I clean residential homes for a living. I love it, I help people come home to a calm, stress free environment. My job does involve cleaning bathrooms but if a client (who I have a personal and professional relationship with) referred to me as “the lady who cleans the toilets”…yeah I’m out. Disgusting.
Cant believe ppl have the audacity to put people who clean down. Like, do they not want clean spaces or...? Also congrats on being so good at an important life skill that you make a living doing it
@@jordc448 it’s not ~glamorous~ but I make great money on a part time schedule! If you find the right clients ($$$) it’s very lucrative! I get to be active and listen to my podcasts all day so I consider it a blessing.
It’s a legit SKILL. Why is it being degraded in this way. Ugh. My happiest day is when my cleaner comes to make my home more comfortable for me and my daughter.
True. Like it wasn’t just some shitty one off comment. Rather she fully exposed how not great of a person she is. The mask really slipped w that one. Now no matter how she rebrands next, we know her true colors!🥴
She totally thought that smug ass last line - "I'm doing it wrong," was a BAM! And in a way I guess it was. That was the sound of the trash can lid slamming shut on top of her.
Exactly!!! And that nonsense about how the world should wrap their arms around them when they make mistakes instead of being mean to them....excuse me, we're just challenging you to do better.
@@Leilaniiiiiii 😆 right?! I sincerely wonder if they listen back to their own content and think, “Yup. This is good stuff”. They probably do, which is even WORSE 😂
She hit the nail on the head when she said the Tik Tok came from anger. That was clear. Is that what happens when toxic positivity is enforced and you don’t allow real emotions until you explode?
I don't think Rachel realizes that the way she spoke about her cleaner is degrading to blue collar "unskilled" workers generally, who already don't get much respect or recognition in society. The woman she hired is a professional. Cleaning houses may not always be the most glamorous job, but housekeepers provide an important service. I've worked as a housekeeper in hotels, and it's HARD WORK. It's a physically demanding job and there is more knowledge and skill involved than you think. There is a great deal of professionalism required. So when Rachel characterizes someone like that as "this sweet woman who cleans my toilets", it's insulting to all blue collar laborers. It makes this professional woman sound like some bumbling nitwit with a heart of gold, almost like she takes pity on her or is doing her a favour by letting her clean the toilets (reducing the scope of her work to the grossest parts of the job). It promotes the myth of "unskilled labour" which is used to justify poverty wages. Cleaners, gardeners, restaurant employees, retail employees, customer service workers, etc; are all professionals who work hard, are skilled, and get not enough respect or compensation. Her thoughtless comments were degrading to workers generally. It has nothing to do with her hiring a housekeeper.
So true!!! Housekeepers have to know a lot about what products are safe to use and what will get stuff clean, plus it’s freaking hard work!! Blue collar workers deserve respect.
@@malloryharding882 exactly! You can actually cause damage by cleaning things wrong. Not to mention the professionalism and discretion that you have to conduct yourself with when you are working in clients' homes. You see their messes, their personal items, perhaps even the contents of their drawers and medicine cabinets depending on the extent of the job. You are trusted around their valuables. You see personal stuff about the family. Professionalism is extremely important.
@@JH-yj7kk you might be the ONLY person they allow in their home - or who ever willingly enters their home. It’s a very intimate and deeply trusting relationship in many ways.
She also implies that people with low wage jobs don't work hard, get up early, etc. Which is ridiculous. She chooses to get up early, others may not have a choice.
@@JH-yj7kk and that’s in a domestic setting. If a loved one or friend was hospitalized and didn’t get something like C Diff or MRSA from the previous occupant of the room, thank the EVS staff.
She either knows and is willfully ignorant, or she honestly doesn't know - and no one needs to take life advice from someone who doesn't understand the basic concept of what she said wrong.
I’m going to settle this RIGHT NOW Rachel Hollis wasn’t “cancelled” by any stretch of the imagination She alienated her audience and fan base There’s a BIG difference
I’m literally one of those women who “cleans the toilets” for a living. The thing I want to know is does she not think people like us work hard too? I don’t normally like to say stuff like this but I pulled a fourteen hour day the other day because it’s spring break and I am still exhausted from it! Luckily I don’t have too many days that end up being that long but it’s still a very physically demanding job and it can also be very demeaning. I never looked up to her or read her books but it still hurt to hear someone say stuff like that on their massive platform.
I hope you realize that your job is so important and that you really help all of your clients so much! You have a very valuable job that is very undervalued…
Man, I wish I could hire someone to clean my house. I'd be so grateful! It's a way more important job than being a self-help guru that regurgitates manifestation crap! People actually need your services!!
I just made a similar comment. I spent many years as a housekeeper in various settings. Housekeepers are professionals! Her comments were degrading to all "blue collar " workers who already don't get enough respect.
I am sorry you are ever treated as ‘less than’ for your job. Good grief, if nothing else hasn’t the last couple of years and the panini taught us the importance of proper sanitation, good cleaning techniques, etc? You can be a literal lifesaver.
The only thing that allowed her to be as successful as she was was marrying a Disney executive. She is no better than anyone else and an embarrassment to women. You are an inspiration because you work hard and do what you need to make a living, like a strong woman does. Don't let someone like her bring you down.
25:35 as a Black Woman this garbage Rachael said just seems like a fancier way of say "I have a black friend...so I have a pass to not educate myself further. "
She had a PR team - so, EXPERTS - tell her to wait a couple of days to respond. So she ignores them and impulsively posted something anyway? When that’s exactly how she got in this mess to begin with. Jesus. I hope they quit. She is a liability.
Something that also stuck out to me is that every time Rachel would talk about her privilege, she would either preface it with “I had no idea”, or follow it with the same sentiment. And, I would like to add that just because you are privileged doesn’t automatically mean that you have no idea how you present that in the world. You can be privileged AND aware AND be actively working to understand how your privilege shows up in the world, Rach.
I can't with this woman. I didn't know there were this many ways to humblebrag. "Girl own up to your mistakes" is my first book coming soon to a bookstore near you.
"Girl be like Jon Favreau" is the sequel to my first book BTW. She wants to stop talking so much about her life meanwhile she mentions her boo thang fifteen times a video.
I cleaned houses for several years a decade ago. Best money I ever made and best customers I ever had. Yes, I cleaned their toilets. No, none of them (that I know of) referred to me as "the girl who cleans their toilets." It's disrespectful and either she knows and is just making excuses, or she doesn't know, which goes exactly to SHOW her "privilege" that she doesn't even know a world where it's disrespectful to speak of another human being that way.
She just panders to save her image. It's like all she knows how to do, I really don't think she even knows what she believes or what she thinks is good or whatever. Literally whatever is big, whatever is trendy, she will use that to try to justify herself or make herself look good. I completely agree that she should be cancelled, and unless she humbles herself, and not this fake humility that she knows how to impersonate, but actual humility, it is not good for her nor the world for her to make a living off of being an influencer or public figure or whatever. That's my two cents.
She says she doesn't owe anyone the truth about why their marriage ended, yet she CONTINUES to talk about her ended marriage... I feel like Will Farrell's character in "Zoolander" when he says, "I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!" Seriously, if Rachel doesn't want people to inquire about why marriage ended then she should STOP USING IT AS A TALKING POINT FOR HER CONTENT!
EXACTLY. BUT ALSO….that just makes far too much sense. Rachel really doesn’t appear to exhibit ANY common sense. Or decency for that matter. Everything she says and does is scripted. Everything is planned. Every move of hers is calculated. She’s lost sight of reality. By far. A person can only last for so long wearing masks….and keeping up appearances for “a brand”. I think it’s only a matter of time before she has a public meltdown…a la Dave Hollis.
“We had very publicly said for 5 years we had been working on something that ultimately would be the thing that destroyed us.” Umm, no. That’s a lie. I remember her saying they were better than ever with all their make out sessions, all the vow renewals, their fun banter on the morning show, etc, etc.
The way she talks about the PROFESSIONAL who cleans her house is infuriating. Why does she have to be like "this sweet woman cleans my house" like she's some naive halfwit. Why can't she be like "i pay a skilled professional to help me with cleaning. She's also really sweet to me and that means a lot"
She says it’s the only “thing” she had. No, Rachel Hubris. You had a physical home and you still had the means to pay for a service and you still had a desire to maintain your lifestyle and enjoy conveniences. But it’s 2022; we don’t own people now.
People were mad she got a divorce was cause she was selling relationship advice and then literally said she was getting divorced cause she wanted to pursue her dreams! It was like “my marriage is the dream” and then “no, now I am the dream.” Like what?
When Rachel started crying that all she has is her “house cleaner” …wow we all just feel so sorry for you #unrelatable BUT also she’s crying because she is pitying herself and all she’s done but not the fact that she had to lay off 30+ ppl, the remorse is not for that, because in the same breath she talks about how she kept ppl employed… what!? 🤦🏼♀️
All she has is her house cleaner... and also enough money in the bank that she never has to work another day in her life... her health and the health of her 4 beautiful children who love and admire her... I don't think she's doing her gratification practices at 4am anymore.
Yeah they VERY MUCH actively presented themselves as having a perfect marriage. Hence why everyone was completely shocked when they divorced out of seemingly nowhere!
What even is Rachel's personality? I don't know if she even knows how to be herself. Every part of her life seems either invented or exaggerated. All her little stories sound like lies or normal stories embellished to add to this running narrative of living a profound life.
I also love that she speaks for black women - I do get annoyed when people are ignorant of race problems however, that’s why you hire people around you that can point out problematic or offensive things (or better yet not even pitch them) this includes people of all races, gender identities, body types, cultural/religious backgrounds and sexualities
Regarding Jon Favreau, I think Family Guy said it best: "He puts himself in his own movies but you don't mind because he seems like the kind of guy who would help you move if you asked him." Rachel would tell you that's not worth her time and you should hire movers.
I'm listening as I'm walking on the treadmill, my husband is working on something on the other end of the basement. He hears Rachel talking about her "only" friend being the woman that cleans her toilets. He said "That woman needs to quit, or get a LARGE RAISE!"
I cannot wrap my brain around her basically saying she wished she made content with zero feedback. That she thinks that's what people like Jon Favreau do. She thinks if you make fictional content, that you are magically freed from being held accountable for what you say. That you never have to learn any lessons or grow. That is batshit crazy. Those people are not beloved because they stay out of the spotlight. It's because they make RELATEABLE content, often out of situations that are completely unrelatable. They explore empathy and encourage healthy criticism of the their own work.
She can have privacy BUT when she says over and over “Dave has this big secret that’s ruined our marriage” that lends for someone saying “hmm what’s that big secret you keep talking about?”
B Haney actually has the livestream. From what I remember, there was *no* mention of someone who had severe depression. She created a TikTok from this very entitled reaction to someone who called her out on her privilege. Also, all the women she listed were *not* unrelatable! Also, they aren't exactly obscure historical figures (aside from Wu Zetian but as of now, with Iron Widow, a lot of people are gonna research who she actually is). The take I got from this is that Rachel really sees everyone as commodities, even her children. And as of the latest Rach Talk, I highly doubt that she's even a good mother.
“I don’t even remember what I wrote to be honest with you” don’t worry Rach! The internet is forever! You can find it IF YOU LOOK. But you’ve never been good at doing prep or research before doing anything before so why start now right?
Rachel should know, if her friend is an educator on race relations and bias etc, is that using “Don’t worry my friend is black” is never the answer. Like ok then if she is so close and so trusted you would never speak in that way. Goes back to her just not truly understanding. You can have role models but don’t use their lives and history as scapegoats to cover your mess. Just cause you “relate” or want to “relate” to them does not mean you can say “ohh we are all ~unrelatable~”. Like fun Rach I don’t want to relate to you I actually am congnisent of my words and actions
THANK YOU! That bugs me sooooo much! Just like Rachel demeaned her house cleaner to “someone who cleans my toilets”, to me, she is demeaning her “best” friend as “someone who is Black”. If she was TRULY aware of the actual problem with all this, she wouldn’t say things like that. It grinds my gears when people who are being called out for racism say things like, “I can’t be racist! MY BEST FRIEND IS BLACK!” To me, if that was REALLY your best friend, you wouldn’t be labeling her by the color of her skin, amirite?! Things like that have always bugged me.
Yay thanks for this Keya! I feel like I always believe what people say and I trust them, so it’s really great to hear your perspective on people like Rachel. It helps me put other peoples’ words and actions in perspective as well so I’m not always believing bullshit!
I would love to hear Rachel on a platform that actually challenges her views. This podcast felt similar to the TR one Rach did in the way that the host is just agreeing with the guest and letting them spread their POV unchecked.
Sooo, first she says that she DOES have help (ie. Nannies, housekeeper, a whole team, etc.), that "its taken a village!" And THEN, it turns into whining about how hard it is being solely responsible for everything ever in her life and "it was so hard keeping everything together all by myself!!" Uhhmm. Yep.
IF ANYONE IS INTERESTED in seeing the actual livestream Rachel “narrated” here and how things ACTUALLY occurred, here’s a link to B Haney’s video on that. It’s easily apparent Rachel was triggered but NOT for the reasons she gave on this podcast. Link: ruclips.net/video/pUxOeSZC2lM/видео.html
@@RobAGabor right? And she uses a lot of the same wording in that live reaction to the comment she read. So it just proves HOW much it triggered her, that she then made an edited TikTok 🙄
@@RobAGabor "toilet thing?" What does she even have a toilet in her house for? I thought she was beyond and above having a butthole. She sure seems to act like she believes that.
also it's actually shocking to me that she actually doesn't seem to 'get' that hard work doesn't always mean a 'mogul' tattoo and a mansion in hawaii or wherever. the actual level or privilege is almost scary. i find her incredibly disturbing especially because she's clearly very intelligent: so WHY CAN'T SHE FREAKING GET the actual reality of the lives of so many people who clean houses 15 hours a day and can't get ahead?! And also why won't she admit that the reason people are mad at her about her divorce is because she sold them advice based on a good relationship? The denial is puke-worthy.
The funny thing is the guy in the podcast pointed that out and he was immediately shot down. Like okay, I guess we can’t be too honest on this platform
I genuinely don't understand people like Rachel's urge to take all the credit of their success for themselves and act like they did it alone. I couldn't imagine talking about the success I have had in my life and career so far without talking about how the support, money, and encouragement of my parents, friends, and other people in my life have been essentially THE thing that has gotten me where I am. I have student debt from grad school, but my parents paid for my undergraduate degree. Just the fact that my parents constantly encouraged my hobbies and talents as a kid is a HUGE part of what I was capable of. Sure, I've also worked hard, I've always studied hard, but that wouldn't have been possible without the money and support of other people. People can still appreciate your success even if you talk about receiving support from others. It also makes it clear that someone understands how privilege factors into their life and their success, and understand the gravity of it.
Wow that's big. Seriously I wonder how old you are generationally I'm a late Gen X but I was lucky in my dad being a WWII vet whose childhood was during the great depression so I have a lot more gratitude and pragmatism than many of the others I know who grew up with me. I'm really glad you're not entitled and you're grateful to the people who have helped you have your own success.... I have so much to thank so many people for in the best part of me being possible.... It means more to me with every year and I see the way younger people seem to be so cynical and bitter even resentful that they have to move back home with the parents after college because the economy is crap etc... Doesn't sound very appreciative of the parents. Where did they plan to go if the parents said get lost, and told them to pull their own weight.
@@RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper I'm a younger millennial. I'm glad you're able to feel that gratitude for the people in your life etc. I really feel like like so many people want to talk about "privilege" and whatnot for the performance if it, but the same people don't want to genuinely think about how supportive people etc in ones life can make the entire difference. Like you said, if I were to have something bad happen to me, my family wouldn't let me be homeless. That's a huge safety net. People make a ton of money off of telling people to "work really hard" though because it's much more difficult to be like "have a supportive family and friends and people who are willing to back you up and help you out and introduce you to people who can put you in the right place at the right time and pass opportunities your way."
Keya-I always appreciate your content. I especially appreciate your interaction with the viewers and how you’re always asking for alternative perspectives. Your sense of humor is funny as hell too. It’s like kinda dry, kinda low key which is MY kind of humor. Yours is the only channel that makes me laugh out loud. I watched your Mickey impression 3 times. It’s so hard to find RUclipsrs with THAT random, cute humor. Just like little funnies throughout! You’re also an excellent advocate for therapy and I appreciate that! Thanks for the content. You’re spreading important information!🧡
It would've been interesting if they were true to "this isn't a safe space" thing. If they actually pushed those questions rather than the woman defending rachel and making excuses for her. Seems like whenever someone says "this isn't a safe space" it's the complete opposite and they are the ones needing a safe space the most.
It “never occurs” to her that people would be upset or offended by what she says because she’s a narcissist and believes that everyone can be so profoundly inspired by the shit that comes out of her mouth. That’s why she’s in the self-help line of work.
How relatable of you! (Sounds awesome btw. I watched Housewives at 5am during the Erika Jayne episodes so I could be alone and away from my kids in the start today slot.)
Rachel literally said that she wants to be the next Oprah on the last interview she did with Tony Robbins. This lady just cannot remember what she said from day today.
i’m only halfway thru this video but so far, rachel has only reinforced the idea that she is astronomically out of touch with the average adult. it’s not even about relatability, she straight up doesn’t understand how and why people react negatively to the things she says! even the notion of telling a depressed person “get okay with the mess or pay for a housekeeper” is so…… unhelpful and obtuse
I believe this is a cautionary tale about the fame of self-help gurus and quite honestly, I wish she would stop trying to explain, or apologize, if that’s what this was. To me it’s a lot of contradictory double talk in the hopes a gaining more attention. She messed up. Either apologize and do better or walk away. Frankly, the best scenario would be for her to get the hell out of the spotlight and go focus on her family and spend some serious time rethinking her future plans.
Key point in the very beginning…. be a good human. RACHEL IS NOT A GOOD HUMAN!!! The whole interview was her blaming her fans for pushing her into a corner of only a specific type of content. In Rachel’s book Girl Wash Your Face was t the only time she mentioned the nanny in the blurb at the end of the book where she thanked people for the help? I don’t remember hearing anything about the nanny. This is the only book I read. I still don’t give her any credit for any of her “apologies”. They don’t recognize her responsibility of what she really did whole heartedly. They are only surface trying to save face apologies. This interview made me SO mad!!! She is a complete lier and is constantly manipulating the truth to make it benefit her!!!
I love how little research Rachel Hollis does. Not only is Jon Favreau on social media he has more 5.4 million followers between IG and Twitter. I can't imagine how much he has on Facebook. She made it seem like he's off of the grid in the woods somewhere lol.
She just made a bigger fool in this 🤣 podcast to me. Did she just really say and the only time she cried was when she said she almost didn't have her house keeper during covid??Whattt.? Nothing against her housekeeper. During covid ppl lost love ones, I lost my whole job, my husband lost half his income & she's out here saying her most sad moment was that, huh?
If that was the only women she had in her life was the person who cleaned her toilets…what about her kids?? Friends that pulled her out of bed when she was down? What about her still up and running business. Plus she was insulting to the woman by not calling her a house keeper, she doesn’t come just the clean the toilet Rachel. Why not say friend if she helped her?
WAIT. She’s inspiring to be “unrelatable”? Well, she’s certainly accomplishing that in her “Rach Talks”, but I don’t think it’s in a way that she intends for them to. 🤷🏻♀️
Sooo good Keya! Lil Miss Rach sounds so delusional, she's out here trying to just lie lie lie! It's so annoying when she keeps saying " like I think". I listened to this podcast already from another Rachel evaluating it but was waiting for your take too!
Have you ever thought that she thought the divorce would propel her personal career? I don't know much about Glennon Doyle but from what I've heard is that after her divorce the book she wrote about her experience exploded with popularity. I would love to see you compare their journeys. I bet she thought it would explode her career.
Can't believe she had the nerve to say it never occurred to her that people would say she was comparing herself to those women 🤣 Literally the comments that made her so mad were "well you're unrelatable" and "you're privileged AF" and the caption that Rachel herself wrote said that those women were all unrelatable AF. The parallel was obvious. What she was really saying was, "Oh yeah? Well I didn't want to relate to you anyway! These women weren't relatable either and they were better than you, so thanks for lumping me in with them!"
So in this wholeeee video, I really didn't hear an apology from Rachel. She said "I'm sorry I hurt people" but last I checked, that's kind of a cop out apology. Soooo her "apology tour" isn't really an apology tour.
If having a “sweet cleaning woman” was the “only thing she had!” Then why was her tiktok about how she gets her toilet cleaned so she can be un-relatable LIKE Harriet Tubman??
Love your edited videos! I'm usually at work and don't have time for the long livestreams 🥲. Looking forward to your coverage of "Rachel Hollis, the Musical" when it comes out 😂
Holy shit I love you 🤟🏼 I just found your channel through this video and the fact that you even pointed out Him & Her being hypocritical af is my favorite. They are obviously “too cool” for respectful and nonjudgmental places.
She’s THISCLOSE to full awareness of why people are mad. For example. People aren’t upset and dragging you because you got divorced. Couples get divorced every day. People are upset because you and Dave were billing yourselves as marriage advice gurus while hiding the fact that in reality, your marriage was on the rocks. It’s the lies. It’s the lack of taking responsibility. It’s the taking peoples money and selling them something that turned out to be a total sham. She’s SO CLOSE. Sigh. Maybe one day she’ll get it.
Honestly all of this screams ‘emotional manipulation’ to me. The worst part being that ‘everything is falling apart!’ *sob sob* ‘ people are attacking me!’ *sob sob* ‘all I have left is the sweet cleaning lady!’ *sob sob* ‘they’re taking away the one good thing i have left in this world!’ *mega sob!!!*
She drives me INSANEEE with her lack of accountability...over and over omg. Even the way she words thing reeks of "I'm sorry YOU feel that way!" She and the Captain deserved one another 😂
Anyone else catch her saying "let's say it was a Tuesday" when she was explaining what happened? That sounds like she's making up a story not recalling facts.
In her smug ass video that started this, it was "I have somebody who cleans my toilets twice a week...because I work my ASS off to get this money and have a lady come clean my toilets twice a week," and then in the non apology it was "I have someone who HELPS me clean, people who HELP me take care of my kids," etc. It went from "I'm better than everyone" to "ALL I HAVE IS THE TOILET CLEANER WHY IS EVERYONE SO HATEFUL!!!"
I run a womens business group, and at each meeting I say we are a safe place. And you know what, we have awesome open conversations! They feel comfortable saying things, sharing trauma filled stories. What is wrong with offering a safe place?!?!? Also, Rach, next time listen to your PR team and don't say anything!
i would give anything for rachel would do an interview with kayla/savy/anyone who is actually thoughtfully critical of her. i feel like she would get so much further in her image rehabilitation if she publicly had an honest conversation with someone who would actually challenge her.
I have tried so hard not to loathe and truly just despise this woman, but the more she talks the harder it gets to not just despise her. I think I saw someone had interviewed one of her former employees, and as soon as the PPP money ran out she laid off all of her employees. And I’m with you, and I do not think you’re heartless at all, that she just cannot accept any accountability for what she does. She gained her fame by being relatable and then when she gets famous then she doesn’t need to be relatable anymore? And I agree with you: boo-hoo you went through a divorce and had to pay off your husband. Well stand in line sister, you’re not the only one. And yes, it probably is very difficult to live your life under a magnifying glass… But here’s a suggestion Rachel, don’t live your life under a magnifying glass, and live like the rest of us do. But no you don’t want to do that; you want the fame and you want the money you just don’t want the accountability. Not buying it, you shouldn’t be selling it.
I just listened to this episode and came to RUclips wanting to hear commentary and this fits the bill perfectly! In the podcast, Rachel never took responsibility for saying “the lady who cleans my toilets” actually, the “sweet lady who cleans my toilets” and how condescending that comes across. I don’t want to talk about this weird vague term of privilege vs non-privilege. I would rather highlight that she is so tone deaf. THAT is the reason she was cancelled.
How many ways can we tell the HollisHouse that we DGAF that you got divorced. We GAF that you were profiting off your 'exceptional' marriage while it was falling apart. People care that you exploited couples.
Towards the end Rachel says “I wanted to get recognized at the airport” I’ve known some people who are sometimes recognized at the airport. It makes people miserable because they don’t ever get a moment of peace. It’s an incredibly shallow goal. Truly. You do NOT want to get so famous that you can get recognized by strangers when you’re just doing ordinary stuff.
Cldkdkdk I don’t buy this story of her getting mad on this Mystery Woman With Depression’s behalf; if that’s what it was she would’ve said it in the original tiktok.
The story is that a white woman (Rachel) was talking about how having a house cleaner helps her probably, and a viewer had a problem with that and voiced it. White woman gets mad and makes a tiktok throwing a fit and showing how she thinks she’s so much better and hardworking than everyone around her. The end.
She somehow thinks that the definition of being privileged is being unaware… no lady… it’s not privilege that led to her to supposedly not realize people would think sh was comparing herself to Harriet Tubman… it’s called grandiosity. When it was reflected backed to her she realized how ridiculous it is to say she shared similarities to these women …and then tried to back peddle…
I completely agree that there is zero excuse for her comments. Period. What I will say is that *no one* “signed up for” a pandemic. In any capacity. Whether you are an employee or the ceo. No one knew how to navigate that. Still doesn’t make her comments ok, but I don’t think she signed up for being a ceo of a company that depends on people showing up in person during a pandemic.
Soooooo gross that lady talking about the kids like WTF WE DOnt HOld MALE CEO ACCOUNTABLE BASED ON THEIR CHILD NUMber!!!!!!!!! Like 6 kids doesn’t excuse a male ceo for anything sooooo let’s stop doing this to women
And yes I work and I agree it’s harder for women bc breastfeeding and co sleeping the first year are way more women-heavy work environments- however. With Nannies and spouses and formula and dads and bottles and donor milk etc….. a woman should be allowed to WORK 80 hours a week and stop getting called the mommy at home. Or the more stressed parent. Like in Anna delvey show. That husband needed to breastfeed that newborn so the mama could do her WORKKKK LOL STEP UP MALES
One of the worst things in this podcast was how many times she mentions her "best friend whose black " and how many times said black friend says "oh bitch"...like seriously?
The Jon Favreau comment 🤦♀️ oh brother. “I used to think I wanted fame, success and riches! Now I realized I just want success and riches with a little bit of fame!” She’s still as shallow as ever.
I clean residential homes for a living. I love it, I help people come home to a calm, stress free environment. My job does involve cleaning bathrooms but if a client (who I have a personal and professional relationship with) referred to me as “the lady who cleans the toilets”…yeah I’m out. Disgusting.
I have wonderful clients. Nothing to shame for helping people live with dignity . Thank you for being one of the few .
I would love you!!! You would be my favorite person!!!!!
Cant believe ppl have the audacity to put people who clean down. Like, do they not want clean spaces or...?
Also congrats on being so good at an important life skill that you make a living doing it
@@jordc448 it’s not ~glamorous~ but I make great money on a part time schedule! If you find the right clients ($$$) it’s very lucrative! I get to be active and listen to my podcasts all day so I consider it a blessing.
It’s a legit SKILL. Why is it being degraded in this way. Ugh. My happiest day is when my cleaner comes to make my home more comfortable for me and my daughter.
Here's the thing with Toiletgate and her not being readily forgiven. She didn't just mess up. She let us see how she really feels about us peasants.
True. Like it wasn’t just some shitty one off comment. Rather she fully exposed how not great of a person she is. The mask really slipped w that one. Now no matter how she rebrands next, we know her true colors!🥴
She totally thought that smug ass last line - "I'm doing it wrong," was a BAM! And in a way I guess it was. That was the sound of the trash can lid slamming shut on top of her.
Thanks for catching the irony in their “disclaimer”: they say their’s is not a place to be coddled….and yet, they pretty much coddle Rachel 🙄
Not only that, they even provided her with excuses for her behaviour and actions.
THIS. It's almost comical how blind--or hypocritical-- they are
She needs a safe space to cry about being a rotten person. Cry me a river..
Exactly!!! And that nonsense about how the world should wrap their arms around them when they make mistakes instead of being mean to them....excuse me, we're just challenging you to do better.
@@Leilaniiiiiii 😆 right?! I sincerely wonder if they listen back to their own content and think, “Yup. This is good stuff”. They probably do, which is even WORSE 😂
She hit the nail on the head when she said the Tik Tok came from anger. That was clear. Is that what happens when toxic positivity is enforced and you don’t allow real emotions until you explode?
I don't think Rachel realizes that the way she spoke about her cleaner is degrading to blue collar "unskilled" workers generally, who already don't get much respect or recognition in society. The woman she hired is a professional. Cleaning houses may not always be the most glamorous job, but housekeepers provide an important service. I've worked as a housekeeper in hotels, and it's HARD WORK. It's a physically demanding job and there is more knowledge and skill involved than you think. There is a great deal of professionalism required.
So when Rachel characterizes someone like that as "this sweet woman who cleans my toilets", it's insulting to all blue collar laborers. It makes this professional woman sound like some bumbling nitwit with a heart of gold, almost like she takes pity on her or is doing her a favour by letting her clean the toilets (reducing the scope of her work to the grossest parts of the job).
It promotes the myth of "unskilled labour" which is used to justify poverty wages. Cleaners, gardeners, restaurant employees, retail employees, customer service workers, etc; are all professionals who work hard, are skilled, and get not enough respect or compensation.
Her thoughtless comments were degrading to workers generally. It has nothing to do with her hiring a housekeeper.
So true!!! Housekeepers have to know a lot about what products are safe to use and what will get stuff clean, plus it’s freaking hard work!! Blue collar workers deserve respect.
@@malloryharding882 exactly! You can actually cause damage by cleaning things wrong. Not to mention the professionalism and discretion that you have to conduct yourself with when you are working in clients' homes. You see their messes, their personal items, perhaps even the contents of their drawers and medicine cabinets depending on the extent of the job. You are trusted around their valuables. You see personal stuff about the family. Professionalism is extremely important.
@@JH-yj7kk you might be the ONLY person they allow in their home - or who ever willingly enters their home. It’s a very intimate and deeply trusting relationship in many ways.
She also implies that people with low wage jobs don't work hard, get up early, etc. Which is ridiculous. She chooses to get up early, others may not have a choice.
@@JH-yj7kk and that’s in a domestic setting. If a loved one or friend was hospitalized and didn’t get something like C Diff or MRSA from the previous occupant of the room, thank the EVS staff.
If she doesn’t understand what she did wrong after this amount of time, then I don’t think it will ever happen
I absolutely agree!
She either knows and is willfully ignorant, or she honestly doesn't know - and no one needs to take life advice from someone who doesn't understand the basic concept of what she said wrong.
I’m going to settle this RIGHT NOW
Rachel Hollis wasn’t “cancelled” by any stretch of the imagination
She alienated her audience and fan base
There’s a BIG difference
I’m literally one of those women who “cleans the toilets” for a living. The thing I want to know is does she not think people like us work hard too? I don’t normally like to say stuff like this but I pulled a fourteen hour day the other day because it’s spring break and I am still exhausted from it! Luckily I don’t have too many days that end up being that long but it’s still a very physically demanding job and it can also be very demeaning. I never looked up to her or read her books but it still hurt to hear someone say stuff like that on their massive platform.
I hope you realize that your job is so important and that you really help all of your clients so much! You have a very valuable job that is very undervalued…
Man, I wish I could hire someone to clean my house. I'd be so grateful! It's a way more important job than being a self-help guru that regurgitates manifestation crap! People actually need your services!!
I just made a similar comment. I spent many years as a housekeeper in various settings. Housekeepers are professionals! Her comments were degrading to all "blue collar " workers who already don't get enough respect.
I am sorry you are ever treated as ‘less than’ for your job. Good grief, if nothing else hasn’t the last couple of years and the panini taught us the importance of proper sanitation, good cleaning techniques, etc? You can be a literal lifesaver.
The only thing that allowed her to be as successful as she was was marrying a Disney executive. She is no better than anyone else and an embarrassment to women. You are an inspiration because you work hard and do what you need to make a living, like a strong woman does. Don't let someone like her bring you down.
25:35 as a Black Woman this garbage Rachael said just seems like a fancier way of say "I have a black friend...so I have a pass to not educate myself further. "
She had a PR team - so, EXPERTS - tell her to wait a couple of days to respond. So she ignores them and impulsively posted something anyway? When that’s exactly how she got in this mess to begin with. Jesus. I hope they quit. She is a liability.
Something that also stuck out to me is that every time Rachel would talk about her privilege, she would either preface it with “I had no idea”, or follow it with the same sentiment. And, I would like to add that just because you are privileged doesn’t automatically mean that you have no idea how you present that in the world. You can be privileged AND aware AND be actively working to understand how your privilege shows up in the world, Rach.
That's what makes her worse. A lot of people know that they are privileged and are trying to not suck. She never tries.
I can't with this woman. I didn't know there were this many ways to humblebrag. "Girl own up to your mistakes" is my first book coming soon to a bookstore near you.
"Girl be like Jon Favreau" is the sequel to my first book BTW. She wants to stop talking so much about her life meanwhile she mentions her boo thang fifteen times a video.
I cleaned houses for several years a decade ago. Best money I ever made and best customers I ever had. Yes, I cleaned their toilets. No, none of them (that I know of) referred to me as "the girl who cleans their toilets." It's disrespectful and either she knows and is just making excuses, or she doesn't know, which goes exactly to SHOW her "privilege" that she doesn't even know a world where it's disrespectful to speak of another human being that way.
She just panders to save her image. It's like all she knows how to do, I really don't think she even knows what she believes or what she thinks is good or whatever. Literally whatever is big, whatever is trendy, she will use that to try to justify herself or make herself look good. I completely agree that she should be cancelled, and unless she humbles herself, and not this fake humility that she knows how to impersonate, but actual humility, it is not good for her nor the world for her to make a living off of being an influencer or public figure or whatever. That's my two cents.
She says she doesn't owe anyone the truth about why their marriage ended, yet she CONTINUES to talk about her ended marriage... I feel like Will Farrell's character in "Zoolander" when he says, "I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!" Seriously, if Rachel doesn't want people to inquire about why marriage ended then she should STOP USING IT AS A TALKING POINT FOR HER CONTENT!
EXACTLY. BUT ALSO….that just makes far too much sense. Rachel really doesn’t appear to exhibit ANY common sense. Or decency for that matter. Everything she says and does is scripted. Everything is planned. Every move of hers is calculated. She’s lost sight of reality. By far. A person can only last for so long wearing masks….and keeping up appearances for “a brand”. I think it’s only a matter of time before she has a public meltdown…a la Dave Hollis.
Thanks for blessing us with so much content lately! It is appreciated 🥰
Agreed!!
Agreed!!
“We had very publicly said for 5 years we had been working on something that ultimately would be the thing that destroyed us.” Umm, no. That’s a lie. I remember her saying they were better than ever with all their make out sessions, all the vow renewals, their fun banter on the morning show, etc, etc.
The way she talks about the PROFESSIONAL who cleans her house is infuriating. Why does she have to be like "this sweet woman cleans my house" like she's some naive halfwit. Why can't she be like "i pay a skilled professional to help me with cleaning. She's also really sweet to me and that means a lot"
She says it’s the only “thing” she had. No, Rachel Hubris. You had a physical home and you still had the means to pay for a service and you still had a desire to maintain your lifestyle and enjoy conveniences. But it’s 2022; we don’t own people now.
Lol why should we wrap our arms around her while she's actively telling us not to try and relate to her 🤣
People were mad she got a divorce was cause she was selling relationship advice and then literally said she was getting divorced cause she wanted to pursue her dreams! It was like “my marriage is the dream” and then “no, now I am the dream.” Like what?
When Rachel started crying that all she has is her “house cleaner” …wow we all just feel so sorry for you #unrelatable BUT also she’s crying because she is pitying herself and all she’s done but not the fact that she had to lay off 30+ ppl, the remorse is not for that, because in the same breath she talks about how she kept ppl employed… what!? 🤦🏼♀️
All she has is her house cleaner... and also enough money in the bank that she never has to work another day in her life... her health and the health of her 4 beautiful children who love and admire her... I don't think she's doing her gratification practices at 4am anymore.
@@WannaPizzaMe lol right… she acts so “poor me” about having a house cleaner.. like that’s nothing to have… make it make sense lol
She’s out right lying. She didn’t talk about then having serious problems for years. They said they had an exceptional marriage
And it was getting better every year!
@@WannaPizzaMe 😂 right?!
Yeah they VERY MUCH actively presented themselves as having a perfect marriage. Hence why everyone was completely shocked when they divorced out of seemingly nowhere!
@@WannaPizzaMe better and better until the best part ever happened.... The end.
She’s gaslighting us!
What even is Rachel's personality? I don't know if she even knows how to be herself. Every part of her life seems either invented or exaggerated. All her little stories sound like lies or normal stories embellished to add to this running narrative of living a profound life.
I also love that she speaks for black women - I do get annoyed when people are ignorant of race problems however, that’s why you hire people around you that can point out problematic or offensive things (or better yet not even pitch them) this includes people of all races, gender identities, body types, cultural/religious backgrounds and sexualities
Regarding Jon Favreau, I think Family Guy said it best:
"He puts himself in his own movies but you don't mind because he seems like the kind of guy who would help you move if you asked him."
Rachel would tell you that's not worth her time and you should hire movers.
I'm listening as I'm walking on the treadmill, my husband is working on something on the other end of the basement. He hears Rachel talking about her "only" friend being the woman that cleans her toilets. He said "That woman needs to quit, or get a LARGE RAISE!"
I cannot wrap my brain around her basically saying she wished she made content with zero feedback. That she thinks that's what people like Jon Favreau do. She thinks if you make fictional content, that you are magically freed from being held accountable for what you say. That you never have to learn any lessons or grow. That is batshit crazy. Those people are not beloved because they stay out of the spotlight. It's because they make RELATEABLE content, often out of situations that are completely unrelatable. They explore empathy and encourage healthy criticism of the their own work.
She can have privacy BUT when she says over and over “Dave has this big secret that’s ruined our marriage” that lends for someone saying “hmm what’s that big secret you keep talking about?”
B Haney actually has the livestream. From what I remember, there was *no* mention of someone who had severe depression. She created a TikTok from this very entitled reaction to someone who called her out on her privilege.
Also, all the women she listed were *not* unrelatable! Also, they aren't exactly obscure historical figures (aside from Wu Zetian but as of now, with Iron Widow, a lot of people are gonna research who she actually is).
The take I got from this is that Rachel really sees everyone as commodities, even her children. And as of the latest Rach Talk, I highly doubt that she's even a good mother.
Yes!! I rewatched B Haney’s video cuz Rachel here in this podcast made me question my memory 👋🏼😑 just more proof to how awful she is
I rolled my eyes so hard when she called herself a history nerd after referring to those incredibly well known women.
She googled “Famous Influential Women” and saw Wu Zetian’s name, and added it to the list. That’s my bet. “History buff” my ass. 🤣🤦🏼♀️
“I don’t even remember what I wrote to be honest with you” don’t worry Rach! The internet is forever! You can find it IF YOU LOOK.
But you’ve never been good at doing prep or research before doing anything before so why start now right?
That notes app “apology” was complete bs too, esp with the passive aggressive “Dora the Explorer”-ing she did.
Because you built your entire brand off of being the relatable hot mess express to get the money out of SAHMs in MLMs across America.
Rachel should know, if her friend is an educator on race relations and bias etc, is that using “Don’t worry my friend is black” is never the answer. Like ok then if she is so close and so trusted you would never speak in that way. Goes back to her just not truly understanding. You can have role models but don’t use their lives and history as scapegoats to cover your mess. Just cause you “relate” or want to “relate” to them does not mean you can say “ohh we are all ~unrelatable~”. Like fun Rach I don’t want to relate to you I actually am congnisent of my words and actions
THANK YOU! That bugs me sooooo much! Just like Rachel demeaned her house cleaner to “someone who cleans my toilets”, to me, she is demeaning her “best” friend as “someone who is Black”. If she was TRULY aware of the actual problem with all this, she wouldn’t say things like that. It grinds my gears when people who are being called out for racism say things like, “I can’t be racist! MY BEST FRIEND IS BLACK!” To me, if that was REALLY your best friend, you wouldn’t be labeling her by the color of her skin, amirite?! Things like that have always bugged me.
This!!!!
Yay thanks for this Keya! I feel like I always believe what people say and I trust them, so it’s really great to hear your perspective on people like Rachel. It helps me put other peoples’ words and actions in perspective as well so I’m not always believing bullshit!
Thank you for being so aware and helping others to simply see the truth behind all the circle talk. It is beautifully refreshing.
I would love to hear Rachel on a platform that actually challenges her views. This podcast felt similar to the TR one Rach did in the way that the host is just agreeing with the guest and letting them spread their POV unchecked.
Sooo, first she says that she DOES have help (ie. Nannies, housekeeper, a whole team, etc.), that "its taken a village!" And THEN, it turns into whining about how hard it is being solely responsible for everything ever in her life and "it was so hard keeping everything together all by myself!!" Uhhmm. Yep.
“I had never lived by myself before” and “I was raising kids by myself” really doesn’t add up
Not to mention she has older kids that can help out/take care of themselves... She's not raising a household of babies and toddlers alone.
IF ANYONE IS INTERESTED in seeing the actual livestream Rachel “narrated” here and how things ACTUALLY occurred, here’s a link to B Haney’s video on that. It’s easily apparent Rachel was triggered but NOT for the reasons she gave on this podcast. Link: ruclips.net/video/pUxOeSZC2lM/видео.html
Thanks for that link. I didn't realize the whole toilet thing started earlier.
@@RobAGabor right? And she uses a lot of the same wording in that live reaction to the comment she read. So it just proves HOW much it triggered her, that she then made an edited TikTok 🙄
@@RobAGabor "toilet thing?" What does she even have a toilet in her house for? I thought she was beyond and above having a butthole. She sure seems to act like she believes that.
also it's actually shocking to me that she actually doesn't seem to 'get' that hard work doesn't always mean a 'mogul' tattoo and a mansion in hawaii or wherever. the actual level or privilege is almost scary. i find her incredibly disturbing especially because she's clearly very intelligent: so WHY CAN'T SHE FREAKING GET the actual reality of the lives of so many people who clean houses 15 hours a day and can't get ahead?! And also why won't she admit that the reason people are mad at her about her divorce is because she sold them advice based on a good relationship? The denial is puke-worthy.
The funny thing is the guy in the podcast pointed that out and he was immediately shot down. Like okay, I guess we can’t be too honest on this platform
I genuinely don't understand people like Rachel's urge to take all the credit of their success for themselves and act like they did it alone. I couldn't imagine talking about the success I have had in my life and career so far without talking about how the support, money, and encouragement of my parents, friends, and other people in my life have been essentially THE thing that has gotten me where I am. I have student debt from grad school, but my parents paid for my undergraduate degree. Just the fact that my parents constantly encouraged my hobbies and talents as a kid is a HUGE part of what I was capable of. Sure, I've also worked hard, I've always studied hard, but that wouldn't have been possible without the money and support of other people. People can still appreciate your success even if you talk about receiving support from others. It also makes it clear that someone understands how privilege factors into their life and their success, and understand the gravity of it.
Wow that's big. Seriously I wonder how old you are generationally I'm a late Gen X but I was lucky in my dad being a WWII vet whose childhood was during the great depression so I have a lot more gratitude and pragmatism than many of the others I know who grew up with me. I'm really glad you're not entitled and you're grateful to the people who have helped you have your own success.... I have so much to thank so many people for in the best part of me being possible.... It means more to me with every year and I see the way younger people seem to be so cynical and bitter even resentful that they have to move back home with the parents after college because the economy is crap etc... Doesn't sound very appreciative of the parents. Where did they plan to go if the parents said get lost, and told them to pull their own weight.
@@RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper I'm a younger millennial. I'm glad you're able to feel that gratitude for the people in your life etc. I really feel like like so many people want to talk about "privilege" and whatnot for the performance if it, but the same people don't want to genuinely think about how supportive people etc in ones life can make the entire difference. Like you said, if I were to have something bad happen to me, my family wouldn't let me be homeless. That's a huge safety net. People make a ton of money off of telling people to "work really hard" though because it's much more difficult to be like "have a supportive family and friends and people who are willing to back you up and help you out and introduce you to people who can put you in the right place at the right time and pass opportunities your way."
Keya-I always appreciate your content. I especially appreciate your interaction with the viewers and how you’re always asking for alternative perspectives. Your sense of humor is funny as hell too. It’s like kinda dry, kinda low key which is MY kind of humor. Yours is the only channel that makes me laugh out loud. I watched your Mickey impression 3 times. It’s so hard to find RUclipsrs with THAT random, cute humor. Just like little funnies throughout! You’re also an excellent advocate for therapy and I appreciate that! Thanks for the content. You’re spreading important information!🧡
Omgg 🥺🥺🥺 thank you so much!!
Mickey Mouse was great, and I love the accents and "Rachel" voice too. :D
I’ve been waiting for this one!!
Me too.
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It would've been interesting if they were true to "this isn't a safe space" thing. If they actually pushed those questions rather than the woman defending rachel and making excuses for her. Seems like whenever someone says "this isn't a safe space" it's the complete opposite and they are the ones needing a safe space the most.
It “never occurs” to her that people would be upset or offended by what she says because she’s a narcissist and believes that everyone can be so profoundly inspired by the shit that comes out of her mouth. That’s why she’s in the self-help line of work.
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“Working my ass off” is code for “I married a rich corporate executive at a young age”.
Thank you so much for working so hard, and lord, so many hours, to bring us this fun outlet. I look forward to seeing your new videos every day!
Loved this video style and length. Clear, concise, uninterrupted. Keep it up! 🤓
Also...I got up at 4 am yesterday and watched Euphoria while eating rice cakes in bed. Why isn’t her advice working?
Unsure why her advice isn’t working. But sounds like you are killing it out here!
How relatable of you! (Sounds awesome btw. I watched Housewives at 5am during the Erika Jayne episodes so I could be alone and away from my kids in the start today slot.)
Rachel literally said that she wants to be the next Oprah on the last interview she did with Tony Robbins. This lady just cannot remember what she said from day today.
OMG YEAH SO TRUE!!
i’m only halfway thru this video but so far, rachel has only reinforced the idea that she is astronomically out of touch with the average adult. it’s not even about relatability, she straight up doesn’t understand how and why people react negatively to the things she says! even the notion of telling a depressed person “get okay with the mess or pay for a housekeeper” is so…… unhelpful and obtuse
I believe this is a cautionary tale about the fame of self-help gurus and quite honestly, I wish she would stop trying to explain, or apologize, if that’s what this was. To me it’s a lot of contradictory double talk in the hopes a gaining more attention. She messed up. Either apologize and do better or walk away. Frankly, the best scenario would be for her to get the hell out of the spotlight and go focus on her family and spend some serious time rethinking her future plans.
Maybe take her own advice: “Girl stop apologizing!”
Key point in the very beginning…. be a good human. RACHEL IS NOT A GOOD HUMAN!!! The whole interview was her blaming her fans for pushing her into a corner of only a specific type of content. In Rachel’s book Girl Wash Your Face was t the only time she mentioned the nanny in the blurb at the end of the book where she thanked people for the help? I don’t remember hearing anything about the nanny. This is the only book I read.
I still don’t give her any credit for any of her “apologies”. They don’t recognize her responsibility of what she really did whole heartedly. They are only surface trying to save face apologies.
This interview made me SO mad!!! She is a complete lier and is constantly manipulating the truth to make it benefit her!!!
I love how little research Rachel Hollis does. Not only is Jon Favreau on social media he has more 5.4 million followers between IG and Twitter. I can't imagine how much he has on Facebook. She made it seem like he's off of the grid in the woods somewhere lol.
She just made a bigger fool in this 🤣 podcast to me. Did she just really say and the only time she cried was when she said she almost didn't have her house keeper during covid??Whattt.? Nothing against her housekeeper. During covid ppl lost love ones, I lost my whole job, my husband lost half his income & she's out here saying her most sad moment was that, huh?
If that was the only women she had in her life was the person who cleaned her toilets…what about her kids?? Friends that pulled her out of bed when she was down? What about her still up and running business. Plus she was insulting to the woman by not calling her a house keeper, she doesn’t come just the clean the toilet Rachel. Why not say friend if she helped her?
WAIT. She’s inspiring to be “unrelatable”? Well, she’s certainly accomplishing that in her “Rach Talks”, but I don’t think it’s in a way that she intends for them to. 🤷🏻♀️
Hearing him [Skinny Confidentials] speak about safe spaces just shows how little some people truly understand the original concept of safe space(s).
Sooo good Keya! Lil Miss Rach sounds so delusional, she's out here trying to just lie lie lie! It's so annoying when she keeps saying " like I think". I listened to this podcast already from another Rachel evaluating it but was waiting for your take too!
Same! I watched Heather the Lawyer’s take on it and been waiting for Keya’s! 🙌🏼
Have you ever thought that she thought the divorce would propel her personal career? I don't know much about Glennon Doyle but from what I've heard is that after her divorce the book she wrote about her experience exploded with popularity. I would love to see you compare their journeys. I bet she thought it would explode her career.
Can't believe she had the nerve to say it never occurred to her that people would say she was comparing herself to those women 🤣 Literally the comments that made her so mad were "well you're unrelatable" and "you're privileged AF" and the caption that Rachel herself wrote said that those women were all unrelatable AF. The parallel was obvious. What she was really saying was, "Oh yeah? Well I didn't want to relate to you anyway! These women weren't relatable either and they were better than you, so thanks for lumping me in with them!"
So in this wholeeee video, I really didn't hear an apology from Rachel. She said "I'm sorry I hurt people" but last I checked, that's kind of a cop out apology. Soooo her "apology tour" isn't really an apology tour.
If having a “sweet cleaning woman” was the “only thing she had!” Then why was her tiktok about how she gets her toilet cleaned so she can be un-relatable LIKE Harriet Tubman??
Love your edited videos! I'm usually at work and don't have time for the long livestreams 🥲. Looking forward to your coverage of "Rachel Hollis, the Musical" when it comes out 😂
Holy shit I love you 🤟🏼 I just found your channel through this video and the fact that you even pointed out Him & Her being hypocritical af is my favorite. They are obviously “too cool” for respectful and nonjudgmental places.
She’s THISCLOSE to full awareness of why people are mad. For example. People aren’t upset and dragging you because you got divorced. Couples get divorced every day. People are upset because you and Dave were billing yourselves as marriage advice gurus while hiding the fact that in reality, your marriage was on the rocks. It’s the lies. It’s the lack of taking responsibility. It’s the taking peoples money and selling them something that turned out to be a total sham. She’s SO CLOSE. Sigh. Maybe one day she’ll get it.
Honestly all of this screams ‘emotional manipulation’ to me. The worst part being that ‘everything is falling apart!’ *sob sob* ‘ people are attacking me!’ *sob sob* ‘all I have left is the sweet cleaning lady!’ *sob sob* ‘they’re taking away the one good thing i have left in this world!’ *mega sob!!!*
You can still see the original video in her IG. Rachel was never defending that woman. She is gaslighting again.
She drives me INSANEEE with her lack of accountability...over and over omg.
Even the way she words thing reeks of "I'm sorry YOU feel that way!"
She and the Captain deserved one another 😂
Anyone else catch her saying "let's say it was a Tuesday" when she was explaining what happened? That sounds like she's making up a story not recalling facts.
Yes! She can't remember what day the livestream happened on? This is something she herself was doing... seemed really weird to me
FYI: Cringe-fluencers are dissecting the whole podcast episode! YES!
I watched the live stream and no one was being mean to the women! Like no one. Rachel has made that story up
Yes definitely agree never heard about defending 🙄 this woman that had depression & you know she would have said that from the get!
And even if it was true I don't think that it would be relevant or help her case.
If you see Rach on the street, give Dave a hug. 🤣
In her smug ass video that started this, it was "I have somebody who cleans my toilets twice a week...because I work my ASS off to get this money and have a lady come clean my toilets twice a week," and then in the non apology it was "I have someone who HELPS me clean, people who HELP me take care of my kids," etc. It went from "I'm better than everyone" to "ALL I HAVE IS THE TOILET CLEANER WHY IS EVERYONE SO HATEFUL!!!"
It’s really the maniacal eyebrows at the time of cancellation that sealed the deal for me.
I run a womens business group, and at each meeting I say we are a safe place. And you know what, we have awesome open conversations! They feel comfortable saying things, sharing trauma filled stories. What is wrong with offering a safe place?!?!?
Also, Rach, next time listen to your PR team and don't say anything!
Bottom line....she was probably inebriated and showed her true self
i would give anything for rachel would do an interview with kayla/savy/anyone who is actually thoughtfully critical of her. i feel like she would get so much further in her image rehabilitation if she publicly had an honest conversation with someone who would actually challenge her.
Terrific coverage.
I have tried so hard not to loathe and truly just despise this woman, but the more she talks the harder it gets to not just despise her.
I think I saw someone had interviewed one of her former employees, and as soon as the PPP money ran out she laid off all of her employees.
And I’m with you, and I do not think you’re heartless at all, that she just cannot accept any accountability for what she does. She gained her fame by being relatable and then when she gets famous then she doesn’t need to be relatable anymore? And I agree with you: boo-hoo you went through a divorce and had to pay off your husband. Well stand in line sister, you’re not the only one.
And yes, it probably is very difficult to live your life under a magnifying glass… But here’s a suggestion Rachel, don’t live your life under a magnifying glass, and live like the rest of us do. But no you don’t want to do that; you want the fame and you want the money you just don’t want the accountability. Not buying it, you shouldn’t be selling it.
She never addressed the whole, "I listened to my team instead of my gut" problem.
I just listened to this episode and came to RUclips wanting to hear commentary and this fits the bill perfectly! In the podcast, Rachel never took responsibility for saying “the lady who cleans my toilets” actually, the “sweet lady who cleans my toilets” and how condescending that comes across. I don’t want to talk about this weird vague term of privilege vs non-privilege. I would rather highlight that she is so tone deaf. THAT is the reason she was cancelled.
How many ways can we tell the HollisHouse that we DGAF that you got divorced. We GAF that you were profiting off your 'exceptional' marriage while it was falling apart. People care that you exploited couples.
Towards the end Rachel says “I wanted to get recognized at the airport”
I’ve known some people who are sometimes recognized at the airport. It makes people miserable because they don’t ever get a moment of peace. It’s an incredibly shallow goal.
Truly. You do NOT want to get so famous that you can get recognized by strangers when you’re just doing ordinary stuff.
Cldkdkdk I don’t buy this story of her getting mad on this Mystery Woman With Depression’s behalf; if that’s what it was she would’ve said it in the original tiktok.
The story is that a white woman (Rachel) was talking about how having a house cleaner helps her probably, and a viewer had a problem with that and voiced it. White woman gets mad and makes a tiktok throwing a fit and showing how she thinks she’s so much better and hardworking than everyone around her. The end.
Yes John Favreau is quietly killin it BECAUSE HE HAS TALENT. Actual talent.
Has anyone seen the Molly McPherson video about Rachel?? She’s a PR person and goes in on the technical side of what went wrong
She had to let people go during the pandemic and she doesn't cry over them. This woman is always trying to shift the narrative.
People thought Rachel had something to say and her attitude just made it clear that she had nothing to say.
Most ppl won't work as hard as Rachel Hollis. Also most people won't marry a CEO in charge of Marvel movie production at Disney. 😳
She somehow thinks that the definition of being privileged is being unaware… no lady… it’s not privilege that led to her to supposedly not realize people would think sh was comparing herself to Harriet Tubman… it’s called grandiosity. When it was reflected backed to her she realized how ridiculous it is to say she shared similarities to these women …and then tried to back peddle…
Rachel's eyebrows in the Toilet Gate video are scary!
Thank you! And the 'I'm too busy to wash my hair look'
I agree with you 100%!!
I completely agree that there is zero excuse for her comments. Period. What I will say is that *no one* “signed up for” a pandemic. In any capacity. Whether you are an employee or the ceo. No one knew how to navigate that. Still doesn’t make her comments ok, but I don’t think she signed up for being a ceo of a company that depends on people showing up in person during a pandemic.
"I'm just a history nerd" 🤪 Totally insufferable it's infuriating!!!
Soooooo gross that lady talking about the kids like WTF
WE DOnt HOld MALE CEO ACCOUNTABLE BASED ON THEIR CHILD NUMber!!!!!!!!!
Like 6 kids doesn’t excuse a male ceo for anything sooooo let’s stop doing this to women
And yes I work and I agree it’s harder for women bc breastfeeding and co sleeping the first year are way more women-heavy work environments- however. With Nannies and spouses and formula and dads and bottles and donor milk etc….. a woman should be allowed to WORK 80 hours a week and stop getting called the mommy at home. Or the more stressed parent. Like in Anna delvey show. That husband needed to breastfeed that newborn so the mama could do her WORKKKK LOL STEP UP MALES
Here comes the water works!! Don’t get on your phone and post when you are upset. That’s it.
Congrats on 10k subscribers :) Choose Sadness shirts coming soon?
Ah I commented before the end of the video. Excited for the merch!
One of the worst things in this podcast was how many times she mentions her "best friend whose black " and how many times said black friend says "oh bitch"...like seriously?
The Jon Favreau comment 🤦♀️ oh brother.
“I used to think I wanted fame, success and riches! Now I realized I just want success and riches with a little bit of fame!”
She’s still as shallow as ever.
When she fake cried OMG the gaslighting!!! I despise her