I have been with my wife for 19 years and we always go on trips together. I have a single time been on a work related trip and she did not like being home alone, she hates it. She never go out drinking or other BS. Party girls are not marriage material.
I made the mistake of getting with a pretty party girl once. It went horribly bad, so quickly swapped her out for a bookworm homebody. Been with her now for over 20 years.
I was married in 1966, and in the late 70's women were going on girls trips & getting divorced left & right. I refused to go on any girls trips as I didn't drink, didn't see the point of gambling & I preferred to go on a trip with my husband. All that nonsense came around again in the 90's & probably has been around some more after that. My husband died in 1997 after 31 years of marriage. Strangely enough since my husband died no one has invited me on a girl's trip, now I wonder what that's about.
Overseas trip with 3 girls and 7 guys for a month! Those "Friends" will run thru them pass them around like a dirty magazine for the duration of the trip!
That guy never said she couldn't go, he said that she couldn't go if she wanted to stay married to HIM. He has boundaries, how is that controlling? His body, his choice.
You can't have your cake and eat it too. Reminds me of a reddit story where fiance broke up with OP to go on a girl's trip then wanted to get back together when she returned. Of course she returned to nothing and flipped out. Chick she thought she could pause their relationship, cheat then un-pause and back to normal. Yeah, no!
saying "i'll never understood how boys are ghosting drop dead gorgeous girls" is a clear example of someone who knows nothing more in life than whats on the surface. drop dead gorgeous does not mean your sh*tty and disrespectful attitude will slide. the day women come on the scene with a mind as beautiful as their body is the day no woman would be ghosted ever again. period. alot of these chicks have so much self-work to begin that even if they started today, and they wont becauses its not them its everyone else, they would pass on before coming close to acting right.
If my wife went on a vacation without me, she'd absolutely be single when she got home. I told my daughter and her bf that they have to defend their relationship against all people, if they want to make it. If either of their friends try to drive wedges between them, cut those f'rs loose... or just give up and go your separate ways. You either commit or you don't. This is where people end up divorced (a majority now).
Women who test their relationship don't seem to understand their man's response. The man knows that she's not asking if it's okay for her to cheat - that's why he gets so frustrated at the question. He understands that she's trying to predict his reaction once he discovers evidence that she has already cheated on him. After this test, he will never trust her again, and you can tell the trust is gone by the way he is so withdrawn and indifferent to her.
I'm betting every woman that posted a comment that he's controlling, they're going on the trip, they're not asking, are single, never married, and in about 10 years will be making videos asking where are all the good men.
Notice how she got triggered when he said "indifferent" so calmly? Knowing how he felt, yet pushing it to provoke him failed. He evoked something in her with that one word. Hopefully it was panic and the thought of girls trip will be permanently erased from her mind.
Yeah, going on a 3wk girls trip, ah no. Her bags would be packed and divorce papers sitting on top waiting for her signature. I'm a single dad and I had this pulled on me once. I just told her like we all say, you leave here bf and gf but come back single. My boys were 16 and 14 at the time. They heard me say this which I didn't know they were listening. She left and I blocked her. Nuff said.
If your wife or girlfriend goes on a 29 day trip with the girls, when she comes back, you should go on a 29 day trip alone. If she becomes pregnant in the following months, you will know it is not your child.
You love and respect him, have realized a good marriage is nearly irreplaceable, and don't have a ton of single/divorced female friends whispering in your ear, I'm guessing. Oh, and you're probably not a cluster-B or AS personality. Women who prefer girl's trips either don't love or respect their husbands, don't want to be married, want to cheat, take marriage for granted, give in to female conformity, or are just terrible people looking to cheat.
The usual consequences of “girls trips “ are almost always destructive to the relationships and marriages of the participants and their spouses/ partners. Allowing this type of activity would send her a strong message that he has little respect for himself and invites her to think and feel the same way thus leading to behavior that pushes the boundaries of the relationship usually past the breaking point.
My husband let me go on a shopping trip, with his friends wife, but never would have ok'd a trip with single women. He knew, and his friend knew that we were best friends, and just wanted to shop, eat out, and relax for 2 nights, look at the Christmas windows, and sleep till 9 am. He also trusted me, because we had 3 children, and I wanted to look at children's boutiques, to get ideas for sewing. We had 2 such trips. Neither of us liked dancing, drinking, and loved our husbands.
As a woman, I immediately thought she didn’t offer to help him at all. Bring him to the impound place, nothing. That’s weird behavior to someone who cooked for you and brought you gifts from Europe.
To the lady who called the guy controlling, for telling his girlfriend that she should be single if she wants to go on a girls trip, that's a lie. He wasn't controlling at all. In fact he gave her total control of her situation. In fact if she is trying to force this guy to stay in a relationship where HE is uncomfortable with his wife leaving him to go party with other men, then SHE is the controlling one. Not him. If she says, no she is partying with girls, not guys, bull crap. Let's have the spine to be honest here. She may enter a bar with just her friends, BUT, I guarantee you there will be men there. What do you think these men want to do? Will these ladies be consuming alcohol, so they can blame any "mistakes" on the alcohol? Will these ladies be dressing sexy to attract other men? Don't tell me they are dressing sexy to impress their female friends, cause I don't believe that crap. Please ladies, stop with the gaslighting.
I like the dude's answer when she asks if she can go on a girls trip. Handled it perfectly. We all know girls trips are nothing but an excuse to drink party and get smashed. If she's truly committed to the relationship, she shouldn't go on girls trips.
Exactly ! My girl and I never went on trips or anything without each other. No girls nights out or work parties without spouses , any of that kind of stuff.
I would tell my wife or LTR who wants to go on a girls only vacation, to move her belongings out before she leaves, because they won't be here when she gets back. Women want the material well-being of a relationship with the freedom to act as if they are single.
Getting revenge on someone is NOT forgiveness. Forgiveness is surrendering your right to revenge. If you take revenge on someone, they don't need your forgiveness. You gave them retaliation, not forgiveness.
you she wanted to do single things .. yes be single. but be single for the rest of your life. marriage is not a light switch she can turn off and on. its one or the other! the lack of respect for her husband is huge! and to think thats hes dum as to not know whats going on.. yea right girl.. go be single on that trip and forever afterwards.
He had previously told her how he felt about it. She was just trying to provoke him and call him insecure and use that as an excuse to take off in a huff. But it backfired big time on her.
@@gabem6863 It could also be from her single girl friends. They be poisoning her mind with, "Oh, he's controlling. He's insecure. You're not his slave. Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't take a trip with us. You're a woman in the 21st century. Don't let a man tell you what to do."
A girl testing boundaries and needs constant communication is not someone reliable enough to stay in a relationship. You should already be prepping or already prepared to cut bait and leave whenever you decide to let her go, because the torture of her constant testing if an idea or activity is allowed will destroy your mental peaceful state, since, you are becoming a policeman in controlling what she does, and that's not a job you want.
They're free in over 21, they can do whatever the hell they want and I won't stop her, of course the locks will be changed, and her stuff will be in a storage unit, and I won't be married to her anymore. But that's another story for another time.
The guy came from Europe and got to know the real her after meeting her. She is guy crazy! She can't even make a tiktok without checking a guy out. Don't you think the other Europe guy noticed that? 😂😂😂
Ladies you are free to do as you want, but understand he is also free to do what he wants. What he wants is a woman who is more dedicated to him than to her friends! Women can have friends and go see them. What women don’t need is time all dolled up and gone drinking with her friends, basically inviting men to approach her!
I'm going, I'm not asking....back on the internet crying because she got served papers and now don't have to ask anymore. Marriage used to be for love, now it's for capital gain. Got married and dodged a bullet. She was planning on divorcing me and making me pay child and spouse support. Backfired when her parents found out and let the cat slip out of the bag. Hired a PI and filed for divorce. I got full custody of my! PI work is very expensive, but worth every penny!
7:17 I am actually doing very well alone. Having a home, a car, a job. Well the loneliness is a mild issue, but not much ... 9:32 Driving while holding the phone !? Dangerous and irresponsible!!!
this test is bs. she knew the answer before hand. if i was him, i would now hav doubts about my relationship. she has just blown up her marriage. it will never b the same.
You get ghosted when men realise you are not who you pretend to be. Georgous or not that don't pay a mans bill. Being pretty can get you in the door, what will you do to stay there? As for this girl he ssid, my car got impounded and she just said, "OK". Nope. That just proved to him he's in a one sided relationship if she really liked him she would have said, no problem I'll either come pick you up or what can I do to help. You need a ride some where?
He wont let me do something that has the potential to cause me to make a "mistake" that "didnt mean anything" because "i was drunk and didnt know what i was doing" = Controlling. When in reality hes just trying to protect the relationship. If the two of you were pinned down by 3 snipers, and you wanted to just walk out in the open because you think they wont shoot a woman and he says "No! Keep your head down!" Hes controlling then too huh?
If they are going hiking and camping in Alaska it is ok. But we all know that is not a girls trip. That could be a guys trip. Notice how she kept it has vague has possible.
if you want to be married both parties have to act like they are married - - if you want to run off and relive the days when you didn't have family responsibilities then you should not be married. I have seen so many variations of why being with someone else isn't cheating and its all bullshit. If you were planning on doing something that would piss you off should your partner do it then you have closed the line - - that standard has to apply equally to the husband and the wife. This BS of but it was just for fun there was no love or intimacy it was just physical is bullshit and let's be honest if you form an emotional bond with someone other than your spouse that too is cheating - - it means your commitment to the marriage is not 100%. This guy stated it in the most honest way he could - - if you want to be married then act like it if you want to act in the manner of a single person even if its simply going out to a club with your girlfriends to have fun and be around someone other than your spouse and dance and socialize then you have a desire to be unencumbered by the bounds of matrimony. The litmus test is if your plans include any action that you would not do right in front of your partner if he/she was with you because it would create a problem in that relationship then you should not consider getting yourself into a position where that might happen when they are not there. I'd like to share a chuckle from a post I saw when it said - - forget online stuff meet people the old fashioned way thru bad personal choices and alcohol
I can't understand how anyone could think is controlling. He never said she couldn't go nor did he attempt to control her. He simply told her what his standards are and gave her option to do as she wishes. What these girls don't like is there are consequences to their actions.
I go on girls trips with my friends from high school every couple of years. There’s nine of us and we’re all married and none of us drink. We spend the weekend at the beach and eating out. That’s all we do. My husband doesn’t have a problem with it because we just want to catch up after being friends for 25 years.
Do you realize how many time these innocent trips result in wives cheating. Then they blame it on the alcohol or callnit a mistake. You might be the exception, more often than not bad things happen on girls night out or girls only trips.
Say heck I broke up with a girl just for the simple fact is her and I were going to go out and she was wearing a skimpy dress outfit. I looked there and I got you’re gonna wear that she goes yeah and you can’t tell me what do I said OK not a problem. We went out to the bar and we party And when it’s time to leave, I left her at the bar because I figured she wasn’t my girlfriend no more my wife if she would’ve said that I would’ve done the same thing that gentlemen were not married we get divorce papers. They are single activities. You’re not supposed to show your body to, other men, I’m not supposed to show my body to other women. I don’t go on trips. She don’t go out on trips.
@Naadeneo There is absolutely nothing wrong in being a Muslim...I am one too (i suppose u didn't notice my name). What the person stated is what Islam teaches...a wife should dress up for her husband and not others. Hence my comment.
Yeah dude your kind of far gone bro the last story the guy ghosted her because they planned on hanging out on x day and said would talk about it the next day he contacted her and she ignored then when she called he said my cars impounded im going to work on that meaning he needs a ride she didn't care to help him at all. Not a Chad a Chad wouldn't take the time to respond to messages during a trip to Europe and bring back gifts indicating the effort and thoughts of their partner back home
Since men have to pay most/ all of the bills. she can do what she wants- unfortunately for her, he doesn't have to put up with that. He could put the house up for sale, empty the bank account, and take the kids. She couldn't do anything, because she's gone outta' the country.
I have been with my wife for 23 years and we have never been on holiday apart. When you're married, there's no such thing as a girls trip in your vocabulary. Fortunately, my wife is a traditional woman and she has no friends who are single because she knows that single women ruin marriages and always try to convince married women to cheat on them. Girls trip equals automatic divorce.
Girls, it's not controlling if a man sets the boundary that girl's night and girl's trips are no longer appropriate. WE KNOW what you girls get up to. It is single person behavior. So be single and go do it, otherwise trust you will do irreparable harm to your relationship trying to guilt or shame a man for not putting up with it. Again, we know what goes down. That's why the husband in the clip was so casual about it and ready to give her his wedding ring back. She already screwed up big time. She showed some very unflattering true colors wanting to go and disrespect for even asking how he would feel if she went.
Why are these ladies so confused about being ghosted? Everyone else on the planet knows what really going on, except the lady being ghosted. I thought you ladies were smart? How are you not smart enough to see, what everyone else sees? I will explain it one more time, so please listen. Chad's are great a chatting up ladies, but once you give up the goods, he may think that your goods aren't that good, and ghost you. Or, maybe your goods are pretty good, and he sticks around for a bit, then eventually wants a different woman. If you are a blond for example, he might feel like a red head next week, so then he ghosts you. Chad's don't settle down. Why would they stay with one woman, when they can have all the women? That would be stupid.
Stupid question. Would you think it happens in ghost trip? They get drunk are stupid and makes you know you hook up with somebody else. You wanna go go, but don't come back. You see little friends gonna help you now
Regarding the sister going to Thailand, why would i care? Shes my sister, not gf or fiancé. Id just tell her not to sit on my furniture for a few months until her sti panel comes back clean
Then you can forget the hunting and fishing trip you go on with " the boys " Right? What do you do on these " trips " besides, fishing, hunting, drinking and lighting each other's farts on fire? Bad advice bro.
I love his response. If you want to go do single stuff be single.
Or go find the guy who doesn't care that you go on girls only trips.
I like how many women say they are going on girls trips without asking. They may come home to empty house 😁
Right 😂, You're single your able to do whatever you want
I paid for my house they can find their shit at the goodwill😂😂
0:30 He's absolutely correct, if you want to act single, then you're going to be single.
They're free to do what they want. They just can't forget to be prepared for the consequences of their choices.
You cannot control what she does. but you can control how you will respond. Walk away and leave them to the consequences.
Have her served at the airport upon her return.
YUP!!!!!!
Consequences? What is that? They have no understanding of such a concept.
I have been with my wife for 19 years and we always go on trips together. I have a single time been on a work related trip and she did not like being home alone, she hates it. She never go out drinking or other BS. Party girls are not marriage material.
I made the mistake of getting with a pretty party girl once. It went horribly bad, so quickly swapped her out for a bookworm homebody. Been with her now for over 20 years.
@@genkibob I agree. Looks fade, so men should not go for the fun stunning looking party girl. A good 6 is better than a bad 8.
I was married in 1966, and in the late 70's women were going on girls trips & getting divorced left & right. I refused to go on any girls trips as I didn't drink, didn't see the point of gambling & I preferred to go on a trip with my husband. All that nonsense came around again in the 90's & probably has been around some more after that. My husband died in 1997 after 31 years of marriage. Strangely enough since my husband died no one has invited me on a girl's trip, now I wonder what that's about.
💯💯💯💯 You want to do single girl thing, then be single simplest logic ever
Direct and to the point.
Overseas trip with 3 girls and 7 guys for a month! Those "Friends" will run thru them pass them around like a dirty magazine for the duration of the trip!
Or the women will use the guys as props to get to the foreign Chad, Julio, etc. Either way, it will not be good. Guaranteed
@@meengene777mhmm
A woman's only 3 loves.
Money,
Power,
And attention
That guy never said she couldn't go, he said that she couldn't go if she wanted to stay married to HIM. He has boundaries, how is that controlling? His body, his choice.
Anything that doesn’t involve kissing a woman’s [rear] is abusive.
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Reminds me of a reddit story where fiance broke up with OP to go on a girl's trip then wanted to get back together when she returned. Of course she returned to nothing and flipped out. Chick she thought she could pause their relationship, cheat then un-pause and back to normal. Yeah, no!
@@unclelink got link or YT video with the story?
@@Roddy_Zeh sorry I took so long. I heard this 5 months ago and it took a while to find.
ruclips.net/video/P10cm161bfE/видео.htmlsi=4Nz6DtO3T7UdVomW
saying "i'll never understood how boys are ghosting drop dead gorgeous girls" is a clear example of someone who knows nothing more in life than whats on the surface. drop dead gorgeous does not mean your sh*tty and disrespectful attitude will slide. the day women come on the scene with a mind as beautiful as their body is the day no woman would be ghosted ever again. period. alot of these chicks have so much self-work to begin that even if they started today, and they wont becauses its not them its everyone else, they would pass on before coming close to acting right.
If my wife went on a vacation without me, she'd absolutely be single when she got home. I told my daughter and her bf that they have to defend their relationship against all people, if they want to make it. If either of their friends try to drive wedges between them, cut those f'rs loose... or just give up and go your separate ways. You either commit or you don't. This is where people end up divorced (a majority now).
You are right on the money. My wife and I aren't 50/50. We're 100/100 since the first day of our marriage.
Once your wife tells you she's going on a "girls trip," that's not only a big red flag. The marriage is, "OVER!!"
Exactly.
Next discussion would be "what about an open marriage", supposed the bloke agrees to the girl's trip.
Women who test their relationship don't seem to understand their man's response. The man knows that she's not asking if it's okay for her to cheat - that's why he gets so frustrated at the question. He understands that she's trying to predict his reaction once he discovers evidence that she has already cheated on him. After this test, he will never trust her again, and you can tell the trust is gone by the way he is so withdrawn and indifferent to her.
Hoemath: I went on a three week girl's trip and my husband destroyed our marriage.
LOL, it's funny because it's true.
And he is not controlling...he communicates the consequences for her possible actions. Actions have consequences...so!? 🙌
I'm betting every woman that posted a comment that he's controlling, they're going on the trip, they're not asking, are single, never married, and in about 10 years will be making videos asking where are all the good men.
Hoeflation is off the charts , it's going to eventually come crashing down sooner or later .
If it were to happen this weekend, it couldn't be soon enough. The time it will take to repair the damage that's been done... It will be a LONG while.
By the time it does the majority of men will have moved on
It's all up to Chad and Tyrone........they dominate the market.😅😂
@@IaconDawnshireWe're already there
@@jonthomson9262Nope. They control fun not marriage
Notice how she got triggered when he said "indifferent" so calmly? Knowing how he felt, yet pushing it to provoke him failed. He evoked something in her with that one word. Hopefully it was panic and the thought of girls trip will be permanently erased from her mind.
This is wisdom, let us be attentive.
Yeah, going on a 3wk girls trip, ah no. Her bags would be packed and divorce papers sitting on top waiting for her signature. I'm a single dad and I had this pulled on me once. I just told her like we all say, you leave here bf and gf but come back single. My boys were 16 and 14 at the time. They heard me say this which I didn't know they were listening. She left and I blocked her. Nuff said.
I drove her to the airport train myself 😂
If your wife or girlfriend goes on a 29 day trip with the girls, when she comes back, you should go on a 29 day trip alone. If she becomes pregnant in the following months, you will know it is not your child.
Simp
That’s a lot of work to confirm what you already know.
I don't WANT to go on vacation with my girls, I want to go with hubby and have a great time. Why would I prefer them over MY husband?? 🤷
You love and respect him, have realized a good marriage is nearly irreplaceable, and don't have a ton of single/divorced female friends whispering in your ear, I'm guessing. Oh, and you're probably not a cluster-B or AS personality.
Women who prefer girl's trips either don't love or respect their husbands, don't want to be married, want to cheat, take marriage for granted, give in to female conformity, or are just terrible people looking to cheat.
She just told him that she's bored of him. He should divorce her asap. It's only going to get worse as her resentment grows.
All the single women didn't like his answer.
My man don't play. Respect, brother.
4:02 this point. I wouldn’t let it get to this point. I dump women for asking dishonest question. She wants to be single. Make her dreams come true.
The usual consequences of “girls trips “ are almost always destructive to the relationships and marriages of the participants and their spouses/ partners. Allowing this type of activity would send her a strong message that he has little respect for himself and invites her to think and feel the same way thus leading to behavior that pushes the boundaries of the relationship usually past the breaking point.
My husband let me go on a shopping trip, with his friends wife, but never would have ok'd a trip with single women. He knew, and his friend knew that we were best friends, and just wanted to shop, eat out, and relax for 2 nights, look at the Christmas windows, and sleep till 9 am. He also trusted me, because we had 3 children, and I wanted to look at children's boutiques, to get ideas for sewing. We had 2 such trips. Neither of us liked dancing, drinking, and loved our husbands.
Women haven’t changed since the 70s, 80s. They just became more numerous and visible.
Because of social media, it's easier for them to out themselves.
"Since 3000 bc" you mean...
9:09 She didn't immediately offer to pay his impound fee. Drizzle Drizzle!
As a woman, I immediately thought she didn’t offer to help him at all. Bring him to the impound place, nothing. That’s weird behavior to someone who cooked for you and brought you gifts from Europe.
Guy: You are free to do what you want, but I am also free to do what I want.
Toxic Fems: Bad vibes! That's so controlling!
To the lady who called the guy controlling, for telling his girlfriend that she should be single if she wants to go on a girls trip, that's a lie. He wasn't controlling at all. In fact he gave her total control of her situation. In fact if she is trying to force this guy to stay in a relationship where HE is uncomfortable with his wife leaving him to go party with other men, then SHE is the controlling one. Not him. If she says, no she is partying with girls, not guys, bull crap. Let's have the spine to be honest here. She may enter a bar with just her friends, BUT, I guarantee you there will be men there. What do you think these men want to do? Will these ladies be consuming alcohol, so they can blame any "mistakes" on the alcohol? Will these ladies be dressing sexy to attract other men? Don't tell me they are dressing sexy to impress their female friends, cause I don't believe that crap. Please ladies, stop with the gaslighting.
I like the dude's answer when she asks if she can go on a girls trip. Handled it perfectly. We all know girls trips are nothing but an excuse to drink party and get smashed. If she's truly committed to the relationship, she shouldn't go on girls trips.
Exactly ! My girl and I never went on trips or anything without each other. No girls nights out or work parties without spouses , any of that kind of stuff.
I would tell my wife or LTR who wants to go on a girls only vacation, to move her belongings out before she leaves, because they won't be here when she gets back. Women want the material well-being of a relationship with the freedom to act as if they are single.
Getting revenge on someone is NOT forgiveness.
Forgiveness is surrendering your right to revenge.
If you take revenge on someone, they don't need your forgiveness.
You gave them retaliation, not forgiveness.
I forgive nobody anyways 🤷
@@kwakithailand ...That will come back to haunt you later.
The husband didn't fold
That woman that thinks men don't know how to be alone. Lmao. We are almost always alone. Wtf is she talking about?
Being alone = peace.
you she wanted to do single things .. yes be single. but be single for the rest of your life. marriage is not a light switch she can turn off and on. its one or the other! the lack of respect for her husband is huge! and to think thats hes dum as to not know whats going on.. yea right girl.. go be single on that trip and forever afterwards.
He had previously told her how he felt about it. She was just trying to provoke him and call him insecure and use that as an excuse to take off in a huff. But it backfired big time on her.
@@gabem6863 It could also be from her single girl friends. They be poisoning her mind with, "Oh, he's controlling. He's insecure. You're not his slave. Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't take a trip with us. You're a woman in the 21st century. Don't let a man tell you what to do."
A girl testing boundaries and needs constant communication is not someone reliable enough to stay in a relationship. You should already be prepping or already prepared to cut bait and leave whenever you decide to let her go, because the torture of her constant testing if an idea or activity is allowed will destroy your mental peaceful state, since, you are becoming a policeman in controlling what she does, and that's not a job you want.
He told you his car got impounded and you didn't offer to help? No wonder he's not talking to you anymore, you're just a fair weather girlfriend.
They're free in over 21, they can do whatever the hell they want and I won't stop her, of course the locks will be changed, and her stuff will be in a storage unit, and I won't be married to her anymore. But that's another story for another time.
That guy nailed it. At the end his cheating-adjacent wife beats a hasty retreat.
The guy came from Europe and got to know the real her after meeting her. She is guy crazy! She can't even make a tiktok without checking a guy out. Don't you think the other Europe guy noticed that? 😂😂😂
Ladies you are free to do as you want, but understand he is also free to do what he wants. What he wants is a woman who is more dedicated to him than to her friends!
Women can have friends and go see them. What women don’t need is time all dolled up and gone drinking with her friends, basically inviting men to approach her!
I'm going, I'm not asking....back on the internet crying because she got served papers and now don't have to ask anymore. Marriage used to be for love, now it's for capital gain. Got married and dodged a bullet. She was planning on divorcing me and making me pay child and spouse support. Backfired when her parents found out and let the cat slip out of the bag. Hired a PI and filed for divorce. I got full custody of my! PI work is very expensive, but worth every penny!
Before departing for girls night out or girls trip make sure she signed the divorce papers......
Everyone has boundaries and should stick to them.
So this is with her SINGLE female friends...
We can't stand being away from each other more than 4 hours, tops.
Circumstances arise but Im talking by choice.
36 years, going strong still.
Dj Envy is a clown
Women like that are just narcissistic shallow and Kama will catch up
7:17
I am actually doing very well alone. Having a home, a car, a job. Well the loneliness is a mild issue, but not much ...
9:32
Driving while holding the phone !? Dangerous and irresponsible!!!
My age girls trips are getting a cabin at a winery and they are other married women who behave appropriately and there will be no men in the vicinity.
this test is bs. she knew the answer before hand. if i was him, i would now hav doubts about my relationship. she has just blown up her marriage. it will never b the same.
Modern western women want an indulgent father figure who allows them to do anything they want while paying all the bills.
You get ghosted when men realise you are not who you pretend to be. Georgous or not that don't pay a mans bill. Being pretty can get you in the door, what will you do to stay there? As for this girl he ssid, my car got impounded and she just said, "OK". Nope. That just proved to him he's in a one sided relationship if she really liked him she would have said, no problem I'll either come pick you up or what can I do to help. You need a ride some where?
I always told my wife that she was completely free to do whatever I allowed. One ship, one captain.
90% of truck drivers are men for 8 hours or longer a day for a year.
And what are they for the other 16 hours per day?
/s
I understand what you mean. Just your phrasing made me chuckle.
He wont let me do something that has the potential to cause me to make a "mistake" that "didnt mean anything" because "i was drunk and didnt know what i was doing" = Controlling. When in reality hes just trying to protect the relationship.
If the two of you were pinned down by 3 snipers, and you wanted to just walk out in the open because you think they wont shoot a woman and he says "No! Keep your head down!" Hes controlling then too huh?
@10:02 looks like he didn't get that same energy back so he left
If they are going hiking and camping in Alaska it is ok. But we all know that is not a girls trip. That could be a guys trip. Notice how she kept it has vague has possible.
Like the best cow. In the barn. You have to let them go. There is a new Heifer on the way to take her place. I told a Ex Gf. This. 😂😂😂😂
My wife was invited on a “girls trip” by the wife of my college friend. She said no. She couldn’t imagine have fun without me. That’s love.
If someone ghosts you, they are telling you who they are and how they operate.
Shiny Object ... Shiny Object 😮
Girl trips are a no
That's not a committed relationship it's an open marriage.
if you want to be married both parties have to act like they are married - - if you want to run off and relive the days when you didn't have family responsibilities then you should not be married. I have seen so many variations of why being with someone else isn't cheating and its all bullshit. If you were planning on doing something that would piss you off should your partner do it then you have closed the line - - that standard has to apply equally to the husband and the wife. This BS of but it was just for fun there was no love or intimacy it was just physical is bullshit and let's be honest if you form an emotional bond with someone other than your spouse that too is cheating - - it means your commitment to the marriage is not 100%. This guy stated it in the most honest way he could - - if you want to be married then act like it if you want to act in the manner of a single person even if its simply going out to a club with your girlfriends to have fun and be around someone other than your spouse and dance and socialize then you have a desire to be unencumbered by the bounds of matrimony. The litmus test is if your plans include any action that you would not do right in front of your partner if he/she was with you because it would create a problem in that relationship then you should not consider getting yourself into a position where that might happen when they are not there. I'd like to share a chuckle from a post I saw when it said - - forget online stuff meet people the old fashioned way thru bad personal choices and alcohol
He's not controlling her, he's simply telling her the consequences. She's free to go if she wants to,but don't expect him to be there.
I can't understand how anyone could think is controlling. He never said she couldn't go nor did he attempt to control her. He simply told her what his standards are and gave her option to do as she wishes. What these girls don't like is there are consequences to their actions.
Dont ask the question if you dont want to hear the answer. Simple as that
I go on girls trips with my friends from high school every couple of years. There’s nine of us and we’re all married and none of us drink. We spend the weekend at the beach and eating out. That’s all we do. My husband doesn’t have a problem with it because we just want to catch up after being friends for 25 years.
Do you realize how many time these innocent trips result in wives cheating. Then they blame it on the alcohol or callnit a mistake. You might be the exception, more often than not bad things happen on girls night out or girls only trips.
Say heck I broke up with a girl just for the simple fact is her and I were going to go out and she was wearing a skimpy dress outfit. I looked there and I got you’re gonna wear that she goes yeah and you can’t tell me what do I said OK not a problem. We went out to the bar and we party And when it’s time to leave, I left her at the bar because I figured she wasn’t my girlfriend no more my wife if she would’ve said that I would’ve done the same thing that gentlemen were not married we get divorce papers. They are single activities. You’re not supposed to show your body to, other men, I’m not supposed to show my body to other women. I don’t go on trips. She don’t go out on trips.
Spoken like a true Muslim
@fauzmohammed6224 what is wrong with being Muslim? There are more Muslims now than Christians, I would watch what you say.
@Naadeneo There is absolutely nothing wrong in being a Muslim...I am one too (i suppose u didn't notice my name). What the person stated is what Islam teaches...a wife should dress up for her husband and not others. Hence my comment.
@fauzmohammed6224 apologizes friend 👍, no usernames sometimes do not show up due to my countries internet.
Yeah dude your kind of far gone bro the last story the guy ghosted her because they planned on hanging out on x day and said would talk about it the next day he contacted her and she ignored then when she called he said my cars impounded im going to work on that meaning he needs a ride she didn't care to help him at all. Not a Chad a Chad wouldn't take the time to respond to messages during a trip to Europe and bring back gifts indicating the effort and thoughts of their partner back home
Since men have to pay most/ all of the bills. she can do what she wants- unfortunately for her, he doesn't have to put up with that. He could put the house up for sale, empty the bank account, and take the kids. She couldn't do anything, because she's gone outta' the country.
I have been with my wife for 23 years and we have never been on holiday apart. When you're married, there's no such thing as a girls trip in your vocabulary. Fortunately, my wife is a traditional woman and she has no friends who are single because she knows that single women ruin marriages and always try to convince married women to cheat on them. Girls trip equals automatic divorce.
Dude gave the only proper response.
Yeah, but he talked too much.
It is very amusing when Chad
teaches these insane women
a lesson.
Oh lord! The woman at 9:00 has to be a parody!?
I never went on a trip without my husband. We went together 99% of the time. Does she expect for him to pay? I don't think so.
Girls, it's not controlling if a man sets the boundary that girl's night and girl's trips are no longer appropriate.
WE KNOW what you girls get up to. It is single person behavior. So be single and go do it, otherwise trust you will do irreparable harm to your relationship trying to guilt or shame a man for not putting up with it. Again, we know what goes down. That's why the husband in the clip was so casual about it and ready to give her his wedding ring back. She already screwed up big time. She showed some very unflattering true colors wanting to go and disrespect for even asking how he would feel if she went.
Women want to gaslight. Men with standards say go but don't come back
Why are these ladies so confused about being ghosted? Everyone else on the planet knows what really going on, except the lady being ghosted. I thought you ladies were smart? How are you not smart enough to see, what everyone else sees? I will explain it one more time, so please listen. Chad's are great a chatting up ladies, but once you give up the goods, he may think that your goods aren't that good, and ghost you. Or, maybe your goods are pretty good, and he sticks around for a bit, then eventually wants a different woman. If you are a blond for example, he might feel like a red head next week, so then he ghosts you. Chad's don't settle down. Why would they stay with one woman, when they can have all the women? That would be stupid.
My response ? You ain't going !!!
My response is leave the ring and get yourself a lawyer.
Stupid question. Would you think it happens in ghost trip? They get drunk are stupid and makes you know you hook up with somebody else.
You wanna go go, but don't come back. You see little friends gonna help you now
Lol off u go, and I'll block u immediately
Cars don't just get impounded..She said that Chad travels to Europe but is too broke to keep his car registration current? Stop the cap..
FIRST DUDES ON TIK TOK WITH WIFE PLAYING DUMB OR MAYBE NOT PLAYING
Ah yes, I remember my guy trips with my besties; Iraq, Afghanistan and any other third world shithole in need of American guidance.
Regarding the sister going to Thailand, why would i care? Shes my sister, not gf or fiancé. Id just tell her not to sit on my furniture for a few months until her sti panel comes back clean
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Question for ghost girl.. did you put out after all that effort? That might be your answer.
Me:”No to Western girls trip.Maybe to a trip with only good feminists/non Western women.”
I would have vetted the ones she goes with.
Did u condone him cheating? Did u call him out? Was he wrong to cheat or she the only one wrong?
Min: 8:03 Thats what you get for being so PENDEJA 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Something b weird about the first clip. The lips aren’t matching what he is saying.
The one at about 7:30. I don't think that is a woman.
You're right. That's a linebacker in a dress 😂
Envy is such a bozo
Then you can forget the hunting and fishing trip you go on with " the boys " Right? What do you do on these " trips " besides, fishing, hunting, drinking and lighting each other's farts on fire? Bad advice bro.
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