Stay tuned for the AWESOME live chat box that youtube will make available within a few hours! If you want to see my chat on vindictive people, click here: ruclips.net/user/liveH1uTq936G2E?si=IUyJX7QSxf8X2Duj. So many narcissists and "fake people" are vindctive!
@@TherapistTamaraHill I like. Your channel and how it makes sense of life and my experiences.That made no sense for my whole entire life Now I recognized what I was with all those years Their attention seeking deceivers liars and destroyers exactly as the bible describes the devil The devil comes to deceive, lie and destroy. Which is exactly what narcissists do for a living and their only existence to dsteve lion destroy
Narcissists may present to you the perfect smile and image to try and fool you, but if your intuition is strong you will pick-up on their true intentions through their toxic energy !!
Wow, narcissists can be dangerous in many ways to the people around them. I had to deal with this within family circles, and it was exhausting and very confusing at times. Im so glad I made the choice to take myself out of the equation. I'm still healing and now I know what to look for and how to stay far away from narcissistic people!
Omg! You Described 1 of my exes to the t, with no goals or awareness, just floating through life and acting like the victim. When I started to find narcissistic videos on RUclips, oh my, you should've seen her fn face.😅 She knew exactly who she was. She tried to call me a narcissist the 1st time I even found out about it; she threw the label on me, and it took me a while to realize it was her. I was so naive. Oh man, this is scary. 1 day, they make you feel so sorry for them that you would want to stay, and then just the next day, they treat you like a piece of trash. This is also why she couldn't believe people were who they were. Because wearing a mask was her norm 😂, dam I slept with the devil.
Authenticity & Inauthenticity at the root is stimulated by the way in which you handle life's difficulties. Lifes' difficulties shape your character. Inauthentic people and narcissistic people from my experience usually have a very telling look on there face. I would classify it as the, " Yeah, I'm wrong and I know it face". That's the face they reveal when they have played their games with someone authentic and the games just won't work so they resort to blatant BS. I've been going through this my entire life. I should write a book.
Thank you thank you ever so very much for everything you do❤ I have enjoyed a vacation from turmoil and stress for the first time in years, thanks and I owe it all to you thank you, everything is starting to make sense and I'm able to see clear boundaries
You're so very welcome and that's very humbling of a comment. Thank you! The work has been done by YOU and I'm so glad you are feeling relief. I pray it continues!❤😊
@@TherapistTamaraHillI just wanted you to know. I can finally breathe and it's not a long sad breath...filled with guilt or shame, it's not my fault and I'm not responsible for their agony either, I just know it's because you, Tamara, were the first person to ever lay it out so clearly, You and God that is, because it's also evident you are faithful servant. You are gifted and very special and I wish every success forward to you
Tamara. I listened to most of this in the bed night live. It was past midnight ! Didn’t catch the beginning, will listen to play back. Have a nice day today.
Imho: men and women have an equal incidence of narcissism. BOTH my parents were narcissistic & my siblings followed suit (2 brothers & 2 sisters). Yes, I had some narcissistic traits but outgrew them in my 20’s - am 71 now.
You do bring up an interesting point. You can evolve over time -- in some cases -- if narcissistic behaviors are not severe or on the higher end of things. And if you weren't clinically diagnosed as narccist, it may not have been that at all!
The narcissist I know always lies by omission. This person leaves out important information intentionally to benefit themselves. When I confront this person, he then gives this dumbfounded look and takes no accountability.
Wow! U & I are feeling of the same when it comes to women. I've had many female friends. I find women love to smile in your face, but men sometimes do the same. I had narcissistic traits because I was raised in a narcissistic family. I have very little contact with my DNA Relatives! I hate being around fake ppl too. I can't be fake because I can't remember what lies I tell from one day to the next. I let ppl think what they want to think about me. I'm a Tomboy like u. I have to remind my husband that I'm his wife & not his brother. We watch a lot of sports together. Thank u so much for this video. It took me over 40 years to truly learn who I was. I really had different personalities. I thank GOD for changing me into what he wanted me to be & not what my DNA relatives had made me become. U have actually put a smile on my face. I see now it's ok to be a grown up tomboy. Be Blessed my Sister!!!
God bless you too!! Thank you. I've learned over time that once you find out who you really are, there's no room for being "fake" and inauthentic because the authentic road yields so many positive results for you and others.
@@TherapistTamaraHill u are so right 👍. I pray GOD continues to BLESS u with all u need to continue helping others ❤️. U are doing a great job helping to heal this world!!!
Dr George Simon. He calls a particular group of people as Character Disordered. They don’t have personality disorders but they do know exactly what they are at.
19:43 i’ve felt the same way with women. it’s really hard to make friends with them bc of the jealous and insecure nature. i’ve been ostracized bc of my looks, knowledge and aura.
I know, I know a narcissist.It's not that she has no.Self-esteem, it's more so that she has no values.She has no values no values She chooses garbage and tells me.She does not want to improve anything in life I know it is narcissist.Never gets slapped up by their parents.And this is the stinking mess.We synchronize we end up with because they never know consequences
Doing research currently on "Dehumanization." It is deep stuff, how it affects the brain in social contexts even. 😮 Very interesing, but it really makes me sad for the World-past and present.😢
It can be perceived that way, yes. The reality, however, is that these people are not just complacent. They are manipulative and hoping to change how people see the real them.
I think you can have narcissistic traits and not be a full blown narcissist. Someone who asks themselves if they are a narcissist, may have traits, but at least they can start working on themselves. I have the trait where if someone else is shining and outdoing me, I feel very threatened and like I don't exist. I know this is a narcissistic trait to feel that unstable. Because I have empathy, I do not try to destroy the other person in any way (ok, I may put them down in my head, but not to them or to other people), I do not try to compete. I used to leave the situation either actually leaving it, or escaping like substance abuse or when I was healthier isolating myself. I now just pray and take a deep breath and tell myself I can still exist in the same space with someone "better" than me. It is not easy. Ok, I still throw myself into my art or away from people when it is too much. So on the one hand I am a narcissist, but I am aware and won't hurt other people because of it.
How about te psychic part.for instance. I saw one waiting for me. I knew what she looked like. I knew where she was. I walked a couple of blocks and opened a door to a bar/pool had. She was sitting in the back wearing and looking directly at the door. She got up,walked to me through a crowd. Game on. Fiancee then discard. Disappeared and showed up two years later. Tried to hoover me. I walked.
Is there really a difference between female and male narcissists?? I’m not sure there really is. I just think that societal norms do not expect narcissistic behaviour in women and therefore female narcissists (particularly the covert type), perhaps are more likely to fly under society’s radar.
There is, sadly, a difference between genders. While most women would not be categorized as narcissistic, some are and they tend to be "grown up mean girls" in different environments. They are also narcissistic in different ways that makes them less obvious than men. I will post this article, on female narcissism, here for you and others to take a look at: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9578082/
Stay tuned for the AWESOME live chat box that youtube will make available within a few hours!
If you want to see my chat on vindictive people, click here: ruclips.net/user/liveH1uTq936G2E?si=IUyJX7QSxf8X2Duj. So many narcissists and "fake people" are vindctive!
@@TherapistTamaraHill I like.
Your channel and how it makes sense of life and my experiences.That made no sense for my whole entire life
Now I recognized what I was with all those years
Their attention seeking deceivers liars and destroyers exactly as the bible describes the devil
The devil comes to deceive, lie and destroy. Which is exactly what narcissists do for a living and their only existence to dsteve lion destroy
They are also borderline disorder too. All one sided. Fake people with several masks.
They always end up exposed. On negative people like them will only believe them.
Narcissists may present to you the perfect smile and image to try and fool you, but if your intuition is strong you will pick-up on their true intentions through their toxic energy !!
💯💯💯
This, absolutely.
Wow, narcissists can be dangerous in many ways to the people around them. I had to deal with this within family circles, and it was exhausting and very confusing at times. Im so glad I made the choice to take myself out of the equation. I'm still healing and now I know what to look for and how to stay far away from narcissistic people!
Omg! You Described 1 of my exes to the t, with no goals or awareness, just floating through life and acting like the victim. When I started to find narcissistic videos on RUclips, oh my, you should've seen her fn face.😅 She knew exactly who she was. She tried to call me a narcissist the 1st time I even found out about it; she threw the label on me, and it took me a while to realize it was her. I was so naive. Oh man, this is scary. 1 day, they make you feel so sorry for them that you would want to stay, and then just the next day, they treat you like a piece of trash. This is also why she couldn't believe people were who they were. Because wearing a mask was her norm 😂, dam I slept with the devil.
Tamara, like how you describe everything. You make it so clear. We thank you.
You are so welcome! And thank you! I'm so glad this makes sense, is helping, and is teaching all at the same time.
Authenticity & Inauthenticity at the root is stimulated by the way in which you handle life's difficulties. Lifes' difficulties shape your character. Inauthentic people and narcissistic people from my experience usually have a very telling look on there face. I would classify it as the, " Yeah, I'm wrong and I know it face". That's the face they reveal when they have played their games with someone authentic and the games just won't work so they resort to blatant BS. I've been going through this my entire life. I should write a book.
Wow! You validate exactly what I have been thinking about the people in my life. This info is so good to know.
Glad it was helpful!😊 Thank you.
Thank you thank you ever so very much for everything you do❤ I have enjoyed a vacation from turmoil and stress for the first time in years, thanks and I owe it all to you thank you, everything is starting to make sense and I'm able to see clear boundaries
You're so very welcome and that's very humbling of a comment. Thank you!
The work has been done by YOU and I'm so glad you are feeling relief. I pray it continues!❤😊
@@TherapistTamaraHillI just wanted you to know.
I can finally breathe and it's not a long sad breath...filled with guilt or shame, it's not my fault and I'm not responsible for their agony either, I just know it's because you, Tamara, were the first person to ever lay it out so clearly, You and God that is, because it's also evident you are faithful servant. You are gifted and very special and I wish every success forward to you
Looking forward to this topic. Thank you , Tamara .
You're welcome! So glad you're here.
Tamara. I listened to most of this in the bed night live. It was past midnight ! Didn’t catch the beginning, will listen to play back.
Have a nice day today.
Thanks for listening! And thank you, you too 😊
Always so informative, million thanks Tamara! Hope your enjoying a lovely weekend 🫶
You are so welcome!😊 And thank you. Same to you.
Imho: men and women have an equal incidence of narcissism. BOTH my parents were narcissistic & my siblings followed suit (2 brothers & 2 sisters). Yes, I had some narcissistic traits but outgrew them in my 20’s - am 71 now.
You do bring up an interesting point. You can evolve over time -- in some cases -- if narcissistic behaviors are not severe or on the higher end of things. And if you weren't clinically diagnosed as narccist, it may not have been that at all!
The incongruous, that makes sense for how they can shred people to pieces behind their back and if you ever tried point it out - you will pay… I have
The narcissist I know always lies by omission. This person leaves out important information intentionally to benefit themselves. When I confront this person, he then gives this dumbfounded look and takes no accountability.
Sorry I missed the live chat tonight. Good topic.
Wow! U & I are feeling of the same when it comes to women. I've had many female friends. I find women love to smile in your face, but men sometimes do the same. I had narcissistic traits because I was raised in a narcissistic family. I have very little contact with my DNA Relatives! I hate being around fake ppl too. I can't be fake because I can't remember what lies I tell from one day to the next. I let ppl think what they want to think about me. I'm a Tomboy like u. I have to remind my husband that I'm his wife & not his brother. We watch a lot of sports together. Thank u so much for this video. It took me over 40 years to truly learn who I was. I really had different personalities. I thank GOD for changing me into what he wanted me to be & not what my DNA relatives had made me become. U have actually put a smile on my face. I see now it's ok to be a grown up tomboy. Be Blessed my Sister!!!
God bless you too!! Thank you.
I've learned over time that once you find out who you really are, there's no room for being "fake" and inauthentic because the authentic road yields so many positive results for you and others.
@@TherapistTamaraHill u are so right 👍. I pray GOD continues to BLESS u with all u need to continue helping others ❤️. U are doing a great job helping to heal this world!!!
Dr George Simon. He calls a particular group of people as Character Disordered. They don’t have personality disorders but they do know exactly what they are at.
19:43 i’ve felt the same way with women. it’s really hard to make friends with them bc of the jealous and insecure nature. i’ve been ostracized bc of my looks, knowledge and aura.
They will smile as they are stabbing you with their lies. You can treat them well and they will stay for maeriall benefit.
Thank you so much 🎯🙏🏾🌎
You're welcome!!😊
"Integrity Matters Most"
*Nas 🖖
👍Agree
“Research in Psychology “…. Tamara, I’ve found them and been harmed by them and some are psychologists.
Thanks!
You're welcome and thank you for the superchat!
I know, I know a narcissist.It's not that she has no.Self-esteem, it's more so that she has no values.She has no values no values
She chooses garbage and tells me.She does not want to improve anything in life
I know it is narcissist.Never gets slapped up by their parents.And this is the stinking mess.We synchronize we end up with because they never know consequences
I know what you mean- there’s almost an aggression to how she decides to stay stuck.
Having no values is the definition of no self-esteem.
Doing research currently on "Dehumanization."
It is deep stuff, how it affects the brain in social contexts even. 😮
Very interesing, but it really makes me sad for the World-past and present.😢
I want to study Psychology.
That's awesome!! 👍 I wish you the best in this.
These people are completely horrible and they always have a narrative or many others who will stack up and back the lie they have against you.
❤ you're beautiful ❤️
Thank you!!🤗
Everybody that I work with is just like this I mean the whole workplace I hate going to work everyday because I have to deal with these type of people
What you are describing sounds like complacency or being self satisfied. It is an impediment to personal growth.
It can be perceived that way, yes. The reality, however, is that these people are not just complacent. They are manipulative and hoping to change how people see the real them.
I think you can have narcissistic traits and not be a full blown narcissist. Someone who asks themselves if they are a narcissist, may have traits, but at least they can start working on themselves. I have the trait where if someone else is shining and outdoing me, I feel very threatened and like I don't exist. I know this is a narcissistic trait to feel that unstable. Because I have empathy, I do not try to destroy the other person in any way (ok, I may put them down in my head, but not to them or to other people), I do not try to compete. I used to leave the situation either actually leaving it, or escaping like substance abuse or when I was healthier isolating myself. I now just pray and take a deep breath and tell myself I can still exist in the same space with someone "better" than me. It is not easy. Ok, I still throw myself into my art or away from people when it is too much. So on the one hand I am a narcissist, but I am aware and won't hurt other people because of it.
How about te psychic part.for instance. I saw one waiting for me. I knew what she looked like. I knew where she was. I walked a couple of blocks and opened a door to a bar/pool had. She was sitting in the back wearing and looking directly at the door. She got up,walked to me through a crowd. Game on. Fiancee then discard. Disappeared and showed up two years later. Tried to hoover me. I walked.
Is there really a difference between female and male narcissists?? I’m not sure there really is. I just think that societal norms do not expect narcissistic behaviour in women and therefore female narcissists (particularly the covert type), perhaps are more likely to fly under society’s radar.
There is, sadly, a difference between genders. While most women would not be categorized as narcissistic, some are and they tend to be "grown up mean girls" in different environments. They are also narcissistic in different ways that makes them less obvious than men.
I will post this article, on female narcissism, here for you and others to take a look at: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9578082/
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I definitely think women are more narcissistic.
“Females”?🤔
My mother told me her psychiatrist will get her and do for her ANYTHING SHE ASK FOR ! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂