I talked to my Dad (84 years old) over Facetime a couple months ago and he told me that he'd lived his life and that if he went out tomorrow, he'd be cool with that. I said to him that he shouldn't be talking crazy as he could live until he's 100 (like Bill Murray says he wants to in this video) and he laughed and said 'oh no, I surely don't want that!'. He just wasn't enjoying the process of getting old. Two weeks later, he died suddenly and peacefully, with no real underlying illness. Everyone has their own wish as to how long they want to stay or in what manner they want to leave this earth and I'm glad that my Dad got his. Thanks for everything Dad.
@@dougstyles Thanks Doug, he was. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of his death. Still feel really lucky that he got to leave on his terms as he had well above the average amount of tragedy in his life.
@@seancullen99 My Pops is hanging tough but has COPD and keeps smoking. He's in Florida, I'm in Az but I get down there at least once a yr to see him. I dont even ask him to stop smoking anymore, may as well let him enjoy himself. He served in the Navy and grew up in NYC. He survived all of that so he deserves to go on his terms. It's not easy but life rarely is. Take care Sean.
That's a skill many could use in conversation. I used to be so hot to get my thoughts out there. I started hanging around with a man who's thoughts, while not necessarily being an oratory, took time to form. And they were always worth hearing. Now, I try to always give others the time they need in conversation..as the rewards of hearing them out are often worth the wait.
I met Bill Murray once when I worked for a 4 star hotel. I didn't notice him at first glance but when I came upon him I said hay Bill, and he actually said hay how's it going? I was surprised a bit and alittle overwhelmed because that was the first time I ever saw a famous actor in real time. He talked to me very calmly just like in this video and I just talked to him like an ordinary person. He's a really cool guy. I was too embarrassed to ask for a autograph since he spent like 10 minutes talking to me. I did mention that I loved his movie "what about Bob" and he smiled from ear to ear. He said to me, well judging by your age I thought you would've said "Caddy Shack" He actually said that to me! Awesome fellow..
Kevin Smith check out the Netflix documentary on him. It confirms your experience. Now when I come to an impasse I ask myself WWBMD? Happier and more alive than I’ve ever been. Bill is zen.
@@uprightfossil6673 grew up with his movies. I'm a movies guy. I love all genres.. Well most. But Bill is my guy.. Loved his older comedy. But I really enjoy his dramatic roles when he does do them. Lost in Translation. That had so much.. Just my opinion as Punksatony Phill
I recently dealt with a mental illness that nearly became a disorder, and Bill Murray described that state of mind perfectly. Stress and anxiety can cloud your mind to the point that your not present or even alive. Only to live within whatever you're thinking about. It's depressing and miserable because you want to live but your simply "not here" which is why I started seeing a therapist and it changed my life.
@@FLASHAHOLIC_TV Yes, but with depression the order is different. The illness creates the ruminating, and clinical depression is hell on earth. A maze you can’t get out of. You can’t make the agitating motor stop. And the body can become almost catatonic. And it certainly does make you believe the worst. In fact it will try to kill you that way. It can be subtle, or extremely aggressive in the mind even as you fight it, your voice gets smaller. It leads one there. Very dangerous.
There's people criticizing cause he got money, he look "weird" and wanna be "deep", etc... come on, a little empathy. What he said is meaningful and connects with many people out there.
A good number of people just lack the framework to understand what he's even talking about. It's really too bad, they're busy chasing after something that will never make them happy. Happiness is always right here.
I've often thought about that line. It certainly struck me at the time I first saw it. There's a Monkees song ---yes, I'm bringing up the Monkees in this serious chat---written by Micky Dolenz call IT'S MY LIFE. The lyrics echo much of what this conversation is about, or st least touches on similar areas. It's a good, self-examining song that could only have been written as you grow older and reflect on where you've been and where you're going, and how you want to proceed. And it's hopeful. (So, in one small step I've managed a giant leap---from Clint Eastwood to The Monkees, a journey that's sort of, metaphorically, the distance equivalent of that between the Moon and the Earth)
I think that is part of the reason he got so popular back when I was younger. Always seemed like your average joe. Funny as hell. Hair never perfect like Hollywood stars. Face never perfect etc. Always just a down to earth dude on and off the screen. Real people relate to that. Same with jhon candy. Dan akroyd. Robin William's. The list goes on. All seemed like regular people on and off screen that never let fame go to their heads.
@@talkinsmak - it's part of why Will Ferrell is a hoot. They even make fun of his homely appeal in The Other Guys. "So why are you with Alan? I mean... uh that's not what I meant..." ruclips.net/video/Khitaf5fFw8/видео.html
@@holysecret2 Performing in a Broadway play or movie or TV show never has anything to do with how an actor or actress "acts" any where else...heart of gold on their sleeve and humble.
@@holysecret2 It is possible I do not understand what an "interview" is, the definition, the dynamics of such an activity. The person interacting in this event, the one with the name of Bill Murray...is an actor. At no time does a person who is an actor other than when employed to do so use such a skill set...?
@The Rockall Times some give up all those things to find meaning like monks, yogis and jesus. Food is necessary but food doesnt take away spiritual hunger. Seekers fast and try to conquer senses and emotions that they could see beyond physical. There is the light and we are mirror that reflect it but mirror is covered in dirt and dust. Clean the mirror and see the light.
*Really? Well, I'll be in for a shock then, won't I?* ( *Unless it's possible to verify a 'thing' in some manner that's consistent and doesn't vary...then it ISN'T REAL* ) *It's odd how many thousands of records still exist from the 'Rome of Antiquity' among records from other 'Nation States' and NOT ONE OF THEM mention any 'Miracle worker' named 'Jesus of Nazareth' from that time period...you'd think the hundreds of miracles performed by Jesus and his Apostles would've made some degree of impression worthy of being written-down, but no* *I can easily find 'grain import records' and even 'who was fucking whose wife' in Rome then and even instructions on how 'Piazza bread' was distributed and the size of portions and the 'market price' for fine silver by weight...BUT NO JESUS!* *'Pontius Pilate' was real, with many independent sources to prove it...yet there's NO ROMAN RECORD of his ever having any involvement with any 'deranged Jewish carpenter' who thinks he's 'Divine'*
@@gerrynightingale9045 your mistaken. The Romans kept detailed records of many crucifixions, Jesus was one of them. The Koran also mentioned Jesus. Also, they recently demolished a prison in israel and underneath the floor was an ancient mosaic detailing some part of Jesus' life. BTW, his name was Yeshua, so your looking in the wrong place. Take care.
I watched Groundhog Day just yesterday. That movie will be around for a very long time because it's so spiritual & philosophical while at the same time it's a comedy. I mean, what would you do if you were livin' the same day over & over again? I know I'd be tempted to push the envelope more, to break the rules more & to definitely take more chances.
@Delon Duvenage I always appreciate the words of older people but,being able to spend a few hours talking with him would definitely change my life for the better.
He's a 'good' actor if he can make you cry...or cry himself automatically. This 'actor' is describing the moral of the story of "Groundhog Day". His mannerisms are curiously the same.
Betsy Lindsay --I love that he’s talking about all of us, being real with everyone we’ve met, rather than rushing thru everything we do, not meeting our own eyes much less other people. Lovely.
You know. This interview makes me realize how much this man and his movies and characters have had an imprint on my life. When Mr. Murray does finally pass on. I will be sad. I will shed a tear. Live long Mr. Murray and be present and available and the right causes will call you. Cheers.
My interpretation of Bill's answer is that generally people stroll through life, unaware that we are actually alive, distracted by things like our jobs, families, money etc. Bill would like to just feel more aporia time of being alive in the moment and not be thinking about the future or the past, but to be in the moment for as long as possible. For instance if I were to tell you to live in the moment right now, you'll appreciate life right now because I planted the idea on your mind, but you will forget this later and go off and do something else to occupy your time. Bill wants to feel that appreciation and contentment of life for longer without distraction.
There is a difference though between, being content with where you are now and using that as a justification to not strive for anything vs. Being content that you are on a path with goals in mind.
NoRosesForMe I like Bill Murrays work, but as a human being I think he kinda sucks. There's that footage of him where he's up for some award and when he loses, instead of clapping the winner graciously, he just sits there looking poisonous, like the most entitled dickhead imaginable. There's also his weird behavior towards Harold Ramis when making Groundhog Day, and just lots of other little stories of him being completely up his own arse. As far as hippies go, I'm kind of one myself in many ways, but I cannot abide how a lot of them spout the most turgid, empty banalities concerning their internet-assembled spirituality. It makes me want to throw up up, frankly. Peace.
Polecat Slam yeah him and ramus got into it.. you've never had that happen in life?? i've lost many a friends... but the fact is.. bill murray thinks award shows are stupid.. and hes right.
LastbutNotFirst Of course he's allowed to think that, but it showed zero class not to grit his teeth and applaud the winner, and if he hates it so much, he shouldn't have shown up there. From what I read about the Ramis thing, he just randomly threw out a long term friendship which they never really reconciled, much to Ramis' confusion. I know all that's not really anyone elses business, I'm just saying the guy strikes me as a bit of a weirdo/narcissist.
yea but kinda aging horribly...reminds me of a song lyric..'hope I die before I get old' Not into plastic surgery etc, but watching what I eat, drink plenty of water, exercise. If things really go down hill, probably become a recluse...
Interesting how people frown on cosmetic surgery yet approve of dental whitening kits, braces, sun tanning, toupee/wigs, body hair grooming/waxing/laser regimens, weight-training regimens, tattoos, piercings, circumcision, wart removal, anti-wrinkle/anti-acne/anti-pigmentation skin care products, hair dyes and makeup. Such curious double standards. So long as Bill shaves, dyes and trims his hair, whitens his teeth, and covers up unsightly age-spots...he's apparently aging "authentically" because a scalpel wasn't involved. 🙄
@@williambrandondavis6897 hes 70 now.. he also had acne scarring as which definitely add to it.. he isn't extremely attractive actor so I think people judge him worse
I have respect for all the comedians that help all of us smiling. Bill is one of them and I could spend lots of time listening him talking about serious things.
I can relate.. I wish I'd spend less time feeling like being on auto-pilot, taking things for granted that have become "trivial" with age. I wish I could feel more present - I wish I could be more me, instead of giving answers and showing feelings that are "acceptable" to give and show. I wish there weren't so many days that to me seem like "just another day", when infact not very far in the future, I will run out of days.
I think this everytime I see my little boy asleep. I kick myself in the ass and say...don't waste any of this time you dumbass...these memories only happen once. Today we are so full of work, and money matters, government this and that, and trying to find a moment to sleep or be amused with something. Gotta keep the focus...life slips by like a paper boat in a rainstorm...
Same thing happens to me with my daughter. I look at her playing (she's almost 3 yo), and realize that this moment will never happen again. She will never have 3 again, nor will have that pure innocence look on her eyes. It is empowering and at the same time frightening to realize this. You want to squeeze every second of that moment, and all of a sudden your cellphone doesn't matter, your job doesn't matter. Everything is less important when you face that reality. And the same thing will happen to us on our deathbed. Imagine that moment, imagine that you're in your bed, dying, and you have just a few hours left to live. What's really important now? Your family, your friends, your love. What are your regrets? Not having money? fuck money. You will regret not having done that, or loved that girl, or hugged your wife/daughter a little longer. Not saying "I love you" enough. Keep this things in your mind. Love, hug, say "I love you" often. Do what you want to do, even if it's frightening. These are the only thins you'll regret not to have done when you're about to die.
But then again, what does love and friendships matter if everything and everyone returns to dust? They are really as meaningless as the things you mention like money and career and status. Nothing we say or do matters after we're dead and the ones we loved are dead and nobody will remember or care a hundred years after you're gone.
there is no deeper meaning your life means nothing to us 7.5 billion people explain what you mean before spewing up some grade school philosophy that's been regurgitated for decades you piece if shit
@@yourmomismyepicmount35 Were pretty much bacteria on the surface of the earth. Probably here to maintain the planet like everything else is. Unlike every other species we have done the complete opposite of that and started destroying the planet. We dont deserve happiness.
Life has meaning? Life does not have meaning? So far, we haven't found life anywhere else but here. Further, no species comes close to the level of cognitive ability humans have attained. And that, in a very, very short period of time. Universe, 13.77 billion years old. Human beings, about 250,000 years old. In a cosmological instant, we exploded upon the earth, filling every corner, modifying the planet's structure, extracting material from it, formed mass communication networks, discovered secrets of the mechanics of nature, used it to invent things that can obliterate all life thousands of times over, beamed our location out into the darkness of space, launched humans into that darkness, built machines circling the planet.... ...all in a cosmological instant. If you were watching the formulation of the Universe, you'd EASILY miss us. It happens so fast. Regardless of gods, regardless of souls, regardless of good or evil, right or wrong. We are significant. In a fundamentally extraordinary way. So in light of that, consider, then, what we do to one another.
Excellent point. I've struggled to put my finger on what's happening in that movie - to articulate why it's so deeply compelling. I think you've done precisely that with your comment.
Yes. The characters in "Lost In Translation" are lost and yearning for some meaning. And they find it for a couple of days and become fully alive. And then it passes. It's beautiful, melancholic, transient and uplifting. I don't think Bill and Scarlett have been in anything better. It caught them both at exactly the right time.
I thought it was extremely boring, however, I find him really interesting here. I love him in other movies, I guess these things are subjective. Glad you liked it though. Variety is the spice of life.
@@BeatPoet67 Lost in Translation wasn't uplifting for me, it punched a hole in me for a day or two. It's all subjective of course. Similar to Romeo & Juliet; La La Land was different because they spent years together, but it also had that same feeling.
I love this answer. One of my biggest fears is not necessarily growing old, but feeling old. Tired, hopeless, alone, and theres nothing left for me to do worth doing. As long as I have my youth within me, I shouldn't be afraid.
And the childlike nature whether, be some of the innocence, curiosity, play or care free nature is hat I’m trying to get back to in some ways. So I don’t fall into deep sadness or melocholy, stress as you get older
@@louiereed829 All of it. It seemed like such a pointless nothing of value movie. Murry's character had nothing going on. The young woman had nothing going on. It was like the most boring few days of two boring peoples lives that was going nowhere. I'd rather watch white paint dry on a white wall. At least there is hope to paint that wall with some interesting colors once it drys. This movie leaves everything else to desire besides the movie. Somebody should put a few hundred bullets in this movie so it dies and is never resurrected for any reason. I went to Vegas for a week once and I'm not famous and my time in Vegas was way more interesting then this movie. I didn't even do that much well in Vegas but each day was more interesting then anything that happened the entire time in this movie. Guess I should write parts of my life into scripts in one week long increments. I have many days and weeks of my life that were more interesting then this movie. A movie should never be less interesting then peoples real lives.
Bill's a smart guy. I think he's talking over the interviewer's head. It's like he's trying to capture the perfect words to get his point across, but he's having a difficult time of it. HE knows what he means.
rklewis2 Bill looked for the words in the wonderful silence, the needed and respected silence...but make no mistake, we know what he means and this superb interviewer understood him perfectly
I ponder this too. I sat there and pondered about the problem of distractions in my life, got an "its cold outside" message from a coworker, posted a groundhog day link to FB and found this diamond of clip. which fitted my first pondering perfectly :O
I 100% love Bill Murray. He's one of the all time greats. I remember one time Sunday Morning on cbs did a piece on him. He had nothing going on in his life (no new movie, no new book). He literally just called the show and said why don't you bring your cameras and come visit and they did. And it was a great and fun piece. He's just such a funny and interesting guy and I have been a fan forever.
That is some extremely skilled interviewing.. Knowing exactly when to speak and when to let the interviewee speak. It's because of guys like that that we get speeches like this from time to time. In a world where everyone is yelling over one another because they think THEIR thoughts are more important... Sometimes to just stop and listen like this even though it seems so simple is amazing.
When the realization of your own mortality really starts to sink in, is probably when you understand best what are the things in life you should do, or should have done, or wanted to do, and he has definitely crossed that threshold.
I have chills and tears in my eyes. It’s so rare that someone who has been swallowed up by the monster of celebrity can still be a pure, true human being. He really does seem to embody the concept of treating others how you would want them to treat you. Hard enough for a normal stiff to practice that philosophy, I would think it would be just about impossible for a celebrity. Too many get jaded and resentful of the constant autograph resellers, fans who don’t know how to act and stalkers who want to kill them. This to me speaks even higher to Bill’s integrity, compassion, empathy and generosity. My hat is off to you sir.
"it's a hell of a thing, killing a man. You take away all he's got, and all he's ever gonna have" - Clint Eastwood, Unforgiven. The most profound movie line, I'll always remember it.
What an incredible guy. He plays at the Pebble Beach Pro Am Golf Tourney every winter and frequents a little family run restaurant in the next town over on the Peninsula. He struck up a friendship with the owner and his family that has stuck. The owners daughter told us Bill sends the family a Christmas card every year and includes a personal note to her every year asking how she was doing in school and now her career (in art). Has been going on for a decade or more. An amazing human being. What other motion picture icon would ever do that?
Abram Despain I just tried to watch that again the othere day. Something wrong so I did not get any picture. I just listened. I've seen it so many times already. So many golden nuggets of wisdom in there. Wouldn't it be amazing if we ALL were allowed to reach our full potential? Life would be truly beautiful and we'd stop hurting our planet.
No, I would expect this level of thought and self-awareness from Bill Murray. Good on the interviewer to get it out of him, he's usually got his BS shields up when dealing with media types. I think he really considers himself as an outsider, not really fitting in with the mob. My first jolt of this guy's genius was Lost In Translation, what a great film. For me it put all of his previous work in a light I had not realised til then. Such a great person, he deserves to be happy.
Yeah, I remember coming in that day. You said you were going to make up a story about Bill Murray coming in, and he asking to help him shop! Well, except you left out the part about the kielbasa in the walk in freezer.
Bill Murray is definitely like Robin Williams always going out of his way to make strangers smile it’s what makes him happy... He knows what Hollywood is really like he is a good guy...
He has a home in Charleston and when we visited there the locals said he was a super nice down to earth guy! They were very protective of him and would not come close to telling us where his house was. You could tell he was very respected.
+Michael Felix you're almost right but you've got the names mixed up. He thought it was written by Joel Coen of the Coen Brothers(Fargo, Big Lebowski, Burn After Reading, etc.) but it was really Joel Cohen(Cheaper By The Dozen, Daddy Day Care, etc.)
Bill Murray is the epitome of fame who is not full of one's self, no plastic surgery, no Botox, no self-depreciation....just mellows like a fine wine and appreciates himself but yet humble. I'm sure he's wild at parties yet down to earth when ya call him. We long to be Bill Murray.
i agree 1000 percent. cant really think of other american interviewers that actually ask intelligent questions while remaining personal. such a shame that a lot of talented people turn out to be creeps
I hear Alan Watts in that. He's talking mindfulness or "being present". Mediation is a great way to get there, but my take on Buddhism largely comes down to the journey of trying to stay in that state, or learning how to make that your default state by virtue of understanding it.
How meditative. I remember being a kid and noticing people who didn't know someone was watching them, then they would interact with someone and you could see a switch in their eyes. They would go from their "true self" in a moment of solitude to a curated image they thought others wanted to see. A softness and kindness would give way to a fake smile or excitedness. I wondered why people just didn't stay the same, what was this change in demeanor all about? Bill does a great job staying emotionally true even in his movies
those who have had a glimpse of the fleeting, yet blissful, glowing exuberant state of consciousness which exists when you let go of the superficial trappings of life may understand what he's talking about...'being here'...'in the moment', is being at peace. That's not an easy thing to hold on to...
+Matt Moves I think the effects of the "superficiality" of many of our everyday lives is what Murray talks about when he catches himself in the mirror as you are almost wearing a mask and not being true to yourself.
+Matt Moves no it's not, you don't really know what buddhism is then. they deny reality as we know it as an illusion. it's about abstinence and not just simplicity. I studied it in university.
He could have said yes to ghost busters 3 before disappointing the actor who plays egon and having him die in despair of Murray rejection and then made the world suffer with the crappy female version.
@@uncreativeranter he didnt die from that rejection, Harold Ramis (egon) understood that murray didnt want then franchise to fail and felt that a 3rd movie wouldn't do well
Aaron Morris it's like "What are you doing? Planning for the future? WELL IT'S ALL RIGHT NOW. But later... Forget it baby that's later. Now is NOW. Are you going to be here or not? It's as simple as that."
I personally suffer from a disease of looking away. If you break that word disease “dis+ease” to be “distance-from-ease” it really makes sense. When many of us are suffering from this distance from ease we are in our disease and coping with it through addiction in all forms. Some reach for the pill, the drink, their phone, relationships, sex, food. All of these things are well and all, but I find that when I am using these means, either consciously or subconsciously, to escape this uneasiness that this distance from ease brings me, then I am living at a frequency of addiction. I’m looking for the same thing Bill’s looking for. How to stay in but not give in, how to escape without looking away. I feel you Bill.
I always did find bill intriguing, he's a legend in his own rights. But yet he's very humble And down to earth. I've heard him give lectures(motivational speaking) at different places, and he's a very smart man with a deep personality. God bless you bill Murray, you're truly some one to look up to.
@@kennethledford9877 he was great in every thing he ever did, Scrooged is one of my all time favorite movies (not a Christmas movie) but one of the best movie's he did, period. Not to mention groundhog Day, and the list goes on.
The guy is real. No matter what anyone says. But this is his life. He obviously doesn't feel real...& takes every moment he can with someone to feel something.
@Evi1M4chine I think there are things one can do to feel more "alive". The trick is knowing what those things ARE... But hey, here's a "short" list of what those things could be: 1.) Socializing more with people that are truly great people. Just socializing more in general... REAL socializing... 2.) Being a GOOD person. 3.) Working hard, and playing hard. Setting goals and accomplishing them, or making real progress on them. 4.) Travelling 5.) Taking things that are intangible but extremely real and meaningful SERIOUSLY. 6.) Understanding yourself and the world at large better every day. 7.) Having hope for yourself and the world at large.. 8.) Being the sort of person others would want to spend time with-these others being those you would also want to spend time with as well...
What a delightful smile Bill has. When he said "to be HERE", I wonder if that meant to be available, to himself and to other people. In the present. I read that he had a rough childhood, as the "forgotten child" of a large family, and that his parents were largely un-available to him. Very telling. Wonderful.
He is the kind of guy who actually does make a joke on his death bed and then expires. Like Oscar Wilde, dying in a little hovel in Paris, looked up at the wallpaper and said "one of us will have to go"
I love this interview and have come back to it many times. I especially love how Charlie gives him room to think and answer in his own time. Bill Murray is such an individual voice and talent so giving him that space allows for some heartfelt revelations. Whereas, if this had been entertainment "news", or a nighttime talk show, the host / interviewer would have been quickening the pace, filling the holes, and injecting themselves into interview. This more respectful pace is much more satisfying, to me anyway.
That's bullshit and you know it. This wasn't scripted. Granted; Bill is an actor with cues. Much of what he said came from the cuff. Do you think that you could grant leniency to any man?
@@pahasapaman I think he meant the interviewer "helped" Bill create the answer by not interrupting him at all and allowing him time to mediate on what he wanted to say.
Yorgurt B, He was an excellent interviewer and a man with personal problems. We're in an age where people speak in absolutes, without any sense of perspective or nuance. Somehow we keep getting access to more information and end up with less educated people.
If there is an "it" to get, I feel like Bill Murray gets "it" even if he acts like he doesn't know it sometimes. One of my all time favorite people to watch do anything.
I really don't think so. He looked kinda old in Groundhog day and that was almost 30 years ago. He's "only" 70 now, which is old, but for a "nearly old person" almost 30 years ago, I'd say 70 now is better than most people would think. Not sure if that made sense.
Extremely honest disclosure from Bill Murray! And what's even more amazing is that what he said is true for so many people, nowadays. Most of us are just partly there, but never 100%; we are, like, listening to others, but at the same time, thinking of the myriad of other things. The more multitasking we do, the less full concentration we are paying on the life we are living.
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Bill Murray as he ages still has a childlike mischief in the eyes, added now to the wisdom of his years. A true legend and comic genius
Very good observation
That’s the Irish in him.
I love the way the interviewer lets him speak, especially when he pauses to think, rather than needing to fill the dead air.
we need charlie rose back :-(
great observation.
@@lvglec thanks
Well... i believe a couple of woman may want to say something about that.
The interviewer is Charlie Rose and he is one of the best there is for a very long time
I talked to my Dad (84 years old) over Facetime a couple months ago and he told me that he'd lived his life and that if he went out tomorrow, he'd be cool with that. I said to him that he shouldn't be talking crazy as he could live until he's 100 (like Bill Murray says he wants to in this video) and he laughed and said 'oh no, I surely don't want that!'. He just wasn't enjoying the process of getting old. Two weeks later, he died suddenly and peacefully, with no real underlying illness. Everyone has their own wish as to how long they want to stay or in what manner they want to leave this earth and I'm glad that my Dad got his. Thanks for everything Dad.
Amazing
You are a good son, Sean. May the universe continue to smile upon YOU!!
Sounds like a great man.
@@dougstyles Thanks Doug, he was. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of his death. Still feel really lucky that he got to leave on his terms as he had well above the average amount of tragedy in his life.
@@seancullen99 My Pops is hanging tough but has COPD and keeps smoking. He's in Florida, I'm in Az but I get down there at least once a yr to see him. I dont even ask him to stop smoking anymore, may as well let him enjoy himself. He served in the Navy and grew up in NYC. He survived all of that so he deserves to go on his terms. It's not easy but life rarely is. Take care Sean.
I love how Charlie gives Bill certain moments to organize his thoughts and not be rushed.
That's a skill many could use in conversation. I used to be so hot to get my thoughts out there. I started hanging around with a man who's thoughts, while not necessarily being an oratory, took time to form. And they were always worth hearing. Now, I try to always give others the time they need in conversation..as the rewards of hearing them out are often worth the wait.
Yup. I miss Charlie. He got cancelled.
Yes I noticed this too. He knew the exact time to be silent and leave space - that is an art! I'd love to see this whole interview.
Very good analysis
Rare for him
I met Bill Murray once when I worked for a 4 star hotel. I didn't notice him at first glance but when I came upon him I said hay Bill, and he actually said hay how's it going? I was surprised a bit and alittle overwhelmed because that was the first time I ever saw a famous actor in real time. He talked to me very calmly just like in this video and I just talked to him like an ordinary person. He's a really cool guy. I was too embarrassed to ask for a autograph since he spent like 10 minutes talking to me. I did mention that I loved his movie "what about Bob" and he smiled from ear to ear. He said to me, well judging by your age I thought you would've said "Caddy Shack" He actually said that to me! Awesome fellow..
Would love to meet him. There a documentary about people meeting Bill and there experiences. Don't remember the name
Kevin Smith check out the Netflix documentary on him. It confirms your experience. Now when I come to an impasse I ask myself WWBMD? Happier and more alive than I’ve ever been. Bill is zen.
You and I are the only ones who liked the movie. So many haters wanted a bunch of slapstick... His movies speak to deep thinkers
@@uprightfossil6673 grew up with his movies. I'm a movies guy. I love all genres.. Well most. But Bill is my guy.. Loved his older comedy. But I really enjoy his dramatic roles when he does do them. Lost in Translation. That had so much.. Just my opinion as Punksatony Phill
Ps spring will come
I'm a 50 year old irish guy and EVERY Christmas eve without fail we watch Scrooged, and the ending gets me everytime,the man is a Legend
Lol it gets me to brother.
What about What About Bob?
@@4thegloryofthelord exactly!
I saw Scrooged in the theater back in 88? Still love it too!!
Groundhog Day is rad too!
You know a big portion of the ending bit is improvised Peter? It's mint!
I've loved him since I was a kid back in the 80's. He shaped the sense of humor that I still have to this day, the man is a treasure.
Sharon Jensen That was a good movie! I’d forgotten about it. Thanks for the great memories. I love Bill Murray 👍
He’s always been one of my favorites. I love absurd sort of random humor
I recently dealt with a mental illness that nearly became a disorder, and Bill Murray described that state of mind perfectly. Stress and anxiety can cloud your mind to the point that your not present or even alive. Only to live within whatever you're thinking about. It's depressing and miserable because you want to live but your simply "not here" which is why I started seeing a therapist and it changed my life.
You are what you dwell on.
@@FLASHAHOLIC_TV Yes, but with depression the order is different. The illness creates the ruminating, and clinical depression is hell on earth. A maze you can’t get out of. You can’t make the agitating motor stop. And the body can become almost catatonic. And it certainly does make you believe the worst. In fact it will try to kill you that way. It can be subtle, or extremely aggressive in the mind even as you fight it, your voice gets smaller. It leads one there. Very dangerous.
@@DreamsSketcher
Simple put, going through a black hole with tunnel vision.
Thanks so much for explaining just in words how I’ve felt the last 2 years
Bill is talking about addiction to drugs and alcohol. You all are clueless.
There's people criticizing cause he got money, he look "weird" and wanna be "deep", etc... come on, a little empathy. What he said is meaningful and connects with many people out there.
Some people enjoy being miserable and looking for the negative in everything. Perhaps it's them that need to hear his words the most. ;)
@@Rustbukkit69 Totally agree, dude.
I wouldn’t judge too harshly mate, you either understand exactly where he’s coming from or you think it’s bullshit
A good number of people just lack the framework to understand what he's even talking about. It's really too bad, they're busy chasing after something that will never make them happy. Happiness is always right here.
@@JESUSbePRAISED - Do you have evidence of any charges laid against the man? a citation would be greatly appreciated.
He really is taking on a beautiful zen quality as he gets older. It warms me to listen to him.
That Clint Eastwood movie was Unforgiven.
"Its a hell of a thing killing a man. You take away all he's got, and all he's ever gonna have."
I've often thought about that line. It certainly struck me at the time I first saw it. There's a Monkees song ---yes, I'm bringing up the Monkees in this serious chat---written by Micky Dolenz call IT'S MY LIFE. The lyrics echo much of what this conversation is about, or st least touches on similar areas. It's a good, self-examining song that could only have been written as you grow older and reflect on where you've been and where you're going, and how you want to proceed. And it's hopeful. (So, in one small step I've managed a giant leap---from Clint Eastwood to The Monkees, a journey that's sort of, metaphorically, the distance equivalent of that between the Moon and the Earth)
wrong. that was from Outlaw Josey Wales.
RSEFX it’s my life and I’m taking over now
@@あんどれさん wrong its from unforgiven
" WE ALL GOT IT COMIN KID "
He seems so NOT Hollywood. God bless him for that, he's a real person.
It's all the Chicagoan in him. We are a blunt, upfront no bullshit kind of people 🤣.
I think that is part of the reason he got so popular back when I was younger. Always seemed like your average joe. Funny as hell. Hair never perfect like Hollywood stars. Face never perfect etc. Always just a down to earth dude on and off the screen. Real people relate to that. Same with jhon candy. Dan akroyd. Robin William's. The list goes on. All seemed like regular people on and off screen that never let fame go to their heads.
He's not for sale so people will do everything to work for him.
Sophia Coppola is an amazing collaborator.
@@talkinsmak - it's part of why Will Ferrell is a hoot. They even make fun of his homely appeal in The Other Guys. "So why are you with Alan? I mean... uh that's not what I meant..."
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I hope he lives forever. I love him.
The way he paused and closed his eyes tells me that he really reflected on his answer before saying it out loud. 👍
He is an actor who is a male human...any choices made or spoken include those habits
@@theunknowngamer5477 ?
@@holysecret2 Performing in a Broadway play or movie or TV show never has anything to do with
how an actor or actress "acts" any where else...heart of gold on their sleeve and humble.
@@theunknowngamer5477 I'm sorry I do not understand.. this is an interview, no?
@@holysecret2 It is possible I do not understand what an "interview" is, the definition, the
dynamics of such an activity.
The person interacting in this event, the one with the name of Bill Murray...is an actor.
At no time does a person who is an actor other than when employed to do so use
such a skill set...?
He quite literally had a wake up call that he should do more with his life.
The Rockall Times
How is existentialism only a first world problem? Finding meaning is something everyone may face.
It s no more, it just be.
And perhaps we all should.
@The Rockall Times some give up all those things to find meaning like monks, yogis and jesus. Food is necessary but food doesnt take away spiritual hunger. Seekers fast and try to conquer senses and emotions that they could see beyond physical. There is the light and we are mirror that reflect it but mirror is covered in dirt and dust. Clean the mirror and see the light.
He's saying he wants to be more present. He's not saying he wants to necessarily do more.
What a great answer. I’m in my mid 60’s now, and this response has incredible meaning.
Seek Christ my man. Best thing I ever did for myse. Then this "meaning" and answers you're looking for will be apparent.
*Seek your ass-hole...it has far more meaning and use than an IMAGINARY figurehead*
@@gerrynightingale9045 Christ
isn't imaginary.
*Really? Well, I'll be in for a shock then, won't I?* ( *Unless it's possible to verify a 'thing' in some manner that's consistent and doesn't vary...then it ISN'T REAL* ) *It's odd how many thousands of records still exist from the 'Rome of Antiquity' among records from other 'Nation States' and NOT ONE OF THEM mention any 'Miracle worker' named 'Jesus of Nazareth' from that time period...you'd think the hundreds of miracles performed by Jesus and his Apostles would've made some degree of impression worthy of being written-down, but no* *I can easily find 'grain import records' and even 'who was fucking whose wife' in Rome then and even instructions on how 'Piazza bread' was distributed and the size of portions and the 'market price' for fine silver by weight...BUT NO JESUS!* *'Pontius Pilate' was real, with many independent sources to prove it...yet there's NO ROMAN RECORD of his ever having any involvement with any 'deranged Jewish carpenter' who thinks he's 'Divine'*
@@gerrynightingale9045 your mistaken. The Romans kept detailed records of many crucifixions, Jesus was one of them. The Koran also mentioned Jesus. Also, they recently demolished a prison in israel and underneath the floor was an ancient mosaic detailing some part of Jesus' life. BTW, his name was Yeshua, so your looking in the wrong place. Take care.
This is the reason I rewatch "Groundhogs Day" every year. Bill Murray actually understands it.
I don't watch it every year but it's a bloody good movie!
NIN - Every day is exactly the same. =)
I watched Groundhog Day just yesterday. That movie will be around for a very long time because it's so spiritual & philosophical while at the same time it's a comedy. I mean, what would you do if you were livin' the same day over & over again? I know I'd be tempted to push the envelope more, to break the rules more & to definitely take more chances.
I've seen it about 4 or 5 times. I've heard that some consider it the best movie ever made.
I watch it 4 times a year!
The truth and reality of his words cut me like a knife.
Yeah bill is good people I think, never met him obviously but I believe it.
@Delon Duvenage
I always appreciate the words of older people but,being able to spend a few hours talking with him would definitely change my life for the better.
He's a 'good' actor if he can make you cry...or cry himself automatically.
This 'actor' is describing the moral of the story of "Groundhog Day". His mannerisms are curiously the same.
Only to operate ... Then stitch it up and heal
Betsy Lindsay --I love that he’s talking about all of us, being real with everyone we’ve met, rather than rushing thru everything we do, not meeting our own eyes much less other people. Lovely.
I like him a lot. A true artist and human being.
He reminds me of yoda
And a real hero...
Bill is an American treasure. He's that crazy uncle everyone wishes they had.
Why would you want a crazy uncle.. I think I am that uncle
He's my american uncle since 84.
(I'm not american)
Yeah, every time I watch "what about bill" I think the same thing.
Thank you all.. 😘
@Joe MacNeill I'm a Canadian treasure 👍
You know. This interview makes me realize how much this man and his movies and characters have had an imprint on my life. When Mr. Murray does finally pass on. I will be sad. I will shed a tear. Live long Mr. Murray and be present and available and the right causes will call you. Cheers.
My interpretation of Bill's answer is that generally people stroll through life, unaware that we are actually alive, distracted by things like our jobs, families, money etc. Bill would like to just feel more aporia time of being alive in the moment and not be thinking about the future or the past, but to be in the moment for as long as possible. For instance if I were to tell you to live in the moment right now, you'll appreciate life right now because I planted the idea on your mind, but you will forget this later and go off and do something else to occupy your time. Bill wants to feel that appreciation and contentment of life for longer without distraction.
There is a difference though between, being content with where you are now and using that as a justification to not strive for anything vs. Being content that you are on a path with goals in mind.
It's just Christianity. Exactly what I have found with Christ.
We love Bill Murray because he can be openminded without letting his brain drop out.
His character in " What about Bob?" was certainly in the moment!
I loved that movie 🎥
What a lovely down to earth guy, just really enjoyed his calm, sincere and honest thoughts. 😊
Thanks for all the love ❤and support. Seriously blown away by the love from all of you.
@Marty McFly II you seem to be a really great fan of mine. Where are you from?
Hello Jocelyn, you have a good heart. I guess you must be a great woman with a very great sense of humor. I will like to get in touch with you 🙏
The part about Belushi was poingnant. It's been so long since he died, and he still thinks of him. I'm glad we didn't lose Bill in the '80s as well.
Yes, I miss Belushi.
And on his deathbed, he will have total consciousness. So he's got that going for him.
Which is nice.
elvis316 ... Gunga galunga ... no, Gunga Lagunga!
***** Well, it didn't take much to reverse your empty little hippy platitudes did it?
NoRosesForMe I like Bill Murrays work, but as a human being I think he kinda sucks. There's that footage of him where he's up for some award and when he loses, instead of clapping the winner graciously, he just sits there looking poisonous, like the most entitled dickhead imaginable. There's also his weird behavior towards Harold Ramis when making Groundhog Day, and just lots of other little stories of him being completely up his own arse. As far as hippies go, I'm kind of one myself in many ways, but I cannot abide how a lot of them spout the most turgid, empty banalities concerning their internet-assembled spirituality. It makes me want to throw up up, frankly. Peace.
Polecat Slam yeah him and ramus got into it.. you've never had that happen in life?? i've lost many a friends... but the fact is.. bill murray thinks award shows are stupid.. and hes right.
LastbutNotFirst Of course he's allowed to think that, but it showed zero class not to grit his teeth and applaud the winner, and if he hates it so much, he shouldn't have shown up there. From what I read about the Ramis thing, he just randomly threw out a long term friendship which they never really reconciled, much to Ramis' confusion. I know all that's not really anyone elses business, I'm just saying the guy strikes me as a bit of a weirdo/narcissist.
He's such a thoughtful, sweet man. I pray he finds his peace and keeps doing what he loves.
Love this guy. One of the most genuine actors I've seen. Go on Bill. Do a few more please!
this person is aging like a normal man. Without plastic, without becoming a "monster".
A lot of respect for such a person.
yea but kinda aging horribly...reminds me of a song lyric..'hope I die before I get old'
Not into plastic surgery etc, but watching what I eat, drink plenty of water, exercise. If things really go down hill, probably become a recluse...
Interesting how people frown on cosmetic surgery yet approve of dental whitening kits, braces, sun tanning, toupee/wigs, body hair grooming/waxing/laser regimens, weight-training regimens, tattoos, piercings, circumcision, wart removal, anti-wrinkle/anti-acne/anti-pigmentation skin care products, hair dyes and makeup. Such curious double standards. So long as Bill shaves, dyes and trims his hair, whitens his teeth, and covers up unsightly age-spots...he's apparently aging "authentically" because a scalpel wasn't involved. 🙄
He is aging like a drug addict not a normal man. I know farmers in their 70's that look 20 years younger than Bill.
@@williambrandondavis6897 hes 70 now.. he also had acne scarring as which definitely add to it.. he isn't extremely attractive actor so I think people judge him worse
@@williambrandondavis6897
I dont think you´ve seen many people who´ve aged prematurely from drugs and drinking.
RUclips absolutely killing it putting this video in my feed
A real person like him is rare these days. Genuine.
I know... probably why he's suffering. Whenever I meet a genuine person nowadays, they seem miserable to me.
I have respect for all the comedians that help all of us smiling. Bill is one of them and I could spend lots of time listening him talking about serious things.
I can relate.. I wish I'd spend less time feeling like being on auto-pilot, taking things for granted that have become "trivial" with age. I wish I could feel more present - I wish I could be more me, instead of giving answers and showing feelings that are "acceptable" to give and show. I wish there weren't so many days that to me seem like "just another day", when infact not very far in the future, I will run out of days.
I think this everytime I see my little boy asleep. I kick myself in the ass and say...don't waste any of this time you dumbass...these memories only happen once. Today we are so full of work, and money matters, government this and that, and trying to find a moment to sleep or be amused with something. Gotta keep the focus...life slips by like a paper boat in a rainstorm...
Same thing happens to me with my daughter. I look at her playing (she's almost 3 yo), and realize that this moment will never happen again. She will never have 3 again, nor will have that pure innocence look on her eyes. It is empowering and at the same time frightening to realize this. You want to squeeze every second of that moment, and all of a sudden your cellphone doesn't matter, your job doesn't matter. Everything is less important when you face that reality. And the same thing will happen to us on our deathbed. Imagine that moment, imagine that you're in your bed, dying, and you have just a few hours left to live. What's really important now? Your family, your friends, your love. What are your regrets? Not having money? fuck money. You will regret not having done that, or loved that girl, or hugged your wife/daughter a little longer. Not saying "I love you" enough.
Keep this things in your mind. Love, hug, say "I love you" often. Do what you want to do, even if it's frightening. These are the only thins you'll regret not to have done when you're about to die.
"not very far in the future, I will run out of days..." That hit me hard. Well said.
@Australiantatious Yes, I certainly have. Why do you ask?
But then again, what does love and friendships matter if everything and everyone returns to dust? They are really as meaningless as the things you mention like money and career and status. Nothing we say or do matters after we're dead and the ones we loved are dead and nobody will remember or care a hundred years after you're gone.
Bill has lives the life we could only imagine, but there’s a deeper meaning to life
Yeah he totally lives the live of a life live lied lifes that lives lifes
@@meavyhetalderzweitegrafvon8240 lol
there is no deeper meaning your life means nothing to us 7.5 billion people explain what you mean before spewing up some grade school philosophy that's been regurgitated for decades you piece if shit
@@yourmomismyepicmount35 Were pretty much bacteria on the surface of the earth. Probably here to maintain the planet like everything else is. Unlike every other species we have done the complete opposite of that and started destroying the planet. We dont deserve happiness.
Life has meaning? Life does not have meaning?
So far, we haven't found life anywhere else but here. Further, no species comes close to the level of cognitive ability humans have attained. And that, in a very, very short period of time.
Universe, 13.77 billion years old. Human beings, about 250,000 years old.
In a cosmological instant, we exploded upon the earth, filling every corner, modifying the planet's structure, extracting material from it, formed mass communication networks, discovered secrets of the mechanics of nature, used it to invent things that can obliterate all life thousands of times over, beamed our location out into the darkness of space, launched humans into that darkness, built machines circling the planet....
...all in a cosmological instant. If you were watching the formulation of the Universe, you'd EASILY miss us. It happens so fast.
Regardless of gods, regardless of souls, regardless of good or evil, right or wrong. We are significant. In a fundamentally extraordinary way.
So in light of that, consider, then, what we do to one another.
Lost in Translation was a great movie and carried the same mood.
Yupp. Even easier to watch with a beaut like scarlett in it ..
Excellent point. I've struggled to put my finger on what's happening in that movie - to articulate why it's so deeply compelling. I think you've done precisely that with your comment.
Yes. The characters in "Lost In Translation" are lost and yearning for some meaning. And they find it for a couple of days and become fully alive. And then it passes. It's beautiful, melancholic, transient and uplifting. I don't think Bill and Scarlett have been in anything better. It caught them both at exactly the right time.
I thought it was extremely boring, however, I find him really interesting here. I love him in other movies, I guess these things are subjective. Glad you liked it though. Variety is the spice of life.
@@BeatPoet67 Lost in Translation wasn't uplifting for me, it punched a hole in me for a day or two. It's all subjective of course. Similar to Romeo & Juliet; La La Land was different because they spent years together, but it also had that same feeling.
I love this answer. One of my biggest fears is not necessarily growing old, but feeling old. Tired, hopeless, alone, and theres nothing left for me to do worth doing. As long as I have my youth within me, I shouldn't be afraid.
And the childlike nature whether, be some of the innocence, curiosity, play or care free nature is hat I’m trying to get back to in some ways. So I don’t fall into deep sadness or melocholy, stress as you get older
His portrayal in Lost In Translation is just phenomenal. I’m sure a lot of us fellas can relate to that brilliant and touching movie.
Beautiful movie.
"Broken Flowers" too. Totally underrated performance.
Biker Bytes Lost in Translation is a shit movie! I want my 2 hrs back. FUCK THAT MOVIE! Biggest pile of worthless shit! You sir have no taste!
@@donvandamnjohnsonlongfella1239 what did you not enjoy about it..
@@louiereed829 All of it. It seemed like such a pointless nothing of value movie. Murry's character had nothing going on. The young woman had nothing going on. It was like the most boring few days of two boring peoples lives that was going nowhere. I'd rather watch white paint dry on a white wall. At least there is hope to paint that wall with some interesting colors once it drys. This movie leaves everything else to desire besides the movie. Somebody should put a few hundred bullets in this movie so it dies and is never resurrected for any reason. I went to Vegas for a week once and I'm not famous and my time in Vegas was way more interesting then this movie. I didn't even do that much well in Vegas but each day was more interesting then anything that happened the entire time in this movie. Guess I should write parts of my life into scripts in one week long increments. I have many days and weeks of my life that were more interesting then this movie. A movie should never be less interesting then peoples real lives.
Bill's a smart guy. I think he's talking over the interviewer's head. It's like he's trying to capture the perfect words to get his point across, but he's having a difficult time of it. HE knows what he means.
How’s he talking over the interviewers head if he doesn’t have the vocabulary to express his thoughts?
I think the interviewer perfectly understood him???
He is self aware
laynebrock True. That’s not what I took away from this and Bill Murray’s humility is part of what make him so relatable.
rklewis2 Bill looked for the words in the wonderful silence, the needed and respected silence...but make no mistake, we know what he means and this superb interviewer understood him perfectly
What a legend...
Top10Archive .... ❤
Top10Archive That's the truth
He beat Gozor...
Precisely
yes
''My fear, is to leave here, never having really arrived'' - Leslie Philips
I don't know how I ended up at this video but it feels like i was supposed to.
Ben NCM Isnt that always the case?
Not at all
Probably because I listened to another Murray interview so this came up on "recommended".
Ben NCM same here brother
I ponder this too. I sat there and pondered about the problem of distractions in my life, got an "its cold outside" message from a coworker, posted a groundhog day link to FB and found this diamond of clip. which fitted my first pondering perfectly :O
"This is not a dress rehearsal. This is your life."
.. and it’s ending one minute at a time.
I imagine his brother who also played a role in Groundhog Day, saying these words lol
@@Sciffyan Ahead by a century ...
You are ahead by a century...
It is a dress rehearsal, in perpetunum.
Now this seems like a real interview talking about relevant things.
I 100% love Bill Murray. He's one of the all time greats. I remember one time Sunday Morning on cbs did a piece on him. He had nothing going on in his life (no new movie, no new book). He literally just called the show and said why don't you bring your cameras and come visit and they did. And it was a great and fun piece. He's just such a funny and interesting guy and I have been a fan forever.
“The more you know who you are the less you things affect you”
That is some extremely skilled interviewing.. Knowing exactly when to speak and when to let the interviewee speak. It's because of guys like that that we get speeches like this from time to time. In a world where everyone is yelling over one another because they think THEIR thoughts are more important... Sometimes to just stop and listen like this even though it seems so simple is amazing.
Bill Murray puts a smile on my face whenever I see him, love that guy.
Yes he is one of those people....such a rush!
I'm gonna cry, man. This hit in a special place in my heart.
When the realization of your own mortality really starts to sink in, is probably when you understand best what are the things in life you should do, or should have done, or wanted to do, and he has definitely crossed that threshold.
This is the comment I was trying to formulate.
I have chills and tears in my eyes. It’s so rare that someone who has been swallowed up by the monster of celebrity can still be a pure, true human being. He really does seem to embody the concept of treating others how you would want them to treat you. Hard enough for a normal stiff to practice that philosophy, I would think it would be just about impossible for a celebrity. Too many get jaded and resentful of the constant autograph resellers, fans who don’t know how to act and stalkers who want to kill them. This to me speaks even higher to Bill’s integrity, compassion, empathy and generosity. My hat is off to you sir.
"it's a hell of a thing, killing a man. You take away all he's got, and all he's ever gonna have" - Clint Eastwood, Unforgiven.
The most profound movie line, I'll always remember it.
My favorite line from that movie was, "We all got it comin', kid."
What an incredible guy. He plays at the Pebble Beach Pro Am Golf Tourney every winter and frequents a little family run restaurant in the next town over on the Peninsula. He struck up a friendship with the owner and his family that has stuck. The owners daughter told us Bill sends the family a Christmas card every year and includes a personal note to her every year asking how she was doing in school and now her career (in art). Has been going on for a decade or more. An amazing human being. What other motion picture icon would ever do that?
Groundhog Day made him an eternal Zen Master.
A fantastic and underappreciated film.
Abram Despain I just tried to watch that again the othere day. Something wrong so I did not get any picture. I just listened. I've seen it so many times already. So many golden nuggets of wisdom in there. Wouldn't it be amazing if we ALL were allowed to reach our full potential? Life would be truly beautiful and we'd stop hurting our planet.
If you like Groundhog Day's message try Bedazzled with Brendan Fraser, same director with similar message in mind and great acting by Fraser
Stefano, Where the Buffalo Roam 1980.
must see this
It’s taken me to 70 something to feel like I am really here and love it,
No, I would expect this level of thought and self-awareness from Bill Murray. Good on the interviewer to get it out of him, he's usually got his BS shields up when dealing with media types. I think he really considers himself as an outsider, not really fitting in with the mob.
My first jolt of this guy's genius was Lost In Translation, what a great film. For me it put all of his previous work in a light I had not realised til then. Such a great person, he deserves to be happy.
nicely said!
Ishka Bibble "the interviewer" is Charlie Rose and he's a legend
Ishka Bibble "I think he really considers himself as an outsider, not really fitting in with the mob..." Yes!
Ishka Bibble Lost in Translation was a total failure of a film.
Ishka Bibble Awesome comment.
"He's been dead as long as he's been alive"
Thanks for that. That phrase will only haunt me forever.
Great introspective from a down to earth actor that is not full of himself.
If Bill Murray could only live over and over and over, day after day after day. Imagine what he could do, what skills he would have.
+220volt74 He did. Watch Groundhog Day.
+Lesli Parodi Yeah I know, I was being sarcastic.
+220volt74 Some people just don't get things
+phillyslasher
Like that's a bad thing!
+220volt74 Groundhog Day? :)
This guy is a champ. Always liked him. I did not get surprised by this answer, he was always smart and witty.
Come on man....be nice, that cannot be true.
@Duckerberg - WTF?? Just go away.
" Hell of a thing killing a man , take away everything he's got and everything he's ever gona have ". Clint Eastwood (Unforgivin)
Thanks heaps mate. I love that quote and I love that movie.
👍
I reckon so, and personal Clint fave line “yeah”
Unforgiven* but yes
So ... you re-quote a quote... Wow... Who killed you?
Yes, that line and when the kid says he reckons he had it comin'. "We all have it coming kid..."
I used to work in a health food store and Bill Murray popped in one day and I helped him do his grocery shopping. Super cool, low-key guy.
Wilkemusic Where was that?
Yeah, I remember coming in that day. You said you were going to make up a story about Bill Murray coming in, and he asking to help him shop! Well, except you left out the part about the kielbasa in the walk in freezer.
He seems so relaxed, it's kind of inspiring actually.
Bill Murray is definitely like Robin Williams always going out of his way to make strangers smile it’s what makes him happy... He knows what Hollywood is really like he is a good guy...
Huh???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Booty maybe I dont! I never was a big fan of Murray, so you're probably right. Educate me my friend!😁
He just wants to be here
I don't think it's out of his way but his way.
In answering this question I think he achieved that present moment. Lovvvved this.
"It's a hell of a thing killing a man, you take away all he's got, and all he's ever gonna have "
Adrian MacGrath “Well, you sure killed the hell outa that one.”
He has a home in Charleston and when we visited there the locals said he was a super nice down to earth guy! They were very protective of him and would not come close to telling us where his house was. You could tell he was very respected.
BM…?
This is not surprising. Bill has always been a very thoughtful and insightful man. His choices in movies have almost always reflected that
Yeah, because his accidental choice to voice Garfield was an insightful role for him.
+RetroArcadeMonkey that was for the money. He is a business man after all. But the fact that he regretted that, also proves my point
+Michael Felix he's a standup guy
+Michael Felix you're almost right but you've got the names mixed up. He thought it was written by Joel Coen of the Coen Brothers(Fargo, Big Lebowski, Burn After Reading, etc.) but it was really Joel Cohen(Cheaper By The Dozen, Daddy Day Care, etc.)
Bill Murray is the epitome of fame who is not full of one's self, no plastic surgery, no Botox, no self-depreciation....just mellows like a fine wine and appreciates himself but yet humble. I'm sure he's wild at parties yet down to earth when ya call him. We long to be Bill Murray.
You do. He couldn't give a sh!t about you. And I think hes well overrated.
Charlie Rose was a great interviewer.
He is an interrupting nitwit. I wonder if he interrupted all the women he molested.
i agree 1000 percent. cant really think of other american interviewers that actually ask intelligent questions while remaining personal. such a shame that a lot of talented people turn out to be creeps
@@Stinkbug08 really? You can't?
In the one with George Lucas he was very obnoxious
I hear Alan Watts in that. He's talking mindfulness or "being present". Mediation is a great way to get there, but my take on Buddhism largely comes down to the journey of trying to stay in that state, or learning how to make that your default state by virtue of understanding it.
Some say that living presently is the meaning of happiness in life.
There's lots more to Buddhism than that, but apparently mindfulness is a practice unique to that tradition.
If Yoda was a human, he would look like Bill Murray.
How meditative. I remember being a kid and noticing people who didn't know someone was watching them, then they would interact with someone and you could see a switch in their eyes. They would go from their "true self" in a moment of solitude to a curated image they thought others wanted to see. A softness and kindness would give way to a fake smile or excitedness. I wondered why people just didn't stay the same, what was this change in demeanor all about? Bill does a great job staying emotionally true even in his movies
What a brilliant interviewer. Not asking stupid inane questions and really listening and engaging with the answer❤️
those who have had a glimpse of the fleeting, yet blissful, glowing exuberant state of consciousness which exists when you let go of the superficial trappings of life may understand what he's talking about...'being here'...'in the moment', is being at peace. That's not an easy thing to hold on to...
+Pharaoh Cypher Buddhism at its best...the ones that comes from experience
+Matt Moves it doesn't require buddhism - as buddhists also retreat from the world.
+Matt Moves I think the effects of the "superficiality" of many of our everyday lives is what Murray talks about when he catches himself in the mirror as you are almost wearing a mask and not being true to yourself.
MrDOB1000 Buddhism is not about retreating from the world, is about to live your life as simple as you can.
+Matt Moves no it's not, you don't really know what buddhism is then. they deny reality as we know it as an illusion. it's about abstinence and not just simplicity. I studied it in university.
You can't be normal and dislike Bill Murray.
I think you're right...Bill Murray is to the Baby Boomers what Jimmy Stewart was to the 40s.
normal......?come again.
Sure you can.
what if im not normal and i like him?
Then you're like me.
I love Bill Murray. He's the man!
He's a profoundly beautiful human being. What else can be said?
He could have said yes to ghost busters 3 before disappointing the actor who plays egon and having him die in despair of Murray rejection and then made the world suffer with the crappy female version.
@@uncreativeranter he didnt die from that rejection, Harold Ramis (egon) understood that murray didnt want then franchise to fail and felt that a 3rd movie wouldn't do well
@@Brnzgaming_ I think Murray made the right call.
@@ianmatthews1724 to be honest i do as well i didnt want one of the classic favourites to be ruined by yet another sequel
@@uncreativeranter because he Probably knew it would be shit at least he’s in the newest one though
I cannot begin to write how much this penetrates into my head. What he's saying is all I've ever dreamed of.
Be here now.
No one has ever said it better.
"Be here now." A very enlightening book & quote from Ram Das.
Aaron Morris I think.........., therefore I drink.
Greg Gallacci Damone, from "Fast Times at Ridgmont High" " where ever you're at, thats the place to be."
Aaron Morris it's like "What are you doing? Planning for the future? WELL IT'S ALL RIGHT NOW. But later... Forget it baby that's later. Now is NOW. Are you going to be here or not? It's as simple as that."
leggless mikki mouse and a pretty decent Oasis album, imo
One of my favourite people on the planet
I personally suffer from a disease of looking away. If you break that word disease “dis+ease” to be “distance-from-ease” it really makes sense. When many of us are suffering from this distance from ease we are in our disease and coping with it through addiction in all forms. Some reach for the pill, the drink, their phone, relationships, sex, food. All of these things are well and all, but I find that when I am using these means, either consciously or subconsciously, to escape this uneasiness that this distance from ease brings me, then I am living at a frequency of addiction. I’m looking for the same thing Bill’s looking for. How to stay in but not give in, how to escape without looking away. I feel you Bill.
I always did find bill intriguing, he's a legend in his own rights.
But yet he's very humble
And down to earth.
I've heard him give lectures(motivational speaking) at different places, and he's a very smart man with a deep personality.
God bless you bill Murray, you're truly some one to look up to.
Rob Lewis he was great in Meatballs. He misses those days
@@kennethledford9877 he was great in every thing he ever did, Scrooged is one of my all time favorite movies (not a Christmas movie) but one of the best movie's he did, period.
Not to mention groundhog Day, and the list goes on.
Rob Lewis yes! Groundhog Day!
He takes people seriously, not his famous and fame. We are all creators and become part of our creation..
The guy is real. No matter what anyone says. But this is his life. He obviously doesn't feel real...& takes every moment he can with someone to feel something.
Evi1M4chine the sane people.
@Evi1M4chine I think there are things one can do to feel more "alive". The trick is knowing what those things ARE...
But hey, here's a "short" list of what those things could be:
1.) Socializing more with people that are truly great people. Just socializing more in general... REAL socializing...
2.) Being a GOOD person.
3.) Working hard, and playing hard. Setting goals and accomplishing them, or making real progress on them.
4.) Travelling
5.) Taking things that are intangible but extremely real and meaningful SERIOUSLY.
6.) Understanding yourself and the world at large better every day.
7.) Having hope for yourself and the world at large..
8.) Being the sort of person others would want to spend time with-these others being those you would also want to spend time with as well...
Heard this first at the end of ATO - Darkroom. Love this man he's so down to earth and truly a great actor
What a delightful smile Bill has. When he said "to be HERE", I wonder if that meant to be available, to himself and to other people. In the present. I read that he had a rough childhood, as the "forgotten child" of a large family, and that his parents were largely un-available to him. Very telling. Wonderful.
When he was mistaken for a zombie and shot in Zombieland, and died a slow death he was STILL funny!!
My favorite part in the movie. Love that scene.
That whole movie is pure brilliance.
He is the kind of guy who actually does make a joke on his death bed and then expires. Like Oscar Wilde, dying in a little hovel in Paris, looked up at the wallpaper and said "one of us will have to go"
Victor Bonilla C'mon make Zombieland 2!
That scene toyed with my emotions. I didn't want Bill Murray to die. :(
Here’s a couple guys who ain’t afraid to talk with their eyes closed from time to time.
I love this comment!
That's Charlie picturing his assault victims
J J thank you. I appreciate it.
bill ya...but mr charlie hell no
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The wisdom Murray spreads is truly unique throughout humanity, the world needs more humble people
Bill Murray is one of not Hollywood's gems...but life's gems...a stand up guy being genuine and genuinely in the moment ...completely liberated
I love this interview and have come back to it many times. I especially love how Charlie gives him room to think and answer in his own time. Bill Murray is such an individual voice and talent so giving him that space allows for some heartfelt revelations. Whereas, if this had been entertainment "news", or a nighttime talk show, the host / interviewer would have been quickening the pace, filling the holes, and injecting themselves into interview. This more respectful pace is much more satisfying, to me anyway.
Kindness and compassion are the key to being present
Thanks for all the love ❤and support. Seriously blown away by the love from all of you.
Everyone needs to watch "The Bill Murray Stories: Life Lessons Learned from a Mythical Man" to see what an awesome human being this guy is
Or any movie that he was in. What a pleasure for the body, soul and mind.
Props to the interviewer who helped Bill create this amazing answer.
That's bullshit and you know it. This wasn't scripted. Granted; Bill is an actor with cues. Much of what he said came from the cuff. Do you think that you could grant leniency to any man?
@@pahasapaman I think he meant the interviewer "helped" Bill create the answer by not interrupting him at all and allowing him time to mediate on what he wanted to say.
"Undivided attention." So easy to say---so hard to do.
its easy! I mean just the other week...shit, hang on, theres someone at the door BRB!
So hard to even want to do.
It's a shame Charlie Rose had personal issues that took him off the air. He was such a good, thoughtful interviewer.
He was pushy and obnoxious, if you watch interviews like with George lucas
He’s not a good guy or interviewer.
Yorgurt B, He was an excellent interviewer and a man with personal problems. We're in an age where people speak in absolutes, without any sense of perspective or nuance. Somehow we keep getting access to more information and end up with less educated people.
Parker Allen there is such thing as too much misinformation, that’s why.
@Scott Laux That doesn't affect his interviewing skills though
If there is an "it" to get, I feel like Bill Murray gets "it" even if he acts like he doesn't know it sometimes. One of my all time favorite people to watch do anything.
Some people say money rules the world, I think Bill rules his world.
And he doesn't preach it, instead he lives it. And that is so much more persuasive.
You should watch some Alan watts he really gets "it" or at least he gives the impression that he does.
I love Bill Murray. I completely feel what he is saying here. I hope to achieve it one day.
It's hard to believe we now live in an era where Bill Murray is old.
I really don't think so. He looked kinda old in Groundhog day and that was almost 30 years ago. He's "only" 70 now, which is old, but for a "nearly old person" almost 30 years ago, I'd say 70 now is better than most people would think. Not sure if that made sense.
@King White Knight Well I guess it's all relative. 8 years from average death. I'd say old but whatevs
@King White Knight neat
@King White Knight oof. u 2 dum
@King White Knight dude, you are cringe as fuck
I love you man... deep and true. I grew up with you, and your brother. The razors edge my friend.
There are no coincidences with events, occurrence
and oddities. Love ya Bill. Thank you for sharing your talent with us💫 Sending Love, Light & Peace
Extremely honest disclosure from Bill Murray! And what's even more amazing is that what he said is true for so many people, nowadays. Most of us are just partly there, but never 100%; we are, like, listening to others, but at the same time, thinking of the myriad of other things. The more multitasking we do, the less full concentration we are paying on the life we are living.