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Please talk to your doctor about post partum depression and anxiety. There’s absolutely no shame. My youngest is the same age as Fletcher (we were expecting at the same time!) and I had PPA after him. It was terrible and I wouldn’t want any mother to experience it. Once I got on something though, life and my outlook improved SO much.
I know sometimes the natural way is better. But I firmly believe that the Lord gave us the knowledge of medicine for our benefit and if we use it wisely when we truly need it, it can bless us immensely.
Praying for you!
I agree! PPA and PPD are not talked about ENOUGH. Yes, talk to someone and have an honest discussion about your feelings. Keeping you and your family in my prayers❤🙏🏾
Don’t ever apologize for sharing real life feelings. What you said may really make a difference to another mama who is struggling. ❤️ It’s so easy to think that everyone else has it all figured out, especially on social media.
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Mental illness is REAL! Seek professional help!
You have SO MUCH to be thankful for that the things you mentioned are just life. There are folks going through so much more….you obviously have no clue. I really like Josh for being the adult in the room. Good Luck!
Your honesty is truly appreciated! Anxiety is REAL! Check in on that friend... you just never know how much it's appreciated. ❤
Megan, I’m a pastors wife, a momma of three, two of which have autism and too many medical conditions to type out. My youngest is 22 but will always function around 3-4 years old. He has a rare disease as well and requires 24/7 care. My oldest is married and I also have a granddaughter. But the two younger ones will always be home. I haven’t had 8 hours of sleep in 25 years now. My husband and I have been on only two dates alone in the last 15 years. I’m forever in the baby/toddler mom stage in so many ways and even more! When anyone is sick in our house my anxiety peaks from stress and fear that he will get it also. When my son is extra ill, and I’ve had less sleep than usual my anxiety is unreal! And I have had to seek help from my family doctor before. I can’t choose to continually see myself as a failure because I have real fears and want to protect them, after all, God made me the person I am! Don’t get me wrong, Sometimes I feel like I’m never able to do enough and the weight of it all feels so very crushing. But after so many years of this, I’m also able to step back and see later that I am fully trying my best with all the love I have. The other thing that stuck out to me, is you saying (paraphrasing) you know that there are others who have harder circumstances. While this is true, it’s basically true for everyone. Don’t diminish “your hard”. There’s always someone who has it harder than someone else, that doesn’t take away from how hard it is on anyone at all. I hope that makes sense. I want you to give yourself grace. I want you to know that you are not alone! And more than anything if you need to talk with someone or even need more than that, IT IS OK! Sometimes life is just harder than some of us individually can handle. Some of us have brains that are wired differently or made up of different chemical values. We are not less than because of this and it is no different than seeking medical help for any other reason. You are in my prayers. Hugs, Jennifer
I so get you. I raised 3 ….. one of which is also dx’ed with severe PANDAS….. he needs 24/7 care - screams in chronic pain every awake minute. Sending you so much love 🫶🤟❤️
Raised three **With varying degrees of autism
Jennifer, I think you are incredible 🙏💕
Jennifer, thank you for sharing. I have 2 adult daughters (27 and 25) with autism, psychiatric issues as well as a number of medical issues. My husband of 30 years left at the end of 2020 and we just became divorced. I will be caring for my daughters who will always live with me. It is hard and at times and isolating. Sometimes I feel guilty for feeling depressed and and realize that is ok to ask for help and that God places people in our lives at a time when we need it most. I also believe that God leads us to share our stories with other people who need to hear it. HIS timing is ALWAYS PERFECT. ❤😊🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝🕊
Jennifer, so we'll written. Much love
Hard to walk when you are in postpartum but walking 15 min a day can be as good as an anti-depressant. A natural reset❤️❤️
😢post partum depression is real. Please speak to your doctor. Please. It is real, can be treated and nothing to be ashamed of or be avoided. PLEASE. It is not weakness, failure or anything like that. Please don't ignore it.
Girl go to therapy! It doesn’t have ANY bearing on your faith, it’s not a weakness to go to therapy! It is just homemaking for your mind! Anxiety can be helped with therapy and it can also be helped medically and there is no shame in it. You absolutely must prioritize your mental health!
“Homemaking for the mind”… LOVE IT!
I sought Christian counseling for depression and anxiety during my pregnancy and it was the best decision I could have made for myself. It was such a blessing and encouragement to talk to someone knowledgeable when I felt such anxiety and confusion! Hang in there ❤
Anxiety is truly the worst!!!😭💔 it tries to convince you that it's real! I hate it so much about myself! Thnx for sharing! You're not alone!❤
Megan, you would never tell someone else that they were stupid or should be embarrassed about struggling with anxiety. I see so much of myself in you and hearing you say those things really opened my eyes to how it sounds when I say those same things about myself. Yes, work on it within your marriage and friendships, yes consider seeing a Christian counselor (I started 6 months ago and it has been amazing), yes consider using medication once it's safe to do so, but let's remember to extend grace to ourselves the same way we would to someone else, and far more importantly, the way God does to us. This season is hard. Thank you for sharing with us. It's important for all of us to know we truly are in this together. Praying for you!
I'm old, but as a young, anxious, worrying mother, an older woman told me to hold on to the promise that the Lord does NOT give a spirit of fear. Fear comes from the old liar. Rebuke it and hold on to the Lord and He will take it away from you. Anxiety is very hard but there is a way thru it. Prayers.
One thing to remember is the impact hormonal fluctuations can have on our emotions. What I hear is a mama who needs to be kinder to herself. This too shall pass. I think your plan is a good one, keep an eye on your emotions, maybe see if some therapy helps at all, then if not, medication is a viable option. It's SO common to feel depression and anxiety postpartum. You are actually dealing with something more common than you realize. Big hugs. Spring will also help, getting out more. If you can, for you because you love it so much, walking and getting outside will do you a world of good!
Wonderful comment❤
I would really really really warn against medication. It's for medical reasons. She had a concrete real-world cause for her emotional fluctuations. There is nothing wrong with her brain. It is extremely difficult to come off of spych meds....it takes months and is more disruptive to your mental health (not to mention debilitating) than the episodes that originally lead people to take them. She would have to basically take a vacation from life work and family and friends for a big chunk of a year to get off of them. I've seen how these meds do not help, but just push the problem off until another day. They also can irreversible affect your sexual function for life and DO affect it for the full duration while on the medication. I've seen the affects of Christian counseling on post partum recovery and it is ENORMOUS. Night and Day. The concrete tools they give you to secure support, how to talk to others to keep peace and share what's on your heart respectfully and gain perspective is surprisingly SO simple and also life changing. I recommend the post partum support through "Live Wellness Center" they are in Columbus Ohio I believe but they give telehealth appointments and they are a christian counseling center that i have been to and totally recommend for post-partum support.
@@tyrelnatashanuzum8956 I 100% agree with your comment about psych meds! Many people don’t know the implications of getting on them and getting off of them and how hard it can be. There are people that need to get on it but I don’t think Megan is one of them. ( disclaimer, though I am not a doctor.) I do believe praying and Christian counseling would be much more helpful! 💖🙏
@@tyrelnatashanuzum8956there is no shame if you need medications. And it’s not for you or anyone to tell her not to take something she may need. She may not need the m but that is up to her and her dr to decide not any of us. If medication helps her then there is no reason why she should not take it and have to muddle thru because someone on RUclips thinks they know better! You say you doing believe she needs meds but you are not her dr! And you can not diagnose someone over the internet and that is a very dangerous thing to do!
It is so brave of you to be so honest! You help so many of us who suffer with anxiety when we realize that others do too. The internet makes everyone else’s lives seem so perfect that people watching can get very down about their own lives! Thank you for keeping it real!
Grandkids just got out of carseats, so I went back to a to a SUV, but nothing more practical than a mini
van . Hang in there. Your hormones are still bouncing back from the baby. Hopefully you will feel like your old self soon.❤
A naturopath told me that a mom is not back to "normal" until 9 months postpartum! And I just hit that mark with my baby. It's so so true. I'm an over achiever so this is hard to accept.
Breastfeeding and fatigue; I could agree with that
I’d say it’s probably longer. So much strength is needed to keep that baby alive and thriving, breastfeeding or not. They are on you so much of the time. You just need to be kind to yourself and accept any help when offered. ❤
When you’re in it , it feels like it’s gonna last forever. When you get to the other side (29 years) later , you’d give anything to take care of your baby’s sniffles. Give yourself some grace. lol where did you get chik-fil-a on a Sunday???
I really think this was an important conversation to have. So many people are suffering silently and knowing they aren't alone is a comfort. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Anxiety never makes sense, but it’s such a real thing. You’re so good at being kind to others. Remember to be kind to yourself!
I’m so happy you have a very a supportive husband. Thoughts and overthinking is very real. You just had a baby and it’s a lot on your body plus caring for your other children. You are doing amazing and keep praying and ask God for direction to how to help you. ❤ HUGS
My goodness Megan, sounds like it was just the perfect storm! ANYONE who is post partum, sick, and sleep deprived, dealing also with other sick children would have reacted the same! That's a lot for even the strongest among us to handle. Don't be too hard on yourself. Just look back and see that with God's help you made it through that storm, and will be stronger because of it. Much love and prayers to you and your family
Anxiety is real for sure !! I'm in my 50's and it still hits . Prayers for you ❤.
You’ve been through so much this past year with your pregnancy. So many of us suffer with anxiety, depression, PPD or PTSD. It takes a strong person to get help through counseling and/or medication! Don’t wait to get help, you deserve it and so does your family❤️
I suffered from postpartum depression, and I want to say -- thank you for putting this on the internet. Hormones or not, motherhood is the greatest gift and challenge. Talk therapy has been extremely helpful for me, even when talking to someone who isn't my husband or family. The outside perspective, especially from a therapist or counselor that has postpartum experience. Many mothers face these challenges but do not talk about it. They suffer in silence, and that only hurts Mom.
Please don’t ever be embarrassed or shameful about anxiety. It is a very real thing. I highly suggest counseling. Even when life is great, having a professional to talk to about your mental health is so beneficial. Hugs to you, Megan. You’re doing a great job!
So proud of you Megan!
You just gave birth, a mum of 4 a wife and much more
I suffered years with debilitating anxiety, and finally got through it, a few years ago. I gave it to God and he cured the cancer, surgery, chemo and anxiety kept trying to come and I prayed Lord Im the menestral woman I need to touch your garb and I will be healed, Im healed 6 years now
God has you, when the darkness is brought into the light, it has no power! you did it, love you sister in Christ xxx
Oh momma, never apologize for being human…give yourself the grace you would give a friend ❤❤❤ So glad things are improving 😊
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing! From a mama who has been in that place, it is reassuring to know that you’re not alone. Last year, my fifth baby was life flighted at five days old and confirmed at the Children’s Hospital that he had contracted bacterial meningitis, and it was in his brain and in the blood. They gave us a 14% chance that with 21 days of treatment in the Nicu that he could live. But there was an 86% chance he would still die. I’m now pregnant with baby six, my sweet one year year-old is healthy and I’m so thankful, but anxiety is a very real thing. I’m praying for you, and I’m so grateful that you share!
A girl who was maybe 17 or 18 had that somehow and we were all on spring break in Europe (all from different schools). She got off a subway in Paris saying she wasn't feeling well (she had a map on how to get back to the hotel. Someone was with her but she died on the actual street and she had apparently been sick and just didn't say anything. I have never forgotten about that girl or her mother or family. She would have been 54 or so this year. This was before the internet and as soon as I got the internet I started googling meningitis. I don't know what strain it was though. Glad your baby recovered❤
Can you imagine how much easier it would have been keep the bad to yourself? BUT…knowing that it would help others, you were willing to be so vulnerable and transparent! That’s a true testament to the strength of your character! ❤ Thank you Megan!
Anxiety is soooo real during and after pregnancy. I suffered horribly with my last pregnancy with our twins for the last 2 months of pregnancy and after. I sought medical help and so thankful I did. Don’t beat yourself up over it and don’t be ashamed to seek medical help. There is joy in the morning ❤. Also, Cocalico is the absolute best. We vacation in your area each fall and love every minute while there.
Just remember that the 'Proverbs 31' woman wasn't all of those things all at once. There are seasons of life and we adapt and change. Give yourself some grace. If it is hormonal it is a medical situation that should absolutely be treated without condemnation. You are a great mama and daughter of God.
You will help young moms with your honesty! God bless you with brighter days ❤❤❤
Taking medication for postpartum anxiety does not mean you are a failure. ❤
I ended up taking Zoloft for - 4 months postpartum - and it helped so much! Just because you start it doesn’t mean you will be dependent on it and you can wean off. It does not mean you are a failure or aren’t strong enough to deal with the anxiety in other ways. It means you are strong enough to accept the help you need. To humble yourself. It’s truly a life saver and I believe God blesses doctors and researchers with the knowledge to create such medicines to use when we need them.
Thanks for being vulnerable with us. Will be praying for you and your family. ❤
You got this mama. But most of all, God has YOU.
I took Remaron and it changed my postpartum anxiety for the better.
Postpartum depression and anxiety are real things and should be talked about more. We treat illnesses and disease like diabetes and cancer. Depression and anxiety are just like those, only in our brain. They deserve to be treated too. ❤ I’m a vocal proponent of treatment and therapy now because it helped heal me (with the Lord as a big part!).
Megan, I am a grandmother of 9, a mother of 3; 2 girls & 1 boy. I do remember that after I had my son I had a tough time. Post- partum is a real thing. You are doing all the right things, and you will get through this time. You’re an amazing young woman. God loves you & so do all of your viewers including myself. Have a blessed day. Found you thanks to Lynette. 😊❤😊🙏
Thank you Megan for sharing this. Honestly I stopped watching you for awhile because you seemed so perfect and it almost made me sad like I'll never be Proverbs 31 as much as her. I struggle with health anxiety and its bad from time to time. I totally get what you're saying 100%!! The worst is I worry my.faith is not as good as it should be because I worry. 😢❤❤ you are not alone sister
That’s called post partum anxiety and it’s very serious. I had it and I should have gotten help. It’s kind of like ppd but severe anxiety and a real diagnosis with intrusive thoughts. Talk to therapist, get home visits from a midwife, and have a memory verse for yourself. Don’t neglect it💛 I love you Megan don’t feel embarrassed! I felt like I couldn’t control it at all. You are such a blessing, praying for you!
Anxiety is a very real thing and your feelings are valid. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. My Bible Study group is currently reading Putting an X Through Anxiety by Louie Giglio and I highly recommend it! You are not alone. Praying for you. ❤
Thank you so much! When you're not in it, it feels like a foreign concept, but it's so real in the moment! Thanks for the recommendation.
Megan, worrying about others and loving them and feeling deep emotions is never a weakness. It just proves how in tune you are with yourself, your surroundings and the things we cannot explain.
Thank you for sharing your real raw struggles. You will get through this. God is guiding you to great things. ❤
Don’t ever apologize for being human. You’ve been through a lot in a short time. Praying for you and your beautiful family.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I have multiple chronic illnesses and am sick most of the time. It’s so hard to care for my kids and family. It’s unbelievable how much our physical has to do with our mental. It’s so tough. God is still good❤️
So tough! And it feels wrong to complain about anxiety when so many people have REAL problems. But it is a real thing.
@@MeganFoxUnlocked sooo real❤️
I understand you... I have Fibromyalgia and it was so very hard when my babies were small now that they have kids of their own so I love and enjoy my grandkids very much but there are days I have to stay in bed ..... So the struggle is real but God is so Good .... I thank him for every day he gives me ❤
I know, it's so hard being a mom and not feeling well is very hard!
@@reginabell475 I’m in the thick of it and pregnant again! My last was recently diagnosed with autism and all the therapy appointments have made things seem impossible but I know it’s a season and it too will pass. Good hearing you made it through and are on the other side!💗
Keepin' it real .... much appreciated! You have a beautiful family. God bless you all.
Megan, Lots of prayer needed! God bless you!!!
What helps me is "We are ok today" when I would worry about something bad happening to my children I would hang on to was that ! "We are ok today"! God says to only worry about today! We know the childhood illness will get better! I hope that helps! The devil really uses our minds as a weapon against us!❤❤
This video was so touching!❤ you and your family are in my prayers!
It IS a real thing. Being honest benefits others who may be suffering in the same way. Too many on this internet put out sterilized and untrue versions of they're lives. You're brave to be truthful.💜
I really struggled with whether to actually post that conversation, but I felt like I should just hold my head up, throw back my shoulders and share.
@@MeganFoxUnlocked you should be proud for being honest. I applaud you. ❤️❤️❤️
Exited to watch this Megan! Hope your family is doing well! ☺️
You are strong and can get through this season !!❤
Mom hormones after birth made me feel the same. Wait it out and talk to your loved ones. Then you get to hear the other peoples thoughts and you are not left alone❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤. Sleep deprivation is the worst!! Love your mumma bear heart. There isnt a mother alive that wants to be responsible for their newborn being in pain. Glad you had such an active support team and know God is with you through it all. May you all go from strength to strength. God bless
Thankyou for sharing 🤍 hope y’all continue getting better!
Megan Fox I don't know what's been going on lately besides the Lord knows I need you! We just went through this as well. For probably 3-4 weeks I had such a hard time because of sickness, new baby, anxiety, all the things. It was HARD! To know someone else understands and I wasn't just imagining it all is so so helpful to my heart! Thank you for being honest and sharing those really private thoughts and fears that many people never share. Even close friends. You are a blessing in my life.
I completely understand and relate to the anxiety that is induced by children being sick. I struggle with it every time we have sickness in the house and it's only made so much worse by post partum hormones.
Anxiety is not weakness. That's a lie from the enemy. Please don't be embarrassed. There's a lot of us out here who understand. What you are going through is a lot. You are being an awesome momma, wife and just all around great woman of God. You are an overcomer through Jesus. ❤
The post partum season surprised me by being the hardest time of my life. All the joy of a new baby makes you think the anxiety, fear and overall hormonal imbalance is just you being crazy but it’s so real and it takes time for things to get back to normal. Sending so much love to you in this season!
Thank you so much for sharing Megan. I tell my husband every time we are sick that “no one told me the hardest part of parenting is sickness”. Your anxieties are so very common for sickness around a newborn. I’m praying for you! That you all are able to get back to your normal soon! You are so very loved by your RUclips community!
Hi Megan, I'm a new viewer and I wanted to thank you for your honesty. think it's completely natural to feel anxious, especially when you're ill, stressed out and sleep deprived. Whenever I find myself experiencing anxiety, I try to pause and be thankful that I still have the strength of mind to cry, worry and make an effort to get my life back on track. As difficult as those times feel, I know I'd feel much worse if I was just apathetic the whole way through. And then, as the external pressures ease and I return to my routine, I start to feel much better. Hope things get better for you too.
I just found your channel a few days ago and I love it!! This video touched me. Your feelings are valid and you will persevere!! The therapy or counseling through the church is a great idea!! We all need a little mental health reset sometimes! Thank you for sharing!
Thanks! Things have been much better now that health had been restored. But sickness and hard times inevitably come again. Hopefully I won't be postpartum with raging hormones and little sleep.
Megan, praying for you and your family!
Appreciated hearing this!
Anxiety is a very real part of our bodies and minds that God made. It can come from trauma, hormones, or a difficult season of life. We should NEVER feel guilty for feeling anxious. Should we address it? Absolutely! Talking to family/friends/clergy, increasing self-care, and/or seeing a doctor are all ways of treating it. Doctors and medications are blessings from God, too, and it's not at all un-Christian to seek help. Best wishes!
Wow! I definitely feel guilty for it. I'm hoping it was just situational. I haven't really struggled with it much since, but we will see and keep leaning on God through the ups and downs.
Yes! It’s shame that I am hearing. There is NO condemnation in Christ! He loves you and wants you to be whole. I am a Christian therapist and all you are expressing seems very normal for the season you are in. Take some time to regroup, but if the suffering continues….please speak to a therapist and your doctor. ❤
Megan, you are so brave to share and be so vulnerable. I’ve battled anxiety throughout my life, but it gets really bad during pregnancy and postpartum. It’s really encouraging to hear from other moms going through similar feelings. I can definitely relate to the anxious me and the “normal” be seeming like two totally different people. Once I’m out of the fog of it, it seems so silly and strange, but in the moment, it’s AWFUL. Said a prayer for you 💗
You just had a baby and kids being sick but you being sick and nursing a new born is hard. But you will get better and mentally strong soon. God will be watching over you to.
You are never alone, God Bless you!
Oh Megan💖 you are in my prayers. I hope by now things are much better. I understand anxiety- it’s torture. Anyway I’ll be praying. Thank you for posting I always look forward to your videos 🙏💖
Things are much better! Thank you!
Oh Megan, this was so real and raw. Thank you for your honest talk towards the end. Hormones can do so much to our moods, especially through and after pregnancy. Add to that the exhaustion you’re in and it’s just so so hard and those feelings of anxiety and/or depression just amplify. I dealt with similar in my last pregnancy and after- I never ever want to go back to that. Things will get better. Hang in there. You’re doing an incredible job and are the best mom to your kids and wife to Josh. You are exactly what your kids need, even in these difficult seasons. Praying for you.
I deleted out so much crying! But I thought I'd share because people are smart and can probably tell.
Sei barmherzig mit dir,die hormonelle Umstellung ist anstrengend und du hast drei ältere Kinder, ich finde, du machst das klasse
Sorry to hear you all went through this sickness but glad to hear you’re making it out on the other side. I understand how you were feeling, I can definitely relate to looking back on those moments and being embarrassed about my thoughts and feelings and being nothing like myself. Especially in the nighttime when postpartum.
You can do it, Megan! You are so blessed and I pray you’ll be able to always know and recognize the goodness God places in your life. All of these hard things are just manure fertilizing the seeds of goodness and love God has planted for you ❤
Thank you for sharing. I had a very difficult post-partum time with my second and I can relate to you so much. Sharing what you went thru is meant to help someone ! God bless you
Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry you are going through this. I can’ assure you that your feelings and anxiety are all normal emotions, especially after you just gave birth to the most adorable baby boy! I’ve struggled with anxiety what seems like forever. Talking to someone that has gone through similar situations helps a lot! Also having someone just to sit and listen to you without judgement is a big blessing!! Our Lord is ALWAYS with and won’t ever let you down! I’m praying for you and your beautiful family! Thank you for being so honest and truthful with us. Sending hugs and prayers your way!!!
Purple looks great on you!!!
I love this color with blue eyes. I need to get my daughter more lavendar.
Thank you for your honesty. I understand and I’m praying for you.
Thank you for being brave and sharing! Anxiety is something I've struggled with for years now, and it can feel very lonely at times, or like people will never understand what you're going through. I dont think people truly understand how hard it can be unless they have struggled with it themselves. You are not alone!! ❤️
Postpartum depression is no joke!
And…..you and your family being sick on top of it, is an incredible burden to shoulder, too.
If you can find that one lady who has been through PPD, it helps tremendously!
After I had my son (many moons ago), I went through it and was crying often, had no feelings of joy, only almost a “panic” feeling!
My mom was miles away and no help. My friends that came over were all excited and smiling and laughing and there I was faking it so they wouldn’t know I wasn’t feeling the joy😢
The turn came when my Aunt called me and evidently could sense I was struggling.
She told me to pack up the baby and come spend the day with her.
She didn’t let on that she knew I was having a tough time.
When she started asking me things and telling me how SHE’D felt when she had her baby, it was like a ton of bricks lifted off of me. My mood changed radically and almost instantly because FINALLY, someone I could relate to!!!!
Talking it out with someone who’s been there is a life-changer!
I pray you’re doing better and that those nasty and evil hormones get lost!
Blessing 🙏🥰❤️
Make an appointment with a therapist that understands this crazy season of life that you are living. It is a big step, and will be a bigger step walking into that first appointment. At one point you will walk out that office feeling like yourself again. No longer carrying everything on your shoulders and with new tools to deal with the challenges. Do it for you.
We all love you Megan!!❤❤
Thank you for being real!! God loves you more and will always hold you!!!❤
Megan, after having my first baby i really struggled with depression but it was the worst when he was around 1 year old. I had never gone to counseling before but my husband said maybe i should try it so i found a christian counselor and went for a few months and i can say it really did help because he pointed me to Christ and just continued to encourage me with scripture. I dont think the counselor would have made a difference unless it was all about pointing me to Christ. God is our counselor and He is all we need but the bible talks about fellowship and encouragement from other believers so finding that is also so helpful. What Josh was doing was that❤ God will provide what you need❤
Precious Megan, I so wish we could all hug you and pray over you. Thank you for being so honest, we should all be so brave. As a mom I can tell you, there is nothing worse then seeing your precious babies(even my adult kids) sick or hurting, I would rather it be me then them. Please, please, give yourself grace, you have had a baby, you are sleep deprived, he is taking all the nutrients, and you have three other kiddo's, a husband, and a business, a home that you are trying to manage, and you got sick, it's normal to be overwhelmed. Maybe it is some PPD, or maybe you are just TIRED.
Whatever it is and however you decide to manage it all, I am sure you will have family, friends, and all of us cheering you on and praying for you. It's okay to need help, ask for it. It's okay if the house is not perfect, it's okay if there is not a gourmet meal on the table, it is okay to rest, put those kiddo's in their rooms for a hour after your precious baby is asleep, silence the phone, turn off everything, and grab a cup of coffee, and sit in the sun and do NOTHING for a bit. It is okay.
Sending you good thoughts, encouragement, and prayers.
Thanks so much for talking about real life, Megan. It’s a very relatable topic 🧡
I have bad health anxiety too. thank you for the raw and real talk. You are a great mama, praying for you.
Meghan I have had anxiety for the past 6 years. Developed it randomly postpartum 6 years ago. I feel like my whole life is cancelled, I had never been the same after. I have better and worse days. The symptoms are horrible and scary and steal my whole life from me. I even thought I had a brain tumor or MS at first, I got everything checked and it was just anxiety, that's how severe it can get. Keep praying even if you don't want to. I couldn't even read the Bible or pray, I would be so numb and appathetic. I forced myself anyway at the advice of others and it really helped. The devil wants us to be in fear, fear is never from the Lord. I am that mom that has been through this valley and wish I could offer you a shoulder.
❤thanks for sharing
I hope you can get some help from a licensed professional. Six years of suffering like that is a lot. I am a Christian therapist and there are so many things out there that can help someone dealing with anxiety and depression and God does not want you to suffer like that. He loves you and wants you to have fullness of life ❤
Hey girl, I had severe postpartum anxiety and didn't know that's what it was until years later. And I still struggle with anxiety. You're not alone. The biggest help for me is to lay facedown with arms and hands out giving God everything I'm worried about. He already has it all but surrendering even if the worst happens praying, "Thy will be done" helps me release the perceived control. I would also keep some verses close by that you can pray through, believing the words that you're praying.
My heart and love and support goes to
Yes! The answer is prayer not pills!!!!
I am praying for you girl!!!
Praying for you. Thanks for being real.❤
I think there's too much stigma about therapy in Christian spaces. I recommend finding a licensed therapist who is upfront about their Christian faith, which probably will be easy to find in your area. They teach coping mechanisms that I think could really help a lot of people. And if they are a Christian therapist, then they can also provide guidance that is a supplement but not a replacement for your faith. Also, it sounds like perhaps you might be dealing with some postpartum anxiety, which therapists can definitely help with!
Oh, Meghan, you are in the muddy trenches of motherhood. I only have 2. They are 17 and 19. I remember those years. You are so busy. Your hormones are out of wack. You're tired. Everyone needs you. It's so hard when mom is sick. I understand anxiety. I struggle from time to time. Prayer, journaling, and my husband of 21 years can usually bring back to the light. And then car issues..ugh. You have been through it. I am proud of you for sharing. You never know who you might help. Your family is beautiful!
Megan, this is postpartum depression and anxiety. I had it with my 2 kids. Crippling anxiety about the awful scenarios I imagined happening to my kids, especially my newborn. Therapy and medication helped me cope ultimately. I highly recommend finding help to feel 100% again. Christian counseling is a fantastic idea ❤️
Megan, I am speaking as a therapist. Please consider talking to a professional, even just a few times. It can be faith based if you want it to be. What is the harm in some professional experience?
God bless you and your family and give you comfort as you go through this time. Congrats on your new minivan. 😊❤
Thank you for sharing what you have been going through, we care and can help pray for you. We all come to that place when we need the strength of our friends and their prayers!! God bless you and the family!!
Megan - you are so real. Thank you for your honesty. It needs to be said because so many face those same emotions.
Thank you for your transparency. Be kind to yourself, all is well.
Blessed you and your family 🙏❤
Thank you soo much for sharing. Us moms have so much love for our kids and family that anxiety can take over. After the week you guys have had, it is miraculous that you can even move.
I totally get that. My son and his wife have four little ones and they had a rough winter this last year.. they even missed Christmas so many of us were sick starting on Christmas day. it is very tough for a mom who needs to take care of others and it can feel sad and depressing. So glad you’re feeling better.🙏❤️
I’m praying for you! The Lord is with you. I know hormones are the worst. My three kids are the ages of your first 3 and i remember I was just shocked how well you were seemingly doing emotionally/mentally after your 3rd while I was in the depths of despair and on the struggle bus for sure 🤣 this is just a season and you’re doing a great job!
You mam are always an inspiration. Proud of you and your family. Glad y’all are feeling better.
Realness is very needed, especially on social media. Thank you for sharing!
Megan, I can so relate to the sickness anxiety!! I am so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m so glad everyone is feeling better.❤
Oh that top was gorgeous!
Thank you for showing such a humbling and human side. Sending healing prayers and hugs 💕
Thank you so much for sharing! Most of us have experienced depression, anxiety and postpartum depression and felt so alone. You were brave and enough to share. Thank you for showing us we aren’t alone!
Praying for you Megan 💜
Thank you for sharing your hard times too, makes people feel like they are not alone. I recently was really sick trying to take care of my two children. The struggle is real and can be scary. Thank God for fresh Grace and friends that drop off food!
Sending a lot of love from Spain! You're such an inspiration for me... I have no words. Praying for you and your precious family ❤