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  • @tiffanythinks
    @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +540

    hi my loving tiffanythinks family. Thank you for your prayers & love. I hope you’re all okay and just remember we got this💙 please SUBSCRIBE💙

    • @cancerissswhat5625
      @cancerissswhat5625 2 года назад

      The reason of cancer is
      IL6 -> STAT3->WNT.AKT.PAK1 SIGNALS -> MANY FOXP3->MANY TREG(THE WEAkNESS OF TH2)-> A FEW KILLER T CELL AND THEN PEOPLE GET CANCER.
      chemotherapy can not stop this at all. To cure cancer people must stop everything step by step respectively..
      Il6 - low dose of naltrexone(naltrexone 3-4.5mg) and 5000iu vitamin d. -everyday
      Stat3 - 48-60mg ivermectin(3days in a week)
      Wnt.akt.pak1 - 2000mg niclosamide(3days in a week)
      To enhance th2(cd4+hellper t cell type2) - 4000mg quercetin 800mg pterostilbene 400mg egcg probiotics 40-100mg Melatonin .1000mg meriva curcumin.-everyday
      To stop providing fat acid - 25 g liposomal vitamin c 100mg Doxycycline 500mg azithromycin together and 1000mg omega3(- 4-5days in a week)
      Once in a week 50-70g vitaminc injection.
      To prevent Glucose
      2400mg Fenbendazol (mebendazole) 30ml olive oil(3days in a week) 1000mg metformin ..- everyday
      With all these off Label drug. You can cure cancer. Not chemotherapy. You are ganna die with chemotheraphy within 3years. Like mickenbecker. German RUclipsr....
      .....

    • @kristinarnesen3152
      @kristinarnesen3152 2 года назад +3

      💙

    • @assyrianrelief
      @assyrianrelief 2 года назад +18

      Lord bless you and strengthen you. Lay your burdens on Him. Thank you for your encouragement. I need to see every day as a blessing. I am going through depression for various reasons and this video really hit home. 💕

    • @missdiamondzzivanadadic
      @missdiamondzzivanadadic 2 года назад +9

      WE GOT THIS DEAR TIFFANY 💙💙💙💙🙏

    • @thatslife13
      @thatslife13 2 года назад +9

      Aw bless you! Yes please, please get get a P O box. X

  • @Laura-gd4ku
    @Laura-gd4ku 2 года назад +1461

    Tiffany as a nurse I can assure you that nothing that has to do with body fluids or anything like that is disgusting to us! Please always remember IT IS NOT DISGUSTING! This is our job and we do it with pride because we know that the patients need our help. Dont be ashamed in the hospital ever, we see blood and everything on a daily basis, its really not a big deal for us!

    • @Bee_Kind_Always
      @Bee_Kind_Always 2 года назад +39

      Thank you.💙

    • @newenglandcoast7121
      @newenglandcoast7121 2 года назад +84

      Nurses are angels! Not all heroes wear capes! ❤❤

    • @dancebasedancer
      @dancebasedancer 2 года назад +100

      Laura that is such a beautiful and helpful thing to write... I currently have an incurable cancer, am permanently on chemo in and out of hospital constantly with infections and this and that, and you nurses are just SO amazing with your dedication and your spirit and the way you look after us...Thank you doesn't even say half of how I feel - just immeasurable gratitude for you and your colleagues.

    • @xxxx-gk3gf
      @xxxx-gk3gf 2 года назад +23

      @@dancebasedancer sending positive vibes ✨️

    • @christinasmyth5674
      @christinasmyth5674 2 года назад +35

      Let it all out Tiffany, a good cry can be healing x

  • @catmama54
    @catmama54 2 года назад +966

    My brother broke his neck at 25 and became a quadriplegic paralyzed from the chest down. 1 year in the hospital and he didn’t want to live. Finally agreed to see a therapist and I don’t know how she did it but he changed his entire outlook on life and learned how to drive again and went to college and became a social worker for disabled veterans with spinal cord injuries. Please find someone to vent your feeling too. That therapist saved my brothers life. 🙏✝️

    • @oddanneout
      @oddanneout 2 года назад +23

      Yes, please follow this advice! With ❤️

    • @myrescuecats3028
      @myrescuecats3028 2 года назад +28

      What a wonderful outcome.❤

    • @newenglandcoast7121
      @newenglandcoast7121 2 года назад +25

      God continue to bless your brother! Thank you for sharing that! ❤❤

    • @trumpwon8972
      @trumpwon8972 2 года назад +22

      God bless your brother and Tiffany 🙏🏻❤️

    • @daisyrose2425
      @daisyrose2425 2 года назад +12

      💖💖💖

  • @nickylee5885
    @nickylee5885 2 года назад +55

    Hi beautiful Tiffany. I’m a recovery nurse here in Aus. When you started saying about the nurse changing your pads, all I thought was, I hope you are ok and I went into what I would be doing looking after you. Not one single bit of me thought it sounded disgusting or how awful that would have been. That is all part of our role and no thanks is necessary. It is truly a privilege to look after people. Thinking of you 💙

    • @igorkaczmarski7794
      @igorkaczmarski7794 2 года назад

      all doctors can do is cut your organs out or poisen you with cancer causeing drugs

  • @jo-annekilpatrick3195
    @jo-annekilpatrick3195 2 года назад +336

    Tiffany babe, as a stage 4 cancer survivor, I understand the pain you’re feeling. You’ve hit the point where it’s not about being strong or brave anymore, it’s about enduring and holding on, and you are doing it ! Hour by hour and day by day, just do what you need to do to keep holding on. Sending all my love and healing prayers to you sweetheart xxxx

  • @pnevarez2865
    @pnevarez2865 2 года назад +344

    As a nurse, I can say it never feels disgusting to help someone in any way, so please don't feel that way. You are such a sweetheart. Sending lots of love and prayers.

    • @greygiraffe1403
      @greygiraffe1403 2 года назад +5

      Yes! We went into nursing to help people.

    • @barrbuff
      @barrbuff 2 года назад +4

      I agree! It's what you do. Been there, seen that, and worse! God bless the great nurses!!

    • @rubytuesdayfromlondontown9194
      @rubytuesdayfromlondontown9194 2 года назад +5

      22.00 come on babe…you’re almost at surgery. Just try to let it all happen around you. ❤❤❤ Crying is a good release for you…let it out. We are all right here, thinking of you all the time. You are right, it’s not fair at all, and it’s natural to feel cheated. Just keep positive. We’ve got this ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @patriciajoyner9871
      @patriciajoyner9871 2 года назад +6

      That correct, I am 30 yr nurse and I know that nurse was concerned with you and wanted you comfortable and clean.

    • @kasturik2294
      @kasturik2294 2 года назад +4

      Thank you lovely pnevarez2 n all the nurses out there 💙💙💙

  • @susane4078
    @susane4078 2 года назад +90

    As a retired nurse, I can assure that I never felt disgusted by any bodily fluids. Following your journey and pulling for you every step of the way. You have come so far. God promised that he is always with us-💐

    • @oneseeker2
      @oneseeker2 2 года назад +2

      !e either, not once ever.

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 2 года назад +1

      Same for me💙👍🏼

  • @debidesignsflowers
    @debidesignsflowers 2 года назад +251

    I’ve been an RN for 40 years and I can tell you we do not feel disgusted while caring for our patients. We accept everything that goes along with helping our patients recover from illness and maintaining their dignity is our number one priority. As a fellow nurse I do appreciate your consideration though. Take care dear girl and my prayers are with you and your family as always.

    • @greygiraffe1403
      @greygiraffe1403 2 года назад +13

      A body is a body, and we all have one. Please don’t feel ashamed. We went into nursing to help people.

    • @teresacarter2654
      @teresacarter2654 2 года назад +1

      Get ready for lots of letters and cards. ❤❤

  • @yanniegrannie
    @yanniegrannie 2 года назад +170

    As a Mom with a sick girl, I promise Tiff it's OK if you cry. We would rather hold our child tightly while they hurt any day over thinking of them crying alone. We all love you so much 💗

    • @susanbaptista3967
      @susanbaptista3967 2 года назад +5

      I so agree with you yannie grannie. I have 3 girls, all in the same age group as Tiffany. I too would rather hold my “babies” and let them cry rather than they being strong for me. I think it would help both Tiffany and Amma to talk about how they are both feeling and just let it all out. Crying is just so therapeutic. They are both being so strong for the other. Thanks for sharing that and Im adding you and your daughter to my prayers. Big hug from Susan in Switzerland

    • @yanniegrannie
      @yanniegrannie 2 года назад +5

      @@susanbaptista3967 I know when my sick daughter comes to me to cry, holding her is the only thing to stop my heart from breaking. I'd hate the thought of her crying alone to try and be brave. Love doesn't require that.. blessings to you from Canada

    • @juliegilman1734
      @juliegilman1734 2 года назад

      So very true!

  • @teresakryvenchuk6205
    @teresakryvenchuk6205 2 года назад +72

    🤱 To all the Nurses...May I say Thank you for all you do to help patients. When I went through cancer almost 5 yrs.ago, I had amazing nurses. They talked ,cried, smiled ,prayed and took great care of me. I loved them all. Thank you for all you do. I am proud to say my 37 yr.old son Josh is a nurse. He works at a rehab center. He loves what he does...he does what he loves. God bless you all.

    • @igorkaczmarski7794
      @igorkaczmarski7794 2 года назад

      all doctors can do is cut your organs out or poisen you with cancer causeing drugs

  • @daniellemisin4049
    @daniellemisin4049 2 года назад +186

    Aside from wishing Tiffany a speedy recovery, can I just say how moved I am by all the lovely messages from the nurses? All saying the same thing…DON’T WORRY ABOUT IT…part of the job and they do it with pride. God Bless all of you beautiful angels! No hospital could function without its nurses! ❤❤❤

    • @charliebarrow7086
      @charliebarrow7086 2 года назад +7

      Right? I am always grateful for all they do, from minor injuries to major sickness, they are at one's side. They do it without complaining and with grace and empathy. Thanks to all in the medical field.

    • @azucenanaverro7266
      @azucenanaverro7266 2 года назад +3

      I,m moved too. It is beautiful and so inspiring. Blessings from Spain.

    • @marilenaamarelo2593
      @marilenaamarelo2593 2 года назад +2

      Tiffany, everything you’re feeling is very normal, it’s OK to cry & be angry at your situation. Don’t ever feel guilty for what a nurse does for you…that’s what WE (nurses) do, that’s our job. I was a nurse for 46 yrs. & loved it…it was hard at times but very rewarding. Early on in my career I did bedside nursing and I loved it!!! Rest up & get strong for your upcoming surgery. Sending you love & prayers from Canada!!! 💙🙏🇨🇦 “We Got This”

    • @mariecleo214
      @mariecleo214 2 года назад +1

      Yes yes nurses are fantastic 👏

    • @branblymier1752
      @branblymier1752 2 года назад +1

      I promise you your nurses know how truly greatful you are, a sober thank you is more than appreciated. The last thing they want us for you to feel embarrassed or as if you need to go above and beyond to thank them. Humans know other humans worth kind spirits

  • @nancern53
    @nancern53 2 года назад +140

    Oh, Tiffany, as a nurse… we are NEVER disgusted by our patients. That’s what a nurse does! She, I’m sure, was happy to take care of you. Feel better! Sending prayers

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much ❤

    • @kimkelly9046
      @kimkelly9046 2 года назад +2

      What a genuinely nice thing to say

    • @margaretohara7250
      @margaretohara7250 2 года назад +2

      Nurses are among God's chosen people. Thank God we have beautiful caring people - some poor people are all alone when sick so it is good to know little angels are out there. Blessings galore.

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 2 года назад

      I came out of hospital a few days ago and the nurses refused to put in suppositories into the patients posterior . They literally just dumped it on the patients table and walked off . All the nurses did that to different patients . One patient couldn’t do it herself and I told her to ask the nurse to do it for her . The nurse did it but reluctantly . I found this odd! Any ideas why?

  • @britmuller4268
    @britmuller4268 2 года назад +81

    Tiffany, I just have to say amma radiates such a supportive and beautiful light. She must be in so much pain watching her daughter go through this but she is always the most supportive and loving. What a wonderful
    Mum you have!! Tiff you got this and amma, you’ve got this too! ❤

    • @freehugs8670
      @freehugs8670 2 года назад

      wish I had a mom like Amma

    • @adriannewest8522
      @adriannewest8522 2 года назад

      Love to you and Amma . A loving amma mother she is .

  • @sallythibodeaux7992
    @sallythibodeaux7992 2 года назад +134

    I’m a retired nurse and I can say that your nurse was not offended in any way. We love taking care of our patients and would do anything to help you during your stay. You are so strong for your mom and Matt but you need to take time for your emotions, crying can be therapeutic. Continued prayers for you and your family❤

  • @susanjacomb9614
    @susanjacomb9614 2 года назад +140

    As a Mum of a daughter who had many hospital admissions I want to send special hugs to your Ama! She has such a powerful warm energy which she has passed on to you! Love the way you develop positive strategies to deal with this journey. You are both so loved.

    • @miatfitz
      @miatfitz 2 года назад +2

      Amen to that... After all this is a journey she is taking as well. I often think it's harder for the supporters they can only watch and wait while the patient endures the pain and procedures. I hope she has loads of people backing her up as well.

    • @mariecleo214
      @mariecleo214 2 года назад +1

      @@miatfitz exactly well said

  • @callistahatten9590
    @callistahatten9590 2 года назад +10

    Hi Tiffany! My cancer started when your cancer did. Stage IVB. Uterine cancer. I had so many tumors, 2 large tumors, and several small. My ovaries were affected too. My lymph nodes had cancer, a spot on my abdominal lining, and a spot on my spine.They couldn't do a hysterectomy because the tumors were too large. I went in under general anesthesia and had the proctoscopy (rear scope) like you, and cystoscopy (bladder scope), and bilateral pelvic and para aortic lymph node dissection. My scopes were clear, no biopsy (just visual by doc). I was in lots of pain. I cried 😢. I just turned 40. I found out about the cancer the day after my 40th birthday. I only found out as I started to hemorrhage and required several blood transfusions. It was bad news and more bad news. I couldn't escape it. I had emergency radiation then chemotherapy and targeted therapy treatments. I am now in remission. Imaging and biopsies are all clear (no cancer). I had so many prayer warriors. 🙏 I feel that helped the most. I literally had 22 blood transfusions over 2.5 months. 6% of people die from bleeding alone. I also beat the odds with my stage IV remission. I once thought there was no hope but I remained positive, hopeful, and tried to smile when I felt sad. I had many days and nights like you. I never thought I would be able to have my life and work again. I just went back to work Saturday. I am an ICU nurse. I worked through the pandemic and wished for a vacation. That wasn't the vacation I had in mind. Lol. Get better friend. You got this!

    • @lizgephart2040
      @lizgephart2040 2 года назад

      Congrats on your journey. Are you in UK ?

    • @callistahatten9590
      @callistahatten9590 2 года назад

      @@lizgephart2040 no, I live in the USA.

    • @MysticS6665
      @MysticS6665 Год назад

      Well done to you, you are Amazing!! 🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Cheri94
    @Cheri94 2 года назад +131

    Don’t know how you can love someone you have never met, but I do, I think you and your mom, and can’t forget “darling Matt” just love and care about you so much, sending prayers and positive vibes to you all ❤️

  • @mianone7486
    @mianone7486 2 года назад +64

    Opening a PObox would be a brilliant idea so we could send you things to read while healing up ❤️ We are right beside you, your sister, Ama and Matt. Keep pushing forward sweetheart!

  • @traumarn100
    @traumarn100 2 года назад +31

    I’ve been an operating room nurse for 40 yrs and I’ve seen everything and taking care of patients no matter what they have is why we went into nursing. You have a lot of people on your side. Donna from New Hampshire 🇺🇸🇺🇸❤️

  • @glennamiles3566
    @glennamiles3566 2 года назад +135

    There is no other place your mother would rather be than with you. My love to you both. You got this.

  • @lyricalaska
    @lyricalaska 2 года назад +92

    I, too, am a Nurse and definitely nothing is disgusting to me. Nothing you say is disgusting whatsoever, believe me. You are an amazing young woman to have so much courage during this extremely stressful time. We love you and we're wearing your sweat shirt. We Got This!!

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 2 года назад +1

      You are amazing! All nurses are amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @deesecrets
    @deesecrets 2 года назад +35

    Having the surgery is such a positive thing, Tiffany 🙏🏼 It’s operable and they will remove what needs to be removed. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Your mom is such an Angel in disguise; she deserves the world. Love you all.

    • @margaretciarciello5411
      @margaretciarciello5411 2 года назад +2

      Tiffany you are so strong and brave, everything you have gone through. Praying for you hoping a better new year for you. ❤

    • @igorkaczmarski7794
      @igorkaczmarski7794 2 года назад

      all doctors can do is cut your organs out or poisen you with cancer causeing drugs

  • @tamiewert808
    @tamiewert808 2 года назад +57

    I'm a Nurse, and please do not worry about your Nurse changing your pad frequently!! That is our job, and it sounds like you had a very good Nurse, who makes me proud to do what I do!! What you are going through, and what you will go through in the coming months, is overwhelming. Give yourself grace, and allow the feelings to ebb and flow as they will. You are so strong, and you will get through this!

  • @kathyg154
    @kathyg154 2 года назад +143

    Dear Tiffany… you’re so remarkable! I spent 30yrs in nursing at a major medical center.. I met and cared for so very many people over my career. There are so many stories I recall. Patients who had the most dire illnesses and medical problems. I remember so many who were so strong and valiant! You are one of those patients… you face each issue with such strength and resolve, to get through it. Your tears are cleansing and very much part of the process. One foot ahead of the other… one day at a time. You’re going to shine in 2023… you’ll grow strong and this will all be behind you. Life will change, but it will also offer wonderful new plateaus for you to explore.. I predict you’ll become a wonderful resource person who’ll be able to touch the hearts of those facing their own medical challenges, and you will be beloved by the medical community whose lives you touch. And therein will be your hearts reward and great fulfillment in your life.
    But for now, one day at a time and a beautiful Christmas season celebration each and every day.
    We all love you here… I Pray for you daily and please get a PO Box. Then begin a scrapbook with cards and notes from all over the world!
    Love, Kathy

    • @abigailh7715
      @abigailh7715 2 года назад +3

      💗😇

    • @sweetangiegirl1
      @sweetangiegirl1 2 года назад +5

      What an awesome idea!! It will help to keep her mind occupied!

    • @susanbaptista3967
      @susanbaptista3967 2 года назад +9

      Dear Kathy, what an amazing, inspirational message you wrote. God bless you. Susan

    • @azucenanaverro7266
      @azucenanaverro7266 2 года назад +4

      Beautiful. Thank you. Lots of love. Be blessed.

    • @Bee_Kind_Always
      @Bee_Kind_Always 2 года назад +4

      Just beautiful. Thank you for caring for so many, at their toughest point in life. Believe me. We patients, remember our nurses.

  • @kamalafontaine9563
    @kamalafontaine9563 2 года назад +6

    Tiffany, I am not a nurse or a doctor but am educated in the scientific field.
    You can see so much care for you from the nurses and others in this family and
    we all want you to go through this surgery and be able to live your life happily
    from than on.
    It hurts to see you crying and in anguish and the last thing I want to tell you is to be
    strong. You have shown so much of that the last year and we all know that your courage
    is exemplary..
    But what I would like to remind you is that this surgery, your long stay in hospital, your
    rehabilitation and recovery is very important for your healing and moving forward.
    You have started this journey now and your surgeon is visibly there to help you.
    The momentum has started and so as much as it’s upsetting, it’s a process you need
    to endure, You have us to cheer you on, and you have your Mum, Matt and sister to help
    you through this, you are never ever alone.
    Please give us your PO Box, we will send you little words of care love and support while you
    are in hospital.
    Make your hospital bed and room as familiar as possible with all your favourite things from
    home..
    We are here to hold your hand and cheer your mind and heart as you go through this journey.
    One day, it will all be all behind you and we will continue to be in your life forever.
    Love you my dear, you are Never alone in this journey, we are right behind you..

  • @mindyu3478
    @mindyu3478 2 года назад +77

    I had rectal cancer surgery, but I’m fine now, and you will be too! We love you! You’re one of the best people I’ve ever “met”. 😘

    • @elizabethconroy7665
      @elizabethconroy7665 2 года назад +1

      Warm Hugs,Melinda
      Praying you continue to do well 😊

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 2 года назад +2

      So glad you’re ok! Stay healthy & bless your heart 💙 you all have much courage & strength to go through this cancer journey. I had 4 family members who had cancer. It’s the scariest disease ever.

  • @alisalavine1052
    @alisalavine1052 2 года назад +185

    I just wanted to send love and support to Ama. Ama, my daughter is the same age as Tiffany. She is a nurse and has never been seriously ill. You are a rock. I only hope that if something happens with my daughter I will have even an ounce of the courage, strength and grace that you exhibit. We've got this, Ama. We've got this.🤗🤗❤❤

    • @fehmeedakazmi3810
      @fehmeedakazmi3810 2 года назад +1

      You be fine dear Tiffany we all are praying for you be positive and strong .🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸try to watch some good colourful video , song anything which makes you relaxed .lot of love for you keep it up 👍🏻

    • @lucbelcher7256
      @lucbelcher7256 2 года назад +6

      So true. She has so much grace!

    • @catherinedewhurst8662
      @catherinedewhurst8662 2 года назад +4

      I am thinking the same! What a great lady Amma is! As a mother and grandmother i feel for her so much and Tiffany is so protective of her. It is heartwarming to watch. I am wishing them both to keep strong and praying for them as well as her whole family. ❤️‍🩹💝💙💙💙💙

  • @siobhanrose1680
    @siobhanrose1680 2 года назад +12

    Being, sad, being scared, being emotional, being angry - None of that makes you any less strong Tiffany. You are strong, even in your most vulnerable moments. I’m so sorry this is your experience right now. I pray for healing for you. Much love x

  • @sawdust2556
    @sawdust2556 2 года назад +160

    4,374 views in 20 minutes! Wow, Tiffany! That’s a lot of love and prayers coming at you, girl!!💙

    • @daybyday0731
      @daybyday0731 2 года назад +4

      18,000 in two hours 🤭 simply amazing.She deserves it

    • @5mini5
      @5mini5 2 года назад

      63k in seven hours!

  • @wendyc3833
    @wendyc3833 2 года назад +20

    There's something so intensively beautiful about nurses. Thank you for everything you do! Every time I've been in hospital, it's been the nurses that have made me feel okay in an otherwise uncomfortable situation. No matter what they had to do for me, no matter how awkward and embarrassed I felt, they made it all seem so normal and always gave me a smile. Nurses, hold your head up with pride. If I could thank you all in person I would. ❤

  • @medickaisu
    @medickaisu 2 года назад +18

    When I am nursing, often patients are embarrassed by their bodily functions. It NEVER disgusts me. I feel bad for them because I know it is humiliating. For me, I am honored and privileged to be able to help. I take care of them, clean them up - or whatever they need - and take great pride and satisfaction in making it right. That being said, when I was getting cancer treatment, I had an uncontrolled liquid bowel movement. I was so grateful that I was alone - that no one saw it and I could clean myself up. I get it. It sucks! Hugs.

  • @joankidder4674
    @joankidder4674 2 года назад +35

    Tiffany, another nurse here and rest assured we are never disgusted or repulsed by any care we render to our patients. It is what we choose to do to help our patients get better and make them more comfortable. We are dedicated to help our patients whatever it involves. I encourage you to stay strong, think positive and never give-up. You are entitled to cry and feel sad by this illness but remember what you always tell us"WE GOT THIS"

  • @edengoldie1598
    @edengoldie1598 2 года назад +2

    When you said you’re grateful for 29 years of life without cancer it broke my heart…you deserve another 29 without it and 29 thereafter! I can’t imagine what you are going through and the life changes you’re facing simply just to survive. Never feel like a burden, disgusting or weak…you’re incredible!

  • @catierandall3030
    @catierandall3030 2 года назад +55

    Tiffany, I am a nurse and want you to know that all that she did for you was never a bad issue for her. I love to do anything for my patients good or bad.❤

    • @imadhawa3615
      @imadhawa3615 2 года назад +1

      Love you so much 💗
      Stay strong
      You can do this .

    • @kimkelly9046
      @kimkelly9046 2 года назад

      God bless you

  • @Amy-hs1qe
    @Amy-hs1qe 2 года назад +112

    Trying to stay strong for others, Tiffany, is really too much to ask and in my opinion, making a very tough journey even more difficult. Cry when you have to, be angry and don't fight feeling how unfair this all is. Letting it all out is helping the process to move on. You WILL get through this and have a good life ahead. You have thousands sending our love and support. From a fellow survivor.

  • @Jylart
    @Jylart 2 года назад +12

    I vote yes for the P.O. box!! Please remember that it's okay to not be okay. You've been through so much. I've been sick this whole year and sometimes I get upset. I call it "having a time out". My family and friends know what it means and let always let me have some time to cry (or yell). P.S: I LOVE watching Christmas movies. I've been watching them every night before bed! We Got This!!

  • @lindawalters9334
    @lindawalters9334 2 года назад +34

    As a cancer patient myself I sympathise with the nausea & sickness,as a nurse please be reassured that nothing is horrible we are used to it!❤

  • @RNMimi
    @RNMimi 2 года назад +34

    Tiffany,
    As the other nurses said before me, please do not worry about body fluids being disgusting to nurses. Body fluids are part of what we do every day and we just want our patients to be comfortable as quickly as possible.
    What you are going through right now is very very difficult so it's normal and expected that you will experience fluctuating emotions. In fact, as awful as it feels at the moment, it provides some relief afterwards and gives you strength to keep going. I admire your ability to speak your mind and embrace the little things in life that give you comfort and happiness. You still have a lot of life to live, Tiffany and you will! ❤

  • @catmama54
    @catmama54 2 года назад +42

    I thank you all for the comments regarding my brother. It wasn’t an easy life and many adjustments but helping others like him gave him purpose. I know if not for that therapist he would have never accomplished all he has. ❤️

  • @carolynhall1302
    @carolynhall1302 2 года назад +63

    Tiffany, I've worked as a carer. Nurses and carers are never disgusted by anything to do with personal care so please don't worry about what the nurses are doing to care for you.
    We're all with you on this journey x

  • @debrachan1899
    @debrachan1899 2 года назад +25

    As a retired nurse I must say we went into nursing to help people. We always look beyond blood or any other treatments we have to do because that is what we signed up for! It is our pleasure to help. It seems you are always more worried about others before yourself! You are so sweet as is Amma and Matt! Best wishes for a speedy healing from your procedure ❣️We got this 💙

  • @Aditigiri1
    @Aditigiri1 2 года назад +17

    I usually have other RUclipsrs’ videos in the background, but yours are the only videos that I sit and pay attention to. You teach us so much about resilience, strength, and love just by being yourself (drowsy tiff and all). I come to your channel to learn how to be a better human from you, Amma, and Matt. I hope you recover quickly and get to go home soon to Matt and Amma. Rooting for you all the way from Boston.

  • @donnalibby1583
    @donnalibby1583 2 года назад +19

    Tiffany, my hero! Much love and concern from Canada. Today is my birthday. I'm 83 and a cancer survivor. Hold tight, Sweet Tiffany. Prayers going up for your healing.......

    • @lorettavenier7917
      @lorettavenier7917 2 года назад

      Happy Birthday! 🎂🥂 God Bless You and Project You Always 🙏💖

    • @savinya5367
      @savinya5367 2 года назад

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎊 ❤ from Australia

    • @luzziann1524
      @luzziann1524 2 года назад

      Happy BIRTHDAY from Germany 🎂🥂

    • @deb3710
      @deb3710 2 года назад

      🎂Happy Birthday!🎂

    • @susanbaptista3967
      @susanbaptista3967 2 года назад

      Happy birthday from Switzerland❤

  • @liddymarsh931
    @liddymarsh931 2 года назад +26

    Bless your heart. We nurses don’t mind changing pads. We need to watch how much bleeding there is. It is what we do. ❤

    • @sawdust2556
      @sawdust2556 2 года назад +2

      Bless you!🙏

    • @stephaniewilson5284
      @stephaniewilson5284 2 года назад +6

      Nurses are amazing truly I apprecaite your calling.

    • @Bee_Kind_Always
      @Bee_Kind_Always 2 года назад +1

      Thank you to all nurses everywhere. 💙

    • @paulinecorfield3496
      @paulinecorfield3496 2 года назад

      So grateful for the amazing nurses who looked after me and dealt with my vomit, blood, pooh and pee. You are my heroes

  • @NiaCerys001
    @NiaCerys001 2 года назад +5

    Oh baby girl, I think I speak for all of us when I say we’d be by your bedside holding your hand in a heartbeat. You are beyond brave. We love you so much xxx

  • @Anna-jz8ck
    @Anna-jz8ck 2 года назад +13

    It is not disgusting at all (the bleeding and having to change your pad)!
    i am a student nurse and i have seen every type of body fluids and every nook and cranny of human bodies. i love to help people and try to put peoples mind at ease. Please don't feel this way because it is literally the most normal thing all healthcare professionals are used to seeing daily!!!

  • @sawdust2556
    @sawdust2556 2 года назад +77

    ❤💙WE GOT THIS💙🙏🏽 You really are being strong, but you need to cry to release the emotions. You’re doing so great.

  • @lauriemontgomery3697
    @lauriemontgomery3697 2 года назад +2

    None of this is easy - I completely understand - also you want to be in a positive place - much better than being in that negative place. There are no "right or wrong" ways through this. you are doing so well dear Tiffany - so well. You have lost control of your body - know you will get better. It is all so hard. I have had many things happen to me - not cancer but I am now in a wheelchair - many adjustments. thank you for including your family in drinking more water - and that smile of yours. it gives me such joy! love you dear Tiffany!

  • @ranminiwij6047
    @ranminiwij6047 2 года назад +25

    Your mom is a very strong woman ! You’re so lucky to have her in your life. ❤

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 2 года назад +32

    Tiff, I’m praying for you. I’m 18 years older than you, yet you’ve taught me so much. We got this!💙💙💙💙💙

  • @KatieT81
    @KatieT81 2 года назад +10

    Tiff, I work in a hospital and trust me nothing grosses us out and it's in our blood to help people in their hardest times.
    Prayers, as a fellow cancer warrior I understand more than most how you are feeling and it's totally valid and completely normal. I will never take my able body for granted ever again. I hope the surgery goes smoothly so you can be on the road to recovery!

  • @rebeccakarlsson1395
    @rebeccakarlsson1395 2 года назад +17

    The PO Box idea sounds great. Of course, if you do get one you can expect it to be jam packed 24/7. You look really good Tiffany. And you’re right, this whole situation has been forced on you and isn’t in your control. You just need to remember that you are never ever ever doing this hard thing alone. Let your loved ones carry you when you aren’t feeling so strong💙💙💙

  • @kathyrossi9769
    @kathyrossi9769 2 года назад +18

    Tiffany, don’t give up 😢 my husband had colorectal cancer and he still here five years later I don’t usually get on here and talk but this one made me so sad for you and I could see the look on your face that you needed someone to help you through this you got this Tiffany you’re gonna beat this I pray every night for you ❤🙏🙏🙏Kathy

  • @donnamcmillan6950
    @donnamcmillan6950 2 года назад +4

    You may not realize but the journey you are documenting is helping many people going through or about to go through their own difficult medical tests or treatments. Your bravery is outstanding!

  • @hannakinn
    @hannakinn 2 года назад +59

    Oh Tiffany, I wished so badly that I could give you a hug when you were crying. You did a great job of turning you emotions around to give sage life advice to others. It's so sweet how you always think of others when you're in a place that many people would think of themselves and they'd have every right to do so but the way you handle it shows what a sweet, kind and caring soul you truly are. Those of us that are empathetic, like you are, understand how it helps you to think of others. I so wish we could take your emotional pain away. I wish that each one of us could take a bit of your pain to bear so you didn't have to. Wouldn't it be great if humans could do that? It would also be nice if we could donate some of our alloted time too but we can't. For some of us there would have to be a limit lest we give all our time away to others.
    Your mom is amazing, I'm a parent and I know how I feel when my son is sick or in physical or emotional pain. It hurts to see your child in a situation that you can't fox or make better. I always wish I was going through whatever he is instead of it being him. Your mother obviously loves you a great deal and truly has your back, she's a strong warrior just like you are and just what you need to get through this. When this is all over we should all contribute to do something really super special for your mom. I know her biggest wish is for you to be well but perhaps she has a second wish, a wish for something we could grant if we all pitch in.💙💜💙

    • @susanbaptista3967
      @susanbaptista3967 2 года назад +3

      I love that idea Hanna! Hugs from Susan

    • @JoLy1967
      @JoLy1967 2 года назад +3

      You expressed all my feelings and thoughts so beautifully.

  • @finlear3320
    @finlear3320 2 года назад +4

    Another nurse here Tiffany, please never worry about what we do, it’s our honour to help in times of need it’s why we joined the profession…..to help…. It’s not disgusting to us it’s our job……never ever think this please my darling. Love and hugs xxxxx

  • @Deathcandy
    @Deathcandy 2 года назад +5

    My dear girl,Im Maria from Greece. Been watching your journey and id like to express my gratitude for teaching us how to live! I admire you so much!!!! Can’t wait to see you healthy and vivid after the surgery and enjoy your new adventures cancer free💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @mammabear5923
    @mammabear5923 2 года назад +42

    Hi Tiff, I’m a neonatal nurse and I became a nurse because I have Lupus and renal failure. I’ve had to cut down my my shifts but I still work as a nurse. I believe we are given the struggles in life because it make us the person we are.
    As a nurse it’s horrible to see my patients and their families scared or in pain. If I’m able to make them feel better or reassure them, it’s one of the most rewarding parts of my job!
    So don’t feel bad that the nurse has had to sit with you or help you while you’re in hospital. It’s why we chose to do the job we do.
    It’s ok to cry - your strength will come after you have a good cry. You can do it. We’ve got this with you. 💙💙💙

    • @frozenpeas
      @frozenpeas 2 года назад +1

      I'm also a neonatal icu nurse :) Hello!

    • @mammabear5923
      @mammabear5923 2 года назад

      @@frozenpeas hiya 👋🏻 ;)

  • @kristinafisher3801
    @kristinafisher3801 2 года назад +12

    Honey when someone is caring for you like a nurse or doctor or even a parent nothing is disgusting. I can promise you that. It’s our pleasure to help you and other patients ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kpax37
    @kpax37 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and your right no one is 100% all of the time. Please cry when you need to. I've got to say, I am 55yrs young, a grandma of 6 wonderful grand kiddos and I cant help but to look forward to seeing how your doing every day. I don't leave comments very often but you my dear have captured my heart. I always make sure I have a cup of coffee while watching your videos so in my small way I can have that connection with you. Thank you for having such clean content your such a dear soul young lady. You are making a difference in some one's life out there. Prayers from Hutchinson KS...WE GOT THIS!!! 🙏💗☕🇺🇲

  • @sarahhenry1634
    @sarahhenry1634 2 года назад +21

    Each time you go to the hospital, picture all of us right there with you! Long stays are challenging (I know from my experiences), but those rooms are filled with people who are praying for you and care!

    • @Camille-accessories
      @Camille-accessories 2 года назад +1

      That’s a great idea! All I do on surgery days is think of you Tiffany x

  • @Rzeeple
    @Rzeeple 2 года назад +19

    Tiffany, you’re nearly there, its always darkest before the dawn, you WILL get through surgery, 1 day at a time, & yes, 5 yrs from now you will look back, & know what a warrior you truly was!!! WE got this!!!
    💙🙏🏼 hope you are feeling better, & get back home soon! Xxx

  • @kristinerwalsh
    @kristinerwalsh 2 года назад +6

    Dear Tiffany , do you realize how strong you are ? You went down into the pit of despair which happens when you are ill. But you also brought your self back by thinking of doing something you enjoy and you will do lots of those things after you recover from your surgery. I would love for you to get a PO Box . Then I and everyone can send you cards, postcards of where we live . Write you letters . Send you our baby picture or current picture . That would be so much fun . Continued prayers for you, Amma , Matt , your doctors and nurses , and everyone you love . Sleep well sweet girl . 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @nightowl5395
    @nightowl5395 2 года назад +18

    Being emotional is not the opposite to being strong Tiffany; you are being strong but with everything you are going through you will feel overwhelmed at certain points; it is important to have a good cry sometimes....it is a sort of pressure-valve. I hope you can somehow sense the love and support we are all feeling for you 💙

  • @shanekiapaul3229
    @shanekiapaul3229 2 года назад +57

    I wish I could wrap my arms around you and take all your pain and sadness away. You can do this!!! We are praying for you Tiffany, stay encouraged. ❤🙏🏽 YOU GOT THIS!

  • @ladawnbrooks5994
    @ladawnbrooks5994 2 года назад +1

    I have stage four cancer! We got this I prayed very hard for you today! This will be a good thing. You are going to be OK all good news is coming your way love you🙏❤️🙏 Have a long talk with Jesus he is listening and waiting trust me👍❤️

  • @lindawheeler3376
    @lindawheeler3376 2 года назад +19

    Dear Tiffany, crying is good for you. Don't bottle up your emotions. Thinking of you during your very difficult time,and praying for you and your family. You got this💙

  • @Harlan_1
    @Harlan_1 2 года назад +25

    I’m over here in tears with your beautiful and sweet personality. You’re there after surgery and going through all this and yet you’re feeling bad for the nurse for changing your pads. You’re an absolute gem and beautiful soul. And the relationship you have with your mom is precious. Both of you. Beautiful souls 💖💖💖

    • @manjitjohal2677
      @manjitjohal2677 2 года назад

      its a horrible journey ,put you will get through this, pray 🙏 for you.

  • @joanneshaw3071
    @joanneshaw3071 2 года назад +7

    We (nurses) never know what a patient says about their care. It’s so special to see how much you appreciate your care. As other nurses have said here we really don’t think twice when it comes to doing all the things we do it’s just part of our job. I always try so hard to ensure the patient knows that it doesn’t bother us. If I try make them laugh 😂especially whilst dealing with body fluids as laughter is the best medicine. Sending hugs from a nurse in Australia 🇦🇺 💙💙💙💙

    • @igorkaczmarski7794
      @igorkaczmarski7794 2 года назад

      all doctors can do is cut your organs out or poisen you with cancer causeing drugs

  • @pamelaanderson1337
    @pamelaanderson1337 2 года назад +15

    I just want to tell you that you don't have to feel strong all the time!! Crying is very therapeutic and very normal!! I want to give you a hug and I cried right along with you!! I am praying for your healthy outcome!! You have got this Tiffany!!!! Hugs from America!!!

  • @sapphire6769
    @sapphire6769 2 года назад +62

    So many of us thinking of you every day ! We love you Tiff you are going to get there. Love from Ireland 🇮🇪

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 года назад +10

      Aww thank you so much💙💙💙 love you lots & lots

    • @judysimpson2990
      @judysimpson2990 2 года назад +12

      Been following your for quite awhile….breaks my heart to see you crying…. Know you are so loved and many prayers are coming your way....🙏😘

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 2 года назад +2

      Love u and ur mom u both are amazing loving and thru ur videos i feel i know u the holidays are coming up i am wishing u a wonderful thanksgiving which is nov 24 in the states u have so s9 much to be thankful for ur loving family yr loving boyfriend ur support group so dear tiffany u have the best of the best doctors ur an amazing women and i so look up to u as a positive role model love from cindy in the states

    • @rachelmaddison3681
      @rachelmaddison3681 2 года назад

      Sapphire, I see that Tiffany replies to you, please ask her to get a PO Box so we can send her cards. Thank you.

    • @sapphire6769
      @sapphire6769 2 года назад

      @@rachelmaddison3681 Hey. I guess it's because i reply as soon as I see her videos pop up . Ive definitely been lucky! although she does reply to alot. I was thinking the same about the PO BOX it would be so lovely for her to receive real cards & letters as she mentioned & so deserves our efforts in return! I will try and get there early again. Asap ☺️💞

  • @edwinaw1805
    @edwinaw1805 2 года назад +8

    Tiffany we got this! My mum was a mental health nurse , passed last year. She would do anything she could to make sure her patients were comfortable. Nursing isn’t just a job it’s like a vocation.I have the upmost respect for nurses. When my mum unfortunately went in hospital before she passed. The nurses found out she was one of them. They went above and beyond . We know they didn’t want us to buy them anything but we wanted to sure them how much we appreciated them. We would buy doughnuts, cake for all nurses in mums ward or ask them if they want us to get them anything. It wasn’t much but knew they were appreciated.
    Tiffany you doing well and will get through this. You going through so much but feel counselling would help you or going to a support group. Where you can express yourself and what your going through to people who experienced what your going through.We got this ❤

  • @cindr78
    @cindr78 2 года назад +41

    You've been through so much, Tiffany. You let your feelings come out!! Don't hold it back. You have thousands of people praying for you and your family. We got this, Tiffany!!
    💙💙💙💙💙🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @kmcd6672
    @kmcd6672 2 года назад +4

    Sweet Tiffany. Your nurse changing your pad is not disgusted. We want to help our patients and it is our job. You are so precious and thoughtful. Your nurse must know this. You are not a burden and what you are going through is what we are trained to take care of. God bless you.

  • @librarylover6414
    @librarylover6414 2 года назад +15

    Thank you for being vulnerable with us. It is so unbearable for you , of course. We love you and we are here for you. 💙

  • @heatherjunker967
    @heatherjunker967 2 года назад +23

    Tiffany, prayers are going up for you. One day at a time, you will get through this. Thank you nurses for your comments. My mom would tell Tiffany the same thing. She always said a person should never have to apologize for what comes out of their body. 💙

  • @ines.goncalves
    @ines.goncalves 2 года назад +16

    As a mom of a 7 year old girl with cancer (leukemia) I have to said that I see my Daughter in you. The courage that you have to face the illness with a smile, with a positive attitude even though you are in pain or just facing a bad day.
    Wishing you all the best because yes... You got this!
    I translate your videos to my little girl, and she is saying that she loves your hair.
    Love from Portugal. :)

    • @57msdeb
      @57msdeb 2 года назад +4

      Prayers for healing for your little girl!🙏❤️🙏

    • @joannpergakis4183
      @joannpergakis4183 2 года назад +1

      So sorry, prayers

  • @efarias2401
    @efarias2401 2 года назад +2

    Even though u break down sometimes, which is normal, u will look back at these moments & wont believe the fight is finally over

  • @susankisner465
    @susankisner465 2 года назад +13

    I see others in the helping professions replying to you and my first thought was a patient is NEVER DISGUSTING! We are in these professions to help and care for others, including you Tiffany! Please don’t forget that we get as much or more good from helping others as they get from what we do for them! I’m watching your videos and praying for you and your family regularly. I’ve talked to you about my husbands illnesses and he is now on dialysis and it seems to be going better. He too has had times where he felt he wanted to give up but we get through those times by remembering our grandchildren and family that need and love him. You do the same with Ella, your handsome nephew, your darling Matt, and the rest of your amazing family! You are so, so strong! Even when you cry to us, you are strong and dealing with your situation in a healthy way! I and many more Tiffany Thinks 💙 family are here for you, don’t forget that! Much love! Susan

  • @juliecowen3641
    @juliecowen3641 2 года назад +30

    Wow Tiffany you are so strong and brave, but it's good to have a good cry, even a scream and shout if you need to it will make you feel better, praying for you everyday. WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙

  • @lizgephart2040
    @lizgephart2040 2 года назад +3

    I was sad watching this video yesterday and I have seen your short video just 5 minutes ago and couldn’t believe my eyes. You looked so happy dancing laughing enjoying and what you have is a gift dear Tiffany. You are amazingly motivated from small things in difficult times which is a privilege and you need to teach this to other cancer patients and you can share with us how you manage to motivate yourself. Feel happy all the time. Positive thinking is the ultimate solution. I am glad you are happy and dancing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @janicegordon3705
    @janicegordon3705 2 года назад +6

    Sweet girl, I have been a nurse for 43 years and nothing that we have to do bothers us.We only want our patients to be comfortable.

  • @susanhead5035
    @susanhead5035 2 года назад +25

    Thanks for the update Tiffany. I’m glad that the investigation under anaesthetic is now complete - tick! Please do get a PO Box, I’d love to send you a card in good old fashioned hand writing lol. You’re doing great. It’s OK to not be OK at times. We are all supporting and praying for you. I too, have followed you since your diagnosis and feel like we know you a little bit as you’ve shared so much with us. One day at a time. Try to focus on the present day and get through it. If you just get through today, tomorrow will sort itself out. Praying for your Mom. I can see she is worried about you but is a woman of great faith. I hope you will be feeling better soon. Hugs & Prayers Suzy

    • @Camille-accessories
      @Camille-accessories 2 года назад +2

      Yes, I would love her to get a PO Box . Poor girl would be inundated with cards and gifts x

  • @dawnportousa
    @dawnportousa 2 года назад +1

    I just love your mom she is one special mama the way she cares for you and how she looks at you is just beautiful! I know how hard this must be to stay positive and how scared you must be but Tiffany you are rock star ⭐! You are doing great! I think we all feel that way about what the nurses go through while caring for us in the hospital but please try not to feel that way they have to endure so much more than that I don't know how they do it nurses are special people they really are! I can't wait until this is all over with and you are on the road to recovery!!! Tiffany We got this 💙

  • @tinah6423
    @tinah6423 2 года назад +10

    Sweet Tiffany, I’m sending you big gentle hugs and prayers. You are such a gentle soul and so loving, thank you for being a bright light in this world! ❤ from Texas, USA

  • @kathycowan2221
    @kathycowan2221 2 года назад +32

    Dear Tiffany, I have no idea how I found you, but you are such a blessing and inspiration. Because of you, I had a colonoscopy 2 days ago. 4 polyps were removed. It's nothing compared to your journey. You and yours are in my prayers.

    • @sandym7952
      @sandym7952 2 года назад +5

      Kathy Cowan...I hope everything is OK with you. I also went to the doc after watching Tiffany and realising that what was happening needed attention. Initial tests have come back positive and I'm now waiting for a colonoscopy appointment. Without Tiffany I probably would have kept ignoring it. 💗💗

    • @kathycowan2221
      @kathycowan2221 2 года назад +4

      @@sandym7952 good luck to you! I think the polyps are benign, but sent off anyway. Now to figure out what's really wrong with me. Prayers!!

    • @franciastone5048
      @franciastone5048 2 года назад +4

      I was also inspired by Tiffany and had a colonoscopy this past May.

    • @sandym7952
      @sandym7952 2 года назад +2

      @@franciastone5048 Hope everything is OK with you 🙏 ❤

    • @sandym7952
      @sandym7952 2 года назад +1

      @@kathycowan2221 keeping my fingers crossed for all of us.🤞💞

  • @floflocarnivore
    @floflocarnivore 2 года назад +3

    We are so lucky to have the nurses we have in this country. We are blessed with these amazing humans who care more for others than themselves. They work so hard for not nearly enough money and I for one would like to say thank you. Thank you for taking care of Tiffany. Thank you for sitting with her and keeping her comfortable for all that time. Thank you for holding her hand and reassuring her when she needed it. I'm forever grateful and thankful for the care you give to those in need and to our beautiful Tiffany. Its so very easy to take the NHS for granted as its always been there for us without question. Tiffany? You have no idea how much help these videos are. They help put things into perspective. They help people understand a very personal experience and give encouragement and support to so so many. We are blessed to have you and when you are at the other end of this journey we will be here to celebrate with you!!! Hang in there and if you need to cry then cry. I love you and I'm always thinking about you. You got this girl!!! 👊 xx

  • @carolynmarshall1968
    @carolynmarshall1968 2 года назад +10

    It’s natural to have a few tears, your emotions are gonna be up and down, it’s the trauma of everything. You are being so brave. Plenty of rest and Chin up Tiffany, you got this 💙

  • @MrsKreaty
    @MrsKreaty 2 года назад +21

    I've been thinking of you a lot the last few days and sending prayers. It's rare to find someone as kind and considerate as you are to those around you, despite the things you are going through. Many would be angry to have been dealt this hand, but you've taken it in your stride, and you are truly an inspiration. You radiate love for those around you and for those caring for you. What a wonderful, inspirational woman you are- I'd love to send you some happy mail :)

  • @dellindahenriques9846
    @dellindahenriques9846 2 года назад +1

    Tiffany it is real! It ok to talk about how you feel! You are human! You don’t have hold it in! Continue to be real! Nothing matter right now! This journey it is hard! It’s ok to talk, cry and fight through your journey!

  • @goldengurl4265
    @goldengurl4265 2 года назад +4

    Dear sweet Tiffany…God has sent you on this journey, for a reason we don’t yet understand, I know one thing for sure he sent you to all of us. You share kindness, love, and generosity, even when you’re struggling. We need more people like yourself, Matt and your mother in this world. Don’t be afraid to show how you are feeling that’s part of your journey and mental health is very important in recovery. I don’t have a daughter, but if I did I would want her to be just like you. Im so proud of you, Matt and your mom, you all show such grace and strength. You’ll be home and snuggled in your Christmas jammies before you know it. 🤍🕯🌹🙏

  • @hairbsb7908
    @hairbsb7908 2 года назад +10

    You are being strong. You have to release this. Its overwhelming. You have got this Tiffany. No one knows what's around the corner. You have everyone here sending you love and prayers which is powerful x

  • @katherinechatham9032
    @katherinechatham9032 2 года назад

    Go ahead and cry. Tears are very healing. Do not under any circumstance try to hold back. I will be praying for your healing. I have already learned that there are wonderful people in this world just by watching and seeing your bravery. You are a shinning light.

  • @leanneveverka4231
    @leanneveverka4231 2 года назад +8

    You are a warrior! You are absolutely allowed to have emotions. Prayers and hugs. We got this 💙

  • @sandrakelley3210
    @sandrakelley3210 2 года назад +13

    Tiffany it’s ok to cry, you’ve been through so much. We are here for you, it’s good to talk to us about your feelings, it helps release your stress. Love u!

  • @rachellejeune8111
    @rachellejeune8111 2 года назад

    Draw your strength from people that care for you. God uses people to to love and encourage those who are hurting.
    My son was ill for years and he was the bravest person I've ever known. With that said, there were times neither one of us could find strength...so we cried together.
    We couldn't change it, but we leaned on each other. You are truly loved my girl. Many of us are praying daily for you. Don't give up.

  • @ClareFox
    @ClareFox 2 года назад +15

    You can do it because you are already doing it - you’ve definitely got this and everyone is willing you on. Stay positive x

  • @miatfitz
    @miatfitz 2 года назад +8

    Tiffany... Girl.. you need never think that a nurse considers anything that happens to a patient is disgusting. As human beings we are all after all a bag of organs and bones wrapped in skin but you are a bright sparkling spirit in that bag. We can see the sparkle and absolutely adore you for it. Sending gentle hugs and prayers from Tasmania.

    • @petrasambale917
      @petrasambale917 2 года назад +1

      Wonderfull words. Love from Germany 💙

  • @sarahlynn8576
    @sarahlynn8576 2 года назад +1

    Lovely Girl. Such alot you've been through this past year ... so much emotion, confusion, upset, frustration and emotional & physical pain. You're in the home stretch now, time to honor your journey, and honor your dedication to the process, and honor you. Feel the love surrounding you and know the best wishes are wished for you. Rest, lovely girl. Sending you so much love & BIG cuddles.💙

  • @patriciagrant4913
    @patriciagrant4913 2 года назад +12

    Tiffany. As far as I can see, even through all the tears and pain, you are a fighter, Fighting doesn't mean that you can't have emotions. You are fighting through all of that, which is completely normal. You have fears of uncertainty, we all understand that. When all this is over, you can do a live stream party with all of us. Love you. 💗🤗🤗🙏