The obsessive thinking is horrible. You can't focus on anything else. It starts from the moment you open your eyes in the morning till you close them at night. It's absolute madness. I've started very slowly recovering. Ah and you can't be romantically with anyone else than your Twin, you suffer every second and looking desparately for answers and you fall on soulmates information which make things worse. You can't do anything to calm your mind. It's terrific.
I don’t feel like I needed to Learn to notice that I am the one in control of my thoughts I already knew that? But it still got me cause I wasn’t living the life I wanted.
This is my feelings exactly 😩 some days are better then others I will say the more I think of him I try to focus more on inner work and then boom loads of thoughts of him 🤯 month 3 and I talk with him once a week 🤦🏽♀️
I describe the obsessive thinking as something that occurs all the time during your entire day. You have no control over trying to stop the obsessive thinking. The thinking is something that feels like it's something that is on autopilot, it's always occurring as you go about your daily life. You will be doing other things and still be thinking about your twin. The obsessive thinking started to go away for me when I started to heal my co-dependent issues.
I 100% agree it happens TO YOU. It’s like your living your life and then these obsessive thoughts invade your mind and you can’t escape them, no matter how much you fight them. But it does get easier. My DM is always on my mind, just floating in the background static all the time. I’ve come to accept that these thought will always be there. I just don’t allow them to completely consume me anymore. The more I turn my attention to myself the more strength and happiness I feel. The more comfortable and complete I am. I know my DM is Me as I am Him, but I try to carry out my life and just allow my guides to have control. It’s hard wanting to be with him all the time. But trusting that union will happen in divine terms not my own. Shows me I have more work to do before we are ready. Want puts up walls surrender allows the divine to work. Just be ok with being ok and know things will happen when they are supposed to happen.
@@ibelongtowaheguru3592 by work I mean practicing self, and self love. Looking inward more than relying on external sources for this validation. Instead of ‘want’ it should be allow for things to just be. To stop hyper-focus on the TF journey and just allow it to happen. Union will happen if you wrote it in your souls contract for union. Just let it go and let things just.. happen.
I’ve found this too. It’s been nearly a year since the separation, and it just won’t go. I’ve ignored it, pushed it down, tried to let it go. I’ve tried to be in a relationship with someone else, and I loved this new person, but the feeling for him came back, stronger, until I recognised it, addressed it, and then I knew I could no longer continue that relationship because my heart and soul longed for only one. Now I’m in a constant knowing that I would rather be with no one, forever, if not with him. It’s either me, or me and him. I can’t fathom dating anyone else. And I’m okay with that tbh. I just accept this is how it is. Sure, if it became years later and things still hadn’t manifested, I would try again with someone new, but I honestly know I’ll forever have his presence haunting me.
The reason they go cold when we obsess over them is because when we deeply desire the connection, it brings up an element of lack within us. We cannot receive what we desire when we are in a view point of lack or separation.
It's like I have an evil twin that constantly Whispers his name into my ear no matter how hard I try to distract myself. That's what the obsessive thinking feels like
Yep! Happened to me this weekend. I made a conscious attempt to Not think about him. I saw his name randomly 5 different times at least. It never stops LOL
I'm still currently in my obsessive thinking stage unfortunately. It's starts as soon as I wake up to my last thought when I go to bed. I just heavy reminisce the times we spent together and heavily analyze the conversations we had. It makes me feel insane with all these emotions. From happy to pissed in a matter of seconds to confused because how could they just up and leave when we were so amazing. I now understand thanks to Kurt! Also hearing everyone story names me feel not so crazy and alone!
The obsessive thoughts felt like a disease, I don't wish it on anyone, it is one of the most unpleasant experiences of my life. I had to actually take breaks from work to be able to think about him otherwise the pressure would be too overwhelming on my mind and heart. It´s just horrible, not romantic at all, just intensely intrusive and plain awful. You feel like you are losing your mind. I think that´s kind of the point of the spiritual awakening but when you don´t know what´s happening it becomes a nightmare. Plus the other person doesn´t give af about you and everyone tells you that you are obsessed. If you are at this stage and you are going crazy, I want you to know that it will pass and there will come a time when it will not affect you the same or at all.
From my experience the OBSESSIVE thinking it's a night mare, per second u produce 10000+ thoughts about this person, per minute u produce 10000000 thoughts and per hour it's trillion thoughts🤔 and it goes on for months , for me my brain was beating like a heart, oh my god it's like PTSD, the only time u free from the thinking it's when u are sleeping or dreaming as soon as u wake up ,it's on again😵
@@cbrooks122780 Exactly, me too. Thinking of him while sleeping.... Again, horrible experience, I would say is traumatic. If by any chance there are any DMs reading this (highly doubt it but just in case), please be compassionate of your DF because we really go through hell and back because of this, and we didn't ask for this.
I agree with everything you said except the part about the person not giving af about you. If it’s your twin flame, the person cares very much even if they don’t act like it. The obsessive thinking goes both ways and it torments both people. It torments the “chaser” because they don’t understand why, when the connection is so strong and beautiful, the other person is running. And it torments the “runner” because they haven’t experienced this type of love before and it terrifies/confuses them. Both parties wish the obsessive thinking would stop but it’s beyond either of their control. The awakening is painful but it is also remarkable. Once we’ve been awakened, we go on our own personal journey to change and grow. It’s really a beautiful thing in the end… but rest assured, your twin is suffering just as much as you are if it’s your twin. They are just better at hiding it because they’ve been conditioned to run/suppress strong emotions, but a twin flame connection is inescapable. They will have to face it sooner or later and when they do, growth is waiting for them on the other side. The chaser has to lead though in my experience. Once you distance yourself from your twin and start embarking on your growth journey, that energy is felt by your twin and they will begin their journey as well. Reunion awaits at the end. 😌
@@jessicarose1991 I think you are aligned with the belief that twin flames are romantic and i am not. Not even when i met him. When i met my twin i was physically attracted to him, but like In the same way i would like anybody else. There was no indication at the beginning that we were twins, to me he was just another hot guy. Also, he was my supervisor at work so i was always super professional with him. The synchronicities started right away but I didn’t put two and two together because i had my awakening a few months before i met him and I thought the angel numbers had something to do with that, I didn’t even know anything about twin flames. It wasn’t until we stopped working together that I developed psychic abilities, I could hear his thoughts and had visions of him. I didn’t know what was going on and I thought i was becoming squizofrenic. The obsessive thoughts are awful but we have been 3 years no contact and I don’t feel anything for him anymore. Since I started following Kurt’s program the obsessive thoughts are gone and I don’t care if we are together or not. All I wanted was to move on and kurt’s teachings is the only thing that helped me to get out of the pain. Also, some twins are deep asleep. Meaning, yes, they don’t give af about you.
My thing isn’t that I obsessively “think” about him. It’s that I almost always seem to *feel* him around me-You know that feeling when you have your back turned and someone you know is near you and you can literally feel their presence; their energy, before you even see them? That’s how I feel about him. It’s like he feels like he’s near and all around me. It’s so damn weird I have never experienced anything like it 🤷🏻♀️
Yes! This resonates!!! It’s been a year and it’s like he’s WITH me. As if it’s the kind of thing someone feels when someone has passed, and they are like “oh I feel their presence!”… but it’s like ALL THE TIME, every SECOND of the day! It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, they are there!! I always feel like I have to looking around because he’s actually THERE, or I’m about to bump into him or something 😭 but; I imagine this is just your soul (after all, they are YOU) trying to get your attention! But your brain is manifesting this the only way it can understand, as THEM, but we’ve not really got into the concept of feeling our OWN energy. I guess we must learn to stop feeling it as them, and it feel it as us??! Transmuting this energy of other into energy of I AM. And know that presence is a gift of KNOWING 😍🥲💖
@@SatrinaToreador I think you hit the nail on the head… It’s easier to think about someone else in that way than it is to actively think about yourself. So we focus on and “feel” them instead…But I think you’re right and that what we’re feeling is an aspect of our higher selves being awakened. Great comment!
@@SatrinaToreador Yeah, it's the same with me! It's as if I feel the presence of my best friend who passed away two years ago. I'm used to feeling that at times, but the presence of my TF is so strong that I can't help but feel it. Sometimes, when I'm not thinking about him, this is what I feel instead! Like he's always with me at the soul level, much like my best friend on the other side. But, he's still here in the physical, and it feels like his soul and physical self are like two different entities...
The obsessive thinking started as soon as I woke up in the morning and would not stop until I fell asleep. My mind raced so much with thoughts of him I felt exhausted. I literally screamed out loud in frustration "Please Stop" like I was yelling at someone and it would not end. Now that I am focusing on myself more and trying to do some self work, I don't think of him like I did a few months ago. My attention is more focused on my pain, trauma, and bad behavior patterns. I'm taking baby steps to heal and I'm no longer obsessively thinking about him and needing to hear from him so much. He pops up in my mind but not like before.
I know that feeling... The screening. I was an absolute wreck. Kurt's videos helped and got me out of it. I do remember her from time to time... Now I am afraid of my twin flame coming back. I guess I might have turned the runner from the chaser. Now I am petrified of her. But I know that pain. Still can't get over it.
Hi, i am a student. Everything Kurt says is true! I am proof that it really is all about the energy. My "story" (the story really doesn't matter) with my other self was that He said that it was ME who rejected him (even though he is the one that ended it - his actions and words did not match). He felt i didn't love him. He felt rejected, unloved etc. But the dynamic was still the same. He blocked me, avoided me, ghosted me. when i focused on him he ran. I focused on me, he came back. Simple! Anyways, i completed the course (BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE!!). I followed the programme. YES.. Slowly overtime he came back in, but its different! I prefer the zen and peace. I am now living a beautiful life. My real life. Kurt is the real deal!
@@peachfuzz. Yes, a complete mess. It was hard at first. Very hard. Frustrating. I had a lifetime of conditioning to shed. Like layers of an onion. I had a romanticised idea of what true love was . Expectations of the man's job was to make me happy. Ideas around roles etc. I look back now and know this was the best thing to ever happen to me. Yes its hard at first. Kurt's True Spiritual Journey course was the only thing which gave me relief. It is the truth! You have to follow it. He is clear about what is required and what this is. His free content is top notch. Watch. Follow. You'll get there!
@@peachfuzz. Sorry. I did post a response but its not showing. Short answer is YES....very much so! Kurts course "The true spiritual journey" was the only thing that worked.
Omg when the obsessive thinking started, I thought he put a spell on me 😂 his name continually chanted in my head for weeks. I thought I was going to go crazy, until one day… the repetition began to wane. I was so relieved. Months after it completely stopped & I began to stand in my power, he came right on in . My divine partner ran again & now I know why. I’m in full acceptance & I’m no longer invested in the outcome ✨
My experience of the obsessive thinking is akin to her or a part of her inside of me or inside of my body with me... like a presence with me and in me 24/7.
My story is different because I have a wonderful relationship with my twin in spirit. He is on the other side of the veil and there are times when our telepathically conversations are very clear, not always because it depends how I feel or if I am too distracted doing 3d things. I've never known love like this in this life, it is adoration we feel for each other. He is guiding me and helping me always, sending songs or messages when emotions block the connection. Know that no matter what happens in the physical plane, your twin adores you.
In my case, she had sleepless nights and obsessed thinking as well.. she told me that.. and that she never felt a connection like this to someone else.
i’m extremely grateful to hv found ur channel, what seems to be an impossible mountain to cross over has now become lighter and easier. The obsessive thinking has slowed down, and yes im required to detox, and yes sometimes i might find myself occassionally checking him out and still researching bout TF to aid my ascension journey, understand the core and tackle it. But what changed is there isn’t anymore emotional charges behind it, and i’m not triggered anymore. there’s still a lingering of hope that he’ll come back, but i believe that soon will die away just as my ego is slowly stripping away little by little. Thanks!
@@nyxnightlinger7719 Exactly, mine married a karmic but I feel he's still holding on to me energetically, I don't think its going to last, even so I could find a soulmate lets see what happens. If he doesn't take action, and leave her I'm going to look for a high level soulmate
@@nyxnightlinger7719 I always feel his presence, how is that possible if he got married? I presume he’s not happy with her someone told me that too, karmics are just learning lessons.
Omg. That statement was so helpful! "When you focus on them, they focus on anything but you" because it's a direct mirror. So when you go within and focus on yourself, and for me, my relationship with God they are pulled/magnetized to focus on me.
@@kcsnipes I know I've been so confused too. Many relationship gurus will tell women to focus on themselves because it is a feminine energy (receiving) and an automatic attractor of masculine energy.
@@kcsnipes Hey there. I’m nearly 8 years in of my TF journey and 6 of them being in separation. It’s my understanding that in those moments where they’re ignoring you and you’re not seeing your reflection of yourself from them in a physical sense is because you’re not focusing on YOU inwardly. Since they are YOU on a soul level, the physical/personality part of them can only reflect that deep energetic truth in ignoring you since you’re ignoring YOURSELF deep down. I think like how mentioned, free will/personality definitely comes into play. Some individuals are more stubborn than others. So,there must be some sort of divine balance going on there but ultimately like he says, if you totally detach and realize that they truly are you at the soul level and there isn’t separation than maybe your shared soul compels them to reunite in the physical within the natural/divine confines of free will. I have come far in my own journey but am still learning each and every day as well. I can tell you it does get easier when you commit to focusing and loving yourself first and foremost. Just take one day at a time. Anyways, I hope this made sense from my end and I wish you well on your own journey! 💕✨✨✨
Yes. The personality does affect how and when they come back. After a year of going within, mine is coming back. But, it's definitely in her own way. She always contacts with a 'business reason', our conversations are easy going and flow well. Main thing is, I focus on my energy when I'm interacting with her. I don't focus on what she is saying or doing.
4 months no communication and I still can’t seem to stop thinking of her. Can’t even move forward with anybody else because I still have constant unwanted thoughts. I feel like I’m going crazy 😪
Oh my gosh. This is amazing! It just IS!! It just IS! I was practically chanting that phrase, and then you said it! But you very clearly explained something I've been trying to put together to STOP the cycle of obsessive thinking, which is absolute hell!! Thank you! You've got a new subscriber!! This is exactly what I've been looking for!
My experience from obsessive thinking goes like this per second= 10000 thoughts about this person per minute= 1000000 thoughts about this person Per hour-= trillion thoughts Per day = gazillion thoughts Per month= Infinity thoughts During sleep/ dream= 0 thoughts about this person🤔 It's like PTSD, my brain is beating like a heart 😵
the obsessive thinking is insane,,, andso many signs from the universe on top of everything else... WTF literally sometimes I just have to cry because of how many synchronicities I've been getting lately and the sleepless nights I've been trying to stay busy as much as I can but literally I want to go crazy with the obsessive thinking I try to do so much to take my mind off of it and no matter what he's still there in the back of my mind never leaves,, hes always there!!!
Reunion felt as comfortable as being by myself...like it was chill ...still felt lovely being physically with them but it was just beautiful and calm and all the previous shit was gone...
Can you please elaborate more if you don’t mind. I’ve always been curious what reunion is like physically since you can’t really be in "love" and what that would be like
😂😂😅 I love that you make this fun and hilarious. Being a twin flame is like getting a splinter, in your butt cheek, from sliding down a banister. Your counterpart has one in their butt cheek too, but neither one of you can seem to stop doing stupidly fun things when you're together.❤
Maybe because even when I think of him less and less and start letting go he visits me on my dream acting like we're totally fine and together, meanwhile in 3d it's a stubborn goat
The obsessive thinking is crazy 😜 - but I just recently found you, Kurt and so grateful. The buzz is starting to calm down a little and all your daily tips & reminders are sooo helpful. 🙏
It was a dark dark place! The obsessive thinking would not shut off and i was desperate to find answers and why he left. Made absolutely no sense because we were in a good place at the time he first ran. But the thoughts would not stop and the searching for answers and the desperate energy in trying to get answers, but the harder you push the more the ghosting took place. So weird!
I’ve never been so pissed nor have I ever tried so hard to stop thinking about somebody. It seems like he doesn’t care, but if I’m honest about my actions, it probably seems like I don’t either.
My twinflame did anything what I thought to her with another person. And a few years ago, when I had another relationship she was thinking of me all the time, and said that she missed me. So, when I focused on another person, she focused on me. And I was confused because I thought, I can‘t go with another person to make her come back. Because when I focused again on her she ran again. That’s why your science based explanation made so much sense to me. Even my twin flame told me the last time, I have to go out of duality. And then you showed up in my RUclips feed. And she comes back always when I am out of my mind, but it is still a process. From time to time. So, still thank you for your being! 🙏🏽💫
Def a lot of obsessive thinking from me. He was more on the too intense! Bye!!! What I did notice was as the thinking triggered me, I identified things I needed to heal. The obsessive thinking eventually faded. Every now and then he’ll pop up in my thoughts but nothing to triggering. No contact still unless I reach out because the intensity of the pull to check in. Every time I have though I checkin with myself what my intentions are. Usually ended up something bad was going on on his end. Opening up to try and date others. Let’s see what happens. Whatever is meant to will happen as long as I keep it moving and stay open to divine guidance. Great video btw
The obsessive thinking is torturous and maddening at times. Sometimes I feel like I am going mad and I ask God to make it stop. I know it drives him wild just the same... I can feel his energetic presence around me as if he was really touching me-blows my mind
Yes, so very true, he doesn't seem to give a damn. He msgd me after over one year of silence when my ex-partner and father of my children died in front of me. He's got his moon in Aquarius I have my moon in Scorpio. I know he even was surprised when I crossed the road the minute he drove past me and I had no idea he had been to a running event 100kms away, yes the obsessive thinking of him, I've tried to move on but I can't. And yes it was almost exactly 2 month when it ended suddenly and unexpectedly when his ex-partner told his adult children not to talk to him anymore,as an Aries/Taurus cusp family is very important and he ditched me. He came back twice but I ended it because he wanted to keep it "light". With moon in Aquarius he doesn't believe in anything spiritual. I feel like I've had enough and am ready to let it go....
Thank you so much Kurt, you've really helped us a lot. After that 4 weeks, for me it was a period of incessant crying for almost a year. I couldn't wait to get home to cry, because all the logics were failing, I had no way to console myself. It was so weird. And yes at that time the tf, who was the one who actually got the crush first, seemed to be living a perfect life. Later, I came across the concept of tf and luckily found your channel, saw the playlist, read the power of now, watched Samadhi and other things you tell. This all helped me focus on myself, I got rid of all the foolish grudges and started feeling really calm. Now, although I and the tf are not in contact, I've come to know from people around that the tf is behaving weird, like sitting alone for hours. Is it DNOTS of tf? I know it shouldn't matter for me, but it is disturbing me and leading to my obssessive thinking. And I'm really not concerned about being with tf, but this obsessive thinking is affecting my progress in other areas of life. Please make a video about what to do in such situation.
Feels like an alien took over my brain, it is definitely forced on you and you feel like the choice was never yours. My God it never stops. It is intense!!
I don't like it but I needed to hear it 😂 I need to focus on myself and my own happiness. He's busy doing his own stuff. I'm stuck in my own head - dreaming of him all day. It's pathetic and it's taking over my life.
I’m tired of thinking of him he got distant last November and yet I think of him every single day. I feel we are so connected and know what he is thinking and wants to reconnect with me but he doesn’t know how to do it and just decided he can’t and I go more crazy and it’s worse the dreaming of him great dreams we get a long great we love each other like no other love this is such a unique and Devine type of love but where is he? And I’m just tired of all the thinking and yet I know we will see each other again I don’t know when but we will or call each other something is going to happen is just too insane all this.
I'm so glad I'm over the obsessive thinking! It literally felt like I was going crazy because i couldn't control it. It was just constant. Mine disappeared after 6weeks and I was in tears most days. In a normal situation if someone I'd been talking to disappeared, I wouldn't care. I'd block them but this was different. I couldn't bring myself too. I'd constantly message him and he would ignore me which sent my mind into over drive. Now I'm in a place where I'm not bothered if I hear from him. Thoughts creep in about him but I stop them in there tracks. I asked him once why he "ran"? And he didn't know why, he pops back in every now and then and disappears again and I know that, that's my fear based energy still doing that!💜
Def what I’m going through. I’m a super prideful go f yourself forget you kind of woman. Once I feel wronged it’s easy for me to shut you off. With this recent experience it’s so different. I felt so anxious like I needed answers he wasn’t giving me or I was thinking the answers he gave wasn’t enough because I just didn’t understand or fully accept. I feel a part of me wants to send him to the forget you list, but another part of me can’t. And this feeling of weakness and vulnerability.
I agreed, the more I think about my twin flame.. he starts ignoring me like I am not at all on this earth alive.. But the time I start to work on myself by meditating, suddenly I get call from him and we talked on anything more than 2 hours like nothing happened before.
Has anyone else gotten past the obsessive thinking stage, into the acceptance of self and that things will be what they are meant to be, only to start being haunted by their name EVERYWHERE, daily?!? His name is an unusual one, and I now hear it, or see it continually. It's like being haunted. It's incredibly bizarre.
Kurt, have you experienced any students who have confused limerence and narcissistic or toxic abuse patterns as the twin flame relationships?. I have heard people call being discarded as the other “running” and manipulative love-bombing as “romantic beginning”. And the stories they share are often laced with trauma that doesn’t trigger spiritual growth but instead a more devalued sense of self. I think if you have a history of obsessive thinking toward many people and use twin flame to rationalize it, it’s limerence. It would have to be a unique one time occurrence for that single person to be TF, correct? If the relationship dynamic includes manipulating love-bombing, devaluing, discarding and blame shifting it’s a toxic abusive relationship. In my experience with my TF versus narcissistic abusers is that my twin flame would say “hurting you hurts me” and it was a deep knowing so there is a deep conscious effort to avoid hurting one an other even if we are repelling each other with mental duality behaviors. I am curious if there are other notable differences or if you consider them all twin flame or soulmate because they believe them to be? Thanks.
My obsessive thinking was ridiculous and dark night of the soul was absolutely horrific. I have never felt trauma like it. My heart had a pain in it, I wasn't acting normal I was trying to talk to people about it who didn't understand, I was posting my feelings on social media, I was inconsolablly crying for months, I was on social media at any given minute looking/wanting answers. I was having panic attacks wherever he was away from me as we worked together. It was the worst experience of my life! That was 13 years ago. Thinking about it still tears me apart to the deepest level. I'm healing/meditating, looking after myself, stopped crying. Still think about him but in a loving way. I just know shit. It is very weird, but meeting him was the most phenomenal experience ever, and my mind will never be able to comprehend what being even next to him felt like.
For some strange reason it took them running 7 times to trigger the dark night of the soul experience. Before the 7th time, I was actually rather indifferent to her running away from me all of the time, ghosting me all of the time, and just generally coming up with any excuse to avoid me at times. But that last time just made everything suddenly spiral out of control and it felt like something was coming over me, like a wave, that was just building and I couldn't stop it.
5 am, “I’m done. No more thinking about him. Nope, so done. Now it’s all me and my spiritual journey.” 5:25 am “What if I missed him posting something about me after all this time? I’ll just check once more.” Repeat ad nauseum throughout the day, collapse from exhaustion, repeat for days on end. That’s how that obsession thinking train rolls through.
It never relents! Over five years now, every single day, I think of her. She doesn't think of me at all, at least I think? I have learned to just accept that this is a part of my life that will never go away. I have to just cope with it. I don't want to hurt her or scare her. I have set up strong boundaries with her that protect us both from me. It is a miserable existence, but it has made me very strong at times. I just live my best life the best way I can.
Is this why when I’m with my twin flame there’s a sense of stillness calmness we hardly talk like there’s no need and when we touch it’s like in another dimension
I experience the obssessive thinking for now 2 years, and i don't have any contact of my twin flame. Now i'm fine with it, when at the beginning I cry to death. Btw im the ''divine feminine' in the body of a men, and my tf is the ''divine masculine'' in the body of a women. Thank you kurt for all of your video it help me a lot . one thing : get out of the duality of the mind.
I can be minding my business and then I’ll just start thinking about him out of no where. But I feel as he’s thinking about me and it’s a strong pull mentally like I should reach out to him. It’s hard to explain the feelings
@@couchconversationswsharan3772 I think you're right that it was their energies, but those who don't experience this will probably think we're obsessed or crazy. I even question my own mental health for a while.
My "other self" did think about me when i had detached a bit (this happened countless of times), then as soon as i focused on them...*silence*. I think you're right about personality playing a role.
The best way I can describe how the "obsessive" thinking has played out for me is feeling like his presence is always there, but it didn't totally feel obsessive to me, more just like a constant awareness of his presence. I would say the feeling of obsession would only come when I was resisting this awareness, but I am learning to make peace with it and have experienced exactly what you described in terms of focusing on myself/my spirituality and that's when I connect with him and it feels peaceful and wonderful! Thank you so much for this video, I love this more scientific way of describing the twin flame connection.
I don't have obsessive thinking about him, but yeah it's just there , it happens when we think our life without them is incomplete or we're incomplete without them, but it's not true. The more we try to hold onto something, the more we think. Instead of that, connect yourself with divine more, the more you connect wholeheartedly, you'll automatically learn to surrender yourself without any force, it'll flow naturally, because you'll realise, the divine love we seek outside, is actually what we find within. ourselves
The obsessive thinking is terrible! At times I think I’m going crazy! I try to move on, go on dates, but on my way to pick up my date I’m listening to videos trying to figure out why this is all happening, why she went away, & how could she not even care? Needless to say I’m not very invested in my date. I know I have to let go & focus on my own growth, but it’s easier said than done.
Each and every journey is unique and individual there's no template. The bubble love phase is individual to every TF experience. the soul recognises itself when you embark on your spiritual journey. The obsessive thinking will go on but as you go within and you become the observer of your thoughts, you will be at peace. My twin flame shows up but keeps me at an arms length and sometimes I run from him and yes of course I AM DF, it's about the underlying embedded energy not just thinking solely. Your emotions too. Your inner pain. It's a common misinformation about twins being opposites or genders it doesn't matter. I usually run because our personalities are different. It's about energy. I act with avoidance and focus on within. The ego never stops, you watch it. That's it. Pure consciousness.
Kurt in my journey this far it has went back and forth. When we first contacted I was busy with all kids of life stuff. I didn't have time to pay very much attention to her she was persistent AF and texting complimenting constantly. We finally got to start spending time and it was awesome. What you are saying resonates because when I got to focused on her she had excuses out the wazoo not to be alone with me. This was after about 8 weeks. We blocked each other for 3 months and I was a mess then we some how got in contact and have been talking. The more I do my own thing and meditate the more she comes after me.
It's weird, I had my dark night, obsessive thinking and all the signs but we never really had a bubble phase, it was different... I met him but I was finishing some business with my ex, I was still hurt so I saw him and felt like this guy has something but no... The next year I saw him again and started interaction I was like heeey I really like him and I think he likes me ... I confessed and he got scared but remained only friends, he was starting dating someone else and I felt sad but decided to get distracted with work but I couldn't really get over him, it wasn't obsessive thinking yet, but every time I was like meh I'm ok again... He showed up in a way or another and last year we started talking regularly and I started feeling like he liked me too, however I didn't dare to say anything again because I didn't want him to go away again, anyway it happened and that's when my dark night started, thinking about him, tarot readings, trying to write messages to him and deleting them because I didn't want to be annoying, checking his Facebook profile over and over, getting worried with a lot of what if? Feeling pain in the heart chakra ( one day it "popped" it felt weird) and the repeated numbers started... I was like am I going insane? Will I ever be in peace again? I found the twin flame information and I was like huuuh perhaps? But I got tired of it and stopped looking for information because I felt worse and it was very vague... But every time I start feeling better and getting aligned... He appears...Thing is we never really had a bubble romantic phase and I'm not sure if he is my twin or not, I just know it hurted a lot and the obsessive thinking is a limbo but he triggered my awakening and I'm thankful with him because of it... Still a lot to learn and let go but I'm starting to find my inner peace thanks to you... Greetings from Mexico!
It’s driving me nuts!!!! I try to not think and then something comes into my head when I hear a song, think of a moment, watch a movie.... I just want to quit! I have noticed that the moments I stop thinking of him he shows up. He has actually stalked me when he had a girlfriend ( not sure if they are still together). I know this because she showed up at my front gate taking pictures of me and sending them to him. I was in my truck and just drove off. Haven’t seen him since because all I can do is think about him again. Lol it’s maddening.
Weirdly, when he pulled away.. I mirror his behaviour right away. He seems nervous and mad at me but didn’t do anything. He sent some friends to stalk on me, he did post some stuff to provoke me.. While I remain calm. Even when I feel dying inside. It’s been 5 months and I still finding answer why can’t I let him go, I didnt stalk him didnt reach out but the feeling inside is still so intense and I’m still trying my best to let go and focus on my growth :(
@@AriesyaNadhiraRoslane I am learning is the only way to let go is to embrace ourselves and self worth - it is time and mentally consuming to reflect only upon yourself, - 2 steps forward and 1 step backward. Embrace who your are! Take that time to love yourself
My TF blocked me on SM. Out of nowhere he unblocked me a year ish later, I felt it. It was strange. Bam! Obsessive thoughts came back. I wish he kept me blocked 😂. I still have made up scenarios with him entering my life again. And it won't stop. My brain wants it. My heart no longer feels for him because I know I deserve better. But here we are 😂
The obsessive thinking is exactly what you say. No description. It makes me SICK to my stomach because I can’t fucking stop. 🙄🙄 EVERYTIME he comes back because I’m pulling my energy away, he comes back, then I go back to obsessive thinking and he pulls away again. And I’m like bro WHAT THE FUCK. HOW DO I GET OUT OF THE OBSESSIVE THINKING 😭😭😭😭
Hey people! Can we just be honest with ourselves? I am here because this was on my suggestions and I was curious to hear what this was about, because it was a while I was not watching a video like this one. Please do yourself a favour and concentrate on yourself. Nothing such as TF exists. That is just your wounded inner child that is making you feel and see things in a way that is not like reality is. Don't waste your time in such things. Go out there, be yourself and build a life is worth living. The right person will come to you with no need to walk away. Many blessings to you all, wish you good luck and don't mess with your mind ❤️
I had reunion with my twin 2 days ago after 1.5 years, we are both very aware and in touch with the connection, I've had the obsessive stages ALOT. And it was only when I genuinely pulled away and forgot about him he reappeared wanting to hold me etc. I couldn't believe I wasn't overwhelmed with happiness as I thought I would be , it really is true how when you pull away they be thinking of you. I am now re entering obsessive stage.. why I'm here... but I feel really connected to him again and at peace , I just love him so much and want to be with him but for so many reasons we can't be or even speak to each other, I even doubt that it's real at times and I'm always proven wrong! I need guidance 🙏
That does happen. When we are obsessive they don’t want us but when you’re like meh- you’re okay they are all over- you- expect when you’re in union. I mean if it feels like the beginning. Ugh…….
I agree with this mine lives next door and I find it so hard not to focus on him. So I struggle with the thinking but I try to pull back big time. Thank you always.
Me and my tf met when we were both 11 in 6th grade. Now we both are 21 and till today he is on my mind 24/7, like crazy. He totally likes me but hasn't confessed yet. I see all the time 222, everywhere. Guess what, his birth date is 22 2. Even his LinkedIn profile says 222 at the end. His behavior mirrors the way I treat myself. If I am ignoring myself, he would be ignoring me.,.... Now, I am learning to love myself. 🥰🤠
... that's just as it is. 4 weeks of intense "romance" and then... slowly going away. From the 6th week, it was only me cashing. Started a spiritual journey with the highest highs and lows I've ever seen... I was so damned obsessed that I really felt I was going mad but meditation, yoga and these videos are helping me starting my life brand new. What I was before... I cannot recall.
I decided to detach. He’s still running and makes it obvious that he’s not gonna be in a relationship with me. Contacts me randomly but always says we’re friends lol I walked away two months agai because of non monogamy in his part and he’s been bitter ever since. Doesn’t show it but using phrases like “Oh thanks for picking up the phone I needed a friend today & thought of you” Total bullshit. We haven’t seen each other. Blew me me off last week but it’s OK! I’ve started going within and listening to Eckhart Tolle The Power Of Now Finding my peace in being without him. I no longer crave to be with him physically. Distance does help.
Don't give up,it's a divine connection,they'll come back to you and probably stay with you forever because twinflames are meant to be together and they'll unite one day for sure
Thank u 😊 Kurt for the video, appreciate it, just had a energetic shift few days ago and I feel better, your paid coaching program has help me so much thank u from my bottom of my heart ❤️ , u are the best,🙏🙏😊💖♥️✊
I noticed any time I fell into old behavior patterns I started thinking of my twin flame It’s like she pushes me and reminds me to keep moving past by becoming who I should be and not who I used to be
I recognised them for narcissistic behaviour and false twin flames but for some reason. Even while i completely deleted her from my contacts and life. She’s still in my head without me wanting it, and i keep getting reminders as she just pops up.
Everybody hunger for love, idealizing it with the name"twin flame"....focusing on the stars, being functionaly blind for the already shining moon, just because the moon is not the twin flame, but soul mate..... Blessing those who come into my mind, wishing a nice journey, without getting stucked in persons who don't care.Physics has its busines, I have mine, which is also very important and human. Thank you for this explanation.Physic will always be wonderful and interesting.....
For the obsessive thinking was when I lost time. I sat and thought and was talking to myself for 6 hours straight in one spot not moving but it felt like an 1hr1/2 at most. After knowing how long itd been I still came back to the same spot and thought for another half an hour. It just sucks u in.
The obsessive thoughts about her, started exactly after I seen those eyes and questioned "why do I know you!?" And it came to be that when I felt i was a woman in my past life, that was me that i was looking at. So, the intensity of seeing myself started the obsessive thinking, which bothered me at first until i came to accept it and be one. Because attaching to the person is why I suddenly become trapped by illusion of duality. The images of delusional imagination creates slide shows that never happen in emotion that can trigger attachments to what isn't you. And, when i think about her, I feel this power streaming through me, because i feel this energy of who i was in the past through the portal of my eyes. So, my best description is that this is supposed to happen now because in the past we were so dug up by circumstances that didnt include ourselves to be aware and more conscious to be opened up to feel who we really are. So, the running and pulling is like you pulling a giant bolder as the other you tries push it because its so heavy. This heaviness would be the ego and once you detach and let this hurricane ice ball away. Your giving yourself the freedom and peace to let go of what the memory card of the computer that chipped you within the matrix from the past life, and into the now life you were programmed to believe that you need to push the past with you to the future. See the past life had the conceot of pulling past to the future. Once we realize that we no longer need this mind control ego, we become free of this weight. You stop pulling and pushing the ego to be what the program like rules that limit you to act out a certain way in the movie. Sp, when you become free. This is how to be one without that giant heavy bolder infront of you and behind you which caused that pushing and pulling and running away from yourself phase that causes the mind the obsessively think about how can IT fix the past and future. (Seperation) from the power of NOW. The present creates space for the mind to let go, and to allow YOU as consciousness to vibrate freely and become one. ❤
5 years ago when my tf ran, I was devastated and had obsessive thoughts for a while but then I treated it like my past connections and figured the best way to get over it was to find someone else. I didn't know anything about twin flames then. My DM and I have remained friends and co-workers the entire 5 years since. She went back to her husband, I reconnected with an ex and have been with her over 4 years now.... I had convinced myself that it just wasn't meant to be.... then a year ago I was bombarded with thoughts of my dm. Songs would make me think of her..... thinking of the bubble love days.... so I told her about my thoughts and feelings and she said the same thing was happening to her. One day the term twin flame popped in my mind when I was thinking of her so I researched it. That's exactly what she is. I got into chase mode again, she got into run mode.... and i have spent the past year working on myself and noticing the triggers and trying to work through them. My growth over the past year is insane.
I feel like the obsessive thinking is like being on a hamster wheel in the depths of hell. It sucks. No matter how much you want it to stop it just won’t.
Invasive ,obsessive thinking it is, very draining because it’s uncontrollable . I respectfully cut my twin flame out 2 weeks ago, we have been living together for two years , love was insane and out of this world. My twin left for great job opportunity during corona times to Australia and we been living in Finland. It’s been 1,5 years long distance contact, my twin emotionally detached but still wanted me as a friend. I tried but it was so draining and lots of pain and suffering. So i did stop communication recently but that made me think of a twin non stop again. I am not giving up on moving on and i won’t contact my twin anymore. I just want to be happy and that union made me want to die
It’s like a bipolar psychotic attack from the inside of your head and a heart attack at the same time a deep molestation of uncontrollable desperation in sexual energy. This was 3 years ago but I still remember like yesterday. And am never going back🤣
😂😂😂 you don't need to go back. Not only is it burned into your highlight reel, but - the divine is gonna crash bang y'all back together at some point in some lifetime across the universe! Good luck 🫡 😅
As soon as i left my twin flame after six years of focusing on him, now that i'm getting married with someone else, only now, he seems obsessed with me. But for me Is literally too late. And i only talk to him in a telepathic way, because i accepted that we are just not meant to be. I mean, i hardly tried to make it worked. But he always seemed like he just didn't give a f about me. So i left. And now he's obsessed with me. I don't regret it because i grew up a lot in a human and spiritual way, and i have to thank him. But i don't want him back because in that situation, i was dying from the inside. And now finally i feel like i'm living my life.
I’m in this place where I’m pretty sure this is my Twin. We met through work. I see constant synchronicities everywhere. We did not communicate much at work because he kept me at arms length, not wanting others to know his attraction for me. The energy between us is mind blowing. I literally can’t breathe around him time is like a standstill. I got so tired of seeing his face and not communicating that I left that job. Seeing the look on his face when I left made me feel like I’d been stabbed in the chest. From the time I wake up till the time I close my eyes he is on my mind. My heart feels like it has been ripped out of my chest. And even when I try not to think of him I see his name or initials on license plates or certain numbers, repeatedly. The whole process is so painful, even in my dreams I cannot escape him. I feel like I’ve been cursed. All I want is to just be with him. To know what it feels like to touch him, to be in his arms, to kiss him. I want to know if this is my Twin or someone I’ve just fallen madly in love with.
Obsessive thinking had me go through sleepless nights, thinking about him all day night it starts right from the minute you open your eyes till you close it and worst when you can't sleep, taro after taro reading, finding answers coming across theories, soul mate twin difference, loosing mind, hair loss, hormonal imbalance and a lot and lot of pain. It was horrible and on the other side he was moving more and more away from me with each passing day. Now I have come to terms with it. My spiritual journey has begun🌟✨
Hi doc yessss exactly all is right 😍thank god I found my twin flame ❤️We got fall in love at the first day we saw eachother and after 10 days we had miss understanding conversation at our 3th date then we separated for 2 weeks and I remember I was dying to see his eyes again then we back together but he was tough to accept commitment coz we are in long distance rel then after we meet again he gave me commitment and we can’t thinking of each other and he confessed that he is fall in love w me and he was at the first day and thank god again that I met my twins flame my one and only 🥺❤️People who think the find their twin flame should have patience and faith 😍😍😍
She is constantly on my mind, generally in the back ground. I don't fine it annoying or distracting and it doesn't interfere with my performance, but yeah I'm constantly thinking about her.
Since the summer of 2020, this is all I've done, think thoughts of him, get engaged with them, 24/7 on autopilot! Even when I was not thinking of him, it was just there, some thought-based thing going on at the back of my head! And yes, it absolutely works to be in the present, all the day long. They definitely show up after that. However, if you start thinking about them, fantasising a future with them and all after they come back, they'll disappear again (don't do it! I've fallen victim to this quite a few times now).
The obsessive thinking is horrible. I questioned my sanity and if this is even real. And yes they act like they don’t gaf and seem indifferent. Indifference is very hard to take. I have been dealing with this for about 5 years. I am starting to get better but I am not there yet. I keep asking myself if I am crazy.
I’ve gotten to the point where the thoughts are more fleeting to the point I rarely notice ‘em. I’m focused on my path. There’s been a lot of times lately that it feels like not my thoughts. I acknowledge them and just keep doing what I’m doing. Even pop into dreams when they weren’t even a thought before going to sleep.
Obsessive thinking was crazy! I couldn’t for one second stop it didn’t matter I could be doing anything it was 100 percent of the time couldn’t sleep walk up and boom instantly he was in my mind it was awful, he couldn’t care less about me it seemed
If I really do let go of him it's done. It's closed doors. When I'm over him I don't think I will give a shit about him coming back. Maybe. But it doesn't seem to me this way.
The obsessive thinking is horrible. You can't focus on anything else. It starts from the moment you open your eyes in the morning till you close them at night. It's absolute madness. I've started very slowly recovering. Ah and you can't be romantically with anyone else than your Twin, you suffer every second and looking desparately for answers and you fall on soulmates information which make things worse. You can't do anything to calm your mind. It's terrific.
@@kateraath1628 yeah, but it gets better!!!! im out of it now, pfff took a while but there's light on the end of the tunnel
I don’t feel like I needed to Learn to notice that I am the one in control of my thoughts I already knew that? But it still got me cause I wasn’t living the life I wanted.
Exactly u putted out so perfectly.. tis is so horrible we jus ever come across in our life
This is my feelings exactly 😩 some days are better then others I will say the more I think of him I try to focus more on inner work and then boom loads of thoughts of him 🤯 month 3 and I talk with him once a week 🤦🏽♀️
Damn I thought I was the only one dealing with this shit
Obsessive thinking- it felt like “I don’t want to chase you but I am not able to stop it”
there is a chaser n runner during the twin flame phase.
self control baby and pride and respect for urself
@@Sonic_sorceress ❤️ thank you!
@@Sonic_sorceress not happening
This!! It’s to the point that’s debilitating.
I describe the obsessive thinking as something that occurs all the time during your entire day. You have no control over trying to stop the obsessive thinking. The thinking is something that feels like it's something that is on autopilot, it's always occurring as you go about your daily life. You will be doing other things and still be thinking about your twin. The obsessive thinking started to go away for me when I started to heal my co-dependent issues.
Thank u for mentioning this I too am.codepedent. so.not sure if it's a twin flame..
I 100% agree it happens TO YOU. It’s like your living your life and then these obsessive thoughts invade your mind and you can’t escape them, no matter how much you fight them. But it does get easier. My DM is always on my mind, just floating in the background static all the time. I’ve come to accept that these thought will always be there. I just don’t allow them to completely consume me anymore. The more I turn my attention to myself the more strength and happiness I feel. The more comfortable and complete I am. I know my DM is Me as I am Him, but I try to carry out my life and just allow my guides to have control. It’s hard wanting to be with him all the time. But trusting that union will happen in divine terms not my own. Shows me I have more work to do before we are ready. Want puts up walls surrender allows the divine to work. Just be ok with being ok and know things will happen when they are supposed to happen.
@@ibelongtowaheguru3592 by work I mean practicing self, and self love. Looking inward more than relying on external sources for this validation. Instead of ‘want’ it should be allow for things to just be. To stop hyper-focus on the TF journey and just allow it to happen. Union will happen if you wrote it in your souls contract for union. Just let it go and let things just.. happen.
And when we are our Own guides. ..
Huh lol
I’ve found this too. It’s been nearly a year since the separation, and it just won’t go. I’ve ignored it, pushed it down, tried to let it go. I’ve tried to be in a relationship with someone else, and I loved this new person, but the feeling for him came back, stronger, until I recognised it, addressed it, and then I knew I could no longer continue that relationship because my heart and soul longed for only one. Now I’m in a constant knowing that I would rather be with no one, forever, if not with him. It’s either me, or me and him. I can’t fathom dating anyone else. And I’m okay with that tbh. I just accept this is how it is. Sure, if it became years later and things still hadn’t manifested, I would try again with someone new, but I honestly know I’ll forever have his presence haunting me.
Damn right daily calls from pup and I
The reason they go cold when we obsess over them is because when we deeply desire the connection, it brings up an element of lack within us. We cannot receive what we desire when we are in a view point of lack or separation.
Twin flame obsessive thinking = constantly running hampster wheel on steroids
It's like I have an evil twin that constantly Whispers his name into my ear no matter how hard I try to distract myself. That's what the obsessive thinking feels like
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The struggle is real. I've thought this too. Haha
Every time I try to not think or focus on my twin, and move into my day, his name pops up EVERYWHERE! I’m really stunned at this phenomena.
That happens to me and I don't understand. All day everywhere his first name. Now his last name pops up which is German... very unusual name..
Yep! Happened to me this weekend. I made a conscious attempt to Not think about him. I saw his name randomly 5 different times at least. It never stops LOL
@@kimsmart8839 because we’re not suppose to “ forget/ avoid/ run” from the connection. But face our fears and transmute it into love ❤️
That happens to me too.
@@samanthatheegr8 isn’t it wild. I feel it’s their higher self letting us know they are always ♾ with us. 🔥
I'm still currently in my obsessive thinking stage unfortunately. It's starts as soon as I wake up to my last thought when I go to bed. I just heavy reminisce the times we spent together and heavily analyze the conversations we had. It makes me feel insane with all these emotions. From happy to pissed in a matter of seconds to confused because how could they just up and leave when we were so amazing. I now understand thanks to Kurt! Also hearing everyone story names me feel not so crazy and alone!
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
The obsessive thoughts felt like a disease, I don't wish it on anyone, it is one of the most unpleasant experiences of my life.
I had to actually take breaks from work to be able to think about him otherwise the pressure would be too overwhelming on my mind and heart. It´s just horrible, not romantic at all, just intensely intrusive and plain awful. You feel like you are losing your mind. I think that´s kind of the point of the spiritual awakening but when you don´t know what´s happening it becomes a nightmare.
Plus the other person doesn´t give af about you and everyone tells you that you are obsessed.
If you are at this stage and you are going crazy, I want you to know that it will pass and there will come a time when it will not affect you the same or at all.
From my experience the OBSESSIVE thinking it's a night mare, per second u produce 10000+ thoughts about this person, per minute u produce 10000000 thoughts and per hour it's trillion thoughts🤔 and it goes on for months , for me my brain was beating like a heart, oh my god it's like PTSD, the only time u free from the thinking it's when u are sleeping or dreaming as soon as u wake up ,it's on again😵
Yes. Sometimes I would wake up and it felt like a buzzing in my head thinking of him. Almost as if i was thinking of him in my sleep. It's exhausting.
@@cbrooks122780 Exactly, me too. Thinking of him while sleeping.... Again, horrible experience, I would say is traumatic.
If by any chance there are any DMs reading this (highly doubt it but just in case), please be compassionate of your DF because we really go through hell and back because of this, and we didn't ask for this.
I agree with everything you said except the part about the person not giving af about you. If it’s your twin flame, the person cares very much even if they don’t act like it. The obsessive thinking goes both ways and it torments both people. It torments the “chaser” because they don’t understand why, when the connection is so strong and beautiful, the other person is running. And it torments the “runner” because they haven’t experienced this type of love before and it terrifies/confuses them. Both parties wish the obsessive thinking would stop but it’s beyond either of their control.
The awakening is painful but it is also remarkable. Once we’ve been awakened, we go on our own personal journey to change and grow. It’s really a beautiful thing in the end… but rest assured, your twin is suffering just as much as you are if it’s your twin. They are just better at hiding it because they’ve been conditioned to run/suppress strong emotions, but a twin flame connection is inescapable. They will have to face it sooner or later and when they do, growth is waiting for them on the other side.
The chaser has to lead though in my experience. Once you distance yourself from your twin and start embarking on your growth journey, that energy is felt by your twin and they will begin their journey as well. Reunion awaits at the end. 😌
@@jessicarose1991 I think you are aligned with the belief that twin flames are romantic and i am not. Not even when i met him.
When i met my twin i was physically attracted to him, but like In the same way i would like anybody else.
There was no indication at the beginning that we were twins, to me he was just another hot guy.
Also, he was my supervisor at work so i was always super professional with him.
The synchronicities started right away but I didn’t put two and two together because i had my awakening a few months before i met him and I thought the angel numbers had something to do with that, I didn’t even know anything about twin flames.
It wasn’t until we stopped working together that I developed psychic abilities, I could hear his thoughts and had visions of him. I didn’t know what was going on and I thought i was becoming squizofrenic. The obsessive thoughts are awful but we have been 3 years no contact and I don’t feel anything for him anymore.
Since I started following Kurt’s program the obsessive thoughts are gone and I don’t care if we are together or not.
All I wanted was to move on and kurt’s teachings is the only thing that helped me to get out of the pain.
Also, some twins are deep asleep. Meaning, yes, they don’t give af about you.
My thing isn’t that I obsessively “think” about him. It’s that I almost always seem to *feel* him around me-You know that feeling when you have your back turned and someone you know is near you and you can literally feel their presence; their energy, before you even see them? That’s how I feel about him. It’s like he feels like he’s near and all around me. It’s so damn weird I have never experienced anything like it 🤷🏻♀️
Yes! This resonates!!! It’s been a year and it’s like he’s WITH me. As if it’s the kind of thing someone feels when someone has passed, and they are like “oh I feel their presence!”… but it’s like ALL THE TIME, every SECOND of the day! It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, they are there!! I always feel like I have to looking around because he’s actually THERE, or I’m about to bump into him or something 😭
but; I imagine this is just your soul (after all, they are YOU) trying to get your attention! But your brain is manifesting this the only way it can understand, as THEM, but we’ve not really got into the concept of feeling our OWN energy. I guess we must learn to stop feeling it as them, and it feel it as us??!
Transmuting this energy of other into energy of I AM. And know that presence is a gift of KNOWING 😍🥲💖
@@SatrinaToreador I think you hit the nail on the head… It’s easier to think about someone else in that way than it is to actively think about yourself. So we focus on and “feel” them instead…But I think you’re right and that what we’re feeling is an aspect of our higher selves being awakened. Great comment!
Same
YES THIS DESCRIBES IT 100% FOR US TOO
@@SatrinaToreador Yeah, it's the same with me! It's as if I feel the presence of my best friend who passed away two years ago. I'm used to feeling that at times, but the presence of my TF is so strong that I can't help but feel it. Sometimes, when I'm not thinking about him, this is what I feel instead! Like he's always with me at the soul level, much like my best friend on the other side. But, he's still here in the physical, and it feels like his soul and physical self are like two different entities...
The obsessive thinking started as soon as I woke up in the morning and would not stop until I fell asleep. My mind raced so much with thoughts of him I felt exhausted. I literally screamed out loud in frustration "Please Stop" like I was yelling at someone and it would not end. Now that I am focusing on myself more and trying to do some self work, I don't think of him like I did a few months ago. My attention is more focused on my pain, trauma, and bad behavior patterns. I'm taking baby steps to heal and I'm no longer obsessively thinking about him and needing to hear from him so much. He pops up in my mind but not like before.
I know that feeling... The screening. I was an absolute wreck. Kurt's videos helped and got me out of it. I do remember her from time to time... Now I am afraid of my twin flame coming back. I guess I might have turned the runner from the chaser. Now I am petrified of her. But I know that pain. Still can't get over it.
The second of peace before my mind thinks of things like what I was gonna do that day was completely gone, it was crazy
I work at night and I find myself thinking all day. Then when it's time for work, I'm tired.
Anyone has any idea why sudden headache also and how to deal with them.
@@_seema_ I'm feeling the same thing
Hi, i am a student. Everything Kurt says is true! I am proof that it really is all about the energy. My "story" (the story really doesn't matter) with my other self was that He said that it was ME who rejected him (even though he is the one that ended it - his actions and words did not match). He felt i didn't love him. He felt rejected, unloved etc. But the dynamic was still the same. He blocked me, avoided me, ghosted me. when i focused on him he ran. I focused on me, he came back. Simple!
Anyways, i completed the course (BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE!!). I followed the programme. YES.. Slowly overtime he came back in, but its different! I prefer the zen and peace. I am now living a beautiful life. My real life. Kurt is the real deal!
Were you a mess at the start? Did you find it hard?
@@peachfuzz. Yes, a complete mess. It was hard at first. Very hard. Frustrating. I had a lifetime of conditioning to shed. Like layers of an onion. I had a romanticised idea of what true love was . Expectations of the man's job was to make me happy. Ideas around roles etc.
I look back now and know this was the best thing to ever happen to me. Yes its hard at first. Kurt's True Spiritual Journey course was the only thing which gave me relief. It is the truth! You have to follow it. He is clear about what is required and what this is. His free content is top notch. Watch. Follow. You'll get there!
@@peachfuzz. Sorry. I did post a response but its not showing. Short answer is YES....very much so! Kurts course "The true spiritual journey" was the only thing that worked.
Beautiful response 🥰
@@camelotrock9362 Thank you Camelot! I came on the lives at low points and spoke with you. You are a ray of sunshine
Omg when the obsessive thinking started, I thought he put a spell on me 😂 his name continually chanted in my head for weeks. I thought I was going to go crazy, until one day… the repetition began to wane. I was so relieved. Months after it completely stopped & I began to stand in my power, he came right on in . My divine partner ran again & now I know why. I’m in full acceptance & I’m no longer invested in the outcome ✨
My experience of the obsessive thinking is akin to her or a part of her inside of me or inside of my body with me... like a presence with me and in me 24/7.
My story is different because I have a wonderful relationship with my twin in spirit. He is on the other side of the veil and there are times when our telepathically conversations are very clear, not always because it depends how I feel or if I am too distracted doing 3d things. I've never known love like this in this life, it is adoration we feel for each other. He is guiding me and helping me always, sending songs or messages when emotions block the connection. Know that no matter what happens in the physical plane, your twin adores you.
In my case, she had sleepless nights and obsessed thinking as well.. she told me that.. and that she never felt a connection like this to someone else.
The obsessive thinking is even worse with all the synchronicities, signs you get about this person non stop !
i’m extremely grateful to hv found ur channel, what seems to be an impossible mountain to cross over has now become lighter and easier. The obsessive thinking has slowed down, and yes im required to detox, and yes sometimes i might find myself occassionally checking him out and still researching bout TF to aid my ascension journey, understand the core and tackle it. But what changed is there isn’t anymore emotional charges behind it, and i’m not triggered anymore. there’s still a lingering of hope that he’ll come back, but i believe that soon will die away just as my ego is slowly stripping away little by little.
Thanks!
I tried with other men, just can’t do it
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@@nyxnightlinger7719 Exactly, mine married a karmic but I feel he's still holding on to me energetically, I don't think its going to last, even so I could find a soulmate lets see what happens. If he doesn't take action, and leave her I'm going to look for a high level soulmate
@@nyxnightlinger7719 I always feel his presence, how is that possible if he got married? I presume he’s not happy with her someone told me that too, karmics are just learning lessons.
@@nyxnightlinger7719 But they probably want to come back no?
Omg. That statement was so helpful! "When you focus on them, they focus on anything but you" because it's a direct mirror. So when you go within and focus on yourself, and for me, my relationship with God they are pulled/magnetized to focus on me.
But when I look at a mirror it looks back at me so I don’t understand the direct mirror analogy ? But I understand them running if u focus on them
@@kcsnipes I know I've been so confused too. Many relationship gurus will tell women to focus on themselves because it is a feminine energy (receiving) and an automatic attractor of masculine energy.
@@kcsnipes Hey there. I’m nearly 8 years in of my TF journey and 6 of them being in separation. It’s my understanding that in those moments where they’re ignoring you and you’re not seeing your reflection of yourself from them in a physical sense is because you’re not focusing on YOU inwardly. Since they are YOU on a soul level, the physical/personality part of them can only reflect that deep energetic truth in ignoring you since you’re ignoring YOURSELF deep down. I think like how mentioned, free will/personality definitely comes into play. Some individuals are more stubborn than others. So,there must be some sort of divine balance going on there but ultimately like he says, if you totally detach and realize that they truly are you at the soul level and there isn’t separation than maybe your shared soul compels them to reunite in the physical within the natural/divine confines of free will. I have come far in my own journey but am still learning each and every day as well. I can tell you it does get easier when you commit to focusing and loving yourself first and foremost. Just take one day at a time. Anyways, I hope this made sense from my end and I wish you well on your own journey! 💕✨✨✨
Yes. The personality does affect how and when they come back. After a year of going within, mine is coming back. But, it's definitely in her own way. She always contacts with a 'business reason', our conversations are easy going and flow well. Main thing is, I focus on my energy when I'm interacting with her. I don't focus on what she is saying or doing.
4 months no communication and I still can’t seem to stop thinking of her. Can’t even move forward with anybody else because I still have constant unwanted thoughts. I feel like I’m going crazy 😪
Oh my gosh. This is amazing! It just IS!! It just IS! I was practically chanting that phrase, and then you said it! But you very clearly explained something I've been trying to put together to STOP the cycle of obsessive thinking, which is absolute hell!! Thank you! You've got a new subscriber!! This is exactly what I've been looking for!
My experience from obsessive thinking goes like this
per second= 10000 thoughts about this person
per minute= 1000000 thoughts about this person
Per hour-= trillion thoughts
Per day = gazillion thoughts
Per month= Infinity thoughts
During sleep/ dream= 0 thoughts about this person🤔
It's like PTSD, my brain is beating like a heart 😵
My twin flame and me have come together . Your videos have helped me prior to wanted you to say ty . For the peace and guidance . 🙏🏻
All of the comments here are perfection… No need to add more .. it’s exactly what i feel
the obsessive thinking is insane,,, andso many signs from the universe on top of everything else... WTF literally sometimes I just have to cry because of how many synchronicities I've been getting lately and the sleepless nights I've been trying to stay busy as much as I can but literally I want to go crazy with the obsessive thinking I try to do so much to take my mind off of it and no matter what he's still there in the back of my mind never leaves,, hes always there!!!
Reunion felt as comfortable as being by myself...like it was chill ...still felt lovely being physically with them but it was just beautiful and calm and all the previous shit was gone...
Can you please elaborate more if you don’t mind. I’ve always been curious what reunion is like physically since you can’t really be in "love" and what that would be like
😂😂😅 I love that you make this fun and hilarious. Being a twin flame is like getting a splinter, in your butt cheek, from sliding down a banister. Your counterpart has one in their butt cheek too, but neither one of you can seem to stop doing stupidly fun things when you're together.❤
Maybe because even when I think of him less and less and start letting go he visits me on my dream acting like we're totally fine and together, meanwhile in 3d it's a stubborn goat
🤣🤣 sounds like him
The obsessive thinking is crazy 😜 - but I just recently found you, Kurt and so grateful. The buzz is starting to calm down a little and all your daily tips & reminders are sooo helpful. 🙏
Have you watched his twin flame videos in the playlist? Kurt helped me with my 3-year journey when I thought I needed medical attention!
It was a dark dark place! The obsessive thinking would not shut off and i was desperate to find answers and why he left. Made absolutely no sense because we were in a good place at the time he first ran. But the thoughts would not stop and the searching for answers and the desperate energy in trying to get answers, but the harder you push the more the ghosting took place. So weird!
What happen? Did he return
@@micheleray9211 nope. He is with someone else right now. I am still trying to balance my energy, but not for him.
I’ve never been so pissed nor have I ever tried so hard to stop thinking about somebody. It seems like he doesn’t care, but if I’m honest about my actions, it probably seems like I don’t either.
Yes, when I started to focus on myself and even other people and issues, my twin contacted me.
My twinflame did anything what I thought to her with another person. And a few years ago, when I had another relationship she was thinking of me all the time, and said that she missed me. So, when I focused on another person, she focused on me. And I was confused because I thought, I can‘t go with another person to make her come back. Because when I focused again on her she ran again. That’s why your science based explanation made so much sense to me. Even my twin flame told me the last time, I have to go out of duality. And then you showed up in my RUclips feed. And she comes back always when I am out of my mind, but it is still a process. From time to time. So, still thank you for your being! 🙏🏽💫
The obsessive thinking is like a bad emotional thought rash. And the more you scratch it the worse it gets.
This is such a perfect way to put it! If you are willful enough to ignore the itch, it eventually quiets down. Scratch it again and it comes back.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
Def a lot of obsessive thinking from me. He was more on the too intense! Bye!!! What I did notice was as the thinking triggered me, I identified things I needed to heal. The obsessive thinking eventually faded. Every now and then he’ll pop up in my thoughts but nothing to triggering. No contact still unless I reach out because the intensity of the pull to check in. Every time I have though I checkin with myself what my intentions are. Usually ended up something bad was going on on his end. Opening up to try and date others. Let’s see what happens. Whatever is meant to will happen as long as I keep it moving and stay open to divine guidance.
Great video btw
The obsessive thinking is torturous and maddening at times. Sometimes I feel like I am going mad and I ask God to make it stop. I know it drives him wild just the same... I can feel his energetic presence around me as if he was really touching me-blows my mind
Yes, so very true, he doesn't seem to give a damn. He msgd me after over one year of silence when my ex-partner and father of my children died in front of me. He's got his moon in Aquarius I have my moon in Scorpio. I know he even was surprised when I crossed the road the minute he drove past me and I had no idea he had been to a running event 100kms away, yes the obsessive thinking of him, I've tried to move on but I can't. And yes it was almost exactly 2 month when it ended suddenly and unexpectedly when his ex-partner told his adult children not to talk to him anymore,as an Aries/Taurus cusp family is very important and he ditched me. He came back twice but I ended it because he wanted to keep it "light". With moon in Aquarius he doesn't believe in anything spiritual. I feel like I've had enough and am ready to let it go....
Thank you so much Kurt, you've really helped us a lot.
After that 4 weeks, for me it was a period of incessant crying for almost a year. I couldn't wait to get home to cry, because all the logics were failing, I had no way to console myself. It was so weird. And yes at that time the tf, who was the one who actually got the crush first, seemed to be living a perfect life.
Later, I came across the concept of tf and luckily found your channel, saw the playlist, read the power of now, watched Samadhi and other things you tell. This all helped me focus on myself, I got rid of all the foolish grudges and started feeling really calm.
Now, although I and the tf are not in contact, I've come to know from people around that the tf is behaving weird, like sitting alone for hours. Is it DNOTS of tf? I know it shouldn't matter for me, but it is disturbing me and leading to my obssessive thinking. And I'm really not concerned about being with tf, but this obsessive thinking is affecting my progress in other areas of life. Please make a video about what to do in such situation.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
Feels like an alien took over my brain, it is definitely forced on you and you feel like the choice was never yours. My God it never stops. It is intense!!
I don't like it but I needed to hear it 😂 I need to focus on myself and my own happiness. He's busy doing his own stuff. I'm stuck in my own head - dreaming of him all day. It's pathetic and it's taking over my life.
@@ssgissellee how?
I’m tired of thinking of him he got distant last November and yet I think of him every single day. I feel we are so connected and know what he is thinking and wants to reconnect with me but he doesn’t know how to do it and just decided he can’t and I go more crazy and it’s worse the dreaming of him great dreams we get a long great we love each other like no other love this is such a unique and Devine type of love but where is he? And I’m just tired of all the thinking and yet I know we will see each other again I don’t know when but we will or call each other something is going to happen is just too insane all this.
I'm so glad I'm over the obsessive thinking! It literally felt like I was going crazy because i couldn't control it. It was just constant. Mine disappeared after 6weeks and I was in tears most days. In a normal situation if someone I'd been talking to disappeared, I wouldn't care. I'd block them but this was different. I couldn't bring myself too. I'd constantly message him and he would ignore me which sent my mind into over drive.
Now I'm in a place where I'm not bothered if I hear from him. Thoughts creep in about him but I stop them in there tracks. I asked him once why he "ran"? And he didn't know why, he pops back in every now and then and disappears again and I know that, that's my fear based energy still doing that!💜
I feel like you just described my Twin Flame experience verbatim. I definitely need to get a coach to help me get thru my obsessive stage.
Def what I’m going through. I’m a super prideful go f yourself forget you kind of woman. Once I feel wronged it’s easy for me to shut you off. With this recent experience it’s so different. I felt so anxious like I needed answers he wasn’t giving me or I was thinking the answers he gave wasn’t enough because I just didn’t understand or fully accept. I feel a part of me wants to send him to the forget you list, but another part of me can’t. And this feeling of weakness and vulnerability.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
I agreed, the more I think about my twin flame.. he starts ignoring me like I am not at all on this earth alive.. But the time I start to work on myself by meditating, suddenly I get call from him and we talked on anything more than 2 hours like nothing happened before.
Has anyone else gotten past the obsessive thinking stage, into the acceptance of self and that things will be what they are meant to be, only to start being haunted by their name EVERYWHERE, daily?!? His name is an unusual one, and I now hear it, or see it continually. It's like being haunted. It's incredibly bizarre.
Kurt, have you experienced any students who have confused limerence and narcissistic or toxic abuse patterns as the twin flame relationships?. I have heard people call being discarded as the other “running” and manipulative love-bombing as “romantic beginning”. And the stories they share are often laced with trauma that doesn’t trigger spiritual growth but instead a more devalued sense of self.
I think if you have a history of obsessive thinking toward many people and use twin flame to rationalize it, it’s limerence. It would have to be a unique one time occurrence for that single person to be TF, correct?
If the relationship dynamic includes manipulating love-bombing, devaluing, discarding and blame shifting it’s a toxic abusive relationship.
In my experience with my TF versus narcissistic abusers is that my twin flame would say “hurting you hurts me” and it was a deep knowing so there is a deep conscious effort to avoid hurting one an other even if we are repelling each other with mental duality behaviors.
I am curious if there are other notable differences or if you consider them all twin flame or soulmate because they believe them to be? Thanks.
My obsessive thinking was ridiculous and dark night of the soul was absolutely horrific. I have never felt trauma like it. My heart had a pain in it, I wasn't acting normal I was trying to talk to people about it who didn't understand, I was posting my feelings on social media, I was inconsolablly crying for months, I was on social media at any given minute looking/wanting answers. I was having panic attacks wherever he was away from me as we worked together. It was the worst experience of my life! That was 13 years ago. Thinking about it still tears me apart to the deepest level. I'm healing/meditating, looking after myself, stopped crying. Still think about him but in a loving way. I just know shit. It is very weird, but meeting him was the most phenomenal experience ever, and my mind will never be able to comprehend what being even next to him felt like.
For some strange reason it took them running 7 times to trigger the dark night of the soul experience. Before the 7th time, I was actually rather indifferent to her running away from me all of the time, ghosting me all of the time, and just generally coming up with any excuse to avoid me at times. But that last time just made everything suddenly spiral out of control and it felt like something was coming over me, like a wave, that was just building and I couldn't stop it.
God please help him/her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
It’s driving me mad, tried everything to stop thinking of him, been 3 months now, constantly seeing mirror numbers x
5 am, “I’m done. No more thinking about him. Nope, so done. Now it’s all me and my spiritual journey.” 5:25 am “What if I missed him posting something about me after all this time? I’ll just check once more.” Repeat ad nauseum throughout the day, collapse from exhaustion, repeat for days on end. That’s how that obsession thinking train rolls through.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
Perfect example.
What you did? Ended eventually?
It never relents! Over five years now, every single day, I think of her. She doesn't think of me at all, at least I think? I have learned to just accept that this is a part of my life that will never go away. I have to just cope with it. I don't want to hurt her or scare her. I have set up strong boundaries with her that protect us both from me. It is a miserable existence, but it has made me very strong at times. I just live my best life the best way I can.
Is this why when I’m with my twin flame there’s a sense of stillness calmness we hardly talk like there’s no need and when we touch it’s like in another dimension
I experience the obssessive thinking for now 2 years, and i don't have any contact of my twin flame. Now i'm fine with it, when at the beginning I cry to death. Btw im the ''divine feminine' in the body of a men, and my tf is the ''divine masculine'' in the body of a women. Thank you kurt for all of your video it help me a lot . one thing : get out of the duality of the mind.
The obsessive thinking is one word TORTURE.
I can be minding my business and then I’ll just start thinking about him out of no where. But I feel as he’s thinking about me and it’s a strong pull mentally like I should reach out to him. It’s hard to explain the feelings
I actually understand what you're going through because I'm going through the same.
@@chanthana7694 Man ain’t it crazy, but I’m glad I’m not tripping. They’re thinking about us and we can feel their energy!
@@couchconversationswsharan3772 I think you're right that it was their energies, but those who don't experience this will probably think we're obsessed or crazy. I even question my own mental health for a while.
@@chanthana7694 Right , that we can never be lol 😂
My "other self" did think about me when i had detached a bit (this happened countless of times), then as soon as i focused on them...*silence*. I think you're right about personality playing a role.
It’s so annoying
The best way I can describe how the "obsessive" thinking has played out for me is feeling like his presence is always there, but it didn't totally feel obsessive to me, more just like a constant awareness of his presence. I would say the feeling of obsession would only come when I was resisting this awareness, but I am learning to make peace with it and have experienced exactly what you described in terms of focusing on myself/my spirituality and that's when I connect with him and it feels peaceful and wonderful! Thank you so much for this video, I love this more scientific way of describing the twin flame connection.
I don't have obsessive thinking about him, but yeah it's just there , it happens when we think our life without them is incomplete or we're incomplete without them, but it's not true. The more we try to hold onto something, the more we think. Instead of that, connect yourself with divine more, the more you connect wholeheartedly, you'll automatically learn to surrender yourself without any force, it'll flow naturally, because you'll realise, the divine love we seek outside, is actually what we find within. ourselves
The obsessive thinking is terrible! At times I think I’m going crazy! I try to move on, go on dates, but on my way to pick up my date I’m listening to videos trying to figure out why this is all happening, why she went away, & how could she not even care? Needless to say I’m not very invested in my date. I know I have to let go & focus on my own growth, but it’s easier said than done.
Each and every journey is unique and individual there's no template. The bubble love phase is individual to every TF experience. the soul recognises itself when you embark on your spiritual journey. The obsessive thinking will go on but as you go within and you become the observer of your thoughts, you will be at peace. My twin flame shows up but keeps me at an arms length and sometimes I run from him and yes of course I AM DF, it's about the underlying embedded energy not just thinking solely. Your emotions too. Your inner pain. It's a common misinformation about twins being opposites or genders it doesn't matter. I usually run because our personalities are different. It's about energy. I act with avoidance and focus on within. The ego never stops, you watch it. That's it. Pure consciousness.
Kurt in my journey this far it has went back and forth. When we first contacted I was busy with all kids of life stuff. I didn't have time to pay very much attention to her she was persistent AF and texting complimenting constantly. We finally got to start spending time and it was awesome. What you are saying resonates because when I got to focused on her she had excuses out the wazoo not to be alone with me. This was after about 8 weeks. We blocked each other for 3 months and I was a mess then we some how got in contact and have been talking. The more I do my own thing and meditate the more she comes after me.
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It's weird, I had my dark night, obsessive thinking and all the signs but we never really had a bubble phase, it was different... I met him but I was finishing some business with my ex, I was still hurt so I saw him and felt like this guy has something but no... The next year I saw him again and started interaction I was like heeey I really like him and I think he likes me ... I confessed and he got scared but remained only friends, he was starting dating someone else and I felt sad but decided to get distracted with work but I couldn't really get over him, it wasn't obsessive thinking yet, but every time I was like meh I'm ok again... He showed up in a way or another and last year we started talking regularly and I started feeling like he liked me too, however I didn't dare to say anything again because I didn't want him to go away again, anyway it happened and that's when my dark night started, thinking about him, tarot readings, trying to write messages to him and deleting them because I didn't want to be annoying, checking his Facebook profile over and over, getting worried with a lot of what if? Feeling pain in the heart chakra ( one day it "popped" it felt weird) and the repeated numbers started... I was like am I going insane? Will I ever be in peace again? I found the twin flame information and I was like huuuh perhaps? But I got tired of it and stopped looking for information because I felt worse and it was very vague... But every time I start feeling better and getting aligned... He appears...Thing is we never really had a bubble romantic phase and I'm not sure if he is my twin or not, I just know it hurted a lot and the obsessive thinking is a limbo but he triggered my awakening and I'm thankful with him because of it... Still a lot to learn and let go but I'm starting to find my inner peace thanks to you... Greetings from Mexico!
The same situation
Very hard to deal it 😭
It’s driving me nuts!!!! I try to not think and then something comes into my head when I hear a song, think of a moment, watch a movie.... I just want to quit! I have noticed that the moments I stop thinking of him he shows up. He has actually stalked me when he had a girlfriend ( not sure if they are still together). I know this because she showed up at my front gate taking pictures of me and sending them to him. I was in my truck and just drove off. Haven’t seen him since because all I can do is think about him again. Lol it’s maddening.
I got on my own nerves with the obsessive thinking. I still have it, just not as bad. ☺️
The obsessive thinking is a brilliant tool for seeing very clearly “I am not the mind”
Weirdly, when he pulled away.. I mirror his behaviour right away. He seems nervous and mad at me but didn’t do anything. He sent some friends to stalk on me, he did post some stuff to provoke me..
While I remain calm. Even when I feel dying inside. It’s been 5 months and I still finding answer why can’t I let him go, I didnt stalk him didnt reach out but the feeling inside is still so intense and I’m still trying my best to let go and focus on my growth :(
I’m sorry-100% understand.
He and I were together “forever” for over 4 years
@@virginiajackson8813 It's tiring I just hope if he's not meant for me I can let go of him completely
@@AriesyaNadhiraRoslane I am learning is the only way to let go is to embrace ourselves and self worth - it is time and mentally consuming to reflect only upon yourself, - 2 steps forward and 1 step backward. Embrace who your are! Take that time to love yourself
My TF blocked me on SM. Out of nowhere he unblocked me a year ish later, I felt it. It was strange. Bam! Obsessive thoughts came back. I wish he kept me blocked 😂. I still have made up scenarios with him entering my life again. And it won't stop. My brain wants it. My heart no longer feels for him because I know I deserve better. But here we are 😂
Now i m in a phase that i figured out you are life , soul itself is a life there is no differance between materialistic world and spirituality ..
The obsessive thinking is exactly what you say. No description. It makes me SICK to my stomach because I can’t fucking stop. 🙄🙄 EVERYTIME he comes back because I’m pulling my energy away, he comes back, then I go back to obsessive thinking and he pulls away again. And I’m like bro WHAT THE FUCK. HOW DO I GET OUT OF THE OBSESSIVE THINKING 😭😭😭😭
Hey people! Can we just be honest with ourselves?
I am here because this was on my suggestions and I was curious to hear what this was about, because it was a while I was not watching a video like this one.
Please do yourself a favour and concentrate on yourself. Nothing such as TF exists. That is just your wounded inner child that is making you feel and see things in a way that is not like reality is.
Don't waste your time in such things.
Go out there, be yourself and build a life is worth living. The right person will come to you with no need to walk away.
Many blessings to you all, wish you good luck and don't mess with your mind ❤️
I had reunion with my twin 2 days ago after 1.5 years, we are both very aware and in touch with the connection, I've had the obsessive stages ALOT. And it was only when I genuinely pulled away and forgot about him he reappeared wanting to hold me etc. I couldn't believe I wasn't overwhelmed with happiness as I thought I would be , it really is true how when you pull away they be thinking of you. I am now re entering obsessive stage.. why I'm here... but I feel really connected to him again and at peace , I just love him so much and want to be with him but for so many reasons we can't be or even speak to each other, I even doubt that it's real at times and I'm always proven wrong! I need guidance 🙏
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
Update; I never want to see him again lol
@@cheruber5594 can you please elaborate?
That does happen. When we are obsessive they don’t want us but when you’re like meh- you’re okay they are all over- you- expect when you’re in union. I mean if it feels like the beginning. Ugh…….
I agree with this mine lives next door and I find it so hard not to focus on him. So I struggle with the thinking but I try to pull back big time. Thank you always.
Me and my tf met when we were both 11 in 6th grade. Now we both are 21 and till today he is on my mind 24/7, like crazy.
He totally likes me but hasn't confessed yet.
I see all the time 222, everywhere. Guess what, his birth date is 22 2. Even his LinkedIn profile says 222 at the end.
His behavior mirrors the way I treat myself. If I am ignoring myself, he would be ignoring me.,....
Now, I am learning to love myself. 🥰🤠
What you say about it all, makes it seem and look so natural. It’s what I needed to hear. 😊
... that's just as it is. 4 weeks of intense "romance" and then... slowly going away. From the 6th week, it was only me cashing. Started a spiritual journey with the highest highs and lows I've ever seen... I was so damned obsessed that I really felt I was going mad but meditation, yoga and these videos are helping me starting my life brand new. What I was before... I cannot recall.
I decided to detach. He’s still running and makes it obvious that he’s not gonna be in a relationship with me. Contacts me randomly but always says we’re friends lol
I walked away two months agai because of non monogamy in his part and he’s been bitter ever since. Doesn’t show it but using phrases like “Oh thanks for picking up the phone I needed a friend today & thought of you”
Total bullshit. We haven’t seen each other. Blew me me off last week but it’s OK!
I’ve started going within and listening to Eckhart Tolle The Power Of Now
Finding my peace in being without him. I no longer crave to be with him physically. Distance does help.
Don't give up,it's a divine connection,they'll come back to you and probably stay with you forever because twinflames are meant to be together and they'll unite one day for sure
Thank u 😊 Kurt for the video, appreciate it, just had a energetic shift few days ago and I feel better, your paid coaching program has help me so much thank u from my bottom of my heart ❤️ , u are the best,🙏🙏😊💖♥️✊
I noticed any time I fell into old behavior patterns I started thinking of my twin flame
It’s like she pushes me and reminds me to keep moving past by becoming who I should be and not who I used to be
I recognised them for narcissistic behaviour and false twin flames but for some reason. Even while i completely deleted her from my contacts and life. She’s still in my head without me wanting it, and i keep getting reminders as she just pops up.
Everybody hunger for love, idealizing it with the name"twin flame"....focusing on the stars, being functionaly blind for the already shining moon, just because the moon is not the twin flame, but soul mate.....
Blessing those who come into my mind, wishing a nice journey, without getting stucked in persons who don't care.Physics has its busines, I have mine, which is also very important and human.
Thank you for this explanation.Physic will always be wonderful and interesting.....
For the obsessive thinking was when I lost time. I sat and thought and was talking to myself for 6 hours straight in one spot not moving but it felt like an 1hr1/2 at most. After knowing how long itd been I still came back to the same spot and thought for another half an hour. It just sucks u in.
The obsessive thoughts about her, started exactly after I seen those eyes and questioned "why do I know you!?"
And it came to be that when I felt i was a woman in my past life, that was me that i was looking at.
So, the intensity of seeing myself started the obsessive thinking, which bothered me at first until i came to accept it and be one.
Because attaching to the person is why I suddenly become trapped by illusion of duality. The images of delusional imagination creates slide shows that never happen in emotion that can trigger attachments to what isn't you.
And, when i think about her, I feel this power streaming through me, because i feel this energy of who i was in the past through the portal of my eyes.
So, my best description is that this is supposed to happen now because in the past we were so dug up by circumstances that didnt include ourselves to be aware and more conscious to be opened up to feel who we really are.
So, the running and pulling is like you pulling a giant bolder as the other you tries push it because its so heavy.
This heaviness would be the ego and once you detach and let this hurricane ice ball away. Your giving yourself the freedom and peace to let go of what the memory card of the computer that chipped you within the matrix from the past life, and into the now life you were programmed to believe that you need to push the past with you to the future.
See the past life had the conceot of pulling past to the future.
Once we realize that we no longer need this mind control ego, we become free of this weight. You stop pulling and pushing the ego to be what the program like rules that limit you to act out a certain way in the movie.
Sp, when you become free. This is how to be one without that giant heavy bolder infront of you and behind you which caused that pushing and pulling and running away from yourself phase that causes the mind the obsessively think about how can IT fix the past and future. (Seperation) from the power of NOW.
The present creates space for the mind to let go, and to allow YOU as consciousness to vibrate freely and become one. ❤
Beautiful video, thank you for the clarity, I knew I was on to something 🌹
5 years ago when my tf ran, I was devastated and had obsessive thoughts for a while but then I treated it like my past connections and figured the best way to get over it was to find someone else. I didn't know anything about twin flames then. My DM and I have remained friends and co-workers the entire 5 years since. She went back to her husband, I reconnected with an ex and have been with her over 4 years now.... I had convinced myself that it just wasn't meant to be.... then a year ago I was bombarded with thoughts of my dm. Songs would make me think of her..... thinking of the bubble love days.... so I told her about my thoughts and feelings and she said the same thing was happening to her. One day the term twin flame popped in my mind when I was thinking of her so I researched it. That's exactly what she is. I got into chase mode again, she got into run mode.... and i have spent the past year working on myself and noticing the triggers and trying to work through them. My growth over the past year is insane.
I feel like the obsessive thinking is like being on a hamster wheel in the depths of hell. It sucks. No matter how much you want it to stop it just won’t.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
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Invasive ,obsessive thinking it is, very draining because it’s uncontrollable . I respectfully cut my twin flame out 2 weeks ago, we have been living together for two years , love was insane and out of this world. My twin left for great job opportunity during corona times to Australia and we been living in Finland. It’s been 1,5 years long distance contact, my twin emotionally detached but still wanted me as a friend. I tried but it was so draining and lots of pain and suffering. So i did stop communication recently but that made me think of a twin non stop again. I am not giving up on moving on and i won’t contact my twin anymore. I just want to be happy and that union made me want to die
It’s like a bipolar psychotic attack from the inside of your head and a heart attack at the same time a deep molestation of uncontrollable desperation in sexual energy. This was 3 years ago but I still remember like yesterday. And am never going back🤣
😂😂😂 you don't need to go back. Not only is it burned into your highlight reel, but - the divine is gonna crash bang y'all back together at some point in some lifetime across the universe! Good luck 🫡 😅
As soon as i left my twin flame after six years of focusing on him, now that i'm getting married with someone else, only now, he seems obsessed with me. But for me Is literally too late. And i only talk to him in a telepathic way, because i accepted that we are just not meant to be. I mean, i hardly tried to make it worked. But he always seemed like he just didn't give a f about me. So i left. And now he's obsessed with me. I don't regret it because i grew up a lot in a human and spiritual way, and i have to thank him. But i don't want him back because in that situation, i was dying from the inside. And now finally i feel like i'm living my life.
I’m in this place where I’m pretty sure this is my Twin. We met through work. I see constant synchronicities everywhere. We did not communicate much at work because he kept me at arms length, not wanting others to know his attraction for me. The energy between us is mind blowing. I literally can’t breathe around him time is like a standstill. I got so tired of seeing his face and not communicating that I left that job. Seeing the look on his face when I left made me feel like I’d been stabbed in the chest. From the time I wake up till the time I close my eyes he is on my mind. My heart feels like it has been ripped out of my chest. And even when I try not to think of him I see his name or initials on license plates or certain numbers, repeatedly. The whole process is so painful, even in my dreams I cannot escape him. I feel like I’ve been cursed. All I want is to just be with him. To know what it feels like to touch him, to be in his arms, to kiss him. I want to know if this is my Twin or someone I’ve just fallen madly in love with.
Obsessive thinking had me go through sleepless nights, thinking about him all day night it starts right from the minute you open your eyes till you close it and worst when you can't sleep, taro after taro reading, finding answers coming across theories, soul mate twin difference, loosing mind, hair loss, hormonal imbalance and a lot and lot of pain. It was horrible and on the other side he was moving more and more away from me with each passing day. Now I have come to terms with it. My spiritual journey has begun🌟✨
Hi doc yessss exactly all is right 😍thank god I found my twin flame ❤️We got fall in love at the first day we saw eachother and after 10 days we had miss understanding conversation at our 3th date then we separated for 2 weeks and I remember I was dying to see his eyes again then we back together but he was tough to accept commitment coz we are in long distance rel then after we meet again he gave me commitment and we can’t thinking of each other and he confessed that he is fall in love w me and he was at the first day and thank god again that I met my twins flame my one and only 🥺❤️People who think the find their twin flame should have patience and faith 😍😍😍
She is constantly on my mind, generally in the back ground. I don't fine it annoying or distracting and it doesn't interfere with my performance, but yeah I'm constantly thinking about her.
Since the summer of 2020, this is all I've done, think thoughts of him, get engaged with them, 24/7 on autopilot! Even when I was not thinking of him, it was just there, some thought-based thing going on at the back of my head! And yes, it absolutely works to be in the present, all the day long. They definitely show up after that. However, if you start thinking about them, fantasising a future with them and all after they come back, they'll disappear again (don't do it! I've fallen victim to this quite a few times now).
The obsessive thinking is horrible. I questioned my sanity and if this is even real. And yes they act like they don’t gaf and seem indifferent. Indifference is very hard to take. I have been dealing with this for about 5 years. I am starting to get better but I am not there yet. I keep asking myself if I am crazy.
I’ve gotten to the point where the thoughts are more fleeting to the point I rarely notice ‘em. I’m focused on my path. There’s been a lot of times lately that it feels like not my thoughts. I acknowledge them and just keep doing what I’m doing. Even pop into dreams when they weren’t even a thought before going to sleep.
God please help her 🙇🏻♂️🙏🏻
This makes perfect sense I had no idea about the word twin flame until a add and everything u said literally is my life and I been through every step
Obsessive thinking was crazy! I couldn’t for one second stop it didn’t matter I could be doing anything it was 100 percent of the time couldn’t sleep walk up and boom instantly he was in my mind it was awful, he couldn’t care less about me it seemed
If I really do let go of him it's done. It's closed doors. When I'm over him I don't think I will give a shit about him coming back. Maybe. But it doesn't seem to me this way.