Jaida you’re so pretty, and as a person who is very contradicting; because I want deeper connections but get super overstimulated with people you’re very inspiring
@@nostalcoastalokay!! I feel like we pressure ourselves into being one type of person, but being human means being contradictory. And that’s okay! We can be a different person every day-we aren’t movie characters. The more frequently we accept this i think the more we’ll become authentic and learn more about who we are
bc of ur solo dates, I got inspired to going out by myself too!!! I've been going to museums and cafes by myself, i still dont have the nerve to go eat by myself in a restaurant, but im getting there. despite this, i feel a little off mentally bc of family situations, but im going to therapy soon, so im trying to be hopeful
It’s so important to reflect on your friendships and romantic relationships often! It’s easy to get caught up in the fun/sameness & get stagnant on your growth goals and even forget your goals. Love the way you broke this down 🫶🫶 ☮️ wishing you luck in your journey
I felt what you said at the end in my SOUL, distanced myself from 90% of my “friends” at the beginning of the year and have been fighting loneliness ever since, tapping into solitude has definitely helped. Tysm for being so open about your experience, it made me and I’m sure so many others feel less alone!
friends for a “reason, season, or a lifetime”.. I’ve learned a lot from my college friendships.. both how they treated me and how I’m supposed to treat others… I’ve learned to not feel guilty of letting others go bc it’s not my responsibility and the most I could do for them is pray or support them through texting to give advice or check in and what not, but I no longer want to hang out and spend lots of time with them…. And post-college isn’t lonely for me I think of it as peaceful, until God places new people and experiences in my life.. I thank God for my maturity and growth this yr through prayer on my relationships and weekly self reflection.. and thank you for this beautiful video Jaida keep growing and doing you! 💕
My type of content, my type of girl! Thank you so much for showing us authenticity and the power of embodying love. Becoming love personified. Glad i found your channel all the way from the UK.
I’m in my young adult life about to turn 21 I have no friends where I am and I’m nervous about my 21st birthday I always see girls getting together recording pouring up having a great time. Watching this gave me peace that it’s okay to be alone who cares I’ll order my own very first drink and have a great time alone!
ate that up with the Moesha background music LMAOO but mental check-in: currently trying to accept being alone in a different country for a long period of time. it feels good to be away like this for the first time, but doing something new and different has made me very unsure of how to steward this opportunity... HOWEVER I'm gonna try to make my last 4 weeks the best weeks possible :p
Wow, I felt everything you said in this video. It's so true that we can spend so much time around other people, but when we're by ourselves, we feel alone. In reality, it's an opportunity to find ourselves again and understand where we truly stand. I've been in and out of friendships too, not because of anything bad, but simply because our energies didn't align.
When I tell u I needed this video!! I’ve had toxic people in my life for so long and just lately decided that am gonna let these ppl go because i deserve better🤍 keep it up Jaida u inspire me so much u don’t even know
i love the hats you wear, they’re so cute! it’s such a cute idea cus i feel less anxious when my ears are covered and there’s something round my head so i rlly would love something like this
I relate to this video so much as I have noticed my habit of constantly removing friends from my life, that's my way of growing sort of; that doesn't affect me as much tho cus I just be enjoying and loving myself. For instance, I completed a year of university made and met a lot of people which i called friends but then I decided to continue my studies somewhere else and honestly I will never regret my choice. I also feel like a lot of people should really just know that it's okay to have yourself sometime to time, your own company girlllll nothing beats it.
I literally felt you cause lately I’m back home from college and have felt kinda lonely but honestly me going out by myself or sometimes the gym really benefits me so I feel you and I’m proud of you girly ❤️
Omg this is crazy - what you said at the end was literally what I have been saying and thinking!! It felt almost like I was watching myself from another perspective bc it's so spot on!! I myself I have been cutting off people, and going on solo dates a lot and it feels good actually, because i know the right people will come! And the traveling, new food, new experiences, new places & new people is what my soul is craving at this time, what I am coming into & being drawn to! which is why I've also felt not satisfied with some things, even the smallest thing like food (i am ofc greatful but there is a point being made) - My soul wants new and I am aligned with it finally but it took A LOT TO GET HERE... so watching this video, seeing u for the first time, makes me feel like this is a positive sign that others collectively are feeling this - and we are coming into alignment with those who are meant for us ! :) thank God honestly ♡ it's time ☆
you articulated my own thoughts so well i had to screenshot it, it's insane. yes - exactly this!! so glad there are others who get it, this has been a lonely journey so far but i can just tell this will be such a beautiful rewarding adventure !
@kalopsias yes, it's such a relief to see ur comment bc for the longest i thought there wasnt others who saw the world similar to or the way i do, AND going through similar, situations! Glad we're on the same vibration ! & i agree it will be rewarding and already has, i think finding myself has been the biggest reward yet, so now meeting other likeminded will be getting easier bc i actually know who i am & who i am becoming/evolving to be! - but i have a feeling the rewards are coming in sooner than expected, bc this time they'll be received by the self, without giving it away !!
Mentally, I’m all over the place. College is requiring me to be away from home, & be away from all the people, places, and things I know. I’m also terrified of failing, so I’m trying to have a positive outlook on everything!- But.. lots of my friends are staying in the area whereas I am not. They’re planning things and hanging out, and I’m gonna be far away. I feel so left out and like “a puzzle piece that doesn’t fit.” I hope things start make sense soon. You are the embodiment of real and genuine Jaida keep being u . 🤍
So so glad I found your channel, it’s so important to see people on the journey I am on with trying to level up and attract things more in alignment with my values. I hope we can all get there ❤
Girl I was literally shouting telling you which book to choice and I’m glad you choose that one. It’s an amazing read and I often have to go back to it when I need some inspiration.
you’re such a beautiful person with phenomenal energy ❤❤❤ you really keep a clear, bright conscience…it’s rare to find that nowadays fr. you’re so lovely!!! love these vlogs :)
you are literally an emotionally intelligent gorgeous queen. ahead for your age, you should be proud of yourself. sometimes people are meant to be in your life for a certain time/season. meant to show and teach you something. as time goes, we grow. we change, therefore the people you have in your life might not align with the new version of you.
i really needed to hear what you just talked about and the way you explained it made me reevaluate some things. thank you jaida, you are a lovely person💗
I'm glad you are doing good girl, 💛Spending time with yourself is how you know yourself more and it's quite fun ,calm, relaxing ,I love doing it and solo dates as well! Happiness & maintaining is the goal in life. Gotta enjoy your own company once you need to get your social battery back to yourself💛 Im doing so so trying to get back to myself taking it one day at a time after losing my mom so just taking it day by day that's all you can do!🙏🏾
Mentally: doing okay, definitely understanding different layers of myself and slowly getting off social media. Being a youtuber can be challenging and it’s reminding me to take time for me too.
Mentally I think I’m fine but I’m also not fine? I’m struggling with my recent break up (I’m still friends with him) so I’m doing my best to know myself better, to know what I really need and improve my relationship with God. I’m going on vacation in 2 weeks and I’m so excited cuz I need to leave my town so bad to see new things, I’m going to do my hair and my lashes very soon. My mom’s and sisters had been here for me since this struggling moment and I’m very grateful for it.
This is the first video of yours I’m watching. The RUclips angels have blessed me with your channel recommendation lol 🙌🏽😊 I just wanna say, you’re awesome for silently checking those mean girls 💕 Also, what’s in a spider roll? I’m interested 😅
Wow I feel like Im committing. To the tribe, to the lineage of those that are being...true. whole. and full of love. I loved the Moesha part, to have other people be in that nostalgia feels dear to the soul. ALSO when you said, this aint no aesthetic this is a lifestyle! I knew we could be friends. I love it here!!!
People being ignorant is why it's hard for me to maintain friendships. I always call out harmful things and people get mad that I'm speaking on it or it triggers something in them that they don't want to work through. I'm always pushing myself to evolve and I always try to learn and educate myself and many people don't/won't. Like the incident that you had in the restaurant. People are so casually fatphobic that I even had to check people and even myself with the big back trend that's going on and people didn't like that. idk if its my ASD strong sense of justice/high empathy or whatever. Idk this world is so unnecessarily cruel. which is why I'm trying to build a wholesome/supportive community around me
what your aunt said is so true, there’s a difference between not being able to maintain friendships and simply realizing some people are not for you
Jaida you’re so pretty, and as a person who is very contradicting; because I want deeper connections but get super overstimulated with people you’re very inspiring
real shit
Ugh same
Contradiction means growth!
@@nostalcoastalokay!! I feel like we pressure ourselves into being one type of person, but being human means being contradictory. And that’s okay! We can be a different person every day-we aren’t movie characters. The more frequently we accept this i think the more we’ll become authentic and learn more about who we are
@@latteknowsbest6365you get itt!
2:21 Period cause mean girl energy has never been and will never be cute 🥰
your journey inspires all of us
love being alone because the only person who understands me is myself
So peaceful 🙏🏽
bc of ur solo dates, I got inspired to going out by myself too!!! I've been going to museums and cafes by myself, i still dont have the nerve to go eat by myself in a restaurant, but im getting there. despite this, i feel a little off mentally bc of family situations, but im going to therapy soon, so im trying to be hopeful
The jazz and the whole vibes of your videos remind me of summer!
It’s so important to reflect on your friendships and romantic relationships often! It’s easy to get caught up in the fun/sameness & get stagnant on your growth goals and even forget your goals. Love the way you broke this down 🫶🫶 ☮️ wishing you luck in your journey
“sounds like u need to calm tf down” GIRL U RIGHT I DO
I felt what you said at the end in my SOUL, distanced myself from 90% of my “friends” at the beginning of the year and have been fighting loneliness ever since, tapping into solitude has definitely helped. Tysm for being so open about your experience, it made me and I’m sure so many others feel less alone!
Spending time by yourself and not caring about what others think is the best 🌟
Good on you sis💕🥰
friends for a “reason, season, or a lifetime”.. I’ve learned a lot from my college friendships.. both how they treated me and how I’m supposed to treat others… I’ve learned to not feel guilty of letting others go bc it’s not my responsibility and the most I could do for them is pray or support them through texting to give advice or check in and what not, but I no longer want to hang out and spend lots of time with them…. And post-college isn’t lonely for me I think of it as peaceful, until God places new people and experiences in my life.. I thank God for my maturity and growth this yr through prayer on my relationships and weekly self reflection.. and thank you for this beautiful video Jaida keep growing and doing you! 💕
My type of content, my type of girl! Thank you so much for showing us authenticity and the power of embodying love. Becoming love personified. Glad i found your channel all the way from the UK.
My goal is to be the best version of myself, just change everything my mindset,appearance,mental health
You can do ittttt!!!!🥳
I’m in my young adult life about to turn 21 I have no friends where I am and I’m nervous about my 21st birthday I always see girls getting together recording pouring up having a great time. Watching this gave me peace that it’s okay to be alone who cares I’ll order my own very first drink and have a great time alone!
Yess girl go out to a bar, you'll get a lot of free drinks solo
omgg girl i'm in the same boat! just know we're really not alone in this and there's others who are working on it too
Period
ate that up with the Moesha background music LMAOO
but mental check-in: currently trying to accept being alone in a different country for a long period of time. it feels good to be away like this for the first time, but doing something new and different has made me very unsure of how to steward this opportunity... HOWEVER I'm gonna try to make my last 4 weeks the best weeks possible :p
girrrll!! how was it :D
I’m pouring into myself and my overall goal is to make myself happy and keep growing as the beautiful young lady I am this was refreshing to watch !
Wow, I felt everything you said in this video. It's so true that we can spend so much time around other people, but when we're by ourselves, we feel alone. In reality, it's an opportunity to find ourselves again and understand where we truly stand. I've been in and out of friendships too, not because of anything bad, but simply because our energies didn't align.
When I tell u I needed this video!! I’ve had toxic people in my life for so long and just lately decided that am gonna let these ppl go because i deserve better🤍 keep it up Jaida u inspire me so much u don’t even know
i love the hats you wear, they’re so cute! it’s such a cute idea cus i feel less anxious when my ears are covered and there’s something round my head so i rlly would love something like this
I always feel so calm and inspired every time I watch your videos, you’re such a cool person with such great energy :)
I relate to this video so much as I have noticed my habit of constantly removing friends from my life, that's my way of growing sort of; that doesn't affect me as much tho cus I just be enjoying and loving myself. For instance, I completed a year of university made and met a lot of people which i called friends but then I decided to continue my studies somewhere else and honestly I will never regret my choice. I also feel like a lot of people should really just know that it's okay to have yourself sometime to time, your own company girlllll nothing beats it.
i'm so glad that i found your channel!
I literally felt you cause lately I’m back home from college and have felt kinda lonely but honestly me going out by myself or sometimes the gym really benefits me so I feel you and I’m proud of you girly ❤️
Omg this is crazy - what you said at the end was literally what I have been saying and thinking!! It felt almost like I was watching myself from another perspective bc it's so spot on!! I myself I have been cutting off people, and going on solo dates a lot and it feels good actually, because i know the right people will come! And the traveling, new food, new experiences, new places & new people is what my soul is craving at this time, what I am coming into & being drawn to! which is why I've also felt not satisfied with some things, even the smallest thing like food (i am ofc greatful but there is a point being made) -
My soul wants new and I am aligned with it finally but it took A LOT TO GET HERE... so watching this video, seeing u for the first time, makes me feel like this is a positive sign that others collectively are feeling this - and we are coming into alignment with those who are meant for us ! :) thank God honestly ♡ it's time ☆
you articulated my own thoughts so well i had to screenshot it, it's insane. yes - exactly this!! so glad there are others who get it, this has been a lonely journey so far but i can just tell this will be such a beautiful rewarding adventure !
@kalopsias yes, it's such a relief to see ur comment bc for the longest i thought there wasnt others who saw the world similar to or the way i do, AND going through similar, situations! Glad we're on the same vibration ! & i agree it will be rewarding and already has, i think finding myself has been the biggest reward yet, so now meeting other likeminded will be getting easier bc i actually know who i am & who i am becoming/evolving to be! - but i have a feeling the rewards are coming in sooner than expected, bc this time they'll be received by the self, without giving it away !!
Mentally, I’m all over the place. College is requiring me to be away from home, & be away from all the people, places, and things I know. I’m also terrified of failing, so I’m trying to have a positive outlook on everything!- But.. lots of my friends are staying in the area whereas I am not. They’re planning things and hanging out, and I’m gonna be far away. I feel so left out and like “a puzzle piece that doesn’t fit.” I hope things start make sense soon. You are the embodiment of real and genuine Jaida keep being u . 🤍
i didn't realize how much i needed the vibe this video brought
Yes you are beautiful, you always makes me smile. I love your vibes. It’s ok to be in your own company, but I struggle with it everyday
babe wake up !!! jaida just posted😺
So so glad I found your channel, it’s so important to see people on the journey I am on with trying to level up and attract things more in alignment with my values. I hope we can all get there ❤
girllll with your fashion sense and energy i know you would have A TIMEEEE in japan!!!
Girl I was literally shouting telling you which book to choice and I’m glad you choose that one. It’s an amazing read and I often have to go back to it when I need some inspiration.
very beautiful! love your energy, you're very confident yet grateful for what you have and it shows, the cinemetography was nice too
you’re such a beautiful person with phenomenal energy ❤❤❤ you really keep a clear, bright conscience…it’s rare to find that nowadays fr. you’re so lovely!!! love these vlogs :)
you are literally an emotionally intelligent gorgeous queen. ahead for your age, you should be proud of yourself.
sometimes people are meant to be in your life for a certain time/season. meant to show and teach you something. as time goes, we grow. we change, therefore the people you have in your life might not align with the new version of you.
she is just so unbothered and calm i wanna be her when i grow up 🙌🏾🙌🏾😭
i really needed to hear what you just talked about and the way you explained it made me reevaluate some things. thank you jaida, you are a lovely person💗
yup definitely got a new subscriber, you bring out a genuine peace in me like your energy is definitely top tier ! i needed this ♥️
I'm glad you are doing good girl, 💛Spending time with yourself is how you know yourself more and it's quite fun ,calm, relaxing ,I love doing it and solo dates as well! Happiness & maintaining is the goal in life. Gotta enjoy your own company once you need to get your social battery back to yourself💛 Im doing so so trying to get back to myself taking it one day at a time after losing my mom so just taking it day by day that's all you can do!🙏🏾
this whole video resonates w/ how I am feeling in life rn, thank you 🤍
this is my first time coming across one of your videos and the way I legit gasped at your intro omggg its so amazing and cute
Self love.. something I need more of ❤ love this video and Jaida!
GUYS WAKE UP JAIDA POSTED😭💗💗
im up 😵💫
definitely been feeling lonely because the people around me , I just wanna learn how to live in my solitude
No, Jaida you're literally GORGEOUS
This vlog is a whole vibe! You go Jaida 🙌🏽🫶🏽
Mentally: doing okay, definitely understanding different layers of myself and slowly getting off social media. Being a youtuber can be challenging and it’s reminding me to take time for me too.
Mentally I think I’m fine but I’m also not fine? I’m struggling with my recent break up (I’m still friends with him) so I’m doing my best to know myself better, to know what I really need and improve my relationship with God. I’m going on vacation in 2 weeks and I’m so excited cuz I need to leave my town so bad to see new things, I’m going to do my hair and my lashes very soon. My mom’s and sisters had been here for me since this struggling moment and I’m very grateful for it.
So beautiful, loved this video❤
truly a good mindset 🫶🏼
i love you and your energy sm ❤
mentally: i’m doing okay still going trying not to give up 🥺💕
this video truly made my day, thank you Jaida I hope you're doing well always🤎
i love the fact that she knows she IS a beautiful woman 💋
Just recently I was diagnosed with ASD after a long time struggle with ADHD and not knowing was wrong with me
May the lord be with you and help you get better❤
im currently in shambles but hopefully me taking the steps towards healing will make me feel better and be better
You’re so magical girl ily
i absolutely adore your energy
love your vids and i feel more normal going out alone seeing that a lot other ppl do it as well!
amen, felt this on a diff level
The wallet is so cute I smiled every time you pulled it out😭🥹
Been waiting for this video the whole day, Jaida 🎉❤😊
Such an Icon! 🫶🏽
You’re so special. Thenkuu 444 making us feel seen. 🎀❤️❤️❤️
I felt everything so deeply in this video! Thank you Jaida girl
i just love this gurl so much !! (kisses from portugal)
In this video I felt you so deeply Jaida 🫶🏻
I love your vibe and your content thank you for these videos 🧡🌞
This is the first video of yours I’m watching. The RUclips angels have blessed me with your channel recommendation lol 🙌🏽😊 I just wanna say, you’re awesome for silently checking those mean girls 💕
Also, what’s in a spider roll? I’m interested 😅
I love your videos they help me a lot!! You and your soul are very beautiful ♥️
love the talk at the end
Based off the moesha journal clip alone, I subscribed
Jaida can we please get a hair tutorial🙏😞
frrr she be eating that hairstyle up errry time 😩😩
Wow I feel like Im committing. To the tribe, to the lineage of those that are being...true. whole. and full of love. I loved the Moesha part, to have other people be in that nostalgia feels dear to the soul. ALSO when you said, this aint no aesthetic this is a lifestyle! I knew we could be friends. I love it here!!!
"This person very cool but are they going to get me to the next level"......A Great Question To Ask Thyself !
Please never stop making YT vids Jaida love you🫶🏽
Literally going through the same exact thing. Loved this vid! 😊
so pretty, magnetic and good vibes. love seeing Black girls in media/videos like this
People being ignorant is why it's hard for me to maintain friendships. I always call out harmful things and people get mad that I'm speaking on it or it triggers something in them that they don't want to work through. I'm always pushing myself to evolve and I always try to learn and educate myself and many people don't/won't. Like the incident that you had in the restaurant. People are so casually fatphobic that I even had to check people and even myself with the big back trend that's going on and people didn't like that. idk if its my ASD strong sense of justice/high empathy or whatever. Idk this world is so unnecessarily cruel. which is why I'm trying to build a wholesome/supportive community around me
Thank you for sharing your journey 🤍
This is by far the littest intro I’ve ever seen
the realest 🫶
amazing vlog, thank you jaida.
you are my role model, Jaida! :)
This is exactly where I’m at in life
loved this thank you Jaida🫂❤️
I can’t wait to move out
subbing just cause i love the animated intro so much
I LOVE YOUU AND YOUR VIDEOS JAIDAA!
Great message Queen keep em coming !! ❤
Could we get a hair tutorial 🫶🏾🫶🏾 looks so good x
New subscriber
your content is really motivating for me
THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORDS ❤️❤️ Kisses from 🇧🇷
First time here and love your vibes already 🤍
First. I love your styleee ❤️❤️❤️
I felt this video & now I think we should be friends 🤗🥰😂🫶🏾
I love this video girl so real❤️
love this vibeeeee
Amazing books, I have both but only read healing is the new high and must say AN AMAZING BOOK!!