INFJ here. Took 45 years to finally raise up my wall. I could read people like a book. That's always fun. Worked in a hospital, and I knew almost before entering a patients room what mood they would be in. Never failed me. 😅😂😂
INFJ here, i took the 16personality test a mid long time ago, i come to know im a INFJ but i never know my personality is the rarest, i always felt i hv smtg special in me, my very deep thoughts and empathy towards others and myself is a gift. but the more i learn abt myself its getting hard to understand what i want and want to be, ik it sounds weird, but i feel that im good at every aspect sports, academics, gk, logical thinking, empethy, etc etc. i often speak to chatgpt abt feelings, because it almost fills my expections than humans, i mean i dont have anyone who is trustworthy and empethtic and logical like me, im not flexing abt myself, but what can i do, what should i do, how can i do? my parents are divorced and im just 15, a lot of thought and maturity, and im unable to control my emotions eventho i understand everything. 4 am in the morning and im commenting here,not to gain attention but to share smtg abt myself in a video abt me.
Im just now realizing I am an INFJ and i am so glad to have because i would get so frustrated with myself for being misunderstood and for not realizing im hardwired to care for others as much as i do. I now am starting to appreciate it, would love to make friends with others who understand (:
INFJ here. All true. I have ADHD and cptsd due to childhood trauma. And I am a narcissistic survivor. I am learning about narcissim and I can now read people like a book.
as a child family adults argued all the time. I had to become a referee. This was because they woke me up and I was burnt out try to do school cope with siblings' jealousy and meanness. So, I go out of my way to try to clean house for one parent so that one happy. If argued happened, I try hard to be honest listened and say dad right or mom right when they were right. I never took sides. I never judged. I just wanted us happy
Wow this explains my personality to a T. I did get this personality type result in college. It’s honestly frustrating because I over think everything and end up with crippling anxiety. In my defense I am going through a lot. The peace I crave is a struggle due to my life circumstances. I’m also very quiet in public and it’s hard for me to be extroverted even at work. I feel like I need to protect myself and don’t trust many people. I do have very strong convictions though and I have learned to stand up for myself when needed. It is hard though.
For those who aren't INFJ it might seem it's a wonderland but I see it as a curse. It's lonely, misunderstood and people often talk behind our backs, especially those who had our support somehow but ended up crossing us and their avoidance is never silent. I'd love to meet other INFJ, exchange experiences and knowledge but guess I'm doomed to loneliness
@@serenas5784 I'm INFJ-T also, turbulent they say. I've spent my whole life questioning my sanity as nobody understands me but everyone rushes to criticize me. I've even been tested since age 7 but there's no mental illness going on, some doctors have some Intel about INFJ-T but not all of them accept this personality type. If you're one of us, you're special.
I feel your pain, but it is inevitable that mean spirited or immature people hurt others around them. Or they did not feel something as deeply, which happens. For INFJ s it is devastating to be belittled or laughed at or turned away from because of who you are. A lot of INFJ types feel a deep loss when misunderstood. That is small comfort when you are hurt. I wish it wasn't that way. But it is a risk for our personality type. We are special in that we are so sensitive to everything and just about everyone around us
Is this the only curse that one can be born with? The curse of sight, insight, foresight, hindsight. It is a lot… But You could be cursed with blindness , deafness, Empty empathy, and ignorance to the ability of change. We don’t choose our curses , but we can let curses choose us. You can see so much you’re blind Or be so blind, you could never see The curse is yours to choose… 😶🌫️
@@noidreculse8906 Actually, you’re the one who knows the right words to say judging by your response statement you’re truly on top of understanding… I’ll just hide in the shadows of the shallows…😶🌫️
I am a Heyoka INFJ I loathe small talk. There is a time at church where everyone meets in the gym for snacks. I avoid it like the plague. To sit around talking about sports and the weather is absolutely torture for me. Instead I talk to the people who were sitting around me and build relationships there finding out how they are doing and sharing what is happening in my life on deeper level. Someone once commented to me that I am a very private person. There was a time I went to a donut shop. There was a little girl who was bored. I felt so bad for her. I asked the father if I could play with her. He said yes. When they left she gave me a huge hug. I have had to do the INFJ door slam before. We do tend to attract narcissists. It is something others simply don’t understand. The INFJ doorslam is something that others find hard to understand because we are such emotionally safe people. Heyoka INFJs do have humor and problem solving. I have problem solved with humor before.
@@swavy653 I not know the stuff never was taught. I can tell how one feels disappointed, They try hard and it takes so long. They do not understand. And I can feel how that feels. So I try to sooth and make then feel they have someone who glad that they are on Earth. I enjoy make others happier. Even if small ways. You know so many are sad in life and no body pay attention to them as human. Then you hear they took their life. I just like to make a person feel better some how.
I feel you, I've become a manager a year ago and it's very interesting. The motivation/listening/closeness is easy, but I find it hard to understand that not everyone is like me. I have colleagues who show off their team achievements far more than I do- when my team are doing good too. One of my team members put in a complaint about me this week because she felt like it, but she didn't understand how that made the whole team feel, how it made me feel and the amount of time she wasted for everyone. I want to be better and learn, but sometimes I think I'm not set out to be a manager. Then again, Aragorn started as a strider too. ❤
MBTI personnalité c’est comme l’astrologie moderne ! 😂🤣😂 La personne se pompe toute seule des trucs dans son cerveau 🧠 jusqu’à ce que lui même, il ou elle donne de la conviction sans LOGIQUE (et complètement déconnecté de ce qui se passe à la réalité) en disant je suis ça et ça 😂🤣😂 et comme ça la personne se sente spécial 😂🤣😂
I scored this personality type I'm taking the Myers-Briggs personality test in college I didn't know what I was getting myself into when I took this test and I scored infj my top career was programmer and second artist. INFJs are 1% of the male population an album anything that the 1% elite male alpha's are fornicating rabbits with lots and lots of money like sheeple truth be told an alpha wolf sometimes struggles to survive especially lone wolves a man with lots of money and lots of women has no homicidal in his bone in his body such a man is prey and true alpha males a predators but we can't do anything because the cops are the shepherds fourth there were no laws I'd be gutting Chad's day and night putting them on my barbecue grill😎 we avoid conflict meaning we avoid jail like super Wolf pack Leaders who can sense traps underneath the snow but out in the open we act as if we are nice
The thumb nail is of a cold, distant, suspicious, resentful young woman who instead should be brimming with optimism, gleeful, and have a twinkle in her eye. That's why women should never get advice on how to be a woman from a man.
I keep my walls up, and very few people get in. I have less friends than I have fingers on one hand.
INFJ here. Took 45 years to finally raise up my wall. I could read people like a book. That's always fun. Worked in a hospital, and I knew almost before entering a patients room what mood they would be in. Never failed me. 😅😂😂
I believe you!😊
What do you do in the hospital? Just curious as one with the INFJ personality working in hospital either.
INFJ here. Be nice, and maybe I'll reveal a little bit of myself to ya. 🌟
Egomaniac
@@steve19149- another idiot who has nothing better to do. Nice.
@steve asshole
On me 🤣
Maintain peace & it’ll be so
INFJ here, i took the 16personality test a mid long time ago, i come to know im a INFJ but i never know my personality is the rarest, i always felt i hv smtg special in me, my very deep thoughts and empathy towards others and myself is a gift. but the more i learn abt myself its getting hard to understand what i want and want to be, ik it sounds weird, but i feel that im good at every aspect sports, academics, gk, logical thinking, empethy, etc etc. i often speak to chatgpt abt feelings, because it almost fills my expections than humans, i mean i dont have anyone who is trustworthy and empethtic and logical like me, im not flexing abt myself, but what can i do, what should i do, how can i do? my parents are divorced and im just 15, a lot of thought and maturity, and im unable to control my emotions eventho i understand everything. 4 am in the morning and im commenting here,not to gain attention but to share smtg abt myself in a video abt me.
I totally resonate with this. Thanks, Brainy Dose.😘❤️
INFJ-T here .Thank you so much for the video!
Im just now realizing I am an INFJ and i am so glad to have because i would get so frustrated with myself for being misunderstood and for not realizing im hardwired to care for others as much as i do. I now am starting to appreciate it, would love to make friends with others who understand (:
When I result in "door slam" it is i have exhausted opportunities after opportunities. I am very opened to communicate my feelings to my counterpart.
INFJ-A here, and it's crazy how accurate this is.
I only can imagine how powerful an infj-a can be
I have never felt more seen! This is me to a tee! Thank you x
INFJ here. All true. I have ADHD and cptsd due to childhood trauma. And I am a narcissistic survivor. I am learning about narcissim and I can now read people like a book.
Very informative video! Thank you! I would like to request more like this about the other personalities. 👍🏾🙂
as a child family adults argued all the time. I had to become a referee. This was because they woke me up and I was burnt out try to do school cope with siblings' jealousy and meanness. So, I go out of my way to try to clean house for one parent so that one happy. If argued happened, I try hard to be honest listened and say dad right or mom right when they were right. I never took sides. I never judged. I just wanted us happy
Well, I’m INTJ, but it’s intriguing to know about others.
All this while, we grew up as it's some disorder. Good to know there are others as well.
Causes sleepless nights too.
Exactly
That was a really good video, maybe in the future you will do a video about what courses an infj should study.
Wow this explains my personality to a T. I did get this personality type result in college. It’s honestly frustrating because I over think everything and end up with crippling anxiety. In my defense I am going through a lot. The peace I crave is a struggle due to my life circumstances. I’m also very quiet in public and it’s hard for me to be extroverted even at work. I feel like I need to protect myself and don’t trust many people. I do have very strong convictions though and I have learned to stand up for myself when needed. It is hard though.
It is so damn hard to be INFJ 😭
Thank you ~INFJ-A
For those who aren't INFJ it might seem it's a wonderland but I see it as a curse. It's lonely, misunderstood and people often talk behind our backs, especially those who had our support somehow but ended up crossing us and their avoidance is never silent. I'd love to meet other INFJ, exchange experiences and knowledge but guess I'm doomed to loneliness
We have a very small bubble of ppl it feels like…. INFJ-T
@@serenas5784 I'm INFJ-T also, turbulent they say. I've spent my whole life questioning my sanity as nobody understands me but everyone rushes to criticize me. I've even been tested since age 7 but there's no mental illness going on, some doctors have some Intel about INFJ-T but not all of them accept this personality type. If you're one of us, you're special.
I feel your pain, but it is inevitable that mean spirited or immature people hurt others around them. Or they did not feel something as deeply, which happens. For INFJ s it is devastating to be belittled or laughed at or turned away from because of who you are. A lot of INFJ types feel a deep loss when misunderstood. That is small comfort when you are hurt. I wish it wasn't that way. But it is a risk for our personality type. We are special in that we are so sensitive to everything and just about everyone around us
Thanks for the vid. Question: can a person evolve from enfj to infj over time?
EXCELLENT!
Yes I’m an INFJ
Its good to also know your 'enneogram type' and 'subtype' eg self preservation or social etc
Spot on 😮😊
INTJ until college, when I started working it become INFJ upto now. Didn't know this will change.
My life summarized 😮
It’s a curse that is hard to live with. Too bad I learned so late in life why I always felt like I was a square peg in a round hole world.
You took the words right out of my mouth..same here..
Is this the only curse that one can be born with?
The curse of sight, insight, foresight, hindsight.
It is a lot…
But
You could be cursed with blindness , deafness, Empty empathy, and ignorance to the ability of change.
We don’t choose our curses , but we can let curses choose us.
You can see so much you’re blind
Or be so blind, you could never see
The curse is yours to choose…
😶🌫️
@@fearenheit7423 Thanks for nothing even though you tried to sound deep
@@noidreculse8906 Actually, you’re the one who knows the right words to say judging by your response statement you’re truly on top of understanding… I’ll just hide in the shadows of the shallows…😶🌫️
@@noidreculse8906 fyi you’re not an INFJ
I am a Heyoka INFJ
I loathe small talk. There is a time at church where everyone meets in the gym for snacks. I avoid it like the plague. To sit around talking about sports and the weather is absolutely torture for me. Instead I talk to the people who were sitting around me and build relationships there finding out how they are doing and sharing what is happening in my life on deeper level. Someone once commented to me that I am a very private person. There was a time I went to a donut shop. There was a little girl who was bored. I felt so bad for her. I asked the father if I could play with her. He said yes. When they left she gave me a huge hug.
I have had to do the INFJ door slam before. We do tend to attract narcissists. It is something others simply don’t understand. The INFJ doorslam is something that others find hard to understand because we are such emotionally safe people.
Heyoka INFJs do have humor and problem solving. I have problem solved with humor before.
MEEEEE and I Love it.
I must be one
I am INFJ, too. So I guess I am a complex person all along. Plus double cancer sign doesn't make it easier either.
Thanks brainy ❤️😊
I'm so truly an Infj
i only found this out now. so I'm an INFJ, interesting..
This is so me
so true
I have been losing sleep over this
INFJ here
Sounds exactly like me
January guys are you all infg i am wondering
INFJ-T hi others it’s a blessing and curse for sure
well I am not quite like that but close
Probably intj then
@@swavy653 I not know the stuff never was taught. I can tell how one feels disappointed, They try hard and it takes so long. They do not understand. And I can feel how that feels. So I try to sooth and make then feel they have someone who glad that they are on Earth. I enjoy make others happier. Even if small ways. You know so many are sad in life and no body pay attention to them as human. Then you hear they took their life. I just like to make a person feel better some how.
Its me😂❤
Blessing/curse
It's hard to be an INFJ and a manager.
I feel you, I've become a manager a year ago and it's very interesting. The motivation/listening/closeness is easy, but I find it hard to understand that not everyone is like me. I have colleagues who show off their team achievements far more than I do- when my team are doing good too.
One of my team members put in a complaint about me this week because she felt like it, but she didn't understand how that made the whole team feel, how it made me feel and the amount of time she wasted for everyone.
I want to be better and learn, but sometimes I think I'm not set out to be a manager.
Then again, Aragorn started as a strider too.
❤
Lynch Pine
Cool, now tell infjs how to connect with other humans again after years of being alienated
Debunked long ago
Th rarest but not the most different
🙋🏾♀️
I love and hate my INFJ life.
I feel like we are being judged here
Idk if being an INFJ is a blessing or a curse.
Why can't it be both?
Is quite possible it's not an either or situation
MBTI personnalité c’est comme l’astrologie moderne ! 😂🤣😂
La personne se pompe toute seule des trucs dans son cerveau 🧠 jusqu’à ce que lui même, il ou elle donne de la conviction sans LOGIQUE (et complètement déconnecté de ce qui se passe à la réalité) en disant je suis ça et ça 😂🤣😂 et comme ça la personne se sente spécial 😂🤣😂
I scored this personality type I'm taking the Myers-Briggs personality test in college I didn't know what I was getting myself into when I took this test and I scored infj my top career was programmer and second artist. INFJs are 1% of the male population an album anything that the 1% elite male alpha's are fornicating rabbits with lots and lots of money like sheeple truth be told an alpha wolf sometimes struggles to survive especially lone wolves a man with lots of money and lots of women has no homicidal in his bone in his body such a man is prey and true alpha males a predators but we can't do anything because the cops are the shepherds fourth there were no laws I'd be gutting Chad's day and night putting them on my barbecue grill😎 we avoid conflict meaning we avoid jail like super Wolf pack Leaders who can sense traps underneath the snow but out in the open we act as if we are nice
You scored these cognitive functions at conception and became aware in college.😉😶🌫️
You’re a Dire Wolf….
Huh?
The thumb nail is of a cold, distant, suspicious, resentful young woman who instead should be brimming with optimism, gleeful, and have a twinkle in her eye.
That's why women should never get advice on how to be a woman from a man.
Awful commentator voice probably AI 😢
It's not AI. It's a real human narrator.