I know I’m 6 years late but if I cheated on my wife before fully submitting to god and have now repent. Its been over a year since this has happened. Do I have to tell her even after I’ve repeated. Please respond if you can
Hey, dont know if someone is going to answer you so I will. Even if it is hard I would tell her. God is a Father of restoring what is broken. The enemy loves to kill, steal and destroy so it would be better for you to tell her personally than her having to find out about it another way. Ask God how you can say it and pray against anything that the enemy would try tu use against you 2 to destroy the marriage. Idk your wife so I can’t say how she will react and she will probably need some time to think about it etc. But even in that time just have patience and continue to show her love. Pray about it and maybe even fast but it will be the right thing to do. Remember greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world! God bless you and your marriage!
I believe it's a personal conviction. The same reason you believe you'll be protecting your relationship (wife), you destroying it. Take it to God, Repent, and ask God to have mercy on you. We are all not perfect we make mistakes. Your sin wasn't greater than God's grace and mercy. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you; to show you the way. Remember there is no condemnation in Jesus Christ. There is freedom in Jesus you are not chained to your sin. He died for me and you so that we may not perish. Nobody (man) can tell you what to do and regarding this matter, you need to find yourself back to God. He will tell you what to do and how to execute it. We all fall short of the glory of God. Be fervent in spirit and constant in prayer. God have mercy on all of us.
My question to you is this: do you believe your wife is ready to hear this? If it were me, I wouldn't tell her yet unless I felt our relationship was in a very strong season. Ask God to show you when the time is right. Good luck
If you have cheated on your wife, whether it’s been six months or six years ago… and you are done with it and have repented before the LORD..AND you want to go forward with your wife in truth..then you should be truthful. Seek the LORD for what to do. HE knows both you and your wife. GOD Bless you both 💜💜
I have talked to a few righteous women who have been cheated on, and they have unanimously said that they would rather have not known and would have preferred their husbands had not told them. If once their husbands had repented AND FORSAKEN the adulterous affair, they would have wanted him to just be a great husband going forward. If YAH didn't allow them to be exposed, then that may have been His grace covering a multitude of sins. Not justifying the sin, but showing mercy to the remorseful and penitent spouse. If you didn't catch a disease, sire children with the adultery partner, have criminal charges or any other kinds of serious consequences that can result from an adulterous affair happen, then go and sin no more. Seek the wisdom and discernment of the Most High about confessing to your wife because sometimes the guilty party wants to have a clear conscience, at the expense of bringing so much hurt and sorrow to the faithful spouse. The righteous women I've spoken to all said their husbands' volunteering their confession didnt help. However, If your wife ever suspects you of infidelity and asks you for the truth, then please don't lie. Own it, and ask YAH to be the healing balm that the relationship needs to survive. Some couples have bounced back stronger, and more resilient from the breech in trust and have learned valuable life lessons. Be encouraged and prayerful. Seek YAH.
Suffer for righteousness instead of disobedience….
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I know I’m 6 years late but if I cheated on my wife before fully submitting to god and have now repent. Its been over a year since this has happened. Do I have to tell her even after I’ve repeated. Please respond if you can
Hey, dont know if someone is going to answer you so I will. Even if it is hard I would tell her. God is a Father of restoring what is broken. The enemy loves to kill, steal and destroy so it would be better for you to tell her personally than her having to find out about it another way. Ask God how you can say it and pray against anything that the enemy would try tu use against you 2 to destroy the marriage. Idk your wife so I can’t say how she will react and she will probably need some time to think about it etc. But even in that time just have patience and continue to show her love. Pray about it and maybe even fast but it will be the right thing to do. Remember greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world! God bless you and your marriage!
I believe it's a personal conviction. The same reason you believe you'll be protecting your relationship (wife), you destroying it. Take it to God, Repent, and ask God to have mercy on you. We are all not perfect we make mistakes. Your sin wasn't greater than God's grace and mercy. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you; to show you the way. Remember there is no condemnation in Jesus Christ. There is freedom in Jesus you are not chained to your sin. He died for me and you so that we may not perish. Nobody (man) can tell you what to do and regarding this matter, you need to find yourself back to God. He will tell you what to do and how to execute it. We all fall short of the glory of God. Be fervent in spirit and constant in prayer.
God have mercy on all of us.
My question to you is this: do you believe your wife is ready to hear this?
If it were me, I wouldn't tell her yet unless I felt our relationship was in a very strong season.
Ask God to show you when the time is right.
Good luck
If you have cheated on your wife, whether it’s been six months or six years ago… and you are done with it and have repented before the LORD..AND you want to go forward with your wife in truth..then you should be truthful. Seek the LORD for what to do. HE knows both you and your wife. GOD Bless you both 💜💜
I have talked to a few righteous women who have been cheated on, and they have unanimously said that they would rather have not known and would have preferred their husbands had not told them. If once their husbands had repented AND FORSAKEN the adulterous affair, they would have wanted him to just be a great husband going forward. If YAH didn't allow them to be exposed, then that may have been His grace covering a multitude of sins. Not justifying the sin, but showing mercy to the remorseful and penitent spouse.
If you didn't catch a disease, sire children with the adultery partner, have criminal charges or any other kinds of serious consequences that can result from an adulterous affair happen, then go and sin no more.
Seek the wisdom and discernment of the Most High about confessing to your wife because sometimes the guilty party wants to have a clear conscience, at the expense of bringing so much hurt and sorrow to the faithful spouse. The righteous women I've spoken to all said their husbands' volunteering their confession didnt help. However, If your wife ever suspects you of infidelity and asks you for the truth, then please don't lie. Own it, and ask YAH to be the healing balm that the relationship needs to survive. Some couples have bounced back stronger, and more resilient from the breech in trust and have learned valuable life lessons.
Be encouraged and prayerful. Seek YAH.
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