Theres nothing wrong with wanting house to be clean and with her wanting to look good. Whats wrong is her attitude/manners towards his parents! Same with her parents attitude towards his. Shame on them.
Nothing is wrong with her keeping the house and herself looking good. The problem is her addiction of cleaning and beauty. The world most famous models don't put make up everyday
Bullshit! There is a difference between trying to be perfect and just being rude and mean. She had no care and disrespected her husband and his parents. She can be clean but how she treated his family, especially his parents were just rude and disrespectful. I wouldn't want to stay married to someone like that either.
You knew that she was OCD and nquag nquag taking care of herself. You actually signed up for the situation bc she embodied what you wanted in a wife: cleanliness and her beauty if she takes care of her appearance. You were disappointed bc your standards were shallow and you didn’t get to know her below the surface. I’m glad that the both of separated and you found someone that is better suited for you. From my experience, ppl that likes a clean environment are better suited with those that are like them. Anyone lazy or doesn’t prioritize cleanliness is gonna have a hard time putting up with it.
Yuav ntxhais saib niam ua ntej niam zoo Li ca ntxhais zoo Li yam Li ntawm peb mhoob yeej Hai lo luv no muaj tseeb2 peb cov ntiam21 no nyuam CE yuav xwb thiaj g ka ntev thiab cov laug rog g tau nyob kV muaj 3 tu nyab sib txaw muaj ib ti ma nyaum Li hiam zoo Lau niam tai kV txhai NW txhaj Li thaum kV yau e kV txhai kV niam kV txiv
I agree 100% This dude probably a trash man, I can't imagine how his house looks like with a wife just like him. I can't take uncleanness people either, it's so frustrating!!!
Listen to the story carefully, he has no problem with her being clean.... It is her attitude toward his family, especially his parents that he has problem with. When it comes to her parents, she treated them nicely but when it's his then she acted like she is in another level. Clean or not, moral value and respect is more important than being clean and act like shit.
@@ibobpebplaub9354 oh, I listened to the story! You’re not comprehending my post at all. It’s like I said, he was shallow as he DIDN’T get to know her well enough bc he only liked her beauty and her cleanliness. He was unaware of her attitude bc he was too blinded by his shallow standards of what he wanted in a wife that he forgot about how important character was!
NEVER MARRY SOMEONE WHO HAS A DIFFERENT LIFESTYLE THAN YOURS. & Hmong people gotta stop marrying people when they don’t even know their background and family dynamic. Don’t marry someone who lives a different lifestyle than you UNLESS you both are willing to compromise. I understand your side because your wife is overdoing it, but I also understand your wife that she wants to carry herself as a clean and tidy person. Too many Hmong people are huge hoarders and very messy. Sometimes they don’t even have room to sit. But her family is the total opposite where their house looks like no one even lives there lolol. Y’all both crazy.
Definitely. And how a person was raised/their habits is how they will live their life. Some people likes to eat and bring food to their bedroom, making the room all stink. I didn't grow up like that and it really bothers me when people living in my house do that. But to them, it's normal because that how they always live their life. People with different life cannot live together.
Nothing wrong with being a neat freak. I have OCD myself. I like my house super clean and neat too. I even Taught my kids how to live a neat freak lifestyle, my husband have no problem with it because we can still be Respectful in our own ways and we always welcome our visitors. If the house get dirty when families visit or gathering. We’ll just deep cleans the house how we like it after everyone’s leave. Cleaning after your loved ones is not that hard to do. Plus is not like they visit every days. Everyone’s have their own ways of living so never judge. Her bad manner is what Throw everything’s off. OCD with bad manners is what she has because you can also choose to have OCD with a respect manners. Like the Hmong OG said her heart is not big, her heart didn’t have a long temper. Her heart is small, her heart is short temper so it don’t matter how clean and perfect she can be. That’s the kinda person that can never love and live with anyone’s.
Nothing wrong with being a wife who keeps her house clean. And takes care of herself. These are great traits. If you married a slob, I bet you would complain just as much. Yes, your ex-wife and her mother are offensive, but I prefer clean over slob anytime.
Thats like saying I rather be rich and evil than being poor. People these days cant think logically. You know there exist a median level of life style right? The story is talking about a OCD neat freak, just because he didn't find it appealing doesn't mean he rather be with a slob. smh. /facepalm
I think you need to listen to the story more carefully. What broke the marriage wasn't the fact that she likes cleanliness. It was because of her and her parents' extreme rudeness and disrespect of his family.
Go married her then, clean house but everything else is dirty like shit especially her personality.... This kind of wife, you can't do nothing but being in dog house or slave to her.
Your ex-wife is NOT perfect. Tell her that if she were perfect, she would not need to hide her face behind a full face of makeup. Your ex-wife and her family have obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) concerning cleanliness. What your ex-wife is, is a perfectionist, NOT perfect. Those are two very different things. If your ex-wife were perfect, she would know the difference.
It’s okay to be a clean person but being rude and disrespectful is another. You have to treat both parents the same. She seems to be only loving her own. So sad 😭 for you. Her family needs to try living with celebrities so they know it is to be treated the way they do to your parents and you. SMH…
Nothing is wrong being perfect, but too perfect will not take you nowhere unless you have the same person as you are. Always try to adapt to your spouse sometime too!
This woman wasn’t raised in the proper way by her bad parents’s parenting styles. Her parents felt raised their daughter. She thinks she is perfect by keeping things clean and perfect but that’s not considered perfectionist. That is called low self esteem and has no confidence in her life. She needs more life lessons and more skills to gaining confidence in her life. Otherwise she will have troubles dealing with people at work or anywhere she goes
A good marriage has nothing to do with who is better or worse. It’s about love, respect and compromise. Making the marriage work for both and not just one. I’m always nagging when I clean my house and I want a clean house but also me, putting the effort to clean is not easy as I have to nag about keeping it clean. Sometimes you just have to learn to let loose. Like I said marriage is about making it work for both people.
There’s nothing wrong with being clean and healthy. Just don’t portray an arrogant character that you’re above everyone because you’re so proper and righteous. Don’t don’t allow that to be the priority of your life and cause tension in relationships - learn to have fun and live a life. Being the best clean freak, so called perfect (in their eyes) won’t be what people or your kids remember you when you leave this earth - relax and live a bit. Imperfect is authentic beauty. Now a days, it is ok if people stay at hotels and eat what they want as their diet/health - you just don’t have to put others down but humbly tell them you don’t want them to fuss so you’ve already taken care of everything for ease of everyone. There’s nothing wrong with that. My spouse has health issues so we do not drink alcohol, eat carb filled fatty food, salty food and we stay in hotels for our privacy and to make it easy for the families we visit.
There’s nothing wrong with a person that likes cleanliness because I am one too. My husband likes me the way I am. I love to clean my house, dress nice when we go out, and the bathroom has to be clean like the kitchen too. I order my son and my husband to sit and even when they are peeing or pooping because when they stand, it will splash all over the toilet. So this is my standard of living and they know it.
Omg i am like you too. My three men must sit to pee! They understand and never complain about that rule. Oh they have to make their beds every morning too.
Thaub koj twb pom lawv lub neej zoo li ntawv es koj twb txaus siab yuav nws ne. tsam no koj complain dabtsi ma. yog koj nyob tsis tau nws lub neej ces txhob yuav nws xwb..yuav kom nws ua koj zaj ces nws yeej tsis ua li os.
My husband is not perfect, there's lots of mess but one thing he never like is people wearing their shoes all over our house. They are dirtying the floor. Some people has no manner when they go to other people house.
I’m a germophobe myself and it’s okay to be clean and have high expectations for yourself on how you prefer your house, body, and health to be like, but to force your personal lifestyle and expectations onto someone else and be disrespectful towards others is unacceptable. It’s just doing too much and egotistical.
Txoj neej neeg no yog ib txoj rau peb cov niam tsev ua kev kawm. Nej muaj ib txhia es nyiam2 perfect na, mloog mus hloov nej nawb. Txhob cia ib tug yog yus os mog. Tos kuv hais li los, vim kuv muaj ib cov niam tsev phooj ywg zoo li zaj no thiab os niam laus kab lia.
What's wrong with a nice and clean house? I like my house super clean. Your house is your biggest investment. Keep it clean! No one wants to walk into a pig pen bro, lol...
Being clean is something. Being this OCD is something else. I have told my sons: “go visit your GF’s…look at her family…can she come live with us and be happy the way we are…can she love our family like her own? Can you love her family like your own? I have nothing against any style of living. But I believe that marrying someone who was raised like you is best for a successful marriage.”
There is nothing wrong with been cleaned. That’s is a good woman and a good wife as long as we don’t go the exempt. People who like been clean have less visitors. People who don’t like been clean are usually lazy people. Too clean men don’t like it. Not clean men don’t like it too. So what’s up with that.
I agree with this guy. I have a nyab that is like his x-wife. I mean there is nothing wrong for being so clean but you don't need to do it of front of people's or your families. My nyab have sign on her door and said take off yours shoes so everytime anyone go to her house they take off there shoes outside.
Its nice to be tidy and self care. However when it becomes OCD its hard to step back. I am somewhat like ur ex too. I am probably mild OCD. I am not rude and disrespectful like ur ex though. My hubby and I clean after every one leaves. Hopefully things work out for u with this new marriage.
Vim yus pheej perfect rau yus tus kheej ces thiaj li nrog ua tsis taus neej, vim yus pheej saib yus tus kheej thiaj li perfect los yus tseem rau lwm leej lwm tus cem cem od.
You’re just not in your wife’s league. There’s nothing wrong with being neat and clean. Your in-laws are clean people who take care of themselves and their homes which Hmong people should learn to do too. There are many Hmong houses that are so cluttered and dirty.
I like your wife styles. Kuv xav mas nyiam zoo xwb tsis ua cas zoo dua koj yuav tau ib tug neg tub tub nkeeg tsis tu tus kheej tsis tu tsev lod. Tej zaum koj tsis nyiam zoo koj nyob tsis tau nrog nws. Tabis kuv xav tias nws yeej okay. Koj tsuas need qhia koj niam koj txiv Kom xab aj xwb. Koj yuam kev lawm.
Peb muaj ib lub tsev es clean cuag brand new los tsis muaj ib tus neeg tuaj saib peb ces tsis zoo dabtsis. Nco ntsoom tias ib lub tsev yeej muaj dirty tabsim yeej muaj cleanning tag mus lub neej. Tsis yog cleanning ib zaug xwb es yuav tsis pub dirty tag mus lub neej. Cov xav tias cleanning ib zaug kam ib tiam yog ruam tsaj ntse.
Your wife and in laws are a little shallow but at least she likes being clean and you knew this before marrying her so what did you expect? Some OGs don't know common sense manners so they end up hurting their own feelings. If your shoes are dirty just take them off period.
Zoo kawg ua koj muab nrauj lawm es tsis xiam koj lub neej poj niam zoo li no ces yuav mus lo tsis zoo qhov twg li niam tais liam ces ntxhais kawg zoo li niam tais mas
Nws tsis yog tias nws ua tau txhua2 yam zoo ces txawm yuav yog tshaj lwm leej lwm tus na lawv qhov tseeb yuav yog yus ob leeg hais lub sib haum txawm yuav tsis perfect los yus koom tau ib lub neeg sib hlub sib haum ces yeej nyob tshav ntuj nrig ces twb yog qhov zoo lawm.
It's not wrong,to be clean and perfect, but over doing and always nagging at your partner, because your partner can be like what you want them to be, it's wrong thinking, if that was anyone ,what you like it if your partner always been nagging about everything in life, I would be so tired of hearing and listening to all the nagging and not able to put up with it..I wouldn't last that long,with a person like this lady....no matter what life takes you,everyone's gonna die anyway ,why do so much to make your life so hard and miserable..this is not living life ..it's not how we should live life.. it should just enjoying life, love everyone love life, laugh peaceful mind...yeah, this lady has OCD...for sure...
Txhua tus txiv neej ntshaw poj niam nqua poj niam zoo nkauj cas koj ho tsi ntshaw kuv xav tias koj yog neeg phej xwb zaj no tsi tas yuav muab los hais vim koj ruam tsaj ruam lawm
You can be clean and neat. But to be a freak, there's a problem. I heard that some people even wash their hand until it bleed. Now that's not normal. But really, that's really not her fault. He chose her at the beginning but yeah sometime enough is enough. Young and naive love at first site lol. Live and learn
cov me tub uas tseem nco txog yus niam yus txiv lub txiaj ntsim yug yus thiab hlub yus ces muaj ib hnub twg yeej yuav pom txog yus lub neej qia dub ces yuav hloov siab rov los ua lub neej li yus ib txwm yug los nawb. yus yog yog neeg tha mab das yuav tau yuav cov neeg tha mab das ib yam li yus lub neej thiaj mus taus. but I wished I can keep my house as clean as the way she did tab sis yog yus tub nkeeg me ntsis lawm yus thiaj ua tsis tau li ntawd xwb os..
Those kind of people are just plain annoying. Just disrespectful, selfish and rude. They don’t think of others. Sad what she’s teaching her kids. Judging people and looking down on people will only make herself look bad.
Wow...tus poj niam no ces yog neeg yog neeg phem.lawm xwb. Hos tus yawg txiv no ces dev plu xwb,...hos tus niam tais no ces yog poj nab roj kub sai xwb. Zoo kawg ua tus kwv koj khiav dim lawm. Nyob ntev tuaj ces koj kawg tuag. Cov poj niam prefect no mas yua tau muab ua huab phaj xav dab rov qab. Tsev neeg prefect ntawm koj ces vij sub dub swv sub roog xwb. Yog vij sub vij sw..xwb. thank God that you got alway..brother. good job for you
Wow cad kuv tsuas hnov cov neej neeg tus txiv or tus poj niam tuaj complain txog lawv tus partner g nyiam zoo g txuag siav g nyiam zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb you the only one tuaj complain the opposite way 😀
Ntuj os teb aw.. tus niam tsev zoo lis koj tus kod ces ntshai kuv yuav tsi tuaj tsuj txog lis os. Txawm nyiam zoo npaum twg los cia luag mus yus mam tu xwb
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Theres nothing wrong with wanting house to be clean and with her wanting to look good. Whats wrong is her attitude/manners towards his parents! Same with her parents attitude towards his. Shame on them.
Nothing is wrong with her keeping the house and herself looking good. The problem is her addiction of cleaning and beauty. The world most famous models don't put make up everyday
Cleaning disorder. Rude to her in-laws. That’s what’s wrong
Bullshit! There is a difference between trying to be perfect and just being rude and mean. She had no care and disrespected her husband and his parents. She can be clean but how she treated his family, especially his parents were just rude and disrespectful. I wouldn't want to stay married to someone like that either.
Yep 👍 I totally agree with you. She’s just plain rude and disrespectful towards his family.. glad you left her..
Agreed
Agree!
Agreed
Lol, I heard that people like her is not normal. Needs help
You knew that she was OCD and nquag nquag taking care of herself. You actually signed up for the situation bc she embodied what you wanted in a wife: cleanliness and her beauty if she takes care of her appearance. You were disappointed bc your standards were shallow and you didn’t get to know her below the surface. I’m glad that the both of separated and you found someone that is better suited for you. From my experience, ppl that likes a clean environment are better suited with those that are like them. Anyone lazy or doesn’t prioritize cleanliness is gonna have a hard time putting up with it.
Yeah. Especially when you have two family living together and one is clean while the other is not. My head hurts.
Yuav ntxhais saib niam ua ntej niam zoo Li ca ntxhais zoo Li yam Li ntawm peb mhoob yeej Hai lo luv no muaj tseeb2 peb cov ntiam21 no nyuam CE yuav xwb thiaj g ka ntev thiab cov laug rog g tau nyob kV muaj 3 tu nyab sib txaw muaj ib ti ma nyaum Li hiam zoo Lau niam tai kV txhai NW txhaj Li thaum kV yau e kV txhai kV niam kV txiv
I agree 100%
This dude probably a trash man, I can't imagine how his house looks like with a wife just like him. I can't take uncleanness people either, it's so frustrating!!!
Listen to the story carefully, he has no problem with her being clean.... It is her attitude toward his family, especially his parents that he has problem with. When it comes to her parents, she treated them nicely but when it's his then she acted like she is in another level. Clean or not, moral value and respect is more important than being clean and act like shit.
@@ibobpebplaub9354 oh, I listened to the story! You’re not comprehending my post at all.
It’s like I said, he was shallow as he DIDN’T get to know her well enough bc he only liked her beauty and her cleanliness. He was unaware of her attitude bc he was too blinded by his shallow standards of what he wanted in a wife that he forgot about how important character was!
NEVER MARRY SOMEONE WHO HAS A DIFFERENT LIFESTYLE THAN YOURS. & Hmong people gotta stop marrying people when they don’t even know their background and family dynamic.
Don’t marry someone who lives a different lifestyle than you UNLESS you both are willing to compromise. I understand your side because your wife is overdoing it, but I also understand your wife that she wants to carry herself as a clean and tidy person.
Too many Hmong people are huge hoarders and very messy. Sometimes they don’t even have room to sit. But her family is the total opposite where their house looks like no one even lives there lolol. Y’all both crazy.
Definitely. And how a person was raised/their habits is how they will live their life. Some people likes to eat and bring food to their bedroom, making the room all stink. I didn't grow up like that and it really bothers me when people living in my house do that. But to them, it's normal because that how they always live their life. People with different life cannot live together.
Agreed! Nothing against any life style…got to find someone similar to us, thats all!
I like my house neat and clean too but what she did is just plain rude!
She’s extremely OCD and she’ll never can live peacefully with anybody.
Nothing wrong with being a neat freak. I have OCD myself. I like my house super clean and neat too. I even Taught my kids how to live a neat freak lifestyle, my husband have no problem with it because we can still be Respectful in our own ways and we always welcome our visitors. If the house get dirty when families visit or gathering. We’ll just deep cleans the house how we like it after everyone’s leave. Cleaning after your loved ones is not that hard to do. Plus is not like they visit every days. Everyone’s have their own ways of living so never judge. Her bad manner is what Throw everything’s off. OCD with bad manners is what she has because you can also choose to have OCD with a respect manners. Like the Hmong OG said her heart is not big, her heart didn’t have a long temper. Her heart is small, her heart is short temper so it don’t matter how clean and perfect she can be. That’s the kinda person that can never love and live with anyone’s.
Nothing wrong with being a wife who keeps her house clean. And takes care of herself. These are great traits. If you married a slob, I bet you would complain just as much. Yes, your ex-wife and her mother are offensive, but I prefer clean over slob anytime.
Thats like saying I rather be rich and evil than being poor. People these days cant think logically. You know there exist a median level of life style right?
The story is talking about a OCD neat freak, just because he didn't find it appealing doesn't mean he rather be with a slob. smh. /facepalm
You can be a neat freak and still be polite.
I think you need to listen to the story more carefully. What broke the marriage wasn't the fact that she likes cleanliness. It was because of her and her parents' extreme rudeness and disrespect of his family.
You can be clean and still be friendly and respectful and polite.
@@Yog_Los_Mas I think you don’t understand what I’m trying to say.
Wow perfect kawg tabsis xyov tseem yuav nrauj ntau tus txiv tom ntej no lau! Dim plaws ces zoo kawg mas!
High pride is what this lady has. Can't blame her. She was raised with a silver spoon that was ingrain in her. Too perfect leaves no room for growth.
I wish we have more people like her, clean house only. That’s great.
Go married her then, clean house but everything else is dirty like shit especially her personality.... This kind of wife, you can't do nothing but being in dog house or slave to her.
Your ex-wife is NOT perfect. Tell her that if she were perfect, she would not need to hide her face behind a full face of makeup. Your ex-wife and her family have obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) concerning cleanliness. What your ex-wife is, is a perfectionist, NOT perfect. Those are two very different things. If your ex-wife were perfect, she would know the difference.
That’s true!
Agreed, she is not beautiful that’s why… lol bad face bad heart
I don't think i can eat in this guys house.
Wow... I'm speechless. ... well, the apple did not fall far from the tree.
I would love to have your wife as my coach! I wanna lose some weight! I love clean freak!
It’s okay to be a clean person but being rude and disrespectful is another. You have to treat both parents the same. She seems to be only loving her own. So sad 😭 for you. Her family needs to try living with celebrities so they know it is to be treated the way they do to your parents and you. SMH…
It's just 2 people in 2 different world.
Nothing is wrong being perfect, but too perfect will not take you nowhere unless you have the same person as you are. Always try to adapt to your spouse sometime too!
Agreed!
WOW brother I don't know how you lasted that long with her! It's one thing to be OCD but there are limits to everything. She has a control issue too
Ms perfect??? Not when you have to use so much makeup to cover their flaws. That’s not beautiful, that’s fake.
I understand your situation, this is too much. I’m glad you found some one same level as you
This woman wasn’t raised in the proper way by her bad parents’s parenting styles. Her parents felt raised their daughter. She thinks she is perfect by keeping things clean and perfect but that’s not considered perfectionist. That is called low self esteem and has no confidence in her life. She needs more life lessons and more skills to gaining confidence in her life. Otherwise she will have troubles dealing with people at work or anywhere she goes
Agree
I'm OCD and like to be clean...but not to this extent where I become rude towards others. Some people are just too much
Thanks for uploading
A good marriage has nothing to do with who is better or worse. It’s about love, respect and compromise. Making the marriage work for both and not just one. I’m always nagging when I clean my house and I want a clean house but also me, putting the effort to clean is not easy as I have to nag about keeping it clean. Sometimes you just have to learn to let loose. Like I said marriage is about making it work for both people.
OMG. There's what's called compromise.
No matter how perfect you are, everyone has flaws. No one is perfect. Lol
I guess that makes me lazy since I don’t wear makeup. 😂
Me too!
Fact
I would rather sleep then getting up every morning at 3 am and spent 2 hours to do make up . Good for her.
People need to respect other people's homes.
Exactly some ppls just don’t care and wear their shoes inside, not knowing that cleaning is a hard job.
There’s nothing wrong with being clean and healthy. Just don’t portray an arrogant character that you’re above everyone because you’re so proper and righteous. Don’t don’t allow that to be the priority of your life and cause tension in relationships - learn to have fun and live a life. Being the best clean freak, so called perfect (in their eyes) won’t be what people or your kids remember you when you leave this earth - relax and live a bit. Imperfect is authentic beauty. Now a days, it is ok if people stay at hotels and eat what they want as their diet/health - you just don’t have to put others down but humbly tell them you don’t want them to fuss so you’ve already taken care of everything for ease of everyone. There’s nothing wrong with that. My spouse has health issues so we do not drink alcohol, eat carb filled fatty food, salty food and we stay in hotels for our privacy and to make it easy for the families we visit.
There’s nothing wrong with a person that likes cleanliness because I am one too. My husband likes me the way I am. I love to clean my house, dress nice when we go out, and the bathroom has to be clean like the kitchen too. I order my son and my husband to sit and even when they are peeing or pooping because when they stand, it will splash all over the toilet. So this is my standard of living and they know it.
Omg i am like you too. My three men must sit to pee! They understand and never complain about that rule. Oh they have to make their beds every morning too.
Thaub koj twb pom lawv lub neej zoo li ntawv es koj twb txaus siab yuav nws ne. tsam no koj complain dabtsi ma. yog koj nyob tsis tau nws lub neej ces txhob yuav nws xwb..yuav kom nws ua koj zaj ces nws yeej tsis ua li os.
I love your reply ❤️
Txawm pom los yeej tsis xav tias yuav zoo li ntawd los mas. Peb ua neej nyob yeej muaj ntau yam txog txij peb paub ces twb too late lawm xwb
My husband is not perfect, there's lots of mess but one thing he never like is people wearing their shoes all over our house. They are dirtying the floor. Some people has no manner when they go to other people house.
I’m a germophobe myself and it’s okay to be clean and have high expectations for yourself on how you prefer your house, body, and health to be like, but to force your personal lifestyle and expectations onto someone else and be disrespectful towards others is unacceptable. It’s just doing too much and egotistical.
Txoj neej neeg no yog ib txoj rau peb cov niam tsev ua kev kawm. Nej muaj ib txhia es nyiam2 perfect na, mloog mus hloov nej nawb. Txhob cia ib tug yog yus os mog. Tos kuv hais li los, vim kuv muaj ib cov niam tsev phooj ywg zoo li zaj no thiab os niam laus kab lia.
Neeg tub nkeeg yeej nrog tsis taus neeg nquag nyob vim yus nquag tsis taus li luag .
Vim peb qhov perfect level tsis zoo ib yam nyias muaj nyias level perfect yog sib hlub xav nyob ua ke ces kawg sib yoo es sib ntsib hauv nrhub nrhab xwb
I should try her beauty routine!!!! Good job describing your wife’s beauty routine ♥️😂
Right!!! This is where I log off!
No body perfect! Everyone has some kind flaws.
Her cleanliness is bad for others. That's her flaws.
Agree with you
H-I-G-H C-L-A-C-E
HIGH CLACE
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Compromise. If that doesn't work, maybe you two weren't ment to be. Respecting each other and your in-laws is a must.
Like mother like daughter.
Nyiam zoo xwb tsi txhaum mus luag tej tsev nco ntsoov hle khau thiaj yog neeg paub cai
Wow…just wow 😂
I am OCD like the woman in this story. One person is clean n one is not clean give me a lot of headache. Yog zoo li ntawv nyias nyob nyias is better
What's wrong with a nice and clean house? I like my house super clean. Your house is your biggest investment. Keep it clean! No one wants to walk into a pig pen bro, lol...
Zoo kawg uas koj muab nrauj lawm os yus yyav tsum yuav tus coj li yus es ob nyiam ib yam coj ib yam lub neej thiaj li yuav kaj siab lug
Nobody IS perfect, not even the one who think she/he is perfect!!!
Wow! Haib tas2 yom
Vim koj xaiv tus zoonnkauj ntshaw ntxhais nom ne...yuav neeg zoonkauj ces kawg ua qhev
I love the way your perfect wife be.
Being clean is something. Being this OCD is something else. I have told my sons: “go visit your GF’s…look at her family…can she come live with us and be happy the way we are…can she love our family like her own? Can you love her family like your own? I have nothing against any style of living. But I believe that marrying someone who was raised like you is best for a successful marriage.”
Peb ua neeg nyob txua tus yeej perfect
Wow...I didn't know people like this exist, how saaaaad...!😞
At least she takes care of her house and her face lol. Some people can’t do both.
There is nothing wrong with been cleaned. That’s is a good woman and a good wife as long as we don’t go the exempt. People who like been clean have less visitors. People who don’t like been clean are usually lazy people. Too clean men don’t like it. Not clean men don’t like it too. So what’s up with that.
I agree with this guy. I have a nyab that is like his x-wife. I mean there is nothing wrong for being so clean but you don't need to do it of front of people's or your families. My nyab have sign on her door and said take off yours shoes so everytime anyone go to her house they take off there shoes outside.
Good ocd story.
There's nothing wrong with her OCD but the disrespect against your parents and you is something else!!!
Its nice to be tidy and self care. However when it becomes OCD its hard to step back. I am somewhat like ur ex too. I am probably mild OCD. I am not rude and disrespectful like ur ex though. My hubby and I clean after every one leaves. Hopefully things work out for u with this new marriage.
Vim yus pheej perfect rau yus tus kheej ces thiaj li nrog ua tsis taus neej, vim yus pheej saib yus tus kheej thiaj li perfect los yus tseem rau lwm leej lwm tus cem cem od.
I love a very very clean house too. Lol. But I am not that picky. Having a clean house is not a bad thing. But she is overdoing it.
You’re just not in your wife’s league. There’s nothing wrong with being neat and clean. Your in-laws are clean people who take care of themselves and their homes which Hmong people should learn to do too. There are many Hmong houses that are so cluttered and dirty.
She was raised to be a snob. Don't let her train ur kids like that. They need to be humble.
I like your wife styles. Kuv xav mas nyiam zoo xwb tsis ua cas zoo dua koj yuav tau ib tug neg tub tub nkeeg tsis tu tus kheej tsis tu tsev lod. Tej zaum koj tsis nyiam zoo koj nyob tsis tau nrog nws. Tabis kuv xav tias nws yeej okay. Koj tsuas need qhia koj niam koj txiv Kom xab aj xwb. Koj yuam kev lawm.
Xav tau ib tug poj niam perfect li kod xwb tiag. Cas tseem complain thiab.
It’s good that you gave up on her, there’s no such thing as perfect..
It’s okay to take good care of yourself and keep your house clean but this lady is a bit on the OCD side. No one is perfect
Niam tais tsis paub cai es ntxhais thiaj tsis paub cai thiab ne
Peb muaj ib lub tsev es clean cuag brand new los tsis muaj ib tus neeg tuaj saib peb ces tsis zoo dabtsis. Nco ntsoom tias ib lub tsev yeej muaj dirty tabsim yeej muaj cleanning tag mus lub neej. Tsis yog cleanning ib zaug xwb es yuav tsis pub dirty tag mus lub neej. Cov xav tias cleanning ib zaug kam ib tiam yog ruam tsaj ntse.
Perfect that is not perfect
Hom Poj niam zoo lis no ces mus yuav mis kas xwb thiaj lis zoo rau nws os.
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Cov poj niam hmoob meskas es perfect ces tam sim no ua poj nrauj luam taw laws nawb lawv aw...
Your wife and in laws are a little shallow but at least she likes being clean and you knew this before marrying her so what did you expect? Some OGs don't know common sense manners so they end up hurting their own feelings. If your shoes are dirty just take them off period.
Cas zoo li hais kuv kiag lawm ne heheh....lols j/k.
Lol...I prefer a neat freak than a dirty one lol...but 3am just to do make up ain't perfect lol.
Zoo kawg ua koj muab nrauj lawm es tsis xiam koj lub neej poj niam zoo li no ces yuav mus lo tsis zoo qhov twg li niam tais liam ces ntxhais kawg zoo li niam tais mas
Nyiam zoo nyiam huv yeej zoo tabsis yuav tsum hwm tus txiv thiab nws thiaj ua neej kaj siab
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I'm glad the brother divorce his wife she some crazy ass woman
Nws tsis yog tias nws ua tau txhua2 yam zoo ces txawm yuav yog tshaj lwm leej lwm tus na lawv qhov tseeb yuav yog yus ob leeg hais lub sib haum txawm yuav tsis perfect los yus koom tau ib lub neeg sib hlub sib haum ces yeej nyob tshav ntuj nrig ces twb yog qhov zoo lawm.
That’s too much I wouldn’t marry someone like that
omg !!! 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
WOW your wife is the exact of her mother no manners, rude, disrespectful. Very petty too.
IT IS LONG OVER FUE FOR RECYCLED.
😂😂😂😂😂 funny tiag2 li os makeup tsuam neeg tuag, wow!!!! That’s a lot!!!! Tabsis txiv neej twb nyiam cov neeg zoo222222 nkauj xwb ne los?????
It's not wrong,to be clean and perfect, but over doing and always nagging at your partner, because your partner can be like what you want them to be, it's wrong thinking, if that was anyone ,what you like it if your partner always been nagging about everything in life, I would be so tired of hearing and listening to all the nagging and not able to put up with it..I wouldn't last that long,with a person like this lady....no matter what life takes you,everyone's gonna die anyway ,why do so much to make your life so hard and miserable..this is not living life ..it's not how we should live life.. it should just enjoying life, love everyone love life, laugh peaceful mind...yeah, this lady has OCD...for sure...
Agree with you
Txhua tus txiv neej ntshaw poj niam nqua poj niam zoo nkauj cas koj ho tsi ntshaw kuv xav tias koj yog neeg phej xwb zaj no tsi tas yuav muab los hais vim koj ruam tsaj ruam lawm
Tu txiv neej ruas li koj thiab li tseem yuav lawm xwb os thaum aws
Koj tus pojniam muaj nyiam huv dhau lawm es neb puas muaj phoojywg tuaj saib neb
Perfect dhau lawm los tsis zoo, ua pog lazy li previous story los tsis zoo. 🤣.
🤣 IKR nothing seem to pleased these ppl
It’s not about being perfect it’s a way of covering up her selfish and mean ways.
Hahahaha God Damn!
You can be clean and neat. But to be a freak, there's a problem. I heard that some people even wash their hand until it bleed. Now that's not normal. But really, that's really not her fault. He chose her at the beginning but yeah sometime enough is enough. Young and naive love at first site lol. Live and learn
cov me tub uas tseem nco txog yus niam yus txiv lub txiaj ntsim yug yus thiab hlub yus ces muaj ib hnub twg yeej yuav pom txog yus lub neej qia dub ces yuav hloov siab rov los ua lub neej li yus ib txwm yug los nawb. yus yog yog neeg tha mab das yuav tau yuav cov neeg tha mab das ib yam li yus lub neej thiaj mus taus. but I wished I can keep my house as clean as the way she did tab sis yog yus tub nkeeg me ntsis lawm yus thiaj ua tsis tau li ntawd xwb os..
Shoes in the house is nasty and rude. Take off your shoes!
Those kind of people are just plain annoying. Just disrespectful, selfish and rude. They don’t think of others. Sad what she’s teaching her kids. Judging people and looking down on people will only make herself look bad.
Wow...tus poj niam no ces yog neeg yog neeg phem.lawm xwb. Hos tus yawg txiv no ces dev plu xwb,...hos tus niam tais no ces yog poj nab roj kub sai xwb. Zoo kawg ua tus kwv koj khiav dim lawm. Nyob ntev tuaj ces koj kawg tuag. Cov poj niam prefect no mas yua tau muab ua huab phaj xav dab rov qab. Tsev neeg prefect ntawm koj ces vij sub dub swv sub roog xwb. Yog vij sub vij sw..xwb. thank God that you got alway..brother. good job for you
Perfect thiab normal ces yeej tsis sib haum haha
Wish my wife as clean as this one
Tus nus twb yog koj tiaj li yuav ntev li ko os
Wow cad kuv tsuas hnov cov neej neeg tus txiv or tus poj niam tuaj complain txog lawv tus partner g nyiam zoo g txuag siav g nyiam zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb you the only one tuaj complain the opposite way 😀
Ntuj os teb aw.. tus niam tsev zoo lis koj tus kod ces ntshai kuv yuav tsi tuaj tsuj txog lis os. Txawm nyiam zoo npaum twg los cia luag mus yus mam tu xwb