The reason why social media is bad(Wait for the end). | Jordan peterson
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- Virtualization enables psychopathy. | Jordan peterson
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I think Mike Tyson said this in simpler terms. Something like "people have become too comfortable disrespecting people without getting punched in the face". Not exact but something like that.
Yeah that's basically what he said.
I read that in Mike's voice
Little bit more of a lisp and your dead on
That leaves out humour as a healthy means of deeskalation and reconciliation.
@@dragons_red u read books properly as a child lol. When it’s in quotation I’ve always imagined the voice
Monetized psycopathy... sounds like social media to me
That's insane we can't let that happen or let it get very far🙅🙅🙅
@@sotacoresabreenav way too late for that lol
Monetizing something good is not a bad thing.
@@stussy8936 Psychopathy is good?
@@Argonak1 thought he meant psychology lol
This is incredibly on point. Online there is no consequence for operating completely in bad faith, at the expense of others, and in promotion of yourself. Physical consequence is one thing, but a psychopath losing their reputation is also another way to check these people. But when social media promotes these people to the top, even if their reputation is ruined among their close peers and community, they can have quite a toxic following online that loves what they're doing. Which emboldens them. The create rage, and rage creates profit for social media companies who lack the imagination necessary to make money in a more honorable way.
there's this thing called hacking 😂
The calmer you are and confident, the likelihood of someone messing with you goes down exponentially. This also has different factors to this. Alcohol, location, and so on.
Sometimes. In my opinion you need to underpin that with evident capability; thee way you stand, hold yourself and interact needs to not just be confident, but backed up by an evident ability to back that confidence up.
It's nice to know someone like Jordan has the answers for our social problems. Now If only we had some Leadership with a desire to correct them.
Don't fall for his bs.
@@paintspot1509 downvote.
@@paintspot1509 Elaborate.
@@paintspot1509I believe the clinical psychologist before anything a paintspot believes
@@paintspot1509 so, what’s bs about what he’s saying in this short?
I always taught my boys, once your grown careful how you talk to grown men, you might just get smacked in the mouth. Doesn’t matter you size because grown men (I do mean real men) won’t run
It was kinda like a bull fight really?
"Say that shit to my face bro, I'mma fuck you up irl."
-Jordan Peterson, kinda
"I mean, it's just fact a majority of the time"-Jordan peterson
I remember when we said that shit to their face, albeit, at a greater than striking distance. I loved the aspect of bullying where you were expected to keep the cretins in line.
Nah, Jordan was probably the sensitive nerdy type who got bullied but figured out he should make friends that are tougher than the bullies
@@richardruss30 I wasn't a bully but I knew how it felt to be hurt so I was vengeful. Had a few friends like this who were way smarter and nicer than I am, but wimpy. Smart people are very interesting and should be protected if they are kind and decent.
That's... a better self-description from him than I expect.
This why men can play fight cause we understand a REAL fight involves someone not getting up
Weak people hurt other people.
Hurt people hurt people and there are no exceptions. The human race is predicated on barbaric maliciousness. We excel at destruction and ruination.
@@alajndress that’s a broad statement
Words can be just as destructive as fists. Sometimes getting rocked in the jaw is what someone needs to see their words have consequences.
That literally could be applied to anyone in this scenario?
Like the Republicans being cowards at protecting their children from insane gun owners..
Instead going after the EASY targets of beercans and toys.
Corporate/Government criminal types and their criminal media liars should stop lying and be held accountable when they lie.
So freakin insightful.
Leave it to my man JP to better explain things like this than I could.
Don't speak if all you can utter is stupidity
JP once again articulating the world in beautiful fashion. Anyone who didn’t mute the lobby in the og mw2 learned this real quick though😂
Yupp 😂😂. Thankk you for the commentt👊🙏
he wants censorship
Yes that is absolutely true. It's an unspoken understanding that men have between each other. You may receive one verbal warning and after that you should be very careful.
Yes thats what maintains situations in controll. Thankk you for the commentt👊🙏
Bottle it double it and give it to women
I constantly remind people that their IP address is not hard to find, and they should be more civil to strangers online.
Good advice. Thankk you for the commentt👊🙏
If vpns actually worked they would get shut down by the government.
How do you find it?
@David Little phishing or ip graber links maybe.
@@jasonsnavely2844 lolol I don't think you have any idea how a VPN works or for that matter even what a VPN is...
I’ve been saying this for years now. We have all these keyboard warriors that would never say the things they say online if they were actually in front of the people they were talking about or to. They have become emboldened because there can be no consequence.
no no no no, i also say all the mean things in person. i can assure you that.
Some of us say what we feel all the time not just online.
Some of them do carry that attitude to the outside world. Had a guy in my old platoon that made it about two days running his mouth until someone broke his nose. They ended up being good friends after as well. He was a good kid, just hadnt been checked before.
@@elieazagoury yeah but I guarantee that just because you do doesn’t mean everyone does. It’s facts. There is no repercussions. When there are no repercussions then people are going to act a fool. Bet if you punched em in the face when they open their mouth they would be more likely to keep that trap shut.
@@hotrodchevy4524 ok and? I didn’t say no one. I said there are a lot of keyboard warriors that wouldn’t say anything. That’s the truth. It doesn’t make it less true because there are some people that really do say what they want in person. So calm your tits.
Narcissistic psychopaths will not stay in one place for too long. They have to move before they are called out. The best way to deal with them is to call them out in front of the group that they are trying to psychologically control. I have done this on many occasions, they abruptly leave the situation and everyone breathes a collective sigh of relief. It feels good to end evil, one small victory at a time.
Every little bit Dr. Peterson talks about are just facts we have to protect him at all cost.
He is not factual about trans issues though. The facts say that being transgender is real and it has been around since gender was constructed
As men , we crack jokes on each other , give each other a hard time but we know the boundaries . As a man , we know the words to get to fighting .
People have gotten used to fucking around without finding out
What this esteemed premier intellectual said was "narcissistic aggressive men are afraid to fuck around and find out" in the presence of true masculinity.
The only thing keeping me in check as a sociopath is myself. I’ve found that spending too much time with others makes me have evil thoughts. I prefer to be by myself for everyone’s sake.
If "too many people got used to not getting punched in the face" was a person
Exactly the reason why so many men are respectful and so many women are disrespectful. If a man talks to another man he knows subconsciously that the other one could harm him, women most of the time lived a sheltered life where they could disrespect anyone without any consequences
All of this is actually a good thing. Its about time there is a way that you get to hear what people ACTUALLY THINK.
Man concisely defines where trolling comes from and why it is prevalent online
Yes ! Men that I have met, will not talk back to another male. But those men will trash the wife ,girlfriend. That type of man doesn’t won’t to get knocked In tomorrow.
66eur I err
Yes and women do the same because they know they won't face physical repurcussions
@@niceguy2527 Yes in most cases. Why do women that have a great husband. Treat them like crap ?
@@marymemlendon5522 because they want to be held accountable reality checked, shown their place. In other words a masculine partner. Why? They stray away from what's healthy and good further and further if he let's everything slip
My ex gfs, (now) ex was exactly like this. After me and my ex gf broke up we still kept in touch. She would tell me how her new man would beat her regularly. Literally throwing her around the room.
One day he found out we still talked and he started sending threats to me via text. He then asks my ex to lure me into their house.
I show up to their house thinking I'm picking up some stuff from just my ex. He was there. He was at least 35lb bigger than me and 4 inches taller. Also I'm a shy, soft guy. My ex probably told him this (probably the only reason that coward wanted to fight a man).
Anyways I show up, he walks up to me with a huge smile on his face and gets in my face. We start fighting. That day he realized that he's a complete coward and had zero balls to fight. I beat him up in front of his woman. He couldn't even land a single punch on my face. Completely closed his eyes and looked away when he got hit. Like a complete coward.
Afterwards him and my ex broke up. I had a talk with my ex and she told me she was surprised how much of a coward he was. She was always terrified of him. She was surprised that a soft guy like me had zero fear of him. I knew he was a snake when he came up to me smiling.
I then started talking a lot of crap to him. Calling him all sort of names. Never got a single reply lol 😂
Extremely true.
Spot on. Concisely articulated. 👍🏾
Sir, the "boys" who don't understand words, will ALWAYS understand the language of pain.
An old army saying “pain retains”
❤that was deep
He's essentially explaining why the fighting words doctrine existed for so long.
Unfortunately, it's been neutered in recent years.
The talking eyebrows in an indecisive suit is right
Or just calmness in the face of aggression. It works much better than matching their energy.
Truth . Their are many sexual predators out their today. If you don't put them in their place, they will not stop. Still they don't stop but you have created some distance between you and the predator. Sometimes you have to stand your ground. They are sick.
Properly spoken. Appreciate your comment🙏👊
God he explains it so well. What’s said is now it’s bullying no matter what. Some of the shit my friends and I use to say to each other s
Men don't tolerate bullying. I'm from an older generation, before the internet. We would put hands on any bully!
you come from a generation that condones bullying until it's too late
@@youtubeshadowbannedme Wrong. My generation was the generation that STARTED standing up against it. That being said... Being soft is not a virtue, not in this world at least. One should be tough, be rough, be strong and unmoved by anyone's words. Yet bullying does go beyond simple words tho, and again being soft is not a virtue and will not serve any man in the world.
you're absolutely correct Jordan because behind the screen everybody's a tough guy but if you meet that person on the street and he confronts you they wouldn't be so tough once they got punched in the face.
Truth
Too true to be good.
So true.
"The only thing holding this crew together is the fact that we might all kill each other at a moments notice. "
Exactly 💯
when you walk or look in a 🪞 = "TRUTH".....YOU CARRY CONFIDENCE Beautifully Mr. Peterson...!!
Passive aggressive
so true. if people had their full identity and address just before their disrespectful online remarks there would be a lot less destructive content out there.
This is so freaking true!
Hit the nail on the head with this one
Some people absolutely won't move unless you push them.
I’m so glad the Canadian psych board tried to silence and punish this man for if they didn’t I would have never heard of Dr Peterson
My Dad always told me to not start fights, but to not get rolled over either. And my Mother told me above all else, respect travels furthest. Respect and poise keep people from being aggressive
That Sheogorath fit looking fire 🔥
..... "there he goes again"..... ♥️
He basically just said that the Internet has the most Narcissistic people there is no; life threatening danger or physical harm as a consequence for crossing the line or talking crazy to the wrong person.
hacking says hi
Bill Burr also talked about this in a way, in the bit where he mentioned that every time he ever got punched in the face, sure, he was angry, but after he left the situation and thought about it, he thought "Yeah, ya know, I probably shouldn't have said that last shit."
Respect is rare these days but it's nice when received and given so as long as we work hard respect can be earned
We need to correct our own online behavior and treat it like it is a face to face interaction.
Now the fun part of you make women aware when they bully you and make jokes in spite for sport and you give them the opportunity to apologize and be your friend and they double down. If you punch them they will cry, learn their lesson and be your friend just like males. This happened with plenty of girls in highschool who thought they could judge me and shame me for being the victim of a violent childhood crime. I simply gave them the choice of apologies or a fisticuffs. Most picked love not war. Some thought they where better than me or I was bluffing. I'm not. I struck those girls and they ran home crying. Each one of them. Because women especially spoiled entitled rich young women have never been struck for anything they deserve before.
Man that suit is so 🔥
It's funny, I have a work situation like this.
I have a leading role at work, this guy works for me. He'll constantly try to get under my skin, try to put me down, try to show colleagues that he's in power by devalueing me in front of them. But the moment I let it get to me, and respond in an confronting way, he just softens up. He gets super friendly the day after, sometimes for 2 weeks straight.
It's really relatable when Jordan Peterson talks about this, because this guy I'm talking about truly is a narcissist. Always driving the nicest cars (and bragging about it, even though he'll deny it tooth and nail), traveling to the nicest beaches and islands (also constantly bragging about it) wearing a nice cologne at a job where it's 99% men at work and always feeling better than the rest and talking behind their backs.
It's just funny because the moment someone calls him out on his bullshit and backstabbing, he just "doesn't get along with them", and says he doesn't care about them. Yet not a single day will go by without him talking behind their backs again.
I've come to learn firsthand people like that are a true poison, and you'd do best to avoid having any sort of contact with them. You're better off without them.
1000 percent right
The whole of the online community needs to experience the Jaye and Silent Bob strike back moment.
Yes pretty much
Jordan Peterson rolling the Sheogorath drip.
this is exactly right
This is also the difference between men and women. Men know they’ll get punched. Women don’t have that understanding.
Part of the reason why so many modern women act like entitled narcissistic toddlers.
They manifest their narcissistic aggression through innuendo and reputation destruction, actually much worse than two men fighting it out.
Lies. Plenty of women know they will get punched if they get out of line. It's just that those women are rarely American. We've allowed them to be too comfortable.
Women do but they know men usually won't do that.
you didnt grow up in my city. i laughed wheny niece moved here. it was either watch her mouth or shed get her ass kicked. she only fights with her mom now.
Man is speaking to facts
SOOOO TRUE!
The most epic sum up I have ever heard!!!
I'd honestly like to see this happen more often.
I was in prison. When I was there they made fighting a major write up. The effect was that people who wouldn't normally run their necks ran their necks, constantly, with no repercussions.
Correct
Love to listen to you jordan.. always making a lot of sense ❤
Jordan is a Canadian LEGEND!!!!!
It's both a good thing and a bad thing that people aren't confronted with violence. The good thing is they aren't murdered in the street but the bad is that society decays from a lack of accountability.
Shitty conundrum
Crazy how many people talk about this... and still have and use their Twitter accounts... I am an artist in my personal time and made a Twitter. I used it for like a month and went "no... this isn't for me it's too full to toxic people all shouting for some kind of attention."
FACTS 💯 💯 💯
That is the truth that's the whole basis of a male to another male
as always he conveys his messages with great mastery, but damn that blazer! (or is it a suit?) I’m loving it! 👌🏻✨
Nice suit coat!!😊
THAT TWO FACE SUIT THO LOL
You truly make me think.
100%right
As well as beautifully articulating the problem with internet communication and social media, Dr JP also proposed a potential way to deal with it: have real, verified people in one comment section with anonymous trolls in another. But I would go further than this and not only restrict it to comments sections. Of course there should be some boundary to maintain privacy from external voyeurs.
In any case, I am absolutely convinced that because narcissism is rewarded these days, there are more and more of them popping up everywhere. What’s worse is that they are even role models for teenagers a lot of the time.
I want a suit like this so bad 😢
Ayy, I like the Two-Face suite
Word.
The consequences might be hidden, a change in our culture as a result.
He's forking right!
Social media is a cesspool
I’d love to hear his opinion on online gamers who live for this sort of one sided cruelty. There’s an entire subculture there.
I knew this way before this video. Things can go bad in an instant and im in no mood for a fight😅
So many people got about his position on this. But every single man knows this instinctively, in every male interaction, there's an underpinning of violence.
Not boiling under the surface, just a knowledge that ensures we treat eachother with respect
I remember this story about some guy who talked shit about Andrew Tate like constantly. Tate flies to england and finds where the guy lives. Knocks on his door. Guy doesn't even come out and calls the cops.
Online these psychotic ideas have proliferated because there are zero consequences and strong men usually aren’t bickering online they are working or tending to their house or families.
..they aren't men who are physically strong and would hold up well in a fight but may feel shielded from repercussions
I did my part to hold the line and I stepped out of bounds through ignorance from time to time in the physical but I cant stop the wave of trolls in the meta
That’s mindblowing 😮 it makes so much sense but my brain just can’t come up with these explanations.
So true
His suit is pretty cool