True confidence is so difficult to achieve. I think true confidence is not caring what other people think, but staying humble and kind without letting people step all over you. Thank you for sharing your journey.
I agree 💯 really taking the time and making that time to know yourself so you're able to love yourself with all that comes with. Understanding that you are beautiful just the way you are, not letting others wrong opinions about you define you because you already know who you are. And that's when you've developed confidence within yourself. It's not something you always have, it's something you keep working on every day.
Wait til you hit 40. I thought I knew confidence in my 30s then 39 hit and wow….. it’s such a deep level of self-love I never knew before. 40s is truly magical
@ 🤣 it’ll be coming for you eventually 🫶🏼🙏🏼 also make sure there’s no one toxic in your life affecting your self-worth or mentality in a negative way too 🤍
If you haven't done Brene Browns Shame Resilience course...... trust me it will change how you see yourself and others and it's a very practical way to break down "guilt" and "shame" the difference and carrying things that aren't yours to carry! I do it every few yrs because this things are always changing in my life. It will help you focus on things that truly are yours. So applicable to everyone no matter where you are in life!
This is the most refreshing podcast on confident I’ve ever listened to. The part where you talked about friendships and feelings was so refreshing to me because it makes me realize that I’m not crazy and what I’m asking for out of a friend isn’t too much. Thank you for articulating everything I have ever felt.
Same. I can stand up to anyone else except my father. Not that I’m necessarily scared of him but it tears me down if I feel like I disappointed him. But in adulthood and after becoming a mother and getting married I have finally found my voice to stand up to him and set those boundaries I was never able to before because he held financial dependence over my head for years before that. Very very similar backgrounds I feel like with you. So thank you for validating it and talking about it
Hi Kristin. You probably won’t see this but I loved your message and please don’t hold back on these podcasts. I love how you explain everything you had to overcome. I definitely went through similar things as you with a parent and even comparable situations with high school just like you. Thank you ❤❤❤ sending love
I loved how open you are about not having a parental figure and having to switch schools so many times. I wouldn’t have guessed that caused the confidence but makes sense having to rely on yourself all the time and reintroduce yourself.
I just subscribed and I can’t believe it’s taken me this long. I’ve been struggling setting boundaries with people that are close to me and this episode really helped me. Love this podcast! 🧡
Love this. I've been loving your podcast lately. I wasn't really a listener before but wow you've been crushing it. I really relate to you because you have always done life on your own and have a complicated family and aren't afraid to walk away! You seem very very fierce and mentally strong! Your daughter is so lucky to have a strong female role model like you!
I LOVE all her episodes about this type of stuff and dealing with narcissists!! Honestly she needs to do an episode on dating a narcissist or having a narcissist as the father of ur children bc thats what i have to deal wit on a daily basis!!! Its not fun and i dont wish it on my worse enemy!!
For me as a female in my 40s who is social and have never had issues making friends. I had to learn the hard way not to let everyone in. It was very awkward for me at first to say NO and express my boundaries upfront. After much practice and tears I definitely am not being pulled down by needy/codependent people. Basically I was an “Enabler”. TY 💜
Not standing up to your Dad does not make you a "bi tch", that is SO human. He is your father and was an authority figure. I needed to hear this podcast. Thank you, K.
Thank you for this Kristin! Can you PLEASE give advice on narcissistic parents and how to handle and navigate that as the “child”. Especially as an adult. Thanks xo
Hi, I don't have IG, so idk if you accept listener questions from here, but would you ever consider making a video about how you have so much energy to do so much all the time? You always seem so on the go and productive and despite having goals, I lack the energy to do much beyond normal survival.
I used to be really insecure and shy (since I was a child). No one was coaching me about how to gain confidence (except maybe my mother but I never liked her suggestions, like when she forced me into a pageant at age 5, lol). Over the years I put myself in situations where I was tasked with helping other people through jobs or volunteering and that helped take the focus off of myself and what people were thinking of me. And then I started participating in activities I enjoyed and got better at over time (like dance class). I've found that learning about anything I'm interested in, practicing self care and using more positive self talk all helped me to become more confident over time. The more you have to be proud of (not in an egotistical way) the more confident you are. The more you raise your standards the more confident you become. It takes intention and practice. And it should be enjoyable.
So true about the full body yes. I think we really need to listen to ourselves more about anything in life. And if it is not a fully body yes it is a No. If it is a maybe it is a No.
One of the things people say about me is that I have no confidence, I would take this as a insult and kinda hurtful. My view point is that people are confident in different areas on their life but I only said that to myself to make me feel better. I never know what are the steps to increase your confidence. I am going to try to do the things I enjoy and what makes me me! Thank you for this conversation
FLOWING WITH THE UNIVERSE!!!! 👏 👏👏👏👏👏 amen!!!! I had a year and a half long friendship that ended and I go back and think about it just how you explained it. It was a season, I learned a lot and what I wasn’t going to let future friends do or treat me and she reached out in Halloween and I didn’t respond because I have moved past that season and I’m not going back in FLOWING WITH THE UNIVERSE!!!!!
I also had a similar situation with a friend, I tried to confront them but got a bunch of gaslighting. Then they bring up something personal that has nothing to do with the situation just to gain the upper hand, because they know it's a sensitive subject. I could not deal with the fact that when I have a problem I can't really talk about it and it's frustrating to be friends with someone who never takes accountability. I also don't like that my own information gets used against me in such a manipulative way. Sometimes I wonder if they were actually my friend or just my secret hater. Oftentimes there comes a point where you can't make excuses for a person anymore. It's really difficult to trust people but also hard not to become too isolated when you cut people off.
We kind of grew up the same..I was a grownup when I was little .I worried about the electric bill and my mother making a house payment..I was not confident when I was teenager even tho very popular..but..I never traded ‘me’ for someone else..I’m older now and VERY CONFIDENT..You will get there even more as you age…
Hi Kristin! I’ve loved you since Laguna Beach. I feel we are very similar & woulda been great friends. That’s my motto. Fake it till you make it. Everyone thinks I’m so confident. And I am 90% of the time. I don’t even think about it. Wait till you’re 50! 💫 I don’t give a F anymore. If you don’t bring anything to my life. Goodbye. You don’t match my energy. Goodbye. Been married 28 years. Love of my life. Wait for it. You’ll know. I enjoy the podcast immmensely.
It’s as if you’re reading my mind to the podcast. I resonate so much with the childhood trauma which I’m working through. The dad narcissist issue. My only “father figure” is my step dad and he’s a full blown narcissist alcoholic. Still traumatizing to be around him. I wish I could pick up my younger self and just hugged her and comforted her when she was scared and in so much pain. I definitely have been faking it for so long in so many aspects of my life. It’s not until recently that when everything was stripped away from me that I’m starting to analyze and rebuild a new me with a lot less toxic ppl around. Thank you for this podcast and being so real. You’re quite literally reading my soul and I’m incredibly grateful to know that someone else understands these feelings🫶🏼
Hey Kristin I follow you and enjoy listening to your podcast you have helped me through some situations just by listening I have a question I wanna start a probiotic and I want to try ritual I’m alittle nervous I don’t want to gain weight and I’m on so anxiety meds what are your thoughts please help 😉
I need to learn how to fake it until I make it. I'm terrible at putting on a fake smile if I'm feeling like sh*t or feeling confidence when I'm feeling uncomfortable. Any advice?
You were absolutely wrong about your friend on very cavalleri. The whole conversation audio aired and she never said you were wrong for what you felt she just wanted you to see that that rumor ALSO MADE HER LOOK BAD being accused of being a mistress and betraying your best friend is a big deal when that’s not your character so she had every right to defend her character and you thought that was adding fuel to the fire but what would you have done? If your best friend was like hey can you not talk about it bc it just adds fuel to the fire but your character is being attacked publicly and you’re not supposed to say anything? There’s no way you’d just stay quiet so she was right you were wrong and she was just as hurt as you were that you couldn’t see it from her perspective AT ALL. ALL you wanted was for her to bow down to your wishes but that’s not right. You should have been an understanding friend to her and you weren’t it was all about you. Unfortunately when you have narcissistic parents it’s inevitable that you adopt some of those characteristics and in that situation you were not the victim.
The ads are insane girl. You are in your house, you said you do this all yourself so do you rly need all these ads to pay for overhead? Cut them in half lol worse than tv commercials
Kristin you know and I know when a woman is confident she’s pegged as a B. Nothing against men, but having worked in predominantly male industries, woman who show too much confidence is frowned upon in girl and boy groups. Men are typically very competitive, and when a woman shows the same trait they back away. Confident woman are threats to men, and woman. Yeah I know all the clichés “ a man threatened by a confident woman is insecure “ or who cares about what others think” But it’s just seems consistent in certain industries that a confident woman is a threat to both sexes.
I love a lot of your podcast but I don't know if you're ever going to find a guy with all of those things that you listed hopefully you do but I think those are far and few between out there
It seems like you blame your dad for alot when you were a self-admitted ‘bad’ and ‘rebellious’ kid. You said yourself that you were having issues with your mom as a teen and thats why you chose to go live with your dad. It sounds like you put your parents through alot and somehow forgive your mom for anything that bothered you about her but not your dad, though he was the ine who was supportive of you doing Laguna Beach and is the reason you have the career you have today. You’e also dropped alot of wisdom that he gave you and great lessons he taught. You said he helped you alot in multiple ways. I honestly feel really bad for your father who tried his best given how bad a kid you were and gave you everything you needed financially. If you ever struggled it was because of your own doing. I cant imagine how horrible it is for your dad losing his son and then his daughter cuts him off and bashes him on the internet. I hope you can reach out to him one day and go to therapy together to open the lines of communication. Lots of ppl will say your a bad mom because of what they see online so you should know how hard being a parent is and that theres no manual on it. Remember your kids could grow up and call you toxic as well.
She’s also stated dealing with her dads behavior through her adult years and that he had a particular situation involving her children, that’s what caused the cut off. I wouldn’t be so quick to judge since you don’t have the exact story
Her dad is a narcissist though. I'm guessing you've been fortunate enough to not meet one. My sister in law is a narcissist. She was my best friend until one day she flipped on a dime and suddenly wasn't my friend anymore. I still see her because she's family. She is in the process of draining my MIL and FIL of all their time and finances. She is absolute hell to deal with. I cannot imagine what having a narcissistic parent must be like but there is no compromising, no forgiveness, it's their way or the highway all the time. They will regularly choose themselves over their children. I've seen my SIL do it with her own kids. Kristin was smart to cut him out. They are all abuse, all the time, and then they pretend like you are the problem. It's insane.
@Harperangel59 Everyone on the internet calls ppl they dont like ‘narcissists’ these days - its the most thrown around word as much as ‘fascist’ and ‘nazi’. If you’re not saying what someone actually did then why even call them that. When she says she had an incident ‘with her kids’ that could mean anything. Maybe she was spoiling them and they were being disrespectful and he suggested to change her parenting, which its normal for our older parents to do. We really dont know since shes super vague about it and her dad isnt a social media influencer to have a way of telling his side - nor does he want to because he respects his daughter and privacy too much. I like Kristin but I dont like how she went about this issue with her dad. None of that had to be public and its not fair to diagnose ppl who cant even give their opinion. However, everything she says out of her own mouth sounds like she was a terror as a daughter, so there’s definitely two sides to the story. Seems strange that ppl just take what one person says as fact without getting the backstory - its the same with fake news and cancel culture on the internet. You just believe anything without evidence.
@@MyChannel-ul3tm no. I disagree. I watched the episode she did on narcissism. Everything she said completely resonated with me. Once you've known a narcissist it's like this sick club that you are in and don't want to be. I can tell by what she said that she is telling the truth about her father because I've been through the same crap. That being said, you are right in that narcissism is a term that's thrown around too casually and the people that do that don't really know what a true narcissist is. Once you've really seen one in action though it's one of those "if you know you know" situations.
My gosh! You talk about being a girls girl, but you have been nothing about that. We have seen that with Kelly and Shannon Ford and your last pod talked shit about SF. You talk about narcissistic behavior, but you display a lot of it.
Shannon? Really? That's one that you are bringing up! Did you watch the show? She was a HORRIBLE employee! She wanted to be on TV and that's it! With Kelly, she played and still plays the "victim." From what we saw on the show, Kelly was annoying AF!
@barbarabueno81 did you forget the part where Shannon got in trouble from Kristen for bringing in cookies on her day off? Because it "wasn't her place". Like wtf kind of boss reprimands an employee for a thoughtful gesture. A narcissistic one!
In her recent “suspect” Reel w Justin, you can see the self centeredness with KCav. Bragging about having multiple guys in rotation. Grow the eff up. No one cares. it’s not a flex to be a divorced woman trying to hand out dating advice to others.
I agree. I really enjoy her podcasts but the "I'm so hot" and "I have men falling all over me" talk is getting old. She is hot and maybe she does have a lot of guys going after her but the bragging is getting irritating.
She doesn’t care that she bothers you. You still went out of your way to go onto her RUclips to judge her about her silly insta reel. If she bugs you then stop tuning in lol
22:00 I was this way too with my dad. It’s taken me 31 years to finally voice my true opinions to him even though I’m a confrontational person. My dad was the last person
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True confidence is so difficult to achieve. I think true confidence is not caring what other people think, but staying humble and kind without letting people step all over you. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Yes..
I agree 💯 really taking the time and making that time to know yourself so you're able to love yourself with all that comes with. Understanding that you are beautiful just the way you are, not letting others wrong opinions about you define you because you already know who you are. And that's when you've developed confidence within yourself. It's not something you always have, it's something you keep working on every day.
Wait til you hit 40. I thought I knew confidence in my 30s then 39 hit and wow….. it’s such a deep level of self-love I never knew before. 40s is truly magical
Send some my way 😂
@ 🤣 it’ll be coming for you eventually 🫶🏼🙏🏼 also make sure there’s no one toxic in your life affecting your self-worth or mentality in a negative way too 🤍
Agree!
100%
I hope so! I’m 38 🙂
You’re the older sister I never had! Seriously though, you’re the realest female podcaster out there. Outside and In. Thank you for sharing ❤
I agree, she gives older sister vibes.
I just love her honest & truthful. So refreshing. I look forward to your podcasts every Tuesday. Keep being your authentic self
She is not honest about plastic surgery
I feel like Kristin is leading this pack of women this age that are like fuck it let’s goo 🎉🎉🎉
If you haven't done Brene Browns Shame Resilience course...... trust me it will change how you see yourself and others and it's a very practical way to break down "guilt" and "shame" the difference and carrying things that aren't yours to carry! I do it every few yrs because this things are always changing in my life. It will help you focus on things that truly are yours. So applicable to everyone no matter where you are in life!
Kristen you are the definition of confidence !
This is the most refreshing podcast on confident I’ve ever listened to. The part where you talked about friendships and feelings was so refreshing to me because it makes me realize that I’m not crazy and what I’m asking for out of a friend isn’t too much. Thank you for articulating everything I have ever felt.
I love your arc in life. It mirrors a lot of mine and i appreciate hearing your reflections and honesty.
Same. I can stand up to anyone else except my father. Not that I’m necessarily scared of him but it tears me down if I feel like I disappointed him. But in adulthood and after becoming a mother and getting married I have finally found my voice to stand up to him and set those boundaries I was never able to before because he held financial dependence over my head for years before that. Very very similar backgrounds I feel like with you. So thank you for validating it and talking about it
Hi Kristin. You probably won’t see this but I loved your message and please don’t hold back on these podcasts. I love how you explain everything you had to overcome. I definitely went through similar things as you with a parent and even comparable situations with high school just like you. Thank you ❤❤❤ sending love
I loved how open you are about not having a parental figure and having to switch schools so many times. I wouldn’t have guessed that caused the confidence but makes sense having to rely on yourself all the time and reintroduce yourself.
I just subscribed and I can’t believe it’s taken me this long. I’ve been struggling setting boundaries with people that are close to me and this episode really helped me. Love this podcast! 🧡
We love you Kristin!! Thanks for sharing some of your most private experiences 💙
Such an amazing topic! Thank you for sharing your story, bringing this up and being so honest and vulnerable!
I love ur podcast for real and i was a loner in high school and when i saw u in Laguna beach and u made me go out of my comfort zone
Love this. I've been loving your podcast lately. I wasn't really a listener before but wow you've been crushing it. I really relate to you because you have always done life on your own and have a complicated family and aren't afraid to walk away! You seem very very fierce and mentally strong! Your daughter is so lucky to have a strong female role model like you!
I love the story behind it all ❤ thank you for being so vulnerable and honest with us! Love you 🥰
Loved this one. Thank you Kristin.🧡
I LOVE all her episodes about this type of stuff and dealing with narcissists!! Honestly she needs to do an episode on dating a narcissist or having a narcissist as the father of ur children bc thats what i have to deal wit on a daily basis!!! Its not fun and i dont wish it on my worse enemy!!
I appreciate hearing your insights
For me as a female in my 40s who is social and have never had issues making friends. I had to learn the hard way not to let everyone in. It was very awkward for me at first to say NO and express my boundaries upfront. After much practice and tears I definitely am not being pulled down by needy/codependent people. Basically I was an “Enabler”. TY 💜
Not standing up to your Dad does not make you a "bi tch", that is SO human. He is your father and was an authority figure. I needed to hear this podcast. Thank you, K.
Thank you for this Kristin! Can you PLEASE give advice on narcissistic parents and how to handle and navigate that as the “child”. Especially as an adult. Thanks xo
This was so motivating!! Can you do a makeup tutorial? I love your eye makeup 😍
Love your pod! You've grown into such a mature, amazing woman ❤
You are so right! I just adore you!
I love you Kristin. I needed this today, I wanted to crumble into oblivion quite honestly
Hi, I don't have IG, so idk if you accept listener questions from here, but would you ever consider making a video about how you have so much energy to do so much all the time? You always seem so on the go and productive and despite having goals, I lack the energy to do much beyond normal survival.
I used to be really insecure and shy (since I was a child). No one was coaching me about how to gain confidence (except maybe my mother but I never liked her suggestions, like when she forced me into a pageant at age 5, lol). Over the years I put myself in situations where I was tasked with helping other people through jobs or volunteering and that helped take the focus off of myself and what people were thinking of me. And then I started participating in activities I enjoyed and got better at over time (like dance class). I've found that learning about anything I'm interested in, practicing self care and using more positive self talk all helped me to become more confident over time. The more you have to be proud of (not in an egotistical way) the more confident you are. The more you raise your standards the more confident you become. It takes intention and practice. And it should be enjoyable.
Just Adore this Priceless Advice!
So true about the full body yes. I think we really need to listen to ourselves more about anything in life. And if it is not a fully body yes it is a No. If it is a maybe it is a No.
I swear girl. Is like we have lived similar lives and healing journeys. I 100 percent relate
One of the things people say about me is that I have no confidence, I would take this as a insult and kinda hurtful. My view point is that people are confident in different areas on their life but I only said that to myself to make me feel better. I never know what are the steps to increase your confidence. I am going to try to do the things I enjoy and what makes me me! Thank you for this conversation
FLOWING WITH THE UNIVERSE!!!! 👏 👏👏👏👏👏 amen!!!! I had a year and a half long friendship that ended and I go back and think about it just how you explained it. It was a season, I learned a lot and what I wasn’t going to let future friends do or treat me and she reached out in Halloween and I didn’t respond because I have moved past that season and I’m not going back in FLOWING WITH THE UNIVERSE!!!!!
Loved it. Thank you for being so open.
Kristin, you are so so so confident 👑🩷nice podcast!
I love being early to these! Thanks for another honest show! Appreciate it :)
You always have that nervous laugh that helped you ! Never shown you were upset,
GOOD MORNING! can’t wait to listen!
100% correct advice all round 👏
Wow. I don’t think we have ever heard you speak on the Kelly situation.
Such great advice! Everything was well said 👏 love how you are so raw and real! Also, love the Capricorn vibes! I’m Jan 5th bday also🎉
Love the podcast! Every damn episode!!♥️♥️♥️ ohh and I need to know where that bowl on your table is from? Everything….gorgeous!
Southern California still has thee best weather but I’d love to try Nashville for a fall/winter
omg, shout out from FRG! Almost died when you said Barrington! Loving the pod, keep it up :)
Love you Kristin ! Love your pod cast !
I’m early !!! 🎉🎉 love the top!
I also had a similar situation with a friend, I tried to confront them but got a bunch of gaslighting. Then they bring up something personal that has nothing to do with the situation just to gain the upper hand, because they know it's a sensitive subject. I could not deal with the fact that when I have a problem I can't really talk about it and it's frustrating to be friends with someone who never takes accountability. I also don't like that my own information gets used against me in such a manipulative way. Sometimes I wonder if they were actually my friend or just my secret hater. Oftentimes there comes a point where you can't make excuses for a person anymore. It's really difficult to trust people but also hard not to become too isolated when you cut people off.
Random but this new background is gorggg
She's soooo beautiful...and so much more than going from one man to another...
But she’s looking for the right squirt and leak companion. One that will have her blasting across the room and gushing as she strangles him.
such a powerful episode i really enjoyed listening like always ♥
Loved this!
Well Im a big fan urs since Laguna beach and I still love u so much and I'm glad yr so honest and but I'm very insecure still
We kind of grew up the same..I was a grownup when I was little .I worried about the electric bill and my mother making a house payment..I was not confident when I was teenager even tho very popular..but..I never traded ‘me’ for someone else..I’m older now and VERY CONFIDENT..You will get there even more as you age…
“If its not a full body yes, its a no” ❤️🔥
this is your Masterclass 💫
Hi Kristin! I’ve loved you since Laguna Beach. I feel we are very similar & woulda been great friends. That’s my motto. Fake it till you make it. Everyone thinks I’m so confident. And I am 90% of the time. I don’t even think about it. Wait till you’re 50! 💫 I don’t give a F anymore. If you don’t bring anything to my life. Goodbye. You don’t match my energy. Goodbye. Been married 28 years. Love of my life. Wait for it. You’ll know. I enjoy the podcast immmensely.
Good morning from Nola! 🙏🏼💛☕️
Love Kristen we’re so much alike just fearless ❤
I think Kristin would look much better with dark hair. Confidence usually comes with age
It’s as if you’re reading my mind to the podcast. I resonate so much with the childhood trauma which I’m working through. The dad narcissist issue. My only “father figure” is my step dad and he’s a full blown narcissist alcoholic. Still traumatizing to be around him. I wish I could pick up my younger self and just hugged her and comforted her when she was scared and in so much pain. I definitely have been faking it for so long in so many aspects of my life. It’s not until recently that when everything was stripped away from me that I’m starting to analyze and rebuild a new me with a lot less toxic ppl around. Thank you for this podcast and being so real. You’re quite literally reading my soul and I’m incredibly grateful to know that someone else understands these feelings🫶🏼
Hey Kristin I follow you and enjoy listening to your podcast you have helped me through some situations just by listening I have a question I wanna start a probiotic and I want to try ritual I’m alittle nervous I don’t want to gain weight and I’m on so anxiety meds what are your thoughts please help 😉
I’ve had this same modo for years. If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no!
I love you Kristinnnnnnnnn
such real talk it's not even funny 😆🙏🏻🙌🏼
I need to learn how to fake it until I make it. I'm terrible at putting on a fake smile if I'm feeling like sh*t or feeling confidence when I'm feeling uncomfortable. Any advice?
Yes. Just yes.
Looking Good😁
hey beautiful happy thanksgiving you look amazing
Nowwww Kristin - talking mad shit on the kardashians but you’re sponsored by Good American? Girl pleaseeeee 😂😂💀
You were absolutely wrong about your friend on very cavalleri. The whole conversation audio aired and she never said you were wrong for what you felt she just wanted you to see that that rumor ALSO MADE HER LOOK BAD being accused of being a mistress and betraying your best friend is a big deal when that’s not your character so she had every right to defend her character and you thought that was adding fuel to the fire but what would you have done? If your best friend was like hey can you not talk about it bc it just adds fuel to the fire but your character is being attacked publicly and you’re not supposed to say anything? There’s no way you’d just stay quiet so she was right you were wrong and she was just as hurt as you were that you couldn’t see it from her perspective AT ALL. ALL you wanted was for her to bow down to your wishes but that’s not right. You should have been an understanding friend to her and you weren’t it was all about you. Unfortunately when you have narcissistic parents it’s inevitable that you adopt some of those characteristics and in that situation you were not the victim.
I felt that too!! When I watched it. I actually love Kelly, maybe too real for Kristin.
@@Nklloa she did the same thing she claims the producers did to her!
The ads are insane girl. You are in your house, you said you do this all yourself so do you rly need all these ads to pay for overhead? Cut them in half lol worse than tv commercials
KC, did you get a top job?!?! Cause those thangs be thangin’
My ex put me down and degraded me for no reason do you think it had to do with is drinking??
Let’s team and get to cummin’ on this Cummins!
Oh and we can drink too!
hell yeah
The smacking 🥴
Would Kristin financially support the right guy?
If the gentleman would have hear blasting and gushing across the room, on the windows, on his chest/tees I’m sure she’d be very much down for it.
Survival mode constantly
KC in squirt and blast mode constantly! I’m here to catch every last drop! 💦🤤😋
Self doubt is terrible..pls young girls YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH…
You're looking towards the right again... is your left profile your favorite?🤔
She’s reading notes from something to help remind her what to talk about.
Morning :)
Does anyone know how Kelly capitalized on the rumors?
@@tikigyrl79 she didn’t. She politely bowed out of another season bc she didn’t want Kristen accusing her of crap 💩
Kristin you know and I know when a woman is confident she’s pegged as a B. Nothing against men, but having worked in predominantly male industries, woman who show too much confidence is frowned upon in girl and boy groups.
Men are typically very competitive, and when a woman shows the same trait they back away.
Confident woman are threats to men, and woman.
Yeah I know all the clichés
“ a man threatened by a confident woman is insecure “ or who cares about what others think”
But it’s just seems consistent in certain industries that a confident woman is a threat to both sexes.
Yeah, aggressive is usually the term they use 😞
When a guy will lie to others around you and then justify it he will lie to you..... point blank.
I love a lot of your podcast but I don't know if you're ever going to find a guy with all of those things that you listed hopefully you do but I think those are far and few between out there
The sponsorship clips are annoying. Keep you talkng
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It seems like you blame your dad for alot when you were a self-admitted ‘bad’ and ‘rebellious’ kid. You said yourself that you were having issues with your mom as a teen and thats why you chose to go live with your dad. It sounds like you put your parents through alot and somehow forgive your mom for anything that bothered you about her but not your dad, though he was the ine who was supportive of you doing Laguna Beach and is the reason you have the career you have today. You’e also dropped alot of wisdom that he gave you and great lessons he taught. You said he helped you alot in multiple ways. I honestly feel really bad for your father who tried his best given how bad a kid you were and gave you everything you needed financially. If you ever struggled it was because of your own doing. I cant imagine how horrible it is for your dad losing his son and then his daughter cuts him off and bashes him on the internet. I hope you can reach out to him one day and go to therapy together to open the lines of communication. Lots of ppl will say your a bad mom because of what they see online so you should know how hard being a parent is and that theres no manual on it. Remember your kids could grow up and call you toxic as well.
If you've ever dealt with a narcissist therapy doesn't work unfortunately, which she has stated her father is ❤
She’s also stated dealing with her dads behavior through her adult years and that he had a particular situation involving her children, that’s what caused the cut off. I wouldn’t be so quick to judge since you don’t have the exact story
Her dad is a narcissist though. I'm guessing you've been fortunate enough to not meet one. My sister in law is a narcissist. She was my best friend until one day she flipped on a dime and suddenly wasn't my friend anymore. I still see her because she's family. She is in the process of draining my MIL and FIL of all their time and finances. She is absolute hell to deal with. I cannot imagine what having a narcissistic parent must be like but there is no compromising, no forgiveness, it's their way or the highway all the time. They will regularly choose themselves over their children. I've seen my SIL do it with her own kids. Kristin was smart to cut him out. They are all abuse, all the time, and then they pretend like you are the problem. It's insane.
@Harperangel59 Everyone on the internet calls ppl they dont like ‘narcissists’ these days - its the most thrown around word as much as ‘fascist’ and ‘nazi’. If you’re not saying what someone actually did then why even call them that. When she says she had an incident ‘with her kids’ that could mean anything. Maybe she was spoiling them and they were being disrespectful and he suggested to change her parenting, which its normal for our older parents to do. We really dont know since shes super vague about it and her dad isnt a social media influencer to have a way of telling his side - nor does he want to because he respects his daughter and privacy too much. I like Kristin but I dont like how she went about this issue with her dad. None of that had to be public and its not fair to diagnose ppl who cant even give their opinion. However, everything she says out of her own mouth sounds like she was a terror as a daughter, so there’s definitely two sides to the story. Seems strange that ppl just take what one person says as fact without getting the backstory - its the same with fake news and cancel culture on the internet. You just believe anything without evidence.
@@MyChannel-ul3tm no. I disagree. I watched the episode she did on narcissism. Everything she said completely resonated with me. Once you've known a narcissist it's like this sick club that you are in and don't want to be. I can tell by what she said that she is telling the truth about her father because I've been through the same crap. That being said, you are right in that narcissism is a term that's thrown around too casually and the people that do that don't really know what a true narcissist is. Once you've really seen one in action though it's one of those "if you know you know" situations.
Your Dad sounds like my mom. The worst!
Why are you supporting Wayfair if you’ve been deep in the conspiracies like you say then you know about Wayfair.
My gosh! You talk about being a girls girl, but you have been nothing about that. We have seen that with Kelly and Shannon Ford and your last pod talked shit about SF. You talk about narcissistic behavior, but you display a lot of it.
What a strange thing that you still watch lol
@margaretdujardin8864 nobody watches a train going silently through a neighborhood. Everyone watches a train wreck 🤣
Shannon? Really? That's one that you are bringing up! Did you watch the show? She was a HORRIBLE employee! She wanted to be on TV and that's it!
With Kelly, she played and still plays the "victim." From what we saw on the show, Kelly was annoying AF!
@barbarabueno81 did you forget the part where Shannon got in trouble from Kristen for bringing in cookies on her day off? Because it "wasn't her place". Like wtf kind of boss reprimands an employee for a thoughtful gesture. A narcissistic one!
Takes one to know one, and boy does a narcissist sure love to gush and blast
In her recent “suspect” Reel w Justin, you can see the self centeredness with KCav. Bragging about having multiple guys in rotation. Grow the eff up. No one cares. it’s not a flex to be a divorced woman trying to hand out dating advice to others.
I agree. I really enjoy her podcasts but the "I'm so hot" and "I have men falling all over me" talk is getting old. She is hot and maybe she does have a lot of guys going after her but the bragging is getting irritating.
She is soo stupid!
She doesn’t care that she bothers you. You still went out of your way to go onto her RUclips to judge her about her silly insta reel. If she bugs you then stop tuning in lol
Saw that and I didn’t see where she was bragging about anything.? 🤔
Oh honey ...
Catholic high school…🤣🤣🤣🤣..Im glad you survived…
Love your podcast Kristin Cavallari 🤗🫶 and keep up the good work, Kristin Cavallari!
22:00 I was this way too with my dad. It’s taken me 31 years to finally voice my true opinions to him even though I’m a confrontational person. My dad was the last person