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How old are you? 27
How tall are you? 164cm
What nationality are you? Maori/European
What Country are you in? New Zealand
Hi Lovlies,
My name is Judea and I am a 27 yr old Mama of 3 - one angel, my toddler Son and another little girl on the way - living in New Zealand. This channel is a space for me to show the realities of my life after losing our daughter to SIDS. The highs, the lows and everything in between, you get a mixed bag of “content” here but always from a place of honesty.
Thank you so much for your support!
Judea x
I don't care what the nay-sayers think.... I absolutely LOVE how you celebrate your daughter. Her playhouse is gorgeous ❤
YES!!! ME TOO!!
From Cape Town South Africa, ❤you both @Judea and @Stefanie
The flowers were absolutely beautiful that you made for Noah Lee. All of your babies are lucky to have you as their Mother.
Happy Heavenly Birthday Noah Lee 🤍
Thank you 🥹
Noah Lee's playhouse is beautiful. I think it's a wonderful idea to keep sweet Noah Lee tucked up safely.
Everything you said makes so much sense...from the permanent separation to in life you'd remove her from situations like smoking, etc. I haven't lived what you have, but I just know the impact you sharing these things can make on a similarly bereaved mother or father. Knowing they aren't alone in those feelings or finding ways/solutions to soften the thoughts. From one mom to another, thank you for sharing these things!!
I hope so, some of the heavy thoughts can feel so isolating x
Ohhh. That “Happy Birthday Noah-Lee” made me sob. You are so strong momma of 3
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Never forget how lucky your kids are to have you as a mum. You are amazing ❤
The kindest compliment x
You could take a journal to Noah-Lee and write a sentence in it each time so you have something to do for her. You could keep it for years and years. Anything you can’t say to the other children and that’s only meant for her - like “Happy 4th a birthday , Mommy is still pregnant and brother is at nursery” something like that - then she is included and you have a task as you are essentially talking to her like you would have if her physical body was here on earth.
She must be so proud of you for how hard you work for her. You are an amazing mom to all three babies
Noah Lee has the most gorgeous resting place i have ever seen .
You are the most wonderful, caring , loving mum to your beautiful angel baby Noah Lee, Echo, & your soon to be born baby girl ❤❤xx
You are such a beautiful and thoughtful mom. My heart was breaking thinking about the elements and everything you were talking about regarding her grave in the beginning. I hope I never do have to ever consider thinking about some of the things you have. I’m sending so much love. I’m grateful you talk about these things for anyone else going through them. Xo
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My late daughter's 3rd birthday was on July 13th, we just had a big party for her, too.
Happy Birthday, Noahlee ❤❤
Happy birthday to your baby girl 💗
Happy Birthday to your little girl as well, my late little girls 8th birthday passed two weeks ago 😊
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Judea, you don’t look a day older today than you did 4 yrs ago! I can’t believe how time flies! You always look so beautiful as you have a natural beauty & I know that Ever will be so beautiful & perfect!
I made a flower bed like that for my Grandma & I love how you continue to honour Noah-Lee’s life 🤍🤍🤍🤍 Happy Birthday sweet Angel in heaven. You are missed by so many around the globe. Sending you prayers 🙏🏼 for a quick, pain free labor (water birth again?) & a speedy recovery! Love from Susan in Toronto Canada 🇨🇦 8:43
It's take alot of strength to be unapologetic you !! ❤ Thank you for sharing your life with the world 🌎 It’s not an easy task in this current climate of the internet. The house is amazing 🌺💮🏵🌷🪻⚘️🌱🪴🌹💐
Happy Heavenly birthday, Noah-lee. Beautiful flowers Judea you are a great mom to your babies
As soon as you said happy birthday at the end the tears came. Ugh, you are an amazing woman and mother
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I think it’s so impactful that you have this opportunity to do things for Noah-Lee. We all have our grief journeys and you honor what your heart tells you. Thank you for sharing her with us. 💞
Happy early birthday Noah-Lee!
You’ve created such a beautiful space and she is protected from the elements and can just be safe inside her playhouse decorated just like her bedroom. What a beautiful safe loving cozy space for her.
Happy birthday Noah Lee!❤❤❤ Her play house and flowers look beautiful Judea. I love them❤
This made me cry omg happy birthday 🎈 sweetie 🌈
Happy Birthday Noah Lee ❤ you have become a part of my heart and I think of you and send prayers to you often.
"The cogs didn't stop." That's something I've been thinking about a lot lately. I cannot at all relate to what you've experienced, but I lost my mom in February and the hardest thing to navigate has been the fact that everyone and everything just keeps going. I am not a mother and cannot know your pain, but something about watching your videos gives me a comfort and encouragement that I desperately need in my life right now. Thank you for sharing pieces of yourself with us 💛💛💛
I agree! Im a mama and haven't lost my babies, but like you I lost my mum in March. And it's been hard for me to see everyone getting on with life, which I'm happy for them but I get lost and sad that I get scared mums being forgotten.
@@tylahoc9271 I am so sorry for your loss. I find myself talking about her all the time and wanting other people to listen, because like you I worry that she'll be forgotten. I'm sending you love and comfort and much grace. 🧡
Im so sorry for your loss i send you a virtual hug!! ❤
The new flowers are beautiful ❤ you are so loved little noah 👼
The playhouse is an amazing idea!!! You're such a cool mum. Beautiful idea :)
You have made such a beautiful resting place for your beloved Noah Lee. Such a loving and caring tribute to your first born daughter. It is something no parent wishes to experience. I wish you the continued strength and courage each day to travel through your journey as a Mom without her physically by your side. May her memory forever be remembered and carried in the hearts of those who knew and loved her. You are a remarkable Mom. 💔👶🏻😍🤰🏻🩷
Happy birthday Noah-Lee 💖 your mom is amazing 🤗 the flowers are beautiful Judea. 🌸
I feel gutted just seeing the surface of your pain. You are such a good mother. There’s no bond like a mom to her baby. The people who can’t comprehend, should be thankful they haven’t experienced. I have two babies who I never got to meet, and two with me now (a toddler and a one-month-old). Part of me will always be watching over the ones who I lost. It feels like a part of your soul you can never get back.
Beautiful little dolly
In her gorgeous little house
The flowers look so pretty.
Your the sweetest parents
Happy birthday noah Lee 🧸🤍
Best wishes for Noah Lee's birthday month. Our baby also celebrates his birthday towards the end of the month, many decades later we still celebrate his arrival and passing later in the year. I relate to so much. It's very painful to think of them buried below the ground, for me I constantly wanted to dig him up in the middle of the night without anyone knowing, the feelings are so overwhelming. As the long years have passed my faith has enabled me to ask him to intercede for us as a family, little saint that he is. Over time, I can see how much his prayers for us have helped. With love to you and Brogan. The agony of baby loss is tragic. Prayers for you all, happy heavenly birthday to Noah-Lee and all the best for a safe delivery.
What a beautiful comment!! Its made my problems of the day (financial worry) seem insignificant when I see so much suffering around me. Best wishes x
The flower bed looks beautiful
Hey I just found you, I wish I could watch all your old videos. Sending you Light & Love. Your voice is so calming btw.
Looking at the stars of Noah Lee, makes me excited to see if Ever will look like her big sister ❤
let the naysayers be. you're a wonderful mom and noah lee is always going to be loved deeply!! time flies but some pain never fade. i'm so proud of you judea!! lots of love and blessings to you and all of the kids
The new flowers look so beautiful, Judea. Happy Birthday Noah-Lee. 💗
Happy birthday sweet darling Noah-Lee ❤ always in my thoughts.
It’s beautiful, Judea! 🌺
Love those flowers!! Beautiful ❤
The oldest house grave I know is a 1860 grave, over the years they replace it and made it a brick house. I thinks is very beautiful and unique. I would dedo the same if I had to. Xo ❤
I love the videos about Noah Lee things :3 I also love the playhouse and I love seeing her daily outfits you lay out for her 🤍
Looked lovely and colourful. I know you might not read this but you are so strong and a wonderful mum to all 3 of your babies ✨🏵🌻🌸✨
It's literally midnight and I have work but I'm watching this first. Love you girl ❤
I hope you enjoyed it x
@@Itsjudeaaa always love your vids babe
Wow absolutely beautiful ! you are an amazing mama to continue doing for ur daughter even when she is no longer with you i cannot even imagine ur hurt or pain and i am truly sorry for ur loss. i think its beautiful that you still keep her safe and her playhouse is gorgeous i love it ❤
Beautiful flower bed u created for your sweet little girl I bet she is rejoicing in heaven w you 🥰🥳🌸🌺🌈⭐️💜🩷
Such beautiful flowers!!❤❤
This is so beautiful. Sending love to you mama, Noah-Lee, Echo and lil bubba 💜
Sending you a big hug, Judea 🌸🌻💖
HAPPY 🎂 ❤ BIRTHDAY NOAH LEE 😘😘😘
Hi Judea. Noah-Lees playhouse is beautiful, just like the little girl it’s protecting from the outside world ✨ You really are an awesome Mama X
I remember my mother saying that after my sister was buried, she would feel worse when it rained. Dealing with the death of someone is an emotional experience that’s on another level, it’s not a rational thing. So it’s understandable that you made the house, I think it’s beautiful and it represents your love.
Happy birthday Noah-Lee ❤
Just beautiful darlin!…I’m in so much pain just going to my daughters grave!…I hate that she is there period!…you have inspired me!❤️❤️❤️
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So beautiful! You could get a top coat and spray the flowers so they can keep there color for longer? Idk how it’ll look but I think it would just make them looo a little more shiny?
It'sooking beautiful Judea all ready for her birthday
Happy heavenly birthday, baby Noah-Lee 🤍🎀
Noah Lee little house 🏠 is so sweet 🥹, you need to celebrate your daughter any way that makes you feel close to her 👼🌸🥹💕. Your amazing mother 🫶🥰 Much love from Debra in Maine 🩷
I can’t believe Noah would have been 4. Sweet Angel baby. She was always an angel just on borrowed time. You are an amazing mama! So proud of you, Judea!
happy birthday Noah Lee 🤍 sending love always to you
Can you spray the new ones with a clear sealant to help with weather protection?
Good idea!
Happy Birthday Little Angel 😊🥳😍
I admire you so much❤
Ur an inspiration for others and brave showing u can be ur true self regardless of what others do and believe ❤life does go on however many others experience loss too so u are not alone 💖 💙 sorry ur relationship with ur hubby has changed through grief i understand its hard. ❤ur doing such a beautiful selfless act for ur daughter solo so please be very proud of urself 💓 💖 💗 💕 💛 happy birthday Noah Lee 💖
Happy birthday to your angel baby
Sending all the love as always 💕 you are a wonderful mama 🌷 p.s the flowers are gorgeous 😍🌷 Where did you get them from? Xx
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Hi so good to c u that’s so lovely what u have made for Noah lee her little home is beautiful u r amazing don’t u ever forget that u r doing everything u can to make your baby’s life’s as wonderful as u can they r all so lucky to have such a lovely caring mummy happy 😊 4 birthday Noah Lee love and kisses thank u for being so strong and letting us in to your life stay well and happy take care from Jackie 👼💕🌈🫶🦄🌸🌺🌷🎂🍭🧸🎀🎉🎈
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This all makes sense, as a mother, but the playhouse also made me think about other cultures and how they make tribute to those passed. There’s no one way to this - we are only really restricted by any laws or rules - so why not do what makes sense to you.
Her play house is beautiful. I would have called her by her name but I’m sorry, I don’t know how you sped her middle name ❤❤
Is you baby daughter soon to be, name ever-lee? Precious if so.....
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I don't get why women wear the crop top or show their belly when pregnant i see that everywhere
It actually doesnt look cute
Think a nice maternity blouse looks nice the showing belly while pregnant kinda gives trashy look
But i see it all the time 😂
Then wear a maternity blouse during your pregnancy 🥰
@@Itsjudeaaaits just not the cutest thing
Its cute when your belly is flat but dont cut it with buddha belly
Happy Birthday Noah-Lee ❤