FINALLY Starting Therapy, Being a Social Butterfly, Gardening! 🦋✨
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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finneas in the back just nodding along with you is just the cutest thing ever haha
I was looking for thisss I died laughing!! Their relationship is so cute 🥰
HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHH its sooo funny
Yea lil shit 😂 mine does this when I'm on the phone 🤣
& his bouncy hair! hhhhhhh
@@madhuriay3756 no se me ha llegado
Whenever Claudia ends a video it feels like a friend just hung up on me with no context
Because I'm not famous like other singers that's why no one see my singing videos. Just see once❤.......
THIS
So disrespectful
YES OMG YOU PERFECTLY DESCRIBED THE FEELING
Claudia: just speaking about the video
Finneas: *casually nodding in the backround**
Can we all agree that Claudia's editing is next level xx
Because I'm not famous like other singers that's why no one see my singing videos. Just see once❤..
Yeeeeessssss
Truee
Yes but what app/Programm she use
No
Let's just take a moment and appreciate claudia's editing and the effort put to edit this video
WE DO THAT IN EVERY SINGLE VIDEO AND ITS NOT ENOUGH! She is sooooo talented
@@alanabraga4413 FRRRRRRRR !!!!!!
May is Mental Health Awareness Month and seeing you started therapy made my day! As a mental health activist, thank you Claudia for being so open about therapy. You’re not alone!💞
What resources would you recommend for someone interested in starting therapy. I’ve been considering it but don’t know where to start
Omg Claudia, Max Mara is like so popular in Europe and they sell really high quality suits
I LOVE Max Mara!
I was shocked when she said never heard of it yea
I know right!!
I love when Claudia is talking about *lettuce* and Finneas is in the back nodding his head off lol
For some reason your videos are NEVER on my home page. I don’t understand it because I watch quite literally every video you post 😅 Instagram stories have been my way of finding out you have new content these days
omg heyy sahsa
I cleaned out my subscriptions for really the channels that i really love so my Subscriptions tab is a very good way to actually see my fave channels current uploads. Also maybe bell icon?
Same here. There should be a notification on RUclips but no. So, I came from IG story. 😁
turn on post notifications?
Omg saaaame
The way i could hear Claudia talk for hours and never get bored
So where are my people pleasers at!?!? I started therapy 6 months ago and my mindset has changed so much. I was reaching a low point and thought I was never going to be who I was before. But because of it I’m thriving!!! Do it!!!!
I have been a people pleaser as a child and I have never stopped.
I continue to do things for others (that I don’t want to do) just to make THEM happy. I have tried therapy but I continue to feel like a horrible person if I tell someone NO!!
My mom (thank goodness) noticed that I struggled w anxiety and OCD very early on. She put me in therapy right after my tenth birthday and was in therapy for around a year and a half. I'm fourteen now and am so grateful to my mom for putting me in therapy. It is definitely something everyone should try!!
@@wam6465 I still have a tough time saying no to people, but I bring it up with my therapist. I’m not perfect at it because I’m even experiencing burn out currently, but it’s super important to continue to work on those things. Wishing you all the best ❤️
@@alinagarcia6320 I love that your mom noticed and gave you those resources to help your healing journey!
@@annellopez8711 Thank you so much!
I hate that my mood and overall well-being is based on the happiness of the people around me. Therefore, I feel if they are not happy, it is directly related to me. Yes I need a therapist!
Whenever I see people realizing "Hey, Therapy isn't only for people who actively suffer. Maybe I could need that too." I have to smile. My mom is a therapist so I grew up with that knowledge and awareness. And to see people embracing these tools is really great!
Was anyone else jaw dropped when she said she got a max Mara suit but didn’t know what brand that was hahaha
My thoughts on therapy: even if you had a perfect life, well-balanced, best case scenario possible, you will still have an issue that you could work on, because our minds are so vast and it's like a machine, some pieces need fixing every now and then. Also, every issue is important, it's not because you didn't have much trauma in your life that your problems are less important. There are a lot of therapists in the world, you seeking one won't take away from someone who "needs" it. That's the mindset I try to stick to so I can stick to therapy.
finneas snacking in the background is a mood.
Claudia you’re my comfort youtuber 🧍🏾♀️
therapy was honestly the best decision I could have ever made for myself. It improved my own self confidence as well as my relationships with friends and family!!
i love how claudia basically has a whole produce section in her backyard now
It is also called as Cognitive dissonance
When your behaviors arent aligned with your beliefs it produces mental discomfort leading you to saying Yes instead of No to avoid such discomfort.
Seeking help is never a weakness. Im glad influencers like you are open to topics like this.
Claudia is like the older sister I didn’t know I needed
The part of pleasing everyone as a “conflict avoidance”mechanism, I felt that! I am that😥
I start therapy tomorrow and I've been really scared, but this made me feel less anxious hearing about Claudia's first experience .Claudia if you see this, thank you, i love you💕💕
omg claudia! as a psychology student, i’m really happy about every single thing you are realizing about yourself! it’s really important to understand your mind and how it works, it’s gonna be an amazing thing for you 💛
Claudia girl, you could read an old phone book and I’d listen…your presence is so soothing and your voice is so calming like yes girl keep talking 😩😂.
can you address the privileges around therapy? therapy is very expensive and it usually takes going through several therapists to even find the right one. clearly money isn't an issue for you but saying stuff like "take this as your sign to go to therapy" while nonchalantly glamorizing the experience as if it's sooo simple to go is a little tone deaf in today's world/pandemic.
i think she’s just trying to say if it’s an option for you to not self stigmatize and do it
1:52 girl this suit looks PHENOMENAL on you wow
Girl you’ve never heard of maxmara? I’m glad you’re introduced now!
This woman doesn’t even HAVE TO TRY to be pretty she’s just naturally gorgeous
I wish I was this centered in my 20s. I can't believe I'm already 40 and still lost in life
damn
To be honest I think we are all lost in various ways, some less some more ;) Life doesn't come with a manual unfortunately.
@@ewaz23 bible
@@lexie_smith no
@@rosanah.9089 yes
Am I the only person who thinks that Finneas is sometimes really annoying and rude to Claudia?
thank you for talking about therapy so openly it need to be normalised
I love her sm she’s like my comfort person 🫂
Best way to describe her
The tomatoes will need more space for their growth Claudia
I love Claudia's vibe and edits and aesthetic eye but damn, she buys + receives so much stuff - clothes, makeup, skincare, pet stuff, every video has a mini haul. I don't want to be a party pooper, but a lifestyle of this lavishness comes at a price (environmental, ethical). Does anyone really need this much stuff in their life? It feels so excessive but also so normalized in these youtuber/celebrity circles. Looking from the side as a normal ordinary person it's just really strange that people own this many things. Just wanna share my perspective, hope it doesn't come off as hate or unnecessary negativity.
I feel like it honestly comes with the job, Claudia receives many free things because she gets sponsored constantly, which is a big part of her job and income. So obviously from an outsiders perspective and from the viewpoint of someone who is deemed "normal"/mid-lower class like us, it might seem like a lot, but in reality, it's just the lifestyle of someone who is well off with a stable job like Claudia's, so I don't think is unhealthy or excessive, it's just overly comfortable, either way, you can tell that shes very ethical and environmental so that's good, also, we never know if she keeps all the things she receives, she might give them to her friends or something. At the end of the day, it's her life and I think we should just be proud of her success, hell I'd want it to:) also ur opinion is in no way hateful!!
i agree on that there's A LOT OF shopping and just getting things but correct me if I'm wrong, just a few videos ago claudia was organizing her closet and dividing stuff to donate and sell. she said she's trying to do it regularly and finneas's mother is helping her on donating things. so I think there is a circulation of clothes and stuff coming and going out of her house
Max Mara makes such beautiful pieces, surprised you haven't heard of the brand before
are you looking for a petsitter for peaches, because i'm free 😩
More updates on the garden please 😍🪴
omg my heart broke a little when you said you didn't know max mara, am I old now? lmaooo check out their current stuff = very expensive and very goals 😊💛
I've been noticing that you haven't been yourself entirely since idk when... but quite a while. Maybe since you started dating Fineas? And I stopped watching your videos for a while because everything seemed like it HAD to be perfect - you had to be absolutely skinny even though you were okay before you lost weight, you had to be extremely productive during your day, you had to be a good business woman, you had to have the perfect meals, you had to have your whole life planned and so on and it felt kind of fake. Like you weren't trying to be better just for you but to prove to others that your this good, boss ass, perfect woman.
So now that I see you've started therapy I'm really happy and excited for you and I hope it brings great changes in your life.
Just remember Claudia: you DON'T have to be perfect. None of us are.
Finneas is really going hard on those rice cakes & pb
Happy Saturday, Claudia!😊😊😊😊. You are the best and beautiful woman in the world. Funny, fantastic, and brilliant. 10 stars on your famous vlog!⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍. Have fun!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💙💖💖💖💖😊☀😎👍
claudia PLEASE make playlists on spotify that gives you LA vibes PLEASE. i love your taste in music and i really need that
she switched to apple music! but her old spotify is still up
@@allisonkindler oh i didn't know that, thanks
Claudia MaxMara is a high end brand its style is just like saint Laurent and chloé
Let's all just take a moment to appreciate the amazing videos Claudia gives us like I could watch 500 of her videos in a row and still not be bored. They are just that good.
I do not understand why every one is drinking soder with this kind of packaging!!
"Is Aluminium harmful to the environment?
Large parts of both the aquatic and terrestrial ecosystems are affected.In the aquatic environment, aluminium acts as a toxic agent on gill-breathing animals such as fish and invertebrates, by causing loss of plasma- and haemolymph ions leading to osmoregulatory failure."
Eh don’t believe it
Claudia the Gardener 🥬🥦🫑🥑🍃🌿☘️🍀
IM EARLY WOO
It's great that you started therapy but I'm confused cos a few weeks ago you were promoting BetterHelp? So you promoted it without even trying for yourself?
She probably wanted in person sessions ?
@@alecoolove that's fine, I'm more wondering why promote something you have never used yourself
hahah fineas in the background while you talk about the plants :')
claudia's editing never fails to impress she understands the assignment
I can totally relate… I’ve been a people pleaser my whole life… And I avoid conflict at all costs LOL. 😜 It’s exhausting.
I really wanna go to therapy but it’s kinda expensive and I’m too conscious of what other people will think (I’m a psych graduate btw...3 years ago )
You don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to! But I think it's become so normalized in recent years. Also, if you have health insurance you could check to see how much they would cover. You could call them and get a list of mental health counselors that are in-network :)
Claudiaaaa please put the podcast back :(((
Make longer videos because I just feel like watching your videos so much that once I see a new one I go and binge watch an old one 😂😁
Sorry not sorry
I watched this high & Claudia you’ve made me look at myself in a different way. you & I have similar issues. Who’s your therapist?
Thanks for talking about finally going to therapy. I'm someone who's been making excuses to avoid therapy for over 5 years now, and I'm finally starting to reconsider going. Better late than never?
It’s disturbing how much I have the same questions as you have ! When you talk about something (environment, therapy etc) it feels like I’m listening to the voice in my head but it’s out loud 😭😂
Love this video, as always ! ❤️
The way I love Claudia’s vlogs like I can go rewatch so many and never get bored it’s like we’re on FaceTime
Why dont you just plant the plants on the ground (honest question)? Seems like an unnecessary object if you have a garden...
Thier garden is more open and they probably don't wanna plant it on the ground because they have a dog which digs up everything.
you don’t understand how excited i am for this vlog.
Ive never been to therapy and have been wanting to go for a while, therefore, I take this video as my sign! I feel like it would be nice to talk to someone u know. Especially being an only child
Whenever Claudia posts new video it makes me soo happy.. it legit makes my day so much better
Ahey claudia. Just practice saying NO!!! And dont regret it. Its better to say no then to be in a world full of regret.
I wish I could afford therapy 😭 I am praying that God makes it more accessible to me because I have silently suffered with Borderline Personality Disorder for so long. Thank you for spreading more awareness around mental health.
Claudia : A week and a half ako
Ako?
A weaf
Finneas: A week and a half ah no
not finneas imitating you in the back
My day gets better whenever Claudia updates. It's just always a refresher and she inspires me to be a better version of myself
if you have misconceptions about therapy, just remember that there's NO downside to just talking to someone 💕
Except losing money. 🙈
Money is a pretty big barrier
@@aarthemuse6946 maybe some of it is covered by insurance depending on where you live :)
Yeah I have a little problem. Everytime someone says they get therapy on social media I immediately think the person has a big problem and I hate that and I`m like: " wtf why is every person so broken and down and I`m not( because like everybody is getting therapy right now)?". That`s why I`m glad that I watch that video
Just another sunny day 😂
I totally agree and relate with what you said you learned about yourself. I find myself lying or giving fake excuses instead of listening to my own boundaries and saying a simple “no” and telling people how I really feel. It’s a people pleasing thing
I love you Claudia❤️
i was like why was this video so short then i realized it's 12 minutes!! i swear time flies when you're enjoying yourself
the song in the beginning reminds me of TK- all i was thinking bout the whole time lol. therapy is literally my savior & so are my meds for my 7 mental diagnosis. everyday is a battle but i refuse to give up!
Finn checking you out while eating in the background is my favorite thing to watch
I can totally relate w the people pleaser thing tho. It's just difficult to say NO😩
The low rise pants are so ugly. Literally no one would wear pants like that in public, it’s purely to show off your skinny self.... like no
FINNEAS nodding along with Claudia about the lettuce grower is proof he’s becoming a plant dad😊😂.
Yay for therapy! I also highly recommend taking the Enneagram personality test! It’s so helpful to further learn about yourself and understand why you are the way you are and why you do certain things. It’s such a great tool.
Finneas nodding his head in agreement made me laugh so hard 😂
💗💞💖💓💕
Your videos give me motivation to be a better person. I don’t know why but lately I am recognising I am more and more not caring about everything, but your often peaceful videos and you just talking is making me happier. Ilysm
Therapy is the best thing I ever did!!!! Been in for about 2 years and it’s such an amazing journey! Been doing EMDR for bout a year and that has changed everything!
What kind of therapist is she!? General or something more specific? I feel like I’m in the same boat as you emotionally and I don’t even know where to start!
Memory Unlocked: VICTORIA SECRET V-NECKS AHHHHH
The way your vlogs make my day. also, peep finneas aggressively nodding during your talk about your plant bbys and also staring at your butt haha. you guys are precious
There’s nothing wrong with saying no. If you have to talk yourself into saying yes and completely overthink it, then it’s probably not worth doing. Go ahead with saying no if that’s what’s going on. Therapy sounds like an anxiety ridden mess to me.
Very happy for your garden but also since y’all wealthy as hell, highly advocate for you looking in your community for a local farm to buy from. For the poor that’s how we create an economy that’s sustainable
And when I say local I’m talking neighborhood
Lastly look into a CSA as ur garden won’t be enough for green needs but you can support the earth and community by buying in your neighborhood
i still can’t get over how pretty your house looks
Your videos are my safe place
during the entire video i just couldn't get over how good and glowy u look!!
claudia everything that you said every video inpired me so much LOVE UUUU GRIL
But Claudia you should go for a real garden!! I know you would love it!! Just the feeling of growing from earth is the shit!
You so pretty 😻💗 and peaches OMG a model🥺😹❤️❤️
wow. i just realized myself just right now that i do the same thing. i always avoid conflict so instead, i just make up reasons for why i should go do that thing. 😭 okay maybe therapy should be a topic of conversation for me and maybe i should try it out. 💀
Girl, u make *life* feel much better, lov u
3:32 Finneas is da mood right there ahah
Have a nice week everyone!
YAY
MaxMara is an amazing brand (very expensive though)! Very classic and sophisticated, such a good suit!
Also I would love plant updates!
That TMZ intro lolololol