Why are many MEN angry with WODEMAYA? Did He say anything wrong?😰

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  • @naturalempress8564
    @naturalempress8564 Месяц назад +92

    Overall, the idea is: “Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day-teach him how to fish and he will eat for a lifetime”💯

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      I agree but for him is teaching so she make her own money.Thisvway he thinks he doesn't have to give his wife no money.Thats a cheap man.He isn't attractive so he needs to do better because when she makes her own money she doesn't need them anymore. She see that he's not willing to treat her as if she's a good woman or a good wife so why stay around. Somebody else out there would treat her better and she will gone in a minute.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +2

      Trudy should go take care of her father in Kenya he is much more deserving

  • @newdawn1091
    @newdawn1091 Месяц назад +61

    When you have a woman that loves you, you should spoil and treasure her.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +3

      Tell that to a narcissist sociopath

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Месяц назад +6

      When you love a man too much he will take you for granted

    • @bradleepitt7409
      @bradleepitt7409 29 дней назад

      Spoil her and treasure her? Nonsense.

    • @newdawn1091
      @newdawn1091 29 дней назад

      @@bradleepitt7409 okay

    • @GodsChild-1331
      @GodsChild-1331 15 дней назад

      ​@@CanadianloveTruth... I couldn't have said that any better!!

  • @conni2081
    @conni2081 28 дней назад +9

    It is good to assist a woman to be independent and to be empowered. Sometimes if you talk too much, you may loose the wisdom behind the intentions. I think he means well for Trudy but he will also need the wisdom in elevating her woman in public. Let the world know you found a treasure as much as she also found a treasure.

  • @ceerox3974
    @ceerox3974 Месяц назад +60

    Watched the interview with the Powells also and Miss Trudy had the same look in her eyes here... She doesn't look happy. I am glad you have empowered her, she sings your praises and is very respectful towards you. However Wode, you don't speak like you adore your wife. You don't speak lovingly. A wife is to be treasured.

    • @tintswalomabasa565
      @tintswalomabasa565 Месяц назад +2

      I share the same sentiment

    • @roselinealice8869
      @roselinealice8869 Месяц назад +2

      Same sentiments too why is she not happy yet they are newly wed there's a conspicuous disconnect btwn them my 15yrs old son said something that i will keep quiet about for now, though

    • @Gabrielle0241
      @Gabrielle0241 Месяц назад +2

      Yes he's not in love with her , he said it himself he's there because of what she does for him. I don't think he finds her physically attractive it's very obvious

    • @blackcoraltv6787
      @blackcoraltv6787 25 дней назад +3

      Thought i was the only one that noticed....the spark is gone from her eyes. Maya is an arrogant person, must be hard to live with him

    • @astraltraveler1
      @astraltraveler1 25 дней назад +1

      Agreed. I've never heard him sound so arrogant before. But he is a village boy as he says. His ideals of marriage may be misconstrued compared to elsewhere. Regardless, he did help Trudy get a step up in life. But for many cultures, wives are regarded as servants for men. Perhaps it's an unfortunate side of Africa. But Miss Trudy is very smart. The wheels in her head are churning and she's internalizing and comprehending everything. But she's a good wife. And staying silent. I on the other hand could not, and therefore am happily single. Relationships are about sacrifice and compromise. Perhaps I'm selfish in that regard. Either way, I'm self-sufficient and need no man. Imo, Miss Trudy could easily marry someone worth 10 times what Wode Maya is.

  • @AkotTV1
    @AkotTV1 Месяц назад +8

    I dont mind making my own money but please, I love it when my man spends money on me eeeiiisshhh Wode, go easy he he 😅

  • @j.allenstv3781
    @j.allenstv3781 29 дней назад +10

    As a woman & a mother, I can attest that mothers who stay home & raise their children produce healthier intellectual children than mothers who work outside of the home. Hence, if a man requires a woman to neglect her children to chase money that man will probably never be a good husband or father. Essentially, I think men should give women the option to be a caregiver or a working class woman, if and only if she has children or plan to have children with her husband.

  • @mikega1252
    @mikega1252 Месяц назад +31

    Miss Trudy’s hair looks gorgeous. I like that she keeps it natural.

  • @readoutloudrol5755
    @readoutloudrol5755 Месяц назад +10

    Empowering women is just an excuse to be cheap. Women in this day and age are empowered and even the breadwinners in their homes.

  • @joybeybeeluv4234
    @joybeybeeluv4234 Месяц назад +24

    Go Maya! I love hearing a man that respects women and believes in empowering his wife and not controlling her! Beautiful 😊

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      That woman is going to meet a good man and leave him.He is too cheap sorry

  • @housseninacro9038
    @housseninacro9038 Месяц назад +43

    Marriage is an investment, wedding is not.Wode,you spit wisdom!

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад

      He might be thinking that it's okay to teach her how to vlog. That's a helpful information but at the end of the day you're looking a woman to be your wife You have to treat her right. Showing her how to vlog to make money is not showing her that you want her you you want her to be important in your life. That shows you're cheap you don't want to spend your money so you want her to make her own money to spend. Man like that he's not too attractive so he needs to do what he needs to do to get a good looking woman like that.

    • @goldgirl8771
      @goldgirl8771 Месяц назад

      Agree with him

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +2

      Stingy men's association

    • @teerich
      @teerich Месяц назад

      @@africanqueenmo😂😂😂

    • @jagenaught
      @jagenaught 10 дней назад

      @@angelaescoffery7728 You spewed garbage there and there are plenty of good looking women but not good wives. He advised her. To claim he wants to spend her money is a claim with not substance.

  • @shaddyraddyworldmusic
    @shaddyraddyworldmusic Месяц назад +10

    Wode Maya saw potential in Trudy. Taught her the game. Invested in her. Now she's an icon. Success!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @globalcitizen1138
      @globalcitizen1138 27 дней назад

      It's the woman who chooses her mate and not the other way around.

  • @aaronik4092
    @aaronik4092 Месяц назад +69

    You said nothing wrong Wode Maya Garvey. Its the right message. Lets empower our women

  • @feonasmith9226
    @feonasmith9226 Месяц назад +49

    I don't see anything wrong with empowering women, I agree with what he said

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      Is nothing wrong with showing someone how to be a vlogger All of a sudden the world has a million and one vlogger. It's not nothing you're doing that so great anybody could do it once you put the time in and effort. The problem that we have with him he's not to attractive he's not too tall a nice looking woman like that that's talking to him He needs to show that she's worth it. Show her how to make her own money is great but also you can't hang around and think she's going to hang around with you not spending a dime on her You're too cheap.

  • @Canadianlove
    @Canadianlove Месяц назад +4

    Now I understand why women love Nigerian men because they know how to appreciate a woman especially a good woman.

    • @kenyanowtv
      @kenyanowtv Месяц назад +5

      They will treat you well and then con you out of everything you have.Sorry for the Nigerian vibe but they leave alot of cries in foreign women that date them. It is like conmanship is in their DNA.

  • @thisenthat
    @thisenthat Месяц назад +15

    The look from this young Kenyan girl tells how much she’s laughing at him inside. Such a lousy guy who’s stingy can not survive long

  • @DiOnlyweh
    @DiOnlyweh Месяц назад +23

    Thumbnail; I'm not angry with Wodemaya at all 😂 much respect to your husband 👍🏽
    Beautiful wife Wodemaya! Much respect to both 🙌🏽

  • @ernestwitherspoon3344
    @ernestwitherspoon3344 Месяц назад +62

    She was willing to listen and be coachable, equal success.! Lots of women don't wanna listen period!!

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +7

      She's his doormat

    • @user-ul6do9nc5o
      @user-ul6do9nc5o Месяц назад +13

      ​@@africanqueenmoShe doesn't look happy at what he's saying

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@user-ul6do9nc5o as a woman I can say she's biting her lip and swallowing it. There are two businesses at stake here hers and his. Money first before happiness U guess!

    • @jackiedelvalle
      @jackiedelvalle Месяц назад +5

      ​@@user-ul6do9nc5oThat's just her resting face when she's not smiling.

    • @user-ul6do9nc5o
      @user-ul6do9nc5o Месяц назад +6

      @@jackiedelvalle ....the eyes are a window to the soul. Let me take this opportunity to tell Wode Maya that a woman is a flower that needs tending to.....he shouldn't neglect to water it for it to glow from the inside out. Every woman loves to be loved up regardless of what they say. It is how God made them. That is why the Bible tells husbands to live their wives. Remember to keep her overwhelmed with love and ever smiling. Now that you know she's got your back in the case of a rainy day, now is your turn to please her too. What does she want in her husband? Be that man for her. That is what fulfilment looks like, where each partner is getting loved the way they like.

  • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
    @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Месяц назад +49

    What do you mean you don't want to spend money on a woman? You mean your wife. This is weirdness to me.

    • @DiBrown2024
      @DiBrown2024 Месяц назад +11

      I thought that was weird too. How can he not spend money on his wife?

    • @wodemayavlogs785
      @wodemayavlogs785  Месяц назад +7

      Kindly watch the full video, you'll understand the context😂

    • @springback2446
      @springback2446 Месяц назад +2

      Thats a real man 😅🎉

    • @veronicawambui6642
      @veronicawambui6642 Месяц назад +3

      Quite weird

    • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
      @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Месяц назад +12

      @@veronicawambui6642 Miss Trudy looks miserable most of the time, but this guy thinks he is spitting wisdom. Women already have power and don't need men to empower them, only for them to respect their place as an equal partner in a marriage, rather than a subordinate.

  • @bajanvacationer8409
    @bajanvacationer8409 Месяц назад +35

    Very intelligent man. Empower your woman to help herself, instead of depending on you as a man... But a lot of men would not support this idea, because to him resources are a control tool. Sadly

    • @ifeifesi
      @ifeifesi Месяц назад +3

      Yes, you are right about men using money to control women. It's no coincidence that in Nigerian culture, the women that suffer the most DV & unaliving at the hands of their husbands are women who are educated and earning good salaries or more than their spouses.

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +1

      Power your woman so she can take her money when she fine a new man because you are cheap..

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад

      Not so intelligent man because if a man that thinks he's trying to look a woman or he's trying to wife a woman and don't want to spend a dime on her out of his own pocket that woman is not going to stay around for long. That woman is looking for the next man that could do something for her he's not an attractive man he's not a tall man he's a vlogger like a lot of vlogger okay it's not a big prestige job it's something that people are doing to make money. That's all he's showing her to do You want her to hang around you knowing that you're short and not to attractive You got to spend money brother.

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal Месяц назад +27

    She said it; Ghanaian men don’t want to spend on a woman. A pity
    I support women bringing value to a relationship though but for men to not even want to spend on a date to get to know a lady is something

    • @niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts
      @niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts Месяц назад +2

      Yes is good you pity your fake rich life, but you cant fake Wodes true success!. No African knows how to acquire success,career n finance more than a Ghanain, but we prefer going steady n low key as Woide has proven to the world.

    • @PoSHEmediaglobal
      @PoSHEmediaglobal Месяц назад

      @@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts who be u? Did I say am a Gambian. Mtchw

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +5

      For a guy who is not too attractive I think he should do better than that. If a man show you that he's not going to spend money on you in any formal way while he's trying to wipe you up that gives you a good hint that that woman is not going to stay around too long. Because he's not smart he's not showing her how to make money and as well take care of her He wants her to learn to make money to take care of herself. Why would she need him after a while once she knows what to do and how to make money she's gone He's not too attractive he's not too tall.

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      @@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts The man is like a vlogger like the rest of us that's out there vlogging doesn't take too much of a brain to be a vlogger. You just have to put the time and effort into it That's why everybody and their mother is a vlogger even the dumbest person that's up in the country in the hills is a vlogger.

    • @MsMylz
      @MsMylz Месяц назад +3

      @@angelaescoffery7728 my sentiments exactly. She can do some much better. There are many men out there who will love, appreciate and spoil her. He is no respect for her. Even the jokes he makes on his vlogs with other women are very tasteless.

  • @pitime4764
    @pitime4764 Месяц назад +47

    Saying that he does not want to spend his money on a woman is very triggering....He emphasizes this too much. When a man loves and values a woman and even chooses her as a wife his soul purpose is to PROVIDE. for & PROTECT her. ....At thus stage of your relationship he should not be saying this....Trudy is the prize and he should be proud to say he worked hard for her.
    Honestly, he sounds like he is doing you a favor....He says strange things like, He did not marry you because he was head over heels in love but because you were good with money and progressive. When the Powells interviewed him he said this.
    Man what are you saying? You made her propose to you too??? It's the totality of all the stuff you have said. It does not look good.

    • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
      @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Месяц назад

      Exactly. Why marry a man who won't provide when you can find a man who will? Strange.

    • @amnestytv9468
      @amnestytv9468 Месяц назад +9

      That's him. If you like spending money on your girlfriend, continue to not come and teach someone who is loved by each other how to use his money. And listen to the interview carefully, he said "he likes investing in her, things that matter " not unnecessary things....mteeeeeeww!!!

    • @pitime4764
      @pitime4764 Месяц назад +7

      Did you read the caption of the video? It was a question left for people to share their opinion. I am sure there are many perspectives and they should all be acknowledged so that they can form their own conclusion, and I gave mine.
      I like them both individually and as a couple but that does not mean I have to agree with every single thing they say or do.
      They make a great team.

    • @kwekswilliams6884
      @kwekswilliams6884 Месяц назад

      Massa massa take your opinion and use it in your relationship. If ot works or doesn't its yours to deal with. Leave them alone with your unsolicited opinion

    • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
      @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Месяц назад +4

      ​@@amnestytv9468he didn't address what matters to her because he's arrogant.

  • @maggienjeru6342
    @maggienjeru6342 Месяц назад +6

    It seems like when this couple break up the gal will never regret of loosing her man because he never spend money on her 😢😢😢but god forbid

  • @muchit3629
    @muchit3629 Месяц назад +46

    Wode Maya - You are absolutely on point. However as a man I have to concede most of us especially us Africans we tend to want to weaponize money and resources as a way to control a woman. So you have to have a lot of confidence and trust in your woman to really empower her to be independent. Men get scared that when a woman does not need your financial help then she may do as she pleases to your detriment but without trust a relationship cannot thrive. I say your approach is great and if your woman was to abuse it then just move on. Otherwise, hey like you, I would rather she brings in some money herself rather than asking for money for everything.

    • @Robinson9608
      @Robinson9608 Месяц назад +6

      Well said, the world is evolving, women must also contribute to the relationship

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      This is how men get depressed

    • @archileanbrown7549
      @archileanbrown7549 Месяц назад +4

      Such a wise young man. He is secure in him. If love, trust respect and sincerity is in the relationship it will flourish

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@archileanbrown7549 there is no respect for her. Just tolerance

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      Don't worry she will leave soon.If she as her own money what is he bring to the table He isn't a very good looking man so he needs to do more for her..Vlogging is that he brings to the table not enough for a woman..sorry

  • @Kaelicious221
    @Kaelicious221 Месяц назад +12

    Nahh did he just say as a Ghanaian I don’t like to spend my money on a woman, a woman u want to know lol but guess what? Maya, some of us we have Ghanaian partners and they spend money on us so do not speak for all the Ghanaian men speak for urself smh that statement was very bad n ridiculous

    • @Olcool
      @Olcool 29 дней назад

      He is speaking for himself. did he say we, or us. That whole story is about him. leave him alone. he said his truth. enjoy your men's money and its a fact that he is Ghananian.

  • @fargakoigip6029
    @fargakoigip6029 Месяц назад +45

    Am 56 yrs old male and am not married yet ... I don't find anything faulty on your conversation ... if there is anyone offended from this interview then is bound to a relationship failure...if anyone take this advice as an offence I can put my money on him living unhappy life

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +4

      Keep being single

    • @AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg
      @AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg Месяц назад +14

      @fargakoigip6029 - Your mindset is why you are still single at 56. Keep being single. 🤦🏾

    • @Kiriza22
      @Kiriza22 Месяц назад

      You are right, but you just have to Tell your partner openly and politely!

    • @CalphyHub
      @CalphyHub Месяц назад

      ​@@Kiriza22yeah

    • @fargakoigip6029
      @fargakoigip6029 Месяц назад

      @@Kiriza22 I am not getting you

  • @EllaSuitableGist
    @EllaSuitableGist Месяц назад +25

    The King and the Queen ❤❤

  • @Caribbeanlivinginnamibia
    @Caribbeanlivinginnamibia Месяц назад +39

    He didn’t say anything wrong. He is wise and calculated. Big Up Yourself Man.

  • @user-pb6fr4jr1k
    @user-pb6fr4jr1k Месяц назад +29

    NO MATTER HOW RICH A WOMAN IS, EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO BE LAVISHED ON BY THE HUSBAND. EVEN THE INDEPENDENT WOMAN, WODEMAYA SHOULD CHANGE ON THIS. AM HOPING THAT ITS NOT TRUDY WHO PAID FOR HIS FATHER'S PLANE TICKET. SO WODE MAYA IS NOT SPENDING ON TRUDY... THIS IS WORRISOME

    • @maembe8562
      @maembe8562 Месяц назад +2

      I agree

    • @teerich
      @teerich Месяц назад

      Doesn’t sound good at all…

    • @muluchristine
      @muluchristine Месяц назад +2

      Wodemaya is very stingy,, he presented a car gift to the wife and later the wife said they both saved for the car I doubt he spends any money on the wife

    • @user-pb6fr4jr1k
      @user-pb6fr4jr1k Месяц назад +1

      @@muluchristine I feel like she might be suffering in silence

    • @chidinque
      @chidinque Месяц назад

      But thats what she likes. She says she prefare to care for herself thats why she's working and cant be dependent on her man. Babara tne builder language. Now she's looking at him say exactly what she said

  • @CosmasOcan
    @CosmasOcan Месяц назад +10

    It's really good to invest in your wife who adds value into your life in every day living and knows the meaning of being a wife play your role smartly as Aman my Ghanaian brother

    • @Am_Manasa
      @Am_Manasa Месяц назад +2

      Very great interview

  • @lornaduncan5273
    @lornaduncan5273 Месяц назад +12

    When I thought i couldn't love you both anymore, I get this video. Outside of my wedding dress, my wedding cost my hubby and I $1000s, 38 years ago next September. Keep being true to each other and share everything, the good, bad and the ugly. BTW Ode, your laughter is infectious as Ms.Trudy is beautiful 😊 God bless you always.

    • @wodemayavlogs785
      @wodemayavlogs785  Месяц назад +3

      Amen! Thank you so much for the love and support. it really means a lot to us!

    • @lornaduncan5273
      @lornaduncan5273 Месяц назад

      Ur most welcome 🙏🏾 🤗 ☺️

  • @teddydavis2339
    @teddydavis2339 Месяц назад +8

    Wodamaya is such a road model. I love this guy. I'm so proud that he is African. Look at how Ms. Trudy is looking at him. When she is not happy, she doesn't fake it. I have a lot of respect for her as well.

    • @A.Walker.
      @A.Walker. Месяц назад

      *role model, you meant?

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +2

      Good luck to you if this is your role model

    • @dinhos2000
      @dinhos2000 Месяц назад

      Why not express way model 😂😂...And you still edited your comment and couldn't get it right

  • @deerobb2299
    @deerobb2299 Месяц назад +28

    See, Wode took care of his wife from the onset👍 He paid it forward 🤲 and earned his keep in his beautiful wife 🤵‍♂️💞👰 Wode makes so much futuristic sense ... God forbid anything should happen to him, Ms Trudy would have already had a lively lively-hood/career 🕵‍♀️ 💰 💵 Capable of taking care of their household 🏘 including future children.

    • @readoutloudrol5755
      @readoutloudrol5755 Месяц назад +11

      Trudy Tom care of herself from the onset darling . She paid for her flight to Ethiopia where they met, she paid for her flight to Singapore and everywhere else. The wedding was also dirt cheap which I like but I doubt he consulted her on that. Wode Maya seems cheap, he light have money and be doing the Lords work but it seems like he has been neglecting his responsibilities .

    • @user-ul6do9nc5o
      @user-ul6do9nc5o Месяц назад

      ​@@readoutloudrol5755And she's okay with that, I'd call it desperate.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@readoutloudrol5755 fact. Pathetic husband poor Trudy

  • @edmariebrown918
    @edmariebrown918 Месяц назад +2

    Love you my brother.Big up

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 Месяц назад +8

    Marriage is a partnership. Once we become adults, we are each legally responsible for ourselves. Having a partner to share love and the responsibilities with is icing on the cake for those who desire marriage. Anything can happen to the husband or wife like sudden illness that stop him/her from working so women should absolutely be empowered!

    • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
      @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves Месяц назад +1

      So he considered Trudy powerless only because she made less money than him om RUclips? RUclips can be gone tomorrow. Weird world.

  • @howardjessica7704
    @howardjessica7704 Месяц назад +11

    Wode Maya is A Good man and a confident Alpha male. That both intimidates and impresses other men. Much respect goes out to this brave and amazing man whom others should not be angry at, instead they should follow the successful example he has set. He is a great man in the making. ❤ from 🇯🇲.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +3

      Wide Maya is just another Kevin Samuels I feel sorry for any woman in his path except his mother

  • @Silverbackugx
    @Silverbackugx Месяц назад +8

    Thank you Wode Maya..🙏🏾. You give me hope that Africa is evolving beyond those outdated poverty producing rituals. The fake cap of African men providing this and that needs to stop. Most African women actually work and many are the bread winners. 90+ percent of African men are under employed, temporarily employed, or unemployed all together. This is the age of information so stop the cap.

    • @berthekabwe871
      @berthekabwe871 Месяц назад

      You only see things on a surface level and do not understand the complexity of African culture fully. You are looking from an American lens. First of all, African women cannot be the only "breadwinners". If you see an African woman working in the markets, selling things or running a business, please understand that an African man is also working!!! In Africa, there are certain jobs or businesses that are ran by women NOT men. Infact, any domestic type of business are reserved for women. Hence, if you go to any market, majority of people selling things are women. Any types of business that is NOT domestic related is ran by men. You will never see an African woman selling metals or wood. Moreso, majority of companies prefer to hire men over women. In most African families, the parents will prioritize their sons over daughters to get an education. No matter the background of the family, rich or poor, the parents will always work hard to insure their sons are educated or employed over their daughters, it's the reason African men tend to be more educated than African women, because African women are NOT given the same opportunities as men. In an African setting, an uneducated African man is worthless and brings no value to society, hence the reason an educated and well to do African woman would NEVER marry such man. Finally, the reason an introduction takes place before marriage, is because the woman parents wants to ensure the man will be able to take care of his family financially before giving their blessings. No African man can just sit at home and do nothing. Such man will be stripped of his dignity, respect, insulted and ridiculed by family and friends. I know this because I have seen it happen in my own family.

  • @user-ul6do9nc5o
    @user-ul6do9nc5o Месяц назад +41

    After listening to this video, i can understand why the wife was stuck in Miami, FL the other day with all her credit cards maxed out. She caters for her needs and her husband is stingy and she's okay with it. I gues been called Wode Maya's wife is enough for her. But she doesn't look happy at his in sensitivity. If I were her, I'd be making my exit plan. He's just not that into her. She's just there as a doormat for him.

    • @RadBunny2269
      @RadBunny2269 Месяц назад +7

      She’d said cards, nog credit cards. And she didn’t say they maxed out but that the banks froze any activity due to suspected fraud. She’s a Kenyan, like me. There’s ZERO credit card culture so I’m certain it was debit cards and she likely never notified the bank for her travel itinerary. So they will freeze it for suspected fraud. She can be a bit ignorant like that on small things then complain like others are wrong.

    • @user-ul6do9nc5o
      @user-ul6do9nc5o Месяц назад +10

      @@RadBunny2269 The bottom line is that her husband's doesn't treat her like his queen. 👑

    • @nazieyprasse3701
      @nazieyprasse3701 Месяц назад +6

      ​@@RadBunny2269 and why didn't she call the Husband to help her pay direct, or someone can't transfer money from another country 😢

    • @RadBunny2269
      @RadBunny2269 Месяц назад

      @@nazieyprasse3701 None of us can answer that one. What I know is that the moment Ana Friedan bank flags your debit card for overseas fraud, you have to show up in-person to explain before they let you use them again. I suppose someone could have bought her a pre-paid card to use even from overseas…

    • @JijjysMaison
      @JijjysMaison Месяц назад +2

      She was stuck there to make the video more exciting more interesting for viewers. Pull in viewers. Like an adventure. Unfortunately she forgot pple will come for her as an already married woman or not single- with her man who should be coming to her rescue.

  • @chinweokwuasimonye8871
    @chinweokwuasimonye8871 Месяц назад +10

    Yeah I agree too
    I get where your coming from
    If people are upset
    Maybe it was how it was presented and how it was said
    Its good for men to empower their woman but each to their own
    Whatever works
    There's no rule book to life
    We are all experiencing
    So we all just have to find whatever works for us
    Marriage is a partnership
    Its good for both to uplift one another
    My beloved aunt was lucky to marry her husband that did very well for himself and he provided for her but didn't empower her to do for herself
    Well she felt it when he past away and it was very hard on her
    Some men (not all) can use their wealth as a form of control to oppress
    While other men that constantly provide
    It can put stress and strain on some men which can also put stress and strain on the relationship because relationship is a partnership
    So what effect one will effect the other
    I feel it good to empower each other to support one another
    Just in case because we never knows what might happen
    Reasons why love is important because if the wealth disappear
    Will the love still be there? 🤨

  • @user-my1gi6gw7v
    @user-my1gi6gw7v Месяц назад +1

    He spoke like my Husband and he’s a man of Wisdom. My husband don’t see the need to spend unnecessary money. And my husband thought me a lot of things and I don’t regret it cause sometimes us as women we spend so much and don’t thing about the next day. Yes some men stingy but some is not being stingy is just teaching you smtg

  • @hillieduvalier
    @hillieduvalier Месяц назад +12

    Exactly.. while a prenup (when you have money as a male) is not a bad idea, empower the lady to make her own money ... and a mutual underatanding , no need to be fighting over money

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 Месяц назад +6

      Why does a man make money if only to keep it to himself. That was not God’s purpose for manhood. He was created to be a Provider to a wife and their children together while the wife was responsible for creating a safe, clean, comfortable home ensuring the family receives its nutrition through several daily meals and the children have the physical support they need to develop into smart, confident humans through taking their children to after school activities, helping them with homework etc. A woman’s role is enough work without adding a full-time job to the mix. Men must stop looking at women as overworked worker mules. We are tired of being overworked and expected to be the financial provider as well as everything else the woman handles daily . Just something to think about. ❤

    • @hillieduvalier
      @hillieduvalier Месяц назад

      @@HoneyBunches100 true.. in a perfect world,but the world isnt perfect, and alot of men are borderline or full blown narcissists, who use their money to keep women " in their place" to tolerate and put up with his bs.. Too many stories to mention., so i would support women getting their own bread, it can also be a back up just in case he fall flat financially too, if she can do well enough to hire in the day to day running to "take the load off " that woud be excellent..

    • @allanluis3696
      @allanluis3696 Месяц назад

      @@HoneyBunches100 woman having to work is something woman FOUGHT for in the west. Men already know they have to spend money on women. Even with a prenup a man will still have to pay a woman. A prenup is used to protect assets accumulated BEFORE marriage or in excess of what is agreed upon in the relationship.

  • @user-hb4tv8yd1l
    @user-hb4tv8yd1l Месяц назад +9

    I'm not sure I agree Maya

  • @gesurareyuaat-zl1wd
    @gesurareyuaat-zl1wd Месяц назад +5

    Greatness!

  • @afronewsworldwide
    @afronewsworldwide Месяц назад +12

    Very good advice for the current generation who base their relationship on money only.

    • @whz366
      @whz366 Месяц назад +3

      Obviously you did not listen to the entire video or you did not understand what Wode Maya said for you to have made this comment.

    • @afronewsworldwide
      @afronewsworldwide Месяц назад +2

      @@whz366 shut up... You making noise in the classroom...

    • @whz366
      @whz366 Месяц назад

      @@afronewsworldwide once again you show your low intelligence level, not understanding one iota what Wode Maya said in this video.

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 26 дней назад +1

    Great conversation and I totally agree with Maya. Unpower your woman.

  • @mtndrone
    @mtndrone Месяц назад +7

    This is so true. Men have to empower their women. A family is way bigger and wealthier by combining their force and knowledge together 🔥❤️💪🏾

  • @karensimmons1107
    @karensimmons1107 Месяц назад +4

    Commenting from Jamaica 🇯🇲 mr Wode Maya, if men and women found something wrong 🤔 with what you said 🤔 about teaching women to be independent. Something is really wrong with their thoughts 🤔 are mindset period ❤❤❤

    • @readoutloudrol5755
      @readoutloudrol5755 Месяц назад +1

      She didn't need to be taught to be independent...she was already doing that. WM seems to be taking credit for all the hard work Trudy puts in.

  • @stephenm.ksankay9660
    @stephenm.ksankay9660 Месяц назад

    Great 👍

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад +2

    7:01 As a woman, I absolutely love this philosophy of yours Maya! I mean, with that approach, you ONLY get stronger!

  • @user-dq4ek4ed9i
    @user-dq4ek4ed9i Месяц назад +2

    Beautiful couple

  • @focused0002
    @focused0002 Месяц назад

    I
    Love
    This
    Team
    🎉❤💰❤🎉

  • @Themudohs
    @Themudohs Месяц назад

    Perfect!!!!!

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад +2

    5:05 " I'm not selling my daughter," profound. She comes from a good home,and it shows. Most of whom in this comment section with their negative comments ,obviously didn't have a REAL father figure in their lives. So, they're running these streets with their jezebel spirit!!

  • @Vallenane
    @Vallenane Месяц назад +7

    I like this a lot and Trudy mentioned great tips which have motivated us who create content 🎉

  • @mercychambon4450
    @mercychambon4450 Месяц назад +7

    Good couples, i love them❤

  • @ayiekoue6017
    @ayiekoue6017 Месяц назад +2

    Wode,I'm happy for you that you found a woman who is not a materialistic person.

  • @panafricanspirit170
    @panafricanspirit170 Месяц назад

    Truth and Wisdom!!!

  • @A.Walker.
    @A.Walker. Месяц назад +11

    God made us women to be a "help meet" (partnership) to our men, not simply a 'help me eat'.😊🙏🏽♥️

    • @wodemayavlogs785
      @wodemayavlogs785  Месяц назад +2

      Absolutely!!

    • @kofihe
      @kofihe Месяц назад

      ​@@wodemayavlogs785Kobby pray and get closer to Jesus Christ of Nazareth. I pray He steers your marriage. I see some suggesting negative vibes to your dear wife. Marriage is for life and we would account to God some day. May the Spirit of God guide you to keep loving Trudy according to His word.

  • @TheXplorer254
    @TheXplorer254 Месяц назад +2

    Luo fathers are the best. The other side would ask for millions

  • @relaxationsoundsambience2724
    @relaxationsoundsambience2724 Месяц назад

    Wisdom, for the ages. Thanks Wode Maya:) God bless you:)

  • @zaneletap1727
    @zaneletap1727 Месяц назад

    Very intelligent young people, am so proud of you Maya and Trudy, watching you from South Africa

  • @gracetennant4982
    @gracetennant4982 Месяц назад +18

    Love that Wode Maya. " Empower Women".❤🙏

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      Let him get himself a husband instead

    • @gracetennant4982
      @gracetennant4982 Месяц назад +2

      @@africanqueenmo that's not nice. What's wrong with us women being empowered.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@gracetennant4982 what he needs is a provider not a helper

    • @SherrieBumbray
      @SherrieBumbray Месяц назад

      ​@africanqueenmo God is his provider. Wode provides for Trudy, and they are help mates to one another.

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@SherrieBumbray he said it himself. She provides for herself he does not spend money on women. Not even his wife stop sanitizing truth. He is with her because she is not a financial burden. I advise her not to have any kids with him

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад

    8:27👏👏👏👏👏 AUTHENTICITY. That's what I saw in you when I first subscribed to your channel over five years ago.

  • @user-jk6rt1fl8e
    @user-jk6rt1fl8e Месяц назад

    You are so true a little women depend on on their men very well spoken in empower your woman I like that👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @nanserekoagnes6530
    @nanserekoagnes6530 Месяц назад

    Hello friend, i am new here, watching your video,and thank you for sharing

  • @VanNyaimbo
    @VanNyaimbo Месяц назад +6

    People do not understand what Maya is saying. Imagine if your partner dies and he is the sole provider, what next? Bigs up WodeMaya, we are proud of you and Miss Trudy

  • @estherserwaah4245
    @estherserwaah4245 Месяц назад

    I'm so so proud of you guys ❤❤

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад +2

    0:56👏👏👏👏 I'm truly liking you more and more Mrs Maya ! Initially I thought you were selfish,and perhaps in it for your own benefits( you know, the REAL Maya brothers and sisters out here are protective of him. 😁😁😁). But you've proved me wrong. I wish you both God's continued blessings,protection and guidance. You're a wise young lady Trudy,please don't get carried away by the silly comments out there.

  • @KenRobert1
    @KenRobert1 Месяц назад +2

    Bless you Wode Maya and Miss Trudy and thank you for all you both do.

  • @maggienjeru6342
    @maggienjeru6342 Месяц назад +2

    Miss Trudy my sister you don't look happy 😢😢be open we gonna look for a solution

    • @TRUTHFUL2000
      @TRUTHFUL2000 16 дней назад

      She's not. I wish she stopped thinking about what people will say.😂😂😂

  • @LotusDolly
    @LotusDolly Месяц назад +2

    All love to Wode and Trudy! ❤❤

  • @juelz713
    @juelz713 Месяц назад +5

    I agree with everything Wode said

  • @Tephiffany
    @Tephiffany Месяц назад +20

    Yes, men should empower their women!

    • @Blackisciple
      @Blackisciple Месяц назад +3

      But would women do the same back it seems that in the black world women should have all the privileges why men do not get a damn thing and to me that's unbalanced and incorrect

    • @rosam674
      @rosam674 Месяц назад

      @@Blackisciple You sound like a man who should focus on yourself first and not be out there looking for women. You are not ready for a relationship. When you are ready, come back and watch this video again.

    • @speakmind300
      @speakmind300 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@BlackiscipleWomen do it all the time a do it all it's just that it's hidden and they are told to shut up constantly 😢

    • @Blackisciple
      @Blackisciple Месяц назад

      @@speakmind300 is that how things are for women in Africa ?

    • @cindywebb9786
      @cindywebb9786 Месяц назад +2

      @@Blackisciple been there and done that. Men will listen to the foolishness of other helpless men to the point that all of them end up broken and penniless. Can't help a man if he isn't willing to help himself first.

  • @Everblessfamily
    @Everblessfamily Месяц назад

    This vibe is really good for me please come back to jamacia everbless family tv support on need to meet you guys this time

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад

    5:38 Awww... I love this so much.

  • @ralphwhitaker8761
    @ralphwhitaker8761 Месяц назад +4

    Do many are even listening to that man, he is so young, with so much wisdom

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +3

      If that's wisdom I wonder what foolishness might be to you

    • @ralphwhitaker8761
      @ralphwhitaker8761 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@africanqueenmo if you know better and can say better, tell us what exactly are you doing great, tell us about your achievement, and if you know so much, why don't you teach us something that can contribute to success and positive? So let's hear it

  • @JosiNdongFarmsBondo
    @JosiNdongFarmsBondo Месяц назад +1

    Amazing

  • @Redeemedbygrace-op7vn
    @Redeemedbygrace-op7vn Месяц назад +3

    One problem is a big percentage of you will think you know this couple's life based on few minutes of video and most of you commenting negatively might be single or with broken relationships thus comparing yours to theirs, that's wrong... Pple grow and learn with each other gradually but watch part two for a better perspective

  • @anonymoustube1
    @anonymoustube1 Месяц назад +4

    ❤i love wode and mrs trudy❤❤❤

  • @nanaantwi-boasiako780
    @nanaantwi-boasiako780 Месяц назад +4

    Wodehouse s very intelligent, don't waste money on wedding

  • @sheagocosmetics
    @sheagocosmetics Месяц назад +30

    Why does he speak about his wife with such reckless disregard? She always looks sad, like she is forcing herself to smile. He just seems…let me shut my Nigerian mouth before…

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад +7

      I'd never encourage my daughter to marry a Ghanan. A Nigerian brother is who Trudy should have married.

    • @sheagocosmetics
      @sheagocosmetics Месяц назад +28

      Yes. He does not show proper respect. I think what got me is when he said in their wedding video that they married on the day of her mother’s death. I had to rewind it because I did not believe what I was hearing. My goodness, the woman was mourning her mother. She looked frazzled at her own wedding. She was sad. What kind of person would do such a thing? I don’t know Wode. I should not judge someone I don’t know; but the things he says to her are almost like he wants her to have a low self esteem. Like he is always putting her in her place in a passive aggressive way. Making her grovel. I remember Trudy before marriage. She was so pretty, bright and vibrant. She has lost the spark in her eyes. Perhaps I am wrong and I pray that I am. God help these young people.

    • @angelaescoffery7728
      @angelaescoffery7728 Месяц назад +3

      You said it .great statement

    • @africanqueenmo
      @africanqueenmo Месяц назад

      @@sheagocosmetics he seems like a sociopath because on her wedding day he made her visit her mothers grave and lay flowers. Trudy cried throughout during the wedding reception that was btw paid for by Kenyans. Not Wode Maya. It was a very bad sign even Trudys dad cried. This is not a match made in heaven. Trudy is a shadow of herself since getting married to that annoying mean immature boy from Ghana.

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@africanqueenmo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @SunkissFlower
    @SunkissFlower Месяц назад +2

    Where is the rest of the interview? I want more.

  • @Ms.QueenIFRA
    @Ms.QueenIFRA Месяц назад +1

    Love It! Partners, Teamwork , She is a true helpmate! Empowered from God and Her Husband! He is wise to be so young! Awesome words of Wisdom 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @knowledgechinyama990
    @knowledgechinyama990 Месяц назад

    I see a quality of leadership in you Ode Maya ,,,, the future Gana officials

  • @YvettePhilip
    @YvettePhilip Месяц назад

    Greetings from Trinidad and Tobago ❤

  • @lorainethompson8573
    @lorainethompson8573 Месяц назад +3

    I agree with you Wode Maya empower your woman.

  • @Siyah.trades
    @Siyah.trades Месяц назад

    Noted Maya ❤❤❤❤

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal Месяц назад +3

    Wedding is not an Investment!!!!

  • @Walizen
    @Walizen Месяц назад +1

    The first meeting on the bridge..

  • @blessedblessed1267
    @blessedblessed1267 Месяц назад +25

    Trudy has suffered from the hands of this selfish Man.No romance,no respect, no money, no love for her.She is always sad and lonely. 😮

    • @RadBunny2269
      @RadBunny2269 Месяц назад +6

      I don’t know about the rest you list there but i think we can say she definitely comes across as lonely-ish in her videos nowadays more than before the marriage.

    • @brofutv1853
      @brofutv1853 Месяц назад +2

      Whatever you nasty people sow, you'll reap. Evil people seeking to sow seeds of discord between a couple. They're evil and they cannot help themselves out of it. Wretch-worthy spoilers.

    • @Redeemedbygrace-op7vn
      @Redeemedbygrace-op7vn Месяц назад +1

      I suspect you are single...

    • @RadBunny2269
      @RadBunny2269 Месяц назад

      @@Redeemedbygrace-op7vn 😂😂😂😂. Absolutely opposite of that.

    • @marshaniedawns1361
      @marshaniedawns1361 Месяц назад

      ​@@brofutv1853😢

  • @fir8550
    @fir8550 Месяц назад

    Congratulations

  • @Grace77690
    @Grace77690 Месяц назад

    You r so wise Wode🙏

  • @sharommwawa4275
    @sharommwawa4275 Месяц назад +2

    Wode is always on point like a pyramid....african' world Wonder

  • @fredericksarkodie5658
    @fredericksarkodie5658 Месяц назад +2

    WITH TRUE ❤ AND THE 2 SHALL BE 1 💡 PERIOD.... Y'ALL KEEP MOVING FORWARD BACKWARDS NEVER.

  • @user-jc1ee1ne7d
    @user-jc1ee1ne7d Месяц назад +6

    Their Singapore videos (when their relationship was just starting) are enjoyable for sure.

    • @readoutloudrol5755
      @readoutloudrol5755 Месяц назад +1

      The one that Trudy bought a ticket for herself to go see him...that one right ??

    • @user-jc1ee1ne7d
      @user-jc1ee1ne7d Месяц назад

      @@readoutloudrol5755 She did about six videos in Singapore and they are all enjoyable for me.

  • @CarlaRFowler
    @CarlaRFowler Месяц назад

    He’s so smart!!!♥️♥️♥️🎉🎉🎉

  • @cherylharewood6125
    @cherylharewood6125 Месяц назад

    May ALMIGHTY GOD 🙏 Bless, Protect, Guide, Enable him and every African leader now and forevermore as they MAGA(Make Africa Great Again) now and to the COMING AGAIN OF JESUS CHRIST. 👍

  • @myview9835
    @myview9835 Месяц назад

    I love this wedding concept

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад

    3:35 I love that... I do see your logic.

  • @SammyJ96
    @SammyJ96 Месяц назад

    1:02 Trudy I'm loving the hair! Real empress Maya! 😊😊🤗

  • @user-xh4mj6eu3k
    @user-xh4mj6eu3k Месяц назад +12

    Maya is the future - I admire his courage and sense of self. Ghana's future President