Helpful. Imagine dealing with what was mentioned in this video, gangstalking, and other issues. Compounded problems for long periods of time and you feel trapped because you don't have the money at the moment to start over (new living and work environment). This has been my life for far too long and it's affecting my health tremendously. Not to mention I don't have anyone I trust enough to discuss all of this with. Most don't even believe in or understand the concept of gangstalking so I have to deal with this on my own and God. I need help to get out of situations that are no good for me. I've endured too much hurt, stress and obstacles for far too long.
Trauma coerced attachment. They deliberately lied to me in an awful way and then tried to have my information given to the other abuser, when I went no contact. Like once they encouraged stalking they were going to pretend like they did nothing wrong, and they’re my confidant. It’s warped
This information is so valuable. Your presentation is so clear, and it is dense too. I am taking notes. I pray that all of this information will get out to every abuse target and mental health professional who is not already aware of it. Thank you so much. And I must agree, your blouse is gorgeous. The colors and patterns of the fabric -- just beautiful. Thanks again, Támara. You lift me up.
🤗💖🥹 Such a kind comment! Thank you. I'm grateful every time I hear you and others are benefiting from this community of people and topics. That's wonderful!! Certainly my prayer too. Glad to have you on the channel!
They try to convince you exploitively that your thoughts and words are not conducive to their understanding! Desensitized your independence is on point! Learned helplessness! Defenseless! Broader context of loss of who you are!
I realized that my earthly family, is not my family. Blood Family (much like Blood Is Thicker Than Water) is an overused title. I found "Family" love with my friends and other associates, because they make me feel loved, heard, and wanted, and this alone gives me peace. I am OK with that.
My father would use the trauma coercive attachment tactic by way of Afrocentric engagement. He would be nonsensical then mask his behavior with a strong black power lure. That along with the biological connection kept me holding on tight. He was born the same year segregation became unconditional. So he saw and had been through a lot and I would always justify his behavior on that alone.
Just a comment on lockdowns, I came out of agnosticism and to Christ during the beginnings of lockdown. I finally had to STOP and I got to see what He was trying to show me my whole life. Im forever grateful that I had that downtime for the first time in my life.
How do we create solutions for these behaviors in business, advocacy, politics? Is the term conflict of interest from those elected, and whom draft our laws, considered abusive?
At 1:02:20 you reference a video on YT about the effects that Trauma-Coerced Attachment can have on your life. I don't see a link in the description box. Am I missing it? Thank you so much!
@@TherapistTamaraHill You are correct. There is so much narcissism in my family. I am praying I am not one as well. I try to be very selfless as time passes by.
Helpful. Imagine dealing with what was mentioned in this video, gangstalking, and other issues. Compounded problems for long periods of time and you feel trapped because you don't have the money at the moment to start over (new living and work environment). This has been my life for far too long and it's affecting my health tremendously. Not to mention I don't have anyone I trust enough to discuss all of this with. Most don't even believe in or understand the concept of gangstalking so I have to deal with this on my own and God. I need help to get out of situations that are no good for me. I've endured too much hurt, stress and obstacles for far too long.
Trauma coerced attachment. They deliberately lied to me in an awful way and then tried to have my information given to the other abuser, when I went no contact. Like once they encouraged stalking they were going to pretend like they did nothing wrong, and they’re my confidant. It’s warped
@@Lala-bobloblaw gaslighting
Is a corrosion to buy into the abusers narrative. . It creates doubt to believe your own voice
I’ve been there mostly in the workplace 😬
This information is so valuable. Your presentation is so clear, and it is dense too. I am taking notes. I pray that all of this information will get out to every abuse target and mental health professional who is not already aware of it. Thank you so much. And I must agree, your blouse is gorgeous. The colors and patterns of the fabric -- just beautiful. Thanks again, Támara. You lift me up.
🤗💖🥹 Such a kind comment! Thank you.
I'm grateful every time I hear you and others are benefiting from this community of people and topics. That's wonderful!! Certainly my prayer too.
Glad to have you on the channel!
They try to convince you exploitively that your thoughts and words are not conducive to their understanding! Desensitized your independence is on point! Learned helplessness! Defenseless! Broader context of loss of who you are!
It's not our job to get those who are bent on not understanding us......to understand us.
The United States needs coercive control laws like the UK.
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I agree
Yes. Surprised it does not exist in the freest country in the world.
The best slave thinks they are free.
Oceans of blessings y'all ❤❤❤❤❤
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I realized that my earthly family, is not my family. Blood Family (much like Blood Is Thicker Than Water) is an overused title. I found "Family" love with my friends and other associates, because they make me feel loved, heard, and wanted, and this alone gives me peace. I am OK with that.
Catching the replay.
Thank you Tamara!
You are so welcome! And thank you. Hope it's helpful!
Wow.! This is really hitting home.
I love your channel and you! You make such great points to things actively occurring in my life. It's very insidious and can be surreal
I'm so glad! And thank you so much 😊
Very glad this is helpful. Hoping to give tips on getting out, putting up boundaries, etc soon.
This could be my comment!
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My father would use the trauma coercive attachment tactic by way of Afrocentric engagement. He would be nonsensical then mask his behavior with a strong black power lure. That along with the biological connection kept me holding on tight. He was born the same year segregation became unconditional. So he saw and had been through a lot and I would always justify his behavior on that alone.
Just seeing this now. Thank you, Tamara.
You're welcome! Hope this is helpful.
Wow, what you say about trauma-coerced attachment is true
You have described many fathers!
Fantastic video
Thank you! Glad this was helpful.
Excellent stream and Siobhan sounds like Sha-vahn 😊
Thank you! 😊
This was gold lovely. ❤thank you 🎉
You're so welcome! aand thank you 😊
Just a comment on lockdowns, I came out of agnosticism and to Christ during the beginnings of lockdown. I finally had to STOP and I got to see what He was trying to show me my whole life. Im forever grateful that I had that downtime for the first time in my life.
How do we create solutions for these behaviors in business, advocacy, politics? Is the term conflict of interest from those elected, and whom draft our laws, considered abusive?
I can Relate To Mum And Daughter
Trauma
I can relate to savanna
At 1:02:20 you reference a video on YT about the effects that Trauma-Coerced Attachment can have on your life. I don't see a link in the description box. Am I missing it? Thank you so much!
Is continuous traumatic stress a diagnosis or a description? If you have PTSD but it is also continous within a relationship is that termed CPTSD?
Most police now,will arrest you both!
🔥💎✨...would you agree that Discarnate Spirits play a part in the discord of human life..
That's what the religious narcs I know want everyone to believe. Then they would not be culpable for anything they did.
It’s hard for these type of personality to keep or maintain family or friends! Lonely people!
The further society travels away from God, the more mental health problems occur. Very unfortunate.
Well said! ❤
I would even add on to that crime and evil works, discrimination and racism, selfishness and narcissism, etc. So many evils among us.
@@TherapistTamaraHill You are correct. There is so much narcissism in my family. I am praying I am not one as well. I try to be very selfless as time passes by.
Because trauma said get help! Those that are supposed to advocate said "conflict of interest!" Make fun of the behavioral health advocate!