Fluff Dk ... I totally agree with you there are many children being born retarded or with some type of born defect this information given by this to people on this video are so stupid..... the chances are very great and having children with some type of disability. First cousins should never ever marry. it is sickening and extremely disgusting.... people that do stupidity things like this ought to think what kind of child they are going to bring into this world health comes first religion forget it there's many.
@@seamlessthorns9872 siblings through suckling can get marri3s it's not illegal They are literally siblings stepmother and son can get married but cousins can not great logic 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@marginelouis6674 But you can always adopt. What if you knew about the genetic mutations, but just geniunely loved your cousin? Sex does not equal love.
It’s not classed as incest if you marry your cousin.. Incest is when you have sex with immediate family members. :”An incestuous relationship is one involving sexual intercourse between two members of the same family, for example a father and daughter, or a brother and sister.”
Marrying your cousin is pure foul! Islam may allow it but don’t ignore the fact that during the prophets time there was hardly any muslims around! Hence why they ended up marrying cousins etc. And the health complications that comes with it is whole different topic. Each to their own though..
I am a Christian before and convert into Islam but still in my faith I don't agree relatives or in the same genetic got married. I'm not comfortable at all.
Muhammad did that's why they do. He married his adopted son's wife who was his first cousin and married off his daughter Fatima to Ali his cousin. He also had a child wife name Aisha so they also take child wives. He forced two 17 year old Jewish girls to marry and sleep with him on the same day he killed the male members of their family. One of them was Safiya whose husband Keenan he killed by lighting a fight of flint and steel on his chest and having him beheaded for the location of his treasure he hid. In the hadiths Muhammad is recorded having lifted up the skirts of his grandson Hassan and a little boy named Hussein and kissing their penis's. He is also recorded having sucked on the tongue of Hassan and regularly invited him to sleep with him. There is a hadith where he has sex with the body of his dead Aunt Fatima and there is some passages in the hadths where Muhammad buries his face in the bosom of his daughter Fatima. I thought you should know with a name like Fatima. My favorite women related Surah's are Surah 4:34 and Surah 2:282 check them out.
The thing is that it causes major birth defects, child death & it lowers the IQ after each generation. Plus it's a huge strain on the NHS. Just watch: When cousins marry -Dispatches
@@joshuagenes my freind you must be from America. Ignorance is what has lead you to talking like this. Make sure of your facts, want to know the truth? Learn these things from qualified people like an islamic scholar.
@@moeriedsolomon What like Zakir Naik?!! He's telling people it's alright to fuck goats. Look it is not hard to find out what Islamic apologists say, nor to read the hadiths, the sun-nah and the Quran as there is many translations. All the stuff I mentioned are in the hadiths go look them up. Islam has anti-blasphemy laws for a reason. The reason is that Islam cannot be defended intellectually nor Muhammad's deeds hence the need to silence people. Evil loves the darkness but I bring it to light.
@@rachelngatia3753 Yes marrying your cousin is terminating your bloodline with genetic diseases. If you don't experience health problems in your first-generation cousin marriage, you will in your second-generation cousin marriage.
Nah there must be some inter family marriages before cuz if two cousins like marry first time in a family tree....there is like same chance of genetic disease as between two random people...... things get worse only if incest has been carrying on for generations...
marriage to cousins is allowed in Islam, but I don't know why anyone would want to. It's usually a forced thing, based on someone living in the west and family wanting the other person to be bought over and legal here 😖
I don't think it usually is. I think force marriages are not very common at all although it does exist. I have a massive family and friends many of whom have married cousins but not a single one is forced. I just think it is a bit of a misconception.
sallybgum Haniya 15 yeah of course, but every situation I've heard of or encountered has been forced, usually emotional abuse. It's sad to see. Let people marry who they want, or in this case don't want.
There is no problem in cousin marriage, if your religion or culture does not allow, stop bad mouthing other peoples culture and religion also christianity its allowed to marry cousin not islam only all abrahimic religion allows marrigae
I think it’s crazy that the main concern is the age gap , but the fact they are cousins. Is it legal in Islam to marry your cousins when there are millions of other people you can marry. I just would find it hard to be loving to my cousins in a sexual and romantic way
ilhem shajiri Never said I was perfect. Allah commanded the Muslims to enjoin good and forbid evil. Don't try to play the part of an enlightened liberal. See, I may not be perfect but I am not modernist either.
My husband is 13 years my senior. He's 43 and I'm 30. We have an amazing relationship and so much in common, and we never feel that "gap" so, The age gap is no big deal, but I'm wondering if they're first cousins? That's a little too close?
Oof my gradparents are first cousins and have 8 children my dad uncles and aunts are beautiful and have no disabilities ;-; i dont. Gt why so many people r saying its bad for first cousins to marry
@Someone Special Your point? Would you have a child with three heads and need of constant care or no kid and a sexuality that gives you lovers you can get along with easily?
@@Euro.Patriot It doesn't always like that, Even Marrying someone else could also sometimes Give birth an Abnormal Child, So Marrying Cousins isn't the reason for Abnormal Childrens
There are plenty of Islamic scholars on RUclips speaking AGAINST cousin marriage. PLEASE learn about all of the potential genetic disorders and increased chances of miscarriage. You can save yourselves so much heartache.
You should not be ashamed because that is the reason on why you're here today. Be proud that you got a chance to breathe as a human being and on top of that being healthy.
My childhood freinds COUSINS both his first cousins ,, got married they are not MUSLIM ,,they are Catholic and they are Chinese like me , mostly this kind of situation about marrying your close relatives is not just because its allowed by religion or culture ,its about FAMILIES WEALTH thats why they married their close relatives,,,WEALTH ,..but in the Philippines there are some people who still practicing these kind of old culture ,,,before the president of the Philippines MANUEL QUEZON and his wife Aurora Aragon was his first cousins !
it's still disgusting and the kids will suffer for their parent's stupidity... if you want to marry your cousin at least make sure you never have kids...
my childhood best friend parents are brother and sister. she was fine and had no health problem's at all. and I know many people who weren't related and had kids with birth defects.
I'm sorry but the fact Muhammad allowed cousin marriages and its halal is just a clear indication to me that the guy isn't worth trusting. Inbreeding causes deformities, it lowers IQ, its causes troubled behaviour. It's bad from an evolutionary standpoint. My mum has a nursing agency and many of the home care visits that her nurses and carers go to are in the Asian community (especially the Pakistani community). In places like Slough, South hall, Birmingham and others inbreeding has been a major problem. Even in places like Norwich where more native populations have had a tendency to inbreed the same issue arises. Please folks don't do it. If you care about your future kids and grandkids then don't take the risk. Don't inbreed it's bad for you
sorry but that chance higher for middle aged woman when they have babies compared to cousins you don't gotta freak out I have many friends and family members who were born from First cousins. Also the risk is only greater when you've been marrying first cousins for 2 or 3+ generations. Also he is trustworthy he was named "the trust worthy" even by people who hated him lol they would give things to him to take care while they would travel.
And cousins marriages is wisdom for people who lived at that time and place, you strengthen already existing relationships and you already know how that person is before getting married to them. Also it's a choice to get married to your cousin in Islam, if you don't want to don't do it. Islam neither condones it nor does it condemn it. If there harm from it then refrain from it.
So cousin marriages isn't incest it's consignuanity. Cousin marriages have been done for centuries, this whole thing of not marrying cousins and treating them as siblings is a modern invention/ social construct
if something is made permissible by allow than it is OK! also Muslim's who say it's wrong should keep their thought to themselves since it goes against allah
The culture of British Pakistani cousins marrying each other is a pretty serious issue when more than half of British Pakistani’s end up marrying first cousins. All the research is in on how detrimental genetically this is, especially after multiple generations do it. First cousins who marry and have children are putting the children at risk for genetic disorders (especially if they are part of a family that has multi generations of this). Allah has revealed the science behind this through many, many years of research. I can understand why this made sense 100 years ago, but now all the research is in and it’s very unfair to the potential children in the marriage.
Yes but a woman who had a baby from a non cousin relationship in the middle years of 35 to 45+ is more dangerous to the baby than cousins having a baby, so are we gonna stop middle ages woman from having babies? Also cousin marriages are only harmful when it's done for continuous generations like 3 or more.
Albert Einstein also got married with his cousin. If they falling love each other very deeply nd they can't leave the relationship then I don't think that they will be punished by God bcoz love is blind.
Jason Kelly wtf!! Well why do you guys have a problem with cousins getting married there isn’t anything wrong unless ur continuously doing it generation after generation
Lunar Obsession U are very close minded we should be the ones asking wtf is wrong with cousin marriage like not continuous that is wrong but like 2 generations that’s not wrong please stop being so offended by these things
Medically the chances of birth defects go from 1 in 100 to 1 in 8 when you marry your first cousin. and the Majority of birth defects in the UK come from communities that marry their first cousins. , I think the UK will eventually make marriage between first cousins illegal since people keep doing it. I've read it is very common amongst Pakistanis, to marry cousins.
Charlie, the medical birth defects could appear even in the people who have not practiced cousin marriage. You can search such videos on youtube very easily. The chances get more once you consistently marry with in family. So once if cousins get married (as it is allowed in Islam) so there is no problem but once your children grow to marriage age then don't get them marry with in cousins rather marry outsiders. I'll tell you one example. My mom and dad were not family cousins rather outsider for each other yet i am epileptic and my father and other family members in my father side had epilepsy. So this argument doesn't make completely. and Allaah know the best.
Abdullah Abdul Rahman Ok sure, but why RISK it given the medical scientific facts. Its breeding 101: Medical science has shown the more DIVERSE your genetic code is the better and healthier the offspring, (that’s why a medical fertility study 2013 from the University of Nebraska , showed Mexican woman and other Hispanic woman fertility rates are vastly above those among Whites and Blacks and Mexican woman to be the most fertile population in the world, why?! WELL because HISTORICALLY unlike the United States that murdered and "separated" the native population, The Spanish EUROPEANS went the other route and tried to BREED THE NATIVE Americans OUT, There are 16th century "scientific" paintings that documented this "process")) So Mexicans are very mixed, and are stronger genetically for it. hence less birth defects and more fertile...etc. . ON THE OTHER HAND The more INBREEDING, offspring are weaker and unhealthy and born with birth-defects. Breeding 101. Besides marrying Cousins is like marrying half siblings , Gross. and just because the bible says something doesn't make it Mental. Get over it, its mental. I cant wait for Islamic culture to secularize, Christians paid there dues centuries ago, and it took centuries and thousands who even spoke against the church or even questioned were murdered and torched.......Growing pains.......... Religion , ALL of it , is evil, not to mention illogical.
@@texstud sorry but that chance higher for middle aged woman when they have babies compared to cousins you don't gotta freak out I have many friends and family members who were born from First cousins. Also the risk is only greater when you've been marrying first cousins for 2 or 3+ generations
@@texstud Islam doesn't need to secularise in other words sell out, because the truth doesn't sell out. Also marrying cousins is a choice you don't have to do it.
@@trajictempr8574 except a significant proportion of families categorically refuse to accept a potential spouse for their child that’s in not a relative/cousin. This leaving them in a limbo.
Hey just wanted to say is.. Marrying your first cousion is Totally allowed in islam... In my country is 100% allowed.. But i do know is if u are, related it can be, dangerous for ur kid because so times they come out either has less BODY parts or more plus less but if u are inlove and u don't know if its oky or not... My answer is Totally yes its defintly oky
Firstly you said you have been seeing each other since you where 14....so he was 26 😳😳😳😳😳 Secondly first cousins is way too close in relation, so if it's your first cousins I wouldn't be marrying or having children with him.
In Islam you are allowed to get married to your cousin with no problem and you can have kids without problem. Is halal, of course if you get married. In my family there are a lot of cousin marriages and they are fine alhamdulillah.
Why even discuss it. Islam makes halal and Haram clear. Your opinion doesn't matter. I don't like how people act like these random idiots are kibar al-ulema.
No age gap matters, as long as people learn the Islam continuously. For example, there are couple who are 25 and 28 but they are not aware of Islam. They spend most of the time in dunya, cell phones, youtube, how to get more and more money, how to get biger home to live etc etc and they don't know what is aqeedah, manhaj, imaan etc. Then such closeness of age even if they live decades with each other would not give them any benefit, unless Allaah wills something else for them. But, as a contrast if they have 10, 15, 20 or 25 years age gap but they are continuously learning and acting upon deen (Islam). Then In sha Allaah, it will benefit them, with the mercy of Allaah.
my dad is 13 years older than my mum, they met each ither while teaching at a school and me and my twin brother were born when my dad was 40 and my mum 27. They were both legal adults when they met each other and are still together. honestly it kind of annoyed me how you almost bitched about there being a limit, get over it sweetie. cause there are a lot more worse things in this world
clearly you don't know the purpose of hijab since you are wearing all this make up. And based on what? you are giving Islamic fatwa to people. since you clearly lake the knowledge .
As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, I think the comments here are rude. A woman may beautify herself for her husband but, not adorn herself in pubic according to Islam. As for cousins marrying: from what I understand it is permissible. Allah knows best. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salaam is reported to have said, kindness effects all things. If you cannot speak a kind words it is best to hold your peace. A reminder Benefits the believer. Finally, the characteristics of the hypocrite are four (in one narration three): 1) Whenever they speak they lie. 2) Whenever they make a promise they break it. 3) Whenever they are trusted they betray the trust. 4) Whenever they argue they argue in an imprudent manner (meaning they resort to swearing and/or name calling). Whoever has one of these characteristics has a trait of hypocrisy unless and until they give it up and whoever has all of these characteristics is a pure hypocrite. Sahih Muslim & Sahih Bukhari.
Honesty First isn't a video that's posted on the internet technically still public? if so then she shouldn't wear makeup for anyone but her husband? Thats my problem with religions (all of them) is that people cherry pick what they want to follow then still use their "sacred" text as a way to justify what they do? it makes no sense, right now it look more like a fashion statement then a way to be modest.
Yo brother nice goatie , I’ve been dating my cousin for a while how do we tell them wer next door neighbours but i live by myself at the weekend I have my own flat mashllah thsnks to my dads blessings , how do we tell them we’ve been dating and basically wanna get married we are 21
poor person. You had no say in all this and your parents put your health at risk just because of their own selfish desire to uphold a custom that has no place in civilised society
There nothing wrong with marrying cousing, am somali and we have cousin marriage we have not seen that genes issue, I think that disability issue is about killer vaccines
Guys guys you need to chill ax lol First cousin marriage is halal nothing wrong with it. Islam allows it. Secondary cousin marriages do not create any de formalities at all. Its tje mixture of bad jeans that collide like u said Allah plans everything. You have many other religions thats don't marry cousins that have disabled 👶 children. So please guys do your home work before doing any video. Respect ✊ and slam to all.
apologise sir, i would like to rephrase my statement, it is close to "makruh" instead of absolute "makruh". in islam it is neither encouraged nor discouraged. Thats the better way to put it..
Yes muslim is allowed to married with cousin but can u think or can u see? mostly they are married with relatives the children suffer bec. Of disabilities or mongoloid children i hope all muslim u think that.
@@ericaswanberg8641 tf wrong with people that not ur religion bro ? That not ur life bro ? Are u planning to go inside there life or what keep ur advice to ur family bro
I am so glad I am a Hindu as we are told not to marry cousins or do any incest as this is disgusting. It is written in our scriptures that this is forbidden as it was revealed to us by God that this is wrong.
Am 25 and planning to marry 19 year my "second cousin once removed" , also both her parents are cousins. I don;t see any problem and risk are over rated.
@@saraaaamir first of all this girl doesnt care about the subject she has a miror behind the camera so she can se if her tons of makeup is melting away thats whats most important to her and they think its ok for my kids to have sex with my sisters and im rude shut up bitches you dont have a brain grow one
It’s not weird to marry your cousin because if your parents married eachother you should follow their steps but sometimes picking your own choice and going into a random family it’s better of marrying your cousin and stay in the same family In my opinion.
@@bmwfan4552 I don’t get why people think it’s wrong tbh for example my rishta is done with my cousin now and I’m happy about it there’s nothing wrong with it
It's terrible, if you do this then don't have children, just because it's allowed doesn't make it right. It should not be allowed in the UK it's backward, however I don't see a problem with the age difference, how can you get hung up on the age and yet feel its ok to risk having children with terrible health conditions who will suffer all their lives.
3:33 - hope this guy was joking. Otherwise, Islam propagates coercion and violence against women. Search wadribuhnna - chapter 4 Verse 34 - scholars and people of the book dance around the literal wording by using various defences such as "for cultures of that era" or "the prophet did not advocate hitting". Circular reasoning.
I think it's nice that First Cousin's marry... the Offspring is so smart... yea....Not an issue.. keeps the Money in the Family... yea... So what if 50% of the kids have medical problems...
Age gap was worse than marrying a family member? Ok then.....I agree with sharing love, just not sexually with my family unfortunately And crikey chill out with the make up lol great contrast with being 'modest' by wearing a hijab and the slapping all that on
Wtf means not allowed .....if two people fall in love then shit society and religion and cousins are not siblings unless u live under the same roof ....
0:50 she was 14 yrs old? And theres a 12 year gap? He was 26?? Wtf!!
when did she say shes 14
poor children that people have with their cousins. disgusting that innocent children are born with disabilities because of them.
Fluff Dk ... I totally agree with you there are many children being born retarded or with some type of born defect this information given by this to people on this video are so stupid..... the chances are very great and having children with some type of disability. First cousins should never ever marry. it is sickening and extremely disgusting....
people that do stupidity things like this ought to think what kind of child they are going to bring into this world health comes first religion forget it there's many.
Dalia Vivian well said
Fluff Dk someone must be uneducated properly and that someone must be you.
Half of my family marry their cousins and none of them have a disability except for the one who didn't marry their cousin soooo.....
Not everyone born is disabled or r******* kmt
Plot twist: they are secretly first cousins
it;s sick and disgusting
@@seamlessthorns9872cousins are non mahram marriageable unless through breastfeeding then they cant get married
@@seamlessthorns9872 siblings through suckling can get marri3s it's not illegal They are literally siblings stepmother and son can get married but cousins can not great logic 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@seamlessthorns9872 ur law also allows people to be prostitutes but cousins marrying is wrong
Why would you get marriage to your cousin bit weird...
Bcs you fall in love with him/her
and if you fall in love with your sister, brother, uncle, dad, you can also marry them? You realize this leads to genetic mutations?
margine louis but hire we are talking about cousin not sister/brother etc
@@marginelouis6674 But you can always adopt. What if you knew about the genetic mutations, but just geniunely loved your cousin? Sex does not equal love.
I have to Get Marry to my cousin and plus We are 30% cousins and my mom said that I can date my cousin we are not full cousins
It’s not classed as incest if you marry your cousin.. Incest is when you have sex with immediate family members. :”An incestuous relationship is one involving sexual intercourse between two members of the same family, for example a father and daughter, or a brother and sister.”
Exactly cousins marriages is consignuanity
Yeah it's only wrong if they are siblings though suckling
Marrying your cousin is incest. Get married to someone who you're not related to for bucks sake.
Thats what ive been saying for years. But no my culture doesnt listen. They normalise this stuff.
It's not incest tho cousins are not blood related they are not immediate family
Imagine the child having a family tree project. 🤦♂️Rip.
Marrying your cousin is pure foul! Islam may allow it but don’t ignore the fact that during the prophets time there was hardly any muslims around! Hence why they ended up marrying cousins etc.
And the health complications that comes with it is whole different topic. Each to their own though..
dating your cousin is horrible
you just gave the poor girl some non constructive off the top of your head extremely bad advice right when she was looking to you for guidance.
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I am a Christian before and convert into Islam but still in my faith I don't agree relatives or in the same genetic got married. I'm not comfortable at all.
Muhammad did that's why they do. He married his adopted son's wife who was his first cousin and married off his daughter Fatima to Ali his cousin. He also had a child wife name Aisha so they also take child wives. He forced two 17 year old Jewish girls to marry and sleep with him on the same day he killed the male members of their family. One of them was Safiya whose husband Keenan he killed by lighting a fight of flint and steel on his chest and having him beheaded for the location of his treasure he hid. In the hadiths Muhammad is recorded having lifted up the skirts of his grandson Hassan and a little boy named Hussein and kissing their penis's. He is also recorded having sucked on the tongue of Hassan and regularly invited him to sleep with him. There is a hadith where he has sex with the body of his dead Aunt Fatima and there is some passages in the hadths where Muhammad buries his face in the bosom of his daughter Fatima. I thought you should know with a name like Fatima. My favorite women related Surah's are Surah 4:34 and Surah 2:282 check them out.
Fatima Abdelhalim Aw MashAllah. Welcome sister❤
The thing is that it causes major birth defects, child death & it lowers the IQ after each generation.
Plus it's a huge strain on the NHS.
Just watch: When cousins marry -Dispatches
@@joshuagenes my freind you must be from America. Ignorance is what has lead you to talking like this. Make sure of your facts, want to know the truth? Learn these things from qualified people like an islamic scholar.
@@moeriedsolomon What like Zakir Naik?!! He's telling people it's alright to fuck goats. Look it is not hard to find out what Islamic apologists say, nor to read the hadiths, the sun-nah and the Quran as there is many translations. All the stuff I mentioned are in the hadiths go look them up. Islam has anti-blasphemy laws for a reason. The reason is that Islam cannot be defended intellectually nor Muhammad's deeds hence the need to silence people. Evil loves the darkness but I bring it to light.
Why is almost everyone in this comment section so nasty. Say good or keep quiet.
Saida Berka lol... I feel you 😄😅
Saida Berka freedom of speech
Saida Berka they only nasty thing is marrying a cousin
Wtf ? Marrying your cousin is nasty and should be condemned by all humans with functioning Breannes
Cuz they r all sick .....like if u don't like anything then don't judge other people on ur mindset.....all are just internet karens...
the woman here looks older than her husband
faten fatin
not matter
probably cuz of incest
Yes
7.5 billion people in the world and we're still marrying cousins. Wow.
It's part of culture and religion
And so if it’s love let them be
Love is blind...i love my first cousin...😍
Well u can't meet all 7.5 billion people and find out who is perfect for u ....lol
@@judycj01 new title it’s love let them have babies with their family it’s allowed not encouraged it’s encouraged to marry other peoplr
We medically it is really bad. My next door neighbour marry her cousin and three of 4 kids born blind and 4th kid born bilnd and deaf.
What? But fr it's not right to even date one that's sad that her kids are like that
@@rachelngatia3753 Yes marrying your cousin is terminating your bloodline with genetic diseases. If you don't experience health problems in your first-generation cousin marriage, you will in your second-generation cousin marriage.
Nah there must be some inter family marriages before cuz if two cousins like marry first time in a family tree....there is like same chance of genetic disease as between two random people...... things get worse only if incest has been carrying on for generations...
I have advise .....only 2 people have to live with this decision, you and him.... don’t let anyone make your own decision.
marriage to cousins is allowed in Islam, but I don't know why anyone would want to. It's usually a forced thing, based on someone living in the west and family wanting the other person to be bought over and legal here 😖
I don't think it usually is. I think force marriages are not very common at all although it does exist. I have a massive family and friends many of whom have married cousins but not a single one is forced. I just think it is a bit of a misconception.
sallybgum Haniya 15 yeah of course, but every situation I've heard of or encountered has been forced, usually emotional abuse. It's sad to see. Let people marry who they want, or in this case don't want.
No it isn't you don't even know I'm musim it's sining if I cosion marry
There is no problem in cousin marriage, if your religion or culture does not allow, stop bad mouthing other peoples culture and religion also christianity its allowed to marry cousin not islam only all abrahimic religion allows marrigae
Yes it is very wrong
I think it’s crazy that the main concern is the age gap , but the fact they are cousins.
Is it legal in Islam to marry your cousins when there are millions of other people you can marry.
I just would find it hard to be loving to my cousins in a sexual and romantic way
Why doesn't she wear a scarf but than a full face of make up?
E E modernist "hijabis"
CTR+ALT+DEL keep judging. Because you are "sinless"
ilhem shajiri Never said I was perfect. Allah commanded the Muslims to enjoin good and forbid evil. Don't try to play the part of an enlightened liberal. See, I may not be perfect but I am not modernist either.
My husband is 13 years my senior. He's 43 and I'm 30. We have an amazing relationship and so much in common, and we never feel that "gap" so, The age gap is no big deal, but I'm wondering if they're first cousins? That's a little too close?
esbeeloola it’s not that subject that we’re dealing here
u might not want to breed if u are family damnnnn
I think marrying your cousin is like marry your brother . Disgusting
Marrying your cousin is wrong
Why would you even marry someone you are related to
It's not wrong in islam please
@@chrololuci9800 it’s not encouraged nor recommended is it best to marry no but can you yes who should you marry someone you don’t share dna with
Oof my gradparents are first cousins and have 8 children my dad uncles and aunts are beautiful and have no disabilities ;-; i dont. Gt why so many people r saying its bad for first cousins to marry
Where are you from?
marry your other cousin you will notice them have disabilities
I think parents would get u married to cousins because u know them more and can trust them
ILOVE PIZZA PIZZA Which is why the majority of their kids are genetically fucked.
@Someone Special Your point? Would you have a child with three heads and need of constant care or no kid and a sexuality that gives you lovers you can get along with easily?
@@Euro.Patriot It doesn't always like that, Even Marrying someone else could also sometimes Give birth an Abnormal Child, So Marrying Cousins isn't the reason for Abnormal Childrens
@@ultramorph6985 Re-read what I said.
There are plenty of Islamic scholars on RUclips speaking AGAINST cousin marriage. PLEASE learn about all of the potential genetic disorders and increased chances of miscarriage. You can save yourselves so much heartache.
My parents are cousins, should I be ashamed?
Yes, you should.
@@mrflyingsourcer3515 stfu you f face
Yes
No you should not, people are allowing homosexual relationships this days because it's freedom. But Marrying into cousins still disgusts them.
You should not be ashamed because that is the reason on why you're here today. Be proud that you got a chance to breathe as a human being and on top of that being healthy.
My childhood freinds COUSINS both his first cousins ,, got married they are not MUSLIM ,,they are Catholic and they are Chinese like me , mostly this kind of situation about marrying your close relatives is not just because its allowed by religion or culture ,its about FAMILIES WEALTH thats why they married their close relatives,,,WEALTH ,..but in the Philippines there are some people who still practicing these kind of old culture ,,,before the president of the Philippines MANUEL QUEZON and his wife Aurora Aragon was his first cousins !
it's still disgusting and the kids will suffer for their parent's stupidity... if you want to marry your cousin at least make sure you never have kids...
but it's still fucked up to marry someone in your family! the world is big enough
@@Alonepistachio You do know that there's something called N O T H A V I N G A B A B Y ?
my childhood best friend parents are brother and sister. she was fine and had no health problem's at all. and I know many people who weren't related and had kids with birth defects.
U mean brother and sister got married ? That's fucked
Doux jésus
I think imma be sick 🤮🤮🤮
Yes best fucking is with brother and sister
Marry then fuck
I'm sorry but the fact Muhammad allowed cousin marriages and its halal is just a clear indication to me that the guy isn't worth trusting. Inbreeding causes deformities, it lowers IQ, its causes troubled behaviour. It's bad from an evolutionary standpoint. My mum has a nursing agency and many of the home care visits that her nurses and carers go to are in the Asian community (especially the Pakistani community). In places like Slough, South hall, Birmingham and others inbreeding has been a major problem. Even in places like Norwich where more native populations have had a tendency to inbreed the same issue arises. Please folks don't do it. If you care about your future kids and grandkids then don't take the risk. Don't inbreed it's bad for you
sorry but that chance higher for middle aged woman when they have babies compared to cousins you don't gotta freak out I have many friends and family members who were born from First cousins. Also the risk is only greater when you've been marrying first cousins for 2 or 3+ generations.
Also he is trustworthy he was named "the trust worthy" even by people who hated him lol they would give things to him to take care while they would travel.
And cousins marriages is wisdom for people who lived at that time and place, you strengthen already existing relationships and you already know how that person is before getting married to them.
Also it's a choice to get married to your cousin in Islam, if you don't want to don't do it. Islam neither condones it nor does it condemn it. If there harm from it then refrain from it.
So cousin marriages isn't incest it's consignuanity. Cousin marriages have been done for centuries, this whole thing of not marrying cousins and treating them as siblings is a modern invention/ social construct
if something is made permissible by allow than it is OK! also Muslim's who say it's wrong should keep their thought to themselves since it goes against allah
islamically it's okay to marry your cousins.
if it was ok islamically to rape people, people would attempt to use that to justify rape - ruclips.net/video/9aAD0yJ3SdQ/видео.html
Joseph Hansen not all the time. In pakistan there are many cousin marriages and i see all the kids are absolutely normal
ApexJnr you cannot say if, no ifs, Islam doesn’t support rape so don’t say if it did. It doesn’t.
The culture of British Pakistani cousins marrying each other is a pretty serious issue when more than half of British Pakistani’s end up marrying first cousins. All the research is in on how detrimental genetically this is, especially after multiple generations do it. First cousins who marry and have children are putting the children at risk for genetic disorders (especially if they are part of a family that has multi generations of this). Allah has revealed the science behind this through many, many years of research. I can understand why this made sense 100 years ago, but now all the research is in and it’s very unfair to the potential children in the marriage.
Yes but a woman who had a baby from a non cousin relationship in the middle years of 35 to 45+ is more dangerous to the baby than cousins having a baby, so are we gonna stop middle ages woman from having babies? Also cousin marriages are only harmful when it's done for continuous generations like 3 or more.
I agree mostly
Then marry a same gender should be crime
@@trajictempr8574 no not true they have a healthy baby cousins probably no bc your FAMILY not like a stranger
its wrong to marry your cousin my daughter Muslim but if she marry into family its no acceptable its wrong in the Mexican family
Albert Einstein also got married with his cousin. If they falling love each other very deeply nd they can't leave the relationship then I don't think that they will be punished by God bcoz love is blind.
No its not wrong
If gay people and lesbians exist than having a crush on your cousin should exist too
asininebonnie 14 NOOOOO... JUST NOOO, don't compare homosexuality with cousin fucking. ❌🚫
@Someone Special I can't tell if that's sarcastic or not but I hope to god you are. Anyways, this was 6 months ago now... I forgot all about it
what the fuck is wrong with you???? let me guess, your parents are cousins
Jason Kelly wtf!! Well why do you guys have a problem with cousins getting married there isn’t anything wrong unless ur continuously doing it generation after generation
Lunar Obsession U are very close minded we should be the ones asking wtf is wrong with cousin marriage like not continuous that is wrong but like 2 generations that’s not wrong please stop being so offended by these things
You can marry your first cousin
Bro like how do you think the first humans lived if they didn’t marry their first cousins
Medically the chances of birth defects go from 1 in 100 to 1 in 8 when you marry your first cousin. and the Majority of birth defects in the UK come from communities that marry their first cousins. , I think the UK will eventually make marriage between first cousins illegal since people keep doing it. I've read it is very common amongst Pakistanis, to marry cousins.
Charlie, the medical birth defects could appear even in the people who have not practiced cousin marriage. You can search such videos on youtube very easily.
The chances get more once you consistently marry with in family. So once if cousins get married (as it is allowed in Islam) so there is no problem but once your children grow to marriage age then don't get them marry with in cousins rather marry outsiders.
I'll tell you one example. My mom and dad were not family cousins rather outsider for each other yet i am epileptic and my father and other family members in my father side had epilepsy. So this argument doesn't make completely.
and Allaah know the best.
Abdullah Abdul Rahman Ok sure, but why RISK it given the medical scientific facts. Its breeding 101:
Medical science has shown the more DIVERSE your genetic code is the better and healthier the offspring, (that’s why a medical fertility study 2013 from the University of Nebraska , showed Mexican woman and other Hispanic woman fertility rates are vastly above those among Whites and Blacks and Mexican woman to be the most fertile population in the world, why?! WELL because HISTORICALLY unlike the United States that murdered and "separated" the native population, The Spanish EUROPEANS went the other route and tried to BREED THE NATIVE Americans OUT, There are 16th century "scientific" paintings that documented this "process")) So Mexicans are very mixed, and are stronger genetically for it. hence less birth defects and more fertile...etc. .
ON THE OTHER HAND The more INBREEDING, offspring are weaker and unhealthy and born with birth-defects. Breeding 101.
Besides marrying Cousins is like marrying half siblings , Gross. and just because the bible says something doesn't make it Mental.
Get over it, its mental.
I cant wait for Islamic culture to secularize, Christians paid there dues centuries ago, and it took centuries and thousands who even spoke against the church or even questioned were murdered and torched.......Growing pains.......... Religion , ALL of it , is evil, not to mention illogical.
@@texstud sorry but that chance higher for middle aged woman when they have babies compared to cousins you don't gotta freak out I have many friends and family members who were born from First cousins. Also the risk is only greater when you've been marrying first cousins for 2 or 3+ generations
@@texstud Islam doesn't need to secularise in other words sell out, because the truth doesn't sell out. Also marrying cousins is a choice you don't have to do it.
@@trajictempr8574 except a significant proportion of families categorically refuse to accept a potential spouse for their child that’s in not a relative/cousin. This leaving them in a limbo.
Hey just wanted to say is.. Marrying your first cousion is Totally allowed in islam... In my country is 100% allowed.. But i do know is if u are, related it can be, dangerous for ur kid because so times they come out either has less BODY parts or more plus less but if u are inlove and u don't know if its oky or not... My answer is Totally yes its defintly oky
Probably one of my favorite couples on RUclips, mashaAllah. New subscriber!
Firstly you said you have been seeing each other since you where 14....so he was 26 😳😳😳😳😳
Secondly first cousins is way too close in relation, so if it's your first cousins I wouldn't be marrying or having children with him.
In Islam you are allowed to get married to your cousin with no problem and you can have kids without problem. Is halal, of course if you get married. In my family there are a lot of cousin marriages and they are fine alhamdulillah.
Nah... It is only and ooonly the choice of Allah, God.
I know soooo manny married cousins that have kids and they are good
Yes it is tf that's nasty asf
so Girl 's aunt or uncle !?
i say for the parents to allow it cuz my parents have a 12 year gap age and i think they are cousins
you are a child from the future
All of this is very very WRONG
Not at all it's just her cousin not her brother or father
@@ayamab6967 as long as it’s the 3rd and 4th cousin you’ll have a smaller chance of having kids with disorders.
@@ayub2652 did u graduate from whatsapp University of genetic science lol.....shut ur mouth up unless ur a professional....
@@ayub2652 yes you will😂 generation after generation doesn’t matter if you marry 4th cousins 2nd time it will have disease
Why even discuss it. Islam makes halal and Haram clear. Your opinion doesn't matter. I don't like how people act like these random idiots are kibar al-ulema.
i didnt tell my parents my dad and his sister just agreed for me to marry my 3 oldest cousin and age gap is 1/2 years
12 years gap is not much ...its not like 20 years
No age gap matters, as long as people learn the Islam continuously. For example, there are couple who are 25 and 28 but they are not aware of Islam. They spend most of the time in dunya, cell phones, youtube, how to get more and more money, how to get biger home to live etc etc and they don't know what is aqeedah, manhaj, imaan etc. Then such closeness of age even if they live decades with each other would not give them any benefit, unless Allaah wills something else for them.
But, as a contrast if they have 10, 15, 20 or 25 years age gap but they are continuously learning and acting upon deen (Islam). Then In sha Allaah, it will benefit them, with the mercy of Allaah.
faten fatin true it's not much !
does age gap matters? common example Madonna and her BF... also some famous celebs 😕
ikr
faten fatin yeah and 50 years age gap in not much either because u know it's not like 80 years
point is, your logic is stupid
so many negative comments oh my
my dad is 13 years older than my mum, they met each ither while teaching at a school and me and my twin brother were born when my dad was 40 and my mum 27. They were both legal adults when they met each other and are still together. honestly it kind of annoyed me how you almost bitched about there being a limit, get over it sweetie. cause there are a lot more worse things in this world
The age gap between Muhammad (53) and Aisha (6) was huge.
sister
your make up this much wrong according to islam in public.........
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clearly you don't know the purpose of hijab since you are wearing all this make up. And based on what? you are giving Islamic fatwa to people. since you clearly lake the knowledge .
And clearly, you need a Dictionary.
fuck you
One Man you obviously know a lot about Islam since you're swearing, just stop 😂
As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, I think the comments here are rude. A woman may beautify herself for her husband but, not adorn herself in pubic according to Islam. As for cousins marrying: from what I understand it is permissible. Allah knows best. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salaam is reported to have said, kindness effects all things. If you cannot speak a kind words it is best to hold your peace. A reminder Benefits the believer. Finally, the characteristics of the hypocrite are four (in one narration three): 1) Whenever they speak they lie. 2) Whenever they make a promise they break it. 3) Whenever they are trusted they betray the trust. 4) Whenever they argue they argue in an imprudent manner (meaning they resort to swearing and/or name calling). Whoever has one of these characteristics has a trait of hypocrisy unless and until they give it up and whoever has all of these characteristics is a pure hypocrite. Sahih Muslim & Sahih Bukhari.
Honesty First isn't a video that's posted on the internet technically still public? if so then she shouldn't wear makeup for anyone but her husband?
Thats my problem with religions (all of them) is that people cherry pick what they want to follow then still use their "sacred" text as a way to justify what they do? it makes no sense, right now it look more like a fashion statement then a way to be modest.
Yo brother nice goatie , I’ve been dating my cousin for a while how do we tell them wer next door neighbours but i live by myself at the weekend I have my own flat mashllah thsnks to my dads blessings , how do we tell them we’ve been dating and basically wanna get married we are 21
In Islamic law, it's halal to marry your cousin. I don't like to marry my cousin.
I think you read made in China Quran
my mother and father are cousins
and Elhamdulillah I'm a muslim
Same thing but I'm portuguese we are inbreds
Watermeloen 23 ,, yuccckkk so nasty
ewwww wtf !?! nasty!😷
poor person. You had no say in all this and your parents put your health at risk just because of their own selfish desire to uphold a custom that has no place in civilised society
are you cousins
in Pakistan its so common
Lool their not cousins 😳😳
No they're not, they're of two different races 😂
@@maz4488 naaa she just overdone the make up
There nothing wrong with marrying cousing, am somali and we have cousin marriage we have not seen that genes issue, I think that disability issue is about killer vaccines
Guys guys you need to chill ax lol
First cousin marriage is halal nothing wrong with it. Islam allows it. Secondary cousin marriages do not create any de formalities at all. Its tje mixture of bad jeans that collide like u said Allah plans everything. You have many other religions thats don't marry cousins that have disabled 👶 children.
So please guys do your home work before doing any video. Respect ✊ and slam to all.
So what is allows it doesn't means it's a must or encouraged at all
In islam it is still allowed but strongly discouraged, the hukm is "makruh" which is close to forbidden but not sinful..
aaronjohn786 any links to where u got this from. im so curious to learn.
this knowledge is common among muslim..
apologise sir, i would like to rephrase my statement, it is close to "makruh" instead of absolute "makruh". in islam it is neither encouraged nor discouraged. Thats the better way to put it..
aaronjohn786 Thank you so much, May Allah reward you.
stop pouting everytime yu look up please.
hahaha hilarious
It isn’t allowed in islam
I mean thats weird but................if they love each other then maybe..
I love her😑😍
Stop blaming her for the make up and hijab she can do whatever she want stop being racist ppl god damn live in peace
Yes muslim is allowed to married with cousin but can u think or can u see? mostly they are married with relatives the children suffer bec. Of disabilities or mongoloid children i hope all muslim u think that.
what!.. no!!! that is disgusting. . not to mention the repercussions of inbreeding.. wtf is wrong with you guys encouraging that behavior?!
@Erica Swanberg wtf is wrong with you. Ever heard of adopt. And so what there’s a good chance they have a normal baby.
@@judycj01 ... Big chance to take for a child. I work in health care. I have seen repercussions of inbreeding.
And you're a weirdo to think it's ok.
@Erica Swanberg and what if they adopt
@@ericaswanberg8641 tf wrong with people that not ur religion bro ? That not ur life bro ? Are u planning to go inside there life or what keep ur advice to ur family bro
I am so glad I am a Hindu as we are told not to marry cousins or do any incest as this is disgusting. It is written in our scriptures that this is forbidden as it was revealed to us by God that this is wrong.
The earth is centre of the universe...that's written in hindu scriptures...that’s way way way more disguisting bradah!😂
@@amadturjo4576 How is that disgusting the universe is limitless the Earth could be the centre. Science has proven incest will cause problems.
Cousin marriage isnt incest. Also its very rare for it to cause genetic problems.
@@anow5084 it’s not rare😂 proof? it’s common if you marry more cousins that will break the family tree
Cousin marriage is good cousins marrying and boning is amazing
Am 25 and planning to marry 19 year my "second cousin once removed" , also both her parents are cousins. I don;t see any problem and risk are over rated.
you all are sick
@@bojotanasic9341 that's really rude dude
@@saraaaamir first of all this girl doesnt care about the subject she has a miror behind the camera so she can se if her tons of makeup is melting away thats whats most important to her and they think its ok for my kids to have sex with my sisters and im rude shut up bitches you dont have a brain grow one
If you are a pakistani , cousin marriage is okey
Hi iam muslimلا اله الا االه محمد رسول الله الله اكبر
How can both are are married you
18 year you are live like bother and sisters and one day you discussion with married each other how you do sex
Omg
It’s not weird to marry your cousin because if your parents married eachother you should follow their steps but sometimes picking your own choice and going into a random family it’s better of marrying your cousin and stay in the same family In my opinion.
Thats actually true.
@@bmwfan4552 I don’t get why people think it’s wrong tbh for example my rishta is done with my cousin now and I’m happy about it there’s nothing wrong with it
@@zaraalbinsiddique6611 me too, I'm also married with my cousin and were cool with it. Where are you from BTW?
@@bmwfan4552 Pakistan where r u from
Algeria🇩🇿❤️🇵🇰
I get sorta confused what do arab women look like are you white or are you arab i mean your pretty but what race are you
Yes it is permissible not just in the Quran but in the Bible
❤️My Mom and Dad are cousins
well.. 9 and 50 something was OK so.........
These two are confused lol
Lets not forget that rasulullah married kadija when she was around her 40s
Yes and not cousin
It's terrible, if you do this then don't have children, just because it's allowed doesn't make it right. It should not be allowed in the UK it's backward, however I don't see a problem with the age difference, how can you get hung up on the age and yet feel its ok to risk having children with terrible health conditions who will suffer all their lives.
Shes very pretty
3:33 - hope this guy was joking. Otherwise, Islam propagates coercion and violence against women. Search wadribuhnna - chapter 4 Verse 34 - scholars and people of the book dance around the literal wording by using various defences such as "for cultures of that era" or "the prophet did not advocate hitting". Circular reasoning.
We don't marry even from our clan its big abomination.
People may not like you if you do that sort of thing.
someone pls do her eyebrows the 2016-way... no one does this anymore you should know better
I think it's nice that First Cousin's marry... the Offspring is so smart... yea....Not an issue.. keeps the Money in the Family... yea... So what if 50% of the kids have medical problems...
Do istikarah. Then tell ur parents.
Answer: Yes it’s fucked
wrong
i disagree marrying your own relatives. you be puniiiiiiiish by God,,,,maybe not you but your child. I don't like the rule, laws
Fatima Abdelhalim never God He's self allow it . its in the Quran the beginning and last true faith
Shut up already
Fatim Abdelhalim Only sick people would even consider marrying their cousins. It is incest and greatly increases the chances of retarded children.
N45441 If not related, the danger is 2.5% but if related, its just 5%...
not good to speak for god like that! Do not judge lest you be judged!
Asians???
Say Pakistan or India
Korea China Japan no way
It’s fucking disgusting wtf
Age gap was worse than marrying a family member? Ok then.....I agree with sharing love, just not sexually with my family unfortunately
And crikey chill out with the make up lol great contrast with being 'modest' by wearing a hijab and the slapping all that on
The prophet married his cousin and you guys think it’s weird astagfirallah you shouldn’t say that
Cousin marriage is good cousins boning is amazing
Of course it’s very wrong
😊 she needs to get over herself...
I am 45. 2 year ago I married my first cousin. She was 9 but 11 now. She will get used to marriage over the next several years. Inshallah
In hindu🕉️ siblings marriage is not allowed ❌❌❌❌
Wtf means not allowed .....if two people fall in love then shit society and religion and cousins are not siblings unless u live under the same roof ....
This is absurd how do people start marriage when they're related 😕😕😕😕 you are destroying generations with giving birth to half Epps