what Burt is saying is perfectly reasonable. he's not homophobic and he never has been. he's setting the same kind of boundaries for Kurt that he set for Finn
But what about when Rachel and Finn got engaged, he and the parents practically made Finn sleep with a girl. Although it wasn’t under his roof he still knew what could have happened and that is out of his boundaries.
@@kikijean3534 Rachel and Finn wanted to get married... Burt and Rachel's dads only did this so they wouldn't. He actually didn't want Finn to sleep with her, he wanted them to fight by locking into one room so they would change their minds.
What’s this “no sleepovers with the other sex (straight)/same sex (gay)” policy of mostly american parents all about? Why not allowing them to have sleepovers? Even why not allowing sex at their home? Age of consent is 16 in many US states, and it’s even as low as 14 in for example Germany. As long as the parents know who is sleeping over and had a sex talk with their kids at some point I think it’s completely fine. If the teenagers are deeply in love they will have sex somehow anyway, maybe even in more dangerous environments than at an sleepover (for example at a party?!?)
I stringly disagree, nothing happend all they did was sleep nothing inappropriate happend at all he shouldve just asked if it was okay for him to stay but his dad shouldve trusted kurt.
@@GOOBGLOB that is exactly the point. Burt isnt piased cause Blaine sleeped in the house, he is pissed cause Kurt didn't talt to Burt that he have someone sleeping in the house
Willow World Traveler You’re right, but Kurt has some valid points here too, I mean his dad didn’t necessarily mean he would have said no to him having Blaine sleepover, but if he has no problem with Finn having Puck sleepover or if he would set the same rule to Finn having a girl over then Kurt maybe has a right to think he’s being subjected to some unfair boundaries. All in all Burt’s right that Kurt should have asked him, but it’s mainly because as he said he had no idea what two guys do when they’re together which is why Kurt asked him to look into it so they could talk things through in the future.
I totally agree. I'm bi and my parents don't allow me to have "sleepovers" with girls or guys. It's a safety thing. I'm actually grateful my parents have that rule because it means they respect me enough to be worried about my safety. I'd be more upset if they didn't care at all.
Taja Walker thanks, but you don't have to feel sorry for me. I never wanted to have a sleep over to begin with. I'm not really a social person, so I don't feel like I'm missing out on much.
I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Kurt essentially asked his dad to prepare for the day when Kurt asks him about sex. I don't know why but it was funny. Hesitant Kurt is cute.
He wasn't hesitant. He was being pretend-shy so he could bait his father into finding more common ground between them. It worked (Kurt is definitely not stupid when it comes to other people).
you know this interaction really has remarkably little to do with sexual orientation. A kid is pissed that Dad is trying to enforce rules, he thinks are silly. Said kid is intentionally making Dad feel inadequate, or uncomfortable by questioning their logic and purpose, because that is the kind of thing teens like to do, so Dad will leave him alone next time. its all about teens and parents behaving like teens and parents.
But in this case, Kurt is hurt because his father somehow does not trust him as much as Kurt trusts himself even though it is the typical "leave the door open policy" when involving sex with any sexual partner. And we know Kurt trusts himself a lot because in the season 3 episode The First Time, he resisted having sex with Blaine who is pretty drunk after hanging out at a gay bar called Scandals. The point here is Burt should have known he can trust Kurt to not have sex or a sleepover. Burt took it a little too far because Blaine only slept in the bed. This "sleepover" is only just sleeping because your typical sleepover involves having a fun party before sleeping and maybe some funny business with the sleeping part that involves "having the door open", which none of this happened. Although, Blaine could have slept anywhere else in Burt's house besides in Kurt's room so Burt would not be hard on Kurt. But nevertheless, I am loving the Burt and Kurt scenes so much as even though they love each other, they still hash over serious matters like sex and other subjects.
I know! Like, his dad is not being unreasonable! Like, if I found my gay son with an attractive man in his bed I’d be pissed too if that happened without my permission! I’d get into momma mode and be like, “no child! You are too young!”
I get Kurt sometimes has to pull the “is it cause I’m gay” card out but I think Burt was just being a typical dad like if you have a boy/girl in your room you have to keep the door open or like if they stay the night they have to sleep on the couch
Kurt wasn't planning on doing anything sexual though. When he was "walked in on" by Burt he didn't feel interrupted or invaded. He only brought Blaine home because he was drunk, if he was sober they wouldn't have had a sleepover.
@@DivisonXx yes, so what was to stop him from explaining the situation to his dad and asking for permission...? Whether kurts intentions were good or not you don't go behind your parents back like that. If he had just asked, burt would've never send Blaine home in his condition. That's how you build trust and respect. Burt has always been fair and Kurt definitely hasn't given him enough credit for that
@@chiraine1 It was probably very late at night. Why else would he bring him home, an -in-the-middle-of-the-day sleepover? He wasn't trying to go behind anyone's back. Why are you trying to make it seem like Kurt was trying to sneak around?
@@DivisonXxdoesnt matter should've woken him up and given him a heads up anyway or call on the way home. Im not making it seem like he's sneaking around, im just saying it's better to be upfront and communicate instead of his dad waking up and finding blaine and not knowing what's going on in his own house. THATS what's making it seem like he's sneaking around. But you're a kid aren't you? Well let me tell you something. Ive had plenty of similar situations when i was a teenager and no matter how late a party or just hanging out got, whether i thought it was saver/easier to bring home a girl or a guy friend or for me to stay with them I always called my parents no matter what. And they've always trusted me for it. Parents care way more about what's going on with you, than what time it is. And It's always easier to be upfront, than to have to explain after the fact.
@@chiraine1 Yeah, and it's not like he got punished for it. Burt just wants to know what the plan is ahead of time in the future. My parents would NEVER let me have a guy spend the night, even if they knew we were just friends. And in this case, burt didn't even know that. I think he handled it very well
B.M Undercover I'm assuming Kurt's mom took care of that stuff before she passed. And I'm assuming she's dead cause I really can't remember much about this show.
Kurt was a nightmare this episode. First he's pissed at Blaine for figuring out his sexuality and wondering if hes bi. Then he acts like his dad is being homophobic by asking him not to have sleepovers with boys.
Kurt was totally hipercrital, nobody batted an eye when he made out with Brittany, when he was trying to figer out if he was gay or stright, but gets all upset when Blane kisses Rachel, total dubble standers. I did not at all like Kurt in this episode.
I was so annoyed with Kurt in this episode. It's okay for Blaine to be bisexual and he should also know that his father loves him and cares about him so much. Burt has never been homophobic toward him; he has always been supportive of his son from the day Kurt asked him for sensible heels when he was a toddler.
@@maliaferry8212 the point of making out with Brittany was not to figure out if he was gay or straight, it was just Kurt's attempt to please his dad's old dreams about spending time with his son who Burt expected to be straight, due to the environment in which he himself was growing up. And as Burt was spending a lot of time with his new stepson Finn, he was happy about it and was telling Kurt stories about them spending time like a typical father with his straight son, so Kurt became jealous that Burt might would forget about his actual gay son (which was not true and groundless because Burt was happy not about spending time like a stereotypical straight father and son, but about establishing good relationships with a new future family member), because it wasn't interesting for him to go on a football match etc., that's why he decided to pretend he was straight, and Brittany wanting to kiss him, because he was the last and only boy at school she haven't kissed till that time, was the perfect opportunity to portray and somehow prove his (fake)straightness to his dad, so that he could spend more time with him as Finn did. Till and after this time Kurt was 1000% aware and sure that he was gay and not straight or bi. It wasn't about finding himself and experimenting, it was just about Kurt's groundless jealousy which led to these weird behavior and situations.
I don't think Kurt was "acting" like his dad was being homophobic. To Kurt, it just felt homophobic. He can't help how he feels and his dad is right and perfectly reasonable but the way he kept saying "being inappropriate" likely made Kurt feel like he was being shamed and naturally he believed his sexuality had to do with that. Kurt's behavior in this specific scene was not nightmaric.
lol this comes back to bite Kurt in the next episode haha. Burt brings home the pamphlets to talk and Kurt didn't want to. you got to love the relationship the two of them had. a dad who is clueless in some regards, but does try his best to love, respect, and stand up for his son. and he was fair. he would not let Finn sleep with a girl in the house so it is not just him being homophobic (which the show showed many times he was not)
@No Thanks what’s so wrong with underage sex? In Germany age of consent is 14, in some US states 16. What’s wrong with having sex at home? Parents shouldn’t restrict too much imho, except their child wants to hook-up with strangers, parents shouldn’t allow that. But with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Why not? They will have sex anyway somehow, maybe even in a more dangerous environment (parties, outdoors, ...)
Courtney Denzer look at where Kurts coming from tho, if Finn has a boy sleep over things would be perfectly normal but because Kurts gay he has to assure his dad nothing will happen instead of receiving the same level of trust as Finn simply because of sexual orientation. So playing by that logic if Kurt has a girl sleep over without informing his dad would he have still received this talk since he’s gay or would he unlike Finn have to go through his dad for both genders? Which makes it seem like the dad has more trust in Finn than Kurt, because Finn is straight while Kurt needs more caution for being gay.
what no you didnt get it. Kurt having a boy sleeping over is the same a finn having a girl sleep over. And burt doesnt accept that either. If finn had a boy sleep over there is no or VERY little Chance of them doing anything inappropriate
@@yard8616 So the answer for this situation for Finn and Kurt is Finn have a sleepover with Blaine and Kurt with Rachel And in the night somebody has to change the room :)
I hate how Kurt has this habit of deflecting and ignoring the real point when people talk to him. He tries to make everything an issue with his sexuality when in reality his dad is just trying to be a responsible parent.
Yeah but also people treated him terribly due to his sexuality! Thats canon! And also its weird being in that situation because in the back of your mind its like "Does my parent wish I was a different?" which is really asking "Is my parent's love conditional?" Its hard to deal with and contemplate. And even if you have tentatively accepting parents like Burt you're still scared, I've met people with loving parents who were still scared. Kurt does so much for his dad, he loves his dad so much. So don't see his reactions as one of ego or arrogance but just him being a scared kid A few months ago he was in the closet, he doesn't know how far his dad will go with tolerating him (he doesn't know how gay he's allowed to be basically)
I actually like Burt, because he's very relatable as parent. The struggle of finding a balance of being accepting of who their children are and still setting boundaries of what is and wat isnt appropriate. He's not perfect, sometimes he gets it sometimes he misses.
this scene just made me think: it must be really hard trying to have sleepovers with people when your bi, like your parents must be really strict with that stuff
Sometimes, my parents trust me but they're still protective, they come in and check in on us and were not aloud to sleep in the same bed, we crash on the couch
Kurt is fair in asking his dad to educate himself, but the dad is acting how any other parent would act (actually, being much more calm). It's got 0 to do with being gay. It's his underage child sleeping in the same bed as someone who is of the gender they're attracted to. And furthermore, the other person is someone the kid is attracted to, and the attraction is mutual. I have a trans friend who had extremely strictly religious parents, but when she came out to them they started doing their best to adapt. One day, she was about to go out wearing a skirt and her parents told her she couldn't wear it and to change. She got upset because she thought they weren't letting her out in female clothing. Their reply was brilliant. "No, if you were our daughter-"(ok, they got that a bit wrong but they were trying)"we wouldn't let you out in that either. It's far too short, just find something a bit longer." How brilliant is that haha. These parents didn't even allow Harry Potter, Pokemon, or Sabrina when my friend was little!
Diana Woods The only when this isn’t acceptable to do is when the child’s bi even then they probably shouldn’t sleep on the same bed or just have some prohibitions.
A few years after I started transitioning (I started very young, blockers at 11, hormones 13. I was 14 at the time this happened) I was shopping with my mom and found a skirt I liked but it was quite short. I remember she told me I could get it but couldn't wear it out because it would be "like I was asking to get raped" and looking back, I appreciate that she thought of things like that and cared enough to say something. (For the record, I know that no one asks to get raped and my mom doesn't think that either but she knew things about the world and men that I didn't know at that age and her saying that helped me be more aware that even though it doesn't matter to a rapist what you are wearing, suggestive clothing on a 14 year old will attract all the wrong attention). Hope that makes sense, I suck at explaining. Your comment on your friend reminded me of that situation I was in and thought I'd share.
Burt’s a good dad. In all seriousness, if Kurt had just asked him before bringing Blaine home and explained the situation, he probably would’ve said yes. Might’ve made Blaine sleep on the couch, but at least he would’ve had a safe place to sleep without Kurt causing tension with his dad.
Can y’all just enjoy their father/som relationship? Burt did what a father usually does no matter his kids’ sexuality. And Kurt was just being teenager who like all of us goes thru a changing stage. They cared and loved each others so much.
I'm bi and my rule was "anyone can sleep over if their parents are okay with it." Apparently our parents all thought DnD was good birth control by itself lol
I think Burt should have said “From what I gather, something went IN in the tent.” Giggity giggity. Truth be told. I never watched Brokeback Mountain but I love that reference. It was flat out hilarious
This is similar to my conversations with may parents. Not the topic but the way kurt tries to slip through the cracks and questions him. And burt winning in the end even though you don't understand.
I don't understand this reaction: I would allow my children to have sleepovers but I would also make sure that they have proper sex education at the beginning of their puberty so that accidental pregnancies, STDs and other sorts of accidents don't happen as well as teaching them to set boundaries so that they don't let themselves get beaten, choked or abused in a way that they clearly don't want but are too scared to tell. It will be an awkward feeling at first but I think it is important to have an open, mature conversation about that to ensure the safety of my children.
Absolutely. It wouldn't have been an issue if Kurt had come up to him and said, "Hey, Blaine is here, he's drunk and he can't drive himself home, can he stay here for the night?" -- Burt could have simply been like, "I'm not happy about the drinking, but I can call his dad and let him know where he is, and you can make him up a bed on the couch." If Kurt doesn't come to him with this, no matter what time of night it is, Burt has no choice but to assume Kurt's hiding it from him for a nefarious reason. If they don't trust each other to let each other know what's going on, they can only assume the worst, and that's not a good father-son dynamic.
I get where Burt is coming from, but c'mon, they slept in the same bed, fully clothed, and Blaine was drunk, that's the only reason that he stayed there, it's not that big a deal. BTW, I've watched this show so many times!! 😁😁
1234lyndia duh, because he’s a teen. he’s trying to up the ante and be offended so his dad stops bothering him. and also it’s a moot point to say this because kurt gives in in the end and points out that he needs guidance. some “rules” don’t sound like rules to kids, they just sound like restriction for the sake of it. also this is the way they chose for kurt to let burt know that he feels uneducated, i don’t see someone like kurt doing it outright when he apparently cannot even stomach watching any porn at this point. they’re trying to have a somewhat cohesive transition to the next episode which is about sex ed
Bertasu being gay doesn’t give anyone the right to break the rules in their parent’s house or disrespect their parents. Finn is not allowed to have girls sleep over and Kurt is not allowed to have boys sleep over. Kurt was disrespectful in this clip.
But remember when Kurt brought Brittany over and he literally didn’t have a problem with it I even think he said something about using protection implying sex so even if he was acting how any other parent would act I still think it had a little bit to do with the fact that he’s gay
Burt is definitely right here. He said “isn’t he gay?” so he definitely had heard about Blaine’s sexuality from Kurt. His son having another gay guy sleeping in his bed without even him mentioning that to his dad was wrong. I know Burt doesn’t know gay stuff so he can’t talk to Kurt the way he can to Finn but he tries and Kurt should have addressed that problem with his dad separately from the Blaine issue. His dad would never let his straight stepson have a girl over either.
Blaine goes and tell Burt he was gay. Remember that scene where Kurt can't make sexy face and Blaine went to Burt to advise him to get a sex talk. He said he was gay
I think he was ok with it Kurt and Brittany because he already knew Kurt was gay. He was just confused why Kurt was going through the trouble in acting straight. Remember, when Kurt came out to him Burt replied with "I know. I knew since you were three. All you wanted were a pair of sensible heels".
Because assaulting a teenager would’ve absolutely been a healthy thing to do… like wow, Burt didn’t commit a crime, truly the gold standard of parenting. 🙄
Asking him to educate himself=totally fair. Getting all defensive about someone being in his bed=totally teenager. Defensive about everything! Burt doesn't have a bad bone in his body. When I had boys in my bed at that age (and younger), they were gay and straight and my dad tried to set boundaries but was to embarrassed to say the words. Poor dude. Luckily, even though i lost my virginity at basically 14, I've always been hyper responsible about 'Safe Sex'. Birth Control injections plus a condom.
I hate how the older I get the more I agree with the parents in shows/movies. I think I was at Kurt's side way back 10 years ago when because I was too quick to be defensive and call hypocrisy. But I absolutely agree with Kurt's dad now. He definitely trusts Kurt and he wasn't super strict with him and Finn. They got a lot of freedom. But it's definitely his and his stepmom's house, so it's their rules and these rules make perfect sense to me. Kurt did the right thing being a responsible friend, but I think he should have woken up Burt to give him a heads up.
LOL before even reading your comment I left a similar reply to someone else about 2 minutes ago. Don’t get me started on The Little Mermaid! “I’m 16 years old, I’m not a child!” I used to agree with Ariel, now I’m like “you ARE still a child young lady, sit yourself down and stop being rude to your father!”
This had absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Burt was establishing reasonable ground rules for his son and his possible boyfriend. Those are the same rules any good parent should have for their children, regardless of who they date. Burt was the best parent on the show.
I mean after he explained why he was sleeping over I don't think it should've been. Problem Kurt was being responsible. Also we don't know if they were sleeping in the same bed Kurt could've just woke up and went to do his morning routine.
If Kurt talked to me the way he did to his dad, his clock would be cleaned and then his ass would be grounded. Burt’s well within his rights to set boundaries and rules.
I understand both points of view tbh. I don't believe Burt was being homophobic, he was just protecting his son, even more if we consider Kurt's obvious feelings for Blaine (despite him doing the right thing for his drunken friend). But I also understand Kurt, most of the time in the series, he was treated like a girl by those around him, something we did not see with other gay characters, and while I know this is the writers fault, I understand him being tired of not being able to bring a guy friend without feeling that people are judging him.
what Burt is saying is perfectly reasonable. he's not homophobic and he never has been. he's setting the same kind of boundaries for Kurt that he set for Finn
But what about when Rachel and Finn got engaged, he and the parents practically made Finn sleep with a girl. Although it wasn’t under his roof he still knew what could have happened and that is out of his boundaries.
Ikr
Burt is not Homophobic, Finn is
@@kikijean3534 Rachel and Finn wanted to get married... Burt and Rachel's dads only did this so they wouldn't. He actually didn't want Finn to sleep with her, he wanted them to fight by locking into one room so they would change their minds.
@@briloveskurthummelbriones1565 Did you even watch this show?
With that logic, bi kids we can't have anyone to sleepover lol
Luis SR haha
In their beds! That is the point! Why is Kurt ignoring that? Blaine could have slept on the couch for crying out loud.
That's my case, my mom doesn't allow me to sleepover in anyone's house.
No if that’s the case the person you are dating can’t sleep over.
Tis a sad life we live lmao
Burt is right tbh. He wouldn’t let Finn have a sleepover with a girl so Kurt shouldn’t have sleepovers with boys
how so
Perfectly reasonable to say "you can't have a possible sexual partner over without talking to us first"
@@inalaska1208 Yeah, cuz teenagers are so honest lol
What’s this “no sleepovers with the other sex (straight)/same sex (gay)” policy of mostly american parents all about? Why not allowing them to have sleepovers? Even why not allowing sex at their home? Age of consent is 16 in many US states, and it’s even as low as 14 in for example Germany. As long as the parents know who is sleeping over and had a sex talk with their kids at some point I think it’s completely fine.
If the teenagers are deeply in love they will have sex somehow anyway, maybe even in more dangerous environments than at an sleepover (for example at a party?!?)
SXFlyer Parents house = parents rules 🤷🏻♀️
Sure they cant prevent sex, but making it difficult is good enough for them
Burt is just trying to make sure Kurt doesn't end up pregnant is all. Big deal.
Unless kurt is transgender i dont think he can get pregnant
alexacq1 • lol I’ve been waiting for someone to take this seriously 😂
you dont say
Valiso UwU trans don’t get pregnant unless there’s a uterus biologically
we must protect Lady Hummel from getting pregnant
Burt has a point. Either way kurt should have asked his dad... it would be the same if it were a girl.
Honestly
I stringly disagree, nothing happend all they did was sleep nothing inappropriate happend at all he shouldve just asked if it was okay for him to stay but his dad shouldve trusted kurt.
@@GOOBGLOB that is exactly the point. Burt isnt piased cause Blaine sleeped in the house, he is pissed cause Kurt didn't talt to Burt that he have someone sleeping in the house
Willow World Traveler
You’re right, but Kurt has some valid points here too, I mean his dad didn’t necessarily mean he would have said no to him having Blaine sleepover, but if he has no problem with Finn having Puck sleepover or if he would set the same rule to Finn having a girl over then Kurt maybe has a right to think he’s being subjected to some unfair boundaries. All in all Burt’s right that Kurt should have asked him, but it’s mainly because as he said he had no idea what two guys do when they’re together which is why Kurt asked him to look into it so they could talk things through in the future.
Ryan the weirdo, my dad won’t let me have a straight guy sleep in my bed- even if we’re strictly just friends.
They both have valid points here.
I totally agree. I'm bi and my parents don't allow me to have "sleepovers" with girls or guys. It's a safety thing. I'm actually grateful my parents have that rule because it means they respect me enough to be worried about my safety. I'd be more upset if they didn't care at all.
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I kind of feel sorry for u.. the only thing u can have a sleep over with is a pillow and sleeping bag 😂
Taja Walker thanks, but you don't have to feel sorry for me. I never wanted to have a sleep over to begin with. I'm not really a social person, so I don't feel like I'm missing out on much.
Aaron Hoagland I know how you feel. I've never been social that much myself.
Ali Song yeah
I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Kurt essentially asked his dad to prepare for the day when Kurt asks him about sex. I don't know why but it was funny. Hesitant Kurt is cute.
Riley Connor Hale oh I was laughing too
Riley Connor Hale Which was literally the next week 😂
He wasn't hesitant. He was being pretend-shy so he could bait his father into finding more common ground between them. It worked (Kurt is definitely not stupid when it comes to other people).
@@heddalee i agree 100%
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I'm gay and I don't like how Kurt is trying to make his dad out to be homophobic because he doesn't want Kurt having boys sleep over
Kurt Hummel This has nothing to do with stereotypes. It is normal for a parent to not want their teenage child to engage in sexual activities
you know this interaction really has remarkably little to do with sexual orientation. A kid is pissed that Dad is trying to enforce rules, he thinks are silly. Said kid is intentionally making Dad feel inadequate, or uncomfortable by questioning their logic and purpose, because that is the kind of thing teens like to do, so Dad will leave him alone next time. its all about teens and parents behaving like teens and parents.
But in this case, Kurt is hurt because his father somehow does not trust him as much as Kurt trusts himself even though it is the typical "leave the door open policy" when involving sex with any sexual partner. And we know Kurt trusts himself a lot because in the season 3 episode The First Time, he resisted having sex with Blaine who is pretty drunk after hanging out at a gay bar called Scandals. The point here is Burt should have known he can trust Kurt to not have sex or a sleepover. Burt took it a little too far because Blaine only slept in the bed. This "sleepover" is only just sleeping because your typical sleepover involves having a fun party before sleeping and maybe some funny business with the sleeping part that involves "having the door open", which none of this happened. Although, Blaine could have slept anywhere else in Burt's house besides in Kurt's room so Burt would not be hard on Kurt.
But nevertheless, I am loving the Burt and Kurt scenes so much as even though they love each other, they still hash over serious matters like sex and other subjects.
Robert Nicholson I think kurt misunderstood what Burt was trying to say
I know! Like, his dad is not being unreasonable! Like, if I found my gay son with an attractive man in his bed I’d be pissed too if that happened without my permission! I’d get into momma mode and be like, “no child! You are too young!”
"Something went down in the tent"
Man, yeah, monopoly was intense.
The movie's really not ambiguous about what happened, is the funny part
I mean... It really is an intense game but... lol
I’m gay and I agree with Burt. He setting boundaries and rules for his children straight or not.
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I get Kurt sometimes has to pull the “is it cause I’m gay” card out but I think Burt was just being a typical dad like if you have a boy/girl in your room you have to keep the door open or like if they stay the night they have to sleep on the couch
Kurt wasn't planning on doing anything sexual though. When he was "walked in on" by Burt he didn't feel interrupted or invaded. He only brought Blaine home because he was drunk, if he was sober they wouldn't have had a sleepover.
@@DivisonXx yes, so what was to stop him from explaining the situation to his dad and asking for permission...? Whether kurts intentions were good or not you don't go behind your parents back like that. If he had just asked, burt would've never send Blaine home in his condition. That's how you build trust and respect. Burt has always been fair and Kurt definitely hasn't given him enough credit for that
@@chiraine1 It was probably very late at night. Why else would he bring him home, an -in-the-middle-of-the-day sleepover? He wasn't trying to go behind anyone's back. Why are you trying to make it seem like Kurt was trying to sneak around?
@@DivisonXxdoesnt matter should've woken him up and given him a heads up anyway or call on the way home. Im not making it seem like he's sneaking around, im just saying it's better to be upfront and communicate instead of his dad waking up and finding blaine and not knowing what's going on in his own house. THATS what's making it seem like he's sneaking around. But you're a kid aren't you? Well let me tell you something. Ive had plenty of similar situations when i was a teenager and no matter how late a party or just hanging out got, whether i thought it was saver/easier to bring home a girl or a guy friend or for me to stay with them I always called my parents no matter what. And they've always trusted me for it. Parents care way more about what's going on with you, than what time it is. And It's always easier to be upfront, than to have to explain after the fact.
@@chiraine1 Yeah, and it's not like he got punished for it. Burt just wants to know what the plan is ahead of time in the future. My parents would NEVER let me have a guy spend the night, even if they knew we were just friends. And in this case, burt didn't even know that. I think he handled it very well
I like how Kurt is younger and knows how to Cook really well and Burt is older and doesn't know how to Cook.
good point
B.M Undercover I'm assuming Kurt's mom took care of that stuff before she passed. And I'm assuming she's dead cause I really can't remember much about this show.
B.M Undercover I can kind of cook and my dad can barely make a sandwich.
I guess Kurt's mom did cooking when she was alive, and then probably Kurt took over the kitchen.
Kurt learned Cooking from his mom, he looks more like his mom than his dad
Kurt was a nightmare this episode. First he's pissed at Blaine for figuring out his sexuality and wondering if hes bi. Then he acts like his dad is being homophobic by asking him not to have sleepovers with boys.
Deffo! But he’s a teenager
Kurt was totally hipercrital, nobody batted an eye when he made out with Brittany, when he was trying to figer out if he was gay or stright, but gets all upset when Blane kisses Rachel, total dubble standers. I did not at all like Kurt in this episode.
I was so annoyed with Kurt in this episode. It's okay for Blaine to be bisexual and he should also know that his father loves him and cares about him so much. Burt has never been homophobic toward him; he has always been supportive of his son from the day Kurt asked him for sensible heels when he was a toddler.
@@maliaferry8212 the point of making out with Brittany was not to figure out if he was gay or straight, it was just Kurt's attempt to please his dad's old dreams about spending time with his son who Burt expected to be straight, due to the environment in which he himself was growing up. And as Burt was spending a lot of time with his new stepson Finn, he was happy about it and was telling Kurt stories about them spending time like a typical father with his straight son, so Kurt became jealous that Burt might would forget about his actual gay son (which was not true and groundless because Burt was happy not about spending time like a stereotypical straight father and son, but about establishing good relationships with a new future family member), because it wasn't interesting for him to go on a football match etc., that's why he decided to pretend he was straight, and Brittany wanting to kiss him, because he was the last and only boy at school she haven't kissed till that time, was the perfect opportunity to portray and somehow prove his (fake)straightness to his dad, so that he could spend more time with him as Finn did. Till and after this time Kurt was 1000% aware and sure that he was gay and not straight or bi. It wasn't about finding himself and experimenting, it was just about Kurt's groundless jealousy which led to these weird behavior and situations.
I don't think Kurt was "acting" like his dad was being homophobic. To Kurt, it just felt homophobic. He can't help how he feels and his dad is right and perfectly reasonable but the way he kept saying "being inappropriate" likely made Kurt feel like he was being shamed and naturally he believed his sexuality had to do with that. Kurt's behavior in this specific scene was not nightmaric.
"Something went down in the tent." AHAHAHAHA
T we all know what happened in that tent
Kurt and Blaine having sex
Funny part is the movie's really not ambiguous about it
Something definitely went down in the tent
"from what i gather SOMETHING went down in the tent" LMAOOOOOOO
1:27 Pause. Just pause.
ellyuploads haha oh my god
everything about chris colfer is cute. even his mountains of chins :3
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ellyuploads I paused!😂😂😂
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lol this comes back to bite Kurt in the next episode haha. Burt brings home the pamphlets to talk and Kurt didn't want to. you got to love the relationship the two of them had. a dad who is clueless in some regards, but does try his best to love, respect, and stand up for his son. and he was fair. he would not let Finn sleep with a girl in the house so it is not just him being homophobic (which the show showed many times he was not)
yep
Seth Ronalds yep
I WENT THROUGH THE WHOLE BROKE BACK MOUNTAIN FROM WHAT I GATHER SOMETHING WENT ON IN THE TENT OMG
Burt just didn’t want his kids having underage sex in his house. He a good dad. Kurt was so annoying sometimes tbj
@No Thanks
what’s so wrong with underage sex? In Germany age of consent is 14, in some US states 16. What’s wrong with having sex at home? Parents shouldn’t restrict too much imho, except their child wants to hook-up with strangers, parents shouldn’t allow that. But with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Why not? They will have sex anyway somehow, maybe even in a more dangerous environment (parties, outdoors, ...)
Real shit Kurt was using the gay card here and it really wasn’t fair
Courtney Denzer look at where Kurts coming from tho, if Finn has a boy sleep over things would be perfectly normal but because Kurts gay he has to assure his dad nothing will happen instead of receiving the same level of trust as Finn simply because of sexual orientation. So playing by that logic if Kurt has a girl sleep over without informing his dad would he have still received this talk since he’s gay or would he unlike Finn have to go through his dad for both genders? Which makes it seem like the dad has more trust in Finn than Kurt, because Finn is straight while Kurt needs more caution for being gay.
what no you didnt get it. Kurt having a boy sleeping over is the same a finn having a girl sleep over. And burt doesnt accept that either. If finn had a boy sleep over there is no or VERY little Chance of them doing anything inappropriate
@@yard8616
So the answer for this situation for Finn and Kurt is
Finn have a sleepover with Blaine and Kurt with Rachel
And in the night somebody has to change the room :)
I LOVE BURT
me 2
I Frickin love Burt!
From what I gather something went down on the tent. Lol, yes. 😂😂. I love Burt.
I hate how Kurt has this habit of deflecting and ignoring the real point when people talk to him. He tries to make everything an issue with his sexuality when in reality his dad is just trying to be a responsible parent.
Yeah but also people treated him terribly due to his sexuality! Thats canon!
And also its weird being in that situation because in the back of your mind its like "Does my parent wish I was a different?" which is really asking "Is my parent's love conditional?"
Its hard to deal with and contemplate. And even if you have tentatively accepting parents like Burt you're still scared, I've met people with loving parents who were still scared.
Kurt does so much for his dad, he loves his dad so much. So don't see his reactions as one of ego or arrogance but just him being a scared kid
A few months ago he was in the closet, he doesn't know how far his dad will go with tolerating him (he doesn't know how gay he's allowed to be basically)
So we're not going to talk about how he watched Brokeback Mountain with Kurt?
I had to watch The Wolf of Wall Street with my dad.
🤣🤣🤣
Kurt is honestly the best about telling people to get educated on same sex-sex because it is in their lives. We need more of this
I actually like Burt, because he's very relatable as parent. The struggle of finding a balance of being accepting of who their children are and still setting boundaries of what is and wat isnt appropriate. He's not perfect, sometimes he gets it sometimes he misses.
this scene just made me think: it must be really hard trying to have sleepovers with people when your bi, like your parents must be really strict with that stuff
Sometimes, my parents trust me but they're still protective, they come in and check in on us and were not aloud to sleep in the same bed, we crash on the couch
Kurt is fair in asking his dad to educate himself, but the dad is acting how any other parent would act (actually, being much more calm). It's got 0 to do with being gay. It's his underage child sleeping in the same bed as someone who is of the gender they're attracted to. And furthermore, the other person is someone the kid is attracted to, and the attraction is mutual.
I have a trans friend who had extremely strictly religious parents, but when she came out to them they started doing their best to adapt. One day, she was about to go out wearing a skirt and her parents told her she couldn't wear it and to change. She got upset because she thought they weren't letting her out in female clothing.
Their reply was brilliant. "No, if you were our daughter-"(ok, they got that a bit wrong but they were trying)"we wouldn't let you out in that either. It's far too short, just find something a bit longer."
How brilliant is that haha. These parents didn't even allow Harry Potter, Pokemon, or Sabrina when my friend was little!
Diana Woods The only when this isn’t acceptable to do is when the child’s bi even then they probably shouldn’t sleep on the same bed or just have some prohibitions.
A few years after I started transitioning (I started very young, blockers at 11, hormones 13. I was 14 at the time this happened) I was shopping with my mom and found a skirt I liked but it was quite short. I remember she told me I could get it but couldn't wear it out because it would be "like I was asking to get raped" and looking back, I appreciate that she thought of things like that and cared enough to say something. (For the record, I know that no one asks to get raped and my mom doesn't think that either but she knew things about the world and men that I didn't know at that age and her saying that helped me be more aware that even though it doesn't matter to a rapist what you are wearing, suggestive clothing on a 14 year old will attract all the wrong attention). Hope that makes sense, I suck at explaining. Your comment on your friend reminded me of that situation I was in and thought I'd share.
@@ItsLunaRegina As a transguy who experienced 13 as a girl, that was a rough year. People had never objectified me more and haven't since
Man, I loved Burt’s character he was so awesome ❤
I know this is kinda unrelated but I love Kurt's voice.
Burt’s a good dad. In all seriousness, if Kurt had just asked him before bringing Blaine home and explained the situation, he probably would’ve said yes. Might’ve made Blaine sleep on the couch, but at least he would’ve had a safe place to sleep without Kurt causing tension with his dad.
That is so true I don't think he would have refused
I was thinking what if Finn just walked in after his name was yelled
I would never allow Finn! to
*Finn enters* You called?
"From what I gathered, something went down in that tent" oh the good old brokeback tent scene
I love Kurt and Burt's relationship
His voice is so soft OMG
NOT THE BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN REFERENCE THAT TOOK ME OUUUTTTT
Lol Love Kurt He's Adorable Add The Scene When Blaine Is Talking To Kurt & Says He Might Be Bisexual Lol That Scene 2x14
Can y’all just enjoy their father/som relationship? Burt did what a father usually does no matter his kids’ sexuality. And Kurt was just being teenager who like all of us goes thru a changing stage. They cared and loved each others so much.
kurt is too precious
I'm bi and my rule was "anyone can sleep over if their parents are okay with it." Apparently our parents all thought DnD was good birth control by itself lol
"From what I gather, something went down in the tent"
i loved kurt’s relationship with his dad. it was one of my favorites dynamics on the entire show
One of the best TV dad’s of all time. The actor and the character don’t get the credit they deserved.
I think Burt should have said “From what I gather, something went IN in the tent.” Giggity giggity.
Truth be told. I never watched Brokeback Mountain but I love that reference. It was flat out hilarious
Kurt looked so awkward at the end
Burt will always be the heart of Glee
i love how most of the comments are like 2018 - it makes me so happy that gleeks are still alive and well
I sat through the whole of brokeback mountain, from what I gathered something went down in the tent 🤣that tickled me
This is similar to my conversations with may parents. Not the topic but the way kurt tries to slip through the cracks and questions him. And burt winning in the end even though you don't understand.
I love how Kurt says "It's Blaine he's intrested in Rachel"
Burt is the best character from this show
I loved the statement of burt about the tent scene in brokeback mountain😂
I hate him using the word inappropite. Kurts face is so cute I just gunna die now
Honestly, Burt was the best character on the show. He was kinda bad in the first season, but his character growth was just 👏👏👏.
firstly, everyone sucked in S1
secondly, I love your pfp
Plot hole. He was ok with kurt and brittany doin the dirty in the basement but not kurt and blaine in the house lol
holy crap I miss him. I miss this
Oh thank god! I was worried as I read the title. I thought it was about Blaine being in Burt's bed.
I don't understand this reaction: I would allow my children to have sleepovers but I would also make sure that they have proper sex education at the beginning of their puberty so that accidental pregnancies, STDs and other sorts of accidents don't happen as well as teaching them to set boundaries so that they don't let themselves get beaten, choked or abused in a way that they clearly don't want but are too scared to tell.
It will be an awkward feeling at first but I think it is important to have an open, mature conversation about that to ensure the safety of my children.
Kurt is so so so FUCKING cute on this
Why do I relate to Burt about the brokback mountain thing
They both have valid points. His dad isn't just doing it because he's gay
firsttt love this channel
Burt bless 💕
Burt has a point. I’d be the same way with my child. I would want them to ask me if someone is drunk that they can’t can’t drive I would understand
Absolutely. It wouldn't have been an issue if Kurt had come up to him and said, "Hey, Blaine is here, he's drunk and he can't drive himself home, can he stay here for the night?" -- Burt could have simply been like, "I'm not happy about the drinking, but I can call his dad and let him know where he is, and you can make him up a bed on the couch." If Kurt doesn't come to him with this, no matter what time of night it is, Burt has no choice but to assume Kurt's hiding it from him for a nefarious reason. If they don't trust each other to let each other know what's going on, they can only assume the worst, and that's not a good father-son dynamic.
1st! I love this scene haah
Maisie Moore me too
I get where Burt is coming from, but c'mon, they slept in the same bed, fully clothed, and Blaine was drunk, that's the only reason that he stayed there, it's not that big a deal.
BTW, I've watched this show so many times!! 😁😁
bold interaction between father and son - way to go
I love Glee Its my favourite on Netflix ❤️❤️
please upload the scene when they talk about Burt telling him that he is gonna find as brave as him, or something like that.
Kurt was actually trying to manipulate the situation while Burt was trying to enforce rules.
1234lyndia duh, because he’s a teen. he’s trying to up the ante and be offended so his dad stops bothering him. and also it’s a moot point to say this because kurt gives in in the end and points out that he needs guidance. some “rules” don’t sound like rules to kids, they just sound like restriction for the sake of it. also this is the way they chose for kurt to let burt know that he feels uneducated, i don’t see someone like kurt doing it outright when he apparently cannot even stomach watching any porn at this point. they’re trying to have a somewhat cohesive transition to the next episode which is about sex ed
@@quirkypurple3 Agreed, it's just a realistic father-son argument scene.
That’s it....I’m binge watching!
After all this tie and this scene still kills me, 'educate yourself' xD
Kurt : "I was being responsible"
Me : "by watching all your friends getting drunk?"
Oh my gosh! I just realized that me and Kurt stand against the sink the same way! I do that when I'm doing dishes!
Can you please upload the scene where Tina and Mike talk after Sectionals in season 3??
burt was 100% correct in this. Period. And yes, I'm a young gay man.
Bertasu being gay doesn’t give anyone the right to break the rules in their parent’s house or disrespect their parents. Finn is not allowed to have girls sleep over and Kurt is not allowed to have boys sleep over. Kurt was disrespectful in this clip.
But remember when Kurt brought Brittany over and he literally didn’t have a problem with it I even think he said something about using protection implying sex so even if he was acting how any other parent would act I still think it had a little bit to do with the fact that he’s gay
Apple Sauce Because Burt knew damn well that Kurt was gay and that the whole Brittany thing was just a charade.
Burt's face when Kurt tells him he should "educate himself" is priceless
Burt is definitely right here. He said “isn’t he gay?” so he definitely had heard about Blaine’s sexuality from Kurt. His son having another gay guy sleeping in his bed without even him mentioning that to his dad was wrong. I know Burt doesn’t know gay stuff so he can’t talk to Kurt the way he can to Finn but he tries and Kurt should have addressed that problem with his dad separately from the Blaine issue. His dad would never let his straight stepson have a girl over either.
Blaine goes and tell Burt he was gay. Remember that scene where Kurt can't make sexy face and Blaine went to Burt to advise him to get a sex talk. He said he was gay
THE
SHADE.
but nobodys gonna talk about the fact that when kurt brought brittany burt literally didnt care
I think he was ok with it Kurt and Brittany because he already knew Kurt was gay. He was just confused why Kurt was going through the trouble in acting straight. Remember, when Kurt came out to him Burt replied with "I know. I knew since you were three. All you wanted were a pair of sensible heels".
Burt is an amazing dad
Burt reminds me so much of my own dad
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When see a hot guy walk in the room😂😂
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His dad was very supportive I feel. Kurt should be lucky Burt didn’t throw Blaine down the stairs
Because assaulting a teenager would’ve absolutely been a healthy thing to do… like wow, Burt didn’t commit a crime, truly the gold standard of parenting. 🙄
Burt: I don't want you to have a potential sexual partner in your bed.
Kurt: *Unbelievable.*
IM SCREAMING
I wish my dad was like Burt
Burt is the number 1 best dad on TV and Kurt is lucky
Asking him to educate himself=totally fair.
Getting all defensive about someone being in his bed=totally teenager. Defensive about everything! Burt doesn't have a bad bone in his body. When I had boys in my bed at that age (and younger), they were gay and straight and my dad tried to set boundaries but was to embarrassed to say the words. Poor dude.
Luckily, even though i lost my virginity at basically 14, I've always been hyper responsible about 'Safe Sex'. Birth Control injections plus a condom.
Protect Burt with all costs🥺
I agree with burt and everything that he said
1:11 I love Kurt jaja
I hate how the older I get the more I agree with the parents in shows/movies. I think I was at Kurt's side way back 10 years ago when because I was too quick to be defensive and call hypocrisy. But I absolutely agree with Kurt's dad now. He definitely trusts Kurt and he wasn't super strict with him and Finn. They got a lot of freedom. But it's definitely his and his stepmom's house, so it's their rules and these rules make perfect sense to me.
Kurt did the right thing being a responsible friend, but I think he should have woken up Burt to give him a heads up.
LOL before even reading your comment I left a similar reply to someone else about 2 minutes ago. Don’t get me started on The Little Mermaid! “I’m 16 years old, I’m not a child!” I used to agree with Ariel, now I’m like “you ARE still a child young lady, sit yourself down and stop being rude to your father!”
Burt is just being a good dad. He doesn't want his young son having sex too early whether its with a girl or a guy. I think its treating it fairly.
The title is like a tongue twister
This had absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Burt was establishing reasonable ground rules for his son and his possible boyfriend. Those are the same rules any good parent should have for their children, regardless of who they date. Burt was the best parent on the show.
Kurt: Please Educate yourself
Burt a few scenes later: It's time we have talk....
burt didnt have that problem when kurt brought brittany over. he just said use protection.
I mean after he explained why he was sleeping over I don't think it should've been. Problem Kurt was being responsible. Also we don't know if they were sleeping in the same bed Kurt could've just woke up and went to do his morning routine.
If Kurt talked to me the way he did to his dad, his clock would be cleaned and then his ass would be grounded. Burt’s well within his rights to set boundaries and rules.
I understand both points of view tbh. I don't believe Burt was being homophobic, he was just protecting his son, even more if we consider Kurt's obvious feelings for Blaine (despite him doing the right thing for his drunken friend). But I also understand Kurt, most of the time in the series, he was treated like a girl by those around him, something we did not see with other gay characters, and while I know this is the writers fault, I understand him being tired of not being able to bring a guy friend without feeling that people are judging him.
God Burt was an amazing fucking dad.