Man Shares End of Life Realities After Terminal Cancer Diagnosis

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @Jomama02
    @Jomama02 Месяц назад +845

    I wish my husband was this open about his cancer journey. He is stage 4 voicebox cancer that has now metastasized to his lungs. Going through brutal chemo, and his lung has collapsed 2x. He won't open up and talk. He just told me he was afraid to die last week.
    We've been married for 38 years. This has been a hard journey for him and myself. I keep things positive for him when I'm breaking piece by piece watching him struggle. Please keep him in prayer.
    Thank you for sharing your story of life.

    • @southernsass-f3d
      @southernsass-f3d Месяц назад +57

      Please ask your husband if he would be open to having someone from a church come speak with him, even if he doesn't believe in God or doesn't belong to a church. He needs to be able to open up to someone and share his fears, regrets in life, and possibly questions about the afterlife. Your husband's care team or social worker should be able to help put you in touch with a Chaplain or give you resources on someone he could speak with privately.

    • @JoeyC-nr5yk
      @JoeyC-nr5yk Месяц назад +22

      @@southernsass-f3dI second this. Even if you don’t necessarily believe in it, I feel like it would greatly be beneficial. The thought of me dying is no longer a fear of mine. Something that’s going to happen to all of us.

    • @cindyhesson9213
      @cindyhesson9213 Месяц назад +27

      Prayers for you and your husband, dear 🙏 ❤️

    • @lindseygerner4677
      @lindseygerner4677 Месяц назад +11

      Make sure you're open with him and how you're feeling. You're the one who has to live without him.

    • @kimberladawnkilgore5049
      @kimberladawnkilgore5049 Месяц назад +9

      Prayers🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @susieast450
    @susieast450 Месяц назад +208

    Thank you Inside Edition for doing a story that matters.

  • @sarahfulvio
    @sarahfulvio 27 дней назад +66

    It’s videos like this that makes me appreciate just turning 60.. God Bless you. So sad 😢

  • @sinead187
    @sinead187 Месяц назад +241

    Cancer sucks big time. Bless you both for sharing with us. ❤️

    • @sonicgalaxy27
      @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад +8

      Damn straight it is. I bless that young man's life to be a good one. 🕊️

  • @ViewtifulBeau
    @ViewtifulBeau Месяц назад +249

    Very sad for them. He's handling it infinitely better than I ever could.
    He looks damn good for being terminal.

    • @rayromano6249
      @rayromano6249 Месяц назад +4

      Hes handling it better because it didn't just happen yesterday whereas you just thought of the idea of having it

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@rayromano6249OK? 💀

    • @firelordplayz
      @firelordplayz Месяц назад +4

      Cause he is a Mormon and they believe in eternal life and eternal families.

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Месяц назад +1

      @@firelordplayz bruh 💀

    • @Danuxsy
      @Danuxsy 19 дней назад +2

      @@firelordplayz yea how you handle it is simply a product of your biology and the circumstances you've lived through, that's all there is to it lol

  • @shelleysedwick
    @shelleysedwick Месяц назад +56

    I lost my husband to this dreadful disease when he was 38. As someone who has lived it, it warms my heart that you guys had the time and made some really wonderful memories. Hugs to you both…as one lives with it and one will live after it.

  • @Jakepianos
    @Jakepianos Месяц назад +198

    Tanner “Jiffy” Martin is a good friend of mine. He is one of the most amazing people you will ever know.

    • @kathylynch9732
      @kathylynch9732 29 дней назад +8

      How is he doing?

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 27 дней назад

      Ask him to try ivermectin and panacur - can heal cancer

    • @chazlon5061
      @chazlon5061 16 дней назад

      And it is no surprise why he got cancer. He was overweight.

    • @chazlon5061
      @chazlon5061 16 дней назад

      @@kathylynch9732 how do you think

    • @Woohchaiell
      @Woohchaiell 16 дней назад +2

      @@chazlon5061it’s a crapshoot. I know many thin people diagnosed with colon cancer. Why kick someone when they’re down and essentially blame them for developing cancer?

  • @cynthg9547
    @cynthg9547 Месяц назад +113

    Beautiful couple I pray he gets more time with his wife and family ♥️😥

  • @fireflymiesumae
    @fireflymiesumae Месяц назад +141

    I love how chill he is

    • @MMMC-z8y
      @MMMC-z8y Месяц назад +5

      Probably a façade.

    • @kadesta123
      @kadesta123 Месяц назад +3

      @@MMMC-z8ywrong

    • @srso4660
      @srso4660 Месяц назад +9

      @@MMMC-z8y he’s made peace with the fact he’s transitioning soon. It’s not uncommon for people with a terminal condition to be at peace with their approaching death

    • @k.b2457
      @k.b2457 Месяц назад +4

      with the state of the world and being so young/barely having a legacy its now easier to find peace in leaving it. Its the pain of the illness that makes everything scary

    • @Annie805
      @Annie805 Месяц назад +3

      He has no choice

  • @felyxmillicent6538
    @felyxmillicent6538 Месяц назад +113

    Time flies so fast, when you feel you're near the end there is a relief if you embrace it.

    • @greghelton4668
      @greghelton4668 Месяц назад +6

      This is one of those things that one doesn’t know how they’ll react unless one experiences it. Hope you don’t have to experience it.

  • @wowzatrishiebunz
    @wowzatrishiebunz Месяц назад +77

    This couple radiates love and beauty.

  • @j-h-123
    @j-h-123 Месяц назад +78

    😢🙏💔🕊️ My heart breaks for them. Tanner seems like a great person and they seem like a wonderful couple.

  • @harishpavan995
    @harishpavan995 Месяц назад +71

    Please don't cry ,i feel extremely sad watching this video more strength to you

  • @maryj4876
    @maryj4876 Месяц назад +47

    Fly high buddy when its time. Love that this interview is a little lighter coz it's really hard to endure in real life. You wife is beautiful and supportive. ❤🙏

  • @cindyhesson9213
    @cindyhesson9213 Месяц назад +45

    Their story is truly beautiful!! They found a way to deal with their grief in an honest and loving way ❤❤ God bless this couple 🙏

  • @DancingOnGlass89
    @DancingOnGlass89 Месяц назад +16

    Thank you for sharing this couples story. This was just beautiful. The living funeral is lovely .

  • @AaronTorres1000
    @AaronTorres1000 Месяц назад +89

    This is sad 😢😢 He seems in good spirits

    • @LectronCircuits
      @LectronCircuits Месяц назад +4

      Soon he will only be a good spirit. Audience wishes him all the best. Cheers!

    • @sonicgalaxy27
      @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад +3

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @chazlon5061
      @chazlon5061 16 дней назад +1

      He's not its a facade. He's terrified

  • @JustEmilyyy
    @JustEmilyyy Месяц назад +101

    gosh i hate cancer, its taken so many people 😢 took a friend of mine last year she was 18. Hope his transition is peaceful ❤

    • @leighhoppins9273
      @leighhoppins9273 Месяц назад +4

      Yeah, but at least you don’t have to live the life like I do on a daily basis. I mean, I struggle a lot with My mental health
      I have autism and a very rare chromosome disorder as well, which causes me to have like psychotic behaviours as well as OCD behaviours
      To me it’s like I am living a cancer world on its own you know it’s not good you know when I’m not happy A lot of the times
      But you know I try to be happy. I try to be positive and I just try to do the best I can do you know I try to live my life to the fullest and that’s all you can ever hope for

    • @Sabouma28
      @Sabouma28 Месяц назад +20

      @@leighhoppins9273 sorry, but you cannot compare cancer to having mental struggles.... each issue is bad in its own way

    • @jackeroo75
      @jackeroo75 Месяц назад +4

      It is the plastic, wipes, amd processed food

    • @Xane_Dragon
      @Xane_Dragon Месяц назад

      ​@@Sabouma28
      Mental struggles is cancer because it eats at you for a lifetime! 🤨

    • @SUGAR_XYLER
      @SUGAR_XYLER Месяц назад

      ​@@Sabouma28
      You wouldn't know unless you've lived it !

  • @michelleclawsey9565
    @michelleclawsey9565 Месяц назад +32

    Such a beautiful couple .Sending many prayers .He's such an amazing man ❤

  • @MrsRobinson0741
    @MrsRobinson0741 Месяц назад +56

    My best friends’ daughter was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer 6mos after having her 2nd daughter. She fought hard to beat it but 1 & 1/2 years later she lost her battle 🥹😔 Her husband is now a widower w/2 young daughters 🥹😔

  • @Milaperadotti
    @Milaperadotti Месяц назад +262

    Blood in his stool and no colonoscopy, then letting this poor man go six months, allowing the tumor to grow to the point when they finally do a colonoscopy they can’t even get through the intestinal track because the tumor was so big. God please watch over this wonder couple . Truly godly people. Sending prayers

    • @jenniferruth812
      @jenniferruth812 Месяц назад +14

      It’s awful! I’ve heard so many stories like this. It makes me appreciate when I’ve had problems (like GERD) & my Dr immediately orders testing/imaging.

    • @lauraelisee
      @lauraelisee Месяц назад +13

      Right! I had blood in my stool once and my GI immediately sent me for a colonoscopy

    • @shernandez2276
      @shernandez2276 Месяц назад +8

      Every doctor is different and there should be one protocol for anything that has to do with blood in stool, bloating, excessive gas, etc. He could have been staged differently had the Dr not waited to screen him. I get screened regularly because my brother was stage four at 54 and passed at 56 and my sister is stage four and diagnosed at 54. She’s now 66. I had my first screening at 48.

    • @Nzmwwww1238
      @Nzmwwww1238 Месяц назад +7

      Exactly. Should have done colonoscopy right away..

    • @greghelton4668
      @greghelton4668 Месяц назад +6

      That’s our medical system. Vote blue if you care.

  • @amandapratt6270
    @amandapratt6270 27 дней назад +6

    Im crying so much 😭.. Tanner you have an amazing attitude and soul

  • @donnawargacki6612
    @donnawargacki6612 Месяц назад +30

    Praying for you dear. My husband has Stage 3 Multiple Myeloma, there is no stage 4 with this cancer. This is his second cancer diagnosis in less than 5 years. He's been fighting for 15 months, he had a stem cell transplant in January to keep him with us longer. He will be on oral chemo and infusions of chemo for the rest of his life. Now, he was diagnosed on his 70th Birthday. I pray for you sweet boy and your lovely wife. I pray you don't have a lot of pain. God bless you always. Love, hugs and light coming your way.

  • @camzcrazy7786
    @camzcrazy7786 Месяц назад +30

    Beautiful story, thanks for sharing and wish all the best❤

  • @laurad3497
    @laurad3497 Месяц назад +21

    I’m glad you’re open during all of this. Death is a part of life.

    • @SwimKam
      @SwimKam 6 дней назад

      Being open about mortality is normal. What they should be ashamed of, is being Mormon. 😂.

  • @PneumaNoose
    @PneumaNoose 29 дней назад +8

    Oh I CRIED when he got to meet his childhood hero! That’s like getting to go back in time and giving your kid-self a hug. What a beautiful story 😭

  • @Antandjune
    @Antandjune 28 дней назад +3

    Wow! He is uplifting. Thanks for sharing guys.

  • @Sans-nx4cx
    @Sans-nx4cx Месяц назад +7

    Thank you for sharing this video, he has an incredible attitude 🎉

  • @bluejunegraduate
    @bluejunegraduate Месяц назад +25

    I never knew about the Dream Foundation. Like Make a wish for adults too. Thanks for being so brave to share your story.

  • @earthstrong1616
    @earthstrong1616 Месяц назад +20

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤❤ prayers for you both. Stay strong 💪❤❤

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown Месяц назад +21

    Dude, you married the right woman. What's worse than cancer is marrying the wrong woman. God bless you guys.

  • @debracrews5216
    @debracrews5216 Месяц назад +19

    As an end of life Doula, I’m so happy you all have openly discussed and planned Tanners end. Why? Because you all can now enjoy your time left and live life to the very fullest as much as possible. Thank you for sharing your fears, tears, joy,pain and appreciation for life and each other!

    • @Julie-si3hi
      @Julie-si3hi Месяц назад +1

      I didn't know that was a thing? How beautiful and what a privilege! My husband has terminal cancer and it's so hard to see him decline.

    • @DancingOnGlass89
      @DancingOnGlass89 Месяц назад +1

      I have a friend who does this. Thank you for existing and doing what you do. What you do is beautiful. It takes a strong human to do it too. Thank you again.

  • @debrakleid5752
    @debrakleid5752 Месяц назад +45

    My now ex had an appointment for a colonoscopy several years ago due to GI symptoms and he was only 34 or 35. He had huge precancerous polyps and the doctor said that had he waited until 50 to get his first routine colonoscopy he would have definitely had stage 4 colon cancer by then. Colon cancer is rare in the 20’s and 30’s but it can happen. I’m so sorry to this beautiful couple

    • @bonmam9511
      @bonmam9511 21 день назад

      I thank God that your ex found that out right away it saved his life

  • @carrolynostuni23
    @carrolynostuni23 Месяц назад +9

    Very touching video. Thank you for sharing.

  • @ZILLAMAYNE
    @ZILLAMAYNE Месяц назад +28

    The prices on medical insurance and funeral expenses should be illegal.

    • @AZHITW
      @AZHITW Месяц назад +3

      My partner and I discussed funeral arrangements when a close friend passed and his wife arranged for his memorial service, minister (yes you have to pay him too) and the reception hall, the catering service, we both agreed that we would rather the survivor in our partnership have the money than to give it to a funeral home. We were together 44 years, and he passed from dementia, and I made arrangements to have him cremated with no service. It is always better to discuss such matters, we were both in our 70s, can't imagine having to do so in your 20s.

  • @TravelJennie
    @TravelJennie Месяц назад +34

    My dad died of colon cancer at 58 when I was 23.
    I started getting colonoscopies at 23. I fought hard to get those approved and now the VA does them as frequently as patients need. My sister had breast cancer when I was 32. I was pregnant at 33 and breastfeeding until I was 38, so I couldn’t get mammograms until then. Now I get them twice a year through the VA and biopsies once a year. So far cancer free. I truly believe and agree with early screening.
    I’m 46 now

    • @gunarr6
      @gunarr6 26 дней назад

      Great work fighting for your and other's rights to get screened.

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 16 дней назад

      Mammograms 2x per year is madness. Such a lot of radiation!

    • @Celisar1
      @Celisar1 16 дней назад

      PS and from such a young age….!

  • @Shylis-rs9dy
    @Shylis-rs9dy Месяц назад +12

    Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you both. Seems like cancer is not just for the older people anymore.

  • @lockedin24
    @lockedin24 26 дней назад +6

    This brought tears to my eyes. 😢

  • @chlumbis
    @chlumbis Месяц назад +16

    I hope that he will go on to live and if not rest in absolute and complete peace

  • @reneearriaga7485
    @reneearriaga7485 Месяц назад +4

    So sorry I’ve had to go through this, Tanner. ❤ God bless u and ur beautiful wife.

  • @Jebbie1976
    @Jebbie1976 Месяц назад +3

    😭Lifting you guys up in prayer.♥

  • @what2toinquarantine64
    @what2toinquarantine64 Месяц назад +16

    God bless you guys
    I admire your courage!

  • @axlesolace6502
    @axlesolace6502 Месяц назад +35

    What an amazing couple. 😢

  • @hatarismom
    @hatarismom Месяц назад +16

    I just lost my husband on July 11 to cancer. It’s a god awful disease the loss of someone that you love the love of your life. This is traumatic as it gets. I’m a psychotherapist with 30 years of private practice retired. But nothing prepared me For the loss of the love of my life. There’s not a day goes by that I don’t miss him. Thankfully, the good Lord has given me the knowledge that it was a goodbye. It was just see you later. If I didn’t have my faith I would be lost.

    • @francetogo794
      @francetogo794 Месяц назад +1

      Thank God you have faith and a believer of Jesus Christ. I know it must now be lonely but whenever you don't know what to do or feel lonely or scared, just pray and continue to keep your faith. God Bless, Renee`

    • @Xane_Dragon
      @Xane_Dragon Месяц назад +1

      ​@@francetogo794
      I found that to be absolutely useless. I guess it helps to have a child's imagination, which I don't.

    • @Julie-si3hi
      @Julie-si3hi Месяц назад

      So sorry for your loss x

    • @hatarismom
      @hatarismom Месяц назад +4

      @@Xane_Dragon I’m really sorry that you think faith is nothing more than a child’s imagination. It must be very lonely if you’ve lost someone to not believe. Xane I’m not a Bible thumper. I don’t attend church. I’m very cautious about organized religion but this is more than a child’s imagination. My father used to say” convincing men against his will he’s of the same opinion still“. For what it’s worth Zane, just know that I’ll pray for you. It must be very lonely, not believing.

    • @francetogo794
      @francetogo794 Месяц назад

      @@hatarismom Thanks for coming to my defense or for providing an explanation that being a Christian with faith isn't part of an imagination. I refused to try and explain myself to her. But she can ask any Christian and walk into any church and they will tell her the same. Belief in God and having faith isn't part of imagination.

  • @kepckatherinec805
    @kepckatherinec805 Месяц назад +4

    This wonderful couple gives new meaning to the concept of making the best out of a difficult situation. I wish them every joy and happiness, help in every way they need it and peace wherever and whenever they find it.

  • @tawandahaulcy8700
    @tawandahaulcy8700 Месяц назад +3

    I'm so inspired by both you. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.. your lives with us. God bless both of you 🙏

  • @joannewynn4431
    @joannewynn4431 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your difficult journey!

  • @jizzlordthecat
    @jizzlordthecat Месяц назад +7

    This is heartbreaking. Sending hugs and positive vibes your way.

  • @gigiowens7241
    @gigiowens7241 Месяц назад +4

    Tanner STRONG 💪! Cancer sucks. I had breast cancer. Thank God i didn't have to have chemo. I do, however, have to take a chemo pill twice a day it makes me sick most of the time. I know my Cancer journey is nothing compared to some. I have made peace with the fact that someday the Cancer can take my life. I'm ok with that. My sweet grandma will come get me and usher me inside the pearly gates.
    May God be with everyone affected by this horrible disease.
    Sending love and big bear hugs from north Ga. ❤

  • @hellotinashe
    @hellotinashe 29 дней назад +3

    This is without a doubt, my biggest fear for my family. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @user-wb2yv7ll9d
    @user-wb2yv7ll9d Месяц назад +6

    What a beautiful person, he displays such grace, humility and strength. ❤ Amazing message on the sweatshirt at 9:27

  • @Soymaxlbc
    @Soymaxlbc 29 дней назад +1

    Love your guy’s story ❤, thanks for sharing the story.

  • @bigchina5279
    @bigchina5279 Месяц назад +7

    Praying 🙏🏻 🤲🏻 ❤ cancer really sucks!

  • @trishsavage5790
    @trishsavage5790 24 дня назад +1

    God bless and thank you for sharing your story.

  • @exiromero7597
    @exiromero7597 5 дней назад

    Thank you! Both of you for sharing your story, is very important always talk about our wishes for our own funeral plans one day, is very therapeutic for us, to be prepared, even when it's not easy to talk about it. God bless all of you 🙏🏼❤️

  • @julieunderwood525
    @julieunderwood525 Месяц назад +4

    Amazing Man living his life to the fullness with a wonderful loving Lady I've never seen a man with such courage and still smiling with the cards he was Dealt ❤ I'll be praying for a miracle for you 🙏🙏

  • @kendallevans4079
    @kendallevans4079 2 дня назад +2

    I have lost 3 family to cancer and I have to say: Is all the treatment (radiation and chemo mostly) worth it? I'm talking about late stages/big cancer like colon or pancreatic.
    My last family member it was 11 months from diagnosis to death. In those 11 months, the first 2 were ok then it was 9 months of doctor/clinic/hospital visits and being sick constantly....he died anyway, was it worth it? At 67, I think I would just ask the doctor for pain meds and let me go.
    Nothing lasts forever.

  • @nicolaxoxo1
    @nicolaxoxo1 Месяц назад +64

    My father died from colon cancer. His Dr at the time told him that a fecal occult blood test was sufficient. It was not! By the time he was diagnosed, he was stage 4. No One likes a colonoscopy, but trust me, dying of colon cancer is far worse!!!!!
    My dad had no known risk factors and was in excellent condition. I miss him a lot!!!!!

    • @anthonynoneyabusiness420
      @anthonynoneyabusiness420 Месяц назад +4

      Sorry for your loss ❤

    • @bevcamren1316
      @bevcamren1316 Месяц назад +6

      Yes I was so scared to get one but it was nothing you don't feel it please get your colonoscopy friends

    • @nouvel0001
      @nouvel0001 Месяц назад

      Red meat increases the risk of colorectal cancer. Processed meat increases the risk further. A Research in Europe & US pegs high intake of red meat at anything equal to or more than *5* ounces/ abt *142* grams per day .
      Check National Cancer Institute article -- 'Pattern of DNA Damage Links Colorectal Cancer and Diet High in Red Meat ' . Harvard Medical School also has reports on this. Plenty research papers available. online .
      Search red meat and colon cancer or anything along the same lines

    • @AaronTorres1000
      @AaronTorres1000 Месяц назад +5

      @nicolaxoxo1 so sorry for your loss. I'm 45 and I've already had two colonoscopies due to stomach issues. I thank God everything came it normal. Get a colonoscopy, it could save your life!!!

    • @sonicgalaxy27
      @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад +2

      So sorry about your father mate. Really I am. :-(

  • @hobaaize6474
    @hobaaize6474 14 дней назад

    I’m crying I’m so so sorry for u both to have to go through this😭

  • @maeshellewest-davies7904
    @maeshellewest-davies7904 Месяц назад

    Thank you for the honesty

  • @krish-zx77
    @krish-zx77 Месяц назад +7

    God bless this couples

  • @maxsredditreadingclub8353
    @maxsredditreadingclub8353 Месяц назад +19

    Hope you live long x😊

  • @Amazingvideoos3
    @Amazingvideoos3 Месяц назад +3

    I’m sorry he’s going through this. I hope that God keeps both of them safe and happy until the end 🙏

  • @justinisbecoming
    @justinisbecoming 23 дня назад +1

    Sending sooooo much love to you both and your families!

  • @sonicgalaxy27
    @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад +11

    He is really a chill dude during the interview and handling his rare stage 4 cancer diagnosis well. I really hope he recovers from it. Once again, cancer sucks big time.

  • @erical7051
    @erical7051 Месяц назад +3

    This story broke my heart, I lost my Mom to colon cancer a few months ago. It’s so unfair, cancer sucks! My prayers and love go out to this beautiful couple and their families. Colon cancer is not an “old people” disease any longer. I’m proud to see them spreading the word to prevent more undiagnosed cases in our youth.

    • @Former_Pastor
      @Former_Pastor Месяц назад

      Mine died from it in April. Didn't even know she had it until emergency room visit.
      Died the next morning due to metastasis

  • @angieselenge7940
    @angieselenge7940 Месяц назад +6

    God bless you guys .I admire your courage;)

  • @dearboy05
    @dearboy05 Месяц назад +3

    Putting an ad in the middle of this is diabolical

  • @margaretwallace2021
    @margaretwallace2021 28 дней назад +2

    So courageous. God be with you. So sad

  • @elizabethod
    @elizabethod Месяц назад +1

    Praying for him❤

  • @annetfranklin5516
    @annetfranklin5516 Месяц назад +7

    Gracias por compartir esto con el público , es necesario que la gente aprenda sobre seguro de vida y las enfermedades llegan así repentina mente

  • @SanFernandoValleyRose
    @SanFernandoValleyRose Месяц назад +5

    I feel so bad for this young man and his wife. My mother had colon cancer when she was 51 and she survived it but she passed from Leukemia when she was 85. I have tested positive for blood in that area three times but I won't go through a colonoscopy because of the pain, I am 78 years old and I hope my time is up sooner than later. I hope he can enjoy his life with the time he has left.😢🙏💔❤

    • @ABCDEFGHIJK4097
      @ABCDEFGHIJK4097 15 дней назад +2

      What pain? Your out of it the whole time

  • @ricbra33
    @ricbra33 28 дней назад +1

    Saw that look in her eyes after you said you had stage 4 cancer and replayed it a few times..

  • @eja7835
    @eja7835 Месяц назад +1

    Hugs to both of you😔

  • @JeanP-f7m
    @JeanP-f7m 10 дней назад

    truly inspiring!!

  • @siliconvalleyengineer5875
    @siliconvalleyengineer5875 6 дней назад

    I hope this man and womens journey ended peacefully, god bless them

  • @angelique2150
    @angelique2150 9 дней назад

    So very sad. He's so young and should have a long life ahead of him. So many young people die from this disease. This young man seems like such a nice guy. It will be a true loss for the world and, of course, his loved ones.

  • @awesome_lord13
    @awesome_lord13 27 дней назад +1

    I’m so inspired

  • @chrissmith-no3bo
    @chrissmith-no3bo Месяц назад +3

    My mum fought for 17 yrs of colon cancer. Every other yr after remission it had moved. Treatment and surgery. When we knew it was over when she lost her last kidney. But she did survive a few months after that one... She went back to the village in Germany we lived in when my dad was in the military... She passed soon after. 17 yrs and six days after my dad's battle with cancer

  • @beaconbarb7423
    @beaconbarb7423 Месяц назад +3

    This, is Courage!

  • @Thao-nw6bz
    @Thao-nw6bz 28 дней назад +2

    Everyone should be transparent with their love ones about their illness. She is right about planning his funeral together so she doesn’t have to stress about it later. Losing someone you care about is stressful enough without having to deal with funeral arrangements. My dad passed away from lung cancer. He didn’t tell us until it was too late. I guess he was in denial. So when he passed We didn’t know what to do. It was a very stressful time but we made it through. It would have been nice if he helped us planned it like this couple.

  • @thewreathmeshine
    @thewreathmeshine 19 дней назад

    Prayers for strength and peace for you both 🙏

  • @amywantland5359
    @amywantland5359 Месяц назад +1

    I love how much they live and love each other. God Bless.

  • @RainFall-wz2yp
    @RainFall-wz2yp Месяц назад +4

    came home crying on balcony, listening to good good father by Chris tomlin, and gratitude by brandon lake, wailing my soul out, because I want to be closer to jesus and I don't know how to be, and because I miss and long for Bryan from the very core of my being

    • @sbsb6481
      @sbsb6481 Месяц назад +2

      Whose Bryan?

  • @nimbly1693
    @nimbly1693 Месяц назад +5

    My little brother died at 25 from lymphoma. Cancer sucks.

  • @CourageUnderFire87
    @CourageUnderFire87 Месяц назад +22

    Doctors need to take patient symptoms more seriously! His doctors waited 6 mos of critical time to finally take him seriously! Being treated sooner may have made all the difference! I hope they sue the doctor for malpractice!

  • @NicolettenNnicotine
    @NicolettenNnicotine 24 дня назад +2

    Poor baby, his wife is an angel!

  • @shelbisueno9647
    @shelbisueno9647 Месяц назад +3

    Colon cancer took a friend of mine 5 days ago. I’m still torn up about it. She fought a good fight. I had just talked to her and then a week later she was gone 😔

  • @GamingKingdom91
    @GamingKingdom91 Месяц назад +16

    While i dont have cancer nor do i know anyone with cancer...
    All i can say is that any type of cancer sucks...

    • @sonicgalaxy27
      @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад +3

      Agreed. No matter how many times you go to chemotherapy or surgeries to remove it, it always comes back in a year or so. It always does in any part of your body.

    • @Breezy-o1w
      @Breezy-o1w Месяц назад

      ​@@sonicgalaxy27wow. So am I wasting my time? I'm battling stage 3 breast cancer right now 😢

    • @SUGAR_XYLER
      @SUGAR_XYLER Месяц назад

      ​@@sonicgalaxy27
      Agree. The best thing to do is leave it alone

    • @fitnessonly9134
      @fitnessonly9134 Месяц назад

      @@Breezy-o1wstay strong and eat healthy only please 🙏🏾

    • @sonicgalaxy27
      @sonicgalaxy27 Месяц назад

      @@SUGAR_XYLER Yes true. We just have to leave it alone. It always finds it way back. I really hate saying this.

  • @michellewhyatt4438
    @michellewhyatt4438 27 дней назад

    I hope you're both hanging on in there. Spend every precious moment together take lots of pics & vids. Cancer is a nightmare truly is. Thinking of you both. Love to both of you. Xxxx

  • @1lexina
    @1lexina Месяц назад +4

    This is so sad❤

  • @applejellypucci
    @applejellypucci Месяц назад +6

    As a death doula I love the idea of a living funeral. What a beautiful couple! I wish that they had more time together.

    • @Julie-si3hi
      @Julie-si3hi Месяц назад +1

      I had no idea that was a thing! Beautiful and what a privilege

  • @louiseuk4001
    @louiseuk4001 Месяц назад +1

    Lovely couple. Sending love and hugs xx

  • @taramatheis1451
    @taramatheis1451 19 дней назад

    What a brave and inspiring couple. ❤

  • @rosemaryoneale6694
    @rosemaryoneale6694 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤ This young couple is saying what REALITY is
    I for one applaud them!
    With the bad and the good 😊 that comes with LIFE
    There’s more beyond this LIFE
    Keeping you both in my prayers and thoughts ❤❤

  • @annieconway8998
    @annieconway8998 Месяц назад +1

    OMG this guy is so brave!

  • @gailsfoodandstuff
    @gailsfoodandstuff 22 часа назад +1

    its odd that she is eating and drinking during an interview, but i guess that’s her way of coping? anyway, im sorry to hear this, as i too have had cancer and my mom died of it (well, she really died of the chemo) so I hate to see anyone lose to cancer.

  • @theyouth2000
    @theyouth2000 Месяц назад +1

    Hugz... love and prayers for both of you. ❤

  • @SilviaRoblero-g7i
    @SilviaRoblero-g7i 23 дня назад

    Wonderful, wish you the best❤

  • @TheVikingblonde
    @TheVikingblonde 29 дней назад +1

    Such a sad story. Everyone needs to pay attention to their body and advocate for their health. It's a shame that you just can't have a colonoscopy at any age without having to fight doctors and insurance companies to get it. I was lucky that my colon cancer was found at stage 3. Wishing the best for this lovely couple.