How To Forgive Someone | Neale Donald Walsch
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- Опубликовано: 25 окт 2017
- In this perspective-changing video, Neale Donald Walsch will help you understand forgiveness in a whole new way by putting you in the shoes of a highly evolved being. Learn more with the inspiring Neale in his free masterclass here👉go.mindvalley.com/Awaken-The-...
Do you ever not fully know how to react to someone who does you (or others) wrong? Do you ever find yourself in the battle between holding them down, telling them how wrong they are, or simply just letting them get away?
You’re not alone. For most people, forgiveness is both confusing and difficult.
Luckily, spiritual messenger and author of Conversations The God, Neale Donald Walsch, is here to help you clarify how a highly evolved being tackles forgiveness.
In this video, Vishen Lakhiani shares a story about how a thief tried to steal his phone and asks Neale Donald Walsch how he would react to such an incident. Neale gives a stunning response, then continues this lesson with a touching story of shopping at a market in a third world country.
His stories and answers may shock you, but they may inspire you, as well.
This is forgiveness, redefined.
IMPORTANT TIMESTAMPS:
03:37 Neale’s story of travel in third world country
ABOUT NEALE DONALD WALSCH:
Neale is a modern day spiritual messenger and the author of Conversations With God, which sat on the New York Times bestsellers list for 2 ½ years. Today, he is on a quest to spark a global spiritual awakening around the planet.
#nealedonaldwalsch #forgiveness #howtoforgive
Is there someone in your life you feel you need to forgive? Why not do it today?
Watch Neale's FREE masterclass and learn more now👉go.mindvalley.com/AwakenTheSpecies
From the books "Conversations with God." (1) Everything that happens in our lives we bring upon ourselves. There are no "victims". (2) In all situations ask yourself "What would Love Do?" (3) There is never a need for forgiveness. "Understanding" is all this is required. Beautifully said Neale! "We are all one." Thanks for sharing.
You are both con artists.
Simple people commit bad acts because THEY DONT CARE ABOUT ONESELF they don't care about how much stress and inconvenience they will cause ONE SELF even if you be nice to them and give them 300 Euro will still not care. Mahabarth teaches us to accept the cold part of reality you choose to ignore it and think you are holier than thou think again
Forgiveness and "Understanding" are both qualities which we are to exemplify in this realm. Having read most of Neale's books he knows this as well as anyone. John, I thank you for the note and send you greetings in the Love and in the Light of The One Infinite Creator. Mac
"A wise woman who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day she met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise woman opened her bag to share her food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the woman to give it to him. She did so without hesitation. The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.
But a few days later he came back to return the stone to the wise woman. "I've been thinking," he said, "I know how valuable the stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me the stone."
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Dave Marcum , Beautiful - Thanks for sharing !!!
now THIS is Great!!!
Very nice
That story gives me goose bumps. If only we were more concerned with great human qualities than stuff.
The strong desire or "attachment" to the illusion of all physical things and finding some sort of value in such only leads to suffering. Truth, empathy, Care, LOVE, compassion, Will, self knowledge, Wisdom are much more valuable. Honoring LIFE itself is a gem, ALL LIFE is so precious with miracles every second, that's where I have come to be with the Creator of the Universe (one-word).
That is what forgiveness is. Forgiving the unforgivable. Bidding up the price and bringing others to a higher standard. Sir, you have made my day.
My heart melts by this idea, it was very powerful. This was so impactful that I ordered Walsch's book without wasting a second.💖
I'm always searching for these kinds of people, and I'm so grateful to Mindvalley that it brings up such great souls to improve our lives.
Neale Donald Walsch is one of my greatest teacher!
I'll be indebted to him for life.
CWG remains one of the best books I have ever read.
I just teared a little. This is so beautiful I can feel it deep in my soul.
Same here. There is also a part of me that believes this man has been here before and is mentioned in the bible. If I had to imagine what Noah looked like, I would see Mr Walsch.
That's a really beautiful profile picture that you have... ♥
@@soniaferreira4779 Thank you
Very rarely one come across someone who is as evolved as Mr walsch is. Thank you for sharing this .
" STOP IT! JUST STOP IT!" Amazingness
cristybello 😃😃😃😃👍🏻
Beautiful thought, wish I lived in a world like his mind.
With time and effort you will. NDW is at Hawkins 466, 500 is enlightenment. More famous folk are here: qr.ae/TUhP1W
@@connorduke4619 He's not enlightened, he's the very opposite, he's grossly naive and his constant need for projecting his virtuous is frankly at odds with the reality that the world contains individuals who are not in "crisis" but are in fact seriously dangerous and have significant personality disorders.
@@RobertLeather I didn't say he was enlightened, just 93% of the way there. And the 'reality' is behind every lesser evolved personality, with or without personality disorders, lives an immortal soul. Which we re-discovery every time we die, or if we're lucky an NDE instead.
We can create one
I have seen ppl stealing ! It makes me understand that the person doing this is in pain and is in need ! I used to think they are less fortunate and I used to observe them silently ! If the thing is mine I would never mind offering it to them if they have a proper reason for doing it ! I won't punish ! I will just teach them in the way they can take it without getting hurted !
We are the victim and the thief. Love them both as thyself. The loving presence is the healing present 🎁 gift.
Kyle Hicks
GREAT TO SEE YOUR COMPREHENSION. !!!
Kyle Hicks
I think it depends on the harm done to the person I had lot of harm done to me in my
Life and can't get back what was stolen that was of value to me because of the effects of being abused was passed onto those I loved who were taught to abuse me I'm still questioning how do I
Forgive this
Reg I know its two years later and i hope, you changed your perspective on that painful situation, but i wanted to reply you this. Like Neal said, you forgive, by understanding, why somebody became like that, and what that person experienced in life that they are behaving the way they do in the present moment. And when you will understand, there will be no need to forgive anymore, there will be just wisdom of experience that brought you to this understanding. Take care
Literally brought tears to my eyes... 'Neale, you are truly Divine'.
I have profound respect for NDW, but I’m not sure that responding that way to the thief would actually work. I’ve tried that over and over and people who have been so deprived of self awareness for so long don’t understand. They may agree and take your money but they don’t make that giant leap into self awareness because their circumstances don’t change. $300 or $600 won’t change the life of a person who has made a lifestyle of stealing to get by. Their problems are too deep. But I dare say it’s a massive ego trip for the person giving the money. It can make you feel morally superior and super enlightened. But when you walk off in the glow of your own self satisfaction or the approval of those around you, that person will be returning to the dire circumstances of his life, the surface of which, you barely scratched.
Ana, thank you for this wise response. Nietsche proposed that the giving of gifts was not for the benefit of the recipient, but, as you say, to make the giver feel morally superior, or perhaps to assuage their guilt.
A cynic never finds peace or good in others .
Offering the money to the thief if you can afford to seems and feels like the loving thing to do. But the real blessing you give to such a person is by see them and experiencing them as Who They Really Are regardless of how the person responds to you. And regardless of whether they go back to their old ways or not. It's the consciousness and energy of love that you bring to the moment and to the person that makes the real difference, not the giving of the money. The giving of the money is the surface and is loving and important, but it is the consciousness and energy of love - that is what runs deep and is the greater blessing and healing. Because it helps to shift their consciousness to a higher level and helps to heal the fear, suffering and false beliefs the person may have.
Whether it would work or not is immaterial. It is an act of "being".
There is no "giant leap" into self awareness. Acting as Neale suggested might provide a slight "nudge" to the thief. That actionis something the thief would reflect on for the rest of his life.
We value the money we make because of the time we put into making it. We don't mind spending it on useless things because it was our time spent on making it and our joy of acquireing it. If you underbid someone, you don't value that person's time and talent. Their is a fair value for any item, but if you can give more, give more not less.
Juan Paredes Beautifully Said.
True indeed.
Juan Paredes zd
This is so true and as a species we seem to value our money more than anything..its time people woke up to the fact that money is just worthless peices of paper and we seem to value it more than the other people around us..
I have always beleived money to be the root of all evil as people will do anything to gain as much as they can even if that means taking the life of another human being in order to gain that money and in a world without money imagine how different people would be toward each other..🙏✨🌞
philip rhodes But people value money for obvious reasons !
look at how some other animals behave when it comes to sharing things, or how we used to be, when we didn’t have that.
So profound and touching. It’s so true what he said about the street seller women. Thank you neale
In a perfect world ! Sorry but we're not all on The same playing field !
So profound. It's the little things we do that bring truth and light into this world.
What a wonderful message. God bless this man
You are truly God's voice Neale. I'm so happy I can listen to you. I wish someday I meet you in person 😇🙏
That's the way I am. I think some people take that as an indication of weakness and continue to steal from me again.
I bow u Neale Donald what a kindness lesson that u teaching us thank u so much
Thank you so much for sharing this video! It moved me to tears.
WOW! didn't realise so many negative comments about an act of kindness and forgiveness... a pure act of selflessness. There are so many broken people out there with hurtful experiences and suffering the 'toxic unforgiveness'. Neale's idea of how he would have reacted I feel would have given this man a knee-jerk experience. Totally unexpected!
Maybe because we don't live in Narnia like this guy. In Narnia I'm sure it works well. In my country you would get shot or stabbed to death only for screaming at the robber. This guy is delusional.
Neale is beyond amazing!!! God bless him
Each time I watch this video I look like someone who cuts onions.
Neal Donald Walsh, thank you Sir for Your books and experiances You shared with us 🙏🏻 Your words touched me on so many levels, they resonated with my soul so easely ✨
Thank you soo much🙏🏻
Wow, so precious all teachings from Neal! So great to see this video! Thank you guys!!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I too give more than required 😇 I feel a sense of happiness in it 😇 Do we bid in big outlets??? Nooo. We show our power to the powerless ! Try to understand they are also humans who work for their daily bread 👍
Thank you Mindvalley
Thanks u made me cry.. let me see so much in the bad that happened. To me.i see alot more good. Thanks I cannot stop my tears
That is so beautiful and you are so right thank you
I would love to somebody like him as my teacher or someone near me !!!! I loved his thinking !!!
What a wonderful helping soul!!!
Wow, thank you for such an amazing answer
Thank you, indeed thank you I am grateful to hear this
I found out about Neale's book through his movie about his life. My Mom purchased it randomly and I remember watching it wanting to read the book. I was still in High School and was in a very dark place, I didn't know what I wanted out of life. Looking back, I put so much pressure on myself, I was only 16. I want to tell my 16 year old self, it's going to be okay. I wish I could tell myself that same message now. :) Thank you NDW, you inspired a speech I made my Senior Year which I announced to the entire school who I REALLY was and encouraged people to make the connection again, see smile touch. Thank you Thank you.
Beautiful.
Great! Obviously you are "creating the grandest version of the greatest vision you ever held about who you are".
Oh Pure SOUL NEAL! Blessings...Lots of Blessings to ALL OF US...
This is very refreshing
This perspective is another level.
The scars on my face tell me that this dude is insanely rich and I should ignore him until I am if I want to live another day.
Mr. Walsh lived in an outdoor homeless park for over a year and lived in a tent. Yes, he has money "now" and he is putting it to good use.
😃😃😃 funny. Well said.
Just beautiful God bless you dear Neale
thank you so much that you existing in same time line as me and inside me
Omg. Neale is amazing isn’t he??!!!!!! He’s my fave!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What an incredible lesson
This made me cry..:
Thank you sir !
So profound, so beautiful xx
"highly evolved being" is a faggot phrase, an empty bit or rather full bit o shit that conveys a newage level of ignorance as to what evolution actually is...it's a shit-ton of ignorance as to the fact that "evolved" does not mean *"matured"* you STUPID PIECES OF SHIT!!! ... Yeah, I was trying to watch something respectable when this worthless shit popped up playing as advertisement, so I clicked on it to tell you shits how stupid you are.
To answer the stupid shit's intended question at 0:23; YES, YOUR COWARDICE ENDANGERED THE PROPERTY AND LIVES OF ALL WHOM WERE EXPOSED TO THE SHIT-FOR-BRAINS THAT YOU LET GET AWAY.
Makes you a Sisi
Roll over and try to convince the terrorist that you are nice. Crazy
Lin Yen Chin I send you healing, Lin Yen Chin. You'll wake up soon. ❤️
really very beautiful and inspiring ..all should listen to this..
Undervaluing our own souls spirit and being has been the practice to fold Infront of another who tells us what our worth is . And than believing it must stop .
This man is a charlatan. I seen and know people that have stolen from others, and they did what this man says , they ended up being thieves for the rest of their life.. People, need to be held accountable for their actions.
It's deeper and bigger than that. He is actually holding them accountable in a far more evolved way. With the opportunity of self reflection through the lens of unconditional love. And he can afford to wage the small "cost" of such benevolence.
Truely inspirational...
I really love you Neale Donald walsch
the first 1:22 minutes... in the present community I live in, word would spread Very Very Quickly that if you want some money try to steal s/o phone and you will get easy money.... sad to say AND Very True!
Context is one thing we always forgot that is why it is easy for us to judge and get angry to the people who wronged us. Everyone has their own reason why they are doing bad things but it is for us on how we deal those people. We have the capacity to make or break them and so is important for us to realize that this life is not just about us. According to sir Neale, our life is about people whose lives we have touched.
This is Magic!!! There’s a beautiful story like this from the LUVAVICH REBBE (Chabad). And at the end the thief became one of his greatest students
That actually sounds pretty powerful and a change in conciousness for the surrounding environment
A lot to learn 🙏🏻
Beautiful. I once had this experience... I was at the grocerystore and the man standing for was trying to pay for his bottle of wine, but there wasn,t enough money on his bankcard. He felt a bit ashamed, as if he knew that there wasn,t any cash anyway. So he had to leave without his bottle of wine. When i was paying for my grocery,s the man had walked into the store again , grabbed a bottle and tried to walk outside but they stopped him. I don,t know , there was something about this man, even looked a little like Neal by the way that made me decide to speak to him on my way to my car. I said hey mister i have something for you,, my husband didn,t liked it and stepped into the car. I said here,s five euro. Now go back to the store, and go back to the same man and tell him, o i had the money after all in my wallet. I wanted him to have that experience so they they would look different at him or so. He wasn,t scary or strange, what i said there was something about him. What i liked about this experience was the honest hug i got from him. I said now go home and enjoy your evening . My husband didn,t understand my act of kindness but in a way i did. Never did this before but it was nice. I had the money, a car, a house, a husband and he was feeling so miserable that only a bottlenof wine could gave him the only comfort i guess.
Having a spiritual approach to such an event is important. HOWEVER, giving a thief money when he's in the process of stealing will only encourage him to keep thieving. Let's be realistic. I practice gratitude and loving actions everyday, but I don't think giving a thief money is necessarily going to change his heart or his thieving ways. There are reasons he is doing what he is doing, such as need for food, lack of income, character flaws, etc (or worse). Giving him money will not necessarily change his mindset or his circumstance. It may actually encourage him to steal more as he will hope for more people to respond as you did, Neale. In the rare circumstance where such a man may be open to a change in his life or has faith in goodness etc., you may reach one such man. But I have not seen this kind of response when I have given to people like him. What you did is a hopeful action, but it is rare that it creates change or turns into a blessing. I'm not saying to people not to do this, but be judicious in who you do this for. It will not always have the same result as you want.
Thank you sir just what I wanted you touch my hart deep blessings
Mind. Blown.
Phenomenal video
This guy is amazing
I am truly awaken by your examples and action, I was thought well from the society or community that it always best to bid less on someone since it has been a culture of one kind so we can be seen smart and wise but at the end of the day, we are valuing less on someone which reciprocates back to us since "we reap what we sow". WAKE UP!! WITH DELIGHT!! I AM DELIGHTFULLY AWAKEN BECAUSE OF YOU & I BID NO LESS BECAUSE I VALUE OTHERS WHERE GOD CAN VALUE ME TO WHAT I CAN REAP THE FRUIT!! LOVE U MICHAEL HASSEN, FROM ADDIS ABABA, ETHIOPIA
Michael Hassen I always have a hard time bidding down on something in a market for that reason. I don't want to undercut someone unless I can't afford it.
That's fine for a millionaire to say. Very grandiose.
Learn his life story and see if you still criticize??
Grandiose. Yes. That is what helps to become a millionaire.
@@HT-vs5fw BOUM! Thank you for your answer, some. Seems that some people are too sleepy to beyond the story.
I have thought about what you said, when I find myself thinking that money is the only think that I can offer to experience who I'm, and its very valid to think that it is, but the answer is no, having money is and could not be the only way to express the highest expressions of kindness. Btw I live in Colombia, the thrird world country next to where Neale was, Peru.
I am sorry... I can’t stop laughing. 😃😃😃
Just beautiful!💓
blessing words 💜
BEAUTIFUL
Love it ❤️❤️
at 4:50 I completely AGREE! When a lady works hard Give Her More $$$&& for her time and work. VALUE her great work ethic!
This is the best advertisment I’ve ever heard...
This offering the potential thief double his money if he never tries to steal again, it´s the quintessential "Jean Valjean" moment. One of my favorite stories of all time (Les Miserables).
Weird sycronicity...I am in Barcelona now and I am clinging to my handbag&phone for dear life! (I'm afraid I do have a spare 300 euros to give away 😂)
I love this man...My dream is to meet him.
Now thats a bombshell...
I hear you but most people like myself regarding the phone situation would have done at least a Naomi Campbell.
When I was in hospital the cleaner came into the room and stole my phone while I into the bathroom. There were other nurses that came into the room at the same time so it could of been any member of staff. However I decided to make a show of it and a senior nurse who was not there came in and told me that it was normal for my phone to go missing LOL. This didn't go down well at all with me. Anyways I wouldn't let any of them leave the room until my phone was given back to me. My phone was given back to me and I forgave her instantly but I was more disappointed with hospital cover up... I didn't really care about the phone. It's the principal.
I do consider myself as a forgiving person but it depends on the situation. All I would be doing by offering money would be telling the thief that I am a muppet and go do it again to someone else and hit the jackpot.
Happened to my neighbour. He offered the thief money!
I gave my necklace to the thief :)
NnAyram Levalc more fool you.
My grandfather did the same, I’m so proud of him❤️
Powerful souls 🙏
Great voice Vishnu
One beautiful Soul :)
I'm speechless... redemption ❤️
Wow!
Wonderful
This only works if yourself are not struggling 😂
You came with nothing similarly no matter how much you earn you go with nothing so it's better giving needy people and bring smile into their faces😊
NEALE in GUISE of JOHN has been continuously BAPTIZING SOUL of this present baby step based wisdom and intuition
Omg wow♥️
God's Angel 🙏
Feeling greatful to reaches to you by Mindvalley
that's so true though, why would we try to get a person selling things on the street to bring their prices down (where the person is probably living a very simple life, or struggling to survive), but never think to do that in a high end store (where the people are living very comfortably)?
Lovely soul
Sir i have first known you from the book secret and the video tape of that book . I personally want to share some of my experiences with you .God who was my first teacher because he spoke and made me understand what life is about .He gave me the test first and then the lessons what the moral i learnt is every single atom in this entire universe is binded with the unconditional love i cry when i think of god and his creation I could not stop my crying because my expression of love is through my tears i cannot talk anymore i feel oneness existing everywhere .
Engage these people with concern... as you would your own child.
DON'T just throw money at it like a politician!
I so much wish that the schools in America would teach the law if one and how to deal with emotions in healthy ways! I can't help but wonder how different life would be if we were taught how to be accountable and emotionally healthy at early ages, such as preteens, so that way when puberty is reached they have a solid foundation of how important they are.
LOVE
Is there a way to turn of the annoying back ground music or rather its become foreground, it really makes it hard to hear whats being said for me, hmm just discovered new sony head phones have a cell control plug and for some odd reason its causing muting of some channels still prefer music gone :) though
He is ❤️
Ok now I'm going to purposely try and steal Neale Donald Walsh phone!!!!
What a powerful message...thank you both of you, beautiful souls
Unbelievable! Honestly speaking Im too far from that kind of mindset..
I remember having seen a different version of this video, the end was the same but the beginning was different (the vishen part). Is there another version or what ?
I usually give food, not money. I've done that in the "first" an "third" world too...