I’m so happy there is no romance between the MC and the guy who helped her heal. Usually in these kinds of stories all of the MC’s mental problems go away once they get in a relationship but the second they get out of said relationship they come right back.
Yesss!! That was such a pleasant surprise! I was so sure they were gonna end up together or something (which would be alright, but it kinda made my eyes roll when i connected it lol)
When I was five, my parents got divorced. I remember seeing my dad in the parking lot of a store a few weeks later and trying to wave to him and get his attention. He saw me, then freaked out and backed across the highway in his car to get away from me. That really messed me up. Parents don't realize the damage they can do to their kids.
Well thats sad hopefully your feeling better now I can never understand getting a wife and then a divorce it's all so dumb why get a wife in the first place and then give her a baby and then say "Aight I'm heading out"
@@Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzn well we can never know what's in the future, u didn't know that's gonna happen, don't be ashamed of the failures u've had in life, feel ashamed on the chances that u missed
@@Splexsychiick Not the same type of story, but a few years ago I was harassed by my sister. One time she came to berate me, and the first thing I saw were her kids. His dad might not have been afraid of the child, but what the child represents. The mom is nearby. You are in danger because you are near her child. Solution? Run away and stay away so you never have to deal with the woman. The child is no longer a child, no longer your child, but an alarm bell that say danger is immediately nearby.
"All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children." -someone This is why you shouldn't bottle up your emotions, let them out however you can, through painting, writing, singing, whatever activity, it will make you feel so much better, coming from experience.
You notice he completely disappeared from the story with little mention again makes it clear he completely removed himself from her life! He was a dirtbag cheater who couldn't accept responsibility for his actions being why his marriage was ruined because let's be serious! Even if she didn't catch him, someone would have or even his ex-wife in time! I like to imagine he's living a loser life in a crappy apartment in the city far away still blaming his blight on his ex and daughter! Will likely attempt to force contact with Jun in the far future! But thanks to her character growth as well as her mother finally realizing her own hand in hurting her. I believe she can finally give that man what for, for the damages he caused and the fact he had the NERVE to try and weasel his way back into her life after what he did and the neglect all these's years! Her mother has a chance to reconcile because redemption happened sooner while their still living together and she's young enough! But for her father, damages is done and it will be too late to try I think she may have been blaming Jun as well for the divorce, but unlike her scumbag ex, never told Jun this or vocally or physically blamed her, likely self-hated herself for even thinking that, KNOWING it's not Jun's fault at all, but it likely made her withdraw more from Jun while she was going through her depression alone! Using work to distract her from her issues till she was forced to have to face them. Takumi grandparents helped her as he helped Jun as she was prepared to leave the play in guilt before his grandmother stopped her and gave her those words of wisdom! Neither of them could properly cope or recover from that man's betrayal and sin because they put the blame where it didn't belong (Jun) or felt guilt for it happening (Her mother). It's all HIS fault shit happened. She wasn't wrong for divorcing his cheating ass and needs to accept that if not Jun, then one way or another he'd slip up, and that's IF he doesn't decide to divorce her first if he could get away with it! It took a while, but as the ending hinted at. The two have the chance to fix things with each other and their lives and make it better!
The fact that Jun confessed that she likes Takumi but he just said "thank you". What a bitter sweet ending, but it was so unexpected and very different. It's just so sad and heartbreaking, I mean what could you feel if the person you love doesn't love you back. I was really surprised and amazed that she just accepted and moved on from it. I watched Anthem Of The Heart last year, I'd watched every single anime movies every week. This is one of the best anime films I've ever watched. It has a great lessons about life, family, friends, and romance. Animes does really conveys and expressing the reality especially the family problems and matters.
When a person can accept rejection and realize that not everyone is compatible with each other and that is okay. It shows her maturity better than the cliche 'you need a relationship to have a happily ever after ending'.
satsuki (the baseball guy) took an interest in her instead at the end of the movie. if im not mistaken, he even confessed tho the dialogue is inaudible, i could tell
It wasn’t a literal curse. It was Jun’e subconscious as a child blaming herself cause she took his words to heart. Basically she made up the curse as a way to punish herself for her parent’s divorce
My father and mother had me as a mistake. My father likes me but my mother doesn't. My father had never fallen in love and has had many affairs until he divorce my mother . My father got married again and had two sons but still has other women. While my mother has left me with my grandparents and is in another country where she has many affairs with different men as well. The more I think about this the more I realize it is better to forget cause it is their life
You are amazing and always love yourself to the fullest everyday. Love life and surround yourself with great people that smile when you come around . I wish you the best in life and all those I dont know you I wish I did to show you kindness and love from one person to another .
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
of course the father would not blame himself, and the mother would take her frustration out on her daughter who literally did nothing wrong. Typical, why am i not surprised, classical toxic humanity at it's finest.
I think it’s supposed to help people relate and cope with their own lives, since unfortunately this is a very common thing that happens. heartbreaking :(
But a real issue is parents putting the blame on their kids and directly telling them that "You're the reason we broke up", that shit messes up kids. Dont do that
I like this anime, it represents well a child's trauma from their perspective without logical inclusion. It may be hard to figure it out even in old age because those thoughts are relived with that same childish mind. It's also wonderful that this wasn't just another sweet lovestory of someone saving someone mentally. It shouldn't be worked out like that. In this story she had an ability opened for herself to open up from bent up regret and feel free in own skin.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,,.,.,.,
When I was about 11, I went with my father to his 2nd wife’s place in the province. My brother’s birthday was near and we plan on spending Christmas there. My stepmother knows about me obviously, but her family I’m not sure. He told me to call him Uncle the whole time we were there but tbh, I was essentially forgotten. I mean I get it, it’s my brother’s birthday and it’s Christmas but did he really not think that maybe, just maybe, I’m an outsider?? It’s so damaging for a child to experience such, I’m almost 20 and I could still never forget it. I love my brother and I know my stepmother didn’t mean it but it was still a traumatic experience for me.
Wtf….. thats a horrible and destroying thing to ask your own child…. Your dad and his 2nd wife are horrible!!! You deserve so much better than that, im so sorry to hear that happened to you 😞😭 wow they are such liars and manipulators tho, never trust them with anything!
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies........
Without the magic and stuff, this story is actually inspired from a real story of people who lost their parents like in the animation story; like how the child lost her voice. Edit: guys, before making a reply, read the replies first, as to why, you will know.
I got kinda emotional watching this movie because I, in a way relate to Jun's silence. I really love it. This and Whispers of the Heart are one of the anime movies that i like when it comes to "romance." Despite the element of "magic" and "romanticizing" reality, they are actually quite grounded. Love isn't as lovely or easilly reciprocated as we are used to see in dramas and Disney. Rather, it shows that in the end, you may not get the girl/boy. Or that, you both do like each other but there are matters that need attending to, and keeping the warmth of love until that other matter is resolved so you can finally be together takes commitment.
Cheating partners will always, always, always blame others instead of themselves for doing one of the most horrible acts. And not only blame others, but even blame their kids. Even tho it’s an anime, there’s people out there that do this and there’s a very nice karma waiting for them either in life, or in hell.
Agreed, Frankly I like to believe things didn't go well for the father after he left the story early on and he's still blaming his ex and daughter to the end of the story! He'll likely attempt to approach Jun AFTER the end, but by then she'll have the mental strength and understanding just how much of an asshole he was and the damage he brought about on her and her mother! Much of it was self-inflicted, but the damage never would have happened if not for him. So I feel that his punishment, his life went to shit when he took his marriage and fatherhood for granted like he did
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,.,.,.
It related to me because I thought it was my fault that my parents split up because I was watching something I shouldn’t have, that led my mom to think it was my dad’s doing. Over the years I blamed and hate myself for what I done. But as I grow older I told my dad about my mistakes that I did in the past believing it was the cause of the fights, he told me that it wasn’t my fault. The truth was that my mom jump to the wrong conclusion of thinking my dad was cheating on her but he wasn’t. After many fight, they decided to have a divorce. Learn the real truth, I was able to let go of the guilt and accept their divorce and moving forward to be happy in life. I also learn that parents, whatever they fight or getting a divorce it not because of the children’s fault, it their mistakes and choices that they made themselves but they should not let the children to get involved and suffer from their parent’s greedy and faults.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
The anime is filled with emotions and meanings but for a recap, without the story teller. It wont attract any attentions but here on this channel, your story telling skills are remarkable keep up the good work bro, every time i watch your recap, i feel so calm and understand many things about the meanings in the anime. Best animer recap channel i have ever watched💝🫠
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,,,,,,,,,
@@mingyuhuang8944 You just made my day man and thank you. Our generations nowadays still have those types of parents and I honestly dont know why, if they already have a happy family why go out and cheat, that is why this world is so corrupted, its just sad to see it bro.
@@Salted_Strafes Indeed man. The sad truth is that many people have children without realizing that they are not capable of truly raising a life yet. Most cases are of bad parenting and education but of course there are also cases of literal abuse and torture of children, which is entirely inhumane. Much of the pain and suffering in this world is bought to innocent people by perpetrators who have been traumatized during childhood, most likely by parents, and therefore seek out to kill, torture and inflict pain on everyone else. I think in the future we need to rethink our society and rethink the way the government deals with parenting. The government needs to introduce permits and laws which make it illegal for a couple to have a child unless they meet the criteria to do so through mental and character examinations. Are you an honest person? Do you have a stable job? Are you depressed? Do have have violent tantrums? Are you traumatized yourself and may bring this upon your child too? These are all questions I think the government needs to enforce. It's the same concept of a traffic light, it's a duty of the government to ensure that society functions as smooth as possible. The government should really take a hand into childbirth and parenting since it is one of, if not the MOST important aspect of a persons life. Because a child knows not of society, or country or nation, it only knows of parents, parents are the world. It is sad that perhaps one of the most important things in life, is something that a person cannot choose. A person sadly, cannot choose which family he or she is born into. It is a lottery in which the winner is able to get the finest and most satisfying reward of a happy, carefree and fulfilling life, yet never realize they actually won. And the loser, is punished for losing with the most cruel and demented suffering throughout their entire life. I think it is time we change this lottery so that it is no longer just by chance but there's also a level of regulation that goes into it.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
I really liked this one. Good story overall, but my personal favourite piece is when the main girl and the jock character start to get together instead when she got rejected. Broke the anime trope where "cute girl gets cute boy".
Well, piano guy and cheerleader girl was still technically going out, as they never really broke up. Piano guy was in a dark place when cheerleader girl unintentionally denied being in love with him in front of everyone, which deeply hurt piano guy. They just never talked for years until the commitee formed. Since then, cheerleader girl goes as far as rejecting every guy who asks her out saying that she has a boyfriend which she technically did. She is still in love with him as we see in the ending.
Great, I now have an urge to watch this, and a even bigger urge to cry. My parents got divorced but I was so used to living with my mom, I completely forgot about my dad. I feel like my relationship with my mom is even more better than my dad, while he still loves me I lost my trust in him.
This anime is kinda similar with my childhood. I was playing, but I remember I was also listening to my mom and uncles because they were talking in my proximity. As a child, I don't know that it was a serious talk. The next day, my step-grandma secretly asked me what my mom and uncle was talking about, and I told her the bits of if... which includes 'grandpa gonna have a divorce'. A few days after that, I got slapped multiple times across the face by my mom. She also hit my head. My uncles was also there, just watching and saying "don't hurt her too much, or she's gonna be traumatized." Well, too late. I was already traumatized at that point. Thanks uncle for being so concerned about my wellbeing. They told me that my step-grandma are going to divorce my grandpa. And it's all my fault because I'm such a blabbermouth. Being a kid, not knowing what a 'divorce' meant, yet dare to go around telling others about it. I learned to shut it from then on. And gradually developed a social anxiety.
This is sad. You literally did not know better. Adults should be in closed rooms if they are going to talk nonsense. And to be honest your step grandma is a terrible person for putting you in that position.
Dude do you really think every child in America, Europe, etc who has gone through stuff like this has had access to a therapist, let alone a good one? This is hardly a Japanese problem exclusively. Tons of kids all over the world have bad parents or go through traumatic things and blame themselves, often for the rest of their lives. I know countless adults with messed up childhoods who still struggle to accept that what happened wasn't their fault, and that's even with therapy. Of course a child still in school would continue to blame herself when her father was the one to put that thought in her head to begin with. She's lucky to have at least made such an understanding friend when she did. Most people aren't privileged enough to get professional help or have families that'll even acknowledge that they need help at all. This movie is what the real world looks like for probably the vast majority of people since healthy happy well-off families are the ideal and not the norm.
@@Akuma09Yomi the problem is not that she didn't have access to this. is the fact that japan keeps creating media, movies, films, series, and games that deal with psychological problems and your average by the day people or friends aren't professionals about this nor do they even know what to do in these kinds of situations, each time they show that everything can be overcome by being with your friends and family, and while it's true about this, it is not always the case. Look at evangelion, the place had to have a SHITON OF MONEY and none of the people who were riding the mechs decided to go and see a psychologist or a therapist, heck i was convinced therapist didn't exist in japan because of that movie. This has been a constant troupe with japan on not relying on doctors but themselves. YES you are right, not everyone in rea life has access to this, and they have to deal with it by themselves. But i don't even THINK the option to go and see therapist was mentioned. But i digress. also yeah that's pretty much how life goes, you win some, you lose some. You gain good friends or bad friends and you pretty much gotta have luck on your side. (mother was very dumb for not realizing what her daughter was going through, but life has stupid parents as well so i guess it checks out)
@@tobobobobobobob Shes not mute dumdum. She was so traumatised by how she was blamed by her father for their parents divorcing and felt so guilty about her being such a blabbermouth she couldnt speak anymore.
Father intentionally ruins daughter's life Egg ruins it further People can't understand because she can't tell them. Man, this is actually kinda realistic with a touch of anime. It's not like Japan gets invaded by some horrific monster/supernatural/alien species and wipes out humanity like in 75% of other ones.
I remember I was 5 when my father left my mother and my mother hated his guts cause he cheated on their wedding night but my father tried for years after to get me since I was his favorite...he had 2 other kids my sister and brother and viewed them as problematic and after it was revealed I was pushed and made fun of at home where I lived with my mother for years on I just couldn't seem to escape no matter how hard I tried eventually I did her out and I did escape that hated but in the end my father left me too because I didn't go with him the first time it was only a one time offer to him
@LIFESIO well life is good! I'm 23 now and I moved out at 22 so the scars are still fresh but are healing as for my family the one year I was away my mom got in massive debt and is asking anyone for money, my siblings have to endure that debt for her, as for me I broke contract with them but they still try to come into my life and my father who I try to reconcile with just made things worse and sadly I just realized the whole family I grew up with or known was too toxic for my life but I'm happy now and I have my bestest friend of over 7 years helping me on my path!
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies...
You didn't go with him the first time you were FIVE freaking years old and probably custody was granted to your mom and had NO say on what was going on? The hell?
@@Immolator772 that does happen its only worded differently in the eyes of a child. Her mom gets it but she ends up doing nothing to comfort her daughter. And when she understands that she tries to run from it until that granny stops her. Dads a POS and her mother is an ass for neglecting her child.
Those parents are really the best. The ones who make their children feel bad for their own mistakes. You really wonder if this parent is really an adult. By such behaivour definatly not. And then they just wonder, why the child turns out that way. Children have a complete different view of all the things around them. This really sounds like a good movie.
kid shouldnt have getting punished for just being really honest, as a kid i was really really honest and would say what i saw, but because of that, i ended up making my sister cried once and i ended up zipping my mouth through my whole life, that decision def ruined my life but i cant say i regret it, since rn i know that truth hurts and you need to be careful w it
I love how the main characters didn't fall in love and actually had a good reasoning and thought into their relationship. Just because she is the main it doesn't have to end up in a perfect romance! She will find love else where and he will continue his pauzed love story.
I remember seeing this anime and being amazed by how revolutionary and progressive the ending was. Not to mention, the story was very creatively done, you see everything in the child's perspective and the longer you watch, the more it makes sense why she acts that way. It was just heartbreaking how she interprets the actions of the people around her and how she tries to cope up with her traumas. Overall a very good film, I would say. 😊❤️
I cried too much. Even though I had never really been through such a situation but I was in a similar situation at that time so I related so much. I can still remember how badly I cried back then. I still haven't rewatch it yet as well it did fuck with my emotions real bad.
This is so painful yet very touchy and deep moment for me, because in the end the same almost the exact same had happened to me. Except I got bullied, prompted to kill myself, and everybody would stare down at me when I’d have seizures because of my condition, even filming and posting it on Snapchat. It caused PTSD and I had become distant and silent, hating not only everyone, but myself as well. And because I used to be such an attention seeker as a child because my parents knew my grades were unstable, I’d stay silent and say everything is going fine, acting out like I’d learn in theatre class, a happy child with a normal social life. I had multiple breakdowns, and seizures, rejections, I even had close to SA… and I hated everything further. But I grew closer to music as I had started taking guitar lessons, I tried singing under the shower so nobody would hear my pathetic voice. I realised I could do an opera voice, I could nail deep voices, and had a wide vocal range. It wasn’t that I was special, it was that I wasn’t weird. I never exactly had a normal social life, but nobody did because every life is unique in its own way. I learned the hard way, but I learned nonetheless, that the strange stares are what I interpret, the snarky comments just silly words of jealousy, and that from my pain I gained so much knowledge about many things, different backgrounds, how some people interpret, the process of what people go through before they bully. I felt like I had opened books that had before a cover with the words “I’ll kill you, you no good zero” on it, a cover I ripped away from its book. I gained knowledge through courage, and I can now help those in that situation. And I have a good voice, I can make myself heard without breaking eardrums or yelling during seizure. I can sing, speak and shout my feelings as a human can live.
@@SamiStrawberryPie Thank you so much. It had scared me a lot at first at how this felt really similar-almost too ressemblant to what I had experienced, but in the end in a way, I’m sorta glad this is being talked about, in a way. Other people have possibly gone through this so it’s making people aware of self-loathing, social anxiety and depression and many other matters through this magical and thrilling story.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit. With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery. No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self. I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.
My friend fell into a spiral of depression cuz his mom told him he is the reason his parants are divorcing. He still has issues but I think it helped him to open up.
It's her dad’s way of deflecting his dirty deeds... sad, but it’s pretty common in the world for folks to do this regarding any behaviors that gets them in trouble or shamed.
"The teachers picks the 4 most outcast students" PSA for future teachers: Don't fucking do this. Loner kids are loners for a reason. You'll probably do more harm then good.
The explanation wasn't really accurate, in fact, the teacher picked them randomly. And later, he tells Takumi that he can quit if he recommend others who can do better.
This movie was so beautiful yet so tragic, I felt so bad for jun, her father was just the worst, cheating on his wife, blaming jun for the divorce even though she did nothing wrong, and even after that she had to go through so much, her mother yelling at her, realising the boy she loves doesn't love her back, and that ending was so bittersweet, it's honestly kinda hard to watch at some points
I informed my mother of my father's rampant infidelity, and my life was destroyed, constantly, by my father, forever after, apparently with my mother's support. Even now after 50 years.
This really hits hard. When I was a kid I was very outgoing and active but got berated and made fun of a lot because of my autism, from my parents, teachers and other kids. Even now I have trouble being myself around others
This is almost the story of my childhood, accidentally snitched on my dad affairs when i was 9 and he blamed me(even though he's the one that brought me to meet the mistress a lot loool) i became a quite kid in most of my school years after that
I once a very talkative person, but after hearing my friend talk behind my back, that I’m non stop talking freak, so from that day on I stop talking, until today I barely speak to anyone even my family.
Teacher : "All right, I need an impro comedy group. That will take guts, confidence and enthusiasm." Teacher : *picks all the quiet kids* You're a disgrace to your profession.
Anime recap is basically a shortcut to finishing the whole anime/anime movie. I ain’t complaining tho because its satisfying, plus it makes it less scary to even the horror ones.
My gf really loves this anime, this anime was very special for her. because this is the first anime she watch, and her name is also jun lol 😂😂😂 Sorry my englis is suck
Was i the only one to notice that the first few times he was talking about Daiki he said basketball but the last time he spoke about it he said it correctly aka baseball
I used to visit my great aunt and uncle often. However, my great aunt was not the best person. For over 30 years my aunt and uncle had been together. However, one day my uncle told my aunt that he was not a Jehovah’s Witness, and was tired of being forced to celebrate a religion he did not believe in. My aunt divorced him. My uncle was a amazing person, but my aunt threw away a 30+ year marriage because his beliefs did not match with hers. When I was 10 years old, I learned that she was not a good person. She was homophobic, toxic, and has tried for years to force her religion, lifestyle, and choices onto me and my older sister. My aunt has 3 children, who suffer from their own trauma. One of my cousins cannot move out of my aunt’s home because she is being forced to stay because of her mother. Another one of my cousins is moving out of the house by force because she wants to get away from my aunt. The other cousin refuses to work because his mother convinced him to not take up a job and focus on being a Jehovah’s Witness. Only two of the 4 people of their house have part-time jobs. So, a house of 4 people is living off of 1 full-time job. My grandma (my aunts sister) is being forced to pay the majority of their bills. I really miss my uncle, but I’m aware that I’ll never see him again. It’s been quite a few years, and I really do wish that my aunt was a better person. She took someone away from me, and I will never see that person again for the rest of my life. And my cousins suffer because of her. She hurts her own family, and it’s disgusting.
cheating hurts others so much. i dont understand people who do it, why they do it, and how they can ever make excuses like blaming others. if you're not happy, you break things off before you go and do something like this. then, not only did they cheat but blame it on their own child. its honestly the worst.
I actually relate a lot to this one, from the first second i knew exactly what she felt, im not really social and its really hard for me to speak at all just like her. This video gave me some hope, Thank you. :)
i told my dad my mom was cheating on him and he already knew for a few months lol and at that point she had been cheating for 2 years. no one's fault but the cheater!
I remember watching this back when I was young and still not deeply into anime. Now when I grow up, I tried to find this movie again on RUclips where I first found it but can't. Gladly I found this video. I can finally refresh old memories :D
"Takumi and Nito had been dating since junior high but ended the dating because of takumi's parents but still couldn't get over each other, -- Takumi only helps jun because it gave him hope that he could better in life as well" of course the man has another girl, why wouldn't this movie have a love triangle with all the stuff already going on? Now i know people do stuff because of selfless and selfish reasons and neither one is good or bad, each one can benefit the 2 people at once and it mostly depends on the actions rather than the sentiment. But man........what would've happen if Takumi was fine? would he still help jun?
If he was fine, he may or may not help, because when one big thing changes in your life you can't really predict if you'll still be the same person. But that doesn't mean he was a bad person for wanting to help her to also help himself; the outcome is the same and he still gave her what no one else did before
This is the exact reason why i don't want children... As a child I never got my father's love he left us when we I was just 3, never knew what father's love was... I don't want my children to go through the hardships i went through....
I saw this video on my recommended and I decided to watch the movie first.I love it the movie made me cry 😭.I’m Glad but sad at the fact he rejected Her🙋🏽♀️
Reading all these stories of people having such an impactful moment from their parents is really sad and reminded me of my own. Maybe not so crazy, but I was very hurt all the same. I’m adopted, and on the drive home getting lectured because of my usual problems with my adoptive mother, he tells me I’m not his daughter. Mind you, no shit. But I already felt like I had no family, but way to make it worse. I’ll always remember that.
Perenting the new human offspring is one of the most important job that exists, all applicants welcome/ may aquire job unintentionaly No experience or training required (or training demanded) No supervision so must work under own initiative No references needed
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The dad should never have told her it was her fault. Poor baby she was too young to understand and process all that. None of it was her fault
It was all her dad's fault for his disgusting way of life.
What’s funny is it was entirely the dad
it was her fault lol
@@DBrokeMillenial I hope you never have kids...
@MC FatCat so I can see clearly that you’re fatherless
Wow this is special. For once the main female lead gets rejected by a boy but accepts herself finally. This is a golden message
YES
which is perhaps reasonable.
I’m so happy there is no romance between the MC and the guy who helped her heal. Usually in these kinds of stories all of the MC’s mental problems go away once they get in a relationship but the second they get out of said relationship they come right back.
yea but she did get asked out by the baseball guy
Yesss!! That was such a pleasant surprise! I was so sure they were gonna end up together or something (which would be alright, but it kinda made my eyes roll when i connected it lol)
When I was five, my parents got divorced. I remember seeing my dad in the parking lot of a store a few weeks later and trying to wave to him and get his attention. He saw me, then freaked out and backed across the highway in his car to get away from me. That really messed me up. Parents don't realize the damage they can do to their kids.
I'm so sorry for you. Hope you are doing well now. I too had a bad childhood due my parents but I'm trying my best living life... Have a great day!
Why did he freak out? Did you ever ask?
Well thats sad hopefully your feeling better now I can never understand getting a wife and then a divorce it's all so dumb why get a wife in the first place and then give her a baby and then say "Aight I'm heading out"
@@Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzn well we can never know what's in the future, u didn't know that's gonna happen, don't be ashamed of the failures u've had in life, feel ashamed on the chances that u missed
@@Splexsychiick Not the same type of story, but a few years ago I was harassed by my sister. One time she came to berate me, and the first thing I saw were her kids.
His dad might not have been afraid of the child, but what the child represents. The mom is nearby. You are in danger because you are near her child. Solution? Run away and stay away so you never have to deal with the woman. The child is no longer a child, no longer your child, but an alarm bell that say danger is immediately nearby.
"All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children." -someone
This is why you shouldn't bottle up your emotions, let them out however you can, through painting, writing, singing, whatever activity, it will make you feel so much better, coming from experience.
Yea until one of ur parents stops u for doing that said activity and focus on the stuff that they wanted us to do and then scolds u for speaking up😒
@@Mizuki_Tempest I can relate...
The only people who say that are spoiled brat children
"All good people deserve good people in their life"
/Me, probably/
Through uno for me but uh you will get insulted but I don’t mean it
Her father blamed every choice he made on his daughter...
What a garbage human, an adult that can't stand up to his faults and guilts.
Every choice? You mean one choice?
You notice he completely disappeared from the story with little mention again makes it clear he completely removed himself from her life! He was a dirtbag cheater who couldn't accept responsibility for his actions being why his marriage was ruined because let's be serious! Even if she didn't catch him, someone would have or even his ex-wife in time!
I like to imagine he's living a loser life in a crappy apartment in the city far away still blaming his blight on his ex and daughter! Will likely attempt to force contact with Jun in the far future! But thanks to her character growth as well as her mother finally realizing her own hand in hurting her. I believe she can finally give that man what for, for the damages he caused and the fact he had the NERVE to try and weasel his way back into her life after what he did and the neglect all these's years! Her mother has a chance to reconcile because redemption happened sooner while their still living together and she's young enough! But for her father, damages is done and it will be too late to try
I think she may have been blaming Jun as well for the divorce, but unlike her scumbag ex, never told Jun this or vocally or physically blamed her, likely self-hated herself for even thinking that, KNOWING it's not Jun's fault at all, but it likely made her withdraw more from Jun while she was going through her depression alone! Using work to distract her from her issues till she was forced to have to face them. Takumi grandparents helped her as he helped Jun as she was prepared to leave the play in guilt before his grandmother stopped her and gave her those words of wisdom! Neither of them could properly cope or recover from that man's betrayal and sin because they put the blame where it didn't belong (Jun) or felt guilt for it happening (Her mother). It's all HIS fault shit happened. She wasn't wrong for divorcing his cheating ass and needs to accept that if not Jun, then one way or another he'd slip up, and that's IF he doesn't decide to divorce her first if he could get away with it!
It took a while, but as the ending hinted at. The two have the chance to fix things with each other and their lives and make it better!
Sounds like my dad
bro its a fictional character chill out
@@your_fathers And that fictional character is a POS 😶
The fact that Jun confessed that she likes Takumi but he just said "thank you". What a bitter sweet ending, but it was so unexpected and very different. It's just so sad and heartbreaking, I mean what could you feel if the person you love doesn't love you back. I was really surprised and amazed that she just accepted and moved on from it. I watched Anthem Of The Heart last year, I'd watched every single anime movies every week. This is one of the best anime films I've ever watched. It has a great lessons about life, family, friends, and romance. Animes does really conveys and expressing the reality especially the family problems and matters.
Women don't love men
When a person can accept rejection and realize that not everyone is compatible with each other and that is okay. It shows her maturity better than the cliche 'you need a relationship to have a happily ever after ending'.
satsuki (the baseball guy) took an interest in her instead at the end of the movie. if im not mistaken, he even confessed tho the dialogue is inaudible, i could tell
weeb
@@EmilyFanta69 what do u expect from an anime recap
So Jun is cursed and punished for being a child who unknowingly revealed that her father was a cheating POS? Shouldn’t he be the cursed one?
it's revealed that she is the one who 'cursed' herself, the egg was never real
It wasn’t a literal curse. It was Jun’e subconscious as a child blaming herself cause she took his words to heart. Basically she made up the curse as a way to punish herself for her parent’s divorce
@@briannaro3078 found out at the end lol
@@briannaro3078 Thank you for explaining that to this person with bad interpretation skills.
She needed to learn a lesson like to stfu lol
My father and mother had me as a mistake.
My father likes me but my mother doesn't.
My father had never fallen in love and has had many affairs until he divorce my mother .
My father got married again and had two sons but still has other women.
While my mother has left me with my grandparents and is in another country where she has many affairs with different men as well.
The more I think about this the more I realize it is better to forget cause it is their life
You’re an amazing person. They missed out on a great kid. Their loss
@@tdagbo this is so true.
It’s only their life, parents like this are the main reason why abortions are rising
your parents are failures. dont be like them.
You are amazing and always love yourself to the fullest everyday.
Love life and surround yourself with great people that smile when you come around .
I wish you the best in life and all those I dont know you I wish I did to show you kindness and love from one person to another .
"She ratted him out and ruined his life."
No that's his fault, he got caught so it's on him and not her.
Naurrr *it's his fault he cheated*
the problem isn't that he was caught, but that he cheated
the phrase "it's not cheating if you don't get caught" does not apply in relationships
@@just0_ I actually have a t-shirt with that on it.
@@lonewolffang Wha- I- HAHAHA
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
of course the father would not blame himself, and the mother would take her frustration out on her daughter who literally did nothing wrong. Typical, why am i not surprised, classical toxic humanity at it's finest.
Her parents are both terrible, they were truly made for each other. I just feel bad for the kid.
true
I'm glad the mother is not the only one blamed for this. Abuse has no gender. Both men and women can be the perpetrators
I think it’s supposed to help people relate and cope with their own lives, since unfortunately this is a very common thing that happens. heartbreaking :(
True
But a real issue is parents putting the blame on their kids and directly telling them that "You're the reason we broke up", that shit messes up kids. Dont do that
Yet so many do.
I like this anime, it represents well a child's trauma from their perspective without logical inclusion. It may be hard to figure it out even in old age because those thoughts are relived with that same childish mind. It's also wonderful that this wasn't just another sweet lovestory of someone saving someone mentally. It shouldn't be worked out like that. In this story she had an ability opened for herself to open up from bent up regret and feel free in own skin.
What’s the anime e called please thanks
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,,.,.,.,
1:01 "All her fault?" If daddy kept his **** in his pants it would not have happened. Don't blame the daughter
🤣
Stupid daughter ruined everything lol
Damn right sister
True, but some people like him has a huge ego and blames others for their mistake.
Snitches get stitches
When I was about 11, I went with my father to his 2nd wife’s place in the province. My brother’s birthday was near and we plan on spending Christmas there. My stepmother knows about me obviously, but her family I’m not sure. He told me to call him Uncle the whole time we were there but tbh, I was essentially forgotten. I mean I get it, it’s my brother’s birthday and it’s Christmas but did he really not think that maybe, just maybe, I’m an outsider?? It’s so damaging for a child to experience such, I’m almost 20 and I could still never forget it. I love my brother and I know my stepmother didn’t mean it but it was still a traumatic experience for me.
So cruel...I sometimes wonder if adults remember afterwards what they said and did.
Wtf….. thats a horrible and destroying thing to ask your own child…. Your dad and his 2nd wife are horrible!!! You deserve so much better than that, im so sorry to hear that happened to you 😞😭 wow they are such liars and manipulators tho, never trust them with anything!
What the actual fuck
Seriously WTF ?!
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
What in the world? How are people this crazy and cruel?
I’m actually kinda horrified that Takumi let his grandparents buy insurance from a shameless liar.
Isn't that all insurance salesmen?
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies........
@@spiwolf6998 yea that was literally a life lesson in itself. LOL
Without the magic and stuff, this story is actually inspired from a real story of people who lost their parents like in the animation story; like how the child lost her voice.
Edit: guys, before making a reply, read the replies first, as to why, you will know.
And selective mutism is actually a thing
I don't think it's magic
Maku nope the supernatural has a place in this show.
theres no magic here lmao
Heh! I commented this when I was in the first half of the video. 😁. @@batfacedliar8922
I got kinda emotional watching this movie because I, in a way relate to Jun's silence. I really love it. This and Whispers of the Heart are one of the anime movies that i like when it comes to "romance." Despite the element of "magic" and "romanticizing" reality, they are actually quite grounded. Love isn't as lovely or easilly reciprocated as we are used to see in dramas and Disney. Rather, it shows that in the end, you may not get the girl/boy. Or that, you both do like each other but there are matters that need attending to, and keeping the warmth of love until that other matter is resolved so you can finally be together takes commitment.
Cheating partners will always, always, always blame others instead of themselves for doing one of the most horrible acts. And not only blame others, but even blame their kids. Even tho it’s an anime, there’s people out there that do this and there’s a very nice karma waiting for them either in life, or in hell.
Agreed, Frankly I like to believe things didn't go well for the father after he left the story early on and he's still blaming his ex and daughter to the end of the story! He'll likely attempt to approach Jun AFTER the end, but by then she'll have the mental strength and understanding just how much of an asshole he was and the damage he brought about on her and her mother! Much of it was self-inflicted, but the damage never would have happened if not for him. So I feel that his punishment, his life went to shit when he took his marriage and fatherhood for granted like he did
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,.,.,.
It related to me because I thought it was my fault that my parents split up because I was watching something I shouldn’t have, that led my mom to think it was my dad’s doing. Over the years I blamed and hate myself for what I done. But as I grow older I told my dad about my mistakes that I did in the past believing it was the cause of the fights, he told me that it wasn’t my fault. The truth was that my mom jump to the wrong conclusion of thinking my dad was cheating on her but he wasn’t. After many fight, they decided to have a divorce. Learn the real truth, I was able to let go of the guilt and accept their divorce and moving forward to be happy in life. I also learn that parents, whatever they fight or getting a divorce it not because of the children’s fault, it their mistakes and choices that they made themselves but they should not let the children to get involved and suffer from their parent’s greedy and faults.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
@@mingyuhuang8944 STOP copy pasting this in every comment reply
@@mingyuhuang8944 fr stop copying and pasting. Can’t you be original and just change your comment a little for every reply?
The anime is filled with emotions and meanings but for a recap, without the story teller. It wont attract any attentions but here on this channel, your story telling skills are remarkable keep up the good work bro, every time i watch your recap, i feel so calm and understand many things about the meanings in the anime. Best animer recap channel i have ever watched💝🫠
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.,,,,,,,,,,
@@mingyuhuang8944 You just made my day man and thank you. Our generations nowadays still have those types of parents and I honestly dont know why, if they already have a happy family why go out and cheat, that is why this world is so corrupted, its just sad to see it bro.
@@Salted_Strafes
Indeed man. The sad truth is that many people have children without realizing that they are not capable of truly raising a life yet. Most cases are of bad parenting and education but of course there are also cases of literal abuse and torture of children, which is entirely inhumane.
Much of the pain and suffering in this world is bought to innocent people by perpetrators who have been traumatized during childhood, most likely by parents, and therefore seek out to kill, torture and inflict pain on everyone else.
I think in the future we need to rethink our society and rethink the way the government deals with parenting. The government needs to introduce permits and laws which make it illegal for a couple to have a child unless they meet the criteria to do so through mental and character examinations. Are you an honest person? Do you have a stable job? Are you depressed? Do have have violent tantrums? Are you traumatized yourself and may bring this upon your child too?
These are all questions I think the government needs to enforce.
It's the same concept of a traffic light, it's a duty of the government to ensure that society functions as smooth as possible. The government should really take a hand into childbirth and parenting since it is one of, if not the MOST important aspect of a persons life. Because a child knows not of society, or country or nation, it only knows of parents, parents are the world. It is sad that perhaps one of the most important things in life, is something that a person cannot choose. A person sadly, cannot choose which family he or she is born into. It is a lottery in which the winner is able to get the finest and most satisfying reward of a happy, carefree and fulfilling life, yet never realize they actually won. And the loser, is punished for losing with the most cruel and demented suffering throughout their entire life.
I think it is time we change this lottery so that it is no longer just by chance but there's also a level of regulation that goes into it.
@@mingyuhuang8944 i hope the world and the government would see our side of view, cause our world is getting out of hands very soon man
@@Salted_Strafes ✅✅✅
Dude that was probably one of the most inspirational anime I seen
It took me so long to realize that this movie was called the Anthem Of the Heart because of all the numbers in the description 💀
Thank you for telling me the title I had a hard time looking for it myself.
@@latrecemonroe4846 yww
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies....
@@mingyuhuang8944 what did that have anything to do with my comment-?
I wonder why OP censored the title of the movie with numbers
"Suddenly a magical egg appears"
*of course it does*
Ikr
I really liked this one. Good story overall, but my personal favourite piece is when the main girl and the jock character start to get together instead when she got rejected. Broke the anime trope where "cute girl gets cute boy".
Well, piano guy and cheerleader girl was still technically going out, as they never really broke up.
Piano guy was in a dark place when cheerleader girl unintentionally denied being in love with him in front of everyone, which deeply hurt piano guy. They just never talked for years until the commitee formed.
Since then, cheerleader girl goes as far as rejecting every guy who asks her out saying that she has a boyfriend which she technically did. She is still in love with him as we see in the ending.
I know selective mutes and the mother really needs to get her head out of her but if she’s aware her daughter talks to literally no one.
it really is an awesome movie. and the final song "watashi no koe...", man, it struck the heart
Great, I now have an urge to watch this, and a even bigger urge to cry.
My parents got divorced but I was so used to living with my mom, I completely forgot about my dad. I feel like my relationship with my mom is even more better than my dad, while he still loves me I lost my trust in him.
This anime is kinda similar with my childhood.
I was playing, but I remember I was also listening to my mom and uncles because they were talking in my proximity. As a child, I don't know that it was a serious talk.
The next day, my step-grandma secretly asked me what my mom and uncle was talking about, and I told her the bits of if... which includes 'grandpa gonna have a divorce'.
A few days after that, I got slapped multiple times across the face by my mom. She also hit my head. My uncles was also there, just watching and saying "don't hurt her too much, or she's gonna be traumatized."
Well, too late. I was already traumatized at that point. Thanks uncle for being so concerned about my wellbeing.
They told me that my step-grandma are going to divorce my grandpa. And it's all my fault because I'm such a blabbermouth. Being a kid, not knowing what a 'divorce' meant, yet dare to go around telling others about it.
I learned to shut it from then on. And gradually developed a social anxiety.
This is sad. You literally did not know better. Adults should be in closed rooms if they are going to talk nonsense. And to be honest your step grandma is a terrible person for putting you in that position.
That's terrible.
Your mother should be the one being punished for putting her hands on a child.
Anime name "anthem of the heart". But should be called "japan has no psicologists"
these problems is prominent across the world tho
Dude do you really think every child in America, Europe, etc who has gone through stuff like this has had access to a therapist, let alone a good one? This is hardly a Japanese problem exclusively.
Tons of kids all over the world have bad parents or go through traumatic things and blame themselves, often for the rest of their lives. I know countless adults with messed up childhoods who still struggle to accept that what happened wasn't their fault, and that's even with therapy. Of course a child still in school would continue to blame herself when her father was the one to put that thought in her head to begin with.
She's lucky to have at least made such an understanding friend when she did. Most people aren't privileged enough to get professional help or have families that'll even acknowledge that they need help at all. This movie is what the real world looks like for probably the vast majority of people since healthy happy well-off families are the ideal and not the norm.
@@Akuma09Yomi the problem is not that she didn't have access to this. is the fact that japan keeps creating media, movies, films, series, and games that deal with psychological problems and your average by the day people or friends aren't professionals about this nor do they even know what to do in these kinds of situations, each time they show that everything can be overcome by being with your friends and family, and while it's true about this, it is not always the case.
Look at evangelion, the place had to have a SHITON OF MONEY and none of the people who were riding the mechs decided to go and see a psychologist or a therapist, heck i was convinced therapist didn't exist in japan because of that movie. This has been a constant troupe with japan on not relying on doctors but themselves.
YES you are right, not everyone in rea life has access to this, and they have to deal with it by themselves. But i don't even THINK the option to go and see therapist was mentioned. But i digress.
also yeah that's pretty much how life goes, you win some, you lose some. You gain good friends or bad friends and you pretty much gotta have luck on your side. (mother was very dumb for not realizing what her daughter was going through, but life has stupid parents as well so i guess it checks out)
Alternate story : the father takes responsability for his own actions and don't traumatize his (suppposely) beloved daughter.
End
This is why I love anime movies they always have a story that can be true
yes a magical egg that takes your voice away is very true
@@tobobobobobobob I was talking about the insecurities part many people can have them many stories in anime can teach a important story 👌
@@Shesthegirlnextdoor insecurities? the movie was about a mute girl 😂
@@tobobobobobobob Shes not mute dumdum. She was so traumatised by how she was blamed by her father for their parents divorcing and felt so guilty about her being such a blabbermouth she couldnt speak anymore.
@@tobobobobobobob do you even watch the recap?
aww you didnt include the part where Daiki confesses to Jun! That was also a really great plottwist
💀
Who's daiki?
@@Justanotherboredgirl the bald one
@@ichigo3853 oh thanks
You could've added a spoiler alert
Father intentionally ruins daughter's life
Egg ruins it further
People can't understand because she can't tell them.
Man, this is actually kinda realistic with a touch of anime. It's not like Japan gets invaded by some horrific monster/supernatural/alien species and wipes out humanity like in 75% of other ones.
I remember I was 5 when my father left my mother and my mother hated his guts cause he cheated on their wedding night but my father tried for years after to get me since I was his favorite...he had 2 other kids my sister and brother and viewed them as problematic and after it was revealed I was pushed and made fun of at home where I lived with my mother for years on I just couldn't seem to escape no matter how hard I tried eventually I did her out and I did escape that hated but in the end my father left me too because I didn't go with him the first time it was only a one time offer to him
@LIFESIO well life is good! I'm 23 now and I moved out at 22 so the scars are still fresh but are healing as for my family the one year I was away my mom got in massive debt and is asking anyone for money, my siblings have to endure that debt for her, as for me I broke contract with them but they still try to come into my life and my father who I try to reconcile with just made things worse and sadly I just realized the whole family I grew up with or known was too toxic for my life but I'm happy now and I have my bestest friend of over 7 years helping me on my path!
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies...
You didn't go with him the first time you were FIVE freaking years old and probably custody was granted to your mom and had NO say on what was going on? The hell?
When your dad is a discord mod. Why would she feel the guilt for so long, when clearly her dad did something bad, wtf!?
Cause her mom neglected her clearly.
@@Eszra she could've say something like "hey mom, who's this woman with dad" and the mom will piece it together, unless the mom was iq of 10
@@Immolator772 that does happen its only worded differently in the eyes of a child. Her mom gets it but she ends up doing nothing to comfort her daughter. And when she understands that she tries to run from it until that granny stops her. Dads a POS and her mother is an ass for neglecting her child.
Discord mods don't have s4x bro.
@@praisesui-tyan it's a rich discord mod.
You should've also added the part where she finds her prince charming is Daiki Tasaki
this movie is a gem. one of my top anime movies. the soundtracks are also incredible. i recommend people to watch the full movie.
What’s the movies name?
@@kelvinperez4211 The Anthem of The Heart
Those parents are really the best. The ones who make their children feel bad for their own mistakes. You really wonder if this parent is really an adult. By such behaivour definatly not. And then they just wonder, why the child turns out that way. Children have a complete different view of all the things around them. This really sounds like a good movie.
It’s wasn’t jun’s fault it’s her dang dads fault shouldnt have been cheating jun was only an innocent child she didn’t know
I've been looking everywhere for this anime! Thanks!!
kid shouldnt have getting punished for just being really honest,
as a kid i was really really honest and would say what i saw, but because of that, i ended up making my sister cried once and i ended up zipping my mouth through my whole life, that decision def ruined my life but i cant say i regret it, since rn i know that truth hurts and you need to be careful w it
i saw his video and saw the whole movie. it's worth it lmao.
the ending was really unexpected, but it was a breath of fresh air.
I love how the main characters didn't fall in love and actually had a good reasoning and thought into their relationship. Just because she is the main it doesn't have to end up in a perfect romance! She will find love else where and he will continue his pauzed love story.
I remember seeing this anime and being amazed by how revolutionary and progressive the ending was. Not to mention, the story was very creatively done, you see everything in the child's perspective and the longer you watch, the more it makes sense why she acts that way. It was just heartbreaking how she interprets the actions of the people around her and how she tries to cope up with her traumas. Overall a very good film, I would say. 😊❤️
I cried too much. Even though I had never really been through such a situation but I was in a similar situation at that time so I related so much. I can still remember how badly I cried back then. I still haven't rewatch it yet as well it did fuck with my emotions real bad.
This is so painful yet very touchy and deep moment for me, because in the end the same almost the exact same had happened to me. Except I got bullied, prompted to kill myself, and everybody would stare down at me when I’d have seizures because of my condition, even filming and posting it on Snapchat. It caused PTSD and I had become distant and silent, hating not only everyone, but myself as well. And because I used to be such an attention seeker as a child because my parents knew my grades were unstable, I’d stay silent and say everything is going fine, acting out like I’d learn in theatre class, a happy child with a normal social life. I had multiple breakdowns, and seizures, rejections, I even had close to SA… and I hated everything further. But I grew closer to music as I had started taking guitar lessons, I tried singing under the shower so nobody would hear my pathetic voice. I realised I could do an opera voice, I could nail deep voices, and had a wide vocal range. It wasn’t that I was special, it was that I wasn’t weird. I never exactly had a normal social life, but nobody did because every life is unique in its own way. I learned the hard way, but I learned nonetheless, that the strange stares are what I interpret, the snarky comments just silly words of jealousy, and that from my pain I gained so much knowledge about many things, different backgrounds, how some people interpret, the process of what people go through before they bully. I felt like I had opened books that had before a cover with the words “I’ll kill you, you no good zero” on it, a cover I ripped away from its book.
I gained knowledge through courage, and I can now help those in that situation. And I have a good voice, I can make myself heard without breaking eardrums or yelling during seizure. I can sing, speak and shout my feelings as a human can live.
That was a beautiful story of your life. It's amazing where you are right now. Stay strong :)
@@SamiStrawberryPie Thank you so much. It had scared me a lot at first at how this felt really similar-almost too ressemblant to what I had experienced, but in the end in a way, I’m sorta glad this is being talked about, in a way. Other people have possibly gone through this so it’s making people aware of self-loathing, social anxiety and depression and many other matters through this magical and thrilling story.
Children will always be born into this world thinking that everything about their parents are perfect and they are the sky and the limit.
With time, one begins to notice that their parents are not saints rather just people with their own issues. For example, when the dad cheats on someone and gets called out by the daughter and instead shamelessly blames the daughter for calling him out and not his disgusting and immoral behavior. For a child this is extremely upsetting and traumatic because it shatters their entire perception of reality and right or wrong. It is a classic example of highly toxic behavior from parents which leads to a child becoming mentally ill and led down a depraved and depressing path. Same thing can be said about the mum for being cold to her daughter becomes she's upset about the divorce and whatnot. Instead did acknowledging honestly their own short comings, apologizing, and offering a chance to heal or compensate, they choose to bury their own faults and seek external factors which through a wrench into their demented machine of life. It just proves that these parents were never truly mature, well-educated and enlightened people in the first place, and now they bring their gross incompetencies upon their child, purposefully or unpurposefully its all the same outcome. The child degenerates into a ball of misery.
No matter how much parents love you, nurture you, hate you or abuse you. You must realize that you are here on this earth to discover your own purpose and to carve out your own shadow, and your parents only used their physical bodies to bring you here. As with all things, justice is always correct. If they love you, love them back, if they are mean and hate you, don't hate them back, rather leave and become independent so you can become your own towering self.
I say this as someone who has been through severe family trauma and issues. For any child or even young adult realizing their parents are mortals with issues is one of the hardest truths to swallow. And yet... Once accepted, and once realizing that your parents don't define you and you carve out your own world, the sky becomes bluer and life immediately becomes more enjoyable. The opportunities are endless, there are no limits, you are free, truly free, like the sacred being you always were as soon as you were bought into this world by your parents physical bodies.
@@mingyuhuang8944 indeed, but sometimes the child gets those traits and becomes misanthropic because of the trauma unfortunately
Your tone at story telling and the lesson learned about it breaks my heart
My friend fell into a spiral of depression cuz his mom told him he is the reason his parants are divorcing. He still has issues but I think it helped him to open up.
its the dad fault for cheating how is it the little girl's fault?
It's her dad’s way of deflecting his dirty deeds... sad, but it’s pretty common in the world for folks to do this regarding any behaviors that gets them in trouble or shamed.
Her "dad" couldn't accept that it was his fault and blamed Jun even though she didn't know and just told her mom what she saw
"The teachers picks the 4 most outcast students"
PSA for future teachers: Don't fucking do this. Loner kids are loners for a reason. You'll probably do more harm then good.
The explanation wasn't really accurate, in fact, the teacher picked them randomly. And later, he tells Takumi that he can quit if he recommend others who can do better.
She took “zip it, lock it, put it in your pocket.” way to literally-
This movie was so beautiful yet so tragic, I felt so bad for jun, her father was just the worst, cheating on his wife, blaming jun for the divorce even though she did nothing wrong, and even after that she had to go through so much, her mother yelling at her, realising the boy she loves doesn't love her back, and that ending was so bittersweet, it's honestly kinda hard to watch at some points
I informed my mother of my father's rampant infidelity, and my life was destroyed, constantly, by my father, forever after, apparently with my mother's support. Even now after 50 years.
This made me cry a little little bit
This really hits hard. When I was a kid I was very outgoing and active but got berated and made fun of a lot because of my autism, from my parents, teachers and other kids. Even now I have trouble being myself around others
This is almost the story of my childhood, accidentally snitched on my dad affairs when i was 9 and he blamed me(even though he's the one that brought me to meet the mistress a lot loool) i became a quite kid in most of my school years after that
nice he’s apart of the basketball team even tho it shows baseball amazing
please remember me when your famous!! Keep on going with the great work and I’m so excited to see you grow! You’ll be at 100k in no time :), goodluck!
about her stomach hurt when she tries to talk, it's probably anxiety, I have severe anxiety and during a crisis i feel a lot of pain in my stomach
1:00 Oh. Dude cheats, gets caught by his daughter and then just straight up tells her "this is your fault"
What an awful person.
3:45 HE WHAT?
"An ace player of the school basketball team" *camera shows a baseball team* now something aint right here...
Narrator is saying basketball but the anime showed baseball. Oops. Still, this story sounds amazing.
"Anthem of the Heart" A very good anime movie. 11/10.
Hope you guys enjoy the video! Have a great day everyone🔥
thanks for the content man, love the animes you pick!
Sheeesh bet It took a long time to edit all the parts. Thanks for the content.
can you upload everyday for us? iloveyou anime!
Ty for uploading this!
I once a very talkative person, but after hearing my friend talk behind my back, that I’m non stop talking freak, so from that day on I stop talking, until today I barely speak to anyone even my family.
Teacher : "All right, I need an impro comedy group. That will take guts, confidence and enthusiasm."
Teacher : *picks all the quiet kids*
You're a disgrace to your profession.
Anime recap is basically a shortcut to finishing the whole anime/anime movie.
I ain’t complaining tho because its satisfying, plus it makes it less scary to even the horror ones.
9:10 why do I keep seeing squid game resembled clothes with almost every anime recap I watch!!🤣🤣😅
I dunno what you're talking about, that's standard business formalwear from Russia.
@@nicholasfarrell5981 I was talking about the color of the clothes I just always seem to see it in anime recaps
2:11 bro really said that baseball was basketball so casual💀
My gf really loves this anime, this anime was very special for her. because this is the first anime she watch, and her name is also jun lol 😂😂😂
Sorry my englis is suck
The beginning part is like Butters’ Very Own Episode
Was i the only one to notice that the first few times he was talking about Daiki he said basketball but the last time he spoke about it he said it correctly aka baseball
This movie is outstanding❣
Also, who else expected the teacher to be the Egg?
"Basketball"
⚾: I took this personally.
I used to visit my great aunt and uncle often. However, my great aunt was not the best person. For over 30 years my aunt and uncle had been together. However, one day my uncle told my aunt that he was not a Jehovah’s Witness, and was tired of being forced to celebrate a religion he did not believe in.
My aunt divorced him. My uncle was a amazing person, but my aunt threw away a 30+ year marriage because his beliefs did not match with hers. When I was 10 years old, I learned that she was not a good person. She was homophobic, toxic, and has tried for years to force her religion, lifestyle, and choices onto me and my older sister.
My aunt has 3 children, who suffer from their own trauma. One of my cousins cannot move out of my aunt’s home because she is being forced to stay because of her mother. Another one of my cousins is moving out of the house by force because she wants to get away from my aunt. The other cousin refuses to work because his mother convinced him to not take up a job and focus on being a Jehovah’s Witness. Only two of the 4 people of their house have part-time jobs. So, a house of 4 people is living off of 1 full-time job. My grandma (my aunts sister) is being forced to pay the majority of their bills.
I really miss my uncle, but I’m aware that I’ll never see him again. It’s been quite a few years, and I really do wish that my aunt was a better person. She took someone away from me, and I will never see that person again for the rest of my life. And my cousins suffer because of her. She hurts her own family, and it’s disgusting.
Man do I love Basketball 2:12 🤣🤣🤣🤣
cheating hurts others so much. i dont understand people who do it, why they do it, and how they can ever make excuses like blaming others. if you're not happy, you break things off before you go and do something like this. then, not only did they cheat but blame it on their own child. its honestly the worst.
I actually relate a lot to this one, from the first second i knew exactly what she felt, im not really social and its really hard for me to speak at all just like her. This video gave me some hope, Thank you. :)
Jun is probably the best runner of the school. She is always in training.
i told my dad my mom was cheating on him and he already knew for a few months lol and at that point she had been cheating for 2 years. no one's fault but the cheater!
"Daiki Tasaki, star of the school basketball team."
Shows baseball players
this anime in a nutshell: never let them know your next move
I remember watching this back when I was young and still not deeply into anime. Now when I grow up, I tried to find this movie again on RUclips where I first found it but can't. Gladly I found this video. I can finally refresh old memories :D
was on the european premiere on pepermint anime festival. this anime is realy good from story over background to the caraktere devolopment.
The stomach hurting is a nice detail because when you get anxious your stomach often ties up
"Takumi and Nito had been dating since junior high but ended the dating because of takumi's parents but still couldn't get over each other, -- Takumi only helps jun because it gave him hope that he could better in life as well" of course the man has another girl, why wouldn't this movie have a love triangle with all the stuff already going on?
Now i know people do stuff because of selfless and selfish reasons and neither one is good or bad, each one can benefit the 2 people at once and it mostly depends on the actions rather than the sentiment. But man........what would've happen if Takumi was fine? would he still help jun?
Isnt that empathy?
If he was fine, he may or may not help, because when one big thing changes in your life you can't really predict if you'll still be the same person. But that doesn't mean he was a bad person for wanting to help her to also help himself; the outcome is the same and he still gave her what no one else did before
I remember watching this, it was so beautiful. I cried so much. Especially at the end
This is the exact reason why i don't want children... As a child I never got my father's love he left us when we I was just 3, never knew what father's love was... I don't want my children to go through the hardships i went through....
What a beautiful story about facing our own inner ghosts, ones that sometimes we ourselves plant. What a beautiful story
I saw this video on my recommended and I decided to watch the movie first.I love it the movie made me cry 😭.I’m Glad but sad at the fact he rejected Her🙋🏽♀️
Well at the end she got asked out by the basketball player (Tasaki) so it’s not too bad either! ^^
@@antonellapascucci6960 Yeah I remember 😭
I had to stop when you revealed that the father blamed her, and I saw her eyes fill with tears.
What is the name of this movie because I don't think the real name was put on there?
Me too please 🥺🥺🥺
@@nadiajaradat4154 the anthem of the hearth
2:12 ah yes. Basketball. The game the are clearly playing with bats on a baseball diamond…
Day 4 of asking to explain A Whisker Away
Reading all these stories of people having such an impactful moment from their parents is really sad and reminded me of my own. Maybe not so crazy, but I was very hurt all the same.
I’m adopted, and on the drive home getting lectured because of my usual problems with my adoptive mother, he tells me I’m not his daughter. Mind you, no shit. But I already felt like I had no family, but way to make it worse. I’ll always remember that.
Perenting the new human offspring is one of the most important job that exists, all applicants welcome/ may aquire job unintentionaly
No experience or training required (or training demanded)
No supervision so must work under own initiative
No references needed
HTF is it HER fault that her dad was cheating on her mom!? O_O Evil father!
The adults in this anime are just evil. I'm surprised the poor girl didn't unalive herself.
Had to turn off the video because it got me interested in the movie. Thank you!!
It’s like the scary version of Komi can’t communicate
Dont Give up On Life Go On Life No Matter What