Remi, I’ve never commented on a RUclips video before but the way your videos have changed my life over the past year or so is pretty drastic. Your attitude of gratitude has helped me fall in love completely with my life. I have such an incredible outlook on life now. You constantly pushing yourself to always do better has pushed me to go back to school even though I’ve been told not to bother. Your kindness and non judgmental nature continues to remind me to be kind to others always and pushes me to be kinder to myself. I know you probably won’t read this, but I wanted to try to let you know how much you’ve helped me. And how it really does feel like I’m listening to a friend, while I clean my apartment. You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you.
You don’t know how much it means to me to read this!! It makes everything worth it to know I’m able to help in this way!! And I don’t know you personally, but I’m so proud of you! And I hope you’re incredibly proud of yourself! ❤️
You are such an inspiration i have 2 teenage children at home and 2 older children who are neurodivergent, i am also neurodivergent and have poor mobility,, it is hard but you have shown me that it is ok if you have a bit of a messy house and you can forgive yourself, I am the same as you is it and wait for the appointment later in the day, but I can't get motivated in a morning so its a real struggle, but if I have someone coming round I can get my whole house done in record time, you should be proud or yourself and your amazing family can not wait to see what the future holds for you, keep being real its so refreshing x
I'm probably in the minority of your viewer demographic but i just wanted to say Thankyou Remi! I'm a 30-something man who is a former British Soldier. Suffered with depression and aniexty for over a decade now. A byproduct of this is trashing my house to the point of no return and wondering how on earth a man who could previously be so Regimental would allow his home to get so disgusting. Your videos have helped me take back control of my home. And make it a place for my children to come and visit. Couldnt of done it without your honest videos. Cheers 🖤
This is such a lovely thing to read! (Obviously not that you’re struggling) but I’m so pleased to be able to help in some way! And so happy your home is now a place you can bring your children back to ❤️
@remiclog Thank you for taking the time to respond. It was actually my ex-partner who recommended your videos to me. At first, I laughed it off. But when I actually gave them a go, it was your honest, no filter approach that really connected to me. Keep up the hard work. From the bottom of me heart Thank-you so much 💂🏻♀️🖤
When my children were small my Nan said cleaning the house while children are growing is like shovelling snow while it’s still snowing , a very true statment .
Really not even just little, but home. During summer break, weekends, holidays. If kids of any age are home, there are just more people in the home living in it and messing it up. Even if the big kids help out with the house, it’s never the same level of clean that mom does. Brushing your teeth while eating Oreos.
Phyllis Diller, a comedian in the 60's wrote that. I don't remember the name of her book, but she was brilliant! She also said, "If your children write their names in the dust, don't let them write the year." 😊
Remi, I am a qualified counsellor and I adore your wisdom. I am in awe of this wisdom and your mindset, as well as your transparency. You are such a beautiful, kind and compassionate person and a wonderful, WONDERFUL mum. Thank you for being MY therapist! lol ❤🫶
It may come off that way, but I appreciate her voicing it because I hear myself in it.. and hearing someone else put those feelings or thoughts into words helped me.. I often deal with shame, guilt, and frustration with myself but don't understand why or what, or how to help myself.. glad to hear it's not just me, and there is a way to work through it
Thank you for sharing not just what you're doing to help yourself, UT how you feel and think. Very very relatable. I feel like I just sat through a therapy session
A lot of us have the same thoughts and issues. Be kinder to yourself. Being from America (Texas), I just don't understand the lack of clothes dryers in European countries. I appreciate line drying outside, but waiting for the clothes to dry inside the house would drive me crazy. Or do you have a special room in the house for drying clothes?
I woke up this morning mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. When I saw the state of the house I cried and couldn’t stop. I made myself a coffee and had breakfast, a feat in itself with how messy they kitchen was, and then I opened YT to put on some of your videos to body double with, as that really helps me. When I saw you had dropped a new video, especially with the title of this one, you have no idea how much of a boost this gave me. I cried a few happy tears, and I’m now about to watch and clean along. Thank you ❤
Please don’t worry as long as you are healthy and have a loving family that’s what counts. Mess will always be with us we just have to do a bit at a time
Remi, you are a God send, I am a 65 year old woman with 4 grown up children and 12 grandchildren. I work full time and look after my aging 85 year old dad since my mum passed away 2 years ago. I also have chronic rheumatoid arthritis and a heart condition...my tiredness gets the better of me every day, so instead of watching someone who has a huge home and has all their ducks in a row, with lots of ads about over priced products, i choose to watch you!...you are real, and caring and always make me feel good about my small achievements no matter what. It is not easy to keep up with everything and I am also a serial worrier when it comes to my children, grandchildren, work and dad, it gives me endless nights with very little sleep, so getting up at 4.30 for work exhausts me...I love to watch how you cope and still manage to help us feel good about ourselves and show us how to combat this tiredness into getting things done, especially when you do the speed clean..my house is tidy but could be so much cleaner..and your video on clearing and re-doing your cupboards has inspired me. My house like yours isn't large and is easy to clutter, so I love to see how you deal with these issues..I find you truly amazing and uplifting. I live in Australia so at least have a lot of sunny days to lift my mood, but you are second to that Remi...I always come away from your videos feeling good and inspired. Keep it up and I will always follow. Marjorie
Marjorie what a star working looking after your father no wonder you are tired I am lucky I have retired Give yourself a huge pat on the back and try and take some time for yourself Best Wishes from Scotland 😊
Thank you Christine, that is so very lovely of you and I really do appreciate your beautiful message, which was very unexpected. It's so good to know that you really appreciate our Remi too. Take care Marjorie
I watch Midwest Magic Ceaning too and it's great how he recommended Remi and other channels worth watching. I was already watching Remi. Mack is great!! Love his channel and Aurikateriina. Plus Remi of course!! ❤❤❤
Your sweet boy folding the laundry with you was heart-warming. You are doing a great job of teaching those boys by your example. Thank you for sharing the honest and difficult parts of maintaining a home and a family. It's so refreshing to see a real home that looks lived in by real people. ❤
I thought the same thing my heart absolutely melted it’s so adorable he’s helping his mummy, and she still gets silly comments saying her kids should help 😢 like they’re kids let them have fun!
@@chloepaulaking5319 Yes! I'm am all about having children participate in the work of running a household but doing it in this way is what will get kids to continue using these skills throughout their lives, sitting down with them and modeling chores. Not running your home like a taskmaster and cracking your proverbial whip over their heads.
I was naughty I did nearly all day knitting but my husband didn't say a word but he did remind me about clothes I put in the washing machine as those can smell lol.
I'm in tears. I'm so thankful to have found you. I thought I was alone. You have given me so much encouragement. I'm a mom of 3 and a wife. I suffer from chronic fatigue and massive depression. I feel like my house is eating me. I feel horrid and guilty. Thanks for your candidness. I am not alone anymore.❤
Description of toddler as a cave dragon with all his treasures around him is SO ACCURATE. As always a very lovely look at the daily intentions you inspire in all of us.
Whenever I watched decluttering videos in the past, they didn't speak to real life situations & people. You have become my cleaning buddy and inspiration. I was able to be get a small handle on my housework. I suffer from depression & procrastination. I enjoy watching you with your children & a wonderful mum you are! I loved watching you and your son folding the clothes. 😊 Thank you Remi!
My mom taught me that a perfect house is a lived in house. A perfect house is a house that you can tell kids play in, meals are made in, a family is comfortable and loved in. Our house was clean but lived in growing up and that’s how I am with my kids now and I how I look at my house ❤ it’s cleaned but lived in.
Remi, you must start thinking of the time picking up with your son by your side as your TIME TOGETHER! He’s enjoying it. He’s learning. He still gets his cuddles whenever he wants one and you’re chatting with each other. It’s great! Don’t think of it as time wasted from doing fun stuff. It’s fun to him and we can see it. And productive for you! Win-win!
@@lyjfreedom7 you’re absolutely right. And I have actually been loving our “chore time” especially folding clothes. We hold competitions and see how many socks we can pair up each time! Thank you ☺️
Remi, thank you so much for this lovely long video. I’m exhausted watching you! I’m 70 now and raised four children mostly on my own. It reminds me when they were little. Love when you threw the gold blanket over your wee boy. So funny! When you said you never know what is around the corner you spoke the truth. Cherish each moment with your children. I lost two of my children in the last few years. Angela, 35 and Daniel, 36. One moment we were happy together and now it’s heartbreaking. You are such a wonderful Mom Remi and I’m proud of you. Bless your heart for working so hard for your sweet family. I send you love from B.C. Canada 🇨🇦
Remi, I love that you take the time to read with your children! It is so important to their academic development. I’m a retired teacher with 35 years’ experience and I’ve worked with struggling readers for decades. While our brains are designed for language, they are not designed for reading. One way to help develop the pathways for reading in our brains is to be read to from a very young age. Add to that the priceless bonding that comes from giving your children your full attention. You are rocking being a mom! ❤❤ ❤
I am now nearly 50. My 3 sons are grown up. I have a 3yo grandy son. I want you to know older mom to younger mom...you are doing SO well! You are enough, just as you are. You are amazing, and the love you have for your sweet family shines though all you do!❤
Remi, you help so many of us so much. Moan all you like! I have Traumatic Brain Injury from a car accident and it is very like ADHD. Your videos and chats have motivated me and helped me so much. Thank you for having the bravery to show what reality is for most people out there. ❤❤❤ Love from the US.
Girl, I feel ya! Being a parent with small children, you're CONSTANTLY battling against the chaos! And it's ok to feel frustrated at how quickly the house goes to shit when you take a day off from housekeeping duties to focus on other things. You are absolutely not alone on that front. Thanks as always for keepin' it real, Remi. That's why I love your channel so much
Remi Clog, you are losing weight, your entire body is CHANGING before our eyes! You look amazing, keep up the excellent work it is hard, daunting, excruciating. DON'T GIVE UP! And I heard Midwest Magic Cleaning gave you a shout out last week, I was so excited for you! ❤
Nodding away at everything you’re saying Remi! I’ve never heard someone else describe the “waiting mode” where you can think of nothing else but the thing you have to do later on! People always wonder why I do everything in the morning or straight away.
You sweet Remi are perfect just way you are And you looked beautiful on your date night ! Much luv from a non neurodivergent who loves your videos, all that you stand for and for the beautiful loving home and family you work so hard to keep happy and healthy 🩷
Thank you for making these. I struggle with all the mental stuff you do, and of all the cleaning channels I watch to coax my brain into letting me do stuff, yours is the most soothing. Also I love the drawers Charlie built. They look very sturdy and well made!
My goodness I wish I had your sensible and caring outlook on life when I was your age!! I was so depressed and hard on myself for not being able to do the most simple things, and it makes me happy that - unlike me at the same age - you understand how ADHD works and can give yourself a break. That is half the struggle!
Girl! You are the best! Please know you are not alone. Someone i feel like im reliving the same day over and over again. I decided to clean my fidge and freezer out. That was crazy but done. I decided it doesnt have to be perfect just a little organized. Wish ya the best love
She posted🎉 New subscriber here, I am currently binge watching all of your videos. You have no idea how much impact your videos have. I feel so much less alone and less ashamed. Finally someone whose house I can actually relate to.I live with husband and 2 kids in a 85 m2 (outdated) apartment. With a fulltime job and mental as well as chronic health issues I have struggled tremendously in the housekeeping department. You’re chats and videos have inspired me so so much. I can’t do anything with most of the advice other cleaning channels give (multitask, batch cook, etc). I agree with them but I am unable to do it myself. I also wanted to say I was especially touched by the videos you made about your dad and aunt. These were so insightful and sweet and lovely. You truly deserve 1M subs❤
Dear Remi. My lighthouse in a bad storm. I love you lady. Such honesty and humour. I enjoy your videos. I am now much kinder to myself and much more patient with not just the housework, but in my life, with all aspects of my life. Thanks for all your hard work at normalising the different. I love your accent. I am from Australia and the different accents in England are such fun.
Dear Remi, Magic Cleaning , Mack says Hi! He gave your channel a shout out ! And hun, the kids will turn 12 and the load of cleaning can be reduced as they can help plus spend time with you doing tasks. The house is small enough to be close without being in the same room. We used to sing popular songs together while cleaning. And dance on small breaks. So you do what makes you happy together while keeping the house livable and loveable . Just remember that the small toys go away as the kids get older. I hope that you continue with making videos of all types
Please don’t ever stop posting! I stumbled upon your channel one night when I couldn’t sleep. Long story short, you are now my comfort channel. I’ll Throw you on when I’m about to go To sleep. I throw you on when I’m Cleaning my house, etc! So thank you thank you for these videos!! You have a forever friend and avid subscriber 🤗😋😊
Loved this video Remi! I like the longer videos and particularly seeing other aspects of your family’s life. Please remember you are doing a great job. Keep your family your priority; you will literally blink and your little boys will be grown. Remember you are enough.
Minimalism saved my life when i had the little ones , buy paper goods, hire a cleaning lady once a week for the floors and bathrooms and change linen if possible, keep less toys , and avoid decoration objects . Its the only way i can keep sane...
You actually are so pretty, you looked gorgeous for your date night. This is a season in your life and it will go quick so relax and create memories. My husband of nearly 50 years just died and I have children and grandchildren who love me and we all miss him so much.
Remi, thank you for a new video!! They bring me joy and get me motivated to clean. As a fellow neurodivergent mom, I love your talks and they seriously help me so much ❤️ Love you friend!
As always, I adore you and your chats. It feels cozy and real. I discovered a cool mindset that might be a fun challenge for anyone who feels discouraged or overwhelmed at chore time. I look at the task, such as dirty dishes and think, “WOW! Look at all this evidence that I had food to eat today!” When I put a gratitude spin on it, suddenly it doesn’t feel like such a drudgery anymore.
Why do you think about yourself in the negative? You are awesome and strong. You push through but please stop when you need to. If you feel better then do something, if not take time out. If you have small children, it’s like a never ending Circle or circus. I have been there. You be yourself. We love watching you and rant all you like, we’ll listen.
You are the best judge of what works for you, not other people. We all have limited time and energy, but you manage to work, raise two small children, look after the house and garden and, on top of that, make and edit videos for this channel. It is really impressive, but it is not surprising that you get tired and fed up sometimes.
You have just described EXACTLY what has been going through my head since even before I fell pregnant in April. Have struggled with this throughout my 20s as well. I genuinely thought I was alone in my feelings and going stir crazy. Even though I have no idea how I'm going to keep on top of it all once baby arrives, I at least feel like I've got a little bit off my chest just from watching this video. Sending love from Sussex, UK! ❤
I could listen to your calming voice all day! You are one smart cookie, no doubt😊 you have a wonderful way of explaining things that are going on in your life and mind. Thank you so so much for your honest, transparent share. Your are a wonderful human being! Blessings to you from the Great Pacific Northwest, Lakewood, Washington! 💛🖤💛
You’re amazing Remi ❤ When my 3 kids were little I felt so overwhelmed with splitting myself in half for everyone and everything that needed me. I remember at one stage feeling so bogged down I considered that being in jail would give me a break and peace 🤣 30 years later and Im now a Granny and I lost my eldest son several years ago. Id give my life to have all my mess back again and children on earth You are doing amazing. Your kids are loved and happy, well fed and clean. Your home is lovely and it looks so warm and cosy just like it should be Be kind to yourself xx
Remi, you are such a breath of fresh air. I am 60 years old and have truly come to understand that we all deal with things differently and that we ALL have thinking issues. I don’t struggle like you do to keeping the house tidy, but I do understand how it’s the thinking, the what’s going on inside my head, that can rob me, and has robbed me of enjoying life. My life always seemed to be orderly, my kids well behaved, friends always asking me how I do it all. When I was your age I was quite puffed up about it. But now I look back and have regrets, and then the guilt can set in, because I can clearly see that I did not pay attention to giving my children, or my husband the attention they deserved. They were neglected. And, I can get really wrapped up in believing that the issues they struggle with are directly tied to my neglect of them 😢. But that too is unproductive on many levels. So, once again it’s the thinking. I have apologized to both my children, we have a great relationship, and they are doing so much better than I did at their age. I am so proud of them both ❤…. Anyway, I am rambling. So much to say, so many ways my mom-heart wants to reassure you that YOU ARE DOING GREAT. You’re dealing with and learning to change your thinking when you realize it’s not realistic. Life is a journey, and you are travelling it well 🥰 Avoid the compare snare - don’t ever wish you were like anyone else. Like you’ve said, “We never know the whole story of anyone.” This comes with love, from a person who has learned to let her house be messy 😊 …. at least, once in a while.
You are one amazing human being. Watching your videos is like having a friend talking to you while you tackle those hard life messes. I appreciate all the work you do for us but I am glad you get time for yourself and your family. Your date night makeup was perfect and seeing you sitting in the cupboard was just adorable. It is awesome that you got to go on a walk, play with the kids and see family members out and about. Staying inside can feel like prison at times. Getting out is hard but very worthwhile! If no one told you today I am bloody proud of you! Stay safe and stay sane! ❤❤❤
Remi, I so appreciate and enjoy your insights into Mom life! ( I would pay you serious therapy money for advice!!) You are delightful and I am very glad to hear you say that the idea of balance is in the works! Your garden is lovely! Your hard work has paid off! Your boys are making memories and enjoying themselves outside! KUDOS to you!👍♥️
I really relate to the problem with waiting for things and then going on with other stuff, such as the time I spend awaiting the doctor appointment.😅 From a young age I was a "clothes collector". I always had a problem with gaining weight and throwing clothes, especially "If these clothes fit me, I shall keep them". Now after I lost my mother and needed to move, the stuff i own do not fit in the current space. So every piece of clothing always keeps migrating around the home 😂😂. I'm slowly decluttering with the help of my partner but I have a long way to go! Thats why im thankful for your content, as it reminds me it is about the small steps you take everyday to improve the situation for yourself and your family. Best wishes from Poland ❤🎉
Girl PREACH 🙌🏻!! I feel you a d understand COMPLETELY! I feel the EXACT same way! Like I’ve only watched 15min in and I need to tell you that. I’m watching you literally in waiting mode before I pick up my daughter and take her to a Dr appointment even though I probably could have gotten something done in the house . . . But I just can’t! Anyway, thank you ❤you are one of the best cleaning/life/ADHD whatever creators out there because you make me feel seen every time I watch
I had to comment and let you know how much your videos mean to me! I'm a senior citizen with joint pain and lack of motivation to keep a clean house! I have two dogs inside and one is 15 yrs old and has bathroom accidents I'm always trying to run behind him and clean up. I have clutter everywhere and two extra bedrooms I just keep the doors closed because of the junk piled up in them! Your voice is calming to me and you make me feel like I'm not crazy..I'm just over whelmed sometimes. The way you work cleaning inspires me and I have done much more than I thought I could. Thank you!
Hi Remi! I agree that cleaning is NOT a one and done activity. Thank you for reminding us that cleaning "is NEVER done and NEVER complete." I agree that this is all a part of "self care." ❤️
Thank you for sharing your days video.This gives me courage to go through another busy repetitious day knowing I am not the only one dealing with chaos at home. I loved your date night look which was very lovely. Looking forward to watching your next video. Love from Japan. 😊
How wonderful, I love it when you release a new video. I'm currently off my feet, due to a snapped ligament in my left ankle, so I will be thinking of all of the things that I can do when I'm back on my feet while I watch this! Much love, Remi. Xx
I've never felt more seen!!! The doom piles are endless. They never stop. I don't have kids and yet here I am a sack of potatoes, in my bed for the 20th day in a row because the thought of leaving my nest is overwhelming. I appreciate you so much. ❤ just know you're reaching the right people that you want to be in your corner and we understand you! That outfit was fire 🎉🎉❤
Hello Remi, I loved your week in the life of video so much! I'm so glad I found your channel. I struggle with anxiety, depression, distraction & procrastination daily. I lived with my parents and lost my mother four years ago and my father two years ago. I live with my cat now. I have been sorting & organizing since my parents passed. It's still a work in progress & each day seems like a challenge. Some days I put on one of your videos & that helps motivate me and I feel less alone. I love your channel so much! Thank you & blessings to you and your sweet family. ❤😊
Thank you Remi 😊 ❤ your Videos Help Me as I just Moved & My Energy Levels are Up & Down Past 2 Years! But Not Many RUclipsrs That I Watch Helped Much as They Was Too Tidy lol And Bit Fake some of them , But Your Videos Are The Real Deal & Your Voice Over Is The Best!!!! ❤❤❤ You're Doing Great Remi Trust Me, Everyone That Don't Say it Are Hiding it!!! You Say it How it Is!!! Oh and if You Do Go Behind in Your Housework Then Your Videos Will Be So Good When You Do it & Video it!! And Help Me & Many Others lol So Please Don't Stress As it Means You Will Have More Stuff to Film For Your Cleaning Channel & It's Not All Bad 😊❤❤❤ LOVE & BLESS TO YOU XXXXXX
Hi Remi, I’ve been watching you for a while and I can honestly say your videos are helping me so much; 1) keeping on top of everything around the house and 2) helping me feel less alone. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
Remi, looking at this video I can see quite the improvement. Don't be so hard on yourself. You're definitely not alone. Love your content very much and I watch videos over and over and over again, so I'm very happy when u post.
Something incredible about littles is how much of the world they learn so quickly. Honestly, I imagine by two, it's overwhelming. Nothing surprises me about young ones in that age group anymore; at the end of the day, they have good hearts, and as any adult does, they have their moments, too. Thank you again for such an inspiring video.
Oh dear Remi❤❤❤ thank you for always putting a smile on my face!!! On no tombstone stands "she kept a neat household". I am a follower from early on, and I see how much you improved your tidying muscles. Whenever feel guilty, remember that tombstone, and what your children will remember of their childhood. It better be the books you read and the fun you had 😊 sending hugs from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
I am a 55 year old woman who was finally diagnosed with ADHD in Dec 2022. I have learned so much about why I am the way I am in that amount of time. But watching your videos last few weeks has made things make sense - the puzzle pieces are all dropping into place. And your voice is one of the most soothing I’ve heard. My inner dialogue has picked up your accent (I’m from the south in the US). Thank you for creating this channel.
Oh Remi, As newly diagnosed with Adhd.. this is just exactly how I feel. I have been spiralling with overwhelming emotion this morning and you have snapped me out of it and soothed me. Love your videos xx
Hi Remi. Your lawn looks fantastic. You did an awesome job. I really enjoy your videos. I am a newly retired 64 yr old from Canada. My kids are grown, no grandchildren. Keep it up.
Gosh, being a single mom with ADHD this made me feel so seen. I saw a short of yours and came to the channel to see what your longer videos were and now I got tears in my eyes cuz I felt so broken struggling to keep a perfect house like my ex wanted. Thank you for sharing this honest and raw week in the life.
Hi Remi, I thank you a million times over. You have been describing so many of my problems that I have to deal with every single day. I feel when I watch your videos that I am not alone and things don't have to be perfect. Spending time with your family is so important and it doesn't help being hard on yourself because things aren't tidied away. I just want to say many thanks for your videos I find them very encouraging. Please keep them coming xxx
Omg! When you said “pure venom” when he was taking the trucks off of the toy chest. I laughed so hard because it was the cutest thing I’ve seen in a long time. My daughter is 16 now and like you say, what I wouldn’t give to go back to that age and just kiss her little face. You are so blessed and an amazing mom. Sending love
thank you for helping me get an hour of chores done! I always watch your videos now when I need a boost. and I love your insights. hope you have a great week ❤
It's absolutely lovely to watch a video that is absolutely genuine. I know your videos help so many mums who are struggling feeling overwhelmed with family and work balance. Thank you for being you showing not everyone has a Pinterest worthy life but a busy life which is full of love. Well done,you're obviously a fantastic mum doing the best you can!!
Remi. I’ve been where you are, with the little ones, you try to clean and straighten and they seem to be going along behind you creating chaos and undoing everything you’ve just done. I’m going on 63 years old now. Watching your little one in this video gives me such joy and laughter. He’s precious! When they’re young it’s hard to find the middle ground. I’m so glad for you that you’re making these videos, so you will have them to look back at your babies (no matter how old they are), they will bring you such nostalgic joy when they’re no longer at home with you. My boys are 36 and 32 now. I miss their little, loving, messy boy selves so much. ❤️🫂❤️
Hey Remi, you were looking gorgeous on your date night. But, you know what? You inspired me to stay in my PJs on those hard days when my to do list is longer than a roll of toilet paper. It helps so much with feeling comfy. So, you're my style-icon. ❤
My younger son is autistic. I have had so many people tell me if I would just be a better mother he would be perfectly normal. And usually while they are raising spoiled entitled brats. Everyone thinks they have to right to judge but don't want to be judged themselves. It is hard to ignore such people but your family is your priority. Do what you need to do for you and keep posting videos. Sometimes it helps just to know someone else is also not perfect.
People make such comments when they only see seconds of your life. They don't see the sleepless nights, the sweat and tears you have everyday. As long as you know you are doing your best everyday, that's all that matters.
Much strength, joy and peace for all your extra thoughts, work and pain that nobody sees. The judgements of the others reveal a lot about themselves and not you. They probably would not be able to handle a situation like yours. You can and you do!
As a teacher, some of my favorite students were on the spectrum. They were clever and creative and made me laugh every day! They challenged me to think what works best for them, making me a better teacher and person. Hang in there...
Hi Remi! You’re just precious! You do you! Taking care of little kids is EXHAUSTING. Watching and analyzing, asking myself what are some major areas that are draining so much of your time? It’s not being able to install a dishwasher or clothes dryer. I wish you had these, it would help alleviate SO much stress and time. Literally, these would change your life. …And you do deserve it. ❤
My house is piles upon piles. I do what I can when I can. My boys are all grown, but still need to be done. I remember when my boys were small and you can only do so much. You are doing a marvelous job!!!
Yes, enjoying this Remi. Your voice, logic, understanding and tenderness are priceless... I find myself rewinding and listening from the beginning again, while I work on my tasks. 😊❤
Remi you are an amazing person for doing what you do and sharing it with all of us!!! You are an awesome mother and wife!! Don’t ever listen to anyone who criticizes you. I just recently found your videos and I am hooked!! I can relate to you so much!! You have given me so much encouragement!! I have accomplished so much thanks to your motivation!! I hope you get everything you deserve in life sweet lady!! From a housewife in Texas!!❤
Remi, I’ve never commented on a RUclips video before but the way your videos have changed my life over the past year or so is pretty drastic. Your attitude of gratitude has helped me fall in love completely with my life. I have such an incredible outlook on life now. You constantly pushing yourself to always do better has pushed me to go back to school even though I’ve been told not to bother. Your kindness and non judgmental nature continues to remind me to be kind to others always and pushes me to be kinder to myself. I know you probably won’t read this, but I wanted to try to let you know how much you’ve helped me. And how it really does feel like I’m listening to a friend, while I clean my apartment. You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you.
Yeah for you!! Congratulations
You don’t know how much it means to me to read this!! It makes everything worth it to know I’m able to help in this way!! And I don’t know you personally, but I’m so proud of you! And I hope you’re incredibly proud of yourself! ❤️
Congratulations!!
That’s absolutely amazing. Wishing you huge success!!!
You are such an inspiration i have 2 teenage children at home and 2 older children who are neurodivergent, i am also neurodivergent and have poor mobility,, it is hard but you have shown me that it is ok if you have a bit of a messy house and you can forgive yourself, I am the same as you is it and wait for the appointment later in the day, but I can't get motivated in a morning so its a real struggle, but if I have someone coming round I can get my whole house done in record time, you should be proud or yourself and your amazing family can not wait to see what the future holds for you, keep being real its so refreshing x
I'm probably in the minority of your viewer demographic but i just wanted to say Thankyou Remi! I'm a 30-something man who is a former British Soldier. Suffered with depression and aniexty for over a decade now. A byproduct of this is trashing my house to the point of no return and wondering how on earth a man who could previously be so Regimental would allow his home to get so disgusting. Your videos have helped me take back control of my home. And make it a place for my children to come and visit. Couldnt of done it without your honest videos. Cheers 🖤
This is such a lovely thing to read! (Obviously not that you’re struggling) but I’m so pleased to be able to help in some way! And so happy your home is now a place you can bring your children back to ❤️
@remiclog Thank you for taking the time to respond. It was actually my ex-partner who recommended your videos to me. At first, I laughed it off. But when I actually gave them a go, it was your honest, no filter approach that really connected to me. Keep up the hard work. From the bottom of me heart Thank-you so much 💂🏻♀️🖤
❤❤thank u for your service sir xx
Well done sir!
CPTSD here. I hear you.
When my children were small my Nan said cleaning the house while children are growing is like shovelling snow while it’s still snowing , a very true statment .
Definitely!!!
I have a little plaque that says that!
Really not even just little, but home. During summer break, weekends, holidays. If kids of any age are home, there are just more people in the home living in it and messing it up. Even if the big kids help out with the house, it’s never the same level of clean that mom does. Brushing your teeth while eating Oreos.
Phyllis Diller, a comedian in the 60's wrote that. I don't remember the name of her book, but she was brilliant! She also said, "If your children write their names in the dust, don't let them write the year." 😊
Remi, I am a qualified counsellor and I adore your wisdom. I am in awe of this wisdom and your mindset, as well as your transparency. You are such a beautiful, kind and compassionate person and a wonderful, WONDERFUL mum. Thank you for being MY therapist! lol ❤🫶
How nice and humble of you❤
Girl, you are SO hard on yourself! You're doing what you can - like the rest of us. Give yourself a pat on the back for making it through each day. XX
Thank you ❤️
It may come off that way, but I appreciate her voicing it because I hear myself in it.. and hearing someone else put those feelings or thoughts into words helped me.. I often deal with shame, guilt, and frustration with myself but don't understand why or what, or how to help myself.. glad to hear it's not just me, and there is a way to work through it
Thank you for sharing not just what you're doing to help yourself, UT how you feel and think.
Very very relatable. I feel like I just sat through a therapy session
@@natka8181 it means the world to hear this! I’m so glad you’ve resonated in this way. Sending lots of love ❤️
A lot of us have the same thoughts and issues. Be kinder to yourself. Being from America (Texas), I just don't understand the lack of clothes dryers in European countries. I appreciate line drying outside, but waiting for the clothes to dry inside the house would drive me crazy. Or do you have a special room in the house for drying clothes?
I woke up this morning mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. When I saw the state of the house I cried and couldn’t stop. I made myself a coffee and had breakfast, a feat in itself with how messy they kitchen was, and then I opened YT to put on some of your videos to body double with, as that really helps me. When I saw you had dropped a new video, especially with the title of this one, you have no idea how much of a boost this gave me. I cried a few happy tears, and I’m now about to watch and clean along. Thank you ❤
Please don’t worry as long as you are healthy and have a loving family that’s what counts. Mess will always be with us we just have to do a bit at a time
@@denisescutt1865 ❤️
Remi, you are a God send, I am a 65 year old woman with 4 grown up children and 12 grandchildren. I work full time and look after my aging 85 year old dad since my mum passed away 2 years ago. I also have chronic rheumatoid arthritis and a heart condition...my tiredness gets the better of me every day, so instead of watching someone who has a huge home and has all their ducks in a row, with lots of ads about over priced products, i choose to watch you!...you are real, and caring and always make me feel good about my small achievements no matter what.
It is not easy to keep up with everything and I am also a serial worrier when it comes to my children, grandchildren, work and dad, it gives me endless nights with very little sleep, so getting up at 4.30 for work exhausts me...I love to watch how you cope and still manage to help us feel good about ourselves and show us how to combat this tiredness into getting things done, especially when you do the speed clean..my house is tidy but could be so much cleaner..and your video on clearing and re-doing your cupboards has inspired me. My house like yours isn't large and is easy to clutter, so I love to see how you deal with these issues..I find you truly amazing and uplifting.
I live in Australia so at least have a lot of sunny days to lift my mood, but you are second to that Remi...I always come away from your videos feeling good and inspired. Keep it up and I will always follow.
Marjorie
Marjorie what a star working looking after your father no wonder you are tired I am lucky I have retired Give yourself a huge pat on the back and try and take some time for yourself Best Wishes from Scotland 😊
Thank you Christine, that is so very lovely of you and I really do appreciate your beautiful message, which was very unexpected.
It's so good to know that you really appreciate our Remi too.
Take care
Marjorie
@marjorietsylor939 Blessings to you for all you do. Try to take time for yourself too. They say you should treat yourself as you would a good friend.
“Some days I don’t know who I’m going to wake up as” OMG so accurate!!!
Hey Remi,Midwest cleaning gave you a shout out
I know!! I was so shocked when I got the notification. Bless him, he’s so lovely ☺️
I watch Midwest Magic Ceaning too and it's great how he recommended Remi and other channels worth watching. I was already watching Remi. Mack is great!! Love his channel and Aurikateriina. Plus Remi of course!! ❤❤❤
Your sweet boy folding the laundry with you was heart-warming. You are doing a great job of teaching those boys by your example. Thank you for sharing the honest and difficult parts of maintaining a home and a family. It's so refreshing to see a real home that looks lived in by real people. ❤
I thought the same thing my heart absolutely melted it’s so adorable he’s helping his mummy, and she still gets silly comments saying her kids should help 😢 like they’re kids let them have fun!
@@chloepaulaking5319 Yes! I'm am all about having children participate in the work of running a household but doing it in this way is what will get kids to continue using these skills throughout their lives, sitting down with them and modeling chores. Not running your home like a taskmaster and cracking your proverbial whip over their heads.
Just came here to comment the same - so so cute! Bless him!
Thank you so much!! He’s a sweetheart, so proud of him! ❤️
Your children are so blessed to have such a loving mum and dad, a safe, and creative home.
This means the world to me, thank you! 🥹❤️
I agree!!!
I was naughty I did nearly all day knitting but my husband didn't say a word but he did remind me about clothes I put in the washing machine as those can smell lol.
Her kids need to stop making such a mess
I'm in tears. I'm so thankful to have found you. I thought I was alone. You have given me so much encouragement. I'm a mom of 3 and a wife. I suffer from chronic fatigue and massive depression. I feel like my house is eating me. I feel horrid and guilty.
Thanks for your candidness. I am not alone anymore.❤
Remi you are such a beautiful woman, mother, partner in a world that needs shining lights like you 😊Thank you Remi😘
Agree,!! So beautifully said!!!😊❤
Description of toddler as a cave dragon with all his treasures around him is SO ACCURATE. As always a very lovely look at the daily intentions you inspire in all of us.
I really enjoy these longer videos with a day in the life. Keep up the good work Remi!!!❤
Thank you! Really pleased you enjoyed it! ❤️
You do so much the kids, the house, a job, the garden, and the cooking!
Remi you are SO pretty! I don't think I've ever seen an extended close view of your face before now but omg 😍
Whenever I watched decluttering videos in the past, they didn't speak to real life situations & people. You have become my cleaning buddy and inspiration. I was able to be get a small handle on my housework. I suffer from depression & procrastination. I enjoy watching you with your children & a wonderful mum you are! I loved watching you and your son folding the clothes. 😊 Thank you Remi!
My mom taught me that a perfect house is a lived in house. A perfect house is a house that you can tell kids play in, meals are made in, a family is comfortable and loved in. Our house was clean but lived in growing up and that’s how I am with my kids now and I how I look at my house ❤ it’s cleaned but lived in.
Remi, you must start thinking of the time picking up with your son by your side as your TIME TOGETHER! He’s enjoying it. He’s learning. He still gets his cuddles whenever he wants one and you’re chatting with each other. It’s great! Don’t think of it as time wasted from doing fun stuff. It’s fun to him and we can see it. And productive for you! Win-win!
@@lyjfreedom7 you’re absolutely right. And I have actually been loving our “chore time” especially folding clothes. We hold competitions and see how many socks we can pair up each time! Thank you ☺️
@@remiclog😂 c’est cool 👍🏻 il t’aide comme il peut ! Il est adorable 🥰
@@remiclog I LOVED having competitions with my kids!
Remi, thank you so much for this lovely long video. I’m exhausted watching you! I’m 70 now and raised four children mostly on my own. It reminds me when they were little. Love when you threw the gold blanket over your wee boy. So funny! When you said you never know what is around the corner you spoke the truth. Cherish each moment with your children. I lost two of my children in the last few years. Angela, 35 and Daniel, 36. One moment we were happy together and now it’s heartbreaking. You are such a wonderful Mom Remi and I’m proud of you.
Bless your heart for working so hard for your sweet family. I send you love from B.C. Canada 🇨🇦
🙏🏻🥰
Remi, I love that you take the time to read with your children! It is so important to their academic development. I’m a retired teacher with 35 years’ experience and I’ve worked with struggling readers for decades. While our brains are designed for language, they are not designed for reading. One way to help develop the pathways for reading in our brains is to be read to from a very young age. Add to that the priceless bonding that comes from giving your children your full attention. You are rocking being a mom! ❤❤ ❤
I am now nearly 50. My 3 sons are grown up. I have a 3yo grandy son. I want you to know older mom to younger mom...you are doing SO well! You are enough, just as you are. You are amazing, and the love you have for your sweet family shines though all you do!❤
You are my absolute favorite RUclipsr. Your videos are the only ones I watch the entire thing. Thank you for all the hard work you put in ❤
Remi, you help so many of us so much. Moan all you like! I have Traumatic Brain Injury from a car accident and it is very like ADHD. Your videos and chats have motivated me and helped me so much. Thank you for having the bravery to show what reality is for most people out there. ❤❤❤ Love from the US.
It will be ok it's ok to not be ok you got this as always you got this
Aww I look forward to your new videos all the time, your smashing it Remi ❤✌️😊xx
Ahh thank you so much!! ☺️❤️
Girl, I feel ya! Being a parent with small children, you're CONSTANTLY battling against the chaos! And it's ok to feel frustrated at how quickly the house goes to shit when you take a day off from housekeeping duties to focus on other things. You are absolutely not alone on that front.
Thanks as always for keepin' it real, Remi. That's why I love your channel so much
Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️
I agree!! Also, you clean one room and they trash all the rest! I have 4 kids, ages 8 and under.
Remi Clog, you are losing weight, your entire body is CHANGING before our eyes! You look amazing, keep up the excellent work it is hard, daunting, excruciating. DON'T GIVE UP! And I heard Midwest Magic Cleaning gave you a shout out last week, I was so excited for you! ❤
Thank you for noticing!! I was so excited when I saw he mentioned me!! So cool 😄
When Ur able a dryer and maybe a dishwasher will b a great help there a lifesaver even a dryer only😊
Nodding away at everything you’re saying Remi! I’ve never heard someone else describe the “waiting mode” where you can think of nothing else but the thing you have to do later on! People always wonder why I do everything in the morning or straight away.
You sweet Remi are perfect just way you are And you looked beautiful on your date night ! Much luv from a non neurodivergent who loves your videos, all that you stand for and for the beautiful loving home and family you work so hard to keep happy and healthy 🩷
Thank you for making these. I struggle with all the mental stuff you do, and of all the cleaning channels I watch to coax my brain into letting me do stuff, yours is the most soothing.
Also I love the drawers Charlie built. They look very sturdy and well made!
My goodness I wish I had your sensible and caring outlook on life when I was your age!! I was so depressed and hard on myself for not being able to do the most simple things, and it makes me happy that - unlike me at the same age - you understand how ADHD works and can give yourself a break. That is half the struggle!
Girl! You are the best! Please know you are not alone. Someone i feel like im reliving the same day over and over again. I decided to clean my fidge and freezer out. That was crazy but done. I decided it doesnt have to be perfect just a little organized. Wish ya the best love
She posted🎉 New subscriber here, I am currently binge watching all of your videos. You have no idea how much impact your videos have. I feel so much less alone and less ashamed. Finally someone whose house I can actually relate to.I live with husband and 2 kids in a 85 m2 (outdated) apartment. With a fulltime job and mental as well as chronic health issues I have struggled tremendously in the housekeeping department. You’re chats and videos have inspired me so so much. I can’t do anything with most of the advice other cleaning channels give (multitask, batch cook, etc). I agree with them but I am unable to do it myself.
I also wanted to say I was especially touched by the videos you made about your dad and aunt. These were so insightful and sweet and lovely. You truly deserve 1M subs❤
Dear Remi. My lighthouse in a bad storm. I love you lady. Such honesty and humour. I enjoy your videos. I am now much kinder to myself and much more patient with not just the housework, but in my life, with all aspects of my life. Thanks for all your hard work at normalising the different. I love your accent. I am from Australia and the different accents in England are such fun.
Dear Remi, Magic Cleaning , Mack says Hi! He gave your channel a shout out ! And hun, the kids will turn 12 and the load of cleaning can be reduced as they can help plus spend time with you doing tasks. The house is small enough to be close without being in the same room. We used to sing popular songs together while cleaning. And dance on small breaks. So you do what makes you happy together while keeping the house livable and loveable . Just remember that the small toys go away as the kids get older. I hope that you continue with making videos of all types
Please don’t ever stop posting! I stumbled upon your channel one night when I couldn’t sleep. Long story short, you are now my comfort channel. I’ll
Throw you on when I’m about to go
To sleep. I throw you on when I’m
Cleaning my house, etc! So thank you thank you for these videos!! You have a forever friend and avid subscriber 🤗😋😊
Same!!!!!!
I totally agree.. Her voice is like my fluffy clouds.. she's my Go to for a lot..
Mine, too!
Loved this video Remi! I like the longer videos and particularly seeing other aspects of your family’s life. Please remember you are doing a great job. Keep your family your priority; you will literally blink and your little boys will be grown. Remember you are enough.
Thank you so much!!
Minimalism saved my life when i had the little ones , buy paper goods, hire a cleaning lady once a week for the floors and bathrooms and change linen if possible, keep less toys , and avoid decoration objects . Its the only way i can keep sane...
Nearly a full hour 😍 time for a cup of tea with this one, love all your videos Remi ❤️
Thank you! 🥹❤️ I really hope you enjoy this one!
@@remiclogalways do 💕🫶
You actually are so pretty, you looked gorgeous for your date night. This is a season in your life and it will go quick so relax and create memories. My husband of nearly 50 years just died and I have children and grandchildren who love me and we all miss him so much.
Remi, thank you for a new video!! They bring me joy and get me motivated to clean. As a fellow neurodivergent mom, I love your talks and they seriously help me so much ❤️ Love you friend!
As always, I adore you and your chats. It feels cozy and real.
I discovered a cool mindset that might be a fun challenge for anyone who feels discouraged or overwhelmed at chore time. I look at the task, such as dirty dishes and think, “WOW! Look at all this evidence that I had food to eat today!” When I put a gratitude spin on it, suddenly it doesn’t feel like such a drudgery anymore.
I'm going to give this a go today! Thank you ❤
Love this!! ❤️
The awful WAITING MODE. How much of my life have I lost to this? I just can’t do anything when I wait.
I LOVE your honesty and I can resonate with a lot of you are saying. Lovely channel x
Why do you think about yourself in the negative? You are awesome and strong. You push through but please stop when you need to. If you feel better then do something, if not take time out. If you have small children, it’s like a never ending Circle or circus. I have been there. You be yourself. We love watching you and rant all you like, we’ll listen.
You are the best judge of what works for you, not other people. We all have limited time and energy, but you manage to work, raise two small children, look after the house and garden and, on top of that, make and edit videos for this channel. It is really impressive, but it is not surprising that you get tired and fed up sometimes.
Gosh, every Mum or Dad should find this channel. Thank you for the honesty, I see myself in all of this.
You have just described EXACTLY what has been going through my head since even before I fell pregnant in April. Have struggled with this throughout my 20s as well. I genuinely thought I was alone in my feelings and going stir crazy. Even though I have no idea how I'm going to keep on top of it all once baby arrives, I at least feel like I've got a little bit off my chest just from watching this video. Sending love from Sussex, UK! ❤
It's nice to know I'm not the only one who can't balance cleaning, quality time, and work 🤣
Your channel is a delight. You remind me not to be so hard on myself. Thanks so much for your honesty.
I think it’s sweet that you give Charlie his due, and that you let him you know how important he is to you!
I could listen to your calming voice all day! You are one smart cookie, no doubt😊 you have a wonderful way of explaining things that are going on in your life and mind. Thank you so so much for your honest, transparent share. Your are a wonderful human being! Blessings to you from the Great Pacific Northwest, Lakewood, Washington! 💛🖤💛
You’re amazing Remi ❤
When my 3 kids were little I felt so overwhelmed with splitting myself in half for everyone and everything that needed me.
I remember at one stage feeling so bogged down I considered that being in jail would give me a break and peace 🤣
30 years later and Im now a Granny and I lost my eldest son several years ago.
Id give my life to have all my mess back again and children on earth
You are doing amazing. Your kids are loved and happy, well fed and clean. Your home is lovely and it looks so warm and cosy just like it should be
Be kind to yourself xx
Wow! What a beautiful dresser! Thanks for sharing your life with us. You are a wonderful mom and human being.
Remi, you are such a breath of fresh air. I am 60 years old and have truly come to understand that we all deal with things differently and that we ALL have thinking issues. I don’t struggle like you do to keeping the house tidy, but I do understand how it’s the thinking, the what’s going on inside my head, that can rob me, and has robbed me of enjoying life. My life always seemed to be orderly, my kids well behaved, friends always asking me how I do it all. When I was your age I was quite puffed up about it. But now I look back and have regrets, and then the guilt can set in, because I can clearly see that I did not pay attention to giving my children, or my husband the attention they deserved. They were neglected. And, I can get really wrapped up in believing that the issues they struggle with are directly tied to my neglect of them 😢. But that too is unproductive on many levels. So, once again it’s the thinking. I have apologized to both my children, we have a great relationship, and they are doing so much better than I did at their age. I am so proud of them both ❤…. Anyway, I am rambling. So much to say, so many ways my mom-heart wants to reassure you that YOU ARE DOING GREAT. You’re dealing with and learning to change your thinking when you realize it’s not realistic. Life is a journey, and you are travelling it well 🥰
Avoid the compare snare - don’t ever wish you were like anyone else. Like you’ve said, “We never know the whole story of anyone.”
This comes with love, from a person who has learned to let her house be messy 😊 …. at least, once in a while.
I could be your twin!
I'm proud of you and your efforts!
And you motivated me to actually get off my bum and start tidying. Thank you! Lots of love!
You are one amazing human being. Watching your videos is like having a friend talking to you while you tackle those hard life messes.
I appreciate all the work you do for us but I am glad you get time for yourself and your family. Your date night makeup was perfect and seeing you sitting in the cupboard was just adorable.
It is awesome that you got to go on a walk, play with the kids and see family members out and about.
Staying inside can feel like prison at times. Getting out is hard but very worthwhile!
If no one told you today I am bloody proud of you! Stay safe and stay sane! ❤❤❤
Remi, I so appreciate and enjoy your insights into Mom life! ( I would pay you serious therapy money for advice!!) You are delightful and I am very glad to hear you say that the idea of balance is in the works! Your garden is lovely! Your hard work has paid off! Your boys are making memories and enjoying themselves outside! KUDOS to you!👍♥️
Yesss, a new video. Please do more like this behind the scenes x
Remi you are amazing everytime I watch you , you have taught me a new way
of looking at life and what is priorities on a daily basis. Luv ya
I really relate to the problem with waiting for things and then going on with other stuff, such as the time I spend awaiting the doctor appointment.😅 From a young age I was a "clothes collector". I always had a problem with gaining weight and throwing clothes, especially "If these clothes fit me, I shall keep them". Now after I lost my mother and needed to move, the stuff i own do not fit in the current space. So every piece of clothing always keeps migrating around the home 😂😂. I'm slowly decluttering with the help of my partner but I have a long way to go! Thats why im thankful for your content, as it reminds me it is about the small steps you take everyday to improve the situation for yourself and your family. Best wishes from Poland ❤🎉
Girl PREACH 🙌🏻!! I feel you a d understand COMPLETELY! I feel the EXACT same way! Like I’ve only watched 15min in and I need to tell you that. I’m watching you literally in waiting mode before I pick up my daughter and take her to a Dr appointment even though I probably could have gotten something done in the house . . . But I just can’t! Anyway, thank you ❤you are one of the best cleaning/life/ADHD whatever creators out there because you make me feel seen every time I watch
I love your videos and your attitude of gratitude Remi! You're a great mum and doing a wonderful job 👍 Hello from Australia 🦘
Thank you so much ☺️❤️
I had to comment and let you know how much your videos mean to me! I'm a senior citizen with joint pain and lack of motivation to keep a clean house! I have two dogs inside and one is 15 yrs old and has bathroom accidents I'm always trying to run behind him and clean up. I have clutter everywhere and two extra bedrooms I just keep the doors closed because of the junk piled up in them! Your voice is calming to me and you make me feel like I'm not crazy..I'm just over whelmed sometimes. The way you work cleaning inspires me and I have done much more than I thought I could. Thank you!
Hi Remi!
I agree that cleaning is NOT a one and done activity. Thank you for reminding us that cleaning "is NEVER done and NEVER complete." I agree that this is all a part of "self care." ❤️
Thank you for sharing your days video.This gives me courage to go through another busy repetitious day knowing I am not the only one dealing with chaos at home. I loved your date night look which was very lovely. Looking forward to watching your next video. Love from Japan. 😊
How wonderful, I love it when you release a new video. I'm currently off my feet, due to a snapped ligament in my left ankle, so I will be thinking of all of the things that I can do when I'm back on my feet while I watch this! Much love, Remi. Xx
Ahh that must be painful bless you!! Wishing you a speedy recovery! And I hope you enjoy the video! ❤️
@@remiclog thank you so much. I'm doing everything that the hospital have told me to do, so I hope to only be off work for a month to 6 weeks. Xx
Hope you have a quick recovery! ❤
@@OldGreyMare60 thank you so much. Xx
I've never felt more seen!!! The doom piles are endless. They never stop. I don't have kids and yet here I am a sack of potatoes, in my bed for the 20th day in a row because the thought of leaving my nest is overwhelming. I appreciate you so much. ❤ just know you're reaching the right people that you want to be in your corner and we understand you! That outfit was fire 🎉🎉❤
Hello Remi, I loved your week in the life of video so much! I'm so glad I found your channel. I struggle with anxiety, depression, distraction & procrastination daily. I lived with my parents and lost my mother four years ago and my father two years ago. I live with my cat now. I have been sorting & organizing since my parents passed. It's still a work in progress & each day seems like a challenge. Some days I put on one of your videos & that helps motivate me and I feel less alone.
I love your channel so much! Thank you & blessings to you and your sweet family.
❤😊
I could watch you and listen to your wise and loving words every single day. You are inspiring people all over the world. Down South USA
Thank you Remi 😊 ❤ your Videos Help Me as I just Moved & My Energy Levels are Up & Down Past 2 Years! But Not Many RUclipsrs That I Watch Helped Much as They Was Too Tidy lol And Bit Fake some of them , But Your Videos Are The Real Deal & Your Voice Over Is The Best!!!! ❤❤❤ You're Doing Great Remi Trust Me, Everyone That Don't Say it Are Hiding it!!! You Say it How it Is!!! Oh and if You Do Go Behind in Your Housework Then Your Videos Will Be So Good When You Do it & Video it!! And Help Me & Many Others lol So Please Don't Stress As it Means You Will Have More Stuff to Film For Your Cleaning Channel & It's Not All Bad 😊❤❤❤ LOVE & BLESS TO YOU XXXXXX
Hi Remi, I’ve been watching you for a while and I can honestly say your videos are helping me so much; 1) keeping on top of everything around the house and 2) helping me feel less alone.
Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
Remi, looking at this video I can see quite the improvement. Don't be so hard on yourself. You're definitely not alone. Love your content very much and I watch videos over and over and over again, so I'm very happy when u post.
I dont clean without your voice going on in the background, evergthing is real and i relate to everything ❤❤ thank you for your videos
Gorgeous Remi. Thanks for sharing your lovely family and Mushroom!
Something incredible about littles is how much of the world they learn so quickly. Honestly, I imagine by two, it's overwhelming. Nothing surprises me about young ones in that age group anymore; at the end of the day, they have good hearts, and as any adult does, they have their moments, too.
Thank you again for such an inspiring video.
Oh dear Remi❤❤❤ thank you for always putting a smile on my face!!! On no tombstone stands "she kept a neat household". I am a follower from early on, and I see how much you improved your tidying muscles. Whenever feel guilty, remember that tombstone, and what your children will remember of their childhood. It better be the books you read and the fun you had 😊 sending hugs from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
I am a 55 year old woman who was finally diagnosed with ADHD in Dec 2022. I have learned so much about why I am the way I am in that amount of time. But watching your videos last few weeks has made things make sense - the puzzle pieces are all dropping into place.
And your voice is one of the most soothing I’ve heard. My inner dialogue has picked up your accent (I’m from the south in the US). Thank you for creating this channel.
Oh Remi, As newly diagnosed with Adhd.. this is just exactly how I feel. I have been spiralling with overwhelming emotion this morning and you have snapped me out of it and soothed me. Love your videos xx
That folding tradition with your eldest is so sweet, it makes such a boring task a lot more fun doing it together ❤
Hi Remi. Your lawn looks fantastic. You did an awesome job. I really enjoy your videos. I am a newly retired 64 yr old from Canada. My kids are grown, no grandchildren. Keep it up.
Gosh, being a single mom with ADHD this made me feel so seen. I saw a short of yours and came to the channel to see what your longer videos were and now I got tears in my eyes cuz I felt so broken struggling to keep a perfect house like my ex wanted. Thank you for sharing this honest and raw week in the life.
Hi Remi, I thank you a million times over. You have been describing so many of my problems that I have to deal with every single day. I feel when I watch your videos that I am not alone and things don't have to be perfect. Spending time with your family is so important and it doesn't help being hard on yourself because things aren't tidied away. I just want to say many thanks for your videos I find them very encouraging. Please keep them coming xxx
Omg! When you said “pure venom” when he was taking the trucks off of the toy chest. I laughed so hard because it was the cutest thing I’ve seen in a long time. My daughter is 16 now and like you say, what I wouldn’t give to go back to that age and just kiss her little face. You are so blessed and an amazing mom. Sending love
Hi Remi! This long video was such a treat to watch! ❤
Thank you Remi. I find your videos so comforting and inspiring. I couldn’t go by my day without you.
I find the sunshine makes me feel so much more motivated. Glad to hear the iron is helping you and you looked lovely for your date night
thank you for helping me get an hour of chores done! I always watch your videos now when I need a boost. and I love your insights. hope you have a great week ❤
It's absolutely lovely to watch a video that is absolutely genuine. I know your videos help so many mums who are struggling feeling overwhelmed with family and work balance. Thank you for being you showing not everyone has a Pinterest worthy life but a busy life which is full of love. Well done,you're obviously a fantastic mum doing the best you can!!
Remi. I’ve been where you are, with the little ones, you try to clean and straighten and they seem to be going along behind you creating chaos and undoing everything you’ve just done. I’m going on 63 years old now. Watching your little one in this video gives me such joy and laughter. He’s precious! When they’re young it’s hard to find the middle ground. I’m so glad for you that you’re making these videos, so you will have them to look back at your babies (no matter how old they are), they will bring you such nostalgic joy when they’re no longer at home with you. My boys are 36 and 32 now. I miss their little, loving, messy boy selves so much. ❤️🫂❤️
Hey Remi, you were looking gorgeous on your date night. But, you know what? You inspired me to stay in my PJs on those hard days when my to do list is longer than a roll of toilet paper. It helps so much with feeling comfy. So, you're my style-icon. ❤
I wasn’t expecting to cry this early in the day ❤️ Thank you for the encouragement!
My younger son is autistic. I have had so many people tell me if I would just be a better mother he would be perfectly normal. And usually while they are raising spoiled entitled brats. Everyone thinks they have to right to judge but don't want to be judged themselves. It is hard to ignore such people but your family is your priority. Do what you need to do for you and keep posting videos. Sometimes it helps just to know someone else is also not perfect.
People make such comments when they only see seconds of your life. They don't see the sleepless nights, the sweat and tears you have everyday. As long as you know you are doing your best everyday, that's all that matters.
Much strength, joy and peace for all your extra thoughts, work and pain that nobody sees.
The judgements of the others reveal a lot about themselves and not you.
They probably would not be able to handle a situation like yours.
You can and you do!
Thanks so much for your comments. They mean a lot to me. 🙂
Tell em to stuff off. How rude can people be
As a teacher, some of my favorite students were on the spectrum. They were clever and creative and made me laugh every day! They challenged me to think what works best for them, making me a better teacher and person. Hang in there...
Hi Remi! You’re just precious! You do you!
Taking care of little kids is EXHAUSTING. Watching and analyzing, asking myself what are some major areas that are draining so much of your time?
It’s not being able to install a dishwasher or clothes dryer. I wish you had these, it would help alleviate SO much stress and time. Literally, these would change your life. …And you do deserve it. ❤
My house is piles upon piles. I do what I can when I can. My boys are all grown, but still need to be done. I remember when my boys were small and you can only do so much. You are doing a marvelous job!!!
Yes, enjoying this Remi. Your voice, logic, understanding and tenderness are priceless... I find myself rewinding and listening from the beginning again, while I work on my tasks. 😊❤
Feel so nice to see a new video from Remi. It’s mostly my anti panic attack meds. Thank you for keeping me sane ❤
Remi you are an amazing person for doing what you do and sharing it with all of us!!! You are an awesome mother and wife!! Don’t ever listen to anyone who criticizes you. I just recently found your videos and I am hooked!! I can relate to you so much!! You have given me so much encouragement!! I have accomplished so much thanks to your motivation!! I hope you get everything you deserve in life sweet lady!! From a housewife in Texas!!❤