I’m sorry you are sad, Jeff, but I think it was the only logical choice. You can’t force someone to align with your relationship goals. Investing more time in a relationship waiting for someone to change rarely seems to work. Take care of yourself 💙
Best advice is just stay single. Believe me life is so much better without the drama. I can do whatever I want and don't have to cater to someone else. Plus my house is always clean.
You did the right thing Jeff. We only have one life. It’s absolutely imperative that your happiness is most important. Find someone with similar values.
@@catsumrs I don't disagree about Ryan, but Ryan wound up with the one who was best for him. Jeff would never have been the best one for Ryan. I think Jeff needs somebody who is going to treat him like crap so that he will appreciate the good ones (not to include Gage). I don't see him and Stu being long-term. I think Stu gets on his nerves way too much. But Jeff recycles relationships like nobody's business.
I needed to hear this today. Thank you for being such an adult and doing the right thing for yourself. doing what's best for both of you . Knowing what deal breakers are and how you deserve the attention he's giving to others. I identify so hard!!! Love your honesty Jeff.
HOW about he dates in his age range . He loves how young guys make him feel but wants to control and judge them for living their life JUST LIKE JEFF DID at that age.
Sorry about your breakup but don't second guess your decision. I'm in my 50s and me and my bf are on the same page. You deserve to be with someone who is in alignment with you. Period.
Jeff, did you tell Stu at the beginning of your relationship what your expectations are? My friend told her husband when they met that she's looking for a husband, and if he's not looking for a long term relationship not to waste her time. They've been married for over 10 years.
Yeah just sounds like different life goals at this stage . I do hope they stay friendly , because life changes and maybe in 5 years he will have gotten all of this out of his system . Who knows . Does sound like Jeff really needs someone family focused , no matter the age .
I can’t imagine Jeff Lewis breaking up with someone because they went out to have fun one night, stop dating younger guys might be a start. He acts like he’s the guys dad guilting him for wanting to go out with friends. I never go out with anyone more than five years younger than myself because they are usually not where I am financially or mentally and it’s wrong to try and tell them to slow down when they are not there. In a way he did the guy a favor but also he knew who he was dating from the get go and must have known this person was not ready to play house husband
FYI Good Question: which side is the gas tank on? Look at dash gas tank display you'll see an arrow - the arrow shows you which side the gas tank is on. There you go . . . it works!!!! :o)
. Stu was out of Jeff's league. Stu is free of the boss and control. You want a young stud and love that he keeps you young but want him to act like an old man. DATE YOUR AGE. EINSTEIN.
It sounds like Stu is ignoring the fact that u r a responsible parent and person. He didn’t want that lifestyle. It should be enough to enjoy the night w/o making a night of it again and again.
Jeff, He has to grow into the person you wish he was, You dont remember your time to decide to have child and he did not decide to fall in love with you due to your current family position. He needs to mature to your level. In time he may be that person you require. But in time with understanding and not always a position to end your relatioinship.
Hey Jeff, Things happen, we dont know why at that moment but believe it or not, your Life Story has been written for you already. Your in Daddy mode & your honey was still in Bachelor mode. He'll think back one day about & regret it, but by then you would if moved on. When you meet someone & you see that twinkle in there eyes, start asking questions. Some people are in the game for fun only, some for a Lifetime commitment. You choose & keep shopping. ⚘❤
So have you checked how Stu feels? I wonder whether you’re INFJ on Myer Briggs MBTI because I am and I’m a door slammer with relationships and I think people don’t see it coming! I can’t remember if you stay friends with exes? I used to but now I “disengage” with ex friends as well XX Shout out Shane 🌞😎🇬🇧💚
Omg You don't wanna drag him?? Lol Yes you do, and you did, & everybody now knows the gory details, (still very entertaining 😚)... Another One Bites the dust 😧... but you still a hot catch 😘 Maybe .... someone closer to your own age next time will hopefully avoid the lack of maturity usually found in the junior set ....
Jeff, This is a sad. But remember, whenever there is a ‘flag’ we must take a pause and review. Know that this lesson, will bring you closer to your relationship goal.✨❤️✨
Stu is a great person but it's exhausting playing somebody's Daddy when you need a partner to lean on and trust. Nobody wants to have 100 percent of the responsibility or overview in the relationship... overview is not really the right word but you know what I mean
I think he's way too busy with work and his kid to have total control over anyone. I've felt how it feels to be a responsible parent and have my partner choose friends and social situations over me. That's a very lonely feeling. As we age we have a lower tolerance for that kind of bs. I don't want to wake up to go pee and find my partner stinking of cigarettes and booze and slurring their words. Total turn off.
If Jeff were truly sincere about wanting a genuine long term partner, he would give up these younger guys; it's really just as simple as that. The young guys don't want Jeff fcking Lewis for his youth and stamina in the bedroom, okurrr!~ 40 is too young these days to be settling down, especially in L.A., and Jeff of all people knows this. BTW, Andy Cohen is in the same boat.
While I appreciate him clearing the air about the break up anyone who does TV shows, podcasts or radio should know when they say "yesterday" or "the weekend" they should say the actual date. If you're going to put this information out there the listeners need to know the date.
When I saw this, I was relieved! But then I saw this was 5 months ago! Lots of changes since then..on pause, not pause, on pause and on and on…Jeff, you are a fab man….don’t settle! You deserve what you want and need!
Let’s have Stuart on so he can tell his side of the story?
Facts ! If you have a problem with e wrong even the neighborhood cats., it’s HIM.
Yes..i would love to hear Stu's side too..
Why are you airing someone elses personal life for attention??
I’m sorry you are sad, Jeff, but I think it was the only logical choice. You can’t force someone to align with your relationship goals. Investing more time in a relationship waiting for someone to change rarely seems to work. Take care of yourself 💙
Best advice is just stay single. Believe me life is so much better without the drama. I can do whatever I want and don't have to cater to someone else. Plus my house is always clean.
You made the right choice. No point in dragging out relationships when you start off like this. Love you Jeff.
You did the right thing Jeff. We only have one life. It’s absolutely imperative that your happiness is most important. Find someone with similar values.
Hah! They got back together.
@@MsBamafanatic When I just got this notice 5 minutes ago. He should have stayed with Ryan..........He really screwed that up
@@catsumrs I don't disagree about Ryan, but Ryan wound up with the one who was best for him. Jeff would never have been the best one for Ryan. I think Jeff needs somebody who is going to treat him like crap so that he will appreciate the good ones (not to include Gage). I don't see him and Stu being long-term. I think Stu gets on his nerves way too much. But Jeff recycles relationships like nobody's business.
I needed to hear this today. Thank you for being such an adult and doing the right thing for yourself. doing what's best for both of you . Knowing what deal breakers are and how you deserve the attention he's giving to others. I identify so hard!!! Love your honesty Jeff.
HOW about he dates in his age range . He loves how young guys make him feel but wants to control and judge them for living their life JUST LIKE JEFF DID at that age.
100% best thing to do! The relationship would have spiraled if you hadn’t ended it. Very mature decision.
We grow and change every minute if we choose too. Letting go of what isn’t working is a sign of emotional intelligence. 💗
I am so sorry Jeff. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
Does he??
It’s hard to grow a relationship with an alcoholic.
Sorry about your breakup but don't second guess your decision. I'm in my 50s and me and my bf are on the same page. You deserve to be with someone who is in alignment with you. Period.
I totally get it, Jeff. You're looking for someone to build a future with, not a clubbing partner. We're not in our 20's.
Bobby Boyd is available
This interview was 2 weeks ago. People who are giving support, please note that they’re still talking and going to therapy. 😂
He is lucky to be wealthy and somewhat famous because Lord have mercy on people that date him.
He's not attractive. It's just his money that attractive
High Drama for sure.
Jeff, did you tell Stu at the beginning of your relationship what your expectations are? My friend told her husband when they met that she's looking for a husband, and if he's not looking for a long term relationship not to waste her time. They've been married for over 10 years.
Even though it has to hurt...you did the right thing. Someone can not be talked into meeting your needs...they have to want to...or vice-versa.
Another person you tried to control . You need to just let people be themselves and not what you expect from them.
Needs to date in his age range. Young guys don't want to live like old people .
He has them move in, don’t do that. Much better to have your own place, specially at his age
My therapist calls those men “Peter Pan Syndrome “
What does your therapist call jeff who only dates younger..
There's always two sides to a relationship story....this is only one side......
Good call, Jeff! somewhat earlier than later an excellent healthy relationship should be founded on reciprocating both needs and priorities first.
And I needed to hear this too. You are being such a classy person.
This is why you have to go out with people your own age.
LOVE Jeff Lewis Live!!!
I'm so sorry but this is for you and your family's best interest. You're raising a daughter and you need to stay focused.
When you point the finger at some else, you have three pointing back at you. Program and Recovery. It works. God bless!!👍🏼🙏🏼
Age and priority differences.
Yeah just sounds like different life goals at this stage . I do hope they stay friendly , because life changes and maybe in 5 years he will have gotten all of this out of his system . Who knows . Does sound like Jeff really needs someone family focused , no matter the age .
but 3 days later.. you got back together... Jeff is so toxic!
Jeff should date a woman. Just saying..
Wow, old news…. Like 2 weeks. Thank goodness for my SiriusXM subscription, so I get it in real time
You made the right decision 🤷🏻♀️
I can’t imagine Jeff Lewis breaking up with someone because they went out to have fun one night, stop dating younger guys might be a start. He acts like he’s the guys dad guilting him for wanting to go out with friends. I never go out with anyone more than five years younger than myself because they are usually not where I am financially or mentally and it’s wrong to try and tell them to slow down when they are not there. In a way he did the guy a favor but also he knew who he was dating from the get go and must have known this person was not ready to play house husband
I’m telling you that Jeff can do or say N O wrong in my eyes 💜 Pray for me 🤔😉
FYI Good Question: which side is the gas tank on? Look at dash gas tank display you'll see an arrow - the arrow shows you which side the gas tank is on. There you go . . . it works!!!! :o)
Jeff's voice cracking is heartbreaking. You deserve peace ❤
Always wishing the best for you Jeff. I love you ❤️
. Stu was out of Jeff's league. Stu is free of the boss and control. You want a young stud and love that he keeps you young but want him to act like an old man. DATE YOUR AGE. EINSTEIN.
Yup
I’m sorry, Jeff! Let’s go have a martini together!!! 🍸💃🏻 #onward&upward
Good for Stu. You are nuts.
😂😂😂🤣
Amen. Stu dodged a bullet
Are you still with Stu ? It's February 2023 and I don't know if you are still together.
It sounds like Stu is ignoring the fact that u r a responsible parent and person. He didn’t want that lifestyle. It should be enough to enjoy the night w/o making a night of it again and again.
Jeff needs to be roommates with Meghan and Harry they all are drama queens with no crowns lol 😂
It looks like he's in a Chinese restaurant inside a recording studio.
😂😂😂👌🏾
Jeff, He has to grow into the person you wish he was, You dont remember your time to decide to have child and he did not decide to fall in love with you due to your current family position. He needs to mature to your level. In time he may be that person you require. But in time with understanding and not always a position to end your relatioinship.
you are dating guys that are too young....you are way to smart to be doing this, get a mature, nice guy to enjoy your life with
You weren’t invited let him talk !!
Hey Jeff,
Things happen, we dont know why at that moment but believe it or not, your Life Story has been written for you already. Your in Daddy mode & your honey was still in Bachelor mode. He'll
think back one day about & regret it, but by then you would if moved on.
When you meet someone & you see that twinkle in there eyes, start asking questions. Some people are in the game for fun only, some for a Lifetime commitment.
You choose & keep shopping. ⚘❤
And Heather McDonald is in the house!
You need to date guys close to your age. You are fun, funny and responsible so just take your time. You’ll find your life partner
So have you checked how Stu feels? I wonder whether you’re INFJ on Myer Briggs MBTI because I am and I’m a door slammer with relationships and I think people don’t see it coming! I can’t remember if you stay friends with exes? I used to but now I “disengage” with ex friends as well XX Shout out Shane 🌞😎🇬🇧💚
I'm INFJ but the door slamming thing would have to be a learned technique for us because we're normally emotional sponges.
Shout out Tracey, heyyy
@@DiegoRamirez-zc7fs Shout out Diego heyy 🙋♀️
Omg You don't wanna drag him?? Lol
Yes you do,
and you did,
& everybody now knows the gory details, (still very entertaining 😚)...
Another One Bites the dust 😧... but you still a hot catch 😘
Maybe ....
someone closer to your own age next time will hopefully avoid the lack of maturity usually found in the junior set ....
Ffs he only stayed out until 1.30 and he wasn’t up at 9am for a walk. Date a 60 yr old or a home person and see how bored you get
Jeff,
This is a sad. But remember, whenever there is a ‘flag’ we must take a pause and review. Know that this lesson, will bring you closer to your relationship goal.✨❤️✨
I am also 50 years old, a little older.
When THE BAD is the deal breaker...woah!
sorry. sad I can't afford to watch your new show. I enjoy you and all of your shows.
Houselift is free on Freevee. 10 episodes to binge on.
@@ShowdogTiger Thanks showdog. Been binging all day.
Umm it’s free
@@danielleminerva4525 he knew that a month ago. He's already watched it,
Oh NOW you don’t want to drag him, which is all you ever did !
this is what happens when an older man has a relationship with a younger man. The young guy still wants to party, and the old guy wants him to stop.
You can be the same age but people's heads are in different stages of life.
No it’s about the right person not the age .
@@lauramoor7730 life has different stages. if you are past those stages, and someone else is not. there will be problems. this is due to AGE.
@@4125greenbrierroad no it’s due to stages not a number . U can go through 10 stages in one month or one year. It has nothing to do with age .
Jeff, I didn't see a match when he was on the show and he didn't remember what your favorite movie was. I'm glad you two broke up.
Jeff will end up alone, with a daughter who may stop in from time to time when she gets older..
Megan stop making excuses. It was Stu’s choice.
Oh YOU did it? Okay. Interesting. Mature decisions - the reasons make sense. I'm surprised though as I thought it was all going well.
I hit a "point of no return";and that's it!!!!!!
I guess Stu won’t be showing up on Jeff’s show as a guest anymore? Too bad.
Love you Jeff.
Awww... love you both 💓
Jeff Lewis' parents are brother and sister.
I think Jeff is in love with Shane and vice versa. Maybe I’m wrong but I think maybe something there!!!!
Aren’t they dating again? Narcissist. Jeff is controlling. Run!!!
Jeffrey Lewis the most entitled person on TV.. and, I love watching
Good for Jeff. This is no surprise.
Sorry but he had issues. You did the right thing by breaking up. Always pay attention to the red flags. When booze is more important it’s an issue.
Ya... he's the one with issues..lol
Love you Jeff
Stu is a great person but it's exhausting playing somebody's Daddy when you need a partner to lean on and trust. Nobody wants to have 100 percent of the responsibility or overview in the relationship... overview is not really the right word but you know what I mean
Jeff needs complete control in a relationship. He's toxic. Just ask his many exes
I think he's way too busy with work and his kid to have total control over anyone. I've felt how it feels to be a responsible parent and have my partner choose friends and social situations over me. That's a very lonely feeling. As we age we have a lower tolerance for that kind of bs. I don't want to wake up to go pee and find my partner stinking of cigarettes and booze and slurring their words. Total turn off.
The guy is 41 acting like a 20 year old, dump him he did, good.
Stuart was not that great to Jeff ..
Private life in public!!! Hate it! Jeff is just a controlling, jealous and high maintenance person.
He didn't have the emotional maturity to put aside those childish things
JEFF didn't put those so called childish things away when he was STUs age.
He's Irish that's why he's always drinking
@@truthisfree Jeff drinks 3 days a week now. What's his excuse. He fell asleep drunk in the bath a week ago. Truth
Try dating sober.
Both lovely men but way to different to survive long term.
To young for you.
If Jeff were truly sincere about wanting a genuine long term partner, he would give up these younger guys; it's really just as simple as that. The young guys don't want Jeff fcking Lewis for his youth and stamina in the bedroom, okurrr!~ 40 is too young these days to be settling down, especially in L.A., and Jeff of all people knows this. BTW, Andy Cohen is in the same boat.
Bummer, I am sorry. In listening to Jeff’s earlier podcasts not shocked & could tell that this was not a long term relationship.
While I appreciate him clearing the air about the break up anyone who does TV shows, podcasts or radio should know when they say "yesterday" or "the weekend" they should say the actual date. If you're going to put this information out there the listeners need to know the date.
Do people really care about this junk. Who cares about Jeff Lewia boyfriends. Wow..our priorities on the world are non existent.
Jeff this is a little boy not a MAN. Let him run Stu is trying to fill something inside of him that's empty. NEXT!!!!! Move on gorgeous man.
Lol gorgeous???
When I saw this, I was relieved! But then I saw this was 5 months ago! Lots of changes since then..on pause, not pause, on pause and on and on…Jeff, you are a fab man….don’t settle! You deserve what you want and need!
Was Stu sad too?