My soon to be husband dumped me for another girl... I actually did quit my job. This heartbreak pushed me to do something dramatic and follow my dreams that I had put on hold. I finally finished writing my book and started my dream business. Sometimes it takes something awful for you to make you realize what you are really made of and to follow your dreams.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with her, you talk like being dumped is a sign there is something wrong with you, while its simply the sign that you had been dating the wrong person.
That is fantastic! I did a similar thing after my ex and I broke up. I felt like crap at first, but then I changed so much and now literally every single year is better than the last. That relationship was the catalyst of change I needed in my life.
I love Matthew and I love how he repeated the exact joke about tiffany and Marilyn Montoe that he already did in his seminar, I think we all could learn something from him, yes it is important to be sponteneous but it is also important to prepare yourself to represent the best version possible of you
Great point about the small goals and moves, Matthew! Makes so much sense. I think that's why we sometimes get frustrated or depressed when trying to attain a goal - we're aiming too high at first. Taking it a step at a time is much more reasonable and encouraging.
Matthew I want to thank you for helping me to realize that I am a high quality person and that I've always been a high quality person and that there are people out there who value that. I say this not to sound like I think too much of myself, but because if we can all see the quality within ourselves then we can become better people. We can help the world become better and we can help others see and feel and embrace the best parts of themselves as well. Your messages are absolutely invaluable. I listen to a lot of wonderful people such as yourself and you are absolutely the best. Thank you ❤.
When I was evacuated due to a fire that had already burned 300 homes, I only grabbed my dog kennel, (my dog was at work with me when the wild fire started), shirts still on the hanger, a stack of pants, and half the top drawer with socks and undies. It is all I had time for. I had to run out of the house to get out of there as the smoke was blinding and burned with every breath. Then we drove to my deceased parents house, where I grabbed the photo albums, and their ashes. All that was important to me at the moment was protecting my parents and their memory.
Matthew, will you please do a video on decoding male behavior when you are very good friends with them? Sometimes I wonder if things would work out with my closest male friends in a dating sense, but I get scared of taking the risk and jeopardizing a good friendship. Often times I probably give mixed signals and confuse the guy. If you had any “safe” methods of flirting with a good friend, decoding his behavior and determining whether or not he is being friendly or if he is interested in you, etc that would be great if you could discuss or share! Thank you!
I am not Matthew but you don't have to decode a man's behaviour. If a guy has feelings for you. He will tell you. If he wants life with you he will make it happen. If he is not doing anything that you think he should to get you. Move on. You do not want to be with someone who can't step up just to be with you.
i love it when Matt is with Elvis and the way they feed off one another its always a pleasure to watch and I loved the pertinent points both were making.
This is exactly the same message Dan Peña wants to get across: «Just f*cking do it! Take action!» Theres is an hilarious statement made by Will Smith un an interview on TV where he talks about overcoming fear and the tune is kind of the same. «God places the most exquisite things in life on the other side of fear.» -he concluded.
You sound like your dad. Lol! It is cute... Yes, I know your rule about not using the word cute with a guy about something he does. However, it is a good cute. ;-P
Guys, EVERY TEENAGER I’VE MET is obsessed with memes. There is one that I can talk to REALLY, really well and a meme doesn’t come in once. I do love vines, and memes are funny, but I have never dove that deep into them, and I’m craving originality. Though there was this one guy with a gf at a party who used them really well and was SO funny! He had the entire group laughing
he is with Camila because its one of the most high profile ways to show off that his methods, which he sells, work. That may sound harsh but its a good career move and will give him a buzz. If she was low profile I doubt he would be after her as much.
Mn B I disagree, I didn't like the match initially because I knew Matthew for about 2 years vs Camila which just came into my radar after I found out they were dating a few weeks ago, and I didn't like that Matthew chose someone soo young. And after seeing a few interviews of Camila, I see she is a very mature woman, but she is full of energy and playful and happy. And so it makes sense to me for Matthew to date her, cuz he is in and happy place and Camila radiates happiness yet she doesn't look inmature and superficial, just speaking up about Dreamers put her on a different platform than the average performer. Anyways, as Matthew has stated in previous videos he sucked when he was younger at dating, he was crazy insecure and quiet, so now he might not end up with her long term because maybe he is just filling up voids from when he was younger, and for her, I think it's a great start at relationships cuz Matthew won't go all player with her bcuz that would damage his own business. So even though the age bothered me a little, I think it's a great match
Matthew knows exactly what he is doing. He could date any woman the fact he chose to date this young lady only proves he knows a good catch when sees one. Camila is very young and doesn't have anything to lose if this doesn't work out.
Mendes Harmony I agree with you I'm sure she is great but that is my opinion. Maybe Subconciously but still he is attracted by the status she currently has, I maintain he wouldnt be with her or even interested if she was still queing for xfactor auditions.
OMG YES... 12:58 minutes in.... omg that's exactly what I said!!!! The guy I found doesn't wanna get on the phone and it's frustrating since he wants to meet up right away ....
qmulus1 I didn't want to do that yet since I wanted a regular phone call but...since I wrote that comment we have already hung out several times and so far things are good...☺
Adriana Xcx That’s great! :) Speaking for myself, I hate phone calls. Awkward silences, not being able to see the person’s face, not knowing if they are busy or even in the mood to talk, etc. I’m not very good over the phone, at first. I’d much rather meet up, get comfortable with a woman and then do all the phone stuff. I’ve blown many opportunities due to awkward phone conversations. My strength is face to face interaction.
qmulus1 I notice that my guy felt the same way too and if anything the few times he actually did call (after I kept saying we wouldn't hang out yet until he at least called lol) he would be like really silent and I would be super chatty. Even though we hang out and hit it off pretty good...im still bummed he won't call😢
You can't raise a man.....if he wants tv & candy and he's a grown up...then walk away..you'll save yourself a lot of heartache...WE shouldn't be fighting for boys in mens bodies...not at any stage.
A role-model who's just half a step ahead of you, YES, best advice EVER!! I totally lost my drive & inspiration by getting coaches who are 10 miles ahead. These are the ones who send you mail "How to earn 1 million in one year!" A million? I"m not that far, I'm not even making a normal month's pay!! Very discouraging and not at all helpful.
Did you make it towards the end, there were some good messages there. At first if you are trying to get a connection to something read the comments. There is always fast forward. Being bored is something you let yourself do.
My soon to be husband dumped me for another girl... I actually did quit my job. This heartbreak pushed me to do something dramatic and follow my dreams that I had put on hold. I finally finished writing my book and started my dream business. Sometimes it takes something awful for you to make you realize what you are really made of and to follow your dreams.
Nadine Ohlson way to go girl!! Yes! Something similar happened to me and here I am... being me... growing 💪... 👏👏👏👏👏 to you!
It's things like that that show resillience and that other woman I bet he's chucked her too... 3 of my ex's did similar all 3 broke up with next women
There is absolutely nothing wrong with her, you talk like being dumped is a sign there is something wrong with you, while its simply the sign that you had been dating the wrong person.
This comment really helped me today. Thank you.
That is fantastic! I did a similar thing after my ex and I broke up. I felt like crap at first, but then I changed so much and now literally every single year is better than the last. That relationship was the catalyst of change I needed in my life.
I love the way he diverted the conversation from his dad at minute 1 by saying "I have a bone to pick with you". I need to remember that trick.
Matthew is your dad married to your mother if not I would love to meet him
🤣🤣🤣
I love Matthew and I love how he repeated the exact joke about tiffany and Marilyn Montoe that he already did in his seminar, I think we all could learn something from him, yes it is important to be sponteneous but it is also important to prepare yourself to represent the best version possible of you
Nihel Klouche
That sounds like a lot of work.
Great point about the small goals and moves, Matthew! Makes so much sense. I think that's why we sometimes get frustrated or depressed when trying to attain a goal - we're aiming too high at first. Taking it a step at a time is much more reasonable and encouraging.
Matthew I want to thank you for helping me to realize that I am a high quality person and that I've always been a high quality person and that there are people out there who value that. I say this not to sound like I think too much of myself, but because if we can all see the quality within ourselves then we can become better people. We can help the world become better and we can help others see and feel and embrace the best parts of themselves as well. Your messages are absolutely invaluable. I listen to a lot of wonderful people such as yourself and you are absolutely the best. Thank you ❤.
Why nothing wrong with having self worth and confidence
When I was evacuated due to a fire that had already burned 300 homes, I only grabbed my dog kennel, (my dog was at work with me when the wild fire started), shirts still on the hanger, a stack of pants, and half the top drawer with socks and undies. It is all I had time for. I had to run out of the house to get out of there as the smoke was blinding and burned with every breath. Then we drove to my deceased parents house, where I grabbed the photo albums, and their ashes. All that was important to me at the moment was protecting my parents and their memory.
Matthew, will you please do a video on decoding male behavior when you are very good friends with them? Sometimes I wonder if things would work out with my closest male friends in a dating sense, but I get scared of taking the risk and jeopardizing a good friendship. Often times I probably give mixed signals and confuse the guy. If you had any “safe” methods of flirting with a good friend, decoding his behavior and determining whether or not he is being friendly or if he is interested in you, etc that would be great if you could discuss or share! Thank you!
I am not Matthew but you don't have to decode a man's behaviour. If a guy has feelings for you. He will tell you. If he wants life with you he will make it happen. If he is not doing anything that you think he should to get you. Move on. You do not want to be with someone who can't step up just to be with you.
This is the best possible use of my 15 minutes ever, watching this guy talk about his perspectives on life and dating! 😍
i love it when Matt is with Elvis and the way they feed off one another its always a pleasure to watch and I loved the pertinent points both were making.
both my wife and I watch this guy lol before we even met
Interesting perspective about today'a dating world; It definitely encouraged me since I've watched literally all of Matthew's RUclips videos haha
"by the way, men will convince you that TV and candy are the best thing ever"
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahaha
i heart you. i just do.
Matthew so reminds me of a certain expert Ryan Gosling on Crazy Stupid Love
Just met this channel. I live in Brazil, Rio de Janeiro. Great show, you do guys.
Great video Matt,Stephen are so lovely looking like there dad 😚🤗😍
Wow!!! You just get better every time. I needed to hear those words. So different. Great advice! Thank you! 💚
This is exactly the same message Dan Peña wants to get across: «Just f*cking do it! Take action!»
Theres is an hilarious statement made by Will Smith un an interview on TV where he talks about overcoming fear and the tune is kind of the same. «God places the most exquisite things in life on the other side of fear.» -he concluded.
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duran is so good at what he does ... esp with matthew
Who else thinks Matthew's dad is hot? 😁
Yep, he's hot rofl!
😂😂
so is he
I actually think his brother Stephen is the hottest
Matthew has a very ugly nose :(
Mr. Hussey 😍😍😍
You sound like your dad. Lol! It is cute... Yes, I know your rule about not using the word cute with a guy about something he does. However, it is a good cute. ;-P
Loved the "TV and candy" metaphors
What an awesome perspective!
Guys, EVERY TEENAGER I’VE MET is obsessed with memes. There is one that I can talk to REALLY, really well and a meme doesn’t come in once. I do love vines, and memes are funny, but I have never dove that deep into them, and I’m craving originality.
Though there was this one guy with a gf at a party who used them really well and was SO funny! He had the entire group laughing
Typical that it's the guy with a girlfriend already that's found attractive right..? 🤣
Oh wow... They weren't kidding when they said his dad is attractive lol 😅
I love this guy
I genuinely think that this woman sitting there with the DJ is just there to laugh. I want this job.
it's hard to date nowadays -_____-
I can imagine why, I would be so annoyed to date someone whose obsessed with memes, but EVERY teenager IS
Why?
I think dating always was and always will be hard! All the best things in life are never easy
Yep
Damn Matthew is barely breathing in this interview 😂
Hi is amazing!
They didn’t tell the butterfly story in this video! What is it and where can I find it?
😅🤣😅 oh yeah..!
oh damn his dad IS hot!
he is with Camila because its one of the most high profile ways to show off that his methods, which he sells, work. That may sound harsh but its a good career move and will give him a buzz. If she was low profile I doubt he would be after her as much.
Mn B I disagree, I didn't like the match initially because I knew Matthew for about 2 years vs Camila which just came into my radar after I found out they were dating a few weeks ago, and I didn't like that Matthew chose someone soo young. And after seeing a few interviews of Camila, I see she is a very mature woman, but she is full of energy and playful and happy. And so it makes sense to me for Matthew to date her, cuz he is in and happy place and Camila radiates happiness yet she doesn't look inmature and superficial, just speaking up about Dreamers put her on a different platform than the average performer. Anyways, as Matthew has stated in previous videos he sucked when he was younger at dating, he was crazy insecure and quiet, so now he might not end up with her long term because maybe he is just filling up voids from when he was younger, and for her, I think it's a great start at relationships cuz Matthew won't go all player with her bcuz that would damage his own business. So even though the age bothered me a little, I think it's a great match
Still just don't think he would be interested in her if she was low profile.
Matthew knows exactly what he is doing. He could date any woman the fact he chose to date this young lady only proves he knows a good catch when sees one. Camila is very young and doesn't have anything to lose if this doesn't work out.
Mendes Harmony I agree with you I'm sure she is great but that is my opinion. Maybe Subconciously but still he is attracted by the status she currently has, I maintain he wouldnt be with her or even interested if she was still queing for xfactor auditions.
@@mnb9162 ☕🐸 peeps making practical steps in chasing their dreams are quite attractive though..
Online dating is exciting
They both say thank u alike lol
I'm here bc of Camila #Shawmila
Trinh Nguyễn camren
YEEEESSSSSSS SHAWMILA FOREVER GUYS!!!!
This coversation had nothing to do with the title.
It did, but in reverse order & the friend zoning was just mentioned in passing.. 😅
The The Lion King. Listen to The Lion King video and watch the movie Lion King video.
Dating Camila
Here bc of her =))
Same
OMG YES... 12:58 minutes in.... omg that's exactly what I said!!!! The guy I found doesn't wanna get on the phone and it's frustrating since he wants to meet up right away ....
Adriana Xcx
How about Skype or FaceTime?
qmulus1 I didn't want to do that yet since I wanted a regular phone call but...since I wrote that comment we have already hung out several times and so far things are good...☺
Adriana Xcx
That’s great! :)
Speaking for myself, I hate phone calls. Awkward silences, not being able to see the person’s face, not knowing if they are busy or even in the mood to talk, etc.
I’m not very good over the phone, at first. I’d much rather meet up, get comfortable with a woman and then do all the phone stuff.
I’ve blown many opportunities due to awkward phone conversations. My strength is face to face interaction.
qmulus1 I notice that my guy felt the same way too and if anything the few times he actually did call (after I kept saying we wouldn't hang out yet until he at least called lol) he would be like really silent and I would be super chatty. Even though we hang out and hit it off pretty good...im still bummed he won't call😢
Adriana Xcx
Do you call him?
i never new this guy until i saw him with my boo camila... mmmm very curious right now...🤔🤔🤔
wow,swteet heard
How can I contact you hussey. ..?
ugh omg you're such a genius of communication Matt. I love you. loljk but like kind of serious.
Great
Gosh Mathews dad’s a hotty
Yeah I agree with Samah? What does a man need?
this advert music is on all adverts!!! arghhh...
Why would Elvis invite people over to show and doesn't let them talk? -_-
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Friends who have ever Diamond Dominique myrie Shawn mendes boyfriend ring 💍 funny RUclips ❤you have a good friend thattime
Hahahahehrhe
What does a man need then?
couple of good books , pet some clothing, phone
You can't raise a man.....if he wants tv & candy and he's a grown up...then walk away..you'll save yourself a lot of heartache...WE shouldn't be fighting for boys in mens bodies...not at any stage.
Friend-zoning; when a woman does that, I lose all interest in her, as a friend or otherwise.
ytlongbeach why? lol
This host though omg terribleeee
He really is
Elvis Duran is one of the best in the business lol
@@psychothof 😅😅😅
Long distance love affair is very thrilling
A role-model who's just half a step ahead of you, YES, best advice EVER!! I totally lost my drive & inspiration by getting coaches who are 10 miles ahead. These are the ones who send you mail "How to earn 1 million in one year!" A million? I"m not that far, I'm not even making a normal month's pay!! Very discouraging and not at all helpful.
Step by step.. 🔑
Wow Dad is so Hot.... Lol
Elvis who? Elvis Duran is a Joke
This was boring
Did you make it towards the end, there were some good messages there. At first if you are trying to get a connection to something read the comments. There is always fast forward. Being bored is something you let yourself do.
@@jillioknucklehead2182 🔑
Friends who have a good time kissing ring 💍 funny RUclips RUclips cabello camila