"feels like something's wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it." is a really hard hitting line for someone with autism. more often than not allistic people (people without autism) can identify autism nearly immediately, whether theyre aware of it or not. its also common for allistic people to get an uncanny valley affect from autistics.
@@NPGeshmow yes!! i originally saw it on a [i know, but hear me out] edit of donnie from rise [who i obviously love] and i was like "hm, i very much relate to this and this song very much relates to him, and i recognize those voices, i wonder who sang it." and it's a bobs burgers song
Not only that, many neurodivergent people have that struggle. Neurotypical people usually feel less inclined to interact with neurodivergents. They can often tell as you mentioned even if you're masking. Certainly as someone with adhd, I've experienced similar outcasting.
“Feels like something’s wrong with me and they know it. They took one look my way and they exposed it.” As someone who was bullied for everything I did and wore, that hit different.
I was bullied for everything I did and who I was but as Tina is saying I'm just ready to say they're right and I did give up at one point I stopped talking after a while but I got therapy and I'm ok now.
It was a really, really clever way to tie the 2 plots together and have a neat connection between Tina and Bob. Without even really having either plot interact much at all, they managed to connect them together in a beautiful and artistic way
As an autistic person who was diagnosed later in life this hit beyond hard. That feeling that everyone looks at you and sees something strange and uncanny without you yourself knowing what that thing is. The nagging feeling of everyones eyes clocking you as soon as they see you and they don't realize what they know but they know something is bad about you. The bullying for everything even normal things. The feeling that everyone on earth is in on a joke and your the one it's about. And if course the eventual realization that what they see, the big difference they all notice but no one cares enough to explain is not just them it is a part of you and it will always be there. That feeling is so strong and scary and explosive. God I love this show.
@@stickyfrog1122 depends what services/laws exist where you live. I’d guess most places would require parental consent if you’re under 14-18 yrs. You can try speaking to a student counsellor. They won’t be able to diagnose you, but they may help you understand what your options are. FYI just be warned diagnoses cost a lot of money…
Completely! I was recently diagnosed when i first watched this episode and i wept, at my comfort show. Completely decimated by the resonance of it all ❤
Okay, you people are actually making things a lot worse by spreading this idea that getting diagnosed and “treated” as a child would have been good for you or anyone else. You’re basically spreading misinformation that functions as propaganda for systemic ab-se. I was diagnosed when I was in 4th grade and it did nothing to improve my life whatsoever. In fact it made everything harder and more exhausting. I wish now I had just gone to school and had a normal experience instead of dealing with the years of being pulled out of the classes I enjoyed(because only those you're good at are the ones they pull you out of for counseling) to fill out ridiculous worksheets about what obvious drawings of mad/happy faces mean what, that did nothing for me, or for the higher support needs kids who had it worse than me. And to get absolutely useless and even detrimental social advice from people who honestly universally seemed to not know what they were doing. And it got the kids who ignorantly listened to them bullied worse. From elementary up til the very last year of high school it was the same story for me and every other diagnosed kid I met. Which was a lot, my parents ignored everything I said and sent me to loads of useless places even during the summer to "fix" me as much as possible. (Before you dismiss them as bad eggs, every single counselor, therapist, and place they sent me to did say that autistic people can't and don't have to be "fixed," but that didn't change anything about how worryingly incompetent and detrimental their practices were.) In-school and out, reputable people and places would teach that it was good to force autistic people to waste their energy performing social skills (and often a ridiculous exaggeration of social skills, with canned scripts and an unspoken demand I go along with whatever exact kinds of responses that professional was looking for, which took even more energy than normal social interactions for me) and pretended people actually acted that way in real life. And they would take away accommodations as punishment if a kid voiced their exhaustion or concerns, no matter how kindly or politely, and many were too exhausted to act politely enough anyway. And knowing I was autistic and how autistic people act only meant they would target and punish autistic behaviors. My parents were often advised to grab my hands and force them down if I flapped them to stim, and to stop me from reading about or getting too interested in any one topic too much to keep it from becoming a special interest, unless it was obviously something that looked like it could be money making. I got pulled out of classes for this BS. I missed out on years of my favorite subject, English, and there's actually a lot about the subject I don't know now and I can't pursue the job I want because of it. All it did was exhaust me. And pulling me out of classes to force me to perform social skills was legitimately the reason I was too exhausted to finish as much homework as I could have otherwise, and eventually forced me to be held back a year. The only good thing I got out of being diagnosed was being allowed an IEP that would allow me to have less homework. But it wasn't enough to make up for the exhaustion of being pulled out of class every year of school to waste energy on this ridiculous protocol school professionals (and even outside professionals) are apparently taught. I might have struggled anyway, but I know for a fact that going without a diagnosis would have made things easier. I would easily give up an IEP if it would prevent the damage they did. And I'm young. This was recent. I live in a rich place in California and I'm only 22. It is a systemic issue. You people were not missing out. Getting diagnosed young does not mean people would have been more accepting or your life would be easier. It throws you into a system that will actively work to your detriment. Saying otherwise only makes it even more unlikely anything about it will ever change. I know you'll never believe me, but surprisingly, what professionals have been (and still are) taught to do to us can actually be wrong, and cause more harm than good, in this society.
I like how Tina issue is a real emotional issue which shows how ppl are affected by critical bullying and how she feels weird and rejected by society. Then Bob who issue looks mundane and silly but actually shows Bob is incredibly insecure about himself and can't handle the smallest of criticisms. Then Louise and gene who's issue is just Them not getting what they want
I think very base line it’s a great example of how 30 seconds of joking or making fun of someone can cause days of them thinking about it and hating themselves. And no matter how much you might apologize in the future, those cracks are still there.
Tina is becoming an individual. Coming to realize she does not have to go along with the group or give a damn what people think about things like her t-shirt or cult movies.
The windows getting cracked as she's singing about "them seeing her cracks" is a bit above what this show normally does, and that's not a dig at the show. More that there was a genuine maturity in this episodes story telling, being as much or more visual than verbal. Entire parts were silent, being told through what was shown. If they nail this second part, these night end up the best 2 episodes of the show. It's clear they are prepping us for the movie as well as showing off their improved talents at cinematic moments
I don't think it's supposed to be a funny joke, I just think it was a metaphor for, after the insult incident happening, her entire personality was cracked like a window. Also, I think it's pretty dark for bobs burgers to have a character stare down a window being shot at.
fun side note. I worked on the show and the writers had a back and forth about how they wanted the window cracks to look. Bulletproof glass doesn't shatter this way but they wanted to show Tina's face being split into different facets so we cheated it this way :)
@@idkbrah473I think a big part is also how she’s talking about her “inside person” and it’s literally and figuratively showing how the “normal” facade she has to put up was cracking, or maybe that because she’s thinking of giving up being authentic to herself, it’s her inner self cracking because she’s trying to push it down completely now.
Lyrics Tina: What if they're right? What if I'm weird and better off wiped? Front to back All my cracks What if they're right? What if the me that lives inside Is something I should try to hide? Jimmy Jr: What if they're right? What if my vest is odd? Zeke: Okay if I still eat a burger if I'm a bot. I'm hungry. Tina: Is it so bad to steer off course? And wear a shirt with a really cool horse? Bob: How do they know what I feel in my soul that I might just be poop or crap? Linda: Honey, I worry you're gettin' a little too focused on bathroom feedback? Louise: I thought that we could have it all Gene: We're never gonna taste those balls Bob & Tina: Feels like something's wrong with me and they know it They took one look my way and exposed it Tina: I'm ready to give up the fight And just admit that they are right.
Tina wonders if she needs to fix herself, “fill in the cracks” while facing a cracked window. But the cracks are coming from the gunfire on the outside. A lot of anxiety that comes with autism is caused by others making you feel inadequate because you’re different. You don’t know how but you want to fix the cracks, but you’re not the one making the cracks to begin with.
Honestly as someone with ADHD the “it feels like somethings wrong with me and they know it” part cuts deep like it’s exactly how it feels when people are staring at you and whispering and stuff
I’ve been a fan of the show since it started…I watch it frequently just to have in on the background if I’m feeling depressed, anxious, or stressed out. I was getting a little worried when they came out with this new season that they may be losing their spark (even though season 12 already had some great episodes in them) BUT this episode and the following made my jaw drop. When this song came on I was in disbelief how entertained I was and how beautiful the lyrics and melody was. I’m not usually very into the songs, although many of them have been catchy, but damn this song slapped! Everyone involved in the process of creating this show is so talented - I am truly thankful for this show because it got me through some pretty dark times and still hits to this day.
Bob's is 100% my comfort show. Honestly, it's brought me out of a dark spot more times than i can count. Feels like i owe the creators and actors a huge thank you 💜💜
This song was so genuinely sad and emotional that it brought me to tears the first time I heard it. It was speaking directly about my own experiences as a "weird kid" and it made me just want to comfort anyone who feels like they're "wrong" for doing or liking things that are completely okay.
Keep in mind, no one ever became successful by going along with a group. Louise knows that. How ever is uncertain about not being accepted socially. Pixie princess promenade episode. Tina tries to be accepted socially a little too hard. And she's coming to realize it all right to do your own thing. Don't feel too bad for the Belcher kids. I think they are going to do well.
I’ve never been a fan of series were they make characters break into a song outta nowhere. But Bobs burgers amazing writing and charm makes it work, I’ve been listening to the Spotify albums nonstop.
I absolutely adore Tina, easily my favourite character, and this episode hit me hard. Her constant struggle through the show to make friends is often overlooked in turn for Bob and Louise (I love them too, don’t get me wrong!) so I was so glad we finally get a whole episode about her Edit: I can’t get enough of this episode, it’s just great. The whole episode had me leaning forward a bit and paying full attention, unlike some episodes I can only bare to have on in the background. This song alone is just
I heard this song before I was diagnosed autistic at 26 years old. I was like Tina - awkward, unsure of social rules (still am), and I was the weird horse girl. I was overwhelmed and so sure something was "wrong" with me. Bullied relentlessly to the point that I had a panic attack after one of the bullies got a job at my company. After being diagnosed, the song hits twice as hard. They weren't right. I'm not better off wiped. I made it to 26 and I feel like I can make it farther.
The entire belcher family, even gale, are all neurodivergent in their own special way. I would die to have linda as a mom, I see myself in lueise and gene... I love them so much. They make me feel like the way that I think is normal, and that its okay to be myself
When the window started cracking in front of Tina, my heart dropped :( This song made me feel so emotional and made me want to give Tina a hug. I love Tina and I hope she is able to realize that she is unique and different in a good way. 💛 I can't wait for the next episode!!
I love how universal this is, we don’t always realize that everybody feels like an outsider, this episode was amazing, and the real emotional payoff was the reveal that Tammy was only judging people because she was afraid of being judged, followed by the dance montage of robots experiencing being a unique and emotional individual.
I love this episode. I can’t believe the movie is just around the corner! Can’t wait. Hoping to see some less-common appearing characters like Mickey in it.
this song was the exact wording to how growing up with undiagnosed autism was. the school system was god awful when you couldnt get any accomadations. when i finally got diagnosed, i told some people i knew. they looked at me and one of them said, "you got diagnosed?" as in, she thought i already had been. it was a complete shock to me. everyone but me knew, and all those years of teasing, bullying, social isolation, and depression made sense :(
From the moment I heard this song I got emotional. As an autistic person its simply impossible to NOT think these two episodes were about that, I really think the writers considered it at least when writing this song. I'm so happy to see others feel exactly how I do about this song. This song just touches my heart, I feel it deep in my soul, god its so perfect. Been 2 years and I still listen to it all the time and get emotional 😭😭
Tina is just so incredibly relatable. Just wants Jimmy Jr to notice her, is always trying hard to be herself, and tries to fit in with her more outgoing siblings.
I never realized just how much this song meant to me until I really totally no longer felt imperfect all the time. It's like the world is alwayse rushing you to become something that's impossible to judge, while dropping obstacles to get in the way of you figuring it out. This song perfectly captures that feeling like we'll never be good enough and how noone really ever feels like they're on the same page as us.
I’m getting tested for Autism tomorrow, everyone in my life has told me at least once that they think I’m some sort of neurodivergent. When I was younger (and still now) I loved/love bobs burgers, this song has played such a big part in the journey of talking to my school guidance consular about it to now getting assessed for ASD. To all the neurodivergent people, just know you are cared for, you matter, your disability matters even if you can’t always see it❤️ Update: I am going into the next phase of testing aka just getting the official diagnosis❤️
I always felt like an outcast as a kid and was bullied for it quite a bit. it's why Tina's the most relatable to me and why I love her sm. this song has me tearing up every time
"Feels like something's wrong with me, and they know it." Trying not to cry in class while the teacher is shouting at me in front of everyone, who are snickering, for not talking when I've gone non-verbal. I couldn't explain. I couldn't walk away. I couldn't hold in my tears. It genuinely felt like something was wrong with me. I still feel that way sometimes. Why do I have to be autistic..? I think about how I can fix it- I want to but it's literally impossible. There is only so much masking I can do to make it go away.
Hey, I’m also autistic, and if there’s one thing that I’ve learned from having so many great autistic friends and one incredibly kind autistic sister, autistic people (a lot, not all) are some of the nicest people that you’ll ever meet, there’s nothing wrong with you for having autism, it’s just a different way of thinking, the people that make you feel that way are just ignorant and refuse to accept people that are different ❤
Bobs burgers has been a show I’ve been viewing for YEARS. But this was truly an incredible piece performed in a comedic series. Especially since the singers aren’t even super talented, but the meaning actually made me emotional, especially since a lot of teenagers like me, find themselves extremely self conscious over something. Tina was always an extremely relatable character, who was just trying to be themselves, and fit in at the same time. This was truly a pleasant surprise in season 12. And i’m sure I’m not the only one who found themselves getting a bit teary eyed over this musical number.
Lyrics: Tina: What if they're right? What if I'm weird and better off wiped? Front to back All my cracks What if they're right? What if the me that lives inside Is something I should try to hide? Jimmy Jr: What if they're right? What if my vest is odd? Zeke: Okay if I still eat a burger if I'm a bot. I'm hungry. Tina: Is it so bad to steer off course? And wear a shirt with a really cool horse? Bob: How do they know what I feel in my soul that I might just be poop or crap? Linda: Honey, I worry you're gettin' a little too focused on bathroom feedback? Louise: I thought that we could have it all Gene: We're never gonna taste those balls Bob & Tina: Feels like something's wrong with me and they know it They took one look my way and exposed it Tina: I'm ready to give up the fight And just admit that they are right.
When my family have left the house, I put this song on, on repeat, and sob non stop, and I cant tell anyone how I feel, because I don't know how I feel. I am so disappointed in how I turned out. I don't feel normal and I really wish I could disappear with every passing day. Nothing is going to fix me and I have to live this way for the rest of my life because I'll never do anything to end it.... I feel I am just floating in limbo until I am old and gone.
just saw the episode, had to look this up. its crazy how the show can be so fun and funny and silly then have moments like this that hit too close to home
Haha :D funny burger show song about wiping ur ass , "Feels like something wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it. I'm ready to give up the fight, and just admit they're right." :( hit too close to home this time you guys -also a tina kinnie
"feels like somethings wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it" hits dangerously close to home. im autistic, and was only diagnosed in early october of 2022. after 8 solid years of being bullied for (includes but is not limited to); liking the ninja turtles, liking sonic, liking pokemon, repeating certain words i liked the feel of in my mouth, being extremely blunt, yelling and not realising it, having meltdowns and shutdowns, and a plethora of other things, crap finally made sense. everyone in my class still hates me though lol
this song hits hard, i was always left out growing up. it just felt like they thoguht my intrests where wrong becue i grew up in extremly nerdy family. it didnt help i was hyper and loud as a child. now being dignosed with adhd it feels like i have that clarity. that i was diffrent. id always had been and i still am now that im a teenager. its hard to fit in but i have a handfull of friends and thats all i want
you know, this episode feels different it's more sad then "funny" sad a lot of people are judged just because (example) their eye(s) but everyone should know that their beautiful the way they are I can relate to tina in this episode..
I'm honestly really glad that I was diagnosed with autism at a younger age because I feel like if I weren't it would have been really confusing for me to grow up... And I feel really sorry for those who did grow up and just not know what it was
As a late diagnosed person, I can attest it was pretty hard. Hearing the words when I got diagnosed was one of the best feelings I’ve had my entire life
I’m getting tested in October, I’m scared because i feel Ive already known there’s something wrong with me and everyone knows, so the diagnosis would just confirm it but at the same time, it’d be so clarifying
Update, I'm about 10 minutes from receiving my results. I came back here for myself and other I guess to just remind myself that even if there's something wrong with me, I still have people there for me that I love and trust:] I'm scared, but excited Be safe everyone
Hello random internet people, I got my results back I'm autistic! I officially have been diagnosed with autism, I'm ridiculously happy, I've been smiling since I got out of the clinic, it's so clarifying
Theres a bit of music early on just after tina escapes when she's babysitting that is so amazingly haunting. Can't find it anywhere Internet so it looks like another creation from bobs burgers geniuses.
I remember being the undiagnosed “weird kid” in middleschool I got bullied over a cat sweater my grandma made me in front of the whole class and I couldn’t understand why. I felt like this song, that they were in on something. That there was some uncanny weirdness to me that everyone else knew but no one would tell me. That they could so casually mock things I liked and the way I acted and it was my responsibility to fix it. I know a lot of comments are sharing there story and I’m so sorry you all faced bullying and isolation. I think we would’ve been friends
I’ve been playing Bobs Burgers as background noise at night, and this song made me put down what I was doing and really listen. For such a silly goofy show that’s usually lighthearted this really struck deep.
I wish this song had been a thing when I was in school, I was so much like Tina that every time I hear this song I get tears in my eyes. Being weird isnt as bad as the kids in school made it out to be, I love being who I am now that I'm away from those who made me ashamed of it.
The chorus here really gets me everytime. I feel like I've bluffed through my entire life so even though I'm a fully employed homeowner, I have no clue what I'm doing! It's a fluke everything has worked out so far and when people talk to me for too long it feels like they can tell so I keep people distant. TBH It's kinda lonely...
I'll never forget that moment. On one hand, it was relieving to finally have an explanation for why I am the way I am. But on the other...I also had an explanation for why my peers always treated me differently. All the snide remarks disguised as jokes. Jokes directed AT me and not with me. Even the straight-up insults and questions toward how I acted, why I acted in such a way. That newfound wisdom absolutely wrecked me. How did they know? How did they know, with just "one look my way"? To everyone like me...I'm so sorry. At least we all have Bob's Burgers to bond and cry over..
I immediately thought of this song yesterday. The reason I felt it was because some kid who was sitting across from me did a motion of c**t1ng motions on his wrists, knowing I struggle. I thank the Bobs Burgers producers for this show. Its so comforting.
I feel like Tammy doesn't get called out enough for her horrible behavor. Like when it was revealed Zeke was a bully everyone freaked out and was on his case about it. But with Tammy it's like oh it's just Tammy being Tammy. I know what people are gonna say, oh it's a show don't read to much into it. But when it brings up social issues like bullying, it hard for me not you....
and i do think the show wants you to look into it. this song is proof of the show's commitment to making these characters and this world something to care about. reassuring you to care "too" much, because they'll probably one-up you later on
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"feels like something's wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it." is a really hard hitting line for someone with autism. more often than not allistic people (people without autism) can identify autism nearly immediately, whether theyre aware of it or not. its also common for allistic people to get an uncanny valley affect from autistics.
OUCH. god this is so stupidly relatable for a bobas burgers song
@@TheMoonIsFrosted right? its gut wrenching
@@NPGeshmow yes!! i originally saw it on a [i know, but hear me out] edit of donnie from rise [who i obviously love] and i was like "hm, i very much relate to this and this song very much relates to him, and i recognize those voices, i wonder who sang it." and it's a bobs burgers song
As an autistic person, THIS! So much this!
Not only that, many neurodivergent people have that struggle. Neurotypical people usually feel less inclined to interact with neurodivergents. They can often tell as you mentioned even if you're masking. Certainly as someone with adhd, I've experienced similar outcasting.
“Feels like something’s wrong with me and they know it. They took one look my way and they exposed it.” As someone who was bullied for everything I did and wore, that hit different.
This brought me back to my childhood 😬🥺
I felt that. People always judge and bully me for being a furry and it sucks
I was bullied for everything I did and who I was but as Tina is saying I'm just ready to say they're right and I did give up at one point I stopped talking after a while but I got therapy and I'm ok now.
Look dude your doing good I believe in you
shit hits different when youre autistic
Are H. Jon and Dan Mintz singers? No. Do they carry this tune beautifully and characterize perfectly? Hell yes.
It was a really, really clever way to tie the 2 plots together and have a neat connection between Tina and Bob. Without even really having either plot interact much at all, they managed to connect them together in a beautiful and artistic way
it’s been slightly auto tuned
H Jon is pretty good ngl
How can someone with a voice not made for singing sing so well?
H. Jon Benjamin sounds like Stephen Merritt from The Magnetic Fields!
bobs burgers usually: "gene stop talking about your balls"
bobs burgers when it wants to be: *fucking emotional sucker punch*
Mmm. (- best Bob quote, btw)
No Gene, don't say balls.
But better still is Louise. Don't say see you next Tuesday.
“we’re never gonna taste those
bah…
hah….
AALLLLLLSSSSS!!!”
-gene belcher
@@OMGSOSILLEH that line out of context is so funny
@@ohmygodtheykilledkenny4887 fr lol
RIGHT
As an autistic person who was diagnosed later in life this hit beyond hard. That feeling that everyone looks at you and sees something strange and uncanny without you yourself knowing what that thing is. The nagging feeling of everyones eyes clocking you as soon as they see you and they don't realize what they know but they know something is bad about you. The bullying for everything even normal things. The feeling that everyone on earth is in on a joke and your the one it's about. And if course the eventual realization that what they see, the big difference they all notice but no one cares enough to explain is not just them it is a part of you and it will always be there. That feeling is so strong and scary and explosive. God I love this show.
How do you get diagnosed? I really want to, but I’m afraid to ask my parents
Yeah I cried a lot at this song lol
@@stickyfrog1122 depends what services/laws exist where you live. I’d guess most places would require parental consent if you’re under 14-18 yrs.
You can try speaking to a student counsellor. They won’t be able to diagnose you, but they may help you understand what your options are.
FYI just be warned diagnoses cost a lot of money…
Completely! I was recently diagnosed when i first watched this episode and i wept, at my comfort show. Completely decimated by the resonance of it all ❤
Okay, you people are actually making things a lot worse by spreading this idea that getting diagnosed and “treated” as a child would have been good for you or anyone else. You’re basically spreading misinformation that functions as propaganda for systemic ab-se. I was diagnosed when I was in 4th grade and it did nothing to improve my life whatsoever. In fact it made everything harder and more exhausting. I wish now I had just gone to school and had a normal experience instead of dealing with the years of being pulled out of the classes I enjoyed(because only those you're good at are the ones they pull you out of for counseling) to fill out ridiculous worksheets about what obvious drawings of mad/happy faces mean what, that did nothing for me, or for the higher support needs kids who had it worse than me.
And to get absolutely useless and even detrimental social advice from people who honestly universally seemed to not know what they were doing. And it got the kids who ignorantly listened to them bullied worse.
From elementary up til the very last year of high school it was the same story for me and every other diagnosed kid I met. Which was a lot, my parents ignored everything I said and sent me to loads of useless places even during the summer to "fix" me as much as possible. (Before you dismiss them as bad eggs, every single counselor, therapist, and place they sent me to did say that autistic people can't and don't have to be "fixed," but that didn't change anything about how worryingly incompetent and detrimental their practices were.)
In-school and out, reputable people and places would teach that it was good to force autistic people to waste their energy performing social skills (and often a ridiculous exaggeration of social skills, with canned scripts and an unspoken demand I go along with whatever exact kinds of responses that professional was looking for, which took even more energy than normal social interactions for me) and pretended people actually acted that way in real life. And they would take away accommodations as punishment if a kid voiced their exhaustion or concerns, no matter how kindly or politely, and many were too exhausted to act politely enough anyway.
And knowing I was autistic and how autistic people act only meant they would target and punish autistic behaviors. My parents were often advised to grab my hands and force them down if I flapped them to stim, and to stop me from reading about or getting too interested in any one topic too much to keep it from becoming a special interest, unless it was obviously something that looked like it could be money making.
I got pulled out of classes for this BS. I missed out on years of my favorite subject, English, and there's actually a lot about the subject I don't know now and I can't pursue the job I want because of it.
All it did was exhaust me. And pulling me out of classes to force me to perform social skills was legitimately the reason I was too exhausted to finish as much homework as I could have otherwise, and eventually forced me to be held back a year.
The only good thing I got out of being diagnosed was being allowed an IEP that would allow me to have less homework. But it wasn't enough to make up for the exhaustion of being pulled out of class every year of school to waste energy on this ridiculous protocol school professionals (and even outside professionals) are apparently taught. I might have struggled anyway, but I know for a fact that going without a diagnosis would have made things easier. I would easily give up an IEP if it would prevent the damage they did.
And I'm young. This was recent. I live in a rich place in California and I'm only 22. It is a systemic issue. You people were not missing out.
Getting diagnosed young does not mean people would have been more accepting or your life would be easier. It throws you into a system that will actively work to your detriment. Saying otherwise only makes it even more unlikely anything about it will ever change. I know you'll never believe me, but surprisingly, what professionals have been (and still are) taught to do to us can actually be wrong, and cause more harm than good, in this society.
they let me think they’ve been losing their touch for two whole seasons just to come and scalp me with this episode
RIGHT? this show.
FR I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
Which episode?
@@stickyfrog1122 Season 12 Episode 21
What 2 seasons? It seems consistent to me :o
I really can't get over how they managed to sneak in a butt joke at 0:11 and still made this one of the most emotional songs in the series
what was the joke?
@@lompis-lf8bu "front to back" as how you would wipe your ass after pooping, "all my cracks" like a butt crack
@@lompis-lf8bu since no one answered you lol she says front to back all my cracks like butt crack but also like emotional cracks
@@avabailey1664 ohhhh thank you!!!!!!
LMFAO I JUST REALIZED THAT BAHAHAHA
This song made me so emotional its insane.
Try it on speed 1.5
@@galaxy_cat9575 I think they meant the lyrics not the speed
@@bobsburgersmyspark I meant put the video on speed 1.5x
@@galaxy_cat9575 I don't know if they did but I did I see ur point but still it's the lyrics that makes it emotional
I like how Tina issue is a real emotional issue which shows how ppl are affected by critical bullying and how she feels weird and rejected by society.
Then Bob who issue looks mundane and silly but actually shows Bob is incredibly insecure about himself and can't handle the smallest of criticisms.
Then Louise and gene who's issue is just Them not getting what they want
What about Linda?
@@melodysafo5437 Linda's just worried about how Bob's taking the criticism
Bob and Tina: singing about the pain of societal rejection
Gene and Louise: sad they can’t have boba
I think very base line it’s a great example of how 30 seconds of joking or making fun of someone can cause days of them thinking about it and hating themselves. And no matter how much you might apologize in the future, those cracks are still there.
Tina is becoming an individual. Coming to realize she does not have to go along with the group or give a damn what people think about things like her t-shirt or cult movies.
“When you’re happy, you like the music. When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics.”
We’re never gonna taste those baaaalls
The windows getting cracked as she's singing about "them seeing her cracks" is a bit above what this show normally does, and that's not a dig at the show. More that there was a genuine maturity in this episodes story telling, being as much or more visual than verbal. Entire parts were silent, being told through what was shown. If they nail this second part, these night end up the best 2 episodes of the show. It's clear they are prepping us for the movie as well as showing off their improved talents at cinematic moments
also a remarkably dark move, even in a parody, having tina stare down the people who are open-firing at her
I don't think it's supposed to be a funny joke, I just think it was a metaphor for, after the insult incident happening, her entire personality was cracked like a window. Also, I think it's pretty dark for bobs burgers to have a character stare down a window being shot at.
it's an ass joke too
fun side note. I worked on the show and the writers had a back and forth about how they wanted the window cracks to look. Bulletproof glass doesn't shatter this way but they wanted to show Tina's face being split into different facets so we cheated it this way :)
@@idkbrah473I think a big part is also how she’s talking about her “inside person” and it’s literally and figuratively showing how the “normal” facade she has to put up was cracking, or maybe that because she’s thinking of giving up being authentic to herself, it’s her inner self cracking because she’s trying to push it down completely now.
“We’re never gonna taste those ba-ha-alls!”
*Gene has the best lines*
Lyrics
Tina: What if they're right?
What if I'm weird and better off wiped?
Front to back
All my cracks
What if they're right?
What if the me that lives inside
Is something I should try to hide?
Jimmy Jr: What if they're right?
What if my vest is odd?
Zeke: Okay if I still eat a burger if I'm a bot. I'm hungry.
Tina: Is it so bad to steer off course?
And wear a shirt with a really cool horse?
Bob: How do they know what I feel in my soul that I might just be poop or crap?
Linda: Honey, I worry you're gettin' a little too focused on bathroom feedback?
Louise: I thought that we could have it all
Gene: We're never gonna taste those balls
Bob & Tina: Feels like something's wrong with me and they know it
They took one look my way and exposed it
Tina: I'm ready to give up the fight
And just admit that they are right.
Tina wonders if she needs to fix herself, “fill in the cracks” while facing a cracked window. But the cracks are coming from the gunfire on the outside. A lot of anxiety that comes with autism is caused by others making you feel inadequate because you’re different. You don’t know how but you want to fix the cracks, but you’re not the one making the cracks to begin with.
Why does everyone call them autistic
Honestly as someone with ADHD the “it feels like somethings wrong with me and they know it” part cuts deep like it’s exactly how it feels when people are staring at you and whispering and stuff
I’ve been a fan of the show since it started…I watch it frequently just to have in on the background if I’m feeling depressed, anxious, or stressed out. I was getting a little worried when they came out with this new season that they may be losing their spark (even though season 12 already had some great episodes in them) BUT this episode and the following made my jaw drop. When this song came on I was in disbelief how entertained I was and how beautiful the lyrics and melody was. I’m not usually very into the songs, although many of them have been catchy, but damn this song slapped! Everyone involved in the process of creating this show is so talented - I am truly thankful for this show because it got me through some pretty dark times and still hits to this day.
I felt the same with this episode it’s so amazing I fell in love all of again
Yeah
Bob's is 100% my comfort show. Honestly, it's brought me out of a dark spot more times than i can count. Feels like i owe the creators and actors a huge thank you 💜💜
- I'm going to stop putting up a fight and just admit that they were right .. 😭😭😭😭😭😭 that part broke me
This song was so genuinely sad and emotional that it brought me to tears the first time I heard it. It was speaking directly about my own experiences as a "weird kid" and it made me just want to comfort anyone who feels like they're "wrong" for doing or liking things that are completely okay.
Well said, I felt the same way. I wanted to give everyone in the comments a hug.
I felt really bad for Tina. I just want to give her a hug.
Keep in mind, no one ever became successful by going along with a group. Louise knows that. How ever is uncertain about not being accepted socially. Pixie princess promenade episode. Tina tries to be accepted socially a little too hard.
And she's coming to realize it all right to do your own thing.
Don't feel too bad for the Belcher kids. I think they are going to do well.
Don't worry Harry. I'm okay now. I'm just gonna Ignore Tammy and Jocelyn the best i can and Just be myself.
Same! I love Tina as well!
I’ve never been a fan of series were they make characters break into a song outta nowhere. But Bobs burgers amazing writing and charm makes it work, I’ve been listening to the Spotify albums nonstop.
Yep :> they can make any song no matter the lyrics sound good
I absolutely adore Tina, easily my favourite character, and this episode hit me hard. Her constant struggle through the show to make friends is often overlooked in turn for Bob and Louise (I love them too, don’t get me wrong!) so I was so glad we finally get a whole episode about her
Edit: I can’t get enough of this episode, it’s just great. The whole episode had me leaning forward a bit and paying full attention, unlike some episodes I can only bare to have on in the background. This song alone is just
This might be my new favourite Bob's Burgers song
I heard this song before I was diagnosed autistic at 26 years old. I was like Tina - awkward, unsure of social rules (still am), and I was the weird horse girl. I was overwhelmed and so sure something was "wrong" with me. Bullied relentlessly to the point that I had a panic attack after one of the bullies got a job at my company. After being diagnosed, the song hits twice as hard. They weren't right. I'm not better off wiped. I made it to 26 and I feel like I can make it farther.
The entire belcher family, even gale, are all neurodivergent in their own special way. I would die to have linda as a mom, I see myself in lueise and gene... I love them so much. They make me feel like the way that I think is normal, and that its okay to be myself
Bob and Tina are def both autistic. I feel like gene has adhd also
Louise man
When the window started cracking in front of Tina, my heart dropped :( This song made me feel so emotional and made me want to give Tina a hug. I love Tina and I hope she is able to realize that she is unique and different in a good way. 💛 I can't wait for the next episode!!
I love how universal this is, we don’t always realize that everybody feels like an outsider, this episode was amazing, and the real emotional payoff was the reveal that Tammy was only judging people because she was afraid of being judged, followed by the dance montage of robots experiencing being a unique and emotional individual.
I love this episode. I can’t believe the movie is just around the corner! Can’t wait. Hoping to see some less-common appearing characters like Mickey in it.
Lord knows we need more Mort!
Don’t forget about Marshmallow!
I miss that Robber that appeared in one episode when he robbed the cash register during Linda's the butler did it play
@@ChristopherSobieniak Right!
@@MagicalBunnyBoy Yes!! Gotta love marshmallow
this song was the exact wording to how growing up with undiagnosed autism was. the school system was god awful when you couldnt get any accomadations. when i finally got diagnosed, i told some people i knew. they looked at me and one of them said, "you got diagnosed?" as in, she thought i already had been. it was a complete shock to me. everyone but me knew, and all those years of teasing, bullying, social isolation, and depression made sense :(
From the moment I heard this song I got emotional. As an autistic person its simply impossible to NOT think these two episodes were about that, I really think the writers considered it at least when writing this song. I'm so happy to see others feel exactly how I do about this song. This song just touches my heart, I feel it deep in my soul, god its so perfect. Been 2 years and I still listen to it all the time and get emotional 😭😭
One of my favorite episodes in the entire series.
Tina is just so incredibly relatable. Just wants Jimmy Jr to notice her, is always trying hard to be herself, and tries to fit in with her more outgoing siblings.
Can't wait for next episode.
From the cliffhanger, it could make or break Tina's character.
This episode gave me chills
wasn't expecting Zeke to sound so good singing, also was hoping he'd be more than comedic relief
I never realized just how much this song meant to me until I really totally no longer felt imperfect all the time. It's like the world is alwayse rushing you to become something that's impossible to judge, while dropping obstacles to get in the way of you figuring it out. This song perfectly captures that feeling like we'll never be good enough and how noone really ever feels like they're on the same page as us.
1:29 hit so hard
I really want to try doing an Acapella cover of the song after hearing it so many times and geeking over Gene’s falsetto
Right?? Can't stop playing that part, it's just so good
The songs in Bob burgers are always so goofy except there's always one line that just hits you in the fucking soul
gene hit that high note
I’m getting tested for Autism tomorrow, everyone in my life has told me at least once that they think I’m some sort of neurodivergent. When I was younger (and still now) I loved/love bobs burgers, this song has played such a big part in the journey of talking to my school guidance consular about it to now getting assessed for ASD. To all the neurodivergent people, just know you are cared for, you matter, your disability matters even if you can’t always see it❤️
Update: I am going into the next phase of testing aka just getting the official diagnosis❤️
this song carried the whole episodes 😭 im crying
I always felt like an outcast as a kid and was bullied for it quite a bit. it's why Tina's the most relatable to me and why I love her sm. this song has me tearing up every time
I found this one surprisingly moving. Got stuck in my head so I had to look it up. Thanks for the upload!
"what if the me that lives inside, is something i should try to hide?" i've never related to lyrics as much as i have these.
Considering what Tina is usually like, this actually hit pretty hard. Tina doesn’t deserve to go to the same school as Tammy.
I also love how it’s such a perfect example of how 15 seconds of making fun of someone, can completely envelop that person in their own head for days.
No but how dare they wreck me emotionally with this song and then leave off on that cliffhanger?!!!
been struggling with who i am as a person. this song hits really deep for me.
"Feels like something's wrong with me, and they know it."
Trying not to cry in class while the teacher is shouting at me in front of everyone, who are snickering, for not talking when I've gone non-verbal.
I couldn't explain. I couldn't walk away. I couldn't hold in my tears.
It genuinely felt like something was wrong with me.
I still feel that way sometimes.
Why do I have to be autistic..?
I think about how I can fix it- I want to but it's literally impossible.
There is only so much masking I can do to make it go away.
Hey, I’m also autistic, and if there’s one thing that I’ve learned from having so many great autistic friends and one incredibly kind autistic sister, autistic people (a lot, not all) are some of the nicest people that you’ll ever meet, there’s nothing wrong with you for having autism, it’s just a different way of thinking, the people that make you feel that way are just ignorant and refuse to accept people that are different ❤
Bobs burgers has been a show I’ve been viewing for YEARS. But this was truly an incredible piece performed in a comedic series. Especially since the singers aren’t even super talented, but the meaning actually made me emotional, especially since a lot of teenagers like me, find themselves extremely self conscious over something. Tina was always an extremely relatable character, who was just trying to be themselves, and fit in at the same time. This was truly a pleasant surprise in season 12. And i’m sure I’m not the only one who found themselves getting a bit teary eyed over this musical number.
This is my new favorite episode I hope the next one is just as good
Lyrics:
Tina:
What if they're right?
What if I'm weird and better off wiped?
Front to back
All my cracks
What if they're right?
What if the me that lives inside
Is something I should try to hide?
Jimmy Jr:
What if they're right?
What if my vest is odd?
Zeke:
Okay if I still eat a burger if I'm a bot.
I'm hungry.
Tina:
Is it so bad to steer off course?
And wear a shirt with a really cool horse?
Bob:
How do they know what I feel in my soul
that I might just be poop or crap?
Linda:
Honey, I worry you're gettin' a little too focused on bathroom feedback?
Louise:
I thought that we could have it all
Gene:
We're never gonna taste those balls
Bob & Tina:
Feels like something's wrong with me and they know it
They took one look my way and exposed it
Tina:
I'm ready to give up the fight
And just admit that they are right.
never thought i would cry to a bobs burgers song, but here we are
This show has so many fantastic musical numbers, and it always has a cute song playing for the credits.
When my family have left the house, I put this song on, on repeat, and sob non stop, and I cant tell anyone how I feel, because I don't know how I feel.
I am so disappointed in how I turned out.
I don't feel normal and I really wish I could disappear with every passing day.
Nothing is going to fix me and I have to live this way for the rest of my life because I'll never do anything to end it.... I feel I am just floating in limbo until I am old and gone.
This song hits so hard oh my goddd, like it makes me so emotional 😭
I just love that ep
just saw the episode, had to look this up. its crazy how the show can be so fun and funny and silly then have moments like this that hit too close to home
The music for this show is amazing. The best I’ve seen in awhile. I love this show a lot.
Haha :D funny burger show song about wiping ur ass , "Feels like something wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it. I'm ready to give up the fight, and just admit they're right." :(
hit too close to home this time you guys -also a tina kinnie
this show is so important to me it's insane
"Feels like theres something wrong wirh me and they know it" The Autistic and ADHD experience
This song had me in tears 😭😭❤️
they were so fucking real for this
The pause and stare after “ok if I-“ tickles me every time
One of my favorite bobs burger song besides bad stuff happens in the bathroom and sunny side up summer
"feels like somethings wrong with me and they know it, they took one look my way and exposed it" hits dangerously close to home. im autistic, and was only diagnosed in early october of 2022. after 8 solid years of being bullied for (includes but is not limited to); liking the ninja turtles, liking sonic, liking pokemon, repeating certain words i liked the feel of in my mouth, being extremely blunt, yelling and not realising it, having meltdowns and shutdowns, and a plethora of other things, crap finally made sense. everyone in my class still hates me though lol
this song hits hard, i was always left out growing up. it just felt like they thoguht my intrests where wrong becue i grew up in extremly nerdy family. it didnt help i was hyper and loud as a child. now being dignosed with adhd it feels like i have that clarity. that i was diffrent. id always had been and i still am now that im a teenager. its hard to fit in but i have a handfull of friends and thats all i want
you know, this episode feels different
it's more sad then "funny" sad
a lot of people are judged just because (example) their eye(s)
but everyone should know that their beautiful the way they are
I can relate to tina in this episode..
I'm honestly really glad that I was diagnosed with autism at a younger age because I feel like if I weren't it would have been really confusing for me to grow up... And I feel really sorry for those who did grow up and just not know what it was
As a late diagnosed person, I can attest it was pretty hard. Hearing the words when I got diagnosed was one of the best feelings I’ve had my entire life
I’m getting tested in October, I’m scared because i feel Ive already known there’s something wrong with me and everyone knows, so the diagnosis would just confirm it but at the same time, it’d be so clarifying
Update, I'm about 10 minutes from receiving my results. I came back here for myself and other I guess to just remind myself that even if there's something wrong with me, I still have people there for me that I love and trust:]
I'm scared, but excited
Be safe everyone
Hello random internet people, I got my results back
I'm autistic! I officially have been diagnosed with autism, I'm ridiculously happy, I've been smiling since I got out of the clinic, it's so clarifying
1:20 just putting this here so i can go back to it
Theres a bit of music early on just after tina escapes when she's babysitting that is so amazingly haunting. Can't find it anywhere Internet so it looks like another creation from bobs burgers geniuses.
Ok but tina and bob singing together is good ngl :,]
i want this on spotify T-T
This is the saddest song in the entire show. This song actully reminds me of No More Gi from TAWOG
I remember being the undiagnosed “weird kid” in middleschool I got bullied over a cat sweater my grandma made me in front of the whole class and I couldn’t understand why. I felt like this song, that they were in on something. That there was some uncanny weirdness to me that everyone else knew but no one would tell me. That they could so casually mock things I liked and the way I acted and it was my responsibility to fix it. I know a lot of comments are sharing there story and I’m so sorry you all faced bullying and isolation. I think we would’ve been friends
I’ve been playing Bobs Burgers as background noise at night, and this song made me put down what I was doing and really listen. For such a silly goofy show that’s usually lighthearted this really struck deep.
I wish this song had been a thing when I was in school, I was so much like Tina that every time I hear this song I get tears in my eyes. Being weird isnt as bad as the kids in school made it out to be, I love being who I am now that I'm away from those who made me ashamed of it.
The way they stand facing the glass, and the beginning of the song before the piano really comes in reminds me of 'No surprises' by Radiohead
this has been stuck in my head for a week and is officially my fav bobs burgers song!! second would be sky kiss 🤩🤩
The chorus here really gets me everytime. I feel like I've bluffed through my entire life so even though I'm a fully employed homeowner, I have no clue what I'm doing! It's a fluke everything has worked out so far and when people talk to me for too long it feels like they can tell so I keep people distant. TBH It's kinda lonely...
Anyone else sob like crazy during this two-parter?
This is what makes this show not a family guy copy.
i shamelessly sobbed to this song oh my god
1:21 the best part
God they are amazing. I love this song it’s every reason why bobs is the best
I THOUGHT WE COULD HAVE IT ALL!!
Mannn I wish this were on Spotify so I could add it to my undiagnosed autism playlist :’)
I'll never forget that moment. On one hand, it was relieving to finally have an explanation for why I am the way I am. But on the other...I also had an explanation for why my peers always treated me differently. All the snide remarks disguised as jokes. Jokes directed AT me and not with me. Even the straight-up insults and questions toward how I acted, why I acted in such a way. That newfound wisdom absolutely wrecked me. How did they know? How did they know, with just "one look my way"?
To everyone like me...I'm so sorry. At least we all have Bob's Burgers to bond and cry over..
Gene slayed here
He did
I know this show is supposed to be funny but still, I will cry to this song uncontrollably
I wanna see part 2 now
I immediately thought of this song yesterday. The reason I felt it was because some kid who was sitting across from me did a motion of c**t1ng motions on his wrists, knowing I struggle. I thank the Bobs Burgers producers for this show. Its so comforting.
I feel like Tammy doesn't get called out enough for her horrible behavor. Like when it was revealed Zeke was a bully everyone freaked out and was on his case about it. But with Tammy it's like oh it's just Tammy being Tammy. I know what people are gonna say, oh it's a show don't read to much into it. But when it brings up social issues like bullying, it hard for me not you....
and i do think the show wants you to look into it. this song is proof of the show's commitment to making these characters and this world something to care about. reassuring you to care "too" much, because they'll probably one-up you later on
GET THIS ON SPOTIFY IM BEGGING YOU
This is one of my Favorit Episode
Why was this so good
for all the bobs burgers songs on spotify why is this one not on there
This whole song shows the neurodivergent experience and no one will tell me otherwise
I friggin love this series :')