type of way. I can't relate to this song in any way, but damn if I don't sometimes feel like I can understand it just a little bit with how expressive Tove Lo sings about it.
Mind boggling to me. Those things have made up most of my life! My hat is off to you sir/mam. I wish you a good life
@@anthonyochinero854 Most of my friends are stoners, and several of them are psychonauts too and like to use things like magic mushrooms or LSD. I've never had a dislike or distaste for drug usage, I just never really felt curious about trying it myself, and because they're expensive and can cause health problems, I just never really bothered to try them. The only one I have an objection to is alcohol. I just really dislike being around people who drink a lot.
I'm 32, I don't drink, I've never smoked in my life, I've never done drugs either so I probably cannot relate but I can relate to this feeling of wanting to numb all the pain after a breakup. In my case it wasn't a breakup, it was a broken marriage. And it was my choice too and I knew I had to make that choice because there wasn't anything else left to save or do really. The sad part was however toxic he was for me, I missed him back then. I felt so broken. I wanted to numb my brain...erase allllll the memories we had. I just couldn't. I kept wishing for memory loss. That's how low I was at. I didn't want anything from life those first two months apart. I cut off all communication and deleted my social media accounts. I recreated them but didn't want friends and I hadly used them. But I know I couldn't even STAY inside my own room. I had to literally do a revamp and change things up...taking my clothes from the room felt suffocating. Waiting inside the room was worse. It took me Atleast two months and a LOT OF TALKING AND VENTING proper venting to get over it. To realize how toxic he really was for me and it was his loss not mine. So glad it's over.
@@anthonyochinero854 Hey thanks, I appreciate that. I have absolutely nothing against drug usage; most of my friends are stoners or psychonauts. I just never did it myself out of fear. I'm so afraid of becoming addicted that I haven't ever tried using anything. My one true addiction though is sugar. I'm such a hopeless sweets junkie. But I'm also skinny af so you can't even tell lol
This song hits SO DAMN HARD. Is like about a whole other level of loss, deeper and darker than just a break up. Is so good and so damn sad.
Yep. Brought me to tears.
It shows how lonely we are
Shit so true😐
Melanie Godoy Personnaly, I think that loosing your loved one, especially if its your first one, is the deepest form of loss a human being can feel. Like the feeling is barely describable. Just kinda feels like your sun left and youre left there all alone to slowly rott away. You love that person so much that you can't get over her/him.
Loss... hahahah
didn't realize how relatable this song would be one day
update 2 years later
I've moved on and life's actually good lmao i got jacked and got a v pretty loyal gf
I'm just saying this so that whoever is in my that position 2 years back don't stop working on yourself be patient and keep fighting!!!
cheers to better days!!
It sucks
fr
Exactly lol
Literally
Yeah he or she dont do shit but just break your heart for no damn reason.
2015 - enjoying to this song
2020 - becomes the person in the song
Exactly
Yeah at some deep point
When you are a kid, you enjoy the music.
When you grew up, you understand the lyrics and the real meaning of the music.
stay strong
True:(
I couldn't believe how old this song was once I found it!!😅 Some songs will touch every generation 😅
This song isn't just sad. It actually hurts.
Listen this version 1930 its better
That's how you know a song is great
Im the 2001th comment
This song is for hos that use a heartbreak to be a slut
bro youre like 10 shush
Love how this can be depressing and a party song at the same time
Ikr 😂
Most blackout drunk party people I've seen are depressed all the time.
@@navketjha6269 hahaha
It only can be party song mindless ppl who don't listent to the lyrice
Powerful track, She wasn't just singing this, she was going through all the emotions, she's definitely been there.
Flashbacks to when a six year old me would find my sister crying to this song after a breakup, and now being able to feel the same comfort this song gave her
Damn ! It's deep .
Chill you are 13
@@apmaz6112 14* sorry for sharing about my life and how this song brings me comfort when I’m not exactly having the best day
@@apmaz6112 mature people can handle this types of situation due to their experience in life....but for teenagers it really hard cause they don't know enough about how life goes and how to handle different situations...
I can see that in my little sister... I was the same when i was in her age
So you don't have to laugh on teenagers :)
p
This song clearly represents the dark side of falling in love , relationships.
Amazingly portrayed
The song lyrics weren't this depressing when we were younger now I clearly understand it
it sounds the same same to me tbh.
Yes is verry nice song 7 years
same-
I hate to be the bearer of bad news..but the older u get the more songs like this hit u in the gut. The lyrics are so TRUE. The older u get the darker life is. Welcome to the beginning of getting jaded.
The amount of songs that Hit differently as an adult blows me away everytime, when i was younger most of what was said went over my head.
0:17 I love your songs❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
so real pookie
i used to listen to this song n sing it like i was a drug addict little did i know i will get to experience it.
I hope your doing better now. Stay strong 💗
Same but I also added so many “imaginary” things.
That's deep ❤
Damn that sucks
I’m addicted to heroine because it’s the only thing that’s there for me
Reminds me of how I felt after my 6year old son died. Cried every day at some point for 10 years. Drove home from hospital (2 hour drive) with my wife in total silence. We cried in the driveway for an hour before we could get out of the car. Did not think the marriage would survive. 21 years an 2 kids later.... still cry about once a week. Will never get over it.
😓
this needs more likes
I know it’s not much but 🤍
Omg, take care of yourselfs! You are so strong!
@@st7rlette likes won’t change anything, we can give our support in silence
I never considered this song to be about someone dying tbh. I mean, it definitely could be about death, but it always hit me as a breakup song. Definitely resonated with me after a non-mutual breakup.
Think that's why it resonates with so many people, because if you've lost someone you can relate to the feeling of loss, hopelessness & despair
Damn!!! That's deep 😭
@@ViperousBoss yep yep
Agree
It's about death for sure. If someone is suffering this hard over a break up, like "all my life" then they need serious help. Grieving people need help as well but most don't seek it. It makes a big difference when you know that person is gone forever. No FB, no IG, no bumping into them. It's over and you'll never see them and neither of you wanted this.
This song is brilliant. It hides so much darkness and sadness with catchy lyrics and danceable beats. It is a very raw exploration of heartbreak, loss, drugs/sex addiction. There is nothing sexy or glamorous about it, but the unwary listener may be completely oblivious to how dark this song truly is. If you have seen the movie "Shame" with Michael Fassbender, you know what I'm talking about.
What’s pretty cool is that the album that this is about is about a relationship. The start, the butterfly period, the deterioration, and then, the destruction of both the relationship, and the people in it. This song is part of that final act. It’s pretty cool that the album goes from that bright, pop sounding songs, with that sexy and glamorous feel to it and slowly drops to darkness. It’s this song where I caught it.
Well....THATS not what i see....LOVE THIS SONG...VERY POWERFUL ...LISTEN TOO IT ALL THE TIME
Desde que salió... sigue siendo mi obsesión... no sé como explicar lo triste pero INCREÍBLE que es esta canción al mismo tiempo! :D
uff canción mas hermosa pero se escucharía. lo máximo en tu vos también. desde colombia me encanta tu vos ...
uff canción mas hermosa pero se escucharía. lo máximo en tu vos también. desde colombia me encanta tu vos ...
uff canción mas hermosa pero se escucharía. lo máximo en tu vos también. desde colombia me encanta tu vos ...
+Dani Ride can you speak english
+Dani Ride i just used google translate for this nvm
This song is just freaking awesome, particularly because I heard it for the first time under after a break-up. And I know exactly what's like to try to numb the pain through getting high... then, again. I've grown from it. Like, why destroy yourself for someone who doesn't love you back?!
I heard this song a couple years ago and just thought it was cool. Now I'm listening to it again. Song hits differently when you understand the lyrics and actually feel what's being said in the song.
liz ramo sucks
liz ramo
I don’t feel it but I understand it
So true Liz
I felt that too
This song hit me back when it came out. Now I’m just glad to have that part of my life past me
When her voice pitches in this song, i feel chills all over. It never fails
Pitches?
@@MaximumPranks pitches, as in. When she sounds the complete opposite of darth vadar
@@CrissBaybayWhat? 💀
02:57
I'd rather say 2:49/2:50. The third Chorus "to keep you off my mind". I also feel like her voice sounds like it's breaking at that point
classic. was always annoyed that the radio played the remix version only
Mine didn't. So glad they didn't.
Mega Ascension mine didn’t either
that's where we are nowadays in the music industry, sadly. there are tons of examples like this. just (an)other one: 'i follow rivers'... heart breaking original version with so much tension and feeling, but ya know whut? naaa we don't need stuff like that make our brains go dump with a pure four quarter time bassdrum beat and neverchanging melodies ._.
my opinion is, that if you're doin' it properly, remixing and sampling is okay. it's just sad when people remix stuff and let music losse it's heart. it's different for people like Lil Peep for example, cause he took things and added his own ideas and creativity to it making it something completely new... there's an sample i think it wasn't even cleared (The Postal Service - Such Great Heights) in 'white tee'. that's something different in my point of view.
Bruh I thought the remix was the original
Amazingly awesome 0:43
This song came out just as my journey through addiction began. This is one of the songs that helped me through the darkest time of my life.
I have been sober for 14 months now and I am very grateful for music like this.
If you’re struggling with addiction I want to tell you that recovery is possible and that you are not alone. You are worth it right now, just the way you are. Be kind to yourself. You’ve got what it takes to get out of that cycle ❤️
I just want to let you know that , I obviously don't know who you are but.... I'm so proud and happy for you......🎉
Thank you
nah quitting is for losers 🤣🤣😂
@@notedonconsole2044everybody quits at the start!Its not the getting off,it’s the staying off the drugs that’s the hard part!Living without drugs after using them to basically hide from the world is very hard to come to terms with again!This is why so many fail at the start,it’s such a fright!It takes some getting used to!Its a very hard thing to do and there’s not many people can do it!You don’t see many old junkies,do you?Thats a sad fact but so true!🇬🇧💯👌🏻
Very very very proud of you I can’t imagine how hard those journeys are but you fought it your strong and you deserve the whole world!!❤️
I love how she shows the other side of partying and drugs, the real side. A side that many of us face yet we don't always want to admit to ourselves.
yea but without partying and weed distracting me i’d be doing worse things so as of now i’ll just deal with it and continue to lie to myself that i’m ok
And sometimes. That's ok.
Gosh it's so true
@@sadboyagony hope you're doing alright
@@Emir-jm8ke thank you it’s been tough but i’ve been getting through it have a good day
This song is not sending out the wrong example, it's art. I wouldn't personally get high to ignore my troubles but I love how this song makes me feel, like I can somehow feel the reasoning behind why this person is getting high and shit. Ahh don't listen to me people, I'm high as fucckkk.
Cioaca Cristian Exactly. That's what people doesn't understand. It's very close to actual representation of the pain.
VANESSA80784 Ce sa fac ... Beau ma simt bine
Cioaca Cristian i think some guys who listen to this might see her as a kind of surrogate X girl friend who is in pain ... most people between 15 and 35 deal with trouble like this... it has been going on for 150 years.... i would not like it to change ..... my x ran away from home because of her mother .... she was this kind of person .... i hope she is dealing with change in a good way ...
themariusnos Hmmmm.
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what?
She was drunk not high
When i was at my lowest i related to this song. I've been there. And now listening to it again...... this is a real azz song ❤
Yes it is 0:27
When my husband died, I listened to this a lot. The lyrics resonated with me even though I didn’t act out, I was numb. I was a young widow.
It's really awesome that you managed to stay away from these habits like drugs and addictions, i hope the people around you can see you as inspiration and look for art, music and other non destructive ways of explore their own feelings.
Hope you're doing okay. Sending love.
I really hope you are good ❤❤❤
Hang on if you don't feel good yet. It gets better...
sorry for your loss
Oh my my... the pain you feel when she throw the fries . Heart breaking
I counted each fry
Jay Archer
How many?
Don’t remind me 😩
I gotta stay high all the time to keep her throwing the fries away off my mind
Lmao XD
This song aged like fine wine. It’s crazy how much better songs get when you’re older and can understand them on a deeper level.
Exactly. When I went through a breakup and heard this song. I hit hard and understood the meaning 😢
is the deeper lever in the room with us right now?
Fuck yes man
This guy partakes!
Wtf I understood this song right away. Y'all people are slow AF. Listen lol
10 years later, and now I understand why tove lo wants to stay high all the time.
15 year old me blasted this in my room and filmed myself crying and being dramatic lmaooo
Now 21 year old me sheds a tear knowing I actually ended up going through a situation fitting to the lyrics
@MR. SERIOUS i dont know what that means
@MR. SERIOUS ohhh okay
😥
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Ugh girl same 😞
Anyone else get this mysterious, eerie feeling from this song that just makes you think about looking out the window in the night with the lit up city looking back at you?
Jokilowkey Pokey yeah....
YESSS
When you watch this clip, you just know she's lived that way. She's not pretending, she's wild.
fr, after years i realize hwo deep this is. took me even longer to realize she isnt even acting...
I’m confused
@@Sadaaaaf she actually acted like that, the video of her drinking and stuff is actually real...
@@sadiegraves2466 ohhh .. god
@Shima Inuu i dont know if it is actually true since the artist hasn't spoken about that, but im sure during that rine her life was actually like that
The saddest thing is that in the shots where she's just walking or with her friends, you can still see a falter in her smile. like the person she's trying to not think about is still in her mind no matter what she does. really just captures what it's really like trying to move on from someone:(
True
It's hard.
Very true
😪
The reality of what happens when you lose someone you can't get over. You do everything to try to get over them but end up losing yourself in the process.
That loss of ones self.. Is only a portal to true self discovery and evolution. If you can break it before it breaks you
Pain is the single most important emotion. Without pain all other emotions would be but a nothing more than a high the masses ingest like a trend untill they fizzle and forever remain unnapreciated
I see this clip for the first time in a tv comercial!😍😍😍! I Fell in love instantly 😍😍😍
It's what I'm going through rn I haven't lost him exactly I just don't know how to tell him I love him and if he doesn't love me that I would like to have a friendship like we use to have because I don't want to lose him 😭
Ive been there and still going through this
DATA-CORRUPT tyler brannon I’d argue that fear is the most important emotion
This was the "Drivers License" of my era.
Lol
Love this song! Found out about it in Dec 2020 xd
Trueee
Actually i think this song is about her running away from tge memories, but in driver license it's about her reminding herself of the memories even though it gives her more pain
@@NatKhatoon
The only reason they’re comparing the two songs is because they were both really popular when they first came out. They’re not saying they have the same meaning lmao.
Can't believe this is over ten years already. This song sounds so good!
let's be honest, if this song was released today it would be even more popular than is actually
Fax
That's facts
I dont think so, respectfully, since kids these days dont have the same high quality music taste than we had then
@@allen4981 fr
Totally-
Part of growing up is listening to old songs and noticing how different they hit
Frfr, like i remember when this song was everywhere on the radio, and listening to it now (when im older) just hots so different
realest thing ive seen all day
It's wild to me this is an "old" song. Still hits me just the same
Gets me emotional then a mf I miss being a child and having no worries. I’m 20 now worrying abt my future everyday
I honestly got really sad and emotional watching this music video. This song is simple yet raw. It's melancholic in its brutally honest depiction of heartbreak and depression. Now watching the video that goes with the song adds something even more devastating and lonelier to this already gloomy song...
Watching Tove emotionally break down in certain parts of this video was so saddening because I know what it's like to break down in the dead of night all alone, and not have anyone hear you, and wanting to always separate yourself from reality because your life feels like shit.
understand
Exactly I don't smoke but I like the message 💔
agreed
I think we all can relate to this song know how it feels. Finding different ways to runaway from devastating reality of life .
oh got a whole storie...... let me get my FRIES this time ooooohh oh ooooh
My daughter said she's really happy to have a dad in her life. And looking at all these poor girls in the comments who letting it slip how they f-d up their relationships bad, I'm double glad God put it to me to rise to the occasion.
i remember this song being a vibe when i was younger and didn't understand the lyrics, now i understand, and it's still a vibe, but for different reasons 😂
F
fr
same tho
😭 I listened to this song while my brother played modern warfare 😭 the nostalgia is so intense
TRUUUUU✋😭
There's no drug strong enough to numb the pain of heartbreak
Lou JNT there is... the power of now. Unleashing your conscious mind and letting go of emotion.
cyanide
@@sierrahart4042 😂
... permanently.
I dunno man, ever tried heroin?
This hits when you’re old enough to understand the lyrics
ikr
yeah, totally
Yup
I'm 12 yet I understand this. XD I guess I'm "old enough" to know that she had to stay high to get the man she loved the most off her mind. She had to hang out with others to forget about him while she was slowly falling apart inside. It's pretty messed up once you get the true meaning of the song, and watch all those people make-out with her like that in the sex clubs.
My dude. If you didnt understand this simple of lyrics as a child then you aren't living
2025 😢😢😢 still the same, this song 🎶 hit each time differently in my veins 😢 I hate this boy and love him at the same time, I hate myself so bad
Man I understand this way more now...
Totallyyyyy
I was looking for this kind comment because same
YES! I NEVER UNDERSTOOD THIS SONG UNTIL 4 YEARS LATER!
LOL same
me toooooo
13 year old me: who would be so dumb to take drugs to forget someone?
19 year old me: so this is how it feels
Ikr
Like fr
Same. With food mostly, though.
9 year old me: this song is nice..what is high?
13 year old me: YOU'RE GONE AND IVE GOTTA STAY HIGH-
Pepperoni Pizza if ur 13 don’t smoke idiot. Speaking from experience
2014: I felt sorry for her
Now: I feel sorry for myself
Yep she broke up with me 2 days ago.
i m under emotional abuse
2014, i felt sorry for myself, now i feel sorry for her. things change and get better! chin up.
@resiliência amor próprio wtf, Brazilian here, lol.
Sapphire Dl you probably should
Fun fact this song doesn’t actually go away so stop asking if people are listening in the year or the month
When I was younger I didn’t realized the true meaning of this song...
Which one? Welcome to North Europe xD ?
Carlos Velasquez sane here. When I was 17 during my high school years, I’ve been always wondering what this song was truly about until 5 YEARS LATER!!! XD
Sameee
I wish I didn’t understand this song when I was younger.
RIP
The day that I'm no longer OBSESSED with this song is the day you'll have to check for my pulse!!! 🥹😩😭
The lyrics are so deep, we are going to 2020 and I still crying with this song
Matheus Ferreira 🥺😢 me too...
ME TOO 😪😪😪😪 SO SAD!
This is a masterpiece of this Decade
Yes
Meeeeeee
im not depressed or anything i just really like this song
Sure, me too.... depression it is just deep sadness, everybody get sad sometimes
lucky you
T h a n k s y o u
Ziraeal it’s not your place, go listen to Sia
Me 2
At that time, this song remained on the charts for weeks and you could listen to it anywhere, listening to it today makes you immerse yourself in moments lived in 2014.
this song hits hard when you're actually old enough to relate to the lyrics
Oh, yeah. Especially if you're old enough to experience the death of your partner or best friend. I view this as a song about grief, not a breakup.
Especially if you relate.
it hits harder indeed
hey check it my profile
Im 16 yo alcoholic
her throwing the fries T R I G G E R E D me when I was young and it still does today tbh
Í thought i was the only one triggered by that...
Fries aren't responsible of your problems LOL
SAME lol
@@viktoriaszilvasi I understand but why Tibetian monk lol
Its literally rarest situation in life n she would not be so sad cause he didnt even left her for someone.
@@strawtifulbonnie9363 i know right????
I'm Like Do You Know It's Hard To Get Fries In 2020? (Unless It's From Drive Thru Or Delivery)
this song isnt just about the sex and drugs. there is a deeper meaning of numbing the pain of missing someone you desperately need in your life. numbing a pain thats so severe without numbing it you may just die. i understand it.
agreed my bf is in jail and has the possibility of stayin in there 8 to 10 more months and yeh this song is my go to
+Sarah Piercy holy fuck that must be so hard for you, plz don't fuck up nd do something you no you shouldnt while hes locked up :c
It all depends on the court but i got good news he might get out on the 22nd
It is tho
+Eden Beck Stay strong !
This song reminds me of losing 3 loved ones in a span of two and a half years. I was just a teenager at the time. The losses killed me and I spiraled into opioid and alcohol addiction as a way to numb the pain. The lyrics "I gotta stay high all the time to keep you off my mind" definitely resonated with me. I'm doing better these days, it's been about a decade or more now but the pain and grief will always be there and I still cry about missing them like I am tonight listening to this.
Did anyone else just randomly decide to search this for nostalgia purposes?
My Leg on god it takes everyone 5 years to understand how deep this is
It wasn't completely random. Mind altering substances were involved . .
yes ma’am 😅
Yes!
I am trying to find a cover of this where they use the same chorus but a rapper sings instead
people would look at her and say, " oh that's a one happy girl". but deep down she is broken in million pieces.
+robinkhaira1 Yuppp
+robinkhaira1 Don't judge a book by it's cover
+robinkhaira1 yeah but i'm sorry that's not a reason to throw the fries !
High Top Higher "read little bit of the inside, it might surprise you"
Nayeli Alvarez What?
Losing someone you care about is one of the worst feelings in the world.
True :(
Try actually being with someone for 15 years and then they just "can't do it anymore" after you both fought for so much.
@@mepsiemopar8991 I’m sorry to hear that.
@@mepsiemopar8991 im sorry bro you had to go through something like that it will be hard but keep your head high you can get through it never stop believing
@Mia シ aw i'm so sorry
I loved this song when it released, back when I was a teenager. Now being a young adult, I love it so much more. Revisiting this after so long, the lyrics relate to me so much more, and I understand them completely. 😭
This version sends a completely different vibe than the remix. It hits you in the gut and makes you feel the pain.
agreed!!
Finch Racing yes! Finally someone understands 😂
man.. ever been to that point when reality is so far behind you in your depression where you play Russian Roulette standing on a bridge to see if you jump or stay? Pretty fucking awful.
oh man. you know it... D: big hug to you my friend, and anyone and everyone out there who knows this pain and sad altered reality.
EJL2004 suggest me some music like this, plz
LETRA:
I eat my dinner in my bathtub
Then I go to sexclubs
Watching freaky people gettin' it on
It doesn't make me nervous
If anything I'm restless
Yeah, I've been around and I've seen it all
I get home, I got the munchies
Binge on all my Twinkies
Throw up in the tub
Then I go to sleep
And I drank up all my money
Days get kinda lonely
You're gone and I gotta stay
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Spend my days locked in a haze
Trying to forget you babe
I fall back down
Gotta stay high all my life
To forget I'm missing you
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Pick up daddies at the playground
How I spend my daytime
Loosen up the frown,
Make them feel alive
I'll make it fast and greasy
I'm on my way to easy
You're gone and I gotta stay
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Spend my days locked in a haze
Trying to forget you babe
I fall back down
Gotta stay high all my life
To forget I'm missing you
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Staying in my play pretend
Where the fun, it got no end
Ooh
Can't go home alone again
Need someone to numb the pain
Ooh
Staying in my play pretend
Where the fun, it got no end
Ooh
Can't go home alone again
Need someone to numb the pain
Ooh
You're gone and I gotta stay
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
High all the time
To keep you off my mind
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Spend my days locked in a haze
Trying to forget you babe
I fall back down
Gotta stay high all my life
To forget I'm missing you
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Oh-oh
Gracias 💖💖💖💖
Thankssss
Lost so many people over the years this song just brings back memories
same!
Lost you mean they died?
@@marniexx6319 No he lost them in the grocery store ya genius
This song may be 10 yrs old but its impact on me only grows stronger with time. Especially when you face different kinds of loss. It still has me on chokehold.
I like how she sings . her emotion feels so real .
Yee.
Like you can HEAR the pain and sorrow in her voice. especially during and after the "staying in my play pretend" part. so heart felt and real. I love this artist so much!
+upaday a shut up
salut tu vas bien
tu vas bien bissous dimitry
Song hits different when your actually going through what she’s singing about.
@VirtualX Hope you're joking
Yep
Went through it a decade ago and feeling that dead inside then I would do all kinds to feel alive again. Turns out scar tissue itches always from time to time but sure toughens the skin.
deadass going through a heartbreak right now 😢
I just really like the song, mostly because this is what I was like in my early twenties and now I'm 30 getting my self on track studying to be a civil engineer (loving it BTW) and not letting myself get in this state again.
God this gives me painful nostalgia. I can’t believe I’ve lived so long that I can actually understand the meaning of the lyrics.
Me and you both
So you feel “bathtub” 👀
Same
wow thats so deep you must be like 13 now you are so old and wise please tell me more about all of life you have experienced and how you can most definitely relate to this song :|
Since it came out... it's still my obsession... I don't know how to explain how sad but AMAZING this song is at the same time! :D
Our generation is... just kinda depressed and songs that we used to listen hit hard when finally we all understand lyrics.
Exactly 😭
"old songs" it's from 2014 😭
Its a classic ... and I still feel like it was yesterday when the song came out and i was a 6th grader. I refuse to believe its been 7 years already
yes
What's "our generation"
2014: This song sounds good
2019: Oh I can totally feel this song
@@ilaydamaria6 yeah but we don't care
4 years ago I listened to this with my girlfriend, I thought it was a catchy song. We recently broke up and I accidentally came across this song and realized that it is depressing.
Oh yes but I don't have bad habits
Thats so true
@@Froot2115 everyone does bro. It might not be a bad habit for you but to others it might seem like a bad habit.
This hits hard when your not a kid and finally understand the lyrics 😔
Factsss
Yeah
Haha new gen understands this early i swear Ik so kid into get high age 11 to 17 Im 18
Worlds a sad place
Yeah
So, basically quarantine has bought everyone to old legendary songs. The song lyrics weren't this depressing when we were younger now I clearly understand it
2014: eww why she kisses everyone and drinks. And what does it mean to be high ?? 2020: This song is my life
😂😂😂😂👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
So true. Except I didn’t care as long as it was catchy I loved it same with my friends. It was catchy so we loved it just were confused with the mv
FACTS
Anime4 ever if you don’t know what being high is ur prob too young
True
its crazy how u can seem like your “happy” but deep down inside your depressed as hell.
true
😔
Its just easier
Yeah💀
Just take some meds
Shit man, all these people saying they were 11 when they heard this. I was 21 when I heard this and knew full well what this song meant and it still cuts me. Felt it then and I feel it now, love this tune
My sentiments exactly girl. And how and why are 21 year olds these days the way they are?? Lmao
I was 8, but I knew cause my dad told me
I was 11
23... feel you
20... Feel you too
Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.... always remember God loves you.. love you beautiful amazing lady 💞👑👑
When I first heard this song which was in the family van when I was a kid with my siblings on our way to school I thought it was the weirdest song ever, but coming back to it years later halfway through my teen years and understanding the lyrics, it’s just so sad. I can really feel this song man.
uhuh yeah sure pal youre 13 calm down
I lost my wife of 5 years to alcohol addiction last month. Now this song feels like my soundtrack for my life.
That is so sad. Very sorry ♡
im so so sorry for your loss may she rest in peace. and i hope you can find peace as well.
Thank you. I hope so too. It is the hardest thing to loose your spouse. It is even harder when you have done everything possible to get them to stop using just for them to pass in the end and leave you to pick up the pieces of a new life. And the new life is empty and horrible. Waking up each morning to a empty bed breaks my heart over and over. That is also the place I found her the last time. I hate that so many people are selfish and can’t listen to words of love ones that often say you must stop. Addicts do not see the pain caused. My LW also left me a solo father. She abandoned, not only me, but her 3 year old son. She put alcohol over everything.
I'm sorry for your loss. Be safe and stay strong love.
Im so sorry
I don't think people understand the meaning to the video.
This song is about a girl who has suffered a major loss or break up. As she says, "Can't go home alone again, need someone to numb the pain." and "You're gone and I gotta stay high, all the time, to forget i'm missing you." She's trying to deal with her problems with drugs, or sex. She's technically trying to deal with the loss.
And people are underestimating this video. I think it's quite creative, with the camera views and the constant changing scenes. It's showing how she is dealing with the pain, or how this is turning into an average day for her.
And this is a normal thing. People find a way to deal with a loss, it could be watching movies or eating ice cream. Or crying. And some people turn to drugs and sex to distract them, as crying can hurt. People hurt.
This video is exactly what the song means, I see nothing wrong with it.
When me and my x split she had already been cheating so they moved in together with my kids.. I then went down one darkest roads of my life. I stayed high all I mean all the time for a year straight. I had always been messing up on drugs but when she left after being with her for 16 years ...I swear that it had dazzled and dizzied me almost to a point of nomadic madness ...sometimes I think I enjoyed the pain still not sure to this day why that is. I think Eminem referenced it best in his song love the way you lie when he says the more I suffer the more I love it. Anyways break ups are a mofo I first heard this song in rehab that's how bad the break up got for me.. Six months in rehab. Still bad ass song. True to the core
Thank you!!!
+Casual Phoenix THIS IS ABOUT HER THROWING FRENCH FRIES SO SHE NEEDS S*X TO FORGET THE FRIES SUPAH EASY
CatLover88123 Troll I understand she threw the fries. Fries are very hard to get over. Now go sit in your corner and cry about it.
Casual Phoenix Thank you