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Комментарии • 131

  • @pamw565
    @pamw565 2 года назад +19

    Let’s have Stuart on so he can tell his side of the story?

    • @SOCCERNUT32
      @SOCCERNUT32 5 месяцев назад +1

      Facts ! If you have a problem with e wrong even the neighborhood cats., it’s HIM.

    • @marhar1172
      @marhar1172 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes..i would love to hear Stu's side too..

  • @rlast4698
    @rlast4698 2 года назад +11

    Why are you airing someone elses personal life for attention??

  • @jacquelineglitter4328
    @jacquelineglitter4328 2 года назад +22

    Best advice is just stay single. Believe me life is so much better without the drama. I can do whatever I want and don't have to cater to someone else. Plus my house is always clean.

  • @lbmartin5667
    @lbmartin5667 2 года назад +27

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you for being such an adult and doing the right thing for yourself. doing what's best for both of you . Knowing what deal breakers are and how you deserve the attention he's giving to others. I identify so hard!!! Love your honesty Jeff.

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +10

      HOW about he dates in his age range . He loves how young guys make him feel but wants to control and judge them for living their life JUST LIKE JEFF DID at that age.

  • @Ashley-ds8jw
    @Ashley-ds8jw 2 года назад +13

    You made the right choice. No point in dragging out relationships when you start off like this. Love you Jeff.

  • @thestrwbrrygirl
    @thestrwbrrygirl 2 года назад +7

    100% best thing to do! The relationship would have spiraled if you hadn’t ended it. Very mature decision.

  • @suzannegiglio2866
    @suzannegiglio2866 2 года назад +23

    You did the right thing Jeff. We only have one life. It’s absolutely imperative that your happiness is most important. Find someone with similar values.

    • @MsBamafanatic
      @MsBamafanatic 2 года назад +2

      Hah! They got back together.

    • @catsumrs
      @catsumrs 2 года назад

      @@MsBamafanatic When I just got this notice 5 minutes ago. He should have stayed with Ryan..........He really screwed that up

    • @MsBamafanatic
      @MsBamafanatic 2 года назад

      @@catsumrs I don't disagree about Ryan, but Ryan wound up with the one who was best for him. Jeff would never have been the best one for Ryan. I think Jeff needs somebody who is going to treat him like crap so that he will appreciate the good ones (not to include Gage). I don't see him and Stu being long-term. I think Stu gets on his nerves way too much. But Jeff recycles relationships like nobody's business.

  • @Plumeria6460
    @Plumeria6460 2 года назад +30

    I’m sorry you are sad, Jeff, but I think it was the only logical choice. You can’t force someone to align with your relationship goals. Investing more time in a relationship waiting for someone to change rarely seems to work. Take care of yourself 💙

  • @Cspspack
    @Cspspack 2 года назад +2

    It’s hard to grow a relationship with an alcoholic.

  • @bethstubb5544
    @bethstubb5544 2 года назад +4

    We grow and change every minute if we choose too. Letting go of what isn’t working is a sign of emotional intelligence. 💗

  • @nschmidt4993
    @nschmidt4993 2 года назад +6

    LOVE Jeff Lewis Live!!!

  • @ericacasey2547
    @ericacasey2547 2 года назад +12

    I am so sorry Jeff. You deserve all the happiness in the world.

  • @tinaf.7941
    @tinaf.7941 2 года назад +5

    There's always two sides to a relationship story....this is only one side......

  • @din6675
    @din6675 2 года назад +14

    He is lucky to be wealthy and somewhat famous because Lord have mercy on people that date him.

  • @victoriagarcia5533
    @victoriagarcia5533 2 года назад +8

    This interview was 2 weeks ago. People who are giving support, please note that they’re still talking and going to therapy. 😂

  • @caronbranstetter6095
    @caronbranstetter6095 2 года назад +5

    And I needed to hear this too. You are being such a classy person.

  • @MsCNail-fe1sj
    @MsCNail-fe1sj 2 года назад +9

    Even though it has to hurt...you did the right thing. Someone can not be talked into meeting your needs...they have to want to...or vice-versa.

  • @michaelharness3258
    @michaelharness3258 2 года назад +11

    Another person you tried to control . You need to just let people be themselves and not what you expect from them.

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +12

      Needs to date in his age range. Young guys don't want to live like old people .

    • @marilynkozlow8400
      @marilynkozlow8400 2 года назад +3

      He has them move in, don’t do that. Much better to have your own place, specially at his age

  • @SB-hj3mg
    @SB-hj3mg 2 года назад +6

    Good call, Jeff! somewhat earlier than later an excellent healthy relationship should be founded on reciprocating both needs and priorities first.

  • @MaraCosenza
    @MaraCosenza 2 года назад +3

    My therapist calls those men “Peter Pan Syndrome “

    • @rlast4698
      @rlast4698 2 года назад +3

      What does your therapist call jeff who only dates younger..

  • @Stacyr4567
    @Stacyr4567 2 года назад +2

    Age and priority differences.

  • @Mychannel20243
    @Mychannel20243 2 года назад +12

    I totally get it, Jeff. You're looking for someone to build a future with, not a clubbing partner. We're not in our 20's.

  • @michelle.stephenson
    @michelle.stephenson 2 года назад +4

    Sorry about your breakup but don't second guess your decision. I'm in my 50s and me and my bf are on the same page. You deserve to be with someone who is in alignment with you. Period.

  • @cindy4189
    @cindy4189 2 года назад +1

    Wow, old news…. Like 2 weeks. Thank goodness for my SiriusXM subscription, so I get it in real time

  • @danielleminerva4525
    @danielleminerva4525 2 года назад +2

    This is why you have to go out with people your own age.

  • @kathryn1304
    @kathryn1304 2 года назад +7

    Always wishing the best for you Jeff. I love you ❤️

  • @mariatee8115
    @mariatee8115 2 года назад +2

    When you point the finger at some else, you have three pointing back at you. Program and Recovery. It works. God bless!!👍🏼🙏🏼

  • @judyengle7728
    @judyengle7728 2 года назад +5

    Good for Stu. You are nuts.

    • @vida2515
      @vida2515 2 года назад

      😂😂😂🤣

    • @rlast4698
      @rlast4698 2 года назад

      Amen. Stu dodged a bullet

  • @migueltogonow6832
    @migueltogonow6832 2 года назад +6

    but 3 days later.. you got back together... Jeff is so toxic!

    • @lizdahl847
      @lizdahl847 Год назад

      Jeff should date a woman. Just saying..

  • @Shannob
    @Shannob Год назад

    Jeff's voice cracking is heartbreaking. You deserve peace ❤

  • @MrDLOC11
    @MrDLOC11 2 года назад +9

    Omg You don't wanna drag him?? Lol
    Yes you do,
    and you did,
    & everybody now knows the gory details, (still very entertaining 😚)...
    Another One Bites the dust 😧... but you still a hot catch 😘
    Maybe ....
    someone closer to your own age next time will hopefully avoid the lack of maturity usually found in the junior set ....

  • @marylockwood4400
    @marylockwood4400 2 года назад +8

    Jeff, did you tell Stu at the beginning of your relationship what your expectations are? My friend told her husband when they met that she's looking for a husband, and if he's not looking for a long term relationship not to waste her time. They've been married for over 10 years.

  • @MiaMay-r7d
    @MiaMay-r7d 2 года назад +2

    FYI Good Question: which side is the gas tank on? Look at dash gas tank display you'll see an arrow - the arrow shows you which side the gas tank is on. There you go . . . it works!!!! :o)

  • @tashic9357
    @tashic9357 2 года назад +2

    I’m sorry, Jeff! Let’s go have a martini together!!! 🍸💃🏻 #onward&upward

  • @KS-op5hb
    @KS-op5hb 2 года назад +5

    Yeah just sounds like different life goals at this stage . I do hope they stay friendly , because life changes and maybe in 5 years he will have gotten all of this out of his system . Who knows . Does sound like Jeff really needs someone family focused , no matter the age .

  • @sherrynestyak3063
    @sherrynestyak3063 2 года назад +2

    Awww... love you both 💓

  • @melsattitude8668
    @melsattitude8668 2 года назад +5

    I'm so sorry but this is for you and your family's best interest. You're raising a daughter and you need to stay focused.

  • @butterflymoon6368
    @butterflymoon6368 2 года назад +5

    It looks like he's in a Chinese restaurant inside a recording studio.

  • @pgkpq2769
    @pgkpq2769 2 года назад

    When THE BAD is the deal breaker...woah!

  • @annettemarado3668
    @annettemarado3668 2 года назад +1

    Love you Jeff.

  • @tinkervance1525
    @tinkervance1525 2 года назад +4

    I’m telling you that Jeff can do or say N O wrong in my eyes 💜 Pray for me 🤔😉

  • @woop2235
    @woop2235 2 года назад

    You made the right decision 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @terimassoud5637
    @terimassoud5637 2 года назад

    I hit a "point of no return";and that's it!!!!!!

  • @richcampbell6808
    @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +8

    . Stu was out of Jeff's league. Stu is free of the boss and control. You want a young stud and love that he keeps you young but want him to act like an old man. DATE YOUR AGE. EINSTEIN.

  • @Manx36
    @Manx36 Год назад +1

    I can’t imagine Jeff Lewis breaking up with someone because they went out to have fun one night, stop dating younger guys might be a start. He acts like he’s the guys dad guilting him for wanting to go out with friends. I never go out with anyone more than five years younger than myself because they are usually not where I am financially or mentally and it’s wrong to try and tell them to slow down when they are not there. In a way he did the guy a favor but also he knew who he was dating from the get go and must have known this person was not ready to play house husband

  • @kennethhall9202
    @kennethhall9202 2 месяца назад

    You weren’t invited let him talk !!

  • @caronbranstetter6095
    @caronbranstetter6095 2 года назад +1

    And Heather McDonald is in the house!

  • @traceygoodman6203
    @traceygoodman6203 2 года назад +9

    So have you checked how Stu feels? I wonder whether you’re INFJ on Myer Briggs MBTI because I am and I’m a door slammer with relationships and I think people don’t see it coming! I can’t remember if you stay friends with exes? I used to but now I “disengage” with ex friends as well XX Shout out Shane 🌞😎🇬🇧💚

    • @butterflymoon6368
      @butterflymoon6368 2 года назад +3

      I'm INFJ but the door slamming thing would have to be a learned technique for us because we're normally emotional sponges.

    • @DiegoRamirez-zc7fs
      @DiegoRamirez-zc7fs 2 года назад +2

      Shout out Tracey, heyyy

    • @traceygoodman6203
      @traceygoodman6203 2 года назад +1

      @@DiegoRamirez-zc7fs Shout out Diego heyy 🙋‍♀️

  • @Yolduranduran
    @Yolduranduran 2 года назад

    I am also 50 years old, a little older.

  • @CS-pi5oc
    @CS-pi5oc 2 года назад

    It sounds like Stu is ignoring the fact that u r a responsible parent and person. He didn’t want that lifestyle. It should be enough to enjoy the night w/o making a night of it again and again.

  • @caliwebb3
    @caliwebb3 2 года назад +1

    sorry. sad I can't afford to watch your new show. I enjoy you and all of your shows.

    • @ShowdogTiger
      @ShowdogTiger 2 года назад

      Houselift is free on Freevee. 10 episodes to binge on.

    • @caliwebb3
      @caliwebb3 2 года назад +1

      @@ShowdogTiger Thanks showdog. Been binging all day.

    • @danielleminerva4525
      @danielleminerva4525 2 года назад

      Umm it’s free

    • @ShowdogTiger
      @ShowdogTiger 2 года назад

      @@danielleminerva4525 he knew that a month ago. He's already watched it,

  • @rosierose1167
    @rosierose1167 2 года назад +1

    Hey Jeff,
    Things happen, we dont know why at that moment but believe it or not, your Life Story has been written for you already. Your in Daddy mode & your honey was still in Bachelor mode. He'll
    think back one day about & regret it, but by then you would if moved on.
    When you meet someone & you see that twinkle in there eyes, start asking questions. Some people are in the game for fun only, some for a Lifetime commitment.
    You choose & keep shopping. ⚘❤

  • @brianhaynescopeland3208
    @brianhaynescopeland3208 Год назад

    Jeff,
    This is a sad. But remember, whenever there is a ‘flag’ we must take a pause and review. Know that this lesson, will bring you closer to your relationship goal.✨❤️✨

  • @uloveamira
    @uloveamira 2 года назад

    Love you Jeff

  • @Rteest345
    @Rteest345 2 года назад

    Oh NOW you don’t want to drag him, which is all you ever did !

  • @jeanniefenton5405
    @jeanniefenton5405 Год назад +1

    you are dating guys that are too young....you are way to smart to be doing this, get a mature, nice guy to enjoy your life with

  • @kdmmtl1957
    @kdmmtl1957 Год назад

    Jeff, He has to grow into the person you wish he was, You dont remember your time to decide to have child and he did not decide to fall in love with you due to your current family position. He needs to mature to your level. In time he may be that person you require. But in time with understanding and not always a position to end your relatioinship.

  • @jamesc7019
    @jamesc7019 Год назад

    Ffs he only stayed out until 1.30 and he wasn’t up at 9am for a walk. Date a 60 yr old or a home person and see how bored you get

  • @dmountain390
    @dmountain390 2 года назад +1

    Good for Jeff. This is no surprise.

  • @butterflymoon6368
    @butterflymoon6368 2 года назад +3

    Oh YOU did it? Okay. Interesting. Mature decisions - the reasons make sense. I'm surprised though as I thought it was all going well.

  • @irmahuerta3044
    @irmahuerta3044 2 года назад

    You need to date guys close to your age. You are fun, funny and responsible so just take your time. You’ll find your life partner

  • @PrettyGoodLookin
    @PrettyGoodLookin 2 года назад

    Jeff, I didn't see a match when he was on the show and he didn't remember what your favorite movie was. I'm glad you two broke up.

  • @catsumrs
    @catsumrs 2 года назад +3

    Jeff will end up alone, with a daughter who may stop in from time to time when she gets older..

  • @terry2588
    @terry2588 Год назад +1

    Jeff needs to be roommates with Meghan and Harry they all are drama queens with no crowns lol 😂

  • @paulalajoie4930
    @paulalajoie4930 2 года назад +2

    Jeffrey Lewis the most entitled person on TV.. and, I love watching

  • @jenniferthreatt8455
    @jenniferthreatt8455 Год назад

    Are you still with Stu ? It's February 2023 and I don't know if you are still together.

  • @djr6876
    @djr6876 2 года назад +1

    I guess Stu won’t be showing up on Jeff’s show as a guest anymore? Too bad.

  • @glowood415
    @glowood415 2 года назад

    Megan stop making excuses. It was Stu’s choice.

  • @ladesigner8764
    @ladesigner8764 Год назад

    Aren’t they dating again? Narcissist. Jeff is controlling. Run!!!

  • @betraytheteam
    @betraytheteam 2 года назад +3

    Jeff Lewis' parents are brother and sister.

  • @4125greenbrierroad
    @4125greenbrierroad 2 года назад +9

    this is what happens when an older man has a relationship with a younger man. The young guy still wants to party, and the old guy wants him to stop.

    • @ronnieroo227
      @ronnieroo227 2 года назад +1

      You can be the same age but people's heads are in different stages of life.

    • @lauramoor7730
      @lauramoor7730 2 года назад

      No it’s about the right person not the age .

    • @4125greenbrierroad
      @4125greenbrierroad 2 года назад

      @@lauramoor7730 life has different stages. if you are past those stages, and someone else is not. there will be problems. this is due to AGE.

    • @lauramoor7730
      @lauramoor7730 2 года назад

      @@4125greenbrierroad no it’s due to stages not a number . U can go through 10 stages in one month or one year. It has nothing to do with age .

  • @tombudd7985
    @tombudd7985 2 года назад

    I think Jeff is in love with Shane and vice versa. Maybe I’m wrong but I think maybe something there!!!!

  • @isabelbrunmayr1314
    @isabelbrunmayr1314 2 года назад

    Private life in public!!! Hate it! Jeff is just a controlling, jealous and high maintenance person.

  • @sherrynestyak3063
    @sherrynestyak3063 2 года назад +3

    Stu is a great person but it's exhausting playing somebody's Daddy when you need a partner to lean on and trust. Nobody wants to have 100 percent of the responsibility or overview in the relationship... overview is not really the right word but you know what I mean

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +3

      Jeff needs complete control in a relationship. He's toxic. Just ask his many exes

    • @sherrynestyak3063
      @sherrynestyak3063 2 года назад

      I think he's way too busy with work and his kid to have total control over anyone. I've felt how it feels to be a responsible parent and have my partner choose friends and social situations over me. That's a very lonely feeling. As we age we have a lower tolerance for that kind of bs. I don't want to wake up to go pee and find my partner stinking of cigarettes and booze and slurring their words. Total turn off.

  • @garypalleria6674
    @garypalleria6674 2 года назад

    The guy is 41 acting like a 20 year old, dump him he did, good.

  • @Redfoxx1234
    @Redfoxx1234 Месяц назад

    Stuart was not that great to Jeff ..

  • @glowood415
    @glowood415 2 года назад

    Sorry but he had issues. You did the right thing by breaking up. Always pay attention to the red flags. When booze is more important it’s an issue.

    • @rlast4698
      @rlast4698 2 года назад

      Ya... he's the one with issues..lol

  • @claudiamartin9982
    @claudiamartin9982 Год назад

    To young for you.

  • @susieq2873
    @susieq2873 4 месяца назад

    Try dating sober.

  • @snarkyenigma9219
    @snarkyenigma9219 6 месяцев назад

    If Jeff were truly sincere about wanting a genuine long term partner, he would give up these younger guys; it's really just as simple as that. The young guys don't want Jeff fcking Lewis for his youth and stamina in the bedroom, okurrr!~ 40 is too young these days to be settling down, especially in L.A., and Jeff of all people knows this. BTW, Andy Cohen is in the same boat.

  • @ronnieroo227
    @ronnieroo227 2 года назад +1

    Both lovely men but way to different to survive long term.

  • @christie1331burke
    @christie1331burke 2 года назад +1

    Bummer, I am sorry. In listening to Jeff’s earlier podcasts not shocked & could tell that this was not a long term relationship.

  • @josefigueroa8304
    @josefigueroa8304 4 месяца назад

    Do people really care about this junk. Who cares about Jeff Lewia boyfriends. Wow..our priorities on the world are non existent.

  • @sherrynestyak3063
    @sherrynestyak3063 2 года назад

    He didn't have the emotional maturity to put aside those childish things

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +3

      JEFF didn't put those so called childish things away when he was STUs age.

    • @truthisfree
      @truthisfree 2 года назад

      He's Irish that's why he's always drinking

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 года назад +2

      @@truthisfree Jeff drinks 3 days a week now. What's his excuse. He fell asleep drunk in the bath a week ago. Truth

  • @leandrakopf7415
    @leandrakopf7415 2 года назад

    Jeff this is a little boy not a MAN. Let him run Stu is trying to fill something inside of him that's empty. NEXT!!!!! Move on gorgeous man.

    • @rlast4698
      @rlast4698 2 года назад

      Lol gorgeous???

    • @crazycat6833
      @crazycat6833 Год назад

      When I saw this, I was relieved! But then I saw this was 5 months ago! Lots of changes since then..on pause, not pause, on pause and on and on…Jeff, you are a fab man….don’t settle! You deserve what you want and need!

  • @SRX2004
    @SRX2004 2 года назад

    While I appreciate him clearing the air about the break up anyone who does TV shows, podcasts or radio should know when they say "yesterday" or "the weekend" they should say the actual date. If you're going to put this information out there the listeners need to know the date.

  • @jojomiller1630
    @jojomiller1630 Год назад

    Was Stu sad too?

  • @twerkinthecityhuh6340
    @twerkinthecityhuh6340 2 года назад +1

    Irish guys loooooove to drink!!