I'm 27 and haven't had a romantic partner since high school as well. I've been on dating apps since 2017. Dating is SO hard these days. You are not alone!!! 🖤
I rarely comment on RUclips videos, but this one was too powerful not to. You’re so authentic and heartfelt, so raw with your emotions. It really made me reflect on my own experiences. Thank you for creating something so real and relatable. ❤️❤️
The body image one is so real. As the one friend that was significantly bigger than my other friends who were naturally skinny and get full quicker when we’d go out to eat, and then pictures too! I would see one bad pic and it would send me into a downward spiral
Fellow 26 year old here living in Sydney Australia. I want to make the move to New York, and your videos inspire me. Appreciate your storytelling and honesty.
I resonated to everything you said about body image. It's tiring to constantly have these thoughts. For a while i accepted i would always have them, but recently ive been making the effort to call out that voice in my head. Its not always easy to recognize when you're being mean to yourself but I believe you'll get better at it. ❤
When my therapist suggested medication I felt disappointed in myself but at the same time I was so crushed at that moment that I understood it was the only possible solution. You are not alone in all of this ❤ I appreciated your honesty!
family truly is chosen. I moved away from my home town a year ago, and it amazes me how many more loving people ive met in one short year than I did in 18 years back home
i've thought of doing more publicly available online content andddd my estranged parent is (has always been) a certified internet creep. i've let that stop me (so far), but i'm happy that you haven't. sending virtual hugs to anyone in a similar situation
I really love this kind of content! Feels like a diary entry and is so relatable. Thanks for being so candid. The world needs more content like this! ❤❤❤
Hey Kendall! Just wanted to say thanks for your vulnerability and honesty in this! It’s refreshing to watch something so candid. I also haven’t had a bf since high school and struggle with my body image daily. There’s such value in your videos like this one- helps us all feel less alone. ❤
i honestly think you are one of my fav creators i follow on the internet. you’re very relatable for me specifically and i feel very seen by your videos and content. please keep making these kinds of videos! they really help me
I really appreciate this video and you opening up about so many things❤. I turned 27 last month and I’ve been dealing with a lot of insecurities about my body and where I’m at with my life/career. I also have CPTSD and while not quite no contact I have little communication with my parents. Your video helps me feel a little less alone.
Just subscribed to you after seeing your collab vid(s) with Maddie, and oh boy this one resonated deeply! From the body image & fear of gaining weight after losing it chat to how medication has completely changed your life - I’ve been on an antidepressant for the past month and a half (first time in my life after a decade of mental health struggles) and I’m emotional over how profoundly life changing it has been as well. You’re a really beautiful person! Very happy to be a new subscriber here, thanks for this type of content 💗
Have been following your content for a while and feel a very kindred spirit when I watch your videos Know you are doing amazing and that love and all the wonders of life will find you because you are deserving ❤
I didn't date for 5 years! This past summer was my first taste of romance in such a long time. But it was worth the wait because finding someone who you're compatible with is actually pretty hard to find!
Thank you for this truly im 23 and i understand the loneliness and family struggles in my own way and have struggled with my own mental health too but its such a beautiful thing to open ourselves and be vulnerable it makes us feel connected and not alone So thank you again for sharing a piece of you💗
I love this so much! Thanks for being so vulnerable and I can relate about being single for a long time and how hard it is to find someone. You are not alone! By the way you’re so beautiful and gorgeous ❤️
Thank you for this Video. Your honesty in how you are also just aperson with their everyday struggles. These typisch of Videos always helpdesk me to feel a little less alone i. My own struggles.
I’m 25 living in a city and god dating is so so hard. I just had a great two months with someone new, I felt vulnerable safe and connected to them in a way I haven’t felt in a very long time. They ended it over text a couple days ago and I’ll never see them again. I feel blindsided and obviously crushed, but at the same time the beautiful friends in my life dropped everything to show up and be with me. They made me laugh, got me flowers and made sure I ate for the next few days. As much as my brain wants to turn on myself and think what’s “wrong with me?”, I’m forced to look around myself to the most beautiful circle of people I have in my life and think- if I attract this, I must be this.
Hey, just wanted to say I really love your style and I enjoy your videos! Thank you for being so open and sharing your experiences, I can relate to a lot of them :) But please also make sure that you protect your safety and privacy - however that looks for you, I am sure you are sharing only as much as you feel comfortable of course, but don't feel like you have to share things online to be relatable for your audience, there will always be people who will enjoy your content regardless for sure :)
Due to religious differences, I will likely go no contact with my dad (his choice, not mine, most likely), and it's hard knowing the one person who was supposed to love you unconditionally didn't. It makes you think you're not worth loving, but it isn't true. It's just hard to remember that sometimes.
I’m 20 and my 24 yr old boyfriend broke up with me after three months of dating yesterday and it hurts a lot and seeing everyone else in in relationship and living their best life which just makes me cry haha, we ended on good terms but being told he didn’t have a connection or saw us together in the future hurt. I want to love him and smother him with hugs and kisses but now I can’t.
To me, you seem to love your body. It's the reflection of your body in the eyes of others that seem to bother you. Also, it will change trough your life, better stop waisting precious love & start to accept that your reflection will vary, but your worth will never. With all my love xox
you’re so lovable ❤ you’re so special and bring so much to the table! wishing you an incredible romantic love one day and plenty of other reminders of your worthiness on a daily basis ❤
I would say it is how you go about finding dates and places you go to. If that does not work, maybe you need to dig in deeper and read some dating books on this topic or focus on other things other than dating. Most likely it is also the age and the big city dating scene itself that sucks
You are truthfully the cutest person Kendall. Whoever going to end up with you is going to be the luckies person on this planet. You are a blessing
that is so very kind, thank you
I'm 27 and haven't had a romantic partner since high school as well. I've been on dating apps since 2017. Dating is SO hard these days. You are not alone!!! 🖤
I've been no contact with my mother for 7 years. Thank you for sharing! I completely understand the impact.
I rarely comment on RUclips videos, but this one was too powerful not to. You’re so authentic and heartfelt, so raw with your emotions. It really made me reflect on my own experiences. Thank you for creating something so real and relatable. ❤️❤️
The body image one is so real. As the one friend that was significantly bigger than my other friends who were naturally skinny and get full quicker when we’d go out to eat, and then pictures too! I would see one bad pic and it would send me into a downward spiral
Fellow 26 year old here living in Sydney Australia. I want to make the move to New York, and your videos inspire me. Appreciate your storytelling and honesty.
I resonated to everything you said about body image. It's tiring to constantly have these thoughts. For a while i accepted i would always have them, but recently ive been making the effort to call out that voice in my head.
Its not always easy to recognize when you're being mean to yourself but I believe you'll get better at it. ❤
Kendall this video was so real and relatable
When my therapist suggested medication I felt disappointed in myself but at the same time I was so crushed at that moment that I understood it was the only possible solution. You are not alone in all of this ❤ I appreciated your honesty!
You’ve quickly become my comfort RUclipsr :))
family truly is chosen. I moved away from my home town a year ago, and it amazes me how many more loving people ive met in one short year than I did in 18 years back home
i've thought of doing more publicly available online content andddd my estranged parent is (has always been) a certified internet creep. i've let that stop me (so far), but i'm happy that you haven't.
sending virtual hugs to anyone in a similar situation
I really love this kind of content! Feels like a diary entry and is so relatable. Thanks for being so candid. The world needs more content like this! ❤❤❤
Hey Kendall! Just wanted to say thanks for your vulnerability and honesty in this! It’s refreshing to watch something so candid. I also haven’t had a bf since high school and struggle with my body image daily. There’s such value in your videos like this one- helps us all feel less alone. ❤
i honestly think you are one of my fav creators i follow on the internet. you’re very relatable for me specifically and i feel very seen by your videos and content. please keep making these kinds of videos! they really help me
I really appreciate this video and you opening up about so many things❤. I turned 27 last month and I’ve been dealing with a lot of insecurities about my body and where I’m at with my life/career. I also have CPTSD and while not quite no contact I have little communication with my parents. Your video helps me feel a little less alone.
found you through maddie and so this is exactly the vibes i’m looking for in a creator 🫶 i hope you keep making youtube videos
Girl we have so much in common, good for you for being so vulnerable and transparent ❤
Just subscribed to you after seeing your collab vid(s) with Maddie, and oh boy this one resonated deeply! From the body image & fear of gaining weight after losing it chat to how medication has completely changed your life - I’ve been on an antidepressant for the past month and a half (first time in my life after a decade of mental health struggles) and I’m emotional over how profoundly life changing it has been as well. You’re a really beautiful person! Very happy to be a new subscriber here, thanks for this type of content 💗
Have been following your content for a while and feel a very kindred spirit when I watch your videos
Know you are doing amazing and that love and all the wonders of life will find you because you are deserving ❤
I didn't date for 5 years! This past summer was my first taste of romance in such a long time. But it was worth the wait because finding someone who you're compatible with is actually pretty hard to find!
Thank you for this truly im 23 and i understand the loneliness and family struggles in my own way and have struggled with my own mental health too but its such a beautiful thing to open ourselves and be vulnerable it makes us feel connected and not alone
So thank you again for sharing a piece of you💗
Thank you for sharing, you have such a comforting energy and this video has made my day so much better
I love this so much! Thanks for being so vulnerable and I can relate about being single for a long time and how hard it is to find someone. You are not alone! By the way you’re so beautiful and gorgeous ❤️
Thank you for this Video. Your honesty in how you are also just aperson with their everyday struggles. These typisch of Videos always helpdesk me to feel a little less alone i. My own struggles.
Loved this video a lot!
I’m 25 living in a city and god dating is so so hard. I just had a great two months with someone new, I felt vulnerable safe and connected to them in a way I haven’t felt in a very long time. They ended it over text a couple days ago and I’ll never see them again. I feel blindsided and obviously crushed, but at the same time the beautiful friends in my life dropped everything to show up and be with me. They made me laugh, got me flowers and made sure I ate for the next few days. As much as my brain wants to turn on myself and think what’s “wrong with me?”, I’m forced to look around myself to the most beautiful circle of people I have in my life and think- if I attract this, I must be this.
Hey, just wanted to say I really love your style and I enjoy your videos! Thank you for being so open and sharing your experiences, I can relate to a lot of them :) But please also make sure that you protect your safety and privacy - however that looks for you, I am sure you are sharing only as much as you feel comfortable of course, but don't feel like you have to share things online to be relatable for your audience, there will always be people who will enjoy your content regardless for sure :)
Due to religious differences, I will likely go no contact with my dad (his choice, not mine, most likely), and it's hard knowing the one person who was supposed to love you unconditionally didn't. It makes you think you're not worth loving, but it isn't true. It's just hard to remember that sometimes.
I’m 20 and my 24 yr old boyfriend broke up with me after three months of dating yesterday and it hurts a lot and seeing everyone else in in relationship and living their best life which just makes me cry haha, we ended on good terms but being told he didn’t have a connection or saw us together in the future hurt. I want to love him and smother him with hugs and kisses but now I can’t.
in psychology what your mother is trying to do is called "triangulation" and it's what narcissists do
"i have standards and won't date someone who's not the right fit for me" girl that is NOT your barrier, that's what you are *supposed* to do!!
To me, you seem to love your body. It's the reflection of your body in the eyes of others that seem to bother you. Also, it will change trough your life, better stop waisting precious love & start to accept that your reflection will vary, but your worth will never. With all my love xox
you’re so lovable ❤ you’re so special and bring so much to the table! wishing you an incredible romantic love one day and plenty of other reminders of your worthiness on a daily basis ❤
I’ve never had a boyfriend in my 21 years of life !
Phone case from where ???
burga
Being 32 feels like I've run out of time ... I feel achy and sore and ugly and theres all these health things
Just enjoy being young ❤
I would say it is how you go about finding dates and places you go to. If that does not work, maybe you need to dig in deeper and read some dating books on this topic or focus on other things other than dating. Most likely it is also the age and the big city dating scene itself that sucks
Wow! lol. all the simps in the comment section.
I related to every single topic in this video so hard 🤍 I’m 27 and have nearly identical struggles and here to tell you that you aren’t alone.