INFERTILITY AND BARRENNESS - The Struggle of Childlessness In Marriage
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
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We hope everyone is doing great. Today we have a beautiful guest, Jassy K. Ebwanyu, joining us. Jassy is an author of “Any Day Now”, a book that takes you on a personal journey of her longing for a child. It tackles the struggles one goes through due to barrenness and infertility.
Share your story with us. Are you struggling to find a child yourself? How do you think society should change their attitude and over involvement in childless marriages?
Just like Jassy said, we encourage you to find peace within you. A child does not define who you are. We encourage everyone to seriously consider the feelings of childless wives... it’s only a matter of time until they too become mothers.
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Oh just wait and see how perfect God's timing is Justin. You will be blessed beyond words.
True...God is faithful and his timing is the best. The world will always say contrary
I agree
Yes very true God timing is perfect time.if God remembered me and now I got a beautiful baby gal .He will surely remember you too.
Your ninja from Kenya is here..💖
Indeed Ann
Jassy don’t lose hope, God’s timing is the best. I waited for nine years but God blessed me with triplets two beautiful girls and one
Our God is actually more than able. He will surprise you dear Jassy
Wawo this is powerful may God bless those angels
Amen sister
Clomid
That's amazing such an encouragement to other's. Was this spontaneous or did u recieve medical help as well?
I still believe we shouldn't even ask when r u getting pregnant let the women be. They have their own struggles
Oba the episode should have been titled waiting / believing God for a Child. . Because this Beautiful guest is neither Barren nor infertile. And not everyone that is waiting has that diagnosis. It is painful to have that label placed on you. Thanks for the Beautiful Episode. Please bring her back when her baby arrives any day now♡. Standing with her in prayer.
Thank you
Infertility is defined as the inability to conceive and have children after 6 months or more of regular, uninterrupted, unprotected sex between two people of reproductive age. It can be primary or secondary.
Pliz Lord, the way you gave me a child of my own when I couldn't believe it that I could, father bless Jassy with a child and bless us with that number of children we long for. Let your will be done in our lives
Amen Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
amen
The women of Uganda are beautiful! Chocolate skin is so beautiful.
Right? All of these ladies are flawless. 😍
I would say all African women are flawless 😊😍
Thank you love 🥰
@@marriageministrymotherhood2761 😂😂😂😂😂
@@marriageministrymotherhood2761 lol 🤣
I am jamaican, and what Jesse saying about Africans are similar to how jamaicans look at things too
Yup and Haitians
The lesson I have learnt is to have a man who truly loves you not just a rich man coz he will always be there for you no matter what. Did you hear her say her man asked her who is asking you for a child?❤️
Wawooooo.....she is blessed to have such a very understanding man..
My dear human beings will always be human beings , the time I took looking for a baby at first my husband was the best ,he used to tell me baby me am not on pressure God will bless us one day , deep inside I could wawo God u blessed me a best husband who could stand with me amidst my childreness but u can't trust human beings only God can be trusted coz one day he lost hope I think also pressure from his family and friends and started speaking negatively so yo eyes should be on God not on human beings dear coz for them they change within a minute .
You know??👌
Let's not ignore the fact that Jassy has a beautiful crown(natural hair).
So beautiful
her mane is to die for
I look forward to achieving my hair goals soon.
Did Jassy eventually get pregnant anyone know?
Jassy was my boss ..but she is such akind woman trust me God has smthg good for u en He will not only give u achild but children en grands
Jessy, l didn't have a child for 12 years after marriage. Infact l had my first child at 37. Before this, my husband and l had reached a point where we were resigned to living our life without a child. I can assure you that those 12 years were the best years of our marriage.
Let those who are struggling with childlessness remember that this is the one thing that ONLY GOD will do. And he will do it at HIS time. And if HE chooses not to, be peaceful. God is at work Jessy. My heart goes out to you. And my friend, you are soooo young and beautiful.
I am glad God blessed you. Stay blessed
The people who keep asking and giving unwanted advice irritate me the most.
African culture is whack..
@@kadzo6614 There's aspects of it that are so unproductive. Some things are no ones business
Africans
Hummmm
American culture is like this too, as soon as you get married people start asking.
Jassy, my elder sister waited for six years and God bless her with quadruplets. Jassy we are a miracle working God. You will get children in Jesus name. Hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪
Just listening to such stories makes me repent to Our God. because initially I was soo disappointed at the fact that I was pregnant with my amazing son who is now 10 months because I was single and also i took contraceptive pills that time and so was sure i was safe, But GOD had placed in my womb an amazing baby who i cant stop thanking GOD for. May GOD Lift your head sister and bless your womb.
Jassy as a Christian, you know that God is the one that makes children. That should be your number one reasoning. God set every time of your life. He will do what He will in His own time. Celebrate this time with your husband. Be blessed
This is a very interesting to me. I’m a 27 American who doesn’t want kids, see women who want but can’t have them is heart wrenching.
However Not being able to bare children shouldn’t be the end, you’re still a woman. Make the best of life, don’t dwell. If it’s meant to happen trust that it will.
I don’t think children is connected to my womanhood, it is something I can take on if I want but it doesn’t define who I am.
Absolutely right! Sure, having childrennif you want them is great hut if you can't; it's not the end. So vert many children in Africa & all over the world are in need of a family....you can adopt if not naturally. You're still a wife, a woman, valuable if you can't produce children ladies. You still cook, clean, are a helpmeet to your husband. You are still great!
Well said 👌🏾
21 years infertility and by the grace of God it is a blessing to accept it now and still be happy 😊
God is still seated on his throne..He is still in control and we will keep trusting him for the best
@@atuhweraclaire5873 Amen.TY 🙏🏿💚😊
This episode's topic is synonymous to the common, 'when are you getting married?' especially if you are a lady at a certain age or if you have had a child.
Exactly...very annoying.
This is a good and interesting conversation. As a young woman who lost her ability to carry a child, I believe we have to stop equating our womanwood with having children. We are more. Life will happen and when life chooses us we have to learn to accept that it is not our fault. It is ok and we will be okay.
Thank you. People equate marriage and children to womanhood as if being single and childless makes you less of a woman
Nñnnñ
Psalm 113 says that He (God) settles the barren woman in her home as a happy mother of children. It shall come to pass.
Amen🌹🙏🏿
Amen 🙏🏿
It’s been 3.5 years for my husband I and we are still trying. But I’m believing that all things truly do work for our good because we love Yah (God). I did use contraceptions for 2 months and then stopped. Then a few months after that I was diagnosed with PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome or infertility in other words). It’s been hard but I am truly trusting and believing the Most High now. I feel when you say that you’ve gotten a job, then the husband and then the only thing you’re missing is your child. Then seeing people who have “oops” pregnancies and some who admit they aren’t ready for a child, meanwhile, you who are married and sitting in the seat of hot desire for one aren’t able to produce. We are daughters of Sarah and Hannah. Even though it is hard to see it happening now, Abba is faithful. Love you all very much and looking forward to hearing good news some day from you all.
I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing my fibroids and
Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroids I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, blocked fallopian tubes Ovarian Cysts, pile, Crohns and all other type of diseases, cancer, Get lost period back, stop period pain, Email :
dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number:+2349033505260
I went to church with Jassy, she is such a lively lovely person you would never guess her struggles. I am thankful to God for her continued positive attitude. Children are a gift from God. We should stop asking people why they don't have them.
Jassy my sister, God has his ways. I too have fasted and prayed for the fruit of the womb but nothing has happened. It's 9 years now and the money I have spent could buy me a house. Am blessed my husband is with me in this.
@Mercy Mensah Amen
I feel the pain of expensive treatments.infertility drains
The worst happened to me my husband married while still married to me - His wife gave him his child he desperately wanted & I remarried & live a happy life with my husband- No stress nobody asking me questions... l deal with my childlessness - My heart goes out for the women who have to go through this - who feels it knows it💗
❤
Story of my life. Thankfully God came through for me miraculously. 3 beautiful babies now and still counting ! The joy victory brings made me forget who said what. God is so faithful.
Ohooo my God.....I don't know how I landed here but am grateful that at last I have found a person going through the same pain like me ...The best thing I treasure most is my hubby who doesn't put me on pressure to have a child but the problem is, the public is driving me crazy 😜 🤪 🎶 🙃to the extent that I had to move to USA where having no child is a normal thing not like in Uganda.
Well said people can't fr one second mind their bizness
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I had a miscarriage with my husband a long time ago. It was the worst thing we’ve ever experienced. Here we are now 6 kids. I’m done! I love my babies!!! 5 girls 1 boy
It's me MamaBear
I can relate because I had a missed miscarriage beginning of this year but I'm now pregnant again with my 3rd baby. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
I've had 5 pregnancies. my second pregnancy ... She's 13 but I've had so many losses that you just keep moving. Yes it hurts.. But grieve and keep going. 😊
This is Beautiful Jassy, I still remember the day i sat with you in church and you gave me courage
Thank you for this. I marry late in age and then struggling with fibroid, at the time I didn't know that was what causing the I fertility until 4 yrs into marriage I started having heavy periods that lasted longer than usual, went to the Gynae and she was more concerned about getting me pregnant that she overlooked the fact that the fibroids may have to be taken care of before trying. I changed gyane who said this problem need to fix before pregnancy can happen because it is huge, I have to do surgery, surgery date was set but covid threw it all off. I am now 40 yrs old and people who I know and even those whom I'm just meeting kept asking where is our child I got depressed over it until my husband said, we know what our issue is, they don't know and it doesn't have to be their business to know, if it is God's will for us to have a child, it will happen if it's not his will, we praise him none the less because he sees the future.
You will be okay. I know others know your position who gave birth. You will be okay.
God bless! May you be sustained, healed, provided for and made uber prosperous in all your efforts. I call you Mama God Has UberBlessed Plenty!
I have randomly come across this & I guess it was for a reason. This is my Prayer 🙏🏾.May God bring you back next year on that same set this time around with a testimony of a Child or Children. AMEN 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen!
Amen
Amen
In Jesus name Amen
Seriously yo husband is very blessed to have a wife of yo character.... Our God is a faithful, he will bless u in his own time and is the best.... "trust God and leave the consequences to him"
Her words are so comforting....
After my struggles with infertility for 8 years, I never never ask anyone when will you have kids. It’s a sensitive topic and we should learn to mind our business. Some women and couples maybe doesn’t want children, some I fertile, whatever the reason is, it’s not our place to ask or bring the topic up unless that person brings it up.
I’m absolutely blown away by your faith in God. He is definitely using you for His glory because you have such eloquence and peace about the wait for a child and God’s will and His timing and His planning your child not only for your pleasure, but for His glory and His plan for generations to come. I’m encouraged to keep waiting in peace, fulfillment and serving the Lord just as you are my sister. Let’s rejoice now for the gift God has already blessed us with, but just hasn’t been delivered yet...beautiful babies will surely come Jassy 😇
Thank you for your story. I live in Australia and in my family I'm the only one that can't fall pregnant. I hate going to family functions now as I'm 31. My husband has two children from a previous marriage so for me they are my children.
Women are so strong. May God bless you all, such an encouraging talk.
This is beautiful content- a brilliant thought-provoking conversation, sisters. I appreciate Jassy's personal perspective and transparency. She said that God will implant a child in her womb for His name and glory!!! 🙏🏾, yes sis... Hannah Warrior... Gwan.. Rooting for you and your hubby. Your Caribbean sista from London UK
I am in this same situation. Married 2015 and up till now 5 years later......nothing. Even with prayers and faith, check ups etc. Everything she speaks of, i am currently going through. Can't even stress that enough. It is so very frustrating especially as a Christian
Im 8 years. I had two miscarriages at 20 weeks and 19 weeks gestation. I no longer subscribe to any organized religion but I have made peace about not having children bc I know there are other options. I plan on adopting.
@@912deborah I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing my fibroids and
Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroids I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, blocked fallopian tubes Ovarian Cysts, pile, Crohns and all other type of diseases, cancer, Get lost period back, stop period pain, Email :
dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number:+2349033505260 😍😍😍😍
I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing my fibroids and
Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroids I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, blocked fallopian tubes Ovarian Cysts, pile, Crohns and all other type of diseases, cancer, Get lost period back, stop period pain, Email :
dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number:+2349033505260 😍😍😍😍
Jassy you have a beautiful heart. Surely in God's timing, any time from now, u will have children. You have spoken to many💕💕💕
Today's visitor nailed it.wauuuu God will make away for her where seems to be no way
I love the guest. May God hear your cry dia sister and continue to believe in God.
Kisakye Shilla AMEN
Why is there always pressure on women to produce children or their womanhood is questioned. You are still a woman without a child.
The Bible says if a tree doesn't bare any fruit you must chop it down
Because Africans thinks they are less of a person if they don't have children.
Aww whatever I am learning not to take offence to that anymore. Humans are ignorant as fck and I cannot control that😂😩Just gotta lIve my life and try help the children ppl had and didn’t want 💪🏾💯
@@susamgray2483 what has that to do with women.
@@susamgray2483 and who wrote the bible? Like really?
Men can be infertile too, it could be the man's fault that there's no pregnancy
!!!!! y is dis not coming up in d conversation?? men can b infertile too...
I pray that God may finally bless you with the fruit of the womb. The society will always give you pressure as a woman. It's either you are being pressured to get married or to have a baby. It is only God who gives children. Sending love from🇰🇪🇰🇪
It's so painful sister ,we are all waiting for that blessing. Am 10yrs now
God is giving many kids in Jesus name and never loose hope in creator
My O.G Jassy with such a beautiful soul. God never fails us, please wait for his timing. All will be well
Everything people say and more. How are the children, what are you waiting for, some just whisper as you walk in and pretend to smile when you get to them, others hug you weirdly to feel your tummy. The wickedness of this world! Then to some people you aren't woman enough because you have no children. But God is the giver of life. Thanks for this episode.
That's my daily struggle. But my eyes are focused on God the giver.
@@juliaa5410 😭😭😭.... Jeremiah 29:11.
I resonate to this so much... ten years down the line I am still waiting for my baby. People should just mind their own business!!!!!
Am waiting when you will bring the topic of failing to get married
I second this 👍
Woow.....this is beautiful. I love the guest and her energy. Most of I love her love for God. Yes, the right time will come.
But I love her sense of humor through it all. God will surely bring that bundle up for you dear
I was so down and I stumble across this. I am about 8 years without a child. My husband is some1 to be categorized under womenizer. Knowing that I wanted children, yet he went along and impregnated another woman. Two women actually. I have left him now. He wants me back. But I can't accept him back. May God be good to us all. Love my black sisters. Greetings from Papua New Guinea. 🇵🇬
Amen Son Yah. Indeed, you do not destroy disrespect. In His time, God will grant you the desires of your heart.
I can relate 101%. May God answer your prayer just like how He answered mine after wating for 12 years.
One thing I've taken from this is how people lose so much from barrenness and it's still not a well talked about topic. Thanks Jassy. Hope to read your book one day.
Am glad we have such eloquent, strong women in Uganda. Cnt wait to read that book. Thx ladies
Lately I am learning to call people out ,, I don't owe anyone an explanation of when i'll get married or have a baby. Ladies don't allow anyone to feel like they are entitled to your personal journey
I wouldn't call it a failure. Please. No. Child bearing is one of those things that doesn't always happen according to our timeline. I like how you later say that it's okay not to have a child. It is not a failure.
You guys are putting a lot of sense in this generation.. kudos
Ladies, Ladies.... You have outdone yourselves. This is now my favourite episode of Bump Love. Thank you Thank you Thank you,🙏💖💖💖💖💖🙏
This topic always gets me emotional. Thanks Mrs for sharing your story. And I pray to God, to Graciously hear us. 🙏
Beautiful story Jassy!! May everyone who watches this, pick a leaf.
Jassy your story is very touching and informative. I look forward to reading your book
This is one of the best interviews to really dive into infertility. Bless you Jassy
Thanks for coming out! I have waited for 14years but I believe it’s better for pple to ask because it’s a reminder to God that some thing he promised in exodus 23:26 is not fulfilled! And secondly you fill the pressure in those first years but after some time it becomes normal, though prepare your mind Incase he gets another woman or children elsewhere bse no man is Christian enough to sacrifice for his wife. May God guide you through this journey
Thank you for the testimony of Jassy ! infertility and barrenness are issues that increase everywhere and hit women and men.
I am living in Switzerland and hear stories of couple struggling to have a kid and this concerns as well young couples. There are so many reasons :
toxicology ( air pollution, endocrine disruptors, incinerators, some medicines-contraceptive pill, ...);
food containing more and more heavy metals and chemical fertilizers,and less and less nutriments, too much dairy products are not good either, lack of omega 3, vitamins;
all those have a negativ impact on microbiota and vaginal flora...
stress : are you in harmony with yourself and with wour daily life ?
....
I support the couple in this special journey that is very emotional, painful and difficult and wish good luck to get a healthy baby!
Thank you to raise public awareness on this subject.
Wow, this honestly relates with every area of our lives. Don't be focused on your problem that you forgot God's purpose for your life.
It is good to marry and have children...but only at God's appointed time. Don't compare yourself with others. Fix your eyes on God and let him Guide you (and me).
Just like Jassy said, Everything is for the Glory of God, not any man's glory.
Jassy I feel you deeply !!!!!!!!!! Our ever Loving God will answer your beloved Family. I went through the same journey and God has blessed us. Be strong and God will journey with you no matter what.
Wow am touched with Jassiez story and I thank God for the courage and boldness he has put in her to share her story. I really believe this has touched and impacted millions of ladies out there irrespective of their nature. And again out of this very story I have realised that God really cares and we should not take him for Granted because its not just automatic that you can get pregnant or sleep and wake up alive the next day we should really be thankfull always no matter what.
Once again I thank you for the program
Hugs Jesse!! God's timing is the best...I wish I could physically hug you and tell you it's okay 🌹🌹🌹🌹
"Inn'Allahu Ma'swabiriina" .... God rewards the patient, so take friends Jassy K. n Mr. Ebwanyu.
The babies will come insha'Allah
Amen
What a great discussion. This can help anyone better understand how a friend feels that it's going through infertility. It is not ok to ask anyone when they are going to have a baby!
This is such a sensitive subject that should be handled with so much care!
The moment u hold ur child in ur arms nothing can beat that feeling
I have been married for 12 years without a child. We have tried everything artificially possible to conceive but nothing. We live in Europe and doctors say everything is normal with our reproductive health for both me and my husband. We are in the category of "unknown infertility" meaning there is no known reason why we cannot have a child. It is a very challenging journey when you pay attention to what people say about your situation. What i hate the most is the pity party, i don't like people feeling sorry for me for not having a child. Like Jessy said, it's OK not to have a child. Don't crucify me for not having a child, don't feel sorry for me either, I just want to be happy and live a normal life. I wish there was a forum/community of social media for childless women to be able to share their stories and challenges so we can comfortably and be there for each other. Thanks for sharing your story Jessy. You are a very beautiful woman.
God hasn't forgotten you
I am here to testify how great man called Dr OMO helped me out
with herbs and roots which he prepared for me in use of curing my fibroids and
Getting pregnant after 8 years of try to conceive with fibroids I takes his product (cure for my fibroid made with herbal medicine Root) for (14) days before I
am to known I was totally pregnant after 2months of it he have Herbal medical for all types of diseases and i promised him that i will tell the world about his Great job he ask me to drink from the herbal medicine before meeting my husband I did and after 2months I was pregnant thank you for your great job he can also help you if you have a low sperm count you want to convince a baby fast Cure PCOS ,infections, Herpes, blocked fallopian tubes Ovarian Cysts, pile, Crohns and all other type of diseases, cancer, Get lost period back, stop period pain, Email :
dromo596@gmail.com or whats-app number:+2349033505260 😍😍😍😍
@Carrie M please if you know where i can adopt let me know. Adoption is not an easy process. Could take alot of years and mah never work out.
@Carrie M Foster care is not the same as adoption. By the way, i am not trying for a baby anymore. I am done with that subject and just want to enjoy my life to the fullest. Its ok not to have a child.
Which European country are you??
God is always on time. never late or early, ur blessing will come Jassy.
Can't wait to see the great things God will do through your children. I stand and believe for you!
There is something Jassy mentioned,ITS OKAY NOT TO HAVE A CHILD.Its not the end of the world
See how she channelled her anxieties on something that's going to impact many women who are struggling. Thank you Jassy.God knows you.
Don't know how many times I have watched this your faith is beyond me God bless you allow me use your words and thinking.
Motherhood is not just nine months of pregnancy. Motherhood is for the rest of your life after the baby's birth. Be the best mother then the best grandmother. Perhaps she can adopt children
I have read the book, sooo enlightening. Jassy could not have put it better, I am complete with or without a child. God only wants the best for his children so I will live in peace knowing his time is perfect. Thank you for sharing your story.
Am a Kenyan got this video as a by the way. All i say is stress and pressure actually can cause infertility .I would advise to try and be calm or move to a place where people dont know you , lay low its your life and marriage shouldn't be abought kids. keep up gal the kid will come when you least expect.
This reminds me one day I was at a mall & a random lady asked me how many months I was pregnant.. & I wasn't! Am just not a slim girl. I was offended but let it go.. bottom line.. I agree dont ask if you're not close.
Karly R exactly Jassy’s point.
What? Sorry about that.
Father,God! May you open Jassy's womb.In Jesus name i pray.
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You do have a supportive husband Jessy, just like me when his family members where putting pressure on me I wanted to leave the marriage but my husband told me I'm not God and I should wait for God's time keep my stress levels low and everything will be alright. So it happens that I went to see a doctor I was struggling with constipation and I didn't know the doctor then asked me if I was married and if l had kids I said yes I'm married for 6 years with no child. He told me to bring my husband with when we arrived he checked both of us and said my eggs were to small to conceive he gave us tablets told us to pray and if we didn't conceive I should come back either for another check up or to he would give me a prescription to buy tablets at the pharmacy called fertomid. I was then told to buy fertomid the month that I thought I was supposed to conceive it didn't happen and I gave up. Only to find out that the following month I was pregnant. now my boy is 4 years, hope you will conceive too
Thank you Jassy for sharing your story. Naye Ugandans must stop being insensitive and must stop poking their noses in places they don't belong. We need to know our place when we relate with people, stop opening our mouths carelessly. You spoke so well Jassy, you oozed wisdom in what you said.
I am wishing jassy love and light.. when she has her baby, please interview her again, we would love to see her glowing :)
Some wisdom there dear Jessy thanks for sharing, this affects all of us whether you are a parent or not, we need to take it with us and learn from it. Thank you for trusting God with your life, indeed it's for God to decide not you and I know He will do that which He promised for He's not man to lie. God bless you and your family❤️
I had my first child 12 years after marriage, it did not bother me at all. I used my time to get closer to my spouse, know
Myself better, travel, grow my career and work for the lord.By the time my kids came along I was a fulfilled woman who was ok with spending the whole day with my little one. I know not everyone is like me but if someone can learn from my situation may you be blessed.
May da good God remember yr prayers.
Wawoow sweety thanx for sharing. As for me I have aligned this to many aspects of life. He is still God in all situations
This is my biggest fear,me and my ex where having unprotected sex for over 7months but I didn’t get pregnant, so this made me scared ,to be honest I never wanted a baby but not getting pregnant scared me. Oh Lord Help me🙏🏾
Society needs to be better!!!! We shouldn't ask people such sensitive questions!
This BUMP LOVE gives me goosebumps. I am really learning a lot for future use.
Me too
My mum always says; “people quickly forget barrenness and poverty.”
I get why women who went through it would still ask you about why you’re not getting pregnant.
She's such a beautiful soul. God bless you love!
I don’t understand why a woman should stress herself because she ain’t getting pregnant,if her husband isn’t pressuring her in any way, then she should rubbish all the nonsense from the society.
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it's not just pressure from others...it is the desire to want a child. Being a woman in general means for some that we must have children. it can be very difficult
@Carrie M well it all depends with an individual but the sad part is that majority of women tend to mind almost everything that the society does and says ...So as an individual when it comes to serious matters such as this one i rubbish the society not only this one actually many.Why allow the society to dictate ones life as in before one does something one must consider the society thing thing which is absolute nonsense.No wonder some people still live in slavery in the name of society eg like a married woman but in a toxic relationship but the society pressures her to still hold on for a woman was meant to like submit herself even when the marriage is in toxic codition,and tragically at the end you hear that either she took her own life,or the toxic husband killed her plus the children and himself too,reason been the "the society thing madness thing says" ,,sad and absolutely sad.
Easier said than done.
@@bayernaa5985 marriage was meant for man and wife children are just but gift so if one is incapable of getting pregnant I don't see it as a big deal.. Society and married couples should quit worshipping children it's that simple...Am a woman but such nonsense can't click my mind....Why torture myself..A woman is a woman ether with or without a child period..So those who tend to crucify childless women should just mature up and quit the stupidity..
Thanks, Bump Love for giving us girls such a platform. Every time I watch am learning.
We are praying for you Jassy. God will overflow your portion.
GIRL just hold on you wont hav only achild but u Will have Children. 10yrs in my marriage hmmm atlast igot kids. So hold on
I love this interview. It was so real and honest. It touched me on a personal level.
I also came across this channel randomly, and I can relate to your story though my case is for a husband.