Dear Future Wifey S4, E418 - Guard Your Heart (Danai Maraire)
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- This conversation became extremely personal when today's guest, Danai Maraire, began transparently sharing a heartbreak she experienced years ago. Today's episode deep dives into what it means to "Guard Your Heart."
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I always say that when a married man "hits on you" it is NOT flattering, a compliment, or anything positive. Because what he is really saying to you is, "I can only offer you a piece of me and I think you are (broken, weak, damaged.....etc) enough to accept it."
Preach!!!!
That is SO GOOD
Wow... that's a WORD!!!! Thank you for that!!
And when I think about how we sang all these songs back in the day from Guy and other groups, talking about "you can have a piece of my love... I'm not totally free..." We were speaking into existence things we didn't really even understand!
Wow
Laterrias, I never comment but I have to applaud Danai for her transparency. A man telling you that you’re good enough to have his babies but not good enough to be his wife is a slap in the face. As you said, that’s just confusion and the God we serve does not operate in confusion. Praying that Danai is blessed with a Godly man that is worthy of her heart 💕
Amen and in Jesus' Name. May the pattern of heartbreak break forever by virtue of what Christ did for us. Amen
Amen
Thank you. This is beautiful. And I receive your prayer
@@AbenaAsamoa Amen
So thankful for her sharing this. A lot of women go through this secretly.
This is proof that our stories, even the painful ones, matter and God uses them to teach us wisdom and set others free! Great, great episode!
Another amazing episode! So much of Danai’s story resonated with me. When you have followed all of the rules, had pure intentions, consulted God, checked off all of the boxes and you still get hurt!!!! It’s devastating. I’m still learning how to guard my heart without shutting potential partners down completely. It’s so hard to trust out here in these dating streets because everyone does not have the same heart as you, everyone’s intentions are not pure. Thank u Danai. I feel u.
Yes indeed
@@alishia4433 Man … your ENTIRE COMMENT … sums up how I felt and the sadness and discouragement from feeling that way and not having any answers. I just wanted to get as far away from that time as possible and never think about it or talk about it again. And then Laterras asked me a question about “Guarding my heart….” And it all came out 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣… I am so grateful that what I went through is connecting with so many people who are going through similar struggles in their walk and can hear a woman speak from the heart and be open and vulnerable .. and HOPEFULLY offer some wisdom on what not to do… I feel you too ❤️❤️❤️
@@alishia4433 Same here. With a pure heart, and got hurt!
Wow wow!!! She is telling the TRUTH!!!!!!!!!! Listen ladies and gentlemen guard your heart!!! I had to listen to the podcast twice. There are so many nuggets in her message. Thank you for sharing your journey with us❤️
Thank you for allowing me to 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Sooo good!!!!
Absolutely she was light for married and the single and the in between
This wasn't just for women. She came on here to speak to me as well. God is so good. Always sends you what you need right when you need it. And let me just say this.....bro..that letter you read at the end...woooooo buddy. That touched my heart! I want a connection with my wife like that. Absolutely beautifly spoken my brother 💯🙏🏽
I could not have said it better #dontsettle ‼️
The enemy will fool the very elect in the last days…but stay a fool! #shestillWINS
*DON’T STAY A FOOL*
I love how Latarrius digs really deep and gives light on the type of mate a man needs.
D, she is one of the goats on relationships coaching and counseling. I love to glean from her, such a well of wisdom and insight. Another great episode bro.
@jaybarnett Facts
Thank you Jay .. very kind 🙏🏾
Factsss
I think this was a great reminder that it's important to pay attention to what's actually happening versus the prophecy you may believe is falling on alignment with what "God is telling you". Sometimes we(women) can feel or think we feel something and it's really not God's will no matter how good our discernment might be. I really appreciate the transparency because we get hurt or put in harm's way even when we're trying to do right as she mentioned. People are human and will make mistakes, but guarding our hearts will prevent so much heartache. ♥️
So true! Go by what God says directly to you because He can never lie.
Vau've Davis Amen completely. 🙏
Totally agree...I thought I got a sign from God that a guy was the 1......he turned out to be far from the one let's just say that. I appreciate her transparency because no 1 really talks about this type of false discernment that weakens us spiritually.....I like the story of the Shunamite she used to highlight her point
Yes! I refuse to believe that God is a liar or a malicious trickster, but that we may not always get what He is saying (or isn't saying) right instead.
@@SkegeeAce So True God can NEVER fail us and is not a liar... it's us who misinterprets what we think God said or is saying. HELP us Lord to get out of your way ,so you can do what ONLY you can do.
I’m 32 min into this, and all I hear is manipulation and games from the male this beautiful woman encountered. When I tell you, it is critical for us to know our value and discern the mess when it approaches us. I applaud her for sharing this with the masses.
Yes!!!🎯
Absolutely!
Wow you preached an entire message. ( Discern the mess when it approaches you)
I’ve never heard of her before but when I say I love her personality, transparency and the fact that she puts God first is key. Thank you both for this message. Blessings
Bless you ❤️❤️❤️
I was not raised to be a side piece!! That part 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Girl, you dooooodged a bullet!!!
I believe God was showing you this guy's character: he was not who wanted him to be. He actually was a cheater among other flaws. That was a huge testimony 🙌🏿
I pray that God blesses you 10 fold 🙏🏿
Thank you ☺️
This is one of the best interviews. It got better and better. She hit SOOO much on all levels of heart issues.
Happy you were encouraged ❤️
The tears I cried watching this episode…wow, that’s how you know Holy Spirit all over this! Her transparency, wisdom, and openness is literally a conduit of the healing of God and I’m so grateful I stumbled upon this episode. Thank you both for the grace and strength displayed in this conversation - God bless you!!
God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰
Me too! 😭😭😭😭
The main take away I am getting from this and I really hope everyone get it too is this. Guard your heart. Going back to the title of this episode. Guard it! Let's dig a little deeper about the heart. Really understand where you are. If you're vulnerable, desperate, horny...etc. Those are the issues you will be dealing with. We always connect guarding your heart with external things. Never the things with in us. This is where the issues dwell. "The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?" Jeremiah 17:9
Powerful scripture.
This episode took a turn I did not expect! I thought this was going to be the typical “Guard your heart cuz folks out here are playing games and you don’t wanna get got”, but to address this in the scenario of being in love with someone who is in love with you but is unavailable/unhealthy is SO important! I thank you SO much for your transparency! This is exactly what I needed because I went through something highly similar with someone who just became my ex, so many nuggets and while I will always appreciate and cherish the fact that we were in love, it also is a testament to show that you can’t just be in love, you have to be healthy and whole enough to make good despite and stand on them. Without that, love will not last-it cannot last. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re with someone who will know how to be a healthy partner for the long haul. I had to learn that guarding your heart also means not allowing your feelings to get in the way of doing what’s right by others and yourself. Thank you Danai! ♥️
"Guard your heart," such an informal episode... Danai was so raw and transparent. I pray that God blesses her with her Kingdom spouse, what a ministry that will be!!!
This is why my “block, delete” game is strong. At the first 🚩… don’t pass go, don’t collect $200. Bye bye sir!
Same here👉🏾 ain’t nobody got time for that🤨
Okaaay! Period lol
Me. All day. I also rely heavily on discernment. If something tingles in my spirit, I'm believing it. I no longer need to understand it.
I agree.
@@Ghe608 Wow!! And this is not an isolated occurrence.
I can totally relate to all that you have shared! I'm asking the same questions and still waiting for the answers. It can be quite heartbreaking and confusing when you believe you're doing the right things and the floor drops from underneath you.
Ma’am! 😂😂😂 truer words were never spoken
Bring deliverance Lord!
Me too!
"I've always tried to give away what I needed!"🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I was out here at one time thinking, "Well, I wouldn't do folks dirty, surely they will treat me the same." Oh, I had to learn that lesson...was in remedial classes a few times too.🤦🏽♀️😢🤣.
Tell the truth
Chillld ain’t that the truth.
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Thank you, Danai, for being real with your experience. The enemy of our souls will use people that we love to lure us away from the purposes of God. And God will use experiences like yours to clean out the things that are hindering us as we walk with Him! May we all listen, learn, and gain understanding that we are in a war for our souls and for the purposes of God to be manifested in our lives. Bravo to this message!
Wow! I cannot believe how much this story mirrors my own! Almost every detail was the same, including being ghosted only to find out later he married someone else. The pain of that heart break was devastating. God brought me through it, and at the same time revealed so many areas of my life that were broken and needed healing. I'm still hopeful that God will bring love to me again. This time I will be ready. I will guard my heart, but I'm also willing to share it with the right man. Great episode!!
Amen 🙏
Tears…”I told you I was okay” When people come and unexpectedly disrupt your heart and then disappoint you.
That part 😢
GOD literally spoke to her and through her, she didn’t know she was already prepared to speak to so many people in similar situations 🙏❤️😍
Wow!!! Whew!!! This was a power episode!!! Laterras, this episode was "LIT"...Woman we have to be intentional in dating and allowing men to pursue us.
She said "Men assign roles we haven't auditioned for". BUT, when we find out what that role is we first have an obligation to God to protect our relationship with God to walk away, no matter how hard it may be. I have to share this with my sisters! I'm with the therapist, we have to modify our questionnaire with men. I totally appreciate her transparency and willingness to share! Healing and being free from bondage is going to come out of this episode for so many people! Laterras your podcast just keeps getting better with each episode. I'm having a spiritual feast! My spirit is being well fed. Powerful episode!! The word of God is alive and exerts power!
I love her humor, transparency, confidence, and beauty! "You don't get anything"- GEM!! Great episode!
Bless you Love ❤️
Her testimony, sounded like I was speaking out loud in my healing.. Such a blessing to hear this podcast tonight. .... Thank you
It’s the transparency for me; she definitely understood the assignment! Powerful truth all through this video…whewwwwww! I’ve been following BlackMarriageMovement page for a while and it makes me happy and sad at the same time!
Me too. Happy and sad at the same time 🥰🥰🥰
Another incredible episode, showing the importance of being so careful when others come to us for spiritual guidance.
I have been following these Dear Future Wifey Podcasts for almost four months now and each time I watch, it's like getting free Relationship Counseling. EVERY Podcasts I've watched thus far, there has been something said by both Laterras and his guests that has impacted me and ministered to me on a personal level. And 90% of the Guests I'd never even heard of before until I started watching these Podcasts. So glad I started watching! I loved listening to this conversation and was so impressed by this lady because she was reading my mail in describing the personal experiences she'd had. Loved this!
I’m not sure how I missed this amazing episode.😮 OMG! Danai so clearly and articulately described how she felt to believe she had found love God’s way then after falling for this man she discovered that when he disappeared he married someone else! My God!! The part where it felt like the Shulamite woman who said, I’m cool with not having a son so prophet , No thanks and then she has a son who dies. Having love to die or a dream to die when you we’re walking closely with God is so undoing to the spirit, soul and mind! Lord I pray that you bless 10 times, Danai and others who heard this amazing story and felt like we could not go on! Lord give us Victory as you define it, In Jesus Name!!❤❤️🩹🙏🏾
Loved her transparency!! This is so relatable for so many of us and we don’t talk about it.
Myyyyyyy goodness!!! A lot of what she was talking about resonated so deeply. Guard your heart is hands down one of my favorite episodes so far. 💜🙌🏾
Yesssss
Guarding your heart is literally guarding where God resides in us. Protecting our relationship with God from the pitfalls ❤❤❤
I came from a broken home with a father who did not know how to teach his children fundamental things such as protecting our hearts , life has been trial and error , I so guard my heart , that I let none get through , I reserve that love,
Trust is the no 1 thing and I truly trust none , I allow god to totally guide my footsteps , something I did not do before .
A great guest wonderful lady , transparent , wise but with a great sense of humour enjoyed .
Laterras #Dearwifey# bless
The whole part about sin’s consequences and how whatever we’re capable of we put in people is SO true!!! That is truth! I’ve seen that before and it makes perfect sense now.
The letter to your future wifey , made me cry , I PRAY THAT YOU MEET THE WOMEN THAT GOD HAS FOR YOU , THIS PODCAST HAS BEEN A BLESSING TO ME IN MY Brokenness , I was married to a narcissist for 8 year
I so relate to her story. When you are in a peaceful place and someone steps in to disturb your peace.
36:00 minutes in and I’m hooked on this conversation. This is so relatable. Thankful for this episode today. ❤️
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This was so good!!! I’ve had an experience where I was believing God and ended up with someone who was horrible. It made me also doubt my ability to hear God. It shook my hope. This podcast blessed my heart. Thank you for sharing!
Bless you love ❤️
Oh man, the story of Elisha and Shunammite woman got me. 🥹 Danai, Praying that you receive your promise from God soon 🙏🏿
Guard our heart & mind, as the mind can create a whole illusion of false reality based on what we believe to be true. Much respect for the openness & transparency your guest Danai shared as there is always value in a person's experiences. The wisdom is always found in the lesson. "Give what you are hoping to receive", great message & that takes faith. I pray your guest finds the one God has equally yoked for her as she walks in her purpose. The letter was poetic & so well versed. May you both find the desires of your heart. Another great podcast. It was so important you mentioned what is the woman's role in partaking in an affair, as the accountability is on both parties. Well said. Also, emotional affairs happen in the mind before the physical act itself. Our thoughts create our reality.
“I’ve always tried to give away what I needed” Definitely can resonate with that statement.
" You don't have to believe people BUT you have to believe God!" She's so articulate and well versed❤❤
Whewwww, "Guarding your heart is where God lives"❤❤
This conversation is giving me chills. I can relate to her testimony. Wow, God I know you led me here.
Totally agree with her about society being oversexed as to much emphasis is placed on it without fully understanding the dangers it can bring.
Wow! Her story is my story as well. So glad that she kept it real and transparent because alot of Christians do not. Loved this episode so much! 🖤
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In regards to guarding your heart. I seriously made a quality decision to do so. This was hard to listen to because so many times women commit there love to a man who doesn’t desire this type of loyalty and consideration. My heart went out to her because from the outside looking in I could see the red flags and games being played.
This makes me automatically want to keep to myself in these dating streets but I know better, so I can do better now. Thank you for being so transparent Dania❤
You will be chosen by a righteous man of God in these dating streets🥰
I can listen to her speak all day. Her transparency was so needed and appreciated. She's the coach I needed when I had couple's counseling.
This episode spoke to my heart. I felt her heartache because it’s similar to mine. I pray that she receive her heart’s desires.
My 1st tear was when she recited the Shunamite Woman “strength”, I don’t know man of God how you were managing but when you read your “wifey” letter - I put 2 & 2 together, how she just so happened to be in LA as you. I’m sorry but I need you to go through this episode you just did with this woman & watch the amazing, electrifying chemistry between you 2.
To God be the Glory😇🙏🏽
I loved her, I love you & my healing can begin. Intentional.
Ms Danai is telling my story!! Broken, bitter angry with God when my marriage (that started as an affair) fell apart. I remember telling the lord “I’m done with you! I did everything you told me to, I was a great wife to this man that I could never understand why he wouldn’t trust me! I worked extra hard to make sure he never had a reason to question me and this is what I get? “ The lord gently said to me, “what does not believing in Me look like? Where are you going to go?” I could genuinely imagine Him giggling at me while I had my tantrum 😂😂. No matter what happens in life, it has no meaning without God. We were created by Him and for Him!!! ❤
By far one of THE BEST people you've had on your podcast. I can so relate to everything this woman said. Her truth and honesty and her transparency is truly truly appreciated. God bless this woman God has so much great things in store for her and I'm believing for my miracles as well. I so thank you for having a podcast like this it's truly special ❤️
❤️❤️❤️ bless you love ❤️
Love to see people of Zimbabwean heritage!!!!!
Love the content.
I can relate, they are representing us very well..
I know right!
Well represented indeed
Yes yes Zimbabwean Godly woman
I got goosebumps the moment I saw her name 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
A man isn’t going to be in love with you, but marry another woman. Even if he was using the other woman for financial gain, if he truly loved you he wouldn’t even gamble you even for her money & give another man a chance to love u. He was playing games. I loved her transparency.
Respectfully … I allow men to speak about that and the men disagree with you. [The pastor I spoke with disagreed. The men I have spoken with since then have disagreed and even Laterras - if you watch what he said after - disagreed.] I am referring to your comment “a man isn’t going to be in love with you and marry another woman.” MEN ACTUALLY DO THIS. 🤓 The reality is, we want things to be “clean cut” and “simple” and trust I wanted that too, but things are not always that simple. When we are being honest … Also I am not saying this was my case I am talking about the principal [and it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with money - as your comment implied. ] Anyway,I thank you for your comment.
@@neliswajokweni5872 That would have answered it for me IF I were approaching this scenario “in the natural.” But I wasn’t. God interrupted my natural process and reasoning with a “spiritual quest” that complicated things. That was the purpose of sharing about the Shunamite woman. Anyway I appreciate the feedback ❤️
Guarding your heart. The part of our heart we want to give to someone, doesn’t belong to them, but to God.
I love the transparency! These are the testimonies and humanity that are needed to help people get free. 🙌🏾♥️
That's exactly what I told her.
Thank you both 🙏🏾
This is very powerful! She said this was long ago but the way she talks about it means she never got over it and never dealt with it. This story sounds like it just happened a year ago but when she said a long time ago ooouuu y all we need to heal!!!! We need to heal y all 😢. I loved this episode❤❤❤
I’m loving this guard your mind and heart series! My new prayers I pray daily now! Thank you for this Laterras! Always on point!
Thank you, Queen.
This gets better with each new episode.
Genuinely, I think all this information should be collated from every episode starting at season one and put into a book or something. Imagine these principles being taught in schools or parents using them to guide their children. There's a lot of wealth here. Praise God and thank you for letting Him use you as His vessels.
God bless ❤️
the part i really loved and respected was wen she said that when she saw that text, everything in her wanted to go, but she did not...Ladies just because our bodies and hearts want something does not mean that we have to go after it. stay strong. Think about the wife, especially when you know that you want to be 'the wife' to someone else and you would want that side chick to respect your existence and stay away from your man!!!
Guard your Heart!! We as women love hard and it’s our nature to give so it’s really upsetting that some of us have had to be heart broken to Guard our Hearts! I was in a situation where I allowed a man in my life that was legally separated and awaiting to be divorced and I trusted him that he was going to following through with his situation well after giving my heart and really letting my guard down divorce didn’t happened!! So now I will guard my heart and pray that I don’t miss out of a blessing from guarding my heart!! Thank you both for this episode i really love gaining all the knowledge on these platforms
That almost happened to me! He lied and said he was divorced, but my spirit couldn't rest so I straight up asked him, "Are you still married?" and then he broke down and said he was just separated. I talked to him for a month after that after initially reading him the riot act and ignoring him for a week, but I just couldn't trust him. I had to cut him off.
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I feel this woman on so many levels. She is telling MY story! Our stories are quite similar in the fact that I fell in love with a man (who I felt was my best friend) years prior to him getting engaged to someone else, in which I found out through my girl best friend. I completely understand the thoughts, feelings and emotions that she expresses in her testimony. It has been such a relief and validation to me to know that in my experience in the 3 1/2-4 years this situation unfolded, I felt the validation in that I wasn’t crazy after all!! Also like her I wasn’t very vocal at all about my true feelings about him in attempts to guard my heart. I’ll be honest and say I was terrified to tell him but I finally did at the time he was in a relationship with this woman (prior to his engagement). Since then there have been countless “kismet” scenarios , such as unplanned color coordination etc., between he and I that I’ve paid close attention to and am sure he probably hasn’t noticed. He’s no longer engaged and at this time I’ve decided to wait for the man God has ordained for me. I could go on and on… its just crazy… my mind is completely blown!
Hey Stephanie … I feel you. Keep praying for your husband and remember to guard your heart against all counterfeits
Same here...
Thank God for continuously protecting us even if it hurts
This touched me so deeply, thank you for your transparency woman of God.
Thank you for your kind words
I’m blessed by this. Thank you Danai for sharing your experience, strength and hope! Thank you Latteras for holding this space ❤️🩹✨🙏🏽
What a healing episode 😭. So many people get caught in these sticky situations but thank God that God is who He is.He is gracious🙏🏾.
I have heard someone say check to see if this person is your assignment, friend or can be a possibility first. I have heard someone say ladies check your emotions at all times. This was good because we can do all of the checking ourselves, God already knows how everything is going to play out. God uses our stories to perfect everything concerning us, for His Glory.
That’s the thing. N my eyes I did everything right and I still lost. So it didn’t make any sense and that’s why it was so heartbreaking for me.
@@blackmarriagemovement1812 I totally understand and have been there, recently actually with a now friend. I found out that through our friendship that God is teaching me how to guard my heart and not be lead away by emotions. I am also learning someone can be everything in the natural, if they can't cover you in the spirit you can be just along for the ride. Thank you for being transparent your story is truly a testimony of healing from then, to now and to come.
This episode was such a GOD MOVEMENT. The exposed beauty of this content was such a breath of fresh air for me. I am breathing clearer now. Being honest with yourself through a hurt, a process, and a journey while staying the course, even if it takes time, is courageous. She went through this to be a beacon of hope for other women and Men as well. Thank you Laterras for your continued transparency and focus on this mission. I appreciate you!
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“Guarding your heart is guarding where God resides in us.” Come through, Laterras. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Wow Danai... I love your transparency and resignate with you on so many levels with this experience. You took 7 yrs.. I took about 6. I always say don't awaken what sleeps in me without the intentions to keep me company. Great episode!
Mannnnnnn listen!!! 😂😂😂 Do not awaken love before it’s time! I lived in that scripture for a while. You hear me? 😂😂😂
@@blackmarriagemovement1812 Yes...I do! ☺️
God is not the author of confusion. God is not like man that He should lie. He hastens His Word to perform it. And, I can go on and on. Sis, your story is still being written so I'll keep my thoughts to myself regarding the love whom you loved.
I do appreciate the transparency. Great episode.
Danai thank you for your transparency, your truth, and your integrity. I do believe as a woman it is my duty to hold a man responsible and I do understand that a lot of us women did not have anyone to coach us as we were growing up and unfortunately we’ve stub our toes over and maybe over again before getting the lesson. Thanks to Leterras for this platform and for all the life lessons it has provided. ❤️
I have fallen in love with this podcast! Every episode I have watched has blessed me! 🙏🏽 This is so much of what I needed for this season of my life! As you always say, “ God is so intentional!”💜
I love to hear people who really know spiritual Truth about the heart. They see it beyond the physical vessel! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Danai is a beautiful name. Know one could have delivered this message like you. You’re personality and transparency was well received. The older I get ; the more I understand women. Being married is a human experience we only get once. I’m learning so much from this podcast. And my healing has helped me look at women totally different. Thank so much for sharing your journey Danai.
Thank you Kintu. The name “Danai” actually means “to love one another,” or “go ahead and love one another.” It’s a Shona name from the people of Zimbabwe. God bless you on your journey … and bless your marriage. Never stop learning and growing!
@@blackmarriagemovement1812 I am so happy to have bumped into this video today Danai and coming from A Zimbabwean like me. I was asking myself, Ndezverudzi here? You told the same experienceas mine to the T. I had the 4am calls, showing up at my gate at night drunk few days after his wedding telling me he made a mistake. But in our culture you know what we go through till we walk down the aisle.. I called it BS and it took me to recently relocate to another continent for him to get the hint that i am not ineterested in being a side piece. He was persistent for 6 years and by the grace of God i avoided an affair. I am a wife in waiting not a side chick. Thank you so much for sharing and validating to me that there is nothing special there especially when you are still hoping for marriage. I think one day i will write a book lol i have so many stories.
I really love her ability to be transparent, express her true story, and such painful experiences.❤❤❤ God is using her!!
OMG this was an amazing story I myself went through something similar about five years ago and I'm hoping one day my heart will heal from it. She's so vulnerable and that takes a lot of strength she's so real and authentic not to mention amazingly gracious. Most people told me in that scenario to Follow my heart, but when I went to church that Sunday during the pastors sermon he actually talked about Sometimes you can't follow your heart, and this is when I knew to walk away.
This woman spoke to me in some of the things she said....When she said I didn't ask for anything, but it showed up anyway and she was disappointed and hurt when it didn't work out. I've been there too many times. Also when she said love softens hearts....
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This was sooooo good!!! My gosh...I even had to fight back the tears....especially when Danai said "give what you want to get"...in all honesty...I stopped doing that because of hurt. So now I ask God to "guard my heart" for safety. My God....this was soo good ..
Best advice ever! When you find out they're married... RUN!!!! The hardest thing to get over is when you fall in love and then find out they're married etc. And you have to just turn off your heart. The most vulnerable and deepest hurt to get over.... and the man is never held accountable... the finger is always pointed at the woman just like in the bible where they came for the woman who was "caught in the act" even though it takes two to tango! Where are your accusers? He who is without sin cast the first stone. - Thank you so much for sharing your story. Thank you!
I Thank God for using this guest to comfort and confirm me of why He has been taking me through this journey to be also a light for other women in darkness and also to empty me of things and attitudes that are not pleading to God in order to be completely healed , whole and entirely available to the husband that He has for me
This was good!
I think so many women can learn and pull from the gems 💎 she dropped.
We say, “hurt people hurt people”
But I think broken people break people.
I use to feel that I “love hard” and one lesson God gave me from that (after heartbreak 💔 of course)
Was that often we are too busy loving people harder than we love Him.
That’s the disconnect because He wants to be our FIRST love, not our only love but our first meaning we don’t love nothing or nobody greater than we love Him.
This episode has got to be my favourite. Wow Danai, thank you so much for being transparent and open and sharing this experience. There is so much that you shared here that was so helpful. The pain and struggle is real. There were so many gems in your story that was so helpful to me. Especially as a God fearing person who wants to do right.
When Danai said" God don't owe me NOTHING and I've always try to give away what I need", I almost ran!!!! That is soooo powerful and God doesn't owe us, but HE is our provider and sustained in all things!! HALLELUJAH 🙌🏾 Great interview Laterras, She had alot to share but it was what we needed and it came and gave what was a Word for so many going through 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Bless you both💕👋🏾👋🏾🙏🏾
Amen
Bless you ❤️❤️❤️
I love her voice, energy, and communication style. She is definitely the one to convey this message...very caring and persuasive.
So much truth, transparency, and "me too" moments in this episode. Very appreciated. 💜
Loved, loved this episode, no she did not share to much, she shared just right!! Thanyyou Mighty Wimen of God. I have been challenged and changed!!
Keep ministering Latteras, God Bless You.
What I do know is when I pray for people that I honestly cannot stand or understand in that season, it helps my heart not grow bitter roots! The prayer is for us more than them. Just my experience. This interview was GOLD! I’m late to the party but in time for where I am.
Shuu. I second that sentence, "Danai, you have a gift". May God continue to use you to bless, mend, heal, love his broken people. I listened to this now and the emotions I felt are out of this world. Honestly downloading this session so that I revisit it every now and again just to remind myself about what you guys spoke about in this episode. Thank you, so much. May God truly bless you.
Bless you love ❤️
WOW!!! That’s all I can say. I felt every word she said. ❤️🙏🏽
Transparency 📌. This podcast will forever be my favorite. I like how sincere she is. Loved every bit of it. God uses our situations and makes things beautiful. Look at her healing people now.
The truth is that your discernment is sharpened as you continue to guard your heart. Thank you Danai and Laterras
I needed this message more than I thought I did!! Thank you Danai, your word has changed my life, my mind, and my heart!
I love her personality and this interview was so freeing
Danai gave a good interview. I empathize because I've been there. I've felt like God owed me a husband which was arrogance because He already gave His Son. I felt her pain in wanting to be a mother. I'm glad she didn't give in. I've been there wanting someone so bad when they awaken that desire, you think you hear God that this man is the one. I agree with Danai that he led her on before he got married. No man who is into to you would act like she's bothering him. It should have been over then when she picked up on the weird vibes. For me that is a major subtle red flag that women over look. I'm sure he had 2 women at the same time. I would describe this man differently. Number 1: He appeared to have checked these boxes but he ghosted her which made him a liar and a coward. 2. He got married and emotionally cheated with her which makes him cruel to know how he treated her but still had the nerve to manipulate her feelings in her weakness. My opinion, he never loved her because my personal opinion, a man does not let a good woman go. He does not know what love is. This "man" didn't know what masculine and feminine energy was. I disagree that he had favor and influence. He just love bombed her with crumbs because he knew her feelings. He was merely a charming manipulator. He "claimed" he didn't know the difference between masculinity and femininity. That's because he didn't want to know. Him knowing would hold him accountable. He may have had status and money but he was a weak broken feminine man. At the end of the day, Scripture says God is not the author of confusion and he brought so much confusion and chaos. We have to know our value and self worth enough when a man is out of order like this guy was, his drunken or sober compliments are insults and he does not deserve call my personal phone at disrespectful hours or any hour to talk about anything. I'm so glad she didn't give in to him. He tried it but she came out, thank God.
Great Interview. Thank you Laterras! Danai is on point. Everything she spoke at the end is THE TRUTH. I sadly was involved with a married man and it was very bad. Everything she said was correct. 1- Getting myself out was one of the hardest things I have ever done. 2- I had to get the help of a therapist. 3- While I was walking away it was one step forward, 2 steps back, but eventually I was able to walk all the way out. Getting involved with people who are in a relationship, much less married, is such a waste of time. I thank God that he helped me break free from those curses and change my life. Please don`t sell yourself for less than you are worth by being with someone who is in a relationship.
Thank you Danai for your transparency. You have opened my heart to heal❤.
Ps: That letter at the end LORD!!!!!
Thank you for your transparency Danai I so understand your story. I wish I had women like you in my life.
“Run all the way down the dock and dive in” GREAT analogy!
This man said “let me kiss your heart” wooo Jesus… I felt that one… another amazing episode… authentic, vulnerable and open the guest yields the best episodes. Another statement was regarding legitimacy. The holy spirit said I am worthy of legitimacy in relationship. Awww… Thank you both.
This is real talk!!!! Gratitude for being vulnerable and open enough to share.
Thank you for listening and providing a safe space to share 🙏🏾