I have seen some videos on Bree and think it is wonderful that you fought for her to have the most wonderful life she could have! Thank you for sharing her beautiful life and the unconditional love you have for her! People who do not have a person with a disability in their family have no idea of the struggles and isolation a family goes through. The love of family and the advocacy for their loved ones who often don’t have a voice is amazing!
God bless Wendy Gilker. She is a great mother to Bree. It's sad that Bree is no longer here with us. Bree may be gone, but her spirits will forever live on. Rest in peace, Bree and God bless you. *Bree Gilker (April 2, 1980 - January 5, 2017)*
It helps Wendy greatly that she was brought up with compassion and unconditional love. With that as a basis from the outset, she will be hugely better able to deal with curve balls thrown her way, so as far as possible it's so important to raise kids with these mindsets. I did not have that, but I'm having to face all the negativity and unrealistic expectations that was forced upon me as a child. It's really good to see that she's very accepting and calm, I'd wish it for everyone.
Thank you so much for sharing your life. You are very brave. Eternal rest grant unto Bree and may perpetual light shine upon her. May she and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace. Amen.
Bree lived to be 37 when the Dr.'s originally told her parents she would live to 5. She passed because of kidney problems, which could have been caused by the seizure medications, some are worse than others on your kidneys.
@@EvolvedJewelOnly through your eyes, Perhaps your perception is skewed,, maybe you need to look at it through a different perspective. There is a deeper understanding of living and the meaning and purpose of life, one you haven't had the chance to comprehend. Its the difference between being blind most of your life and suddenly being able to see all the beautiful wonderful colors and God's creation.
It’s really inspiring that Wendy has put her daughter first and has done all she could to care for her and give her the the best life she could under the circumstances. In regards to her saying that having a profoundly handicapped child a blessing....I strongly disagree. It’s great that the experience helped Wendy grow as a person but saying that having a profoundly handicapped child is something to be desired because it helped you grow is kind of selfish. I also don’t think I’d like to “grow” as a person under those circumstances. Spending every minute of everyday for 36 years micro managing every aspect of Brees life does not sound healthy. Its not surprising that Wendy is VERY stressed out all the time because there really isn’t any quality of life here. Having Bree crawl around the house all day everyday amongst other isolated activities is no way to live. It would do Wendy good to get out and have some kind of life outside of Bree. It would probably do Bree good to be around other people too in some kind of program for the disabled for a few hours here and there. I mean Bree really doesn’t have any quality of life and from what was said at age 11 she peaked at her ability level and since then she’s done the same things everyday which is just crawling around with Wendy coaching her. I would never wish for this to happen to anyone or be grateful for it because that’s a human being who is suffering and was dealt a terrible hand in life. Wendy is a saint though for doing what she did with Bree. She gave her everything she had. Also she learned a lot that I’m sure will help a lot of parents of profoundly handicapped children and the children themselves. All the diet stuff that she has put together over the years is remarkable and I think will truly make its mark on the world.!
I wondered about this too, since Wendy never said she was a widow. It does not seem uncommon for a partner to abandon the family under these circumstances, if that was the reason.
It's not suffering when God intended for her beautiful soul to be here on this planet at this time. She was happy and she was loved. The greatest of all things is love. The only suffering comes from seeing comments like yours.
It's a shame you're so judgemental, though. Maybe Bree was proof that you're not perfect just because you eat a plant based diet. Some people can't. That kind of toxic attitude only turns people against you, and then they won't hear Bree's story. What's more important to you?
Lol this comment makes no sense. How is she judgmental just because she follows a plant based diet? When does she claim to be perfect and how is her daughter ‘proof’ that she isn’t? Stop feeling attacked by others’ lifestyle choices.
@@allistratadid you actually watch this? Or did you just see "disabled" and with a clouded and biased mind decided to go straight to the comments and be so judgmental?
I'm so happy she was able to share her story at TED, her legacy will forever live on
I follow Wendy since the beginning. What an amazing mother.
An amazing mom with an amazing kid!!! Blessed both ways!
God bless this angel lady
SO glad you spoke at a TED event - yours is definitely a story that deserves hearing.
I have seen some videos on Bree and think it is wonderful that you fought for her to have the most wonderful life she could have! Thank you for sharing her beautiful life and the unconditional love you have for her! People who do not have a person with a disability in their family have no idea of the struggles and isolation a family goes through. The love of family and the advocacy for their loved ones who often don’t have a voice is amazing!
What an outstanding Mother you were to Bree. She was Blessed to have you for her Mother.
God bless Wendy Gilker. She is a great mother to Bree. It's sad that Bree is no longer here with us. Bree may be gone, but her spirits will forever live on. Rest in peace, Bree and God bless you.
*Bree Gilker (April 2, 1980 - January 5, 2017)*
God bless you Wendy
It helps Wendy greatly that she was brought up with compassion and unconditional love.
With that as a basis from the outset, she will be hugely better able to deal with curve balls thrown her way, so as far as possible it's so important to raise kids with these mindsets. I did not have that, but I'm having to face all the negativity and unrealistic expectations that was forced upon me as a child.
It's really good to see that she's very accepting and calm, I'd wish it for everyone.
I lost track of how many times I seen this video. I do not know you; I love you and Bri. I can definitely relate.
'She always knew she was loved and wanted.' What a gift. Beautiful mother.
What an amazing mother..! What an amazing human being..! I have been deeply touched.. Thank you.. Every life matters..!
Amazing lady thank you for sharing your story. So inspiring.
Thank you so much for sharing your life. You are very brave. Eternal rest grant unto Bree and may perpetual light shine upon her. May she and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace. Amen.
Wow, 31 years poor Bree had bowel issues. What a blessing it is having just that being eased with her macro diet.
jglow 6 years
@@dumblesmores Bree died at 31, or 32 that's what they meant I guess. just her age
@@amandarios448 36 she passed away at
Bree lived to be 37 when the Dr.'s originally told her parents she would live to 5. She passed because of kidney problems, which could have been caused by the seizure medications, some are worse than others on your kidneys.
WOW you are an angel
well done wendy
Thank you 🙏 this helped me so much xxx
I couldnt do it. No way.
Its suffering, there is no living.
@@EvolvedJewelOnly through your eyes, Perhaps your perception is skewed,, maybe you need to look at it through a different perspective. There is a deeper understanding of living and the meaning and purpose of life, one you haven't had the chance to comprehend. Its the difference between being blind most of your life and suddenly being able to see all the beautiful wonderful colors and God's creation.
After all, the greatest of all things is love.
It’s really inspiring that Wendy has put her daughter first and has done all she could to care for her and give her the the best life she could under the circumstances. In regards to her saying that having a profoundly handicapped child a blessing....I strongly disagree. It’s great that the experience helped Wendy grow as a person but saying that having a profoundly handicapped child is something to be desired because it helped you grow is kind of selfish. I also don’t think I’d like to “grow” as a person under those circumstances. Spending every minute of everyday for 36 years micro managing every aspect of Brees life does not sound healthy. Its not surprising that Wendy is VERY stressed out all the time because there really isn’t any quality of life here. Having Bree crawl around the house all day everyday amongst other isolated activities is no way to live. It would do Wendy good to get out and have some kind of life outside of Bree. It would probably do Bree good to be around other people too in some kind of program for the disabled for a few hours here and there. I mean Bree really doesn’t have any quality of life and from what was said at age 11 she peaked at her ability level and since then she’s done the same things everyday which is just crawling around with Wendy coaching her. I would never wish for this to happen to anyone or be grateful for it because that’s a human being who is suffering and was dealt a terrible hand in life. Wendy is a saint though for doing what she did with Bree. She gave her everything she had. Also she learned a lot that I’m sure will help a lot of parents of profoundly handicapped children and the children themselves. All the diet stuff that she has put together over the years is remarkable and I think will truly make its mark on the world.!
You inspire me to be a better person
Bree was so lucky to have a mama like you. And you so lucky to have a beautiful rare child ..
Thank you 🙏.
Absolutely amazing lady, my heart goes out to you. Xx
You should write a book Wendy!x
She did
what happened to her father? did he leave bc of his daughters illness :/
I wondered about this too, since Wendy never said she was a widow. It does not seem uncommon for a partner to abandon the family under these circumstances, if that was the reason.
They’re divorced
I don’t know exactly. I know she left him because he just wasn’t involved enough.
this is beautiful
Feel bad for Wendy. But relieved for Bree, whos misery is finally over. That was no way to live.
Please reach out to me I have a little girl with the same syndrom 4p-. I would love to chat.
What true loving & caring mother you were!! ❤️
Your amazing mama
Ypu amaze me
Beautiful story. I am so glad a wonderful mother and daughter came to exist so people can learn to love unconditionally🌹💝
I remember watching some of your videos that you posted of your sweet Bree! Thank you for sharing.
great mom
Suffering. Not gifts.
It's not suffering when God intended for her beautiful soul to be here on this planet at this time. She was happy and she was loved. The greatest of all things is love. The only suffering comes from seeing comments like yours.
It's a shame you're so judgemental, though. Maybe Bree was proof that you're not perfect just because you eat a plant based diet. Some people can't. That kind of toxic attitude only turns people against you, and then they won't hear Bree's story. What's more important to you?
Lol this comment makes no sense. How is she judgmental just because she follows a plant based diet? When does she claim to be
perfect and how is her daughter ‘proof’ that she isn’t? Stop feeling attacked by others’ lifestyle choices.
@@clareruth3588 did you actually watch this or did you just go "awwww, disabled! 🥺" and click like? Actually I don't care, it's easier to block you.
How is she judgemental I'm just curious
@@allistratadid you actually watch this? Or did you just see "disabled" and with a clouded and biased mind decided to go straight to the comments and be so judgmental?