Thank you both so much. I do find these HTSM chats incredibly honest and interesting. I think all long term relationships morph into something almost unrecognisable over a long. time. Ofter begins after the honeymoon phase. Or with having children. Priorities change etc…. I’ve been with my husband 37 years and married for 29 years. He is very much on auto pilot and will reach for his phone, followed by his animal crossing game ( he is 67!!) then laptop, before even saying good morning. We have reached the “ can’t live with / without stage. Mostly I hate it when he says ‘ love you’ every night as although he probably does saying it all the time devalues it. Retirement and my disabilities has been a huge struggle. Not many men would stick around. I feel so lucky and dread the day if I am all alone. As they say “ you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone”. I look at him sometimes and I think “ who the hell are you “ …. I’m sure he thinks the same of me.
Over the last 6 months we’ve paid a fortune for marriage guidance counselling but I’ve just got way more out of watching this! Very similar scenarios. Thank you for putting this out there xxx
Thank u so much for this. We are subs, live in New Zealand and thoroughly enjoy your channel and all that you give us. My hubby and I are happily married but learning a lot from you two on HTSM. Thank you so much for letting us into your world and being so real quite a unique thing you have got going on here in the you tube world. I thought you might be pleased to know there is another male on board and loves all of your channel. I hope you see this because I also wanted you both to know that we have two boys - 1 is 18 years old and a 16 year old. Our 18 year old blew us away just the other night when he mentioned to us (out of the blue) that vlogmas was starting on the 1st!! Blew us away. He’d obviously watched us watching, loved it and been watching privately in his room and now hooked LOL! Hope you love that. He also happens to be going to the UK in March. Love you guys - your fab AND thanks to Nadia I’m on HRT 8 years after hitting menopause all because of you Nadia - thank you.
I'm not even married, happy on my own, but Nadia what you said about Mark not taking a compliment & also trying to fill the silence really resonated with me as that is me. I'm an introverted extrovert, can't stand silent gaps & get so embarrassed by nice comments.. I also apologise all the time for things I haven't even done 🙈🙈🙈 Why why why.. so frustrating xxxxxx
I love how when you're talking about finishing each other's sentences and assuming what the other is going to say, you're literally doing it to each other in that conversation! Really interesting chat, you have to consider these things along the way.
I’m like mark - can’t stand awkward silences or pauses, and always have to entertain. I think it’s because I feel like the social interaction has failed if it doesn’t go ‘perfectly’ - I can’t stand anyone feeling bored by me or that they’re having a crap time. X
Your rows are constructive and necessary. Anyone that says they've got a perfect marriage is a bloody liar in my view. My partner and I have been together 21 years. We often disagree and argue. And honesty can mutually hurt. We are both very different but still love our life together. Weve often said to each other if you want out of the marriage be honest. And I think Weve steered along ok looking back. We did have a really rough patch and it nearly disintegrated about 3 years ago. But we survived careering into the ditch. Some of the spontaneous risks we have taken have given us the best experiences such as house moves and travel.
Thank you both so much. I do find these HTSM chats incredibly honest and interesting. I think all long term relationships morph into something almost unrecognisable over a long. time. Ofter begins after the honeymoon phase. Or with having children. Priorities change etc…. I’ve been with my husband 37 years and married for 29 years. He is very much on auto pilot and will reach for his phone, followed by his animal crossing game ( he is 67!!) then laptop, before even saying good morning. We have reached the “ can’t live with / without stage. Mostly I hate it when he says ‘ love you’ every night as although he probably does saying it all the time devalues it. Retirement and my disabilities has been a huge struggle. Not many men would stick around. I feel so lucky and dread the day if I am all alone. As they say “ you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone”. I look at him sometimes and I think “ who the hell are you “ …. I’m sure he thinks the same of me.
Over the last 6 months we’ve paid a fortune for marriage guidance counselling but I’ve just got way more out of watching this! Very similar scenarios. Thank you for putting this out there xxx
Thank u so much for this. We are subs, live in New Zealand and thoroughly enjoy your channel and all that you give us. My hubby and I are happily married but learning a lot from you two on HTSM. Thank you so much for letting us into your world and being so real quite a unique thing you have got going on here in the you tube world. I thought you might be pleased to know there is another male on board and loves all of your channel. I hope you see this because I also wanted you both to know that we have two boys - 1 is 18 years old and a 16 year old. Our 18 year old blew us away just the other night when he mentioned to us (out of the blue) that vlogmas was starting on the 1st!! Blew us away. He’d obviously watched us watching, loved it and been watching privately in his room and now hooked LOL! Hope you love that. He also happens to be going to the UK in March. Love you guys - your fab AND thanks to Nadia I’m on HRT 8 years after hitting menopause all because of you Nadia - thank you.
I'm not even married, happy on my own, but Nadia what you said about Mark not taking a compliment & also trying to fill the silence really resonated with me as that is me. I'm an introverted extrovert, can't stand silent gaps & get so embarrassed by nice comments.. I also apologise all the time for things I haven't even done 🙈🙈🙈 Why why why.. so frustrating xxxxxx
I love how when you're talking about finishing each other's sentences and assuming what the other is going to say, you're literally doing it to each other in that conversation! Really interesting chat, you have to consider these things along the way.
Love ur honesty! It is so helpful and real! U r so generous to share ur relationship MOT s with us. Thank u xx
I do love the HTSM videos the best of everything you do. There is so much honesty in these conversations.
I’m like mark - can’t stand awkward silences or pauses, and always have to entertain. I think it’s because I feel like the social interaction has failed if it doesn’t go ‘perfectly’ - I can’t stand anyone feeling bored by me or that they’re having a crap time. X
I have been married 30 years I feel like we have lost what we had together makes me feel sad 😞 If I speak to my husband about it he ignores it 😭
Thank you, great htsm(sf) keeping it real as always very relatable 👌 ❤
You two have a good marriage I think x it seems good fun and loving kind and caring x Nadia was hilarious in this x
This is excellent! I so resignates with this with me and my man! And so good to see different points of views.
I love thé htsm - love u guys
You both have very active minds. Bio polar and Depreesion.These disorders are very difficult for anyone to live with.Two people in one household is
My husband always switches off when I try to tell him one of my stories !
Mine too😂😂I do think the difference between the sexes is so interesting 🤔😂
Mine too but if I switch off when he starts talking he really doesn’t like it 💁♀️ drives me crazy 🤨
"I've just seen a headline saying man savaged by crocodile" ... "Mark we don't need that now" 😆 You guys are so funny
I LOVE you guys & HTSMSF episodes ❤️
You are both amazing and very well suited
Thank you, love HTSM.
These are my favourite , I learn so much 😂💛 xx
Yessss do the part two ❤️❤️
I always love these chats. So many funny moments 😍
Ebullience is very attractive at the beginning of things. As one grows older, it can be exhausting. Yin and yang...Nadia and Mark!
You twooooooo are so lovely 🥰 thank you for just being yooooooous x
Thanks for this. You two crack me up 😂xxx
Perhaps your mates don'r want to say you're long winded Nadia..ever think of that?
You two are brilliant together ❤️🤗🤗 chi chi and toffee xx
Your rows are constructive and necessary. Anyone that says they've got a perfect marriage is a bloody liar in my view. My partner and I have been together 21 years. We often disagree and argue. And honesty can mutually hurt. We are both very different but still love our life together. Weve often said to each other if you want out of the marriage be honest. And I think Weve steered along ok looking back. We did have a really rough patch and it nearly disintegrated about 3 years ago. But we survived careering into the ditch. Some of the spontaneous risks we have taken have given us the best experiences such as house moves and travel.
YO sushi 😂😂 god this was brilliant … very funny !!! Love you guys 😂💛 xxx
You two are just the Best. 😍❤️
You two are lovely i honestly love you both xx
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 brilliant ….relate to so much of this . Very good chat thanks for sharing …you are both brilliant .❤️❤️
I spotted the little edit at 12:16mark 😂😂😂😂😂 Nadia says don’t even try argue with me mark. 😂😂😂😂 would love to know what you said ❤️❤️❤️
This is so feckin ☘️ funny 😆 lads and thought provoking …..
All couples should do this
Love htsm I talk a lot also I love my own company sorry Mark I watch cm nadia always asks you how are you mark ❤
My hubby’ is very intelligent too so true Nadia
Look at marks face xx