So sorry the anesthesia recovery was a bear -- but you know Cole really loved being able to be the caretaker for you after this. Hope you're feeling better soon.
❤❤❤❤❤ greetings from Sweden! 🇸🇪 OMGI am so excited for you both! My husband and I went through 3 IVF, got two babies that way and our last Daughter showed up unannounced a year later!🎉 I am sure you are going to be great parents, you are such sweet and loving people, it shines through and I love seeing your RUclips stories.❤
So glad you got better Charisma. So wonderful the outcome to have your babies❤. I pray for your guys much happiness, and blessings. I started watching your videos when I saw the wedding video last year. So nice to see Cole being more independent, and taking care of you.
😢 And what happens to all the 'fertilised eggs' that are 'unwanted'? They are destroyed! Destroyed! Just as in an abortion. Babies destroyed. Believe it or not, life begins at conception. At the instant of 'fertilisation', human life begins. Born or unborn, those 'fertilised eggs' are babies, and when they are destroyed for whatever reason or by whatever method or person, it's no different from murder. The Catholic church, though it is totally PROLIFE from conception to natural, unassisted death, is most definitely against IVF!!!! May God enlighten all hearts with the Truth of Jesus Christ. 🤰🤱👨👩👦👦✝️🛐💒😇
my parents are also interracial and interabled and it made me so emotional to see how much you two love and support each other 🥹🫶 I wish you both the best of luck in your ivf journey
U know black couples don’t waste time like them If she would have got a black man she would have been pregnant with her 4 babies by now, oh and some baby mama drama two.
@@jaimeofarrill3309 you make 0 sense. A black man isn’t going to fix her personal infertility the process would’ve still been the same. Don’t be ignorant.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. My wife and I have experienced our own journey with infertility so your story really helps me cope, remain hopeful, etc. Praying for you both during this incredibly exciting time! ❤❤❤
Colel is f****** awesome there is men that won't do that for their women and they're not even in a wheelchair. This man is a real MVP congrats guys !🎈🎉🎊🧨
I am so rooting and praying for you guys. Been following you for years!! This is our journey right along with you guys. Stay encouraged. Gods got it all under control! ❤
From one single mom to another, Arnell you are doing an amazing job and you are holding it together and keeping it in the road for you and your baby and thts what counts!! I hope you are doing emotionally and mentally well behind the scene and I pray that you won’t feel as lonely anymore. Give yourself more grace and credit because you are doing what you can that’s within your means and if it’s one thing I’ve learned as a single mom is that it def takes a village and I applaud the village that is in your corner helping you & Noah 🥰♥️
Congratulations!!! I hope everything goes wonderful for you both! Your love is so evident just seeing you two together, You will have the most BEAUTIFUL children!! ❤❤
It’s so wonderful that you feel, Charisma, that this is a two way street- you help each other, especially when you really need it the most. I can’t believe that Cole is dressing himself…that is an impossible task that only Cole could do, it seems like. He IS one of a kind. You two…are so lucky that you found each other🥰! C & C are positive people and just see the good in everything instead of the negative which would be the easier route to follow. Instead, the follow the much harder, challenging and rewarding path which they WILL be rewarded for. They deserve only the best…after all, that is who they are. We all should try to emulate this couple. Stay positive, work hard, reach your goals…just move forward and don’t dwell on the past. You can talk about what you went through…but don’t let it get you down, that’s all. I am just so proud of these two, Charisma & Cole. Cole almost lost his life…and he appreciates every moment he is still here on 🌏. This special kid had grown into such an incredible gentleman, hasn’t he?! As for Charisma…what an angel here on earth. Yes, Cole & Charisma = two peas in a pod. I was able to see it again in this episode ❤️. Just two amazing souls. God please take care of them…so many around the world are praying for the two (or more ❤️).
Please pardon the grammar AND the misusing of words in a sentence etc… My major cva, seizures and two brain surgeries make my writing skills seem like a 12 year old WHICH my mental status has been reduced to as of that horrible day back in ‘94 and only made worse by the seizures that I had to endure until they were properly diagnosed in 2006. Again, please forgive me…I wasn’t always this bad. I am so sorry….
Your writing is full of positivity that I didn't notice any error. You must be a great writer❤ These two gives me hope about love. Lord grant them their beautiful heart desires 🎉
I love how he is taking care of you❤️... It's a blessing for people to see that bc I'm sure a lot of people think it's the other way around. God bless you guys and your growing family
I'm sorry you have to go through this pain . You'll see it all worth it when your baby or babies are in your arms . I have a good feeling about this time around 🥰
As women we need to Stop saying stuff like this… it’s very condescending for people struggling with infertility especially when some never become parents after continuously trying.
@@aminahhadi6536what do you mean? This person said absolutely nothing wrong. Just wished them luck and said they had a good feeling. This women is actively trying to have children so I’m sure the prayers and good thought are appreciated…
So exciting!! Congrats! If you ever have to have surgery again, the absolute best thing to do is walk as much as you can! It helps that gas pain soooo much! Xoxo
I pray that God brings this to come to pass quickly. Cole is going to be a great daddy! We're in this journey with you especially as one who has gone through this. God bless you guys
You’re extremely a strong woman with everything you have taken on in your life and God will bless you! I know it’s not easy because I went through difficulties but All the best with your next chapter. Praying for you both. 🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
Congratulations on this beautiful, hard, amazing journey. You both inspire people, like me, to want to be a better person everyday and actually others what THEY need❤.
Awee you guys are so adorable 🥰 16 eggs !! That's fantastic! I love how Cole was sweet & caring for you ❤️ he's more loving & caring than most able bodied men 😊
Certainly you may have had a bad time with the anaesthesia, but also the egg retrieval process itself can cause a lot of those symptoms. I had a similar number of eggs retrieved and ended up with mild ohss which comes with all the symptoms you described (nausea, gas, pains). And I was being preemptively treated for it (as much as they can, which is limited). When the eggs are removed, the follicles pull water and if your body reacts too strongly, it can be very serious (requiring emergency treatment). I know this video is probably not in real time but please monitor yourself closely and if the nausea escalates, call your clinic and/or get to the ER depending on the severity. Hoping it settled down for you but I'll say as someone who has had a fair few surgeries (including two where my whole abdomen was opened up with a big incision), egg retrieval is a difficult experience (or at least it was for me). But it was worth it to me and I hope it ends up feeling the same for you as well.
I started watching this couple years ago.. they’ve always managed to bring a joyful feeling to me watching them together, they’re a blessing to each other …C+C forever 💕
I love that he was such a support in your time of need. He’s a great
hubby!!!❤
Yes he really is 💖
I love you guys and pry that you have a little one soon. Can't wait. CV ole is a good man and you're a beautiful woman. God bless your womb! 🙏❤
I hope it works out for you
Good luck God bless❤
He is a keeper ❤❤❤
Cole is amazing!!!!😊 Good job Charisma! Praying for a beautiful bundle ❤
Yes he is so excited for them beautiful people ❤️
Amen❤
I can't wait to see the baby OR babies...❤🫠😊
So sorry the anesthesia recovery was a bear -- but you know Cole really loved being able to be the caretaker for you after this. Hope you're feeling better soon.
Anesthesia is no joke. I get sick too. Everytime I have some type of surgery. Blessings to you all.
So excited for you wish the best for you and your baby yoiuve both been so patient and loving and wishing you the best you hubby and baby❤
Those gas pains are the worst from any surgery I’ve had pain all the way up my shoulders even. 😬
Praying for your success. You and Cole will make great parents.
Definitely!!😊❤😊
AMEN!!!❤❤❤
Amen
Great is an understatement
🙏🏾💖💐
❤❤❤❤❤ greetings from Sweden! 🇸🇪 OMGI am so excited for you both! My husband and I went through 3 IVF, got two babies that way and our last Daughter showed up unannounced a year later!🎉 I am sure you are going to be great parents, you are such sweet and loving people, it shines through and I love seeing your RUclips stories.❤
Awww Cole is so supportive. I love how yall take care of each other. 🩷💙
Awwww Cole 😭😭 seeing you carry/bring Charisma stuff with your teeth/mouth..makes me emotional! You’re such a good guy!!!!😭😭
Wishing both of you the best.
🥰🥰🥰🥰
I KNOW so sweet
Right prime example of doing what it takes for the one you love. Some men full capped ain’t even opening door🙄
By any means...
Oh, Charisma and Cole…I wish nothing but the ABSOLUTE best for both of you! You deserve it!
Exactly
Amen, Period! 👍🥰
Amen and Amen- such a lovely couple, praying for abundant blessings and joy as you get ready to be parents
Coles a real keeper ,i just wish you guys the best,Keep sweet guys❤
Blessings ❤❤❤❤
I’m so happy for you guys, this is wonderful news. I’ll be praying for you, all of you! I can’t wait to see your beautiful baby!♥️🙏🏻
Yes Cole is a sweet heart, these two beautiful people compliment each other, what a couple.
Congratulations charisma you and Cole will make perfect parents together I’m praying for both of you
Indeed they will be. God is good all the time🙏
Yes! They will be wonderful parents.
So glad you got better Charisma. So wonderful the outcome to have your babies❤. I pray for your guys much happiness, and blessings. I started watching your videos when I saw the wedding video last year. So nice to see Cole being more independent, and taking care of you.
Am so happy for you guys. I hope all this quickly will lead to a baby. You will be great parents
Babies we need lol
16 eggs is amazing!!! I wish y’all the best on y’all’s baby IVF journey!!!
😢 And what happens to all the 'fertilised eggs' that are 'unwanted'?
They are destroyed! Destroyed!
Just as in an abortion. Babies destroyed.
Believe it or not, life begins at conception. At the instant of 'fertilisation', human life begins. Born or unborn, those 'fertilised eggs' are babies, and when they are destroyed for whatever reason or by whatever method or person, it's no different from murder.
The Catholic church, though it is totally PROLIFE from conception to natural, unassisted death, is most definitely against IVF!!!!
May God enlighten all hearts with the Truth of Jesus Christ.
🤰🤱👨👩👦👦✝️🛐💒😇
Love that your husband is so attentive!!!
my parents are also interracial and interabled and it made me so emotional to see how much you two love and support each other 🥹🫶 I wish you both the best of luck in your ivf journey
U know black couples don’t waste time like them
If she would have got a black man she would have been pregnant with her 4 babies by now, oh and some baby mama drama two.
@@jaimeofarrill3309ur weird af
@@jaimeofarrill3309what tha?! 😂
(on another note, super happy for them and praying all goes well 🙏🏾❤️)
@@jaimeofarrill3309😭😭😭😭
@@jaimeofarrill3309 you make 0 sense. A black man isn’t going to fix her personal infertility the process would’ve still been the same. Don’t be ignorant.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. My wife and I have experienced our own journey with infertility so your story really helps me cope, remain hopeful, etc. Praying for you both during this incredibly exciting time! ❤❤❤
I lift my voice in prayer as well.
God bless you both
Auntie J.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🤲🏽💕
GOD,PLEASE LET HER HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY.
@@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
Colel is f****** awesome there is men that won't do that for their women and they're not even in a wheelchair. This man is a real MVP congrats guys !🎈🎉🎊🧨
Preach preach
But coke does not do anything, she works all day for him now she will also have to take care of the baby. She will need help
He's doing beyond more than most men that actually do work. It goes both ways disabled or not he's doing a dam good job..
DAmnnn your so NEGATIVE
U ARE UNHAPPY
SO U LIVE WITH THEM
YOUR A TOTAL NEGATIVE THING
@SumAnonymousAcapella does your negative comment make you feel better?
Wonderful, good job, Cole is so supportive. Praying for your bundle of joy on the way. ❤
I can hear 👂🏽 the patter of twin babies coming ☝🏽💯👏🏽🫶🏽♥️✝️🙏🏾💯
I am so rooting and praying for you guys. Been following you for years!! This is our journey right along with you guys. Stay encouraged. Gods got it all under control! ❤
Way to encourage. ♥️ I enjoy them as well
Oh I pray you two have a successful beautiful HEALTHY pregnancy with a easy delivery ❤ God bless you two!
You are a WARRIOR! And Cole is a great support system! Praying for this to all work out for you guys!
From one single mom to another, Arnell you are doing an amazing job and you are holding it together and keeping it in the road for you and your baby and thts what counts!! I hope you are doing emotionally and mentally well behind the scene and I pray that you won’t feel as lonely anymore.
Give yourself more grace and credit because you are doing what you can that’s within your means and if it’s one thing I’ve learned as a single mom is that it def takes a village and I applaud the village that is in your corner helping you & Noah 🥰♥️
Congratulations!!! I hope everything goes wonderful for you both! Your love is so evident just seeing you two together, You will have the most BEAUTIFUL children!! ❤❤
It’s so wonderful that you feel, Charisma, that this is a two way street- you help each other, especially when you really need it the most. I can’t believe that Cole is dressing himself…that is an impossible task that only Cole could do, it seems like. He IS one of a kind. You two…are so lucky that you found each other🥰! C & C are positive people and just see the good in everything instead of the negative which would be the easier route to follow. Instead, the follow the much harder, challenging and rewarding path which they WILL be rewarded for. They deserve only the best…after all, that is who they are. We all should try to emulate this couple. Stay positive, work hard, reach your goals…just move forward and don’t dwell on the past. You can talk about what you went through…but don’t let it get you down, that’s all.
I am just so proud of these two, Charisma & Cole. Cole almost lost his life…and he appreciates every moment he is still here on 🌏. This special kid had grown into such an incredible gentleman, hasn’t he?! As for Charisma…what an angel here on earth. Yes, Cole & Charisma = two peas in a pod. I was able to see it again in this episode ❤️. Just two amazing souls. God please take care of them…so many around the world are praying for the two (or more ❤️).
Please pardon the grammar AND the misusing of words in a sentence etc… My major cva, seizures and two brain surgeries make my writing skills seem like a 12 year old WHICH my mental status has been reduced to as of that horrible day back in ‘94 and only made worse by the seizures that I had to endure until they were properly diagnosed in 2006. Again, please forgive me…I wasn’t always this bad. I am so sorry….
Your writing is full of positivity that I didn't notice any error. You must be a great writer❤
These two gives me hope about love. Lord grant them their beautiful heart desires 🎉
Amen, I say Amen🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m so happy your egg retrieval went well. I pray for the viability of all 16 eggs. Thanks for keeping us posted. God Bless.
I will more than likely have to do this same thing. Hoping things go well for me as well! So happy for you all. Much love and praying for you guys! ❤
I love how they support each other threw it all. Just love 💗
Praying for you both! May all your dreams come true. Blessings!😊
That’s awesome :)
My lovely IVF twins turn 15 this summer :)
How much was ivf a long time again I wonder? I wish insurance covered it.
Aaaaaw that’s so awesome!! Cole, love seeing you in action as well! Blessings to you both! 16 eggs, WOW! 🎉🎉❤❤
I love how he is taking care of you❤️... It's a blessing for people to see that bc I'm sure a lot of people think it's the other way around. God bless you guys and your growing family
Hmmm
It IS the other way around, everyday, 365. This is .00001% of the time 🙄
Wishing you all the luck in the world. You guys deserve nothing but the best.
So Very Very Happy For You Guys! This Is Wonderful! Hope You Feel Better. Sending Good Vibes & Hope Your Procedure Is Successful❤️
Good thing he found a genuine love like you, hope him n his family appreciates that.
I hope so too, because family can so ungrateful sometimes until they lose her.
If you follow them, you'll see how much both families respect, support, and show their appreciation for one another.
Charisma and Cole, You two are the best!. Praying and Expressing love and support, for you two on this journey. ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️...I'm totally invested and praying for you both.
Me too, God is able
Same. I love them. Looking forward to the family growing ❤
You guys deserve the best!!! Only good thing comes out of true love.
These two are absolutely precious and can’t wait to see the precious baby ❤❤❤
You both are amazing partners. Love, compassion and beauty !
Dear the married not partners husband and blessed wife trying to make there baby.
May you have multiple babies!!! So happy for you!!!!
So far, so wonderful!!! I’ll keep saying my prayers for you and your sweet babies!
I'm so happy for you both! You're an awesome couple! Congrats on the great news! I know that more awesome news is coming!!! 🎉❤
Y’all are doing GREAT 😊 , can’t wait for more updates ❤
I'm sorry you have to go through this pain . You'll see it all worth it when your baby or babies are in your arms . I have a good feeling about this time around 🥰
As women we need to Stop saying stuff like this… it’s very condescending for people struggling with infertility especially when some never become parents after continuously trying.
@@aminahhadi6536what do you mean? This person said absolutely nothing wrong. Just wished them luck and said they had a good feeling. This women is actively trying to have children so I’m sure the prayers and good thought are appreciated…
@@aminahhadi6536shut up
God bless you'll! The way the two of you support each other is incredible.
So exciting!! Congrats! If you ever have to have surgery again, the absolute best thing to do is walk as much as you can! It helps that gas pain soooo much! Xoxo
Awww congratulations 👏🏾🎉 we're praying for you glad you're feeling better 🤗🙏🏾
Congratulations! Hope you feel better and you will be great parents
It is a joy to know that all is well. Thank you Cole for being so supportive. Praying for a bundle of joy soon. Love you guys. Take care.
I'm glad that it went well. God is 👌 👏 Cole is so supportive. Awesome husband. ❤
Praying for your journey to go smoothly!! Hopefully soon you'll get great news!!!
He is a great husband and you're a good wife and the both of you are truly a blessed couple May God continue to bless the b
I enjoy watching the both of you on your many Adventures.❤❤
Praying this works out perfectly for you both. Your babies will clearly be super gorgeous. ❤❤❤❤
Soooo happy for you guys. God has blessed you and will continue to bless ❤
Not Cole talking about eggs, like it was being served for breakfast .you two are awesome. ❤
That baby is gonna be so handsome or beautiful because you two are precious, God bless you both in your journey 🙏
I'm so Happy for you both. I'm just seeing this video. I ALWAYS try to keep up with you both❤
I am so excited for you guys. Have been following your life journey for some time now. You can really feel the love for each other
Your love and joy and realness is truly a blessing to this world. Thanks for being you 💜
Im praying for you guys. You two would be great parents. You 2 deserve a big beautiful family.
Praying for you both . Congratulations
Congratulations! I am so happy that you two are doing this and I’m looking forward to seeing your beautiful babies soon
You both are such a bright light in this world.
I pray that God brings this to come to pass quickly. Cole is going to be a great daddy! We're in this journey with you especially as one who has gone through this. God bless you guys
Praying for you guys. Glad you got 16 eggs. I know you guys are gonna be blessed!.💝💝
Aawwww😢😢😢
Seeing Cole take care of you is such a heartwarming thing ❤️❤️
I wish you two all the best in this journey 🙏🏾
You will make great parents.❤
He is so handsome too
Oh lord you're a very loving young man you're great keep been a team love you both
Y'all can do it 🙏🏾🤞🏾 I'm so excited for you two. Good luck and God bless ❤
Congratulations! Becoming parents is the Bedt gift God can bless you with! Be patient with the process. So happy for y’all!🙏🏽❤️🤗💪🏾
Oh my God Cole, you are amazing…. It warms my heart to see how much you take care of your wife❤🙏🏽⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
So happy for you guys!!
So nice to see this! I am hoping it goes well ❤❤❤❤
Good luck! I hope it happens for you right away! You will make beautiful babies and great parents!☺️
You’re extremely a strong woman with everything you have taken on in your life and God will bless you! I know it’s not easy because I went through difficulties but All the best with your next chapter. Praying for you both. 🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
I am praying for you guys. We love you. Y"all will be wonderful parents!
Congratulations on your positive results!
Congratulations on this beautiful, hard, amazing journey. You both inspire people, like me, to want to be a better person everyday and actually others what THEY need❤.
I’m so excited for your journey to becoming parents! Sending positive vibes & high 5’s 🙏🏼 You 2 are such a supportive team🥰
Congrats!!!! You are one step closer to that beautiful bundle(s) of joy.
Good luck to you both! ❤ Great job Cole caring for Charisma 😂
Congratulations.... love the support from your husband!
Awee you guys are so adorable 🥰 16 eggs !! That's fantastic! I love how Cole was sweet & caring for you ❤️ he's more loving & caring than most able bodied men 😊
Amen to that!
Good luck! You two deserve a family and with Gods grace and mercy you will have ur ❤’s desire!!
So excited for you both!! Prayers Prayers Prayers♥️♥️
Congratulations on your 16 eggs, I hope it twins. 😊
Great job Charisma and Cole. You're team marriage goals. ❤❤❤❤
I love how you take care of each other. ❤❤❤
GOOD LUCK, MY GOD BLESS YOU ,COLE,AND THE BABIES.MUCH LOVE AND PRAYERS.
Hope everything goes wells!!! Congratulations 🎉🎉😊
So sweet... Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 praying all goes well ❤
My God give u twins, triplets quadruple and more u both deserve that..
That would be a nightmare for them. It’s best they have one and then in a year or two have another vs multiples at one time.
OH HAPPY DAY
She's... she's not Costco bruh 😂
@@Piecesoftheshadowyes! Because then she’ll be his main caregiver and full time mom! Too much for a first pregnancy!
Certainly you may have had a bad time with the anaesthesia, but also the egg retrieval process itself can cause a lot of those symptoms. I had a similar number of eggs retrieved and ended up with mild ohss which comes with all the symptoms you described (nausea, gas, pains). And I was being preemptively treated for it (as much as they can, which is limited). When the eggs are removed, the follicles pull water and if your body reacts too strongly, it can be very serious (requiring emergency treatment). I know this video is probably not in real time but please monitor yourself closely and if the nausea escalates, call your clinic and/or get to the ER depending on the severity. Hoping it settled down for you but I'll say as someone who has had a fair few surgeries (including two where my whole abdomen was opened up with a big incision), egg retrieval is a difficult experience (or at least it was for me). But it was worth it to me and I hope it ends up feeling the same for you as well.
Yess!! Prayers and many blessings to this great couple.
I started watching this couple years ago.. they’ve always managed to bring a joyful feeling to me watching them together, they’re a blessing to each other …C+C forever 💕
I'm so excited for you two. Blessings to you both.
So happy and excited for you guys, I know everything is going to be fine 😊❤
THAT IT GIRL! You guys are too cute togheter for this world, never stop being amazing.
You deserved all the love Praying for the new journey
I love watching ur channel you both support each other and that's a beautiful thing 💗
I just discovered you two and already adore how sweet your relationship is.