How To Be Outspoken And Confident
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- In this video, you'll learn how to be outspoken and confident.
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Idk if I’m outspoken or rude but I’ll always stand up against something when someone is doing wrong
I absolutely love the tip about active listening. I recently read the book "You're not listening" that teaches exactly this. Active listening has helped me become better at understanding people and slow down to pay attention to them. As someone with ADHD it's often quite difficult for me to spend time listening instead of thinking of the next thing to say. Active listening makes them feel heard and your conversations more meaningful. What I have learned to do at work: I often rephrase what someone just said in my own words after they said it. Force yourself to do this before you comment, and make sure they agree with your rephrasing. This gives them the opportunity to correct any misunderstanding before you dismiss their idea (because you misunderstood it), it also allows them to feel good that their message came through to you and you're actively trying to understand them.
So many people don't do active listening that when you do it, it becomes powerful. No joke people will respect you at work more just for doing this, and it isn't even difficult. You will over time start to be respected as a leader just simply because you listen to people. Sometimes the best charisma is not saying the right thing, but just simply being able to hear the right person.
While this has helped me a lot at work (as a software engineer), unfortunately it hasn't helped me as much in my romantic life. Dating isn't as formulaic. People want to not just be heard but also be admired and attracted when dating.
I appreciate your thoughtful response!, Christopher!
What's your email? Happy to brainstorm with you about your dating life.
This is really Inspiring, it has really boosted my self confidence and self worth.
I really do feel humiliated when I am with others. Thinking that I'm not really good enough, thanks for this eye opener.
I really appreciate it.
More grace
Sorry to hear that!
What's making you feel that way?
I forgot but now i am found again, this video has to be the most on-point on not just growing confidence but understanding people too, great job on the video, really helped me remind myself on my values and attributes! Blessings to all and remember to breathe, and amidst all chaos, remember to stay calm
I appreciate your kind words!
How are things on your end socially?
Dear Mike,
Thank you for your awesome content, I've found some of the best advices about confidence and social interactions on your channel!
I'd just love to make a small suggestion to make your videos even better as I really think you deserve way more views - it would be nice if you could make your background a bit more cheerful, e.g. to put some plants, have more daylight...
I wish you much success with your channel! 💖
I appreciate that!
Thank you for your feedback!
Out of curiosity, what's your biggest struggle socially?
Hey from Kenya....I was really searching for this....soo helpful thank you
You're so welcome!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery raising my self-esteem and not caring what the public we say.....and I believe that am ready to be expressing my self always
@@hopeann6439 That's great to hear!
@@hopeann6439 Have you seen my other video on how to express yourself better verbally?
Hi bro! Nice to see you again!
I hope you remembered me haha!
Was so busy from some time due to the exams...
The result came out good Alhamdulillah! (Like better than I expected)
I'm DEFINITELY seeing a lot of improvement in myself and I was folowing the tips from your videos. I will be honest Though I didn't remember one video at a time, it was rather a collection of videos that I would remember a tip from in my daily life or the time I would need it you know.
Thank you so much!
I remember you for sure!
Glad to hear that you're doing well in school!
Which one was your favorite tip from this video?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery awww thank you!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I still study daily mashAllah and ugh due to slow internet my responses may not be so quick...
Anyways ahhh you made me happy!
May you have MORE success in the future Ameen!
Thank you for the greqt points ❤❤❤
You are so welcome!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
Love this❤
What do u do when you are adding and asking questions but the other person is not asking you anything, just answers your questions?
Try asking more open-ended questions which requires more of an explanation!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery Yes I like that. What to do when they answer my questions but don't participate by asking me anything about me?
azdoglover7 then it's their problem, you might even refer them to Mike's video to boost/improve their social skills 😁😁😁 But be more polite when giving someone advice. Some people find it a little annoying, they get offended or wrong impression that you know too much or are better than them.
@@dogguyful Thanks for you thoughts. You make some good points!
I have so many issues...i make mistakes why talking around people and I don't know how to explain stuffs 🤧
Sorry to hear that!
What have you tried so far to solve this issue?
Tried talking to people but It did not work. I just difficulty expressing myself
@@oreoluwaoyeniyi5951 I'm glad to hear you're trying though!
@@oreoluwaoyeniyi5951 Have you seen my video on how to be more expressive with words and emotions?
Thanks a lot
Hi Myke, I realized a lot of this advice is similar to the advice given bu Dale Carnegie from How to Win Friends and Influence People. Just wondering, did you learn a lot of these social hacks from books such as this?
I'm flattered since it's been decades since I've read the book.
The principles of interacting well with people really don't change so I'm not surprised by your comment.
Hi, since I don't fit your financial or career requirements to work with, is there someone you can refer me to for more individual help. I like what you have to say.
Out of curiosity, what do you do for work?
Also, where are you currently located?