Thrifting to create the old money interior design aesthetic like Ralph Lauren
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
- In this video, we delve into the decorating style coined the Old Money Aesthetic, where the focus is on quality over quantity. Discover the timeless elegance that comes with embracing a lifestyle of homeowners that value heritage, craftsmanship, and refinement. Join us as we explore how this aesthetic is not just a trend, but a mindset of prioritizing enduring value and classic style and how you can do it on a budget.
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I am a retired paperhanger, 25 years in the business in Bergen County, NJ. I worked in over a 1000 homes and saw just about every kind of decorating. Hands down, the old money New England esthetic is the most beautiful, rich and warm. In fact, I have decorated my own home that way for years.
Nothing broke my heart more when the HGTV contemporary look came in in the early 2000s. We went from wallpaper with beautiful colors and patterns to gray and taupe textured vinyls, lacking any patterns. My older traditional customers used to excitedly say their rooms were beautiful. My younger customers used to say their rooms looked "awesome." It was depressing. The whole historic American style has been replaced with contemporary, retro junk, thanks to HGTV and the Internet. Thankfully, the younger generations are starting to wise up.
I stopped watching HGTV because the channel embraced an aesthetic that I find uninspiring, sterile, and unwelcoming. i also stopped buying the magazine, "Traditional Home" because it started embracing "updated" trends that did not speak to me.
My daughter and son and daughter-in-law were thrilled to receive furniture that belonged to their grandparents and even great-grandparents. The older furniture is made better and lasts. Well, obviously, it lasts. My children also realize that they are saving so much money by accepting pre-loved family treasures.
Oh Linda. This video was excellent. Your videos always bring me so much joy. I’m 76 years old I have been struggling with many health issues over the last year. I am recovering from surgery now and I’m feeling really good and this video all of a sudden got me excited to get my mothers beautiful Haviland china down and invite some of my friends over for lunch. Thanks for bringing this old lady so much joy. Love in Christ
I'm so glad you are feeling better! Enjoy your gathering with friends!
Here's to inspiration, a wonderful lunch, and evergreen hope for renewal. God bless.
THANK YOU!! I adore Ralph Lauren and the old money aesthetic. I just call it New England style, I don't think just old money can have that look.
I totally agree! I like calling it the Grand Union Style too. A blend of many things from many places, from many eras
I just received the newest Ralph Lauren coffee book for my birthday…fabulous book old world tradition
@@susiehoyle6113 Oh! How nice! That will give you hours of pleasure looking at those beautiful pics! And happy birthday!
I’m so glad the old world aesthetic is back. Quality, color, and special items with meaning.
Thank you Linda and Bridgerton!
I think Bridgerton is helping a lot. I sold all my New England items when I moved to a bright white house in Florida. I love it, but did mention the other day that maybe we should paint the bedroom pale blue😅
Linda...love this post. I had a screened in porch added to my home. I needed to get new cushions for my beautiful wicker. When I went to a store to see about fabrics they assumed since it was for a screened in porch I wanted botanical, palm trees, beachy fabric. I live in Tennessee surrounded by mountains, yes near a lake, but nothing beachy. I asked Why would I want cushions that belong in Florida?? They said thats what has been popular. Well, not with me. She asked me a few questions about my style and what I was going for...in a minute she brought out a fabric book of...guess what? Ralph Lauren!!! It probably helped that I had an RL blouse on. And thats what I picked...Ralph Lauren, beautiful, classic fabric cushions. That was in 2006 and they are still beautuful, classic, and have held the test of time. They were not cheap..but here it is, 2024 and still in use. Its not old money as you are talking about, but it looks like it. They will never go out of style..and I always get compliments. ❤
I think it is the same! You valued quality and knew they would last and be timeless.
My condo is like this. Filled with furniture I've had for decades, some pieces inherited from family, decor items that are inherited, some from world travels, art from family members, inherited silver & brass. It feels elegant & comfortable. Those who visit always compliment my home & find things each time that catch their eye. Glad I still have these precious treasures around me to keep memories of family bright in my mind, as they are forever in my heart.
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for making this video. Our ancestors whether they were rich or poor had this way of living. Family heirlooms were past down and kept. Now when someone passes their stuff is thrown away or donated. It is not what people today want in their homes. Sad. My middle class family decorated this way and so do I. I treasure some of the things that were my mom's and grandmothers. I have all of their antiques and paintings. All of the glassware and dishes too. However I do like to mix in classic comfortable soft furniture like couches and chairs. We do use our fine china as much as we can too.
Yes, whether rich or poor. Those who donate their things... Let me tell you the stores you can bring them to, I will be waiting! . LOL.
I just discovered this channel, it’s amazing! This is how I’ve always lived. You don’t have to be wealthy to appreciate beautiful, classic design. Thank you so much for sharing!
What I love about buying these older, antique items is that most were not made in China (unless they are the REALLY old items). Most of the decorative items in my home are pre-1970 American made items, many purchased on eBay. My most cherished item is a Philadelphia Windsor chair made by a man in Alabama, who had to close shop because of the knock-off chairs coming from China at a cheaper price. That has to change.
Good morning Linda. It's all so beautiful and what I really appreciate is the craftsmanship. Furniture, houses, clocks etc, all made with such skill & pride. Something seriously lacking in the products of today. Nothing is built to last anymore; that's why I appreciate the old & the history behind it. Thank you for this video today.❤
All of these items are stunning. Unfortunately I have found the younger generation does not value nor want these heirlooms. I have viewed numerous RUclips videos on older generations saving their belongings with the goal of passing them down. They advise to sell or donate these same items you are showing as the younger generation does not value them. Instead they value experiences and travel; not collecting things that need dusting and upkeep. I am greatly saddened by this as I have many of the fine items you showcase. I have even spoken to auction houses who will not accept crystal, silver, fine China (if it can’t be put in the dishwasher) as it won’t sell to younger buyers, as no one wants it anymore. I am at a loss of what to do with my fine and well preserved collections. I hate to think after I pass my fine china collections will end up in a thrift store sold for pennies. 😢
I'm hoping some of the newer design trends, which are using many of the items we are talking about, will be used and cherished.
I have observed over here on the West Coast that young people are embracing vintage for their homes. So I’m inspired to think that they are going to appreciate the finer things like Crystal and China and those heirlooms from their family.
This is so true. Just yesterday I went to pick up a 70 piece set of Johnson Bros Old British Castles. It is gorgeous, and an absolute steal. The woman said her daughters didn't want it, and this look of sadness came over her face. They don't want "old stuff". She then brightened up a bit when I assured her that the dishes would be well used and well loved.
It's just so sad. I hate to think of my antiques sitting on the side of the road when I die because no one wants them.
Actually that’s changing rapidly with the popularity of grandmillennial design style🥂
My husband and l have been in the antiques business for nearly 50 years! A suggestion: call an antique mall, and tell them what you have for sale. Ask for a list of dealers who are interested in your items. Research them well, so you're knowledgeable about their worth, because unfortunately, some dishonest dealers will try to cheat you. Settle on a compromise: they make money, you make money And be clear that the sale is cash only- NO checks. But don't give your precious things to a thrift shop!
You inspired me to take out an antique silver plated coffee and tea set I packed away and start using it. I use my sterling flatware (inherited from my parents) Waterford crystal and fine china at every holiday. Hoping my kids will want to do likewise some day. They enjoy when I use it.
That is awesome! Thank you for sharing!
"Old Money Aesthetic" is the opposite of the current trend toward "Fast Fashion" - which is one of the greatest polluters of our planet. "The True Cost" is an eye-opening documentary about consumption, which many kindred spirits might appreciate seeing . Thank you, Linda, for your constant encouragement (via NEFL) to thrift, recycle old goods in new ways, and focus on creating a warm and welcoming home rather than a shallow showplace. Enjoy the week!
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
I've had to dispose of my mom's things and unfortunately California was not a good market for her antiques. I shipped a few furniture items, but the cost is prohibitive. Plus we got taken by the estate dealer who seemed so honest. I ended up owing her money even with a library full of leather bound books, etc. Mom had an antique mahogany two-pedestal Sheridan dining table in great condition with 3 leaves and 10 chairs. The antique store didn't even want to talk to me. We ended up donating the set to the local cancer society. I do feel it will come back into style at some point because the quality is so wonderful.
A New England home lends itself to curate classic items. I grew up on the East Coast. But, now I live in Indiana. I am an avid finder of antique treasures.
I have been asking for several years now trying to pass down my treasures to my five children. No Mom, I don't need anything.Just last week, my fifth child, girl, finally took my beautiful vintage cut chrystal glassware. Wine, champagne, goblets, etc. I have to resign to the fact, it may sit in a box for awhile.
I think that's the thing-in today's world, people can often afford to choose their own 'style' rather than relying on passed down items. My parents had many lovely pieces of heavy, solid wood furniture and lovely china but honestly it wasn't the style of any of my 4 siblings. It felt burdensome to feel their expectation that we should take all of their items-which was their particular style and not mine. What did I choose when my parents passed away? 2 watering cans that I use weekly, a crucifix from my grandparents' wedding, a statue of the Blessed Mother that sat on my mother's dresser for 52 years, a few other little bits and pieces. I treasure them. I think it's best to understand that our taste may not be our children's taste and that's ok. It doesn't mean they don't value US - they just may not value our taste. My daughter certainly has a very different aesthetic than me. But there are small things that hold fond memories for her and I assume these will be what she will take. And remember, these are things. They are just objects. The love and the memories are the real treasures. They are the legacy that will never pass away. Spend your time acquiring and sharing these treasures with your child and don't worry so much about the other stuff.
@@mariac4602 I do like your perspective. It made me really think.
I haven't inherited many things from my grandmother as my mother is still alive. Many things I thought would be passed down to me and/or my siblings has been sold to strangers because of different financial troubles my mother and grandmother have faced along the way. This makes me sad.
Also, your point about not wanting to burden your children with your tastes, style and aesthetic, spoke volumes to me. I wouldn't want to make my children feel obligated to accept my things. Just because I've been disappointed that I haven't inherited the nicer things, doesn't mean my children feel that way. This fact just never dawned on me until you mentioned it here. Thank you.
I'm sure that at some point in time, the idea about having the finer things will come back into vogue again and will resurge in popularity. I think it may even be slowly beginning to reappear now in what the younger generation is calling, "Grand Millennial Style." I think about the minimalism of the 40's and 50's, which gradually gave way to the excess of the 80's and 90's. It all circles back around in a way, doesn't it?
"What is old is new again."
I’ve found that my children, nieces, and nephews don’t want vintage china or silver because they can’t put it in the dishwasher.😑
We live in an IKEA disposable particle board world where home furnishings are owned for a season and then get donated or sent to the landfill.
some of the young women in my family would rather buy cheap, readymade , fake factory made in China items than use my cherished 1800's farm antiques, original art and pottery collection...everythin is now gray, white, gray boring reproduction garbage
I am always drawn to older, well-made, beautiful items. Living with Stumbling across the perfect treasure large or small or moving items from one room to the next enhance the comforts of our homes.
Well said!
I live in Georgia, and, yes, we have our share of lovely old homes. I enjoy your videos because they truly do lean toward treasures of yesterday that we enjoy today. I was watching bookcases closely as I've just done a good sort and now need to style. Thanks for a great tutorial!
I love a collected look. ♡ I have no decorating budget (no money, old or new!) but my 1925 house has a cozy vintage aesthetic and I have found wonderful things thrifting, at rummage sales, and even roadside finds. I love books and they are everywhere (well stocked bookshelves add interest to a large wall, much like wallpaper).
Love that! I get many of my books at our free swap shop at the transfer station.
I love this video! I am 45 years old, and I love this look. For a long time, I had no idea what to call it. I would love to see your other ideas that you did not include in this video. Thank you so much!❤
I love your quote, "use it or someone else will." That is so very true. I just cleaned out my parents' home, and had to donate so many treasures my mom had "saved for good."
Love the Ralph Lauren look!!!!
I have always loved the look of Oxblood leather.
I searched for the generational style and found Hancock and Moore.
My great grandkids will thank me for buying it.
Linda, I truly loved this video! I have followed you for as long as I can remember and am always inspired. I don’t comment much but wanted you to know how you have helped me find my fine living. I just purchased a China hutch for $100. And am filling it with my China and my Moms Crystal! This brings me such joy. ❤️
I love hearing that you found a great find for your China and Crystal! Thank you for watching!
So much of my life has been living with family heirlooms . I added a Blue whippet . And I'll tell you "Cary Grant" fits right in . No matter what piece of furniture he sits on .He makes it look like my home is straight from old England .
Thank you! Near the end I was thinking oh, how I wish you would share more of what you have shared today. Then you mentioned you would be doing more real estate, etc. I for one am thrilled. This was a beautiful share today, just as usual, you read our kindred spirits mind! Thank you again! I am excited.
You are so welcome and I'm glad you like the idea of the real estate and house tours!
Love your channel! I always felt that old money always used correct grammar.
Enjoying this video, very informative.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
Love the old money aesthetic. I decorated my forever home in that style when we moved here in 1985. I was thrilled to move on from my Primitive clutter.
In '85 there were very few vendors importing European antiques, so I was forced to go slow. I didn't inherit anything I could use from my mother. She never bought an antique in her life, though her furniture was top of the line 1960s matchy, matchy suites.
After a few yrs I realized that our family and friends were uncomfortable in our home. My style of interior decoration was a distraction. It was really difficult for me, but I "edited" over a period of a few yrs and finally got it right.
I enjoyed feeling like Cinderella, but most of the people who knocked on my front door were not dressed appropriately for a ball.
Thanks for bringing my weekly treat of all the lovely interiors dearest Linda. Its magical!
Oh my Linda, I really enjoyed this video this Sunday afternoon. I just loved it so much! This is so me, in so many ways. Everything you said, and what I saw, is what I do too. I never follow these new trends, it's just not me. I love how you think and love your decorating style. It feels so nice to know I'm not the only one that loves that ''Old Aesthetic'' decorating style for my home. I love it! 💗💯
I have been watching your RUclips videos for years, Linda, and have learned so much. This video is my favorite! It reflects the style my husband and I have been working on in our house. It truly takes time. Thank you for all that you do!
You are so welcome!
I do live in South,I have thought about this for years ,when I was young and we visited friends of my parents,my thoughts were ,why don’t they buy a New dining room table,a new whatever ,I had no idea they were priceless antiques from England,Italy,etc . I grew to love the look ,of buy something of good quality once that you love and keep it forever. Old money is a way of life,not just style.,not Amazon boxes on the porch. It’s also a feeling you get when you enter the house,things are to be used not saved ,not designed but elegant and lived in….leather chairs are soft Ike butter because they were used and you never leave without eating or drinking something …that would be rude.. Trying hard to teach my grandchildren that there are other places to shop other than Pottery Barn and Anthropology 😂 Things in your house should have a story!!!! As they say ,when you know you KNOW 🌿🍃. Thanks Linda
Linda I enjoyed all your videos but this one hit all my buttons. I get overwhelmed with "style" your tips on focusing on quality makes so much sense.
I'm glad it was helpful!
Also, this is so practical, as well as showing us so many good examples with pictures… I recognize a couple of these are Groton house?! I love all the homes you do… And every single picture and video you are showing is just so up my alley! I love this timeless, colonial, old world look!
Thank you! Yes, all of the photos were of our homes, friend's homes, and vacation destinations.
Oh that was delightful Linda. I personally love the “old money “ style. Having lived in London for two years I fell in love with English antiques and brought many home with me. Thank you so much😍
new subscriber - love all of these ideas! My family came from Cuba in the 60's and weren't allowed to bring anything from their families and all of their items were sold or burned so I find it surprising that people don't want to keep family heirlooms. I love thrifting and antiquing because I feel I am "adopting" family heirlooms for others!
Hi! Its me, Linda!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
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I have spent my lifetime collecting much of what this video is about. I have no children, or family to pass this down too. I sure everything I have will end up? I have started passing things to a couple of friends I have, which I have found to be fun and have enjoyed.
Congratulations to Lisa for winning the box! 🎉
Im here frm Mumbai, India .i pick up a lot of old glass handles frm Newyork flee markets n othr stuff.love ur video.
Thanks for acknowledging the Southern love of traditional furnishings.
This is exactly how our house looks. It ends up being more economical as we rarely have to buy things to keep up with trends.
Husband and I live in NE Ohio. Before covid, we discovered auctions & estate sales. We replaced ALL of our furniture with solid wood antiques!!! The most expensive piece is a solid black walnut dresser with hand carved pulls ❤❤❤ Unfortunately since covid, auctions arent what they were but we still hit 1 every other month. Furniture is going for more but still affordable, in my opinion. Always fun hunting! I'm looking for a big piece for my bathroom storage. ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing!
Couldn't agree more, and I drool at all of the gorgeous items in this video.
Just love the tour, I love the homes You've been showing, Thanks for sharing
This video has touched many viewers who like me have many items and furniture passed down from parents and grandparents who treasured them. Thanks for the tour of these special places and charming furnishings!
Gloomy here in Ontario Canada love linda video look forward to it every sunday
Loved this so much . I have been collecting since I was 18 , something so special about feathering your nest .
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hi Linda! This segment is delightful and definitely reflects an elegant style which is comfortable and desirable to many of us. I try not to buy made in China items unless they are seasonal decorative pieces. Solid wood pieces are quality, lifelong items and an investment. We may not live in elegant mansions; yet our homes can replicate fine living. For those whose family do not appreciate these things, I would say that they need to cherish, use and enjoy what they have, and by doing so, they may influence someone to attain the same love. Thank you Linda for sharing!
Good morning Linda from South Carolina. 😁😁😁 I still can’t get over that you only paid $25 for your grandfather clock. It’s beautiful.
Me neither!
Linda , I have just found your channel this year and I love it . I just find it so relaxing and your style is mine also. Just last week I purchased a book from Ebay ,Spectacular Homes of New England. I have really got the bug lol . Best wishes from Northern Ireland.
I'm so glad! Enjoy your book!
Yes, yes, yes. A style that will last through the ages. While others have looked at my home as not trendy, I would rather invest in quality pieces that will last. So many of the things shown are just a mirror of my home. Oil painting with fox hunts, dogs, horses or New England landscapes are my favorites. May have a problem with tall case clocks, toleware, staffordshire dogs, Windsor chairs, rugs too. My color plalate has always been red and blue. Thank you Linda for showcasing this style. And yes, I agreed you can thrift this style too but never got a score like your $25 tall case clock but I’m always looking. It could happen! ❤
Love this video. Thanks.
Great episode filled with beautiful ideas. Home tours coming, Love it!
This is my thing! I’m so glad for this video. Thank you so much ❤️
Oh my I absolutely loved this! Items today just ain't got it like the good ole days
Love, love, love this video!!!!
Perfect rainy morning to watch this vlog ❤
Thank You Linda! These wonderful moments brought back so many fun and happy memories of antique hunting with my girlfriends ! I swear you are a wonder! Love every single one of your videos and am so grateful for them!!
Thanks Linda! Your interiors are an inspiration for me ❤
Linda, your aesthetic has always been wonderful! Love watching your videos 😊
Hello Linda! Watching on a rainy, cozy Sunday added to the aesthetic feel of your video! Love the decorative groupings! The setting with the tea cup, roses and candles made a beautiful photo! Thanks for sharing! 🍵 🌺 🕯️ ❤
Thank you for watching! Sunny here, wondering if the rain is coming our way.
This is my favorite style. My home is a traditional Colonial, although it’s not old. (Built in 1998) My grandmother and my mom were antique lovers and collectors so I have a lot of their beautiful pieces. Looking forward to more on this topic!
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Loved this!
Thank you for highlighting a wonderful decor style- I'd love to see more! Your vid is inspiring.. I've always called my style a "budget Ralph Lauren" look- which melds with my TN log cabin beautifully. No moose or bear themes to be found here...just warm vintage elegance.
Lovely video Linda; thank you! ❤❤❤
You are so welcome!
Thank you Linda great video ❤
Such a great video Linda, one of my very favourite homes I like to look at on YT is Kathrine Hepburns very beautiful house when she was alive, very typical of her & NE style. I love antique homes they can look so elegant & cosy, nice idea to ditch the cover jackets of some of your books to give that old style look, I have often thought how nice the undercover is in the lovely browns, greens, reds…. Thankyou again for a delightful time sat watching your videos….😊
RL many years ago simply appropriated old english country house style that has been around forever and put his own twist on it in a distinctly American way. IMO prefer to the english traditional style as it manages to mix and match items gathered over long periods of time and bring them together in a cohesive way that RL never seems to manage.
Linda, love this video. Look forward to more! and similar videos! I agree that New England has to money and history like no other. Best to you, Ben and Willow!
Loved today’s video so much! Looking forward to the RE tours!!!
Coming soon!
The issue with these items is that take alot of hand washing and maintenance, which was fine when these items were very popular , the houses had service to perform all these duties.
My daughter is married witha two year old daughter and a full time attorney, she does not want to take the time nor have the time to care for heirlooms that l could have pasted to her. I have to admit that after taking care for china, silver and crystal for many years,l gave it all to charity. Now in our lake home and city condo we purchased Danby for our crockery that can go into the dishwashers,it just makes life easier and l rather be with my family and friends then tending to handwashing.
Hi Linda! this is truly my style love tradition.. no fads for me!! I am so thankful for having my mom's lovely treasurers! I wish I could have gotten my grandmother's sofa stuffed with horse hair! Congrats to Lucky winner !! Have a joyful week ! Paula Happy June
Thanks, Linda! I so enjoyed all the beauty and inspiration and helpful guidelines in this video.
I live in SW VA, but am a New Englander at heart ❤️
I like this!!!
Loved this video. Gave me some ideas for my home.
I found this video very informative and interesting! Thank you so much for helping me give a style I really enjoy a name!
Same here in West Virginia. Love a nice cozy rainy day 😊
-- love this video, Lisa!
I've always been fascinated by the homes and landscapes of New England. Too bad I live in a U.S. state that is about as far from, and as different from, New England as one can get get. But c'est la vie. Beautiful, classic decor in this video. Thank you for reminding me of what I don't have, LOL!
Thank you for all the information and pictures. I want to redecorate, and this video has been a huge help.
I'm glad it may come in handy!
Oh Linda I really enjoyed this video as always..I love items like that in my home and memories..Thank you for this and I look forward to all that you will be sharing with us all.. Until next time..
You are so welcome
Linda, what a wonderful video!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I learned so much watching this video. Thank you for your know how and tips.
Glad it was helpful!
I truly enjoy your vids Linda. The old world esthetic has always been a favorite of mine! TFS
Thanks so much!
Thank you Linda! We own a 1920's Spanish Revival Home. I am continuously adding and looking for old World pieces. Please keep these videos and tours coming. I am a teacher off for the summer, so this video definitely has my creative juices flowing.
More to come!
So informative so enjoyable thankyou
I'm so glad you enjoyed it
I’d love a in depth video of the old money aesthetic, including the fabrics etc and some examples in your home :))
I so enjoyed this video!
I'm so glad!
Congratulations, Lisa! 😊 This was a wonderful video, Linda! Thank you for all the ideas and information. I look forward to your new real estate videos (I look forward to all your videos). 🥰
Great video Linda. Much appreciated! Maybe part two? Congratulations to
Lisa the winner 👏👍
Possibly!
Congratulations Lisa!
Simply lovely
Beautiful video. Always ❤️ thank you for sharing, and I look forward to the next video ❤️ 🌹
Linda... this was a really fabulous video... I enjoyed every single part of it. I love this style of decor, as it brings such warm and evocative feelings of home and family to the forefront. Since I am a self-proclaimed "dish nut", I always enjoy taking out my china and tea service items, etc....all of the old things that I am so lucky to have....just a lovely video and especially appreciated!!🌷🌷🌺🌺🫖🫖
Good morning from Western N Y. So ready for my New England Fine Living on a gloomy rainy day here as well. (Kimberley)
I am so happy that I found your channel. I'm from New Hampshire as well. :)
Welcome!!
Love this video, grew up in Williamsburg, Va., and lived seeing that daily,it is hard to get to, unless your family passed down some things, but it is the best look, the best homes are the ones that look like their things are older, and have been around and you don't have to keep changing. I should not say it, but I hate the Home Goods look! But I have also bought some of it, go figure!