Therapist Breaks Down Love Is Blind's Brett & Tiffany | Finally Some Green Flags 💚

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июн 2024
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Комментарии • 477

  • @Kikeo1984
    @Kikeo1984 Год назад +1054

    I’ve seen a lot of people say Brett and Tiff had no conflict but I think it’s great that you pointed out that they had many situations that could have created conflict but they navigated them so carefully and beautifully and did not allow them to escalate. A sign of a very mature, healthy and emotionally intelligent couple. I absolutely love them.

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Год назад +39

      Yes, this was done so well! I didn't even realize how many potential issues they sidestepped!

  • @shaxnerd418
    @shaxnerd418 Год назад +738

    The biggest takeaway for me from the suit tailoring incident was how patient and respectful Brett was with the seamstress. The way folks treat service workers says everything about them. He was firm, but polite and understanding. A good egg all round.

    • @Kikeo1984
      @Kikeo1984 Год назад +20

      This!

    • @MC-mh2ju
      @MC-mh2ju 6 месяцев назад +3

      What exactly is the science behind this? Rich people treat service people like garbage all the time, yet everyone respects rich people.

    • @ElusiveTy
      @ElusiveTy 6 месяцев назад +19

      @@MC-mh2ju Poor people also treat service people like shit all the time, what's your point?

    • @deewilson9952
      @deewilson9952 3 месяца назад

      How u treat people that most people feel can't effect their day to day life shows how genuine they are ​@@MC-mh2ju

    • @Lalaphive
      @Lalaphive 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@MC-mh2ju "everyone respects rich people" is nasty work

  • @bryansl0587
    @bryansl0587 Год назад +155

    "The things we're teased for often become our greatest successes." You could save a generation with that line

    • @ilhuicatlamatini
      @ilhuicatlamatini 10 месяцев назад +1

      So true!!! I had a lot of epiphanies

  • @a-moon
    @a-moon Год назад +849

    On a podcast, Marshall said that Tiffany and Brett had a big storyline around her moving to Portland. But we did not see any of that because Brett handled it correctly. I wish Netflix would see that people also want to show up for healthy couple goals...not just the drama!
    Can't wait for your take on this though!!

    • @RoyalRumBull
      @RoyalRumBull Год назад +35

      I have faith they will! ESPECIALLY after all the backlash re: Vanessa and not holding the most toxic cast members accountable while going hard on the decent humans

    • @hellaSwankkyToo
      @hellaSwankkyToo Год назад +33

      DITTO! i would LOVE to see the green flags + healthy relationships, even more than the drama + red flags, TBH.
      iDK if that makes me an anomaly or in the minority but it's good to see i'm not alone in this. 😊

    • @easyveganfoodie
      @easyveganfoodie Год назад +40

      YESS!! It was specifically shown that Kwame didn’t live in Seattle and would need to move, he even made a comment about how he can’t go visit when he was staying with Chelsea during filming. On the other hand we never even knew that Brett lived in Portland also! He was commuting to see Tiffany and never once complained or even mentioned it. Nor did Tiffany make a big deal about moving to Portland for him. Green flags!!

    • @cheyennemckenzie8493
      @cheyennemckenzie8493 Год назад +15

      It's the way that I didn't even realize that they had the same big distance to move as Kwame and Chelsea. It was like that never truly got addressed the way Kwame needed but with Tiffany and Brett it was so smooth. I wish we saw more of the discussion.

    • @hashtagmate
      @hashtagmate 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@RoyalRumBull*narrator voice* they would not, in fact, end up doing that

  • @crystalmonroe2621
    @crystalmonroe2621 Год назад +923

    This Green Flags Video was EVERYTHING and needed so people can understand healthy love really does exist and it’s a beautiful thing when you find the one to experience it with 😍

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Год назад +30

      So glad that you enjoyed it! And congratulations on your marriage!

    • @HHH81
      @HHH81 Год назад +7

      I second this! It’s so great to see what is good!

    • @crystalmonroe2621
      @crystalmonroe2621 Год назад +2

      @@StephAnya aww thank you 😊

  • @jessielove2737
    @jessielove2737 Год назад +268

    I started laughing when you said "There Goes Tiffany sniffing a candle that's not even lit" 😂
    That is me too 🤣

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Год назад +25

      😂😂😂 that part had me cracking me up

  • @easyveganfoodie
    @easyveganfoodie Год назад +77

    I completely agree with Brett’s reaction for his pants not fitting!! I don’t think it’s a small thing at all. It’s his wedding day. If it was a bride whose dress didn’t fit then we wouldn’t be wondering why she was upset. Especially if it’s someone who usually puts effort into her appearance only to not look her best on the biggest day of her life.
    That was my favorite scene with Brett and Tiffany too! What we didn’t see that Brett shared later was that he cheered her up by asking her if he can take pictures of her as a professional photographer, and he printed them out for her later (which we did see). It was his first time seeing his work printed and framed. I really think that added to the scene and the way he handled everything.

  • @ridonculously
    @ridonculously Год назад +289

    When I first saw the scene where he was comforting her, I said to my roommate “every healthy couple planning a wedding hit a point where they want to elope” 😂 I never for a second thought she didn’t want to marry Brett, just that she was ready to run to vegas and say hey y’all we did it already, cancel the wedding

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Год назад +35

      Honestly I thought it was funny how the show kept trying to take the smallest things they said totally out of context to make it look like they were going to break up in the next episode, when after like day two we knew that wasn't going to happen and they were just cherrypicking phrases. :)

    • @LB-no6tu
      @LB-no6tu Год назад

      Love that

    • @annanims7876
      @annanims7876 Год назад +19

      What was so mature and confident is that he also did not take it as she does not want to marry me. With a red flagged couple, the scenario would have gone quite differently.

    • @crystalmonroe2621
      @crystalmonroe2621 Год назад +5

      Omg we definitely hit that point w/ wanting to elope lol … wedding stress is real 🤣

  • @BlackQueenA1825
    @BlackQueenA1825 Год назад +56

    The thing with the proposal clothes is that everyone does their proposals on the last day so everyone gets dressed up. The edits make it look like the couples get engaged on different days but it's all on the same day for every couple

  • @WhuDaFXupTessa
    @WhuDaFXupTessa Год назад +317

    The most beautiful black love. I fell in love with them so quickly.

    • @arunima29
      @arunima29 Год назад +8

      Brett and Tiffany are absolutely beautiful. But there's another black couple that ranks higher than Brett & Tiffany for me, Amani and Woody for MAFS.

    • @hellaSwankkyToo
      @hellaSwankkyToo Год назад +5

      THIS!! 😍🤩 🖤🤎✊🏾🖤 love to see it!

    • @katyclemens
      @katyclemens Год назад +13

      I loved when he specifically mentioned with his friends that her being a Black woman was important to him. :)

    • @Kikeo1984
      @Kikeo1984 Год назад +9

      @@katyclemens yes me too! Was so beautiful to see a handsome, ambitious, thoughtful and intentional black man choose and cherish a gorgeous, ambitious, kind and caring black woman. 🤎

    • @Moi_81
      @Moi_81 10 месяцев назад +4

      Me too. Seeing healthy black couples, especially black men that love black women is important.

  • @deborahstephenson4515
    @deborahstephenson4515 Год назад +328

    It really helps me learn communication skills when you review other people's relationships and you give examples of what could have been said instead. Please do some more like these!!

    • @infringedblue
      @infringedblue Год назад +8

      I absolutely learned how and what it looks like to give validation and put it right into practice. Steph is out here changing lives for the better 🙌🏾

  • @nubia1213
    @nubia1213 Год назад +58

    Wow, to watch and also review how Brett was never, turned off or intimidated by Tiffany’s ambition and persistence, and never felt threatened by her success, because he was so secure in his own, was such a huge validation, and gives me a lot of hope for meeting another partner like that!!

  • @alisonmartin3856
    @alisonmartin3856 Год назад +252

    I think Brett is entitled to the pants that he wants on his wedding day! I love that he was proactive about it instead of just reacting and taking it out on others.
    Thank you so much for this video. It has helped give me some perspective on my new relationship.

    • @janine3664
      @janine3664 Год назад +24

      Agreed! I want a man who cares to look his best on our wedding day. Who wouldn't?

    • @carissafletcher1855
      @carissafletcher1855 Год назад +30

      and even though he may have been stressed about it, he was still very nice and respectful to the tailor!

    • @AriD2385
      @AriD2385 Год назад +21

      @@janine3664 I thought it was a reflection of how much he wanted that day to be perfect and therefore how important marrying Tiffany was to him. I was like, “Oh he really loves this woman.”

  • @RoyalRumBull
    @RoyalRumBull Год назад +208

    Love this.. The culture needs more Brett & Tiffany 💚

  • @bikuuesaka2008
    @bikuuesaka2008 Год назад +197

    Earlier today I was like “wait, Steph hasn’t posted Tiffany and Brett yet? Hope she does soon!” And here we are 😍

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Год назад +25

      Here we are! Thanks for being patient 🫶🏽

    • @bikuuesaka2008
      @bikuuesaka2008 Год назад +2

      Of course! Thank you for your making this content for us!

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Год назад +4

      @@StephAnya Since you're a marriage AND family therapist and you said recently that you'd like new video ideas that aren't exclusively surrounding movies and tv, I would love to see you do complex breakdowns of familial relationships more! Because those are always some of the hardest to tackle during arguments and in fights bc there's soooo much backstory and history to every interaction.
      I know you're a couples therapist as well, so I completely understand that most of your breakdowns have been around that topic, but again, videos surrounding mother-daughter relationships, toxic sibling dynamics, father-son, etc would be SO great and so helpful! Breaking down familial patterns and ways we have of interacting with our family as adults-- which can be rooted in our childhood-- is so hard but so rewarding, so I'd truly love to see you do a series on that!
      I know you don't talk much about your own family (I don't even know if you have siblings, actually! lol) but I think everyone can relate to complex dynamics amongst family members, especially because they are some of our first exposure to relationships and how to communicate properly (or poorly, if the dynamic was unhealthy.) I think there's soooo much to be said about what even constitutes a family (single parent household; adopted family; two person household; absent parent; alcoholic parent; abusive older sibling; coddled "favorite" child; etc.) that you could even make an entire series on the topic of family dynamics! [Even defining different parenting styles and what they mean, etc.]
      So yeah, all this to say I'd love to see videos on different ways of resolving conflicts between parent and child as adults! What are healthy ways to communicate when there is a lot of hurt and trauma on both sides; how to maturely move on from the past whilst still holding our parents accountable as adults? I think the idea of being responsible for our present self and NOT blaming our parents for "how we turned out" is so important, but there are so many instances where it's hard to bite our tongues and where we are just dying to make them understand how they've discarded us in the past... Again, it's often sooooo much more tricky than relationship dynamics, since we don't usually choose our family. But how do we let go of that pain if we still want to maintain a healthy relationship with them?
      I'm also curious as to whether as a LMFT you ever also saw families? I know you've been a couples therapist, but have you also ever met with parent-child, or sibling duos for conflict resolution and communication issues? Or exclusively couples? Sorry if this message is a bit intrusive and too long lol, just super curious bc I think you're such an incredible therapist with such good insight! But I completely understand if you can't/don't want to answer. I know these can be private questions.

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Год назад +1

      @@StephAnya I found that little moment where you analysed Bliss's relationship with her dad and how she interacts with him as an adult and manages difficult (and awkward) conversations with him so incredibly insightful that it just made me think so much about how helpful it would be to see you make a full blown series out of breaking down and analyzing familial conflict and communication issues! (Kind of like how you've done with couples all this time.) Again, I know family dynamics are waaaaaay more complex and heavy and hard to break down bc of the childhood history they're rooted in, but still! Maybe even taking famous tv/film moments and breaking them down like you did in your viral videos could work? Idk! Just an idea. [Ok I'll shut up for real now lol sorry for the essay!! Love you!]

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 Год назад +63

    They finally proved that healthy couples can be entertaining.
    While I don’t watch the show, I love the commentaries on it.
    Based on this one, I like how this love at first sight done right or insta love.
    What makes this work is their values, their beliefs, and ideals are put on the table right away. The possible deal breakers are laid out front and I can see how this leads to feeling love for the other person in a short period of time.
    My favorite part of this video is communication. Simple communication is not that difficult.
    If these two were a romantic comedy novel, I would not put it down.
    This video made me love them.

  • @Libusheful
    @Libusheful Год назад +66

    I was afraid Brett could be the SK of this season: the guy who knows how to say exactly the right things in the right moments only to let you fall from the highest point. But this couple where really knowing and loving each other with each conversation 🥺💜

  • @ZarinaRae
    @ZarinaRae Год назад +71

    I didn’t think the pants thing was that big of a deal. I could tell that Brett was a very meticulous and detail oriented person. He wanted to look nice. I was truly obsessed with Brett and Tiffany throughout the entire process! They always were so supportive of one another. Their communication was amazing, and I loved how open they both were! 😊

  • @elizabethchavez1345
    @elizabethchavez1345 Год назад +32

    Brett's pants not a red flag. I got married last year and there's so many fittings before wedding day. I started like 4 months before wedding with first fitting. Then I had 2 more fitting after that. My husband went in a month before day of wedding. Guys and girl do fittings differently so that's what I thought. I've also been hearing podcast Out of The Pods and the talk about how producers do things to stir things up. This is probable intentional to get something 'drama' out of this very beautiful love story. As always thanks for your dissection , I love your input, specially therapy terms.

  • @paintitblack9712
    @paintitblack9712 Год назад +86

    I LOOOVVVED Tiffany's friends. She is so sweet, her and Brett are so emotionally mature. Love to see it!💚

  • @sacileftwich5857
    @sacileftwich5857 Год назад +55

    This video was exactly what I needed. I’m going through a breakup and I was questioning my decision, but this just reassured me that being respected and emotionally supported is not an irrational expectation. They are my favorite couple for sure🥰

  • @ridonculously
    @ridonculously Год назад +14

    I thought Brett had spent so much time being a strong rock for Tiffany that he hadn’t processed his own nerves and anxiety. He didn’t have as much control over the wedding planning as he might have liked given the process by which he met his wife and I think when the one thing he was able to choose, his tuxedo, didn’t fit correctly all of the stress caught up with him and overflowed

    • @terickastidbits2342
      @terickastidbits2342 Год назад +3

      I agree. Plus it’s been clear that his appearance is important to him and they played in his face

  • @YoKinah
    @YoKinah Год назад +75

    At the 25:02 mark, oh my goodness. Me and my partner just ran into this issue. He was teasing me about some things and it became like a long convo and eventually an argument. I needed to hear what you said just then. It confirmed what he had already said to reassure me: “i love you. And I’m serious about us. I wouldn’t be making long term plans with you if i wasn’t. My intention is never to hurt you. We’re on the same team”. He says that last part a lot 🥹i love himmmm

    • @TellitTay
      @TellitTay Год назад +1

      Omgg 🥹🙏🏾❤️❤️

    • @SmellMyKnee15
      @SmellMyKnee15 3 месяца назад +2

      Love that for you sis

  • @MarissaontheMAP
    @MarissaontheMAP Год назад +22

    They are ABSOLUTELY my fav couple of all time from LIB!!! It is so so refreshing to see a Black love story that is healthy and showcases how to go about relationship the right way. Im rooting for them!!!

  • @daniborn2bwild8
    @daniborn2bwild8 11 месяцев назад +11

    They were the ones that made me go, that's what I want. So now I'm working on myself even more so I can have this type of relationship.

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  10 месяцев назад

      Love that for you ♥️

  • @artxlife7236
    @artxlife7236 Год назад +30

    I am right there with you - I want to see more older candidates on the show and more of these healthy relationships so people can see real people in real healthy relationships and how they navigate those. The show has to have some drama which is fine, but I’m here for the wholesome side that we see in these mature, happy couples ❤

  • @angiemalone8262
    @angiemalone8262 Год назад +100

    This is the third time your breakdowns has helped me understand some confusion and frustration I have with my family relationships. Thank you thank you for your videos!

    • @frecklesandwine
      @frecklesandwine Год назад +10

      Since Stephanie is a marriage AND family therapist, I would love to see her do complex breakdowns of familial relationships more! Because those are always some of the hardest to tackle during arguments and in fights bc there's soooo much backstory and history to every interaction. I know she's been a couples therapist as well, so I completely understand that most of her breakdowns have been around them, but again, videos surrounding mother-daughter relationships, toxic sibling dynamics, father-son, etc would be SO great and so helpful! Breaking down familial patterns and ways we have of interacting with our family as adults-- which can be rooted in our childhood-- is so hard but so rewarding, so I'd truly love to see her do a series on that!

  • @kelly2860
    @kelly2860 Год назад +23

    Brett and Tiffany were such a welcome relief every time they came on screen this season! They seem like really lovely people and a great couple

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini 10 месяцев назад +8

    24:35 oof yes! Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt when you know “your partner loves you, wants the best for you, and wants a future with you”…this is a really good reminder lesson for me right now, as I am in the beginning stages of a relationship and this month have realized I was over depending on my previous bad experiences/relationships leading to bias that negatively affects this new one. But this is a good reminder to help me reset and feel ok about letting go of the defenses enough to let someone new and good in.

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  10 месяцев назад +2

      So glad that part resonated with you!

    • @juul6633
      @juul6633 2 месяца назад +1

      I needed this lesson too, I feel you!

  • @astrameli
    @astrameli 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for this video. I remember crying on how beautiful the story is between those two. Green flags and healthy relationship examples are sooooo important. Tiffany and Brett are the greatest that has been this show and any other dating shows. It’s so refreshing to see them ❤

    • @juul6633
      @juul6633 2 месяца назад

      I cried watching too, it was beautiful to see!

  • @siliziwex44
    @siliziwex44 Год назад +12

    Netflix messed up they should have just put Brett and Tiff on our screen from the fist second to the last. Show us how to build and have healthy relationships - beautiful mahn

  • @Meibel11
    @Meibel11 Год назад +103

    I can’t wait to see all different types of content from you BUT can we please get a season 1 LIB breakdown in there as well! Or at least Lauren and Cameron ❤ Love your videos

    • @aBieBi1
      @aBieBi1 Год назад +3

      Would love that!

    • @TellitTay
      @TellitTay Год назад +5

      Yesss I too vote for another healthy couple review 💕

    • @doctorofletters8412
      @doctorofletters8412 Год назад +2

      Me too!! That’s the only season I fully watched . @ Stephanya pretty please

    • @Cornflower20
      @Cornflower20 Год назад +8

      I would love to see a Lauren and Cameron video!

    • @nanzyalnizlikg4360
      @nanzyalnizlikg4360 9 месяцев назад

      Lauren and cameron !!! yess please ❤❤

  • @_inmyhead
    @_inmyhead Год назад +5

    The way I perceived the pants situation is that he is a go getter, he doesn't sit and feel like the victim and feel helpless, he act. He solves the problem. I like that and I think that is a very reassuring quality to have in a partner.

  • @iamabutterflychaser
    @iamabutterflychaser Год назад +10

    Although they may not have been the most "exciting" couple to watch if you love the drama, Brett and Tiff really made this whole season of LIB for me. I absolutely loved them!

  • @lupe1808
    @lupe1808 Год назад +37

    I love Brett and Tiffany. I’d like to see you review season one of love is blind. Also maybe you could do a video on how to move on after the death of a significant other in a healthy way .

  • @biancablanchard5098
    @biancablanchard5098 Год назад +38

    Steph! Love your relationship breakdowns! Please do “The Ultimatum-Queer Love” next! I would love to hear your thoughts about the lesbian couples on that show. It was fascinating to watch both partners in a couple being so expressive about their emotions and verbalizing their feelings! That show was excellent!

  • @janethplazola7095
    @janethplazola7095 Год назад +26

    I was just discussing in my last therapy session how hard is it to find role models for healthy relationships and this video is exactly what I needed. Thanks ❤

  • @Meeshee57
    @Meeshee57 Год назад +7

    I think Brett was concerned about putting his best foot forward for Tiffany and their wedding. That’s why he was so adamant about getting his pants tailored.

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 Год назад +8

    I didn't feel Brett's upset regarding his slacks was a red flag. He is definitely particular about his clothes and fit and that is Ok. His brother's presentation is quite different and that is ok as well. We all have "that thing" that we are a little extra about. And Tiffany recognizes that he is a little BOO-ZHEE and teases him about it. Great Review!

  • @AriD2385
    @AriD2385 Год назад +15

    Really appreciated this! I totally get you thinking Tiffany seemed to good to be true. I had similar thoughts about both of them and their relationship. But it just goes to show that we’re fed so much drama, that the healthy, happy and unproblematic people often go unnoticed. Thanks for putting the spotlight on something positive!

  • @malvavisco10
    @malvavisco10 Год назад +16

    I was so glad they got past that simple misunderstanding of her falling asleep. I could tell she’s a heavy sleeper bc I am so the opposite, I’d wake up instantly if someone were trying to get my attention. They communicated about this so well, and it was a thing of the past.

  • @tashinaakinrinade8528
    @tashinaakinrinade8528 Год назад +43

    Thank you for this! This couple was a breath of fresh air. And your assessments are always so insightful. Could we have more videos like this? With healthy relationships and ways to maintain despite various challenges (distance, children, different levels of wealth, sickness, etc).

  • @MsLeoLady813
    @MsLeoLady813 9 месяцев назад +10

    You can tell they are mature and are building a strong foundation because they are both solution focused. They don’t deny challenges but instead think about potential solutions.

  • @glowingmyway
    @glowingmyway Год назад +22

    I resonated with the part about it being too good to be true. I was thinking this relationship was too perfect, they fit so well. But I’m so happy for them❤️‍🔥

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Год назад +15

    I smiled throughout this entire video. It was such a blessing to see Dr. Steph be able to enjoy a couple from one of these shows instead of having to point out all the red flags and issues so she could teach us how to have healthier and stronger relationships. She got to point out all the RIGHT things to do because it was demonstrated by Brett & Tiffany. And the glow in Dr. Steph's eyes as she did was beautiful to see!!! 🤗🥰🤗🤗

    • @claumok84
      @claumok84 Год назад

      Right!? I was smiling the whole time as well. Dr. Steph is a gem 💎

  • @galeitselo
    @galeitselo Год назад +21

    Now this is one episode I have looking forward to the most...Even though it premiers 1a.m my time, I an here for it 😊😊😊

  • @876tisha
    @876tisha 2 месяца назад +2

    When two securely attached people find each other ❤❤😊😊😊

  • @jessicastacy7529
    @jessicastacy7529 Год назад +7

    They really are wonderful role models. Couple goals!

  • @annanims7876
    @annanims7876 Год назад +10

    Steph! Please keep the nerd knowledge coming, I love the way you explain concepts. The detail, examples and references are Great! You are both entertaining and educational and seem wise beyond your years.

  • @kayunknown4269
    @kayunknown4269 Год назад +22

    You can do what you do with Love is blind but with series like Queen charlotte and the bridgerton, I would definitively watch !!

    • @cheyj
      @cheyj Год назад +1

      Yessss, we need a breakdown of the Queen Charlotte and King George dynamic!

  • @aBieBi1
    @aBieBi1 Год назад +14

    This just warms my heart 💚✨We can learn so much from green flags. It’s so easy to get caught up in red flags and honestly the drama of shows like this, but watching this video is so beautiful and a breath of fresh air💚 Love this video and couple!

  • @bruh666
    @bruh666 Год назад +3

    I'm crying during like half of this video because they are so sweet and inspiring to me

  • @anadoripanther3196
    @anadoripanther3196 Год назад +18

    This is my absolute favorite analysis so far! It is so nice to see and examine a beautiful, healthy relationship! I look forward to every one of these videos 💗 I don't watch the show, and don't want to. I love how you break it down and tell the couples' story. I feel like we are good friends discussing your other friends' drama lol. Thank you Steph for your thoughts and genuine care for people 💗🌸

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  Год назад +5

      Aw I love that!! Thanks for watching, friend ♥️

  • @neliamagumula2911
    @neliamagumula2911 10 месяцев назад +3

    OMG! These 2. I have no words. I love their love. They are so perfect for each other. I am rooting for their love to last forever. Wow! It was a joy watching them. Brett, you are amazing period. Tiff, so nurturing for sure. I am still in awe! My favourite couple ever! Both their dad's said they wil make it and they will. I am 49 but iyoh, I learnt so much about pure love from these 2. Thank you Brett and Tiff. May God bless your union.

  • @laurathepoet
    @laurathepoet Год назад +6

    I learned a lot here and noticed some of my own patterns. Appreciate your take and experience with how couples misinterpret things. It's hard to not take things personally sometimes because my mind moves so fast, but my partner and I are working on assuming best intent with each other. Assume he is coming to me with love and care and honesty. These two do that, their relationship was my fave since season one.

  • @janeenerbaneener
    @janeenerbaneener Год назад +4

    100% everything you said! They are my favorite couple EVER; a shining example of a healthy relationship.

  • @paintitblack9712
    @paintitblack9712 Год назад +3

    The review we needed, thanks for doing these two💚

  • @UrBigSisKey
    @UrBigSisKey Год назад +5

    Lately I have been seeing someone, a small conflict came up and he just started avoiding me. It’s complicated, but this video shows how couples can effectively rebound from that in the RIGHT WAY. ❤ love it thanks for sharing

  • @jordanmarshall6628
    @jordanmarshall6628 Год назад +6

    I've loved watching this series. Psychology is a passion of mine, and even though counseling isn't typically the field I'm most drawn to studying (I'm a huge fan of going to therapy), being able to analyze relationships with specific models so clearly is invaluable. Please continue this series with other shows, I need more of this content!!

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold Год назад +1

    Thank you for breaking this down. Great video. We often see what’s wrong with relationships but it’s nice to hear & see.

  • @megl6585
    @megl6585 Год назад +5

    I absolutely love your breakdowns from LIB and this is a favourite looking back on Tiffany and Brett's journey on the show. Seeing their communication and how they really held space for each other was so refreshing and beautiful - got me taking notes for my own communication work hahah. Absolutely rooting for them forever

  • @tsuiters
    @tsuiters Год назад +2

    I love, love your channel, I look forward to all of your breakdowns. So many people are doing reviews and breakdowns but yours is by the far the best, the smartest. You speak so well I listen to every word. Netflix needs to hire you to host Love is Blind

  • @bruh666
    @bruh666 Год назад +1

    I love to see you geeking out in this video from a therapist perspective on how good they communicate, this is actually one of your most helpful videos so far imo because it's so nice to see a good example in real life of people making things work

  • @gnomie5191
    @gnomie5191 Год назад +9

    Just wanna say I love your channel!! Your voice is soothing and your relationship break downs are spot on. I’m game to watch anything you make but a movie relationship I’d love covered is eternal sunshine of the spotless mind!

  • @emerson1998
    @emerson1998 Год назад +9

    I LOVED seeing this. It makes me tear up when I see examples of truly healthy relationships and conflict. I think a lot of us relate to not having those examples growing up.
    I would love to see some content on how not to over-intellectualise our emotions, and how to just sit and feel them in the moment. You mentioned in the video how we have a tendency to want to move past or 'fix' our emotions in the moment, rather than just allowing ourselves to FEEL. Thanks for all your hard work!

    • @TellitTay
      @TellitTay Год назад +1

      Yes great idea ❤❤

    • @macymiller3417
      @macymiller3417 Год назад +1

      Yes! Holding space for emotions is soooo important. I’m so glad shes touching on this.

  • @egcarswell
    @egcarswell Год назад +2

    Love this video!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Definitely one of my favorites, your takes on their relationship and healthy communication were so insightful! Much appreciated, gained a fan for sure 🙌🏾

  • @deanie3
    @deanie3 Год назад +3

    This video was everythingggg😮‍💨👏🏽 being able to visually see greens flags & healthy ways to communicate definitely helped me map out my emotional responses and what I can work on to do better💕

  • @msmonti011
    @msmonti011 Год назад +4

    This was such a great review and breakdown of the couple. Listening to this made me reflect on my own relationship history and communication style

  • @ThrilloftheChayce
    @ThrilloftheChayce Год назад +7

    I LOVE your videos and have been watching them faithfully for the past few months. I would really appreciate additional videos about behavioral addictions (food, sex, love, etc) and adult ADHD, respectively. Can’t wait to see what you come out with next!

  • @samdube6337
    @samdube6337 Год назад +4

    This was such a helpful video, especially helped me was the point about not letting small disagreements determine the relationship

  • @ameliahansen6285
    @ameliahansen6285 Год назад +1

    I love videos reacting to situations since it helps me learn so much more about how to handle my situations. It's different when you're just listening to someone talk about how to go about certain feelings versus seeing an example and having it explained if that makes sense. Anyways I love your content so much, thanks!

  • @Musemachina
    @Musemachina Год назад +5

    What a beautiful couple! They seemed genuine and kind, inside and out.
    Thanks for sharing your insight on both healthy and toxic relationship dynamics! Love hearing your insight on navigating conflict and showing support for others. Thank you for all you do. 😊

  • @claumok84
    @claumok84 Год назад +2

    Omg I just love this couple so much and you, Steph, are extremely wise and intelligent. I’m glad I found someone I respect and learn from.

  • @redtulips23
    @redtulips23 Год назад +2

    It was beautiful watching Brett and Tiffany's love story on the show. Your videos are awesome because there's always an explanation and lesson that comes along with your review of the couples. As someone who has benefited from therapy and is intrigued by human behavior - your videos are both fun and informative. Brett and Tiffany's story is refreshing because it's not often we see healthy relationships develop on reality tv.

  • @amaprime7225
    @amaprime7225 Год назад +4

    About them always being dressed up for the proposal - apparently all proposals happen on the same day. So they know what the last day is and to dress up. Lauren and Cameron said even theirs occurred on Day 10 like everyone else but the show just cut it to make it look like he proposed immediately.

  • @englishwithtara8346
    @englishwithtara8346 Год назад +5

    After seeing soooo many therapist videos based on LIB or ultimatum. Your videos are still my favourite! The videos are well-made and you are so articulate, easy to listen to. Just wanna show some support here! Keep up the good work!!

  • @moxiemood
    @moxiemood Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this!! It's very helpful.

  • @asiahjiron2100
    @asiahjiron2100 Год назад

    I love them so much!!! I really like your breakdown on relationships and communication,very insightful!

  • @meITSme-ur9hm
    @meITSme-ur9hm Год назад +1

    i liked this break down. You offered great points, it gave me insight into some of the healthy dynamics they had, good points

  • @flowersforreal2026
    @flowersforreal2026 10 месяцев назад +1

    I've watched all of your love is blind videos, and I'm so glad I watched this one last. They're so wholesome and mature. I could literally cry. You did great coverage on all of the couples!

    • @StephAnya
      @StephAnya  10 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you for sticking with me through all of them!

  • @elenakalliste
    @elenakalliste Год назад +3

    I loved these two so much. They seemed so connected to each other and so committed. It was honestly very funny to even include Brett freaking out about his pants, because I think that was Netflix trying to manufacture a little bit of drama with this couple. And a man being particular about their appearance is a good thing as long as they are not hypercritical of others, which doesn’t seem to be a Brett problem. I think Tiffany also texted Brett about Jackie’s absence because she wanted Marshall to know and knew Brett could break it to him respectfully

  • @charronsmith1795
    @charronsmith1795 Год назад +1

    I’ve been waiting for this one!! I figured you were saving the best for last… about to listen while I go on my walk…

  • @theyLoveyaya21
    @theyLoveyaya21 Год назад

    i’m a big visual learner and this videos analyzing tv and movie couples are really really help as example what to do or not to do especially when Steph explains it further so i would LOOOOVE more videos like this if possible

  • @lina-5640
    @lina-5640 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this suuper insightful video. Needed this lovely energy!! ♡

  • @rekiatsalami1792
    @rekiatsalami1792 Год назад

    Ive been looking forward to this.. learnt so much. Thank you

  • @JakeTahoeMusic
    @JakeTahoeMusic Год назад +4

    My wife and I were hoping you'd make a video about this couple! Your videos always make for such great discussions ❤

  • @mmem4264
    @mmem4264 Год назад

    I really appreciate this video. It's really helpful to have an example of green flags, not just red ones.

  • @pamelaguillaume8341
    @pamelaguillaume8341 Год назад +1

    definitely a beautiful couples..I enjoy watching them..I love how the communication and transparency and the support was on point on both sides..

  • @ShyiaRobinson
    @ShyiaRobinson Год назад +5

    I believe Brett is a Scorpio and as a Scorpio myself, when we fall in love, it’s usually fast and hard. We know what we want and that’s why he was so sure! It’s so hard to find exactly what we’re looking for but when we do find, we gone let you know!! 😆

  • @stephanieruiz1223
    @stephanieruiz1223 Год назад

    This was so educational! Do more!!

  • @mzy9173
    @mzy9173 Год назад +3

    Ive only really seen bad examples of relationships in real life and in the media so this is really everything 💕

  • @stephh1228
    @stephh1228 Год назад +4

    They are legit THE couple. I can’t count how many times I said “why are they so perfect?!” every time they were on the screen 😂

  • @kira22421
    @kira22421 9 месяцев назад +2

    This was an AMAZING video I love this break down of a healthy relationship! This analysis literally made me tear up to see this amazing communication, this was absolutely beautiful. Please do more analysis of HEALTHY relationships and communication tips. I loved this video. 💖☺️

  • @bonniem5963
    @bonniem5963 Год назад

    I love hearing your perspective on these things. You've definitely given me a perspective on Brett's groomzilla moment I hadn't at all considered

  • @gloriajohnson5265
    @gloriajohnson5265 3 месяца назад +1

    I love these two. I love your take on them! I like that he was able to get the tux corrected.

  • @hkvillamin
    @hkvillamin Год назад +2

    been waiting for this!!!

  • @L_M13
    @L_M13 Год назад

    Love this!!!😍♥️ please more of this kind of Videos 🙌🏻

  • @wandahill1619
    @wandahill1619 8 месяцев назад

    I found your chanel after a video showed up regarding LIB season 5 and I am so happy it did. I love, love, love the Browns and I for one think having your partner, soul mate and best friend be the same person is 100 percent the best feeling in the world.

  • @karinaborzecka433
    @karinaborzecka433 Год назад

    This is such a great video!

  • @sintara8442
    @sintara8442 Год назад

    Great couple, thanks for the video ❤