@@talkswithcookie If she likes them, she should take time off to polish herself. I’m not interested in dating like she does but I can tell why they view her like that.
165 lbs with lashes and blonde weave? I’m telling you that’s not the look for her target audience. She might have the right look for a section at the club but no way for the country club
How do women know how much money these men make? I feel like a lot of women are just listening to whatever these men are telling them because the men can afford to treat them to nice things . Billionaires are rare yet women are suddenly now meeting them every other month 😂. Okay sure, Jan.
Exactly. At any given time there are fewer than 3,000 billionaires in the world, and only about 25% of billionaires live in the U.S. according to Forbes magazine.
She “spends hours doing makeup, watches RUclips, sells hair,” and “hangs out at bars and casinos” to find men to pay her “rent and expenses” except on “slow nights.”
Ye. There were so many clues about who she really is and what she actually does. She's another working class girl hustling to win the romantic lottery.
I grew up when black people ate at buffets and wore hand-me-down clothes. Suddenly, every black person I know is rich beyond their wildest dreams. Somebody is lying because the median income in America is still 30K! It might just be me in a delusional state of mind! 🤣
The median income discussion is nonsensical in a country the size of a continent with so many different states and cities. Where I live in DC if you make 30K, you likely qualify for welfare, vouchers, food stamps etc and could possibly be homeless living in a city funded hotel. I just saw an article that said $150K is considered lower middle class in DC and Arlington, VA. Every person I know from teachers, to electricians, attorneys and doctors makes over 100K and DC is a 50% black city. However making over 100K means nothing here unless you have zero debt. I wish we would stop using these metrics across the board.
I get the impression that she is speaking about a life that she wants to live vs a life that she is actually living. Ashley asked her a simple question. How do you meet these men and she explained how "i dont deal with black men" unprovoked. Then directly after she said she deals with mostly althletes....like who? soccer players? hockey players, golfers? Sorry math aint mathin.
She was very transparent that going to high-end bars and complimenting men is how she meets higher earners. She understands that she needs to look elegant and not over the top, has to have a small frame and will need to improve her vocabulary and cultural content to keep them. I am impressed with her clear and concise transparency.
Guarantee you rich white men and Hispanic men aren’t looking for her either the way she looks. She’s lying lol maybe she’s a call girl.. but they normally aren’t seen with women that look like this. (Ratchet blonde weave) She should go back to her natural color hair for starters.. I’m pretty sure with black or brown hair she could definitely play the part. She’s a gorgeous woman
I mean which is easier to get a marriage or a millionaire? Majority of people dont even know a millionaire personally. Like hanging out every weekend level.
Rich men definitely care about how educated someone comes off. They don't want to be embarrassed going to events with their peers (a lot of these pretty wives are indeed highly educated and cultured themselves). And that may be the difference she is missing so i agree with Ashley with her working on that. Because right now she should like a "fun times" girl, and acts like it (not wanting to be seen and put with them)
Definitely this!!! A lot of these women doing this aren’t really intelligent or don’t take it as far as expanding their knowledge!! The aesthetic she has is the typical escort aesthetic that shera seven usually preaches to these women. The biggest disconnect that women need to also understand is that shera seven is married to a black man. The advice she gives is great to get to the bar but doesn’t lead them beyond that & the relationship ends up being a transactional side chick arrangement.
As I listen to this interview, she gives off escort vibes. You make all this money on your own , but yet you are reduced to playing tricks and games to get your tab paid at the bar. This is Gutta Snipe activity.
@Gotinks I agree! I wanted to say that, but I didn't want to offend her....when she said she sits at the bar & smile at men and she don't pay for anything, but she sounds like a nice person though
Im not sure about her, ,most times when you are already financially established you're not looking to gold dig you're just looking for companionship with someone on your level.
She's tricking!!! She calls it dating, calls it a connection...but I call the clients. 😂. And then the disrespect towards black men. These black divestor women really think men of other races aren't jerks. Single white women, single Hispanic, single Arabic women are single for the same reasons black women are single. A bad man is a bad man....no matter the race.
Women who date these types of men are not on social media talking about it. They’re out living their fabulous lives. The way she speaks and the fact she’s not educated is a sign she’s not telling the truth. Statically, the Billionaires and high net Millionaires are not out there in the streets. I can possibly see an athlete hook up but them moving on.
Ma’am, you are correct. She has to be educated to be a housewife/stay at home mother. My children are not going to be talking like her. She has to be prepared to host dinner party. Delusional
Lol have yall seen Mckenzie Gates and Robert Smith wife. They don’t have blond lacefronts and green contacts. This baby ain’t been to a gala in her life.
@@brianjelks7495and Jeff Bezos isn't even married to his ol' lady Lauren Sanchez. As a super billionaire he has his pick and he chose someone his age who most likely delights his heart and understands him. Someone crying, complaining and talking non-stop is a turn off.
The man that spoke at the end is the exact reason why black women are the highest number of unmarried women. The mom is “strong” and doing for herself if your not doing for yourself then your weak. At the same time if your doing for yourself your too independent. Raising the daughters to not need a man. Lose lose for the woman
A lot of insights here. Being able to date billionaires doesn't mean being able to marry them. Sprinkle sprinkle only works so far. She seems to be dating men who may be wealthy but don't necessarily want to settle down. They are divorced and want to keep having fun. They want to spend the day or night, pay for the meal or rent and keep moving.
I know a wealthy billionaire like this. He's on his 3rd marriage. He has a prenup this time and he got a vasectomy so that he can't be held on child support. He is not a good partner. Very narcissistic. But he paid for his wife's boob job. The lady got her billionaire but she didn't get a good man in character. I hope people really think hard about what they say they want.
@@rosewatersweettea no problem with her dating. The problem though is that it seems she doesn't to just be out here like that. She wants to settle down. The men she's entertaining don't want to.
I found this very valuable information. Sometimes we want the man with all the money, but they may not be the best fit. We need a generous, loving, and respectful man, who will take care of you.
I went to her page. Honestly she looks like anyone eles on ig 😂. Kinda of reminds me of the Clermont twins. Lots of wigs, long eyelashes and long baby hair. Im only saying that because she said herself she only does more of the natural look. Whatever...people lie everyday on the internet.
Righttt I was confused because she had the whole convo about the natural look while the picture showing up on the screen is the exact opposite of that with the false lashes and the contour and all of that
She is open alright,,these HVM just smashing , she ain't that girl, if she was she would already be married to one of these M/B They have too many options for a wife
She started off well with enthusiasm and i was intrigued by her story by the middle I realised how sad the situation she is in really is. It was obvious that she is suffering from low self esteem. I wish her well and hope one day she has courage to ask more of the men around her.
So focused on “getting a ring” not being a wife. These men know that about her. Not once did she say they take her to business events and introduce her to their colleges or on vacation with him and his friends or to family holiday dinners. They don’t even see her as girlfriend level. She’s tryna work men like a job and they are working her the same way!
Quite frankly everything she said and her profile picture gives sugar baby at best. If she ever sat across from a millionaire (let alone a billionaire) I highly doubt that man thought to himself “thats my wife right there”. Edit:Yeah that rant about her apartment confirms no millionaire is taking this chick seriously 😂
I think her problem is she may be too available. She may unintionally be coming off as desperate to these men and so they use her for a fun time because they know she will always be there when they call. She needs to get them to truly chase her.
@@ArtLee68well they man probably has other women in their payroll. Getting $60k a year to smash it a lot more than many other women who do for free or get govt assistance doing so
Men of means will be faithful to The One. Until then they float around. Persuasion feels that she is the prize and sleeps with men of means for gifts says to me she doesn’t know the game. Ladies, if you want the ring please hold on to the cookie until you are in a relationship. They are not cuffing those who they can sleep with for rent. Do you understand $5000 a month is no money. They will run through you and use up your young adult years. Once you hit that wall they will move on.
My impression is that she's a sprinkle sprinkle "divestor" cosplaying as a successful sugar baby. The lacefeont of salvation will tell on them before they tell on themselves every single time. Bless her heart.
Clearly u dont know the life of wealthy men 😂 they have it. They will do anything to feel like theyve won the hunt 😊 but u would never know or understand. Its not for everyone
A true wealthy man or any man that care about you , they will talk to you about next level money. They love to relax, shop talk, travel and are teaching you as well. Always focus on being comfortable in any room you step in. Be open to learning and being well versed .
I believe her, I would imagine if she has darker more natural looking hair, she can attract a certain type of foreign man. I have always attracted Indian and Middle Eastern men so that’s not far fetched. I would imagine her best chances at a husband is with a white or black man. The others tend to marry within their culture. That said, she’s must work on her diction. It’s not about big words it’s about eliciting a more feminine softness in her voice. If she’s making that type of money, she can afford to get a communication coach. I think Ashley gave her phenomenal advice, I hope she heeds it.
When a person uses the statement multiple times “to be honest…” or “I don’t have to lie…” 🚩 🚩 🚩 Signs of deception. Or - she needs to work on expanding her vocabulary/language dealing with “rich men.” Ashley keyed in on what we all thought while watching this: how do date them without going out in public? Guest attempted to clarify? But it’s giving 304 life from the viewers perspective. Good luck to her finding her person. There’s someone for everyone.
If she dates these type of men, this show wouldn’t even exist to her. I call cap on everything. No camera. They just hitting and moving on especially since she’s still single.
That man is bitter asf & views dating/relationships as negative. Of course it’s negative for him he is a whole baby daddy of 3 thinking he deserves a good woman 🤣😭
Speaking to the man who said that his woman can pay utilities and little things like that… I pay utilities and buy groceries and the 💩 is expensive af! 😂 That sounds like a 70/30 relationship that he wants and there’s nothing wrong with it but just respect that 30% because it’s a lot of work and contribution.
Billionaires with that hair colour? 🤪 Something ain’t right here. These are the types of women influencing the younger generations to head towards the wrong path in life. First and foremost billionaires, the ones that are not celebrities you will never meet them or run into them. You won’t even know who they are unless someone informs you. In terms of their dressing (clothes) they are not flashy. Let’s be honest here. It’s extremely rare. The chances of meeeting a billionaire are similar to your chances of meeting a member of the British royal family and getting married to them 🤣.Lets call out nonsense when we see it. That’s how we are going to grow as a community and do better. When you do meet them. The vetting process is serious. It takes years ***to even get close to them***. They are not out here sleeping with escorts or being sugar daddies😏. They have a lot to loose. If you do end up sleeping with one the chances are he will marry you or keep you around for many years!!! They are extremely busy and only hang around very exclusive places.
Millionaires/billionaires outside of celebrities definitely do sleep with escorts and sugar babies. There’s even been public scandals about it. The difference is the women escorting for billionaires aren’t joining TikTok lives to talk in circles like this woman.
Well I dont know what State you live in; But the Dallas Billionaires (not athletes/celebs) are at the Strip club and Bars, and they sure not vetting, the last thing they worrying about is there reputaion, and they are sleeping with escorts and being sugar daddies, You sound naive, Respectfully!
Billionaires play around a lot though. lol they just have a lot of privacy and only date the foreign, European models typically. Men are men, no matter what the income bracket 😂
lol. Love it when women say “date”. It’s really an “audition” for a role they have almost zero chance of landing. But, they are certainly welcome to try.
Let's not get it twisted... successful white men & latin men love love love black women & our curves ( love yourself from within💜💙) Confidence Is Key 🥂💜
They fetishise black & latin women but will almost always prefer to marry white women. This woman is an escort wondering why shes not married to a wealthy man.
Rich men are rich for a reason. They’re smart and understand the world and have self awareness. Women who honestly think they’re winning for him to pay $200 for your meal and pay your $1600 rent for him to have access to you are fools. It’s just another transaction. So you cut off the punanay. Oh boohoo, he lost $2k that month. He’s waging 100x that in one EFT. They can see her a mile away and there’s nothing wrong with wanting a man of certain means but just know you’ll get tricked before you trick them. You have to have something special to offer.
Also a high value man is not marrying a woman who is “conditionally feminine and submissive”. But, I wish her well. Nothing wrong with wanting a man who will take care of you, lead and protect. Just make sure you are able to offer what that man wants.
It’s like she’s trying to convince herself that she lives this life even though she doesn’t. And she talked so much, Idk how ashley sat there and listened with a straight face.
I think she's being honest. She's 25 years old, 5'7", and 165 pounds with a beautiful face. But let’s get to the facts. There are around 2,447 billionaires in the world, and about 80% of them are already married, meaning roughly 1,958 are off the market. Of the 490 or so single billionaires left, none of them are likely to wife her up. As a 55-year-old tech professional making around $250K a year, I wouldn’t either. She’s giving off side chick vibes. I suspect a few wealthy men are keeping her around, but they know she’s after money and just keep her on standby. She’s not wife material to them.
Just ignore the comments girl if you know you living that life you have nothing to prove. We all trying to get to the bag. I learned a lot thank you sis
Ash, you are so right. There are different categories of millionaires. Rappers and athletes should not be placed in the same category as techs and entrepreneurs. Techs and entrepreneurs should not be placed in the same category as stockbrokers and realtors. Doctors and lawyers etc…
I actually know of a person who does this in real life. Dates VERY WEALTHY people. They are leased to men for a good time, not a long time. One thing they always do (black ones) dye that hair blonde lol. I've known this person for years.
I'm black. Millionaire. Come from nothing and Ivy educated -- Date women of all cultures. No way in hell me or any of my friends would be caught in public with a woman that has her tone and perspective.
I have never taken this long to get through one of Ashley's videos. This was HARD to listen to! So many issues I could address, but won't. because who is me to judge?
Just say wealthy men that sounds more plausible 😩😩lol.. She acts like billionaires are out here in these streets mixing with regular folks. I am all about positivity and supporting other women BUT we also need to give tough love and not encourage things that sound odd. This type of delusion and mis-information is leading our community towards a downward spiral. Lots of our women out here being delusional and single waiting for a man that does not exist (for them ) as in he is not checking for you sis. Do you know how rare billionaires are? Usually if you actually get close enough to one and sleep with him he is going to marry you!
weeellll it is a fine line... technically! 😂 Disclaimer, I'm NOT in the skrreets! 😂 BUT back in the day I had a few skripper friends and I swear some of them spent more time with these men than the actual wives! These guys were tricking on them too chile 💅🏾
I know of her. She lives in my city. She needs emotional maturity and she’s delusional. Something isn’t working for her and I think it’s her inability to cope with her reality vs what she wants.
I had to put aside my bias. Everything she said was mostly true - when it comes to appearance. That said…”dating” means more than provision. He has to claim you publicly and introduce you to his close friends and family. Talk marriage and family. And men who have money typically have a lot of women they entertain, money to waste. I don’t think these men are actually claiming her? Based on the quality of the conversation, she doesn’t seem like a wife or status upgrade. She’s a girlfriend, cute for the month but not someone you keep around. Maybe someone to travel with and have fun vs be taken seriously. So I think she’s focused on the look vs having the status. A lot of BW don’t understand you have to be BOTH. Brains AND beauty AND brand. White women at that level may not be as cute as you, but they are size 2 with PhDs in chemistry, publishing books, etc. Wife material 🤷♀️ The black community doesn’t understand that status in other communities isn’t based on looks or income alone - status is related to your output. What can you produce? A hair company is cute, but men get way more bragging rights getting a Fulbright scholar to procreate with them vs a black woman with the right “look.” You get the men you qualify for and she doesn’t qualify for the Goldman Sachs partner who wants a pretty (but smart) woman to host his clients/partners. The millionaires who marry have a SPECIFIC persona they look for Black women - invest in looks AND brains. Stay a size 6 or smaller AND get the Masters in STEM. Be well traveled, feminine, and keep the cookie off the table. You’ll get the “right kind” of white man to propose at that point
I was asked by a white man to go out with him on a date, just give him 12 hrs. Throughout this day, he had 6' ft roses delivered to me within the first 2 hrs, 3rd hr. shopped for the outfits for the rest of the day, separate hotel suite, his company dinner party on his yacht, comedy show @ his friend club, serenaded me @ a jazz club while playing the piano, and we went dancing. 1pm to 1am, and then we departed, no sex evolved, a envelope w/$3k for my on the spot time, & he had no wife, but he had 2 teenagers whom he did a live chat w/an intro. Best 1st date in the year 2021, and yes, he was white, handsome, 6'9, and body was giving. Do better!
Real talk She sounds very limited in her vocabulary… do y’all really think that she is really a wifey type or a jump off for these high earners? Just listening to her makes my head hurts
So let me get this straight. She says she doesn't date black men because they dont treat her as good but will mess around with married rich men. If Black women put this much effort into dating black men, things probably would be better. She's trying to overcompensate from her childhood and upbringing by saying she doesn't wanna work hard anymore lol. I wonder if she would sign a prenuptial agreement
It never fails women who are so boldy confident about it using men for personal selfishness end up becoming so bitter sad & depressed later in life no b.s
So basically she doesn’t want to put in any work. But the millionaire and billionaire has to put in all this work to get you? With that attitude, she’ll always be a smash and pass
I think that she's punching above her weight class. The men she's seeing do not see her as a viable option. She's a fun girl. She's not polished or articulate. You can hear the "hood" in her. This is problematic in that she can't go to corporate events or represent her in formal events. She's a faker or poser.
Aww....billionaires?? Does she know how many actual billionaires there are in the WORLD, not just US? And I doubt there are any in Indiana. Sis, either they're lying to you or you're lying to us.
Being a sugar baby is not dating these men.
Exactly.
Facts sugarbabby!!!
I literally came here to comment this
You mean a PR0STITUTE...That is all she is.
Sounds more of a x worker than dating
She sound like she couldn’t even hold a conversation with a thousanaire 😭😭😭
😂😂😂
And apparently she thinks people go to college to learn “big words.” You can do that by simply picking up a book.
Hollering 🤣💀
Agreed.
😂😂😂😂
Based on her appearance and speech patterns, it's evident to me that she's not being truthful.
@monetloveshaus, I totally agree with you 💯%, she cannot answer a direct question and she repeats the same thing several times
She can date them they want fun but she wants serious and the reasons you mentioned are why she’s not a wife. She won’t fit in.
Yes, her social media is completely opposite of how she described herself. Her appearance gives off lady of the night not wife 😢
@@patbone8046 Right! I was surprised she wasn’t dropped sooner.
@@talkswithcookie If she likes them, she should take time off to polish herself. I’m not interested in dating like she does but I can tell why they view her like that.
165 lbs with lashes and blonde weave? I’m telling you that’s not the look for her target audience. She might have the right look for a section at the club but no way for the country club
Exactly. They will be with her for fun only.
Exactly they don’t play that
😂😂😂😂😂
Really? Why speak on behalf of men you’ve never even been in the same room with? Men who have money date all types of women. Lashes? Check again. lol
@@misslolmomoomg! True😅
How do women know how much money these men make? I feel like a lot of women are just listening to whatever these men are telling them because the men can afford to treat them to nice things . Billionaires are rare yet women are suddenly now meeting them every other month 😂. Okay sure, Jan.
It’s the “Reesa Teesa” syndrome
Girl!😂😂😂
Exactly. At any given time there are fewer than 3,000 billionaires in the world, and only about 25% of billionaires live in the U.S. according to Forbes magazine.
Right, I’m like “how do you know how much money they make?” I didn’t know specific numbers of my husband’s income until we were engaged.
@@lenejaiawow wtf 😅😅😅
She “spends hours doing makeup, watches RUclips, sells hair,” and “hangs out at bars and casinos” to find men to pay her “rent and expenses” except on “slow nights.”
Ye. There were so many clues about who she really is and what she actually does. She's another working class girl hustling to win the romantic lottery.
I am hollering fr 😅😅😅
Hanging out in bars trying to hang out with stars. Lol, her story really isn't making sense.
Yes. The very definition of a prostitute.
I grew up when black people ate at buffets and wore hand-me-down clothes. Suddenly, every black person I know is rich beyond their wildest dreams. Somebody is lying because the median income in America is still 30K! It might just be me in a delusional state of mind! 🤣
Listen lol… Social media has me questioning my career daily.
Lmaooooooooo 😂
😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂
The median income discussion is nonsensical in a country the size of a continent with so many different states and cities. Where I live in DC if you make 30K, you likely qualify for welfare, vouchers, food stamps etc and could possibly be homeless living in a city funded hotel. I just saw an article that said $150K is considered lower middle class in DC and Arlington, VA. Every person I know from teachers, to electricians, attorneys and doctors makes over 100K and DC is a 50% black city. However making over 100K means nothing here unless you have zero debt. I wish we would stop using these metrics across the board.
@@calikeisha365Thank you!! I’m from Boston & lived in NYC- so same! So sick of hearing about these metrics that don’t mean anything to the rest of us.
I get the impression that she is speaking about a life that she wants to live vs a life that she is actually living. Ashley asked her a simple question. How do you meet these men and she explained how "i dont deal with black men" unprovoked. Then directly after she said she deals with mostly althletes....like who? soccer players? hockey players, golfers? Sorry math aint mathin.
She was very transparent that going to high-end bars and complimenting men is how she meets higher earners. She understands that she needs to look elegant and not over the top, has to have a small frame and will need to improve her vocabulary and cultural content to keep them. I am impressed with her clear and concise transparency.
You both made points…
I think she came to brag on more than anything
Guarantee you rich white men and Hispanic men aren’t looking for her either the way she looks. She’s lying lol maybe she’s a call girl.. but they normally aren’t seen with women that look like this. (Ratchet blonde weave) She should go back to her natural color hair for starters.. I’m pretty sure with black or brown hair she could definitely play the part. She’s a gorgeous woman
@@fancifrance4039she is greeting them, not meeting them. She is basically a call girl
Getting smashed by millionaires is an accomplishment nowadays vs marriage
Exactly
Duh. Women no longer want to die a house slave 😂
Getting smashed by bums is better? 🤔
I mean which is easier to get a marriage or a millionaire? Majority of people dont even know a millionaire personally. Like hanging out every weekend level.
Right??!! I'm so confused because she sounds like she's describing the life of a high-priced call girl...
No offense but she isn’t giving wife in the way she speaks.. she needs to mature a little more
Not every “wife” speaks eloquently. Unless you mean the wife of a millionaire?
She doesn’t look or sound like any billionaire wife I’ve ever seen 😳
Exactly 🤷🏽♀️
She is under valuing the value of a college education as a kept women. Men want an intelligent woman to raise their children.
Literally most wealthy men have spouses who have a higher education.
Rich men definitely care about how educated someone comes off. They don't want to be embarrassed going to events with their peers (a lot of these pretty wives are indeed highly educated and cultured themselves). And that may be the difference she is missing so i agree with Ashley with her working on that. Because right now she should like a "fun times" girl, and acts like it (not wanting to be seen and put with them)
Definitely this!!! A lot of these women doing this aren’t really intelligent or don’t take it as far as expanding their knowledge!! The aesthetic she has is the typical escort aesthetic that shera seven usually preaches to these women. The biggest disconnect that women need to also understand is that shera seven is married to a black man. The advice she gives is great to get to the bar but doesn’t lead them beyond that & the relationship ends up being a transactional side chick arrangement.
Us women need to start being honest with other women.
They need to be honest with themselves before anything 😂
She was being honest and look at all the criticism she’s getting for it. That’s why so many women don’t express their truth.
@@maturewoman81I don’t think that’s what the OP meant by “being honest.”
@@maturewoman81This girl sounds like a prostitute.
@@MrTwonetwoneMy thoughts exactly!
As I listen to this interview, she gives off escort vibes. You make all this money on your own , but yet you are reduced to playing tricks and games to get your tab paid at the bar. This is Gutta Snipe activity.
That’s exactly what she is. She will not get the ring the way she is going.
@Gotinks I agree! I wanted to say that, but I didn't want to offend her....when she said she sits at the bar & smile at men and she don't pay for anything, but she sounds like a nice person though
Def gave escort vibes.
Because that''s what she is. Definately not wife material
These men smell her a mile away
She just taught y’all how to escort and y’all eating it up. I would be embarrassed if this was my daughter.
Ashamed of it were mine
Definitely giving a high class escort ex stripper vibes 😂
Yep!
Exactly! Is to why I'm like why come on this platform? I'll hold back what I think this really is but to each their own 🫢
She learned this behavior from her MOTHER. Just following in the steps of her genes.
Im not sure about her, ,most times when you are already financially established you're not looking to gold dig you're just looking for companionship with someone on your level.
How would you know?
I agree. I don’t have any friends in my professional circle with this mindset
She's tricking!!! She calls it dating, calls it a connection...but I call the clients. 😂. And then the disrespect towards black men. These black divestor women really think men of other races aren't jerks. Single white women, single Hispanic, single Arabic women are single for the same reasons black women are single. A bad man is a bad man....no matter the race.
How would you know. Even if you were in her circle, how could you even determine that everyone else in that circle thinks like you.
@@Richie-xr7zb how would I know what?
Women who date these types of men are not on social media talking about it. They’re out living their fabulous lives. The way she speaks and the fact she’s not educated is a sign she’s not telling the truth. Statically, the Billionaires and high net Millionaires are not out there in the streets. I can possibly see an athlete hook up but them moving on.
FACTS
Ma’am, you are correct. She has to be educated to be a housewife/stay at home mother. My children are not going to be talking like her. She has to be prepared to host dinner party. Delusional
Lol have yall seen Mckenzie Gates and Robert Smith wife. They don’t have blond lacefronts and green contacts.
This baby ain’t been to a gala in her life.
You guys are so dumb
@@brianjelks7495and Jeff Bezos isn't even married to his ol' lady Lauren Sanchez.
As a super billionaire he has his pick and he chose someone his age who most likely delights his heart and understands him.
Someone crying, complaining and talking non-stop is a turn off.
The man that spoke at the end is the exact reason why black women are the highest number of unmarried women. The mom is “strong” and doing for herself if your not doing for yourself then your weak. At the same time if your doing for yourself your too independent. Raising the daughters to not need a man. Lose lose for the woman
No shade but from the way she speaks alone I can tell she does not attract high quality men.
She does but for recreational purposes only 👌🏽👌🏽
Exactly. They probably meet her behind closed doors.
A lot of insights here. Being able to date billionaires doesn't mean being able to marry them. Sprinkle sprinkle only works so far. She seems to be dating men who may be wealthy but don't necessarily want to settle down. They are divorced and want to keep having fun. They want to spend the day or night, pay for the meal or rent and keep moving.
I know a wealthy billionaire like this. He's on his 3rd marriage. He has a prenup this time and he got a vasectomy so that he can't be held on child support. He is not a good partner. Very narcissistic. But he paid for his wife's boob job. The lady got her billionaire but she didn't get a good man in character. I hope people really think hard about what they say they want.
You are so right. I don’t know how old you are but you know the game.
She’s 25 and dating, that’s completely normal 😂 average age for marriage is 27-32
Or they don’t want to marry HER
@@rosewatersweettea no problem with her dating. The problem though is that it seems she doesn't to just be out here like that. She wants to settle down. The men she's entertaining don't want to.
I found this very valuable information. Sometimes we want the man with all the money, but they may not be the best fit. We need a generous, loving, and respectful man, who will take care of you.
Facts. I’ve dated a few millionaires in my younger years and stayed with one. After 20 years he is just learning to be emotionally available.
Money is just ONE ☝️ standard. U need a list of standards. Not all wealthy men are high valuable men but NO BROKE man is a high value man eithef 😊
@@Lala-lw6piPERIODT!!!!! ☝🏾
This is the one
They are busy, you know. Millionaires aren’t just wallowing freely. They need to make more money to stay a millionaire.
“They treat you the best” even though they see you when they want to, they tell you they are seeing other people…wow!
I went to her page. Honestly she looks like anyone eles on ig 😂. Kinda of reminds me of the Clermont twins. Lots of wigs, long eyelashes and long baby hair. Im only saying that because she said herself she only does more of the natural look. Whatever...people lie everyday on the internet.
Righttt I was confused because she had the whole convo about the natural look while the picture showing up on the screen is the exact opposite of that with the false lashes and the contour and all of that
It's not baby hair, it's a receding hairline and the hair that's struggling is layer down with styling gel.
@@robbylebotha😂😂😂😂😂
@@robbylebothareceding hairline?? Lmaoooo
I can’t find her ig
She sounds like a young lady who is having fun. I appreciate how open and honest she was.
Honest? 😂😂😂 lady get a grip 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
She’s a liar
She is open alright,,these HVM just smashing , she ain't that girl, if she was she would already be married to one of these M/B
They have too many options for a wife
Maybe we have different definitions of “lady.”
In order for the Most High to bless you with a husband, you must operate with integrity in your singleness.
Period. He won’t give a virtuous woman to a wicked man. But he WILL give a wicked woman as a portion to a wicked man.
@@growinwoman2290 sirach 25:26? 💯💯
She started off well with enthusiasm and i was intrigued by her story by the middle I realised how sad the situation she is in really is. It was obvious that she is suffering from low self esteem. I wish her well and hope one day she has courage to ask more of the men around her.
So focused on “getting a ring” not being a wife. These men know that about her. Not once did she say they take her to business events and introduce her to their colleges or on vacation with him and his friends or to family holiday dinners. They don’t even see her as girlfriend level. She’s tryna work men like a job and they are working her the same way!
Customers in a strip club will tell you anything pumpkin!
She’s dating married men and wants to get married herself. So she thinks her future husband won’t also do the same to her🤣
Maybe she won’t care like Sheraseven 😏
Why would a man marry a woman like that?
It would be ok cause she knows what comes with it …she is from it lol
@@icygyal2555Sheraseven definitely cares yet she won’t tell these women who love her the truth
Quite frankly everything she said and her profile picture gives sugar baby at best. If she ever sat across from a millionaire (let alone a billionaire) I highly doubt that man thought to himself “thats my wife right there”.
Edit:Yeah that rant about her apartment confirms no millionaire is taking this chick seriously 😂
"i wanna say bigger words" lord help her
I think her problem is she may be too available. She may unintionally be coming off as desperate to these men and so they use her for a fun time because they know she will always be there when they call. She needs to get them to truly chase her.
which they won't
Too late, shes already established shes for a fun time not a long (marriage) time
PR0STITUTES are PR0STITUTES, because they are desperate.
Right. She seems like an easy lick for the men she’s describing. They know who she is before she even speaks.
@@Trapz4DayzNo it’s not too late
Being able to hold a conversation is vital to being around those type of men.
She tricking with these dudes
She is the one being tricked. $5000 a month is no money for a man making $100,000 a month. They are dumping their trash in her and keeping it moving.
So what? Most of yall women are tricking with your baby daddy’s, situationships, entanglements for FREE…..lmbo
@@ArtLee68well they man probably has other women in their payroll. Getting $60k a year to smash it a lot more than many other women who do for free or get govt assistance doing so
Plain and simple.
Sorry I think she’s lying
I bet it fucked up up when she put a video on her tik tok of her dating a billionaire. 😮😅
Men of means will be faithful to The One. Until then they float around. Persuasion feels that she is the prize and sleeps with men of means for gifts says to me she doesn’t know the game. Ladies, if you want the ring please hold on to the cookie until you are in a relationship. They are not cuffing those who they can sleep with for rent. Do you understand $5000 a month is no money. They will run through you and use up your young adult years. Once you hit that wall they will move on.
You told nothing but the truth
Hold on to the “cookie” until you are MARRIED.
That's true because that's what I do a lot. But I'm very upfront with the woman about it and they for the most part don't care
The level of 🧢🧢🧢🧢 hahahaaha
My impression is that she's a sprinkle sprinkle "divestor" cosplaying as a successful sugar baby. The lacefeont of salvation will tell on them before they tell on themselves every single time. Bless her heart.
Exactly she sounds like an airhead they sell her a dream smash and dip
Clearly u dont know the life of wealthy men 😂 they have it. They will do anything to feel like theyve won the hunt 😊 but u would never know or understand. Its not for everyone
@@Lala-lw6pi There absolutely are women living the type of lifestyle she described. I assure you that she isn't one of them.
Call-Girl.
Are we staring at her profile picture?
👀👀😒😳 I want to be sure she's not frozen on my end....
Yea 😂 billionaires and millionaires but won’t show her face
Yes
Straight DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR 😂.
Lmao I was saying the same thing
😂😂
A true wealthy man or any man that care about you , they will talk to you about next level money. They love to relax, shop talk, travel and are teaching you as well. Always focus on being comfortable in any room you step in. Be open to learning and being well versed .
Broooo when she said "i wanna say bigger words,". I died😂10 years max before this is all over😂
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Why are you so catty?
She sounds like an escort or suga baby not someone who is in a serious dating relationship mindset
This sounds ridiculous.
"I'll be honest" & "I have no reason to lie" just makes it clear that you've been lying.
Y’all believe anything on the internet atp, but lemme keep watching 🍿
She is a high end escort! Stop the cap.
Facts.
She sounds like she doesn’t believe herself 😂😂😂
LMAO I SWEAR!
Maury Povich is on the other line. Says he has the results of your lie detector test. 😅
This girl is straight up lying and Ashley knows it. Billionaires??? 😂😂 She doesn't even sound mature enough to hold a millionaire conversation
They just 🎯🎯🎯🎯 give her a few dollas and keep it pushing until next time
I believe her, I would imagine if she has darker more natural looking hair, she can attract a certain type of foreign man. I have always attracted Indian and Middle Eastern men so that’s not far fetched. I would imagine her best chances at a husband is with a white or black man. The others tend to marry within their culture. That said, she’s must work on her diction. It’s not about big words it’s about eliciting a more feminine softness in her voice. If she’s making that type of money, she can afford to get a communication coach. I think Ashley gave her phenomenal advice, I hope she heeds it.
If you believe her, then you believe the Easter bunny. She sounds like she's escorting.
She literally said “If I’m having a slow night.”
@@Mineo77-op4buAgreed.
When a person uses the statement multiple times “to be honest…” or “I don’t have to lie…” 🚩 🚩 🚩 Signs of deception. Or - she needs to work on expanding her vocabulary/language dealing with “rich men.” Ashley keyed in on what we all thought while watching this: how do date them without going out in public? Guest attempted to clarify? But it’s giving 304 life from the viewers perspective. Good luck to her finding her person. There’s someone for everyone.
Anyone who won’t show up on video doesn’t look like their photos 😂😂
She has several videos though.
They said she doesn’t have access to the camera she doesn’t have enough followers. Listen to the first few seconds
I went to her tick tok... she has vids now. So she's real but that was my first thought too, no lie 😂
If she dates these type of men, this show wouldn’t even exist to her. I call cap on everything. No camera. They just hitting and moving on especially since she’s still single.
That man is bitter asf & views dating/relationships as negative. Of course it’s negative for him he is a whole baby daddy of 3 thinking he deserves a good woman 🤣😭
Speaking to the man who said that his woman can pay utilities and little things like that… I pay utilities and buy groceries and the 💩 is expensive af! 😂
That sounds like a 70/30 relationship that he wants and there’s nothing wrong with it but just respect that 30% because it’s a lot of work and contribution.
Then he added his mom's suffering for the cherry on top😩
Billionaires with that hair colour? 🤪
Something ain’t right here. These are the types of women influencing the younger generations to head towards the wrong path in life.
First and foremost billionaires, the ones that are not celebrities you will never meet them or run into them. You won’t even know who they are unless someone informs you. In terms of their dressing (clothes) they are not flashy.
Let’s be honest here. It’s extremely rare. The chances of meeeting a billionaire are similar to your chances of meeting a member of the British royal family and getting married to them 🤣.Lets call out nonsense when we see it. That’s how we are going to grow as a community and do better.
When you do meet them. The vetting process is serious. It takes years ***to even get close to them***. They are not out here sleeping with escorts or being sugar daddies😏. They have a lot to loose. If you do end up sleeping with one the chances are he will marry you or keep you around for many years!!!
They are extremely busy and only hang around very exclusive places.
Hey TMcurly haven't seen you in the comments in a minute!🤪
Millionaires/billionaires outside of celebrities definitely do sleep with escorts and sugar babies. There’s even been public scandals about it.
The difference is the women escorting for billionaires aren’t joining TikTok lives to talk in circles like this woman.
Well I dont know what State you live in; But the Dallas Billionaires (not athletes/celebs) are at the Strip club and Bars, and they sure not vetting, the last thing they worrying about is there reputaion, and they are sleeping with escorts and being sugar daddies, You sound naive, Respectfully!
Billionaires play around a lot though. lol they just have a lot of privacy and only date the foreign, European models typically. Men are men, no matter what the income bracket 😂
"I feel like I deserve that..." Based on what?
Tbh, if I was a rich man listening to this, I'd be completely turned off.
Agreed. I'd like to know why she feels she deserves it.
lol. Love it when women say “date”. It’s really an “audition” for a role they have almost zero chance of landing. But, they are certainly welcome to try.
9:40 “nights going slower than usual” is THEEE escort line 😂
No. You have to have a certain look to date those men. Shes not there yet by her picture.
Let's not get it twisted... successful white men & latin men love love love black women & our curves ( love yourself from within💜💙) Confidence Is Key 🥂💜
Wealthy men prefer slender women.
Curvy don’t mean fat.
We are indeed thin but curvy still, with cleavage and behind.
Lol
They fetishise black & latin women but will almost always prefer to marry white women. This woman is an escort wondering why shes not married to a wealthy man.
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@@LisaS483Girl Please...In Cali it's a different story🥂🤑🥂
It’s called sugaring. Which is fine. But thats it.
Sound like she’s tricking
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“Date”? Ok, sis. “Date”.
That’s what they call it.
She's all over the place....it's seems like it's hard for her to answer a direct question. I wish her well. Side note*She sounds like Bambi....
She really does!
wow she DOES sound like Bambi! 😂 good ear!!
Rich men are rich for a reason. They’re smart and understand the world and have self awareness. Women who honestly think they’re winning for him to pay $200 for your meal and pay your $1600 rent for him to have access to you are fools. It’s just another transaction. So you cut off the punanay. Oh boohoo, he lost $2k that month. He’s waging 100x that in one EFT.
They can see her a mile away and there’s nothing wrong with wanting a man of certain means but just know you’ll get tricked before you trick them. You have to have something special to offer.
Also a high value man is not marrying a woman who is “conditionally feminine and submissive”. But, I wish her well. Nothing wrong with wanting a man who will take care of you, lead and protect. Just make sure you are able to offer what that man wants.
It’s like she’s trying to convince herself that she lives this life even though she doesn’t. And she talked so much, Idk how ashley sat there and listened with a straight face.
The way she sounds is why she’s not married she needs to mature a lot.
Does AHSLEY ever give the stats on real life salaries? This lady doesn’t have the level of polished to be with the men she is implying she is with?
I think she's being honest. She's 25 years old, 5'7", and 165 pounds with a beautiful face. But let’s get to the facts. There are around 2,447 billionaires in the world, and about 80% of them are already married, meaning roughly 1,958 are off the market. Of the 490 or so single billionaires left, none of them are likely to wife her up. As a 55-year-old tech professional making around $250K a year, I wouldn’t either. She’s giving off side chick vibes. I suspect a few wealthy men are keeping her around, but they know she’s after money and just keep her on standby. She’s not wife material to them.
Just ignore the comments girl if you know you living that life you have nothing to prove. We all trying to get to the bag. I learned a lot thank you sis
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The way to the bag with a man, is NOT going after the bag. “It’s the art of fighting, without fighting”….Goofy🤦🏿♂️
Getting to the bag shouldn’t be dependent on someone like what she wants its supposed to be independent
I’m so done with this “Let them live” mentality. Not everything is “good,” or worth doing.
Ash, you are so right. There are different categories of millionaires. Rappers and athletes should not be placed in the same category as techs and entrepreneurs. Techs and entrepreneurs should not be placed in the same category as stockbrokers and realtors. Doctors and lawyers etc…
A whole lot of lawyers are not rich.
Exactly. I've been saying this. There's a complete different mindset. For example I find rappers to be lower quality than tech or businessmen
I actually know of a person who does this in real life. Dates VERY WEALTHY people. They are leased to men for a good time, not a long time. One thing they always do (black ones) dye that hair blonde lol. I've known this person for years.
Yeah. They’re called prostitutes.
3,194 billionaires worldwide in 2022
There’s less Premier League soccer players than that. That’s how small billionaires status is.
I'm black. Millionaire. Come from nothing and Ivy educated -- Date women of all cultures. No way in hell me or any of my friends would be caught in public with a woman that has her tone and perspective.
I have never taken this long to get through one of Ashley's videos. This was HARD to listen to! So many issues I could address, but won't. because who is me to judge?
Just say wealthy men that sounds more plausible 😩😩lol..
She acts like billionaires are out here in these streets mixing with regular folks.
I am all about positivity and supporting other women BUT we also need to give tough love and not encourage things that sound odd. This type of delusion and mis-information is leading our community towards a downward spiral. Lots of our women out here being delusional and single waiting for a man that does not exist (for them ) as in he is not checking for you sis.
Do you know how rare billionaires are?
Usually if you actually get close enough to one and sleep with him he is going to marry you!
Having a steady trick in the world of prostitution isn’t dating 🥴😵💫
Right and she slipped up by saying if she’s hanging out at the bar and her night is slow……sounds like an escort!
@@Kimberly.TRight! She’s a professional.
weeellll it is a fine line... technically! 😂
Disclaimer, I'm NOT in the skrreets! 😂 BUT back in the day I had a few skripper friends and I swear some of them spent more time with these men than the actual wives! These guys were tricking on them too chile 💅🏾
I know of her. She lives in my city. She needs emotional maturity and she’s delusional. Something isn’t working for her and I think it’s her inability to cope with her reality vs what she wants.
9:41 Is she an escort? She said I feel like my night is going slower than usual? That’s giving escort vibes. She sounds like she selling that 😹
I had to put aside my bias. Everything she said was mostly true - when it comes to appearance.
That said…”dating” means more than provision. He has to claim you publicly and introduce you to his close friends and family. Talk marriage and family. And men who have money typically have a lot of women they entertain, money to waste. I don’t think these men are actually claiming her? Based on the quality of the conversation, she doesn’t seem like a wife or status upgrade. She’s a girlfriend, cute for the month but not someone you keep around. Maybe someone to travel with and have fun vs be taken seriously.
So I think she’s focused on the look vs having the status. A lot of BW don’t understand you have to be BOTH. Brains AND beauty AND brand. White women at that level may not be as cute as you, but they are size 2 with PhDs in chemistry, publishing books, etc. Wife material 🤷♀️
The black community doesn’t understand that status in other communities isn’t based on looks or income alone - status is related to your output. What can you produce? A hair company is cute, but men get way more bragging rights getting a Fulbright scholar to procreate with them vs a black woman with the right “look.” You get the men you qualify for and she doesn’t qualify for the Goldman Sachs partner who wants a pretty (but smart) woman to host his clients/partners. The millionaires who marry have a SPECIFIC persona they look for
Black women - invest in looks AND brains. Stay a size 6 or smaller AND get the Masters in STEM. Be well traveled, feminine, and keep the cookie off the table. You’ll get the “right kind” of white man to propose at that point
I was asked by a white man to go out with him on a date, just give him 12 hrs. Throughout this day, he had 6' ft roses delivered to me within the first 2 hrs, 3rd hr. shopped for the outfits for the rest of the day, separate hotel suite, his company dinner party on his yacht, comedy show @ his friend club, serenaded me @ a jazz club while playing the piano, and we went dancing. 1pm to 1am, and then we departed, no sex evolved, a envelope w/$3k for my on the spot time, & he had no wife, but he had 2 teenagers whom he did a live chat w/an intro. Best 1st date in the year 2021, and yes, he was white, handsome, 6'9, and body was giving. Do better!
Did you guys keep in touch, what happened? I want details. I love hearing this! 🤩👏🏾
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I’m going to the golf course and cigar bar!! And hotel bar lol!
Real talk
She sounds very limited in her vocabulary… do y’all really think that she is really a wifey type or a jump off for these high earners?
Just listening to her makes my head hurts
Honestly, I hope she has more in her head. I'm bored listening to her. She talking about money, that's it.
I wish the best in her endeavors. Not the lifestyle for me but if she likes it, I love it.
Why would you love this lifestyle for a young woman?
I’m from Indianapolis , IN . She making 6 figures & meeting multiple billionaires there… 🧢
So let me get this straight. She says she doesn't date black men because they dont treat her as good but will mess around with married rich men. If Black women put this much effort into dating black men, things probably would be better. She's trying to overcompensate from her childhood and upbringing by saying she doesn't wanna work hard anymore lol. I wonder if she would sign a prenuptial agreement
Chile she’s an escort. That’s all. Next caller.
22:00 she said exactly what she does,
She DEFINITELY needs more refinement….
It never fails women who are so boldy confident about it using men for personal selfishness end up becoming so bitter sad & depressed later in life no b.s
That's why you don't feel sorry for them
“I made my first six figures…”
😂😂😂😅
The man at the end sounds like he will only pay for the rent and nothing more. He made it very clear.
So basically she doesn’t want to put in any work. But the millionaire and billionaire has to put in all this work to get you? With that attitude, she’ll always be a smash and pass
I get a sense that’s s her “bag.”
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I think that she's punching above her weight class. The men she's seeing do not see her as a viable option. She's a fun girl. She's not polished or articulate. You can hear the "hood" in her. This is problematic in that she can't go to corporate events or represent her in formal events. She's a faker or poser.
Aww....billionaires?? Does she know how many actual billionaires there are in the WORLD, not just US? And I doubt there are any in Indiana. Sis, either they're lying to you or you're lying to us.
I think she is lying to herself.
She doesn’t have a thousand followers? Yet she hangs around rich men? 🤔
She lay on her back 😂😂😂😂