This Is How Strong and Independent Mindset Broke the Black Family

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
  • today we take a fresh look at how the strong and independent mantra not only adversely affected black women, but also worked to dissolve the family unit altogether.
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Комментарии • 131

  • @hulkthanos1332
    @hulkthanos1332 2 года назад +39

    That notion is fed to us in so many different ways. " Boss Bitch, Victim, Swirling , and Feminism" , to name a few. Our women even go as far as being "Average at best and they will still be too good for an electrician a grocery store manager or even someone on the same level as them who are willing to improve.

    • @keithburch3238
      @keithburch3238 2 года назад +4

      Better off financially..excluding excessive debt and things accumulated not needed. Socially inept outside of work in some cases. In the50s and 60s togetherness held things together. Now is it everyone woman for herself. What level is that?

    • @macgill6098
      @macgill6098 2 года назад +3

      "Divesting" also.

  • @edwinjones1000
    @edwinjones1000 2 года назад +35

    Truth. I was an Affirmative Action officer in 1975 The law gave women and minorities 1st consideration. That meant that the only way to satisfy both elements of the law was to hire a black woman instead of a black man. That made it LEGAL to ignore black men in the hiring process. Then, black women could not understand why their black men could not find a job. I saw this coming a LONG time ago.

    • @DennisJAllen
      @DennisJAllen 2 года назад +3

      Absolutely. This is a fact that many of them choose to ignore, especially those who are Late Baby Boomers and Generation X.

    • @Solider7
      @Solider7 2 года назад +1

      And black women were too selfish to see how they were being used as a buffer to keep black men unemployed; and many if them are even more selfish today.

  • @alwaysblack2436
    @alwaysblack2436 2 года назад +14

    But they make every effort to be in oneness with dwight mcmanus, without being told a thing. They're quiet, sweet, supportive, feminine and the list goes on.

  • @OwnGrid
    @OwnGrid 2 года назад +31

    Take responsibility and stop blaming others as if they are out to get you, and even if it’s not your fault it’s on everybody to take account for their actions. It’s that simple all we can do is control our behavior to counter whatever conspiracy

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid 2 года назад +2

      @FitbotadvertisingBy all means cut it if you can, and that is even if you can prove it at all. Honestly it’s stupid to even worry about things out your control but that’s just me

    • @saintgermain6031
      @saintgermain6031 2 года назад

      Well you have to know and understand that there is an actual conspiracy in order to counter it, right?
      Most of our people to even know that we are and have Ben under attack since we've been in this country.

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid 2 года назад

      @@saintgermain6031 Have you heard of the saying ignorance is a bless. Something’s are better left in the dark especially when knowing doesn’t help achieve anything of substance if what you presume is correct at all

    • @saintgermain6031
      @saintgermain6031 2 года назад

      @@OwnGrid if that the case then we can't assume anyone will try to come out of this condition.

    • @OwnGrid
      @OwnGrid 2 года назад

      ​@@saintgermain6031 racism and self interest are part of the humans condition, so no one is coming out of this condition only the delusional thinks that, and this condition can only be kept under control by the force of the law, and to a large degree the law has done that especially in recent history

  • @clarencedudley1494
    @clarencedudley1494 2 года назад +34

    If they want to be alone and out there by themselves, I say ok!! Bye duces!! Other Women will want us!! I see it everyday!!

    • @abdulalim-el5405
      @abdulalim-el5405 2 года назад +2

      TRUTH 👍

    • @cassiuslmiller771
      @cassiuslmiller771 2 года назад +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @lionelwashington8448
      @lionelwashington8448 2 года назад

      The white man wants them too. They just do it at an older age. They want our women!

    • @rikshaw2233
      @rikshaw2233 2 года назад +11

      Dam, I've seen it happen in my own family. Young professional BM with other Women, totally bypass BW & Her BS.

    • @clarencedudley1494
      @clarencedudley1494 2 года назад +1

      @favored&graced 🤣🤣🤣🤣 how cute!!

  • @cortneydavis8448
    @cortneydavis8448 2 года назад +3

    I don't understand why everything is always blamed on Black women. The independent mindset doesn't just happen out of thin air. Most women are forced to be that way because their spouse is not reliable. Therefore, Black women get education and open businesses to support their families. Everyone is telling Black women to choose better, but no one tells Black men to be better and stay with their family and children. You don't get the right to stick and move and not be held accountable for that. We are the only race that condemns a parent for staying with their child, but forget it takes two to create a baby. That is what broke the Black family and continues to do so. I also think there is a separation between us because women have been treated inferior since the beginning of time and everyone knows that the entire Black community favors Black men. Our needs have always been put last. It is essential to have a sort of checks and balances dynamic.
    If Black men were doing well in their lives and loved themselves and their entire community, this wouldn't be a huge problem. The Black family is broken because of complex reasons that has nothing to do with women being ''independent''. There's more nuance. Do you guys actually think Black women enjoy doing everything by themselves? Like it's fun? It is a complete defense mechanism because we feel unprotected and it also essential for survival because we have no one else. Freedom means being free from abuse, hate, and death. We are abused and killed at alarming rates. This is why there's a separation. There is also unrequited love. We love them more than they have ever loved us. But modern women are waking up.

  • @jdowns7523
    @jdowns7523 2 года назад +6

    You are So Right Sister ,,,!!! Many of US Black Men didn't mind having an independent black WOMAN ,,, because we thought it would be an advantage to us ,,, the black man's family ; However instead ,,, we got the Rebellious Confederacy from the Black Womans independence against the Black Man & The Black Family ,,,!!! However ,,, hope is Eternal ,,, an We have too Clean Our sheets thoroughly 😉 ,,, an work @t making Our Black Family beds Right Everyday ,,,

  • @perfektg
    @perfektg 2 года назад +20

    Kendra is always dropping jewels! Thank you.

  • @lionelwashington8448
    @lionelwashington8448 2 года назад +9

    It is so ingrained, It’s going to take an active God to change it. I’m 56 years old I’ve been married going on 33 years and this is the infestation and I never seen it until you explained it the way that you have now!

  • @robertjohnson1078
    @robertjohnson1078 2 года назад +2

    ...So through this mindset, the Black man to the Black woman is an anachronism!

  • @ashleysaddler6830
    @ashleysaddler6830 2 года назад +10

    I genuinely love this woman. This woman is a treasure and a guide to the black community world wide. Apart from Shahrazad Ali who else comes close to this gift. Most men who aren’t asleep would listen to this woman. And most women who would not listen to this woman are probably feminist Jezebel hyena types. If it was up to me this woman would be compulsive reading and viewing for every black a student. Her insight is remarkable. We are in so much trouble as a people. Largely by our own making perpetuating the lost value system, worshipping fallen celebrity no bodies, only having transactional relationships but most importantly forgetting the lessons and teaching from god. Fallen people have been leading us for too long, we need to reject the garbage we feed ourselves. Time is almost up until we DIE as a people. Intellectually and culturally we have already died. Crimson cure is a rare medicine and resuscitation is you choose to accept it. Not all medicine tastes nice🤔

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive 2 года назад

      Very well put! I agree 100%

    • @keithburch3238
      @keithburch3238 2 года назад

      I hope you show this podcast to everyone you know. The Black family is on a crash course to economic slavery to add to the mental slavery. We would rather watch Television and give preachers our money rather than change and recognize this is a long term problem going forward.

  • @UnexpectedWonder
    @UnexpectedWonder 2 года назад +6

    Interdependence. Thank-you!!! When I say I desire, a Mature, Independent, Intelligent, Respectful Woman, that Independent part doesn't mean she doesn't need me. That's not what Independence means. For example, when the United States declared independence, it didn't mean that the nation didn't conduct trade, forbid immigration, and much more. It meant that as a group of people they would decide for themselves, stand on their own, and create their own path both individually and collectively. I'm very Independent. It means that I can take care of myself and am not clingy or overly reliant on the aid of others. With that being the case, I desire a Woman that reflects that. Can she take care of herself when I'm not around. Can she do things for herself within reason. I desire a Grown Ass Woman, not a child. We bring Balance of Masculinity and Femininity and help each other in areas where we each may lack as well as grow together.

  • @darthkirvin1487
    @darthkirvin1487 2 года назад +3

    This was an amazing video. You hit everything

  • @themusiccritic902
    @themusiccritic902 2 года назад +3

    you are lovely ,respectful, and have knowledge . you are the kind of woman any man would be proud to know

  • @erikoneal7932
    @erikoneal7932 2 года назад +16

    Black women were tricked with the "Hegelian dialectic" tactic...

    • @koolshaker7615
      @koolshaker7615 2 года назад +6

      Exactly and some Willy Lynch sprinkled on top of that smdh now even when you speak facts to most of them they refuse to listen to reason no matter who is telling it to them...smdh

    • @jaebee9805
      @jaebee9805 2 года назад

      what a trick. its very odd and sad to see play out in real time.

  • @lrashad3
    @lrashad3 2 года назад +2

    Beautiful speech/perspective, thank you Sister!

  • @thefirefox-bx3mx
    @thefirefox-bx3mx 2 года назад +8

    Bw want to be free from the will of The Most High. Remember The GARDEN Of Eden ,Eve

  • @benyah721
    @benyah721 2 года назад +2

    You speaking the truth👍

  • @latifmuhammad8874
    @latifmuhammad8874 2 года назад +3

    As always, excellent material

  • @tehutitael8621
    @tehutitael8621 2 года назад +1

    Wow! You are shining very bright 🌞 beautiful and unique! I'm still waiting on a series of DVD 📀 to have for our future generations, your videos are very important and helpful 👍🏾 ( it's like looking into a giant mirror to see one's self)

  • @shanaterika57
    @shanaterika57 2 года назад

    One of my favorite topics. Thank you Goddess. ON POINT with errrthang that was said. ❤🦋🙏🏿

  • @Dwane383
    @Dwane383 2 года назад +1

    100% correct well said.

  • @michaelthomas3543
    @michaelthomas3543 2 года назад +3

    Can anybody else remember the words that white supremacy system put in black women's mouths during the mid 80s of" you're not qualified" there were seminars for single black women to attend and that was the basic of the topic spoken through black women that were there married to men from other races!

  • @chicagochano
    @chicagochano 2 года назад +1

    Hegelian Dialect is the name of problem, reaction, solution.

  • @jefferywilliams2151
    @jefferywilliams2151 2 года назад

    Black women that love Yah..black men and build together as a family...community...I love..outside of that ...independent...femenist... take care...

  • @vernondelancy6281
    @vernondelancy6281 2 года назад

    Another great meal you cooked thank you KENDRA....

  • @foreignwheezy
    @foreignwheezy 2 года назад

    Great Stream!!! Gained a lot of edification 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

  • @thefirefox-bx3mx
    @thefirefox-bx3mx 2 года назад +4

    The dollar is falling and will result in the rehab of the Black situation and a antibiotic against gynocentrism.

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard 2 года назад +1

    GREAT WORK

  • @abdulalim-el5405
    @abdulalim-el5405 2 года назад +30

    I recently saw an episode of Paternity Court. There were 2 white women in their 30's. When they found out the man brought to court tested positive and he was in fact their father both women cried like children and welcomed him with open arms. There's a lesson in that for black women.

    • @koolshaker7615
      @koolshaker7615 2 года назад +8

      Bruh..Like in their present state BW will get what you're saying.Most BW have become so out of control,selfish and above reproach smdh very very little logic gets in...

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 2 года назад

      @@koolshaker7615 Exactly!!!

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 2 года назад

      Oh, would Hope they both opened their legs to him and got Pregnant.

  • @jeronronnunkoffunk4691
    @jeronronnunkoffunk4691 2 года назад

    Hello sister, great broadcast interestingly, being in my early forties I began to notice this overall spirit and narrative creeping in close 30 yrs or so ago while in high school most prominently and yes I had the exact naivety you expressed many black men at the time had

  • @lanceparker4796
    @lanceparker4796 2 года назад

    I was 360th like😇 great content as usual regal lady.

  • @Amenrah63
    @Amenrah63 2 года назад

    Another Great Session! ♥

  • @idomalion6167
    @idomalion6167 2 года назад +20

    She said black women need black men and bm need bw.
    She is wrong. Bw need bm but bm don't need bw they have more VALUABLE options outside. This is the reality.

    • @clarencedudley1494
      @clarencedudley1494 2 года назад +10

      Amen to that!! Radio station WVON in Chicago is running this Strong and independent BW promo for March (Women's Month) all it is doing is making me want to look elsewhere for a Woman!!

    • @idomalion6167
      @idomalion6167 2 года назад +8

      @@clarencedudley1494 I found a fiancée outside our community. Feminine, loving cooperative and easy going. I would advise wisdom when seeking marriage.

    • @clarencedudley1494
      @clarencedudley1494 2 года назад +5

      @@idomalion6167 which community was she from??

    • @idomalion6167
      @idomalion6167 2 года назад +10

      @@clarencedudley1494 Asian Muslim, her love rival was a bw and model. After long conversation on retirement from modelling she refused, so I chose a traditional woman of virtue. The models real pissed now. I told her to continue her hot girl summer.

    • @clarencedudley1494
      @clarencedudley1494 2 года назад +5

      @@idomalion6167 Good for you!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @royharris3380
    @royharris3380 2 года назад +4

    All the women that have followed that social FOOLISHNESS about strong and independent, HAVE BEEN DECEIVED BY THE POWERS OF DARKNESS. IN THE BIBLE, GENESIS, 3:16, UNTO THE WOMAN HE SAID I WILL GREATLY MULTIPLY THY SORROW AND THY CONCEPTION, IN SORROW SHALT. THOU BRING FORTH CHILDREN AND THY DESIRE SHALL BE UNTO THY HUSBAND, AND HE SHALL RULE OVER THEE. NOW THE ALMIGHTY HAS SPOKEN THOUSANDS OF YEARS AGO, AND MOST WOMEN ARE IN TROUBLE WITH THE ALMIGHTY

  • @neferkamunashanti4700
    @neferkamunashanti4700 2 года назад

    My sister I do agree with you

  • @mrln04
    @mrln04 2 года назад +4

    Not only do they think they're separate but they also think they're better. The rabbit hole has no bottom

  • @777mello
    @777mello 2 года назад +2

    Amazing amazing content!

  • @tehutitael8621
    @tehutitael8621 2 года назад

    Hey, what about some t-shirts , buttons or jackets: I can see it 👀 The Crimson Cure line !

  • @roderickroberts4995
    @roderickroberts4995 2 года назад

    Great message!

  • @contessaftw5472
    @contessaftw5472 Год назад

    13:00 wow...............

  • @t.m.kmedia1136
    @t.m.kmedia1136 2 года назад

    Brilliant

  • @Stagecharm
    @Stagecharm 2 года назад

    All Truth...Men are always thinking interdependency

  • @quantumsolace5864
    @quantumsolace5864 2 года назад +3

    THIS IS WHY TMH IS SPEEDING UP PROPHECY; BECAUSE IF WE HAD OUR WAY, WE WILL COLLECTIVELY WIPE OURSELVES OUT OF EXISTENCE, AND THE WORLD IS TO NAIVE AND STUPID TO UNDERSTAND THIS CONCEPT. WITHOUT US AS A BLACK PEOPLE; THERE WON'T BE SUCH A THING AS MANKIND ON THIS PLANET.

  • @ultimateman8738
    @ultimateman8738 2 года назад +3

    It's the teachings of the Willy Lynch, letter...

  • @alphasteezy1034
    @alphasteezy1034 2 года назад +2

    I just wish every Black woman could hear you. Women are easily persuaded..it is her nature. We are all witnesses to the product of social engineering....aka The Apple 🍎

  • @hankskiar1571
    @hankskiar1571 2 года назад

    Hello Crimson 👍 😎

  • @latifmuhammad8874
    @latifmuhammad8874 2 года назад

    Greetings Crimson

  • @druth5134
    @druth5134 2 года назад +2

    I'm a strong independent woman ...you go girl honeyboom...I don't need no man , this is my truth girl ...well how many men have slept with ??

  • @sehuakili3096
    @sehuakili3096 2 года назад

    Any interdependent women in the house hit me up one love❤️🖤💚

  • @hasseemabdul-jalil8836
    @hasseemabdul-jalil8836 2 года назад

    🔥

  • @lees3117
    @lees3117 2 года назад

    124 dollars a month for herbs. Lol game

  • @bey7khan761
    @bey7khan761 2 года назад

    Its pronounced Erica LeSHAY ! But yeah, I love BOTH of yall, & I would love to see yall two collab together; praise ALLAH for BOTH of yall !💗👍

  • @kevinmclemore1476
    @kevinmclemore1476 Год назад

    What's your educational background

  • @garrettsimmons6255
    @garrettsimmons6255 2 года назад

    This drama n skit rehased itself just like the Garden of Eden story,the serpent=government whispering n finessing black woman's to go against her man ADAM.peace

  • @hasseemabdul-jalil8836
    @hasseemabdul-jalil8836 2 года назад

    B1 NC

  • @TheMMFamily9
    @TheMMFamily9 2 года назад +3

    I agree, and running to be Karen's men, brother and son, is not going to prolong the extinction, it may speed up the rate.

    • @Yahawadah70ad
      @Yahawadah70ad 2 года назад

      We don't necessarily have to take other races. There's always the option to leave you guys behind and find a sista in another country which I myself did.

  • @naimreed8247
    @naimreed8247 2 года назад +1

    Independent from who? A slave to and dependent on who?

    • @JeromeBostick
      @JeromeBostick 2 года назад +4

      Independent of the BM, to be dependent on another man, and their institutions that work for their best interests.

  • @duomaxwell5807
    @duomaxwell5807 2 года назад

    AHHHH HA

  • @carbonsnail014
    @carbonsnail014 2 года назад +1

    BM needs BW who are from outside of the US not who are within its borders.

    • @jdowns7523
      @jdowns7523 2 года назад

      I think 🤔 you better think twice before you jump into making that choice ,,,! There's an old saying ,,, it's better too deal with the devil 🤘 you do know ,,, rather than the 1 you don't know ,,,,,

    • @carbonsnail014
      @carbonsnail014 2 года назад

      @@jdowns7523: The entire legal system is biased towards women here in the states making it highly likely that those who chose BW here stand a good chance of becoming homeless in the near future another big factor is 5.7 out of 10 of them have incurable STDs accruing to an older census though it's probably much higher now.

    • @Yahawadah70ad
      @Yahawadah70ad 2 года назад

      You're right. I left the US in 2020 and found an amazing Kenyan woman. I will not be returning to the US.