I would have left when I found out Stu went to a tennis tournament and stayed at the same house as his ex and kept it from Jeff. Actually, it seemed pretty clear that Thomas was never really out of Stu’s life. I probably wouldn’t have ever gotten involved in a relationship because of that HUGE red flag.
I know Jeff can be demanding and hard to handle but his heart breaks and the pain of betrayal hurts him just like it would the rest of us. My heart goes out to him.💔
I'm really sorry, Jeff. You deserve better. Please don't let him back in your life now. Take a break from dating for a while. Be kind to yourself. You have some great friends. Surround yourself with them and have some peace. Bless you.
Ouch. This is hard. All those guys always end up taking advantage of him: Gage making a living off the alimonies, Stuart routinely expecting fancy gifts (Hermès bracelets, Adèle's tickets, etc, etc). Jeff, you can do much better! Hope you find a nice guy who respects you and is more your equal. You deserve it.
Stu will never change. Someone who lies to their partner is just the worse. And probably he will gaslighting him saying “oh you always get upset when I even mention his name …”. No!
Jeff is the common denominator and no he can't do much better. IDK which therapists he is seeing, but it's gonna take some deeeeep internal changes and self-actualizing before things change for good ol' Jeff 😆❤
Jeff hate you watch you on youtube , than I got obsessed and had to start watching your tv show. Now I’m binging on your show on a nice day , all day. Thanks!!!! Love you❤️
Jeff needs to pay attention to how Ariana is handling Sandoval, and go no contact with Stu, close that door, move on to a freer, better, fuller, more truthful life.
U can tell Jeff is very hurt. I wish he would close the door for good on Chef Stu. He has shown him time and time again who he is. Jeff deserves better.
6 betrayals in 15 months? That's why he disrespected you. Because you allowed it. You don't need him or anyone. You should have kicked him to the curb the FIRST time.
I don't believe anything Chef Stu. on what he has said to you. ..why does Jeff keep giving him chances all the time and overlooking this? You can do better Jeff and you need to love yourself so you can bring in someone good for you. Have Patti set you up with someone!! We love you Jeff!!
You know Jeff is a very slow learner. The guys I dated which was almost every single one of them cheated. And how many times did it take before I dropped them out of my life forever? ONCE. And I have never been married..... And I never will. I know there are some guys who never cheat.... But there are millions more that do and will if given the opportunity. I do not want to go through my life being a detective and trying to figure out what he's up to who he's up to... Who he's with....where is he at now. Nope don't need it don't want it don't miss it... Any of it. I'm an old lady now and I have no drama in my life and I thank the Lord everyday.
For me if my current relationship were to end I would just be by myself. It's such an easier life. I am 45 and me and my husband say that all the time if one of us should die or god forbid break up. That is it no more relationships. People need to be more honest on when it's time to just be by yourself.
Let’s face it Jeffs no Angel he says and does very disrespectful crap to his bf too… And why is Jeff still dealing with this petty drama? He loves it lol
Ally looks phenomenal Wow! Jill too. When you are happy and healthy it shows! It makes me happy Jeff is still friends with Jill! I haven’t watched for a min, maybe as far back as 2021.
Stu doesnt love Jeff the way Jeff cared for him. He was very fortunate he took him back on New Years after betrayal. He should have done everything in his power to prove his loyalty. If Jeff doesnt walk away now, he deserves the abuse because he gave too many chances as is...and where is Jeff consideration for Monroe? Doesnt she deserve some stability and Jeff owes it to the kid to only have partners that are trustworthy!
Jeff I love you and you a great person and deserve someone who will respect you and set boundaries when there are ex’s involved! My heart breaks for you !😢 I want the best for you ! No one deserves to be treated with the disrespect Stu has done to you ! Please use this time to heal and find someone who deserves you and your love! You have a good heart and you will find someone who is worthy of you love !❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
I've never understood why older men (gay or straight) just can't grasp that younger people are almost always just using them (for a multitude of reasons) ... in Jeff's case, it's fame and $ucce$$. @-wipe Andy is in the same boat. Early 50's is going to turn into early 60's before they even know it, and then they're REALLY effed.
Jeff made fun of Stu and demeaned him every chance he got on his radio show. He really shouldn't be surprised Stu wanted to keep in touch with his ex. Maybe Stu liked being around someone who didn't call him dumb every day. I'm just surprised they both stuck it out as long as they did. It was clear from the beginning it wouldn't work out.
Jeff, Stu is stuck in high school, he wants to party and you are a home body. After Apple Watch gate you should have selected. Don’t waste your time, your handsome and you and Monroe deserve better.
Please Jeff cut Stu out of your life. You have grown & changed so much. But being a better guy doesn’t mean letting someone abuse you over & over. Your fans love you and want the best for you.
What is up with the old Housewives bringing along their daughters everywhere? First Ramona and now Jill. Trying to turn Housewives into a family business ain't happening lol
The reason he is doing this is because he’s showing you who he is. He is keeping his options open. He may believe he can be friends with Thomas. It may be that since you say he can’t speak to him he wants to to be in control. He should not want to speak to Thomas. He’s not in true love with you Jeff, I’m so sorry. He doesn’t respect you at all. My ex did this to me and this is how I know. He thought he loved another young girl but now he’s on his third girlfriend. He’ll never be happy.
😱🥺😤😕 Omg Jeff sorry you had to go through that... hearing this is awful....I know he's an awful brutal boss to work for...even though they got lots of perks working for Jeff...no one deserves to be treated like this...
Oh brother! Zoila, Jenni, Gabe...how many more will it take to wake you up?! You can't be an asshole, treat people like shit, and pretend to be hurt when they toss you! Geez!
Betrayer's are so sloppy!!! I married that exact repeat offender obsessed with his ex aka " the ghost " as he kept dragging me down the shit rabbit hole over and over until I had a " come to Jesus" moment!!! 🎆🌠😳🎉
The obvious question is Why do you allow soooo many incidents of betrayal? Sounds like Jeff has the problem. “ People treat you the way you allow them to treat you”. Move on.
Relationships are challenging in the best of circumstances. I can only assume Jeff enjoys the drama, on some level, otherwise why announce your business to the world. Just saying.
Jeff, you need to cut bait, and move on from this. I would suggest taking some time away from relationships. Your most recent relationships have been beyond toxic (Gage, Scott and Stu)
Jeff no one seems to be keeper for you, lighten up and stop with over analyzing every little minute "little thing" its nonsense... life is too short we learn that lesson everyday...
It’s hard Jeff maybe You are better suited to dating a wonderful artist or another creator like Yourself - someone You find beautifully attractive in their Kindness, Love &, Tolerance-this person sounds like a user
I am so sorry that your relationship unraveled . You are a handsome guy you can find someone that deserves you . Cliff note I cannot stand Jill Zaran she talks too much and is a know it all . She takes over the show and loves to interrupt .
Jeff you seem so ill, so fragmented in this cast. Try focusing on all the wonders of your life, the privledges and how much you have created. Stop repeated negative affirmation of all the ugly experiences as it will just continue. This will raise your vibration and draw better situations. Your constantly reliving it is magnifying it in your life. Focus on gratitude and it will raise your vibration to attract better.
Jenny is no innocent. She was mediocre in Cting and was delusional. She wanted to blame jeff for her not being successful. In acting. We only know her bc of jeff
Jeff, you did the exact same thing with Gage and you engaged with him in a sexual conversation; after both of you had dinner and Gage threaten you to expose the text. But you’re mad when is done to you… If he was cheating he wouldn’t be in 2 different places he would be recognized immediately.
The common denominator in the drama is him. He doesn't take his time. He doesn't know the people (really) that he gets involved with. He chooses poorly. Then he stays too long. He needs to be by himself and in some weekly therapy.
When people show you who they are believe them.
Stu has shown him over, over, and over again. Yet Jeff goes back.
The first time.
Jeff needs a reality show around his life asap!!! He is highly entertaining and juicy.
He has one on Amazon
Would be a sneeze fest
They used to have Flipping Out on Bravo and it was great
@@john-xu9iz then he betrayed Jenni.
@@nifflofair6685😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️
You can do better…let him go and keep your head high….you are the best….I love your show… xo
You deserve better Jeff. Let go of this guy. God has something better for you out there. ❤🙏🏼
I don’t feel bad for Jeff because we keep telling him to leave Stew and he keeps getting signs to leave Stew
True that. Love how Jill tried......
Stu has shown Jeff who he is over and over again. End that toxic relationship.
I didn't realize how insecure Jeff is. I would've left the guy as soon as I found out he talked smack about me to his ex.
I would have left when I found out Stu went to a tennis tournament and stayed at the same house as his ex and kept it from Jeff. Actually, it seemed pretty clear that Thomas was never really out of Stu’s life. I probably wouldn’t have ever gotten involved in a relationship because of that HUGE red flag.
Same. I don’t get it tbh
Jeff deserves a true, loyal, reliable, mature person.
Not really. He attracts exactly what he is
@@ladesigner8764 hater
You cannot go back Jeff!!!
Dana 🤗 😘
Agree 💯
Dana, totally agree with you. Jeff deserves TRUE love ❤
Keep it at no contact
He does not deserve a second of your time
I know Jeff can be demanding and hard to handle but his heart breaks and the pain of betrayal hurts him just like it would the rest of us. My heart goes out to him.💔
Jeff you are a good person, keep your next relationship private, no exposure. Protect and love yourself!
Amen
Wow Jeff you deserve better. Anyone that would talk behind your back with an ex clearly has no respect for the relationship.
I'm really sorry, Jeff. You deserve better. Please don't let him back in your life now. Take a break from dating for a while. Be kind to yourself. You have some great friends. Surround yourself with them and have some peace. Bless you.
But if he stops dating he loses out on content for his talk show.
Ouch. This is hard. All those guys always end up taking advantage of him: Gage making a living off the alimonies, Stuart routinely expecting fancy gifts (Hermès bracelets, Adèle's tickets, etc, etc). Jeff, you can do much better! Hope you find a nice guy who respects you and is more your equal. You deserve it.
It's worse...Gage is officially dating Scott, Jeff's other ex.
Stu will never change. Someone who lies to their partner is just the worse. And probably he will gaslighting him saying “oh you always get upset when I even mention his name …”. No!
Jeff is the common denominator and no he can't do much better. IDK which therapists he is seeing, but it's gonna take some deeeeep internal changes and self-actualizing before things change for good ol' Jeff 😆❤
@@Gree263and that is why many people hated him in the show he was clearly a user.
@@ST-vo1jrhow are the others not the issue they dated him despite knowing who he is.
Jeff hate you watch you on youtube , than I got obsessed and had to start watching your tv show. Now I’m binging on your show on a nice day , all day. Thanks!!!! Love you❤️
Jeff needs to pay attention to how Ariana is handling Sandoval, and go no contact with Stu, close that door, move on to a freer, better, fuller, more truthful life.
Yes, I thought that Stu reminds me of Tom Sandoval.
Exactly. Stu is so inmature. Drinks too much and lies like a rug. Move on Jeff!!
It hurts to move on, but it's time. Too much to deal with. Your family loves you. Good times need to consistent. Keep moving on!
U can tell Jeff is very hurt. I wish he would close the door for good on Chef Stu. He has shown him time and time again who he is. Jeff deserves better.
6 betrayals in 15 months? That's why he disrespected you. Because you allowed it. You don't need him or anyone. You should have kicked him to the curb the FIRST time.
I don't believe anything Chef Stu. on what he has said to you. ..why does Jeff keep giving him chances all the time and overlooking this? You can do better Jeff and you need to love yourself so you can bring in someone good for you. Have Patti set you up with someone!! We love you Jeff!!
😪
Because he hopes he will change … I’ve been there and got hurt again.
I always thought he was a free loader. User kind of guy. Let that leaf blow away Jeff. You do have rooted friends that really do care and love you.
Because he's afraid of being alone
Alisa used to call chef Stu out during the show or would to Jeff I always respected that she was a real one
When I hear “tennis tournament in Palm Springs” My eyes immediately roll LOL!
Bro
Your a grown man
Ditch the drama
Your rich
You can find someone that will treat you good without the drama
Jeff can do better ! He is better ❤
Jeff ask Andy to put a Word in , and give you your own Show !! I would love to watch it
DONE AND DONE!!!
And even DONE!!! 😂😢
Hello , thanks for this good sharing see you later my friend 👍
You deserve better. Why tolerate any of this. So many deal-breakers.
You know Jeff is a very slow learner. The guys I dated which was almost every single one of them cheated. And how many times did it take before I dropped them out of my life forever? ONCE. And I have never been married..... And I never will. I know there are some guys who never cheat.... But there are millions more that do and will if given the opportunity. I do not want to go through my life being a detective and trying to figure out what he's up to who he's up to... Who he's with....where is he at now. Nope don't need it don't want it don't miss it... Any of it. I'm an old lady now and I have no drama in my life and I thank the Lord everyday.
For me if my current relationship were to end I would just be by myself. It's such an easier life. I am 45 and me and my husband say that all the time if one of us should die or god forbid break up. That is it no more relationships. People need to be more honest on when it's time to just be by yourself.
Same here. We are 🦄.
Ally looks great. Getting a young Bethany vibe ❤
Time to let Stu go, Jeff. Why are you forgiving him over and over again? He's using your celebrity for his career.
Agree. It is oh so convenient when Jeff announces that there will be a life stream cooking tonight. What an A*******le!
Let’s face it Jeffs no Angel he says and does very disrespectful crap to his bf too… And why is Jeff still dealing with this petty drama? He loves it lol
Wow. Now I hope and pray you never go back. He has revealed himself yet again. Believe him. Sorry Jeff. Your "community" of Chumps have your back.
After the second disrespect with the same man, that was the time to have cut it off with him. Clearly he showed you who he was really invented in 😢
Ally looks phenomenal Wow! Jill too. When you are happy and healthy it shows! It makes me happy Jeff is still friends with Jill! I haven’t watched for a min, maybe as far back as 2021.
Please Jeff. You deserve so much better. Glad you kicked Stu to the curb
To quote my Italian grandmother. When you are too good you are no good. Jeff you are too good.
‘Why does he choose to disrespect us? The relationship?
No baby girl RESPECT YOURSELF 😂😂😂
Jeff he’s gotta go!!! Don’t let him treat or disrespect you like that! They are other guys out their.
Jeff deserves better. Stu ain’t even all that. West Hollywood queen
Stu was with Andy Cohen…these guys get passed around.
@@ladesigner8764Yikes!
Exacttly
Where do I watch the full episodes? I have the Sirius app but can never find the video recordings.
Stu doesnt love Jeff the way Jeff cared for him. He was very fortunate he took him back on New Years after betrayal. He should have done everything in his power to prove his loyalty. If Jeff doesnt walk away now, he deserves the abuse because he gave too many chances as is...and where is Jeff consideration for Monroe? Doesnt she deserve some stability and Jeff owes it to the kid to only have partners that are trustworthy!
Love love loveeeee Jeff Lewis Live
Jeff I love you and you a great person and deserve someone who will respect you and set boundaries when there are ex’s involved! My heart breaks for you !😢 I want the best for you ! No one deserves to be treated with the disrespect Stu has done to you ! Please use this time to heal and find someone who deserves you and your love! You have a good heart and you will find someone who is worthy of you love !❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
let it go, not worth your time anymore! How many more red flags do you want?
It’s making me sad that Jeff is starting to get that cat-like look from botox, filler and other facial work. He’s such a handsome man without it.
I've never understood why older men (gay or straight) just can't grasp that younger people are almost always just using them (for a multitude of reasons) ... in Jeff's case, it's fame and $ucce$$. @-wipe Andy is in the same boat. Early 50's is going to turn into early 60's before they even know it, and then they're REALLY effed.
Jeff made fun of Stu and demeaned him every chance he got on his radio show. He really shouldn't be surprised Stu wanted to keep in touch with his ex. Maybe Stu liked being around someone who didn't call him dumb every day. I'm just surprised they both stuck it out as long as they did. It was clear from the beginning it wouldn't work out.
Sounds like they have some codependency issues. Hence they needed each other.
Why, do you seem to pick the same men look inside get therapy and stay single for awhile you have children to worry about.
The details 😂😂 love jeff❤
Once a lier always a lier🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Or even a liar...
@@helsbels991😂😂😂
Karma will wrap you back at anytime….stop playing the victim card
Jeff, Stu is stuck in high school, he wants to party and you are a home body. After Apple Watch gate you should have selected. Don’t waste your time, your handsome and you and Monroe deserve better.
Please Jeff cut Stu out of your life. You have grown & changed so much. But being a better guy doesn’t mean letting someone abuse you over & over. Your fans love you and want the best for you.
it's funny how toxic people find each other
Jeff- you caught him already.
At this point you knew what it was when you signed up.
What is up with the old Housewives bringing along their daughters everywhere? First Ramona and now Jill. Trying to turn Housewives into a family business ain't happening lol
They see Gia Guidice getting a paycheck & think why not my daughter.
The reason he is doing this is because he’s showing you who he is. He is keeping his options open. He may believe he can be friends with Thomas. It may be that since you say he can’t speak to him he wants to to be in control. He should not want to speak to Thomas. He’s not in true love with you Jeff, I’m so sorry. He doesn’t respect you at all. My ex did this to me and this is how I know. He thought he loved another young girl but now he’s on his third girlfriend. He’ll never be happy.
Trust this truth .. it's very wise words. I've been burned like this too. Wasted a decade on a narcissist
😱🥺😤😕 Omg Jeff sorry you had to go through that... hearing this is awful....I know he's an awful brutal boss to work for...even though they got lots of perks working for Jeff...no one deserves to be treated like this...
Just the lies are bad enough
Yes. How can you even trust that guy again?!
He needs to cut those men out of his life. They clearly don’t respect him. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Oh brother! Zoila, Jenni, Gabe...how many more will it take to wake you up?! You can't be an asshole, treat people like shit, and pretend to be hurt when they toss you! Geez!
"stu is pretty vain," said the pot to the kettle
Talking of betrayal, Jill Zarin has some nerve being shocked after lying to her daughter her entire life.
Betrayer's are so sloppy!!! I married that exact repeat offender obsessed with his ex aka " the ghost " as he kept dragging me down the shit rabbit hole over and over until I had a " come to Jesus" moment!!! 🎆🌠😳🎉
He disrespects you because you "allow" him too.
Why is allow in quotes? There is no purpose to that. He does allow it and you aren't quoting anyone Sheesh.
They’re back together as of today 5/25. 🤣
Leave him jefff!!!!
The obvious question is Why do you allow soooo many incidents of betrayal? Sounds like Jeff has the problem. “ People treat you the way you allow them to treat you”. Move on.
Relationships are challenging in the best of circumstances. I can only assume Jeff enjoys the drama, on some level, otherwise why announce your business to the world. Just saying.
Jeff, you need to cut bait, and move on from this. I would suggest taking some time away from relationships. Your most recent relationships have been beyond toxic (Gage, Scott and Stu)
if you have to ask someone more than once to stop a behavior that hurts you, its a done deal they dont care at all
Drop him like a hot rock!
Fast forward over a month & Stew has talked his way back in.
How sad.
Jeff no one seems to be keeper for you, lighten up and stop with over analyzing every little minute "little thing" its nonsense... life is too short we learn that lesson everyday...
It’s hard Jeff maybe You are better suited to dating a wonderful artist or another creator like Yourself - someone You find beautifully attractive in their Kindness, Love &, Tolerance-this person sounds like a user
Distance yourself from Jill too! Not a good friend! Not a good person!
Kick him to the curb, and move on.
Jeffs theme song should be "these hos ain't loyal"
I am so sorry that your relationship unraveled . You are a handsome guy you can find someone that deserves you . Cliff note I cannot stand Jill Zaran she talks too much and is a know it all . She takes over the show and loves to interrupt .
I'm sorry jeff....dump that chump... he needs to go.. permanently
This is so weird. Why is he telling them all that? And us. Such a weird man, this is so childish and toxic.
He's an emotional bleeder.
Jeff you seem so ill, so fragmented in this cast. Try focusing on all the wonders of your life, the privledges and how much you have created. Stop repeated negative affirmation of all the ugly experiences as it will just continue. This will raise your vibration and draw better situations. Your constantly reliving it is magnifying it in your life. Focus on gratitude and it will raise your vibration to attract better.
Jeff should have gone to Ireland to understand Stu better. Now I think it is time for them to break up. Jeff is nuts.
Your gut feeling was right to run!!
Stu met that text about Jeff and that is mean! Run Jeff! You so much more than Stu.
Stu! That’s horrible this is bad.
Was this Kelly and Ricks house.
Stu will never leave Jeff because he promotes his seasoning etc. and Jeff is dumb enough to keep taking him back
Well, we gave all been there ….. me included…. Blinding love ….
Break up with him!!!
The common denominator in this story is Jeff......he's the issue! This is karma for what he did to Jenny!
Jenny is no innocent. She was mediocre in Cting and was delusional. She wanted to blame jeff for her not being successful. In acting. We only know her bc of jeff
Move on yaaaaawn
I thought Stu & Jeff were on pause & Jeff was open to other guys ?
But Jeff loves the toxicity. Birds of a feather.
Bye Stu.
he just wants jeffs money and fame... he is a professional...
💯
Jeff seems so much happier with out chef stew
Jeff, you did the exact same thing with Gage and you engaged with him in a sexual conversation; after both of you had dinner and Gage threaten you to expose the text. But you’re mad when is done to you…
If he was cheating he wouldn’t be in 2 different places he would be recognized immediately.
deceit is deceit.
jeff can’t have a relationship
The common denominator in the drama is him. He doesn't take his time. He doesn't know the people (really) that he gets involved with. He chooses poorly. Then he stays too long. He needs to be by himself and in some weekly therapy.
Wait it's 1/22/24 ... Aren't they still together 🤷♀️
Jeff, Please Please get rid of that Stu. Geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Enough is Enough.✌️
Oh crap, we’re ALL so sick of Jill Zarin. Turning off anything she’s on. Thirsty.