I got hotted out in some Facebook group called “are we dating the same guy” there’s anonymous comments on there saying I sleep with a lot of girls and I beg women and few girls in my area was in the comments saying things like”he was in my dms begging me”when in reality I just shot my shot they played games and I with drawer my attention ?also they was bashing me saying I have STDS and that when I’m clean because I get checked every 3 months and my own Bbymum said in the comments “girls im his bm message me” all my boys I need ur help like I been feeling down from this because it’s annonymous comments and only girls can join the group so I can’t even say anything ? What shall I do ? 😢I’m 25 and I got pretty boy looks my body count is 122 right now I’m from west London UK ,I drive and I do engineering I have a lot going for myself and I’m pretty built (gym) but I just don’t know why girls are trying to tarnish my name ?HELP boys I don’t understand why they love chaos and drama what shall I do ?
This brother makes good points. Essentially, he's advocating setting healthy boundaries. And a lot of these women need that 💯. Of course, setting boundaries is appropriate for both sexes, but this is not a vid designed for men. I literally had to do a similar thing with my Cubana 🇨🇺 earlier today. And I know she is going to do it again. She is def. habitual! The shit happens like a 2x per month. To me it's just like some other chore like pulling weeds or mowing the grass. She's my second Esposa so I have a lot of experience with this shit, although this time it's all in Spanish 😂. I had to learn quick early on to keep up. She becomes reasonable and logical after I maintain the boundary. When all that drama dies down she comes back and talks sensibly. Usually after a day of self-reflection. Truth be told, I think she really wants me to grab her up. I know that shit turns her on but I can't make a habit of that because that could get dangerous. I must say that it is still very much worth it though 😉
@@docdmitch1380 😂😂 well said brother. It’s all about setting boundaries! And that’s exactly what I was saying, they highkey love when we set and enforce those healthy boundaries.
@@Kingcookk Facts! I will say it is hilarious how some of these women on here got triggered like an MF lol. Started putting words in your mouth when they could just as easy rewind the video 😂 you can't make this shit up!
The guy I’m involved with has done this to me a few times. I know if I don’t come at him correct, he’s just gonna leave me be instead of reacting emotionally. So now I know to check my attitude before I even say anything to him.
@@jordyn.24 I appreciate your honesty! I think both men and women can teach each other how to treat each other and it doesn’t have to come from argument
This “advice” is toxic af. How on Earth did you come to the conclusion that women think it’s hot for a man to yell at her and “put her in her place”?? That’s a toxic relationship you’re describing. You should be talking to men about building healthy boundaries, not how to control a woman. Women and children aren’t “line steppers” or whatever the f that means, they’re human beings. Where’s this “line” anyways? Wherever you decide to put it and it’s constantly moving. In your story you fully admitted to also having an attitude, yet you’re going to chastise your wife for the same behavior when she’s literally cooking for you and your children. The argument started because YOU decided to have multiple children with a woman and kept her at home when you don’t make enough money for an emergency expense. You can’t afford a SAHM when you can’t afford a washing machine. In the last clip you shared, nowhere did you hear her say she likes when a man yells at her and puts her in her place. She only mentions the “masculine way” he speaks to other MEN. I love how you didn’t take in anything she was actually saying and tried to use it as her agreeing with your strange pov. Yes, men AND women need to have strong boundaries and not let people walk all over them. No, you can’t control your partner and treat them like a child that has to listen to you. If you don’t like the way your partner talks to you, you’ve addressed it by having a respectful conversation, and it doesn’t get any better, break up with them and move on. That’s not your cue to become toxic and controlling, that’s your cue to get tf out.
You added in yelling. Like you literally made it up. He specifically says don't yell, call names, insult, or get physical. I'm not sure how you came up with any of this.
@@HappyMe-sr7vr This is great lol let me start by saying I don’t understand why you seem to be so angry, but you clearly misunderstood my message. I literally said in the video, yelling, disrespecting, degrading and name calling in an argument is not cool and I also agreed and said anyone that says doing that is ok, is toxic. But you must have missed that part. Secondly, life happens to us all. Most people will experience the feeling of not being able to afford something, that doesn’t mean an argument or debate needs to be the result of that. And actually I can, and have been able to afford my wife to be a stay at home mom. But as I said in the video, sometimes life happens. Even though you misunderstood most of what I was saying, I appreciate you watching all the way through and commenting. Helps with the algorithm 😂😂
@@Kingcookk Perfect response to the response. And giving a great example of exactly what you were just saying in this video. You handled this comment just like you said you would your wife. Calmly, while validating their point of view and simply communicating your intention without trying to control the person. Real men demonstrate their discipline through self control. Bravo. 👋
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I got hotted out in some Facebook group called “are we dating the same guy” there’s anonymous comments on there saying I sleep with a lot of girls and I beg women and few girls in my area was in the comments saying things like”he was in my dms begging me”when in reality I just shot my shot they played games and I with drawer my attention ?also they was bashing me saying I have STDS and that when I’m clean because I get checked every 3 months and my own Bbymum said in the comments “girls im his bm message me” all my boys I need ur help like I been feeling down from this because it’s annonymous comments and only girls can join the group so I can’t even say anything ? What shall I do ? 😢I’m 25 and I got pretty boy looks my body count is 122 right now I’m from west London UK ,I drive and I do engineering I have a lot going for myself and I’m pretty built (gym) but I just don’t know why girls are trying to tarnish my name ?HELP boys I don’t understand why they love chaos and drama what shall I do ?
@@OfficialDabz I’ll make a video on this brother!
@@Kingcookk Thankyou bro please need help my g
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This brother makes good points. Essentially, he's advocating setting healthy boundaries. And a lot of these women need that 💯. Of course, setting boundaries is appropriate for both sexes, but this is not a vid designed for men. I literally had to do a similar thing with my Cubana 🇨🇺 earlier today. And I know she is going to do it again. She is def. habitual! The shit happens like a 2x per month. To me it's just like some other chore like pulling weeds or mowing the grass. She's my second Esposa so I have a lot of experience with this shit, although this time it's all in Spanish 😂. I had to learn quick early on to keep up. She becomes reasonable and logical after I maintain the boundary. When all that drama dies down she comes back and talks sensibly. Usually after a day of self-reflection. Truth be told, I think she really wants me to grab her up. I know that shit turns her on but I can't make a habit of that because that could get dangerous. I must say that it is still very much worth it though 😉
@@docdmitch1380 😂😂 well said brother. It’s all about setting boundaries! And that’s exactly what I was saying, they highkey love when we set and enforce those healthy boundaries.
@@Kingcookk Facts! I will say it is hilarious how some of these women on here got triggered like an MF lol. Started putting words in your mouth when they could just as easy rewind the video 😂 you can't make this shit up!
Good advice for other men. I definitely agree.
The guy I’m involved with has done this to me a few times. I know if I don’t come at him correct, he’s just gonna leave me be instead of reacting emotionally. So now I know to check my attitude before I even say anything to him.
@@jordyn.24 I appreciate your honesty! I think both men and women can teach each other how to treat each other and it doesn’t have to come from argument
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I'm like, do not ever talk to me like that ever and then give her the look
@@jaydavis4752 “the look” is the final blow! lol
Bro this is a way to do it.
My man J 👊🏾
This “advice” is toxic af. How on Earth did you come to the conclusion that women think it’s hot for a man to yell at her and “put her in her place”?? That’s a toxic relationship you’re describing. You should be talking to men about building healthy boundaries, not how to control a woman. Women and children aren’t “line steppers” or whatever the f that means, they’re human beings. Where’s this “line” anyways? Wherever you decide to put it and it’s constantly moving.
In your story you fully admitted to also having an attitude, yet you’re going to chastise your wife for the same behavior when she’s literally cooking for you and your children. The argument started because YOU decided to have multiple children with a woman and kept her at home when you don’t make enough money for an emergency expense. You can’t afford a SAHM when you can’t afford a washing machine.
In the last clip you shared, nowhere did you hear her say she likes when a man yells at her and puts her in her place. She only mentions the “masculine way” he speaks to other MEN. I love how you didn’t take in anything she was actually saying and tried to use it as her agreeing with your strange pov.
Yes, men AND women need to have strong boundaries and not let people walk all over them. No, you can’t control your partner and treat them like a child that has to listen to you. If you don’t like the way your partner talks to you, you’ve addressed it by having a respectful conversation, and it doesn’t get any better, break up with them and move on. That’s not your cue to become toxic and controlling, that’s your cue to get tf out.
You added in yelling. Like you literally made it up. He specifically says don't yell, call names, insult, or get physical. I'm not sure how you came up with any of this.
@@HappyMe-sr7vr This is great lol let me start by saying I don’t understand why you seem to be so angry, but you clearly misunderstood my message.
I literally said in the video, yelling, disrespecting, degrading and name calling in an argument is not cool and I also agreed and said anyone that says doing that is ok, is toxic. But you must have missed that part.
Secondly, life happens to us all. Most people will experience the feeling of not being able to afford something, that doesn’t mean an argument or debate needs to be the result of that. And actually I can, and have been able to afford my wife to be a stay at home mom. But as I said in the video, sometimes life happens.
Even though you misunderstood most of what I was saying, I appreciate you watching all the way through and commenting. Helps with the algorithm 😂😂
Do not talk like that ever again, woman. Have some respect and listen to what's actually being said 😂
@@jaydavis4752 😂😂
@@Kingcookk Perfect response to the response. And giving a great example of exactly what you were just saying in this video. You handled this comment just like you said you would your wife. Calmly, while validating their point of view and simply communicating your intention without trying to control the person. Real men demonstrate their discipline through self control. Bravo. 👋