Brother Allen, I'm in tears hearing this today. I was literally pouring my heart out to a close friend of mine about how my shame has crippled me. An hour after that conversation, this sermon popped up I my feed. I don't know if another person is affected by this today, but rest assured. It broke my heart. And gave me some amazing ways to view my sin the way God views it. How arrogant and prideful of me to think that I know better than the Lord! He forgave me! But I won't forgive myself. Praise the Lord! There is no condemnation for me! Praise His Holy Name! May the Lord bless you today, specifically for blessing my heart. Thank you, brother. 🙏 ✝️ ❤️
When your eyes are open and you see clearly it might cause pain. There's a void that can only be filled by the love of God and the washing of your heart by the Word of God. Study the word more and you'll find healing and peace.
This was so helpful!!! Ive been stuck in condemnation for 20 plus years, feeling like a step child to God. Ive confessed many many times, I truly have repented BUT have not accepted Gods forgiveness or mercy. I felt I was not worthy. Im going to pray to God and ask Him for His help. I will keep this video handy to help remind me! Thank you.
For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8. The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
Join me in this prayer. The more that pray it the stronger it gets. Pray God’s will be done on this earth as it is in heaven. Pray God protects and blesses the children. Pray for the truth to be revealed. Pray God lifts the scales from the lukewarm and lost eyes, opens their ears and soften their hearts. Pray God strengthens His children, gives them more discernment, pours more Fire on them and wakes them up. Pray the end times harvest will increase. Pray God exposes the evil people and brings them to justice ✅
@@Greg-yu4ij I've done evil and I've been living in shame and guilt for years and I keep praying and repenting of the things I've done and confessed to God to the point I cried, so thank you for your comment, it made me feel better, there is a chance of salvation for me, others wouldn't be guilty for the things they done but for me I always feel guilty and ashamed
This came to me at the PERFECT moment thank you 😢 I am married now and pregnant with our first kid. We did it right. Didn’t even kiss before marriage to prevent temptation. But, men from my s*xual past keep messaging me and trying to talk about it and even thank me for it and I’m not replying to any of them but it keeps hitting me with absolute disgust toward my past and I have to block their numbers. Hormones from my pregnancy are hitting hard on top of this shame and I’ve been crying for over half of today about this and how much I’ve hurt God and ruined my body. Thank you so much, I cried again when this video popped up today because it just came out today as well. Thank you, God bless you and your ministry
I lost my voice wife to cancer last year. Before we were married, I didn’t understand why she would start fights with me and sabotage the relationship. I would break up with her and then forgive her and we would have a great make up sex. However, she kept doing it, and I called her on it, and we started breaking up for real. I would go sleep with other women, she would find out and validate herself by sleeping with other men. She kept acting out in ways to try and make me leave her for good. On our last break up, I was with a girl who was prettier than her on the hood of my car. Of course women talk and someone called her and told her. She came around , looked at my hood and then looked at me and smiled. I got really angry and told her to leave. Later on, I was playing pool at a bar with my friend, and she came to the bar and insisted on talking. I told her no, and she became so upset that she threw her keys against the window and broke the bar window. The bar owner started calling the cops and she was going to get arrested, but I told him I would take care of it, and I told her to go home. My friend practically jumped for joy, because that meant we would be broken up for good, but secretly, I knew we would be back together because she was better, more loving, and nurturing than any of the other girls I was with. She fought for me and her desperate act of passion touched me. When we got back together this time, the fighting stopped. I think subconsciously she was testing to see if I would throw her away. I found out that the fights were because She had been molested by her father, and it caused tremendous shame, and anxiety. She wound up, gaining a lot of weight in order to make herself look less appealing to him, and she would only go to sleep, if her cousin was with her in the other room. I was with her for a total of 32 years, and we had three beautiful boys together. We had a very happy marriage, and we also “did it right”, from my standpoint, because we never divorced, she had the freedom to stay home, and raise the kids, and I made it a point to work 21 years at IBM to maintain a stable household. she never let me sleep on the couch, she would always come get me at 2 AM if we were fighting. She never let a fight see the dawn. Her best friend slept with the neighbor, and divorced her husband for him. My wife cut her off immediately because she didn’t want to let drama and instability into her life. She was the strongest, most loving woman I’ve ever been with. If my wife and I could go through all those early break ups and not let our early sexual partners cause any sort of issue in our marriage, then I am sure your previous sexual partners need not cause a problem. I used to tell my wife that I’m not worried about her being around other men because even if she made a mistake and slept with one of them, I know she would come right back to me because I’m the best she’s ever been with. I don’t know if your man is the best you ever been with, but as long as he is a strong man, and has control over his emotions, your marriage will stay strong. So make sure that he has a strong sense of purpose in his life, he works out and keeps his muscles. Strong, he has a guy, hobby, and guy friends like snowmobiling, motorcycle riding, or quad riding, and he knows how to make your climax every time. Also, be sure to have plenty of sex during your pregnancy. My mother is practically married to Jesus, and I almost lost it when she told me that as long as we were sexually compatible, our marriage would be a strong one. My wife always came to me for sex, and my mom was right.
For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8. The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
Four years after Christ rescued me from my sexual sin, I have finally accepted my new identity in Christ. I held on so tightly to the sins of my past and I brought them into my present. I let them determine who I am. I saw myself as a ruined woman, beyond redemption, beyond fixing, beyond fixing, unworthy of relationships - despite all the Scripture that says otherwise. I didn't accept that I was no longer condemned. I passionately believed that I would remain single for the rest of my life because of those sexual sins, that I had enough sex to last me several lifetimes. But God....He spoke through someone, and it finally clicked. What I did is not who I am. Do I still struggle with temptation to sin sexually? Absolutely. But I have a new name - I am redeemed. Worthy and deserving of love. I am restored. A child of God. I am free, hallelujah, I am free. Hear me, those who are suffering from your sexual sin - you are not your past. You're not. If Christ is in your heart and you have repented and you're listening and following Jesus and you've left your sin behind - you are His new creation. What you've done does not define who you are today.
You’re right. God forgives you, and who you’ve been with, doesn’t define you. It can make it harder to enjoy intimacy with who you’re with now, but if you let it go and don’t compare your man with anyone you’ve been with, you’ll be OK It sounds like you’re well on your way. If you weren’t lucky enough to have been forgiven, and leave those previous men in the past, only a very strong man could keep your interest because your subconscious would keep making comparisons
Hallelujah 💃💃💃. Your no longer a slave to sin. Acknowledge your sins, confess and Forsake them . When you don't forsake your sins the tempter will always come back. Fill all space with the word of God and don't give room to Voices.
I began dating a girl recently who I felt strongly convicted by God to tell about my past sexual sins. It took guts but i trusted that God would help her process it and would not punish me for being transparent with her up front. She told me not too long ago that she knew in the moment I opened up to her, that she could trust me. She told me that it was that moment that she knew she could love me. You NEED to be open with you S/O. It will only become harder the longer you wait. Remember that God will always love you and He cares about your relationships.
It is possible brother, in Jesus. I was rescued 14yrs ago, we need to trust Him and look for help to be able to overcome it. You’ll feel a beautiful purpose in life afterwards. Be blessed.
@@upbestsalt1551 I understand you perfectly, that’s why we have to step away from those environments and have a person that you trust and really loves you to help you. But First, we need to place that petition in prayer 🙏. May God strengthens you and bless you.
@@upbestsalt1551for by strength shall no man prevail. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on understanding. He will help us stand, and overcome any temptations that might try to overcome us, lust inclusive
Hallelujah! It is because of Christ Jesus that we are forgiven and set free! This video is confirmation for me. Been set free for seven years and counting. Thank you, Allen, for letting God use you by making this video. I pray that this will set a lot of people free. Edited to add: this was the Scripture that helped me: “as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.” Psalms 103:12 NIV
Just ask for forgiveness like you do when you lie or gossip. Don't shame yourself. We all sin. Just repent and remember that God is good and still loves you
THE LORD takes ask sin and shame believe me my friend. The LORD is bigger than our pasts. I have done things I know God detests in my sinfulness and addictions but the LORD HAS SHOWED ME WE ARE FREE INDEED. I LOVE YOU MOST OF ALL GOD LOVES YOU AND WILL FORGIVE YOU
@@Skullcrusher28 Are you prepared to defend this comment before God? Beware of spreading lies and leading people astray. God did not make their body that way. They shouldn't be ashamed because he has removed our transgressions the moment we ask for forgiveness and repented (turned away from said act or lifestyle), it's human to want to languish in sadness for years instead of accepting that the time you asked in sincerity you were forgiven. "Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry for ever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea. Micah 7:18-19
@@dawnb8906yes but repentance is at the very beginning of your walk and placing faith in Christ you go from believing sin is just fine to acknowledging it is sin.
I have listen to this before but this time around this hit different. I think I trusted myself more in overcoming my own sexual sin, I leaned more on my own righteousness to try to be more pure and not let go of the things that I have committed.....
We are Saved by Grace Through faith in Christ Alone. Amen ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏 Hallelujah. Thank You Jesus. Praise GOD. There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ.
Yes, that was well said that "conviction can move into condemnation." No matter how many times it takes, we must continuously affirm the truth of the efficacy of the Blood of the Lord Jesus..Thanking and praising Him for His finished work..The devil is allergic to our praise for God. He will flee if we submit ourselves to God and resist him. That was a good word!
Beautiful and powerful! After my history of sexual sin and struggles with pornography I struggled to move on from that shame and guilt. I knew God had forgiven me but I couldn’t forgive myself because I felt that I knew better. I struggled for about 5 years and after sharing everything with my now spouse, my heart began to renew. That intensity of the pain began to dissolve and I’m way more open with sharing the truth of how sexual sin can impact you.
For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8. The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
I give thanksgiving to God for you, Brother. As a 68 yr old Catholic, I’ve never heard this message preached, let alone like this. The Lord is touching my heart, healing my mind and freeing my soul through you. God bless and protect you and your holy ministry always. 🙏
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said: "And say, "Praise to Allah, who has not taken a son and has had no partner in [His] dominion and has no [need of a] protector out of weakness; and glorify Him with [great] glorification."" (The holy Quran ch 17v111)
@@mohammadraghib6415Ask God to show you the truth since you want to do right by him. "So the Lord God said to the serpent: “Because you have done this, You are cursed more than all cattle, And more than every beast of the field; On your belly you shall go, And you shall eat dust All the days of your life. And I will put enmity Between you and the woman, And between your seed and her Seed; He shall bruise your head, And you shall bruise His heel.”" Genesis 3:14-15 "Who is a liar but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist who denies the Father and the Son. Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father either; he who acknowledges the Son has the Father also." I John 2:22-23 "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." John 3:16-18 " In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it."John 1:1-5 " The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word. After he had provided purification for sins, he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven." Hebrews 1:3
😢😢😢 God is really listening; I’m constantly at the condemnation stage and I go back and forth, I know God is forgiving, and I fear I sin the more by feeling God Will remember my sins and withhold any blessings as well as not accepting Gods forgiveness and leaving the past behind
Thank you for this VIDEO 🙏🏽You have truly been a Blessing since finding you.. I was ashame after 7 months of marriage I was told that my husband had a child with his uncle’s girlfriend at the age of 16. I was crushed he didn’t tell me we dated from 1989 to 1991..and married in 1991…I know myself to know that at that time I probably would not have accepted this situation.. I became very insecure I couldn’t trust him.. 24 years married this haunted me.. he kept denying the child but yet kept a secret of interacting with him… many years later my husband had an affair and a child was conceived 😔 he didn’t tell me I found out by his mistress telling me.. now divorced and watching this video help me all the more regarding the shame of my marriage and that God is a Loving Forgiving ABBA❤
Thank you! This was something I struggled with several years ago. Through Christ, I am long past this. However, had I heard this during that time.. wow! Praise God for you sharing and teaching this! Love how you bring the word to help us stand firm! God bless. 🙏
Thanks for this video i have dealt with shame and guilt for years because of sexual sin and being taken advantage of years ago by a friend. It has been a long road and i’m starting to put my trust in God and know there is no condemnation to those that love Christ. Romans 8:1.
The devil is the father of liars, he will tell you lies and the worst thing you can do is to believe it. The Bible says if you confess He is faithful and just and forgive our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.(1 John 1:9-10). God can and wil l take away your shame if you drop it at his feet.Jesus said come unto me all you are weary and are heavy laden and I will give you rest. take my yoke upon you and learn of me for I am meek and lowly in heart and ye shall find rest for your souls( Matt 11:28-29).
Please pray for me as I know I am forgiven but it is hard to forgive myself at times. The enemy keeps reminding me and tries to connect me with my past. Jesus took all my sins and has cleansed me but I pray for the strength to not lose hope. I don’t want to walk in sin anymore.
Hey Brother Allen, thank you for this video! Ive been struggling with blasphemous thoughts and Ive prayed for forgiveness over and over. I just want to do right thing and live a Godly life no matter what the world throws at me. Thanks again 😢
Those are intrusive thoughts. It's not you. Satan is shooting thoughts into your mind and trying to deceive you into thinking it's you so you feel guilty. Do not even bother yourself repenting for those thoughts because they're not yours. Disregard those thoughts. They are nothing.
Brother Allen it’s amazing how The Lord works in us and out of my humbleness, I struggle with porn and master baiting because of lustful thoughts that I struggle and I have cheated on an ex because I was looking with lust and I ask God for forgiveness and to repent and to wash my sinful nature away and cleaning me up. God is so good brother!
Hi @retrostalgiafan8635, I feel the Lord wants me to tell you that He loves you and he has made provisions for you to rise above your weaknesses. Porn is a satanic ritual, with it's destructive tendencies. It's safer to keep away from it. Masturbation is an issue of a lack of self-control over pleasure. If you ask The Father He will give you power to overcome such sins. May He strengthen you.
A great teaching that is relatable and relevant is also backed up with biblical teaching and scripture. I've read the comments in response to the video. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. 😊
Brother Allen, thank you so much for this message. Its very timely for my life. Could you do a video expanding more on moving on of your partner's past? I got blindsided by the truth of my partner's past late in our relationship. Its been a long time, but I still have trouble letting go. Sometimes I am fine, but other times, I cant stop thinking about it and it hurts.
Wow. Yeah, I remember I struggle with that about 20 years ago in a relationship with a young lady, not my wife. That can be very difficult to deal with. That is the reason why I encourage people to share much of their past, with their significant other early in their relationship, so that the person can decide whether they are able to deal with it or not. However, at this point, I would say that if they have truly repented of their past, and God has forgiven them, you can too. Now, that does not mean that you should stay with them. I would give it more time to see if the thoughts that haunt you about their past remain over time. You do, it might just be too much for you to deal with. But, Those thoughts me fade away and you could be in for a greayt relationship moving forward.
@@Skullcrusher28 "This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us. 1 John 1:5-10
@daisiesandpandas1218 Okay, first of all, he should never ask for forgiveness if he can not control it with the God made bones God gave him. Second of all, he isn't hurting anyone, so God should mind his own business. Third of all, God is evil, selfish, greedy, and narcissistic. The only reason God made us is to worship him, and so were slaves to him while God talks about how shitty sinners we are when he braggs about being perfect, powerful, and better than everyone else. God flooded the Earth, killing innocent people, and God killed his own son brutally. God can put a person in hell forever if they have a hard time believing in God, but not Satan??? God can let children starve in Africa and do nothing about it because he doesn't care about you and never has.
Awesome video! Been processing through a lot of my own past sins lately and this video is really helping me get past them & know I'm forgiven. Thank you!
ive been dealing with lust and sin alot lately and i am a christian doing that with im ashamed im doing that stuff while being a christian and 2 days ago ive decided to stop that addiction and turn back to jesus and run into his arms. thank you brother allen
After giving my life back to God a few weeks ago, I have not had any desires to view social media nastiness or fantasize about perfect men that don't exist. I deleted my dating profiles too.
This is amazing, Mr. Parr. God bless you and all that you are doing to help people. I can't imagine how many people feel the way I feel about their past. Thank you!!
I never confessed because I always thought since God knew already the sins of me that there was no point. But after confessing a burdening sin, it has changed my view on it. God obviously knows all but he wants to hear us admit it.
Even though we confess and repent of our sins, and God forgives us, there is something that is reflected in King David's story that we need to remember: Forgiveness of sin does not necessarily negate the consequences of sin. David lost his infant son and the prophet Nathan stated that David's family would live by the sword (2Sam 12:10-12). Sometimes this is hard to bear as the consequences may be long-lived (Adam and Eve, e.g.) That is why Scripture says "It is better to obey than to sacrifice."
Im currently 19 and ive done some very sexual perverted things not to anyone else but to myself and with past partners in public and in private not to be seen but simply because I didn’t have self control, the self control to Wait till marriage and it sucks it makes me regret it so bad pray for me I been saved since 2020 but man shame is horrible.
so i used to do porn but i don't anymore (honestly I don't miss it), but I'm praying to be able to defeat any temptation if or when it does happen again. you don't have to reply or like or anything I just needed to get this out there
I agree 100% guilt and shame are the enemy's tools and Jesus wants us to be happy healthy and whole in his word and be a humble servant for God's kingdom not to be ashamed and hiding away from the world through prayer and the word we can do this amen
I've been with so many twans and multiple men that I fear I'll always mess up in my current relationship with my current virgin girlfriend. Lord forgive me and give me strength to endure til marriage with my desires.
Hi brother How are you doing? Overcoming addiction is nearly impossible when it is being done with one strength. I struggled with porn too. I was once a pornography addict. I was so tired and fed up yet I couldn't stop myself. I would cry and cry but I couldn't stop. Today I am free and it's two years now I haven't gone back to it. This is how I got delivered. I was a sin living Christain, so FIRSTLY I had to rededicate my life to CHRIST. I realized I couldn't stop by my own strength so I asked the Lord to please help me. I got rid of materials ( movies,books, musics) that would make me want to indulge. I started reading my Bible constantly. I got a shepherd that I can be accountable to. I got rid of friends that would notbhelp me grow, I surrounded myself with brethrens. I started watching Christain movies and books. My brother truthfully I haven't gone back to it since two years now. * The point is allow Jesus to help you and surrounded yourself with godly content and godly people* I Pray the good Lord help and keep you. I pray for grace to say NO to ungodliness. Please if you will like to talk more, kindly send a reply 🙏
Thanks for sharing this message, Brother Allen - this was SO helpful! Self-forgiveness seems to be huge in this type of sin. I realize though that our Father has already forgiven us. I love how God still used King David and Soloman both in Jesus lineage, that is true forgiveness! ❤
I have a friend (i'll call him matthew) who used to live a sexually immoral life before he was saved. And now i got another friend who IS currently in a sexually immoral life but pretty much one step away from salvation (I'll call this one michael). I got matthew and michael to meet each other, since with matthew's sexually deviant past and child of God present, he could help michael get closer to Christ. They met, and with both his testimony and my conversations with michael, michael is almost a believer at this point. I told matthew that God used him too, and told him to remember that every time the devil reminds him of his past... that this past was used to bring someone with his past as this person's present, to Jesus. Just as Allen talks about here on our sexually deviant past (for those who have it), being used to help others with the same struggle. When he said that i immediately thought of these 2 friends of mine EDIT: Allen subtly implies, and i'll say out here, that one way to help you overcome your shame, is to do what matthew did, use your past to help others with it as their present, to come closer to saving faith in Christ
I know God forgave me long back for my sin, still sometimes I feel guilty. And some days its even worst. Devil keep reminding me that I'm not a child of God anymore. And then I end up crying for hours and hours. Even though, I've corrected my mistakes, repented, and started living for Christ, still guilty thoughts torture me. The more I come close to God, the more devil make things difficult for me.
Allen, thank you for not being a man of God who says things like, " but God kept me out of these sins to begin with, Amen?". Those types of comments, even if true, are discouraging to those of us who are sinful. And we are all sinful.
Pastor Allen can you please recommend a Bible teaching church in New York city I've gone to many churches but they tend to teach something different. They keep you in bondage.Thank you sister in Christ Juanita
Thank you for clearing up questions I have had about this subject. I know I'm forgiven when I ask God, I know I can live without self-condemnation. What if others hold it over me? How do I ignore that especially if they are family or co-workers?
Hi brother How are you doing? Most of the times, we are the ones that open doorway for these demons. I was once bound to this things except adultery cos I was not not married. I can relate with what you are going through. I was so tired and fed up yet I couldn't stop myself. I would cry and cry but I couldn't stop. Today I am free and it's two years now I haven't gone back to it. This is how I got delivered. I was a sin living Christain, so FIRSTLY I had to rededicate my life to CHRIST. I realized I couldn't stop by my own strength so I asked the Lord to please help me. I got rid of materials ( movies,books, musics) that would make me want to indulge. I started reading my Bible constantly. I got a shepherd that I can be accountable to. I got rid of friends that would notbhelp me grow, I surrounded myself with brethrens. I started watching Christain movies and books. My brother truthfully I haven't gone back to it since two years now. * The point is allow Jesus to help you and surrounded yourself with godly content and godly people* you might have to undergo a delieverance . Pray and ask God to wash and purge you. I Pray the good Lord help and keep you. I pray for grace to say NO to ungodliness. Please if you will like to talk more, kindly send a reply 🙏
Huh ? I don't understand your comment. Brother GOD loves us very much . He is Faithful to His Children. We as humans are flawed, blemished , and sinful. That is why we are SAVED BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST ALONE JESUS'S BLOOD IS SUFFICIENT ENOUGH. our Lord Jesus Christ has paid the price for ALL our sins PAST PRESENT AND FUTURE sins. It was all nailed to the cross. Shame and guilt / condemnation is a plan from the enemy to wreak havoc in the believer's life . But we must understand that all sins a forgiven and believe GOD when he says we have Eternal life / life with out end . Even though the says that GOD will chastens those who He loves and scourges every son who He receives. He will lovingly discipline those who are living in sin and correct them as a Loving Parent. when we sin we usually bring risk to our and health. But GOD LOVES us all Always. We cannot lose our Salvation ever . SALVATION IS A FREE GIFT FROM GOD AND NOT OF OURSELVES LEST ANY MAN SHOULD BOAST. Now on the other hand discipleship is very costly and will ultimately at the end of this life and in Heaven those who were Faithful with their works will receive rewards in Heaven from ALMIGHTY GOD. Remember Jesus died for us all He has risen And Jesus Reigns Forever. Jesus Christ was crucified, buried and roses up from the dead on the third day and He is now sitting at the right hand of The Father in Heaven. Jesus will be coming back soon to receive those who believe in Him . And for those who didn't just simply believe in Him for Salvation will perish and Not have Everlasting life. But hell forever. So one must Believe on The Lord Jesus Christ and they will be Saved and their house. There is No other way for Salvation / to Heaven ONLY THROUGH BELIEVING IN JESUS CHRIST FOR WHAT HE DID ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS . Is to believe in The Finished Work of Jesus Christ on the cross. And not our works and good behavior/ obedience Remember no one could keep the law / ten commandments. So like John 3:16 It says " For GOD so Loved The world that He gave His Only Begotten Son (Jesus Christ) that whosoever believeth on Him shall not perish but have EVERLASTING LIFE " . That is clear all the way . The Bible doesn't confuse us but the enemy tries to . But please keep reading Scripture so you may know the Truth because Truth will set you free . Free from bondage of the enemy's lies / deception. LET GOD BE THE TRUTH AND LET EVERY MAN BE A LIAR . Stay in the Word of GOD. Don't believe no man over GOD ever we all are flawed and liars . We shouldn't feel guilt OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST PAID FOR IT (ALL) ok LET ALL POWER GLORY HONOR PRAISES AND THANKS BE TO THE ALMIGHTY SOVEREIGN TRIUNE LIVING GOD IN HEAVEN FOREVER AND EVER AND ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN HALLELUJAH ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Thank you for this video😥 helped so much. Have a question though... didn't God call David a man after his own heart before he committed the adultery/murder?
I also believe when the enemy manifests and spiritual rapes are constant deliverance with the right minister is the only way out through jesus. Romantic books and non realistic views on love relationships bring demons in too. Bless you
Brother Allen, I'm in tears hearing this today. I was literally pouring my heart out to a close friend of mine about how my shame has crippled me. An hour after that conversation, this sermon popped up I my feed. I don't know if another person is affected by this today, but rest assured. It broke my heart. And gave me some amazing ways to view my sin the way God views it. How arrogant and prideful of me to think that I know better than the Lord! He forgave me! But I won't forgive myself. Praise the Lord! There is no condemnation for me! Praise His Holy Name! May the Lord bless you today, specifically for blessing my heart. Thank you, brother. 🙏 ✝️ ❤️
Same thing happened to me. May God, bless brother Allen and his family, for generations.
I know how that is you just have to go through the pain and let God wash you out I've been there a million times
When your eyes are open and you see clearly it might cause pain. There's a void that can only be filled by the love of God and the washing of your heart by the Word of God. Study the word more and you'll find healing and peace.
This was so helpful!!! Ive been stuck in condemnation for 20 plus years, feeling like a step child to God. Ive confessed many many times, I truly have repented BUT have not accepted Gods forgiveness or mercy. I felt I was not worthy. Im going to pray to God and ask Him for His help. I will keep this video handy to help remind me! Thank you.
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For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8.
The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
Join me in this prayer. The more that pray it the stronger it gets. Pray God’s will be done on this earth as it is in heaven. Pray God protects and blesses the children. Pray for the truth to be revealed. Pray God lifts the scales from the lukewarm and lost eyes, opens their ears and soften their hearts. Pray God strengthens His children, gives them more discernment, pours more Fire on them and wakes them up. Pray the end times harvest will increase. Pray God exposes the evil people and brings them to justice ✅
People need the holy ghost while praying. That's what depletes the chains of condemnation
Amen
Amen.
I pray that God shows the evil people a better way, and that he forgives them, and brings love into their lives
@@Greg-yu4ij I've done evil and I've been living in shame and guilt for years and I keep praying and repenting of the things I've done and confessed to God to the point I cried, so thank you for your comment, it made me feel better, there is a chance of salvation for me, others wouldn't be guilty for the things they done but for me I always feel guilty and ashamed
This came to me at the PERFECT moment thank you 😢 I am married now and pregnant with our first kid. We did it right. Didn’t even kiss before marriage to prevent temptation. But, men from my s*xual past keep messaging me and trying to talk about it and even thank me for it and I’m not replying to any of them but it keeps hitting me with absolute disgust toward my past and I have to block their numbers. Hormones from my pregnancy are hitting hard on top of this shame and I’ve been crying for over half of today about this and how much I’ve hurt God and ruined my body. Thank you so much, I cried again when this video popped up today because it just came out today as well. Thank you, God bless you and your ministry
I lost my voice wife to cancer last year. Before we were married, I didn’t understand why she would start fights with me and sabotage the relationship. I would break up with her and then forgive her and we would have a great make up sex. However, she kept doing it, and I called her on it, and we started breaking up for real. I would go sleep with other women, she would find out and validate herself by sleeping with other men. She kept acting out in ways to try and make me leave her for good. On our last break up, I was with a girl who was prettier than her on the hood of my car. Of course women talk and someone called her and told her. She came around , looked at my hood and then looked at me and smiled. I got really angry and told her to leave. Later on, I was playing pool at a bar with my friend, and she came to the bar and insisted on talking. I told her no, and she became so upset that she threw her keys against the window and broke the bar window. The bar owner started calling the cops and she was going to get arrested, but I told him I would take care of it, and I told her to go home. My friend practically jumped for joy, because that meant we would be broken up for good, but secretly, I knew we would be back together because she was better, more loving, and nurturing than any of the other girls I was with. She fought for me and her desperate act of passion touched me. When we got back together this time, the fighting stopped. I think subconsciously she was testing to see if I would throw her away. I found out that the fights were because She had been molested by her father, and it caused tremendous shame, and anxiety. She wound up, gaining a lot of weight in order to make herself look less appealing to him, and she would only go to sleep, if her cousin was with her in the other room.
I was with her for a total of 32 years, and we had three beautiful boys together. We had a very happy marriage, and we also “did it right”, from my standpoint, because we never divorced, she had the freedom to stay home, and raise the kids, and I made it a point to work 21 years at IBM to maintain a stable household. she never let me sleep on the couch, she would always come get me at 2 AM if we were fighting. She never let a fight see the dawn. Her best friend slept with the neighbor, and divorced her husband for him. My wife cut her off immediately because she didn’t want to let drama and instability into her life. She was the strongest, most loving woman I’ve ever been with.
If my wife and I could go through all those early break ups and not let our early sexual partners cause any sort of issue in our marriage, then I am sure your previous sexual partners need not cause a problem. I used to tell my wife that I’m not worried about her being around other men because even if she made a mistake and slept with one of them, I know she would come right back to me because I’m the best she’s ever been with. I don’t know if your man is the best you ever been with, but as long as he is a strong man, and has control over his emotions, your marriage will stay strong. So make sure that he has a strong sense of purpose in his life, he works out and keeps his muscles. Strong, he has a guy, hobby, and guy friends like snowmobiling, motorcycle riding, or quad riding, and he knows how to make your climax every time. Also, be sure to have plenty of sex during your pregnancy. My mother is practically married to Jesus, and I almost lost it when she told me that as long as we were sexually compatible, our marriage would be a strong one. My wife always came to me for sex, and my mom was right.
For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8.
The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
Four years after Christ rescued me from my sexual sin, I have finally accepted my new identity in Christ. I held on so tightly to the sins of my past and I brought them into my present. I let them determine who I am. I saw myself as a ruined woman, beyond redemption, beyond fixing, beyond fixing, unworthy of relationships - despite all the Scripture that says otherwise. I didn't accept that I was no longer condemned. I passionately believed that I would remain single for the rest of my life because of those sexual sins, that I had enough sex to last me several lifetimes. But God....He spoke through someone, and it finally clicked. What I did is not who I am. Do I still struggle with temptation to sin sexually? Absolutely. But I have a new name - I am redeemed. Worthy and deserving of love. I am restored. A child of God. I am free, hallelujah, I am free.
Hear me, those who are suffering from your sexual sin - you are not your past. You're not. If Christ is in your heart and you have repented and you're listening and following Jesus and you've left your sin behind - you are His new creation. What you've done does not define who you are today.
You’re right. God forgives you, and who you’ve been with, doesn’t define you. It can make it harder to enjoy intimacy with who you’re with now, but if you let it go and don’t compare your man with anyone you’ve been with, you’ll be OK It sounds like you’re well on your way. If you weren’t lucky enough to have been forgiven, and leave those previous men in the past, only a very strong man could keep your interest because your subconscious would keep making comparisons
Hallelujah 💃💃💃. Your no longer a slave to sin. Acknowledge your sins, confess and Forsake them . When you don't forsake your sins the tempter will always come back. Fill all space with the word of God and don't give room to Voices.
I began dating a girl recently who I felt strongly convicted by God to tell about my past sexual sins. It took guts but i trusted that God would help her process it and would not punish me for being transparent with her up front. She told me not too long ago that she knew in the moment I opened up to her, that she could trust me. She told me that it was that moment that she knew she could love me. You NEED to be open with you S/O. It will only become harder the longer you wait. Remember that God will always love you and He cares about your relationships.
Thank you Brother Allen. I needed to hear this today. I'm having struggles overcoming my addiction to porn and my struggles with lust.
It is possible brother, in Jesus. I was rescued 14yrs ago, we need to trust Him and look for help to be able to overcome it. You’ll feel a beautiful purpose in life afterwards. Be blessed.
@@manuelrodriguez9972 God bless you for the kind words of encouragement.
Yeah it’s very hard to overcome that when your school is infested with lustful temptations
@@upbestsalt1551 I understand you perfectly, that’s why we have to step away from those environments and have a person that you trust and really loves you to help you. But First, we need to place that petition in prayer 🙏. May God strengthens you and bless you.
@@upbestsalt1551for by strength shall no man prevail. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on understanding. He will help us stand, and overcome any temptations that might try to overcome us, lust inclusive
Hallelujah!
It is because of Christ Jesus that we are forgiven and set free!
This video is confirmation for me. Been set free for seven years and counting.
Thank you, Allen, for letting God use you by making this video.
I pray that this will set a lot of people free.
Edited to add: this was the Scripture that helped me: “as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.”
Psalms 103:12 NIV
No it's because God made our bodies that way so it's not our fault if anything it's God's fault for making us that way
@@Skullcrusher28your recommendation won't stand in front of God's truth, so study your Bible well.
@daisiesandpandas1218 You do know that Christianity during the medieval times was used to minapulate people right??? Jesus is evil
Jesus Christ take away my guilt and shame, Lord please forgive my sins and heals me from pain, please pray for me
I am so ashamed about myself, I don't even want to comment on this subject. I thank you for this eye opener.
I feel you, what helped me a lot, was I spent a lot of time in the Psalms and Proverbs.
Just ask for forgiveness like you do when you lie or gossip. Don't shame yourself. We all sin. Just repent and remember that God is good and still loves you
THE LORD takes ask sin and shame believe me my friend. The LORD is bigger than our pasts. I have done things I know God detests in my sinfulness and addictions but the LORD HAS SHOWED ME WE ARE FREE INDEED. I LOVE YOU MOST OF ALL GOD LOVES YOU AND WILL FORGIVE YOU
Don't be ashamed God made your body that way and you can't control it
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Are you prepared to defend this comment before God? Beware of spreading lies and leading people astray.
God did not make their body that way.
They shouldn't be ashamed because he has removed our transgressions the moment we ask for forgiveness and repented (turned away from said act or lifestyle), it's human to want to languish in sadness for years instead of accepting that the time you asked in sincerity you were forgiven.
"Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry for ever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.
Micah 7:18-19
God is a forgiving God. No sin that he will not forgive
Absolutely! However repentance must come first and we must turn from our sin otherwise we make a mockery of His Grace and sacrifice for us
It doesn't take away from God's grace, but there actually is an unforgivable sin--blaspheming the Holy Spirit.
@@dawnb8906yes but repentance is at the very beginning of your walk and placing faith in Christ you go from believing sin is just fine to acknowledging it is sin.
I have listen to this before but this time around this hit different. I think I trusted myself more in overcoming my own sexual sin, I leaned more on my own righteousness to try to be more pure and not let go of the things that I have committed.....
We are Saved by Grace Through faith in Christ Alone. Amen ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏 Hallelujah. Thank You Jesus. Praise GOD. There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ.
Yes, that was well said that "conviction can move into condemnation." No matter how many times it takes, we must continuously affirm the truth of the efficacy of the Blood of the Lord Jesus..Thanking and praising Him for His finished work..The devil is allergic to our praise for God. He will flee if we submit ourselves to God and resist him.
That was a good word!
Beautiful and powerful! After my history of sexual sin and struggles with pornography I struggled to move on from that shame and guilt. I knew God had forgiven me but I couldn’t forgive myself because I felt that I knew better. I struggled for about 5 years and after sharing everything with my now spouse, my heart began to renew. That intensity of the pain began to dissolve and I’m way more open with sharing the truth of how sexual sin can impact you.
For there's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus ( John 5:24) . Keep hearing the Word of God and believe it. Read Romans chapter 5 and chapter 8.
The bible says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. The truth is the word of God. How much of it you know, obey and practice guarantee's your freedom.
Psalms 73:26
My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever.
Thank you Brother Allen, this was huge confirmation for me. Thank you for letting God use you man. God Bless you!
Thank you for telling us this educational lesson about Guilty and Shame about your Past.
I give thanksgiving to God for you, Brother. As a 68 yr old Catholic, I’ve never heard this message preached, let alone like this. The Lord is touching my heart, healing my mind and freeing my soul through you. God bless and protect you and your holy ministry always. 🙏
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said:
"And say, "Praise to Allah, who has not taken a son and has had no partner in [His] dominion and has no [need of a] protector out of weakness; and glorify Him with [great] glorification.""
(The holy Quran ch 17v111)
@@mohammadraghib6415Ask God to show you the truth since you want to do right by him.
"So the Lord God said to the serpent: “Because you have done this, You are cursed more than all cattle, And more than every beast of the field; On your belly you shall go, And you shall eat dust All the days of your life. And I will put enmity Between you and the woman, And between your seed and her Seed; He shall bruise your head, And you shall bruise His heel.”"
Genesis 3:14-15
"Who is a liar but he who denies that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist who denies the Father and the Son. Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father either; he who acknowledges the Son has the Father also."
I John 2:22-23
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God."
John 3:16-18
" In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it."John 1:1-5
" The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word. After he had provided purification for sins, he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven."
Hebrews 1:3
😢😢😢 God is really listening; I’m constantly at the condemnation stage and I go back and forth, I know God is forgiving, and I fear I sin the more by feeling God Will remember my sins and withhold any blessings as well as not accepting Gods forgiveness and leaving the past behind
Thank you for this VIDEO 🙏🏽You have truly been a Blessing since finding you.. I was ashame after 7 months of marriage I was told that my husband had a child with his uncle’s girlfriend at the age of 16. I was crushed he didn’t tell me we dated from 1989 to 1991..and married in 1991…I know myself to know that at that time I probably would not have accepted this situation.. I became very insecure I couldn’t trust him.. 24 years married this haunted me.. he kept denying the child but yet kept a secret of interacting with him… many years later my husband had an affair and a child was conceived 😔 he didn’t tell me I found out by his mistress telling me.. now divorced and watching this video help me all the more regarding the shame of my marriage and that God is a Loving Forgiving ABBA❤
Thank you! This was something I struggled with several years ago. Through Christ, I am long past this. However, had I heard this during that time.. wow! Praise God for you sharing and teaching this! Love how you bring the word to help us stand firm! God bless. 🙏
Thanks for this video i have dealt with shame and guilt for years because of sexual sin and being taken advantage of years ago by a friend. It has been a long road and i’m starting to put my trust in God and know there is no condemnation to those that love Christ. Romans 8:1.
The devil is the father of liars, he will tell you lies and the worst thing you can do is to believe it.
The Bible says if you confess He is faithful and just and forgive our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.(1 John 1:9-10). God can and wil l take away your shame if you drop it at his feet.Jesus said come unto me all you are weary and are heavy laden and I will give you rest. take my yoke upon you and learn of me for I am meek and lowly in heart and ye shall find rest for your souls( Matt 11:28-29).
I put my shame away And delight in your word thank you Jesus and brother parr for continuing to fight the good fight
Powerful! Very relatable and something I struggle with myself.
Please pray for me as I know I am forgiven but it is hard to forgive myself at times. The enemy keeps reminding me and tries to connect me with my past. Jesus took all my sins and has cleansed me but I pray for the strength to not lose hope. I don’t want to walk in sin anymore.
This message came at the right time
Thank you brother Allen
Good teaching , I just finished your book it was a blessing thanks, God bless
Hey Brother Allen, thank you for this video! Ive been struggling with blasphemous thoughts and Ive prayed for forgiveness over and over. I just want to do right thing and live a Godly life no matter what the world throws at me. Thanks again 😢
Those are intrusive thoughts. It's not you. Satan is shooting thoughts into your mind and trying to deceive you into thinking it's you so you feel guilty. Do not even bother yourself repenting for those thoughts because they're not yours. Disregard those thoughts. They are nothing.
Brother Allen it’s amazing how The Lord works in us and out of my humbleness, I struggle with porn and master baiting because of lustful thoughts that I struggle and I have cheated on an ex because I was looking with lust and I ask God for forgiveness and to repent and to wash my sinful nature away and cleaning me up. God is so good brother!
Hi @retrostalgiafan8635, I feel the Lord wants me to tell you that He loves you and he has made provisions for you to rise above your weaknesses. Porn is a satanic ritual, with it's destructive tendencies. It's safer to keep away from it. Masturbation is an issue of a lack of self-control over pleasure. If you ask The Father He will give you power to overcome such sins. May He strengthen you.
Read 1 Peter 2:11 and 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 Kjv they are verses that always stick with me when I feel tempted.
That's awesome brother! Thanks for the suggestion@@Fightingvaultboy
A great teaching that is relatable and relevant is also backed up with biblical teaching and scripture. I've read the comments in response to the video. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. 😊
Thank you for teaching us about Christ, our Lord and Savior. I am saved🙌🏽
Pastor Allen, just finished reading Mislead it had a huge impact on me, thank you for writing it, bless you brother!
Wow. Praise God brother David!!
Thank you for your teaching Now I have a better understanding of Condemnation I can move on with my life God be with us all most ❤ thank you again!
Brother Allen, thank you so much for this message. Its very timely for my life.
Could you do a video expanding more on moving on of your partner's past?
I got blindsided by the truth of my partner's past late in our relationship. Its been a long time, but I still have trouble letting go. Sometimes I am fine, but other times, I cant stop thinking about it and it hurts.
Wow. Yeah, I remember I struggle with that about 20 years ago in a relationship with a young lady, not my wife. That can be very difficult to deal with. That is the reason why I encourage people to share much of their past, with their significant other early in their relationship, so that the person can decide whether they are able to deal with it or not. However, at this point, I would say that if they have truly repented of their past, and God has forgiven them, you can too. Now, that does not mean that you should stay with them. I would give it more time to see if the thoughts that haunt you about their past remain over time. You do, it might just be too much for you to deal with. But, Those thoughts me fade away and you could be in for a greayt relationship moving forward.
Always a blessing to hear such truth on sexual sin.
It's not people's fault they can't control the body God gave them
@@Skullcrusher28
"This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.
1 John 1:5-10
@daisiesandpandas1218 Okay, first of all, he should never ask for forgiveness if he can not control it with the God made bones God gave him. Second of all, he isn't hurting anyone, so God should mind his own business. Third of all, God is evil, selfish, greedy, and narcissistic. The only reason God made us is to worship him, and so were slaves to him while God talks about how shitty sinners we are when he braggs about being perfect, powerful, and better than everyone else. God flooded the Earth, killing innocent people, and God killed his own son brutally. God can put a person in hell forever if they have a hard time believing in God, but not Satan??? God can let children starve in Africa and do nothing about it because he doesn't care about you and never has.
Good lessons especially Conviction vs Self condemnation, thank you
Awesome video! Been processing through a lot of my own past sins lately and this video is really helping me get past them & know I'm forgiven. Thank you!
Thank you for teaching us the important lesson about Jesus is greater than sin God Bless you 🙏🙏🙏
ive been dealing with lust and sin alot lately and i am a christian doing that with im ashamed im doing that stuff while being a christian and 2 days ago ive decided to stop that addiction and turn back to jesus and run into his arms. thank you brother allen
After giving my life back to God a few weeks ago, I have not had any desires to view social media nastiness or fantasize about perfect men that don't exist. I deleted my dating profiles too.
This is amazing, Mr. Parr. God bless you and all that you are doing to help people. I can't imagine how many people feel the way I feel about their past. Thank you!!
Please pray God will reveal to me every sin I haven’t repent for and pray to remove shame and guilt from past sexual sins
Another beautiful encouraging video full of truth.. Thank you, Brother Parr.
Thank you for this message. I think we all need to hear this. May the Lord continue to bless this ministry.
I never confessed because I always thought since God knew already the sins of me that there was no point. But after confessing a burdening sin, it has changed my view on it. God obviously knows all but he wants to hear us admit it.
I'm a VIRGIN in my 40th year of life.
That's awesome!
That’s amazing!
It's ok as long as it doesn't psychologically affect you. Which is totally up to you
Thank you for yet another eye opening lesson. God Bless you!
Thank you for this! Thank you so much! Now that I've been taught this process, I know how to be free. Thank you!
Even though we confess and repent of our sins, and God forgives us, there is something that is reflected in King David's story that we need to remember: Forgiveness of sin does not necessarily negate the consequences of sin. David lost his infant son and the prophet Nathan stated that David's family would live by the sword (2Sam 12:10-12). Sometimes this is hard to bear as the consequences may be long-lived (Adam and Eve, e.g.) That is why Scripture says "It is better to obey than to sacrifice."
Im currently 19 and ive done some very sexual perverted things not to anyone else but to myself and with past partners in public and in private not to be seen but simply because I didn’t have self control, the self control to Wait till marriage and it sucks it makes me regret it so bad pray for me I been saved since 2020 but man shame is horrible.
I love this series that you’re doing, it hits home for me personally. Keep going!
As a 26 year old who’s never had a girlfriend, I feel like I’m gonna have to learn forgiveness in this area in particular when I join the dating pool
Wait until marriage.
Very Insightful,I feel blessed
Thank you
so i used to do porn but i don't anymore (honestly I don't miss it), but I'm praying to be able to defeat any temptation if or when it does happen again. you don't have to reply or like or anything I just needed to get this out there
What made you accept doing that?
@@RAWALITY accept what
@@therealitsglitchtrap You said you performed sexual acts in front of a camera with God knows who!
Thank you, brother Allen. Praise the One, whose steadfast love endures forever!
I "happened" upon your preaching/teaching this evening. Thank you for your message!
Amen. I bear witness to this word.
I agree 100% guilt and shame are the enemy's tools and Jesus wants us to be happy healthy and whole in his word and be a humble servant for God's kingdom not to be ashamed and hiding away from the world through prayer and the word we can do this amen
I've been with so many twans and multiple men that I fear I'll always mess up in my current relationship with my current virgin girlfriend. Lord forgive me and give me strength to endure til marriage with my desires.
Does she know about your sexual history?
Thank you for this video, I’m really struggling with trying to overcome my addiction to porn so this video is very helpful🙏
Hi brother
How are you doing?
Overcoming addiction is nearly impossible when it is being done with one strength.
I struggled with porn too.
I was once a pornography addict. I was so tired and fed up yet I couldn't stop myself. I would cry and cry but I couldn't stop. Today I am free and it's two years now I haven't gone back to it.
This is how I got delivered.
I was a sin living Christain, so FIRSTLY I had to rededicate my life to CHRIST. I realized I couldn't stop by my own strength so I asked the Lord to please help me. I got rid of materials ( movies,books, musics) that would make me want to indulge. I started reading my Bible constantly. I got a shepherd that I can be accountable to. I got rid of friends that would notbhelp me grow, I surrounded myself with brethrens. I started watching Christain movies and books.
My brother truthfully I haven't gone back to it since two years now.
* The point is allow Jesus to help you and surrounded yourself with godly content and godly people*
I Pray the good Lord help and keep you. I pray for grace to say NO to ungodliness.
Please if you will like to talk more, kindly send a reply 🙏
Thanks for sharing this message, Brother Allen - this was SO helpful! Self-forgiveness seems to be huge in this type of sin. I realize though that our Father has already forgiven us. I love how God still used King David and Soloman both in Jesus lineage, that is true forgiveness! ❤
Thankyou Lord for healing me from my Lustful past and I pray the Holy Spirit keep me on the Straight and Narrow path.
Absolutely fantastic video. Thank you Allen
Thank you for this Brother Allen, God bless you! 🙏🏾
Thank you telling about how to deal with shame….. meaning ALL kinds of SHAME
I have a friend (i'll call him matthew) who used to live a sexually immoral life before he was saved. And now i got another friend who IS currently in a sexually immoral life but pretty much one step away from salvation (I'll call this one michael).
I got matthew and michael to meet each other, since with matthew's sexually deviant past and child of God present, he could help michael get closer to Christ.
They met, and with both his testimony and my conversations with michael, michael is almost a believer at this point. I told matthew that God used him too, and told him to remember that every time the devil reminds him of his past... that this past was used to bring someone with his past as this person's present, to Jesus. Just as Allen talks about here on our sexually deviant past (for those who have it), being used to help others with the same struggle. When he said that i immediately thought of these 2 friends of mine
EDIT: Allen subtly implies, and i'll say out here, that one way to help you overcome your shame, is to do what matthew did, use your past to help others with it as their present, to come closer to saving faith in Christ
Amen!!!!! Great explanation as usual. May God continue to bless you with wisdom, thanks.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
His grace and mercy be upon you and your loved ones 🕊️🥛🍯
Love this powerful word. Thank you
I really love this it has helped me thank you Alan parr and prays god
Create in me a clean heart Lord and renew a right spirit within me. ❤️
This video blessed me so much! Thank you Allen!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Man this was good! 🙌🙌🙏🙏
Mr.parr i dont have this shame ,but my boy friend do thx u 4 this.
Always on time! I was reading Psalm 51
I gained much value from this video🙏
Thank u for this ❤
Thank you Jesus, Thank you Allen
Amen, To God Be The Glory, In Christ Alone we are save🙏❤️
Thank you for this. Such a needed message.
I know God forgave me long back for my sin, still sometimes I feel guilty. And some days its even worst. Devil keep reminding me that I'm not a child of God anymore. And then I end up crying for hours and hours. Even though, I've corrected my mistakes, repented, and started living for Christ, still guilty thoughts torture me. The more I come close to God, the more devil make things difficult for me.
Thanks for encouraging me .
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Allen, thank you for not being a man of God who says things like, " but God kept me out of these sins to begin with, Amen?". Those types of comments, even if true, are discouraging to those of us who are sinful. And we are all sinful.
How to handle people that keeps throwing your past in your face?
just continue doing good deeds.
Pay them dust. Let them know that you are forgiven by God and He remembers your sins no more.
I want to be delivered from every fear
Thank you brother Allen’, God bless you.
Pastor Allen can you please recommend a Bible teaching church in New York city I've gone to many churches but they tend to teach something different. They keep you in bondage.Thank you sister in Christ Juanita
Its a wonderfull message. Be blessed Allen
Thank you for clearing up questions I have had about this subject. I know I'm forgiven when I ask God, I know I can live without self-condemnation. What if others hold it over me? How do I ignore that especially if they are family or co-workers?
Thank you, great video!
Very good video!!! Thank you
Beautiful and necessary message.
Thank you brother Allen. I have struggles with porn,lust, and adultery.
Hi brother
How are you doing?
Most of the times, we are the ones that open doorway for these demons.
I was once bound to this things except adultery cos I was not not married.
I can relate with what you are going through. I was so tired and fed up yet I couldn't stop myself. I would cry and cry but I couldn't stop. Today I am free and it's two years now I haven't gone back to it.
This is how I got delivered.
I was a sin living Christain, so FIRSTLY I had to rededicate my life to CHRIST. I realized I couldn't stop by my own strength so I asked the Lord to please help me. I got rid of materials ( movies,books, musics) that would make me want to indulge. I started reading my Bible constantly. I got a shepherd that I can be accountable to. I got rid of friends that would notbhelp me grow, I surrounded myself with brethrens. I started watching Christain movies and books.
My brother truthfully I haven't gone back to it since two years now.
* The point is allow Jesus to help you and surrounded yourself with godly content and godly people*
you might have to undergo a delieverance .
Pray and ask God to wash and purge you.
I Pray the good Lord help and keep you. I pray for grace to say NO to ungodliness.
Please if you will like to talk more, kindly send a reply 🙏
what I never understood is, if God never heals or ever gives any second chances and you can never get out of under your past, whats the point?
Huh ? I don't understand your comment. Brother GOD loves us very much . He is Faithful to His Children. We as humans are flawed, blemished , and sinful.
That is why we are SAVED BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST ALONE
JESUS'S BLOOD IS SUFFICIENT ENOUGH.
our Lord Jesus Christ has paid the price for ALL our sins PAST PRESENT AND FUTURE sins.
It was all nailed to the cross.
Shame and guilt / condemnation is a plan from the enemy to wreak havoc in the believer's life .
But we must understand that all sins a forgiven and believe GOD when he says we have Eternal life / life with out end .
Even though the says that GOD will chastens those who He loves and scourges every son who He receives.
He will lovingly discipline those who are living in sin and correct them as a Loving Parent.
when we sin we usually bring risk to our and health. But GOD LOVES us all Always. We cannot lose our Salvation ever .
SALVATION IS A FREE GIFT FROM GOD AND NOT OF OURSELVES LEST ANY MAN SHOULD BOAST.
Now on the other hand discipleship is very costly and will ultimately at the end of this life and in Heaven those who were Faithful with their works will receive rewards in Heaven from ALMIGHTY GOD.
Remember Jesus died for us all
He has risen
And Jesus Reigns Forever.
Jesus Christ was crucified, buried and roses up from the dead on the third day and He is now sitting at the right hand of The Father in Heaven. Jesus will be coming back soon to receive those who believe in Him .
And for those who didn't just simply believe in Him for Salvation will perish and Not have Everlasting life. But hell forever.
So one must Believe on The Lord Jesus Christ and they will be Saved and their house.
There is No other way for Salvation / to Heaven
ONLY THROUGH BELIEVING IN JESUS CHRIST FOR WHAT HE DID ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS .
Is to believe in The Finished Work of Jesus Christ on the cross.
And not our works and good behavior/ obedience
Remember no one could keep the law / ten commandments. So like John 3:16
It says " For GOD so Loved The world that He gave His Only Begotten Son (Jesus Christ) that whosoever believeth on Him shall not perish but have EVERLASTING LIFE " .
That is clear all the way . The Bible doesn't confuse us but the enemy tries to . But please keep reading Scripture so you may know the Truth because Truth will set you free .
Free from bondage of the enemy's lies / deception.
LET GOD BE THE TRUTH AND LET EVERY MAN BE A LIAR .
Stay in the Word of GOD.
Don't believe no man over GOD ever
we all are flawed and liars .
We shouldn't feel guilt
OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST PAID FOR IT (ALL) ok
LET ALL POWER GLORY HONOR PRAISES AND THANKS BE TO THE ALMIGHTY SOVEREIGN TRIUNE LIVING GOD IN HEAVEN FOREVER AND EVER AND ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN HALLELUJAH ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
Very timely for me…..thank you
This was a great video! Can you do a video on first fruits?
Thank you for this video😥 helped so much. Have a question though... didn't God call David a man after his own heart before he committed the adultery/murder?
God Bless you ❤
I thank God for you.
I also believe when the enemy manifests and spiritual rapes are constant deliverance with the right minister is the only way out through jesus. Romantic books and non realistic views on love relationships bring demons in too. Bless you