Lala and Scheana are OVER Ariana

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  • Lala and Scheana are not here for Ariana choosing to live with Tom while she figured out her next move. On the After Show Lala acts like the authority on everything and says it doesn’t make sense for them to live together based on the reasons Ariana gave. SCHEANA agrees and fully cosigns everything Lala says. James is left trying to defend Ariana and the whole dynamic is not what I expected. Especially since Scheana and Lala went to opening night of Ariana performing in Chicago.
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Комментарии • 231

  • @Mialovesall
    @Mialovesall 7 месяцев назад +46

    Lala is such a hypocrite. Nobody was allowed to speak to Randall after he cheated and if anyone did she flew off the handle. It’s less than 6 months since Tom cheated on Ariana (at the time of filming) and she now has a problem with the fact that Ariana is still “bitter” about it. Probably because Lala realised she was the Raquel in her love story with Randall.
    But I think this boils down to jealousy. Nobody gave her all this opportunities or praised her after her tumultuous ending with Randall so she envies Ariana.
    As for Scheana, she just needs everything to be about her and probably tired of Ariana getting all the shine.
    Katie was her only true friend and she’s finally getting to see that 👏

    • @Obi-MomKenobi
      @Obi-MomKenobi 7 месяцев назад +1

      Lala had custody issues to deal with, whole different ballgame

    • @renaetaylor7528
      @renaetaylor7528 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@Obi-MomKenobi Lala didn't have a baby when she helped to wreck Randall's marriage. She was dating a married man and got mad when they talked about it. And just last year, Lala had issues with any of them who still had contact with Randall. Sandoval is the only 1 who was able to talk Schwartz into ending his bromance with Randall. Sandoval has been douchy, but people really do forget that he has done to good things for his friends in past years. Lala is jealous of the attention, opportunities, and compassion that Ariana is getting.

    • @suebuchert7797
      @suebuchert7797 7 месяцев назад +4

      Also Ariana didnt go ho- ing around . Scheana jumped from man to man to man after her breakups and Lauren slept around quite a bit before Randall and then she was his mistress while he was still married with 2 kids although she likes to deflect on this and while Ariana was no saint it had been years since her drunken tryst with Lauren so she had much more of a better reputation. I think they are both so jealous because of in spite of the offers coming in, Ariana had the talent to do due justice to what she had been handed and has proved herself to be very talented unlike Scheana and Lauren.
      Scheana is waaaay to needy for attention and Lauren has no real talent other than a foul mouth and bullying personality.

    • @annekusmich8919
      @annekusmich8919 7 месяцев назад +3

      Lala should mind her own business. Different circumstances.

    • @upsidedown584
      @upsidedown584 7 месяцев назад +3

      Why would they call Randall’s mistress when none of them know her. Rachel was in their friend group. Completely different circumstances.

  • @jazminmartinez05
    @jazminmartinez05 7 месяцев назад +86

    💯 Emily. Ppl are so triggered by Ariana, its crazy👀 You'd think that she stole money from their accounts or something🤣 They said she wasn't hurt bcuz she moved on too quickly to Dan but then contradict themselves saying they're over her bcuz she's doing too much and she needs to let go & move on... The hate is so real😑

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +12

      omg you just summed it up perfectly

    • @candifardoe6124
      @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +7

      So true. None of us has the right to tell her how to move. We aren't the ones that have to live this reality on camera with the world watching.

    • @kristysullivan5586
      @kristysullivan5586 7 месяцев назад +1

      She still has so much anger at him. She has what I would call.Hate forthat man.

    • @candifardoe6124
      @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@kristysullivan5586 yeah. We the audience have to remember that although for us its been almost a year, but for Ariana, it's just 3mths

    • @jacqueline-11
      @jacqueline-11 7 месяцев назад +6

      @candifardoe6124 really, I think viewers forget the timeline when the show airs. Three months time, of course Ariana would be in her feelings.

  • @kshejohnson9207
    @kshejohnson9207 7 месяцев назад +24

    I don't think she's being ridiculous at all because screw him and what he wants. He can go to a restaurant like a normal person. Of course she wouldn't want all of his loser friends their party in. I wouldn't be giving him anything that he wanted. Plus we have to remember this was right after everything happened and I don't think she's really being that rude to the assistant. I think they are editing it to look that way because they want to keep the show going. They figure Ariana had her moment so now let's make her look like a villain and give Tom another moment

  • @CBPz
    @CBPz 7 месяцев назад +19

    Lala and Scheana are both incredibly self centered and have a hard time understanding other peoples perspectives and consider theirs a tell all be all, yet both of them need their mothers to raise their kids.

  • @andreaarcher6046
    @andreaarcher6046 7 месяцев назад +43

    When Tom brought up the Kristin stuff, DUDE shut up! James has outgrown you Tom. JAMES!!!! Had he been hainging onto that for years waiting for an opportunity to get back at James? Like they said on the aftershow, it's dark behavior.

    • @renaetaylor7528
      @renaetaylor7528 7 месяцев назад

      So,
      We forget how James hit Raquel in her newly reconstructed nose just 2 yrs ago, cheated with Lala and had/have very little remorse about it. But Tom cheating a year ago. Both are abusive towards women. Ariana cheated with Tom and Lala. James cheated w/Lala and so Raquel cheats it's a matter of national security. The Hypocrisy is so disgusting.

    • @andreaarcher6046
      @andreaarcher6046 7 месяцев назад +2

      I said what I said. James isn’t perfect; hell right after his calm response to Tom he peed in the bushes. But Even from “just 2 years ago” James has grown a lot. Such a Sandoval response, dragging out the history books and pointing the finger. NONE of them are perfect, but it’s been really cool watching some of them grow up.

    • @Sunshine134_
      @Sunshine134_ 7 месяцев назад

      It’s all he’s got.

    • @renaetaylor7528
      @renaetaylor7528 7 месяцев назад

      @@andreaarcher6046 I said what I said. James shows absolutely NO growth. A feel man would've remembered how Tom stuck with him, defended him, and gave him a place to live when he was out there abusing women, getting drunk, and paid for the celebration to propose to Raquel & hiding the guy he slept with. Instead, he is leading a lynch mob when Tom messed up. James is pure shit, just like Tom. When has any of them TAKEN GENUINE accountability? Until they do, none of them have grown. All of them excuse their wrongdoing and try to bury it but when someone else mess up, they crucify them. All of them are immature, privileges bums.

    • @SandyWoodress
      @SandyWoodress 7 месяцев назад

      @@renaetaylor7528If you’re going to rewrite history, the last thing you should do is twist and distort stories that are easily accessed.
      1. Tom told Ariana he and Kristen were broken up. Which tracks because their relationship was so toxic and they were known to break up a lot!
      2. Kristen wasn’t friends with Ariana. Quite the opposite, and according to Kristen they worked through that and became close friends.
      3. Lala and James hooked up at the beginning of their relationships. It was actually Rachel that said they weren’t exclusive until she moved to Cali!
      4. Ariana and Lala hooked up in a car that Tom was DRIVING! If it was “cheating” why didn’t Tom speak up while it was happening??
      Where is the proof James punched Rachel’s new nose. 😂 And if he “punched” her, where were the bruises and swelling?? A punch would cause damage to her nose and Paul Nassif (doctor) examined her nose and his opinion was it was a result of the surgery!
      Do you even watch the show?? Everything you said is untrue!

  • @Sunshine134_
    @Sunshine134_ 7 месяцев назад +13

    Lala is so desperate for a storyline that she reached out to Rachel. How pathetic. She is not a girls girl to me. She is using her own situation with Randall to try to have a storyline with Rachel. Ridiculous.

  • @lfru8407
    @lfru8407 7 месяцев назад +33

    He’s lucky she didn’t take all his stuff and have a bonfire in the backyard with everything!

    • @candifardoe6124
      @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +2

      She's a better person than me cause that is exactly what I would have done if I was in her place.

    • @sandrajansen1736
      @sandrajansen1736 7 месяцев назад +1

      She would of caught charges

    • @jvictorian1617
      @jvictorian1617 6 месяцев назад

      Exactly she knew that worm with a mustache would rat out like his fling ratted out scheana

  • @makeitsokam
    @makeitsokam 7 месяцев назад +7

    This season is about to prove to me that General public would rather you deal with your grief by just being sad, small and alone crying in a corner. Because if you stand your ground, take back what’s yours, and do better for yourself, you’re seen as entitled and bitter.
    When Ariana is existing in the public eye succeeding, why are people so quick to say “she shouldn’t get all this fame, people get cheated on all the time, she’s not special” but when Tom is forcing himself in the public eye rarely do you see “he shouldn’t get all this fame, people cheat all the time, he’s not special.”
    Misogyny that’s why.

  • @lynettefarley537
    @lynettefarley537 7 месяцев назад +29

    Arianna needs to stay in that house as long as she can tolerate him. It’s a better position financially and she can keep an eye on everything. I had to leave my marital home when I served my narcissistic/sociopathic husband of 40 years. I had protection in place being legally married, however, I had to move around while he just stayed put and had no disruptions to his life. So infuriating. Arianna is doing what her attorney tells her to do. The lawyer is the only person she should listen too. Thanks for your recap. It’s like talking to a friend about the show. You are so smart and speak my speak ❤

    • @leigharmstrong9940
      @leigharmstrong9940 7 месяцев назад +2

      Lynette, THIS!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I commented elsewhere that Arianna should listen to her attorney & maybe a priest.😂👏🏼🫶🏼

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +1

      thank you so much for saying this❤

    • @ladyNorml
      @ladyNorml 7 месяцев назад

      No.
      Why drag this out when she's in a whole other relationship.
      This was almost a year later.
      She's admitting she's not wanting to move bc Tom might have Rachel over.
      Who cares?
      Take this as a learning lesson and move on.
      He's offering to buy her out.
      With taxes in California right now especially with the mansion tax, it's almost impossible to sell right now. So if he's going to buy her out, why not do that?
      If she's waiting for a major profit, she'll be waiting years.
      This isn't fair to her new bf.

  • @mariaphilomena1422
    @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +39

    Twitter is sympathizing with Tom! It’s disgusting!

    • @andreaarcher6046
      @andreaarcher6046 7 месяцев назад +11

      Why is everyone after Arianna to move out? Why are they ragging on Tom to move?

    • @mariaphilomena1422
      @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@andreaarcher6046 I’d like to see Josh Flagg show up and offer to list the house. I’m sure they both would walk away with a decent chunk of money. If Sheena finds places to live with her deadbeat husband, I’m sure Tom and Arianna would be able to go their separate ways on their own that would be pretty damn nice and affordable.

  • @HRaeN
    @HRaeN 7 месяцев назад +30

    Sandoval knows his narcissistic mask is completely off, and the world sees it. So he's going to accuse other people of being a narcissist.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +7

      yeah lol everyone is a narcissist except him

    • @ce7768
      @ce7768 7 месяцев назад

      Funny how he's one now bc he cheated.

    • @HRaeN
      @HRaeN 7 месяцев назад +5

      @ce7768 No no he's always been one. He has consistently, for last 10 seasons of the show, built himself up by putting down his costars. Katie, Stassi, James, Kristen, Jax. Although Jax made it way too easy because he's a narcissist too and wasn't as good at hiding it as Sandoval. And he wasn't able to keep all his indiscretions a secret. Tom hides behind all these grand gestures that he does for people. Then when they call him out on his bullshit he says, "But look at what I've done for you!" The man is warped.

    • @renaetaylor7528
      @renaetaylor7528 7 месяцев назад

      Both things can be true. Tom is narcissistic and so is all of the rest of the cast members. All have cheated, dated married men, lied, bullied, harassed, and judged each other for doing it. Sandoval and Schwartz are the only 2 who stood up for Scheana, Lala, Kristen, and James when the witches of WeHo and Jax treated them horribly. It's a vicious cylce of narcissism.

  • @pchygrl17
    @pchygrl17 7 месяцев назад +18

    💯 agree with your take on the house. After-show was disappointing from a friendship lens; even if they don’t understand the choice they could respect it.

  • @sadielady2379
    @sadielady2379 7 месяцев назад +14

    1st moving sucks! 2nd I am sure she spent a lot of time designing the space and personalizing it. I would have a hard time giving the place up. And Tom is manipulative turd ball that will say and do things to make him look good and the other person look bad or crazy. He has been doing it since season 1. He did it to Kristen (even though she was a little cray cray) Katie and Stassi. Tom (and society) can't stand a strong woman. I am all for Ariana being "petty" and standing her ground.

  • @mariaphilomena1422
    @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +50

    Scheana & Lala are super jealous of Ariana. Without the show, Lala has nothing. Without the show, Scheana has nothing AND a deadbeat husband.

    • @elle_aye112
      @elle_aye112 7 месяцев назад +2

      The shoe?

    • @mariaphilomena1422
      @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@elle_aye112 🤣🤣🤣 show 🙌

    • @Debster-di3gw
      @Debster-di3gw 7 месяцев назад +4

      Check out celebrity net worth. Brock has a net that is triple Scheana’s. Also Brock is caught up with his family down under. Brock has done the work in the fitness category. Along with some successful investments. He has completely turned it around.

    • @NeeNee2391
      @NeeNee2391 7 месяцев назад +4

      I wouldn’t call having two beautiful baby girls nothing but 👌

    • @Tina71899
      @Tina71899 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Debster-di3gw u can’t believe those things. He couldn’t even pay to marry her. He wanted Lala and her Ex to pay for it, then he was going to highjack James and Raquel’s Engagement weekend to go get married. Cheesy!

  • @makeitsokam
    @makeitsokam 7 месяцев назад +6

    When Nick Viall asked Tom “Do you think you’re entitled to her reasonableness?” I put that on a damn t-shirt. I am FLOORED at Lala’s approach. She is thinking about this from a completely different perspective with her drastically different situation. It is a SAD day indeed in the sisterhood when a scorned woman cannot even sit down to a smoothie with her girlfriend and complain about her evil ex without being emotionally dismissed. I don’t understand why Lala feels the need to be the “voice of reason” right now at all. Just because you’re over it, doesn’t mean Ariana has to be. She is doing the best she can with what she has and your job at the moment is to support and uplift her. Every piece of “advice” or opinion Lala has shared has been unsolicited. We don’t need to hear from you on this matter. Especially since you clearly do not have a grasp on how combined assets work.
    Also me and Scheana’s mom are about to be besties spinnin the block on Brock, because why be you, when you could just be silent? 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @intheknowglow
    @intheknowglow 7 месяцев назад +24

    Anne loves Ariana. Lala knows from experience that Tom is enjoying upsetting Ariana.

    • @mariaphilomena1422
      @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +6

      But Lala doesn’t know what equity is since she walked away from Randall without a dime I don’t think Lala should be giving anyone advice on any subject. She never But Lala doesn’t know what equity is since she walked away from Randall without a dime or ownership in anything. I don’t think Lala should be giving anyone advice on any subject. Parents don’t let your daughters be like Lala.

    • @intheknowglow
      @intheknowglow 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@mariaphilomena1422 true but Lala looking out for Ariana’s mental health, when she knows she struggled with it in the past, isn’t ill intent or siding with Sandoval. In fight or flight mode Lala took flight due to Ocean and Ariana took fight due to having a large invest to lose. Ideally neither woman would have such horrible partners that they trigger fight or flight.

  • @denajenks5342
    @denajenks5342 7 месяцев назад +4

    Sandoval could barely say he loved Raquel at the reunion, and he's now deeply in love with some model he'd only had a first date with, so he comes across as someone looking for a lifeline and very disingenuous.

  • @piapress2959
    @piapress2959 7 месяцев назад +8

    Side note, your not wrong about Tom! Everything Tom says is an act, He's acting. If he really loved Rachel he wouldn't be talking shit about her now. It just freaks me out the level of hate he has for Ariana.

  • @jennifertaigustafson3413
    @jennifertaigustafson3413 7 месяцев назад +51

    I totally get what Arianna said about not wanting kids but thinking differently after being with a good man. I never wanted kids until I met my husband. I had my first at 38 & 2nd at 43….now I love kids and wish I had more 😂

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +3

      awwww I love this!!!!

    • @karleet
      @karleet 7 месяцев назад +2

      This made me happy to read🤍

    • @mariaphilomena1422
      @mariaphilomena1422 7 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you! I mean look at Tom right now. He gave up alcohol, but he’s still doing mushrooms Molly and ecstasy probably cocaine too. He is unfit to care for anyone let alone a kid. Addictive personality

    • @sarahkessler2456
      @sarahkessler2456 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes!!!!!! It’s a women’s intuitive nature sometimes. My first marriage I was in he wanted children so badly all the while he was cheating on me (unbeknownst to me until later) and I just didn’t want them until later on. Now that I’m remarried to someone who treats me like a queen, I wanted them so bad with him. Sometimes you can just feel that hesitation.

    • @CarolContreras-bk2rm
      @CarolContreras-bk2rm 7 месяцев назад

      Wish I had a child

  • @julithompson8891
    @julithompson8891 7 месяцев назад +4

    Total understand Arianna's position. Lived with a party person and i was the one with stuff to do. Also, if a person screws your life up like he did??? Why shoyld i move? She's always been a smart woman. Too smart for Tom. Leave her be she's doing amazing. tom should be a stopover in life and shes getting the courage to be who she always was deep down. Coming in to your own after being held back is so empowering. I know this feeling very well. Im proid of her

  • @lfru8407
    @lfru8407 7 месяцев назад +15

    The gift of the running shoes to Schwartz was so typical of TS trying to be the great friend!

  • @Sunshine134_
    @Sunshine134_ 7 месяцев назад +3

    I don’t think Ariana was anything but polite to Ann. I would not have given in for him to have his birthday party there, Ariana was nicer than I would be. ✌🏼

  • @jazminmartinez05
    @jazminmartinez05 7 месяцев назад +10

    Bravo Emily👏🏽👏🏽🫡 You did fantastic recapping this episode! Valid points without being too biased or neutral. And your explanations were on point👌🏽👍🏽 Love ya Ems😎🖤🤍

  • @candifardoe6124
    @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +4

    Yup James and sandbutt had hashed out the Kristen incident. James wasn't really friends with the slime plus the fact that he and Kristen werent even living together anymore. James may have used his left behind condoms, but he didnt pull a Jax and did Kristen on the couch while slime slept in the next room. Slime does not get to rewrite history because he wants to.

  • @jazminmartinez05
    @jazminmartinez05 7 месяцев назад +9

    I don't feel bad for Ann either, she chose that job🤷🏽‍♀️ but I actually thought the check must be great if she's willing to put up with all that awkwardness, tension and pettiness😆

    • @fabfemme800
      @fabfemme800 7 месяцев назад

      Did she choose it after the scandal or before?

    • @candifardoe6124
      @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@fabfemme800I believe she's been his assistant for a while before the scandal broke out.

    • @fabfemme800
      @fabfemme800 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@candifardoe6124 okay if that’s true (which I suspected as well) it’s not that easy to just quit your job and get a new one. If that were the case a lot of people wouldn’t have the jobs that they have lol.

  • @karleet
    @karleet 7 месяцев назад +18

    After listening to Ann’s podcast, it’s nice to hear she’s # teamariana.
    You look so pretty with your hair up🤍

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +3

      thank you! and wait ann has a podcast?!

    • @karleet
      @karleet 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks you’re welcome and yes, it’s called ‘we signed a NDA’ 😘

  • @kelseygulledge6893
    @kelseygulledge6893 7 месяцев назад +4

    Brock calling Scheana’s OCD as her “inability to let things go” is giving PK calling Dorit’s PTSD “obnoxious”. So unsupportive

    • @sleekspeech
      @sleekspeech 7 месяцев назад +1

      That whole dynamic with the mom and Brock and everything seemed very toxic

  • @lindsayphillips4049
    @lindsayphillips4049 7 месяцев назад +2

    Arianna is flourishing professionally and the green monster is showing its teeth!

  • @iamheatheranne
    @iamheatheranne 7 месяцев назад +8

    Charlie from VPR said on Nick Viall's podcast that Brock is a "payroll husband". Meaning he plays a role and is along with the ride. That is more and more aparent. I see what she is saying!

  • @lindawarren6457
    @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад +4

    Lala Scheana stop being so freakin jealous

  • @nicolewhite1288
    @nicolewhite1288 7 месяцев назад +3

    Ty for understanding Ariana. So many podcasters are pressing her. Clearly she isn’t bitchy enough because Tom is still there. I trusted my ex husband & he “lost” our home. My baby was 1. A lot of men really suck. GO ARIANA - get your house or no one gets it!

  • @violabeth
    @violabeth 7 месяцев назад +2

    Sandavol seems to not learn from his mistakes and does not show any promise to, so I hope he leaves the show, and I’d be happy. I really don’t want Rachel back, she is not reality tv material.

  • @lindseylouise8312
    @lindseylouise8312 7 месяцев назад +6

    Are the producers trying to regain a sense of balance by releasing this season so many months afterwards to make people more sympathetic to Sandoval? I did find also have to check myself a couple times Ms remind myself that this was last summer.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +4

      no it's actually about this long between filming and release all the time. but honestly they need to figure out how to flip the shows faster. I think it's all about programming because they look at what else is going to air, but it's way too long from cameras up to when we see it.

  • @publicityiscandy
    @publicityiscandy 7 месяцев назад +7

    best analysis I've heard so far

  • @Shar.55
    @Shar.55 7 месяцев назад +8

    Brilliant! Love the rebrand and as always love the recap 👏

  • @jazminmartinez05
    @jazminmartinez05 7 месяцев назад +4

    Im all for Petty Ariana😏😆 but Im also one of those who thinks standing her ground on the house situation ain't worth risking her mental and well being. Nonetheless I do understand & respect her reasons and obstacles. Also I think its unfair that ppl don't question Tom's stubbornness for also staying in that house but have issues with Ariana doing the same. It just shows their double standards and hate for her😑

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +3

      TOTALLY!! tom isn't being bombarded with "why aren't you moving" comments

    • @suebuchert7797
      @suebuchert7797 7 месяцев назад +1

      Ariana has every right to be petty. Tom is a pos. Always has been. Neither will be nominated for sainthood that's for sure but he caused a lot of anger abd resentment so he needs to take his lumps. She will eventually let it go but if she's working through it while living her best life then Im all for it.

  • @lindadavis3728
    @lindadavis3728 7 месяцев назад +4

    Emily is putting way to much in to a birthday party. I am glad Tom Sandoval has reached out to be surrounded by others that enjoy his company. He threw a party and friends came to celebrate his birthday with him. It is ridiculous to think anything more than he just wanted to be around friends. All the money he makes goes towards paying his mortgage. Why not have a comfortable get together in his own home that he has ownership in.

    • @sleekspeech
      @sleekspeech 7 месяцев назад +2

      Almost everyone at that party was someone that he pays in some other aspect of his life so they couldn't say no...

    • @lindadavis3728
      @lindadavis3728 7 месяцев назад

      Was "Sleekspeech" at the get together. How does she know why the guests are there. Just vivious connotations. Again for James to come to Tom's house and think it is ok to make a scene against Tom was bad manners. What Tom's statement to James was "hey your in no position to cast judgemen"t and if you want to go there then lets revisit some situations James was caught in which was not a good look for James since at the time he was a good friend of Tom. James just deesculated his #1 position in the Katie, Ariana group way down to 5th position. I love to see Tom Sandoval sticking up for himself, not in a hostile style but rather matter of fact.

    • @sleekspeech
      @sleekspeech 7 месяцев назад +1

      It was on camera? Every person there is in his band or his vocal coach or the band manager, people. He pays. The only people that were not on his payroll in some way were Billie Lee, Schwartz, and the guy Brett who wants to be on TV so he started drama with Katie last year

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +1

      linda is being intentionally ignorant and insensitive because she thinks it makes her look cool. emily is doing just fine.

  • @prairieflower7967
    @prairieflower7967 7 месяцев назад +2

    Anyone bored with Vanderpump so far? I just don’t like any of these people.

  • @evelinel.9827
    @evelinel.9827 7 месяцев назад +8

    Love your recaps Emily!!!

  • @violabeth
    @violabeth 7 месяцев назад +2

    I agree 💯% about Arianna, and Lala has proven to be not too knowledgeable about home ownership with a partner. Hopefully Lala and Scheanna will wake up and support their good friend. And yes, Ariana is the queen of the show, and there would be none without her storyline.

  • @MonicaPfeiffer-p4q
    @MonicaPfeiffer-p4q 7 месяцев назад +2

    If what James did to Tom was so hurtful and traumatic, then how tf could he do that to Ariana? Tom bringing up this story about James just reinforces the damage Tom has done to those around him, and yet, he is not sorry or taking responsibility.

  • @piapress2959
    @piapress2959 7 месяцев назад +6

    I told Y'all Tom was on that stuff. Pure uncut crack! Personally i would have let Tom celebrate his 56 birthday, because your only 56 once! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jg-ez4xf
      @jg-ez4xf 7 месяцев назад +1

      when he was looking at his assistant his eyes were bulging out his head lol

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +2

      omg not 56th 😂

    • @piapress2959
      @piapress2959 7 месяцев назад

      @@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks The man is 56. He's been 40 since season 1. Stop it Tom gets some help.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +1

      hahahahaha@@piapress2959

    • @piapress2959
      @piapress2959 7 месяцев назад

      @@shesspeakingwithemilyhanks Just say! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ShanCamp69
    @ShanCamp69 7 месяцев назад +1

    i was over ariana long before any of this started... i mean cmon, howd you not expect the pos narcissist that is tom to not do the same thing he always does, which is cheat and think only of himself...considering ariana was a product of his cheating on kristen in the first place... the smugness ariana exuded when she first joined the cast bothered me... granted she did soften my feelings towards her over time, and i did feel bad for her when id see her support the hell outta tom and how neglectfully hed treat her in return when he used to treat her like he was obsessed with her initially and it kinda appeared like she could hardly stand to be with him...i mean ariana's a smart chick how did she not see this coming and is so surprised? my theory/prediction is shes gonna milk tf outta this

  • @amythomson851
    @amythomson851 7 месяцев назад +2

    I think she should be allowed to be angry!

  • @MVP50
    @MVP50 7 месяцев назад +5

    You do understand that Ariana has a choice right?. How many woman start from zero just to get away from their partner. Forget the money & the house. For my own sanity, I would walk away, lawyer up & move on. There are no kids thank God. She just rather be miserable & make others miserable like she has always done.
    I am not by any means defending Tom, but she has the power to move & start over, with that house or without it. My piece of mind has no price. Why are people cuddling her?
    I honestly think that she knows that as long as she keep up the “ poor me, poor me” attitude, the more people will want to use her for popularity ( obviously no talent). But people right now see right through her. I never trusted or liked her before, during, or after. she is insufferable. Right up there with the Kardashians. 🤮

  • @kateteve
    @kateteve 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’m mostly team Ariana, but she is coming across a bit bitter and petty. I’d rather see her heal and move on. I seriously wonder if with her new relationship and all of her business opportunities, maybe she bypassed the healing phase. A truly healed person would leave that house, financials be damned.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад

      I think your timeline is a little off here. we are watching them 3 months after everything went down. that's not a long time at all. in real time, as in february 2024, she has moved out. you want to watch her heal but this is healing. she's working through it only 3 months after. we will probably watch her heal more and more throughout the season. you gotta give her a little grace man

  • @iamheatheranne
    @iamheatheranne 7 месяцев назад +7

    I sympathize for Arianna but at the same time she chose to be with him for 9 years. I can't fathom being with that loser for almost a decade. Ewww!

    • @sofia95500
      @sofia95500 7 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. But I think that when you lose a parent (or someone very important ), you get very very attached to the person you are with or that supported you at the time. They become associated with safety, and you stay in relationships wayyy longer than you would have otherwise. Unfortunately I have seen this with a lot of friends.

    • @lindawarren6457
      @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад +2

      It is not that simple - she was in love with him and thought that he was in love with her … she thought that they both wanted the relationship. He was gaslighting her … for yearsssss - put yourself in her shoes.

  • @ajensen366
    @ajensen366 7 месяцев назад +3

    Babies listen to sound machines on blast. They are great for relaxation.... not war fair.

  • @marmtzMX
    @marmtzMX 7 месяцев назад +1

    Can we normalize not self diagnose? That's not OCD, probably not even anxiety. She's a Mom, se should be worried 😒

  • @misspatti3988
    @misspatti3988 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤Sandoval wants complete control over Swartz, I think he influenced Swartz and his opinion of Katie…Swartz is weak

  • @gazelle2246
    @gazelle2246 4 месяца назад +1

    Why have Scheana and Lala not thought once that Sandoval should be the one to leave?? Man-up dude and gtfo 😤 They are both being awaful friends this season. And it seems like they are editing this season to make Tom look better than Ariana. It's really pissing me off! lol

  • @Tamika-dq6ze
    @Tamika-dq6ze 2 месяца назад +1

    Tom and production are full of 💩. They didn’t talk about all the times Ariana had her friends there to check on her and they weren’t even having a party but Tom would kick them out. He even told her that he’d come down and rip his TV off the wall if he hears it when Ariana and a friend were watching it while he was in the gym. He was lying for the cameras, and Lala and Scheana didn’t care because they need the show

  • @Rayna429
    @Rayna429 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why is everyone feeling sorry for Ann?? She's just fine. She looks like she has the personality to navigate that crazy situation. She's giggling all the way to the bank, I promise you.

  • @lindawarren6457
    @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад +2

    Why can’t he have the party at his barrrrrr??????

  • @CarolContreras-bk2rm
    @CarolContreras-bk2rm 7 месяцев назад +2

    Soo sick of ariana, she is a bully

  • @dennislincoln2016
    @dennislincoln2016 7 месяцев назад +1

    Can I just Lala and Scheana are jealous and being petty. Also Ariana is standing up for herself against a narcissist. I don’t think like with of them. They need to get over themselves

  • @angiewilliamson5103
    @angiewilliamson5103 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think they are butthurt that Arianna was cheated on, she wasnt cheating!!!!! They are so jealous that they cant hold in their ugly about it!! Get over it already!!!! The situations are totally different!!!!!!

  • @Chicoveintiuno7671
    @Chicoveintiuno7671 7 месяцев назад +1

    Haters are gonna hate! They mad they couldn’t level up like Ariana did. 😂

  • @viktorwhitehall5761
    @viktorwhitehall5761 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is my favorite channel. You betta work, Em!

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад

      THANK YOU!!! omg it's been a minute since i've gotten a "you better work" and now I feel like I could tackle anything lol thank you!!

  • @katekack108
    @katekack108 7 месяцев назад +1

    She knows what half the mortgage payment is I would think.

  • @kandykaye9981
    @kandykaye9981 7 месяцев назад +2

    It’s his house too!🙄 Just heard a podcast talking about all the parties A has had since the break-up. These one sided Ariana champions make women look bad. It’s ridiculous.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад

      I don't think you're doing much for women with this comment.

    • @suebuchert7797
      @suebuchert7797 7 месяцев назад

      Hahaha! How do you figure shes making women look bad? I thinks shes showing women that they can go on and be stronger after a break up. I don't know why ppl are giving Ariana a hard time. She has said publicly that she knows shes not the only one whos been cheated on. She didnt go to the opportunities, they came to her and I dont think any of the other ladies on the show would have turned the offers down if the opportunity had come to them. Scheana and Lauren are so hungry to be noticed. I'm surpised scheana or Lauren can pull themselves away from loving themselves on their mirrors to notice what anyone else is doing.

  • @sandrajansen1736
    @sandrajansen1736 7 месяцев назад +1

    Parties didnt bother her before. She'd be right in the middle of them.

  • @karenlebouef6010
    @karenlebouef6010 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m over Ariana, what did she do that was so great.she got cheated on by her boyfriend, she didn’t find a cure for world peace 🙄 Besides that she’s not the only woman that’s been cheated on. get over it already Ariana, you’re not super woman 🙄

    • @ShanCamp69
      @ShanCamp69 7 месяцев назад

      lol hear hear!

  • @Artexpression91
    @Artexpression91 7 месяцев назад +1

    For the life of me, I could not understand why he would want to have a party in the house because it’s boxes and shit everywhere!! I mean there are stuff piled up in corners just packed in there. Why would you wanna throw a party for people to see the destruction of it all it’s so embarrassing. 😬😬😬

  • @pamelabazan421
    @pamelabazan421 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why can’t he have a party at his house?

  • @denajenks5342
    @denajenks5342 7 месяцев назад +3

    It is his house as well. If this is his normal behavior, why did she think that would change? If she's adamant about remaining in the house, and refuses to sell it to him, that has to keep her spiraling and being triggered. I would leave. I understand her anger, but is being petty, in this regard, really serving her best interests?

  • @kevinrudy
    @kevinrudy 7 месяцев назад

    I think thats the genuine Ariana breaking out. I dunno i believe she has just been acting for sympathy. Ive always thought she was so completely unbearable in past seasons.

  • @Rayna429
    @Rayna429 7 месяцев назад

    You're like the voice in my head watching this show. I can see you 'twerking on the fence'! We hate to like Tom. But you can't take your eyes off him. His ideas (except for Raquel-sitz) very rarely miss. The band, his style, his interior decor, the restaurant are all genius level. Now his shenanigans with Raquel almost tanked all that but his esthetic is undeniable....Also his choice to go on that 'boot camp' show for redemption/clarity was yet another genius move. That trip looked insanely scary.

  • @thelmajohnson4476
    @thelmajohnson4476 7 месяцев назад +1

    They are all cheaters

  • @annekusmich8919
    @annekusmich8919 7 месяцев назад

    the green eyed monster is alive and well with Lala and Scheana! They call Ariana their friend ...? I don't get it. Especially Scheana. Really? You want Ariana to move out ... ? What about Tom --- tell him to move out. He's the cheater and liar. You two need to get over yourselves and support your friend and stop being so jealous that she is doing so well.

  • @ladyNorml
    @ladyNorml 7 месяцев назад

    Idk I feel like it's been a year move on.
    You're in a whole other relationship and not wanting to move bc she's worried he'll have Rachel over.
    Why does she care still.
    Take this as a learning experience and move on.
    She was mean before and watching back the season she got with Tom and the way she treated Kristin...
    She was just nasty to her.
    I'm not even talking about her getting with him while he's still in a relationship... I'm speaking on the way she treated Kristin after the fact.
    Karma is a real one.
    I've watched since season one. So when this happened I went back like many did and re-watched.
    Arianna was pretty awful.

  • @selinedirroco1860
    @selinedirroco1860 7 месяцев назад

    Everybody's over Arianna. You never win when you play dirty; She tried to destroy Tom Sandoval and miserably failed, so she's butt hurt now that the table has turned and everyone turned against her because she doesn't have a crew of people backing her up. Now she knows how Tom felt, when she was and still is trying to take Tom down. I hope Tom sues for defamation.

  • @prairieflower7967
    @prairieflower7967 7 месяцев назад

    I get that you guys want to cheerlead Ariana and support her but the fact that she is still living with Tom can’t be healthy. Having to deal with him. I think maybe it’s unpopular opinion but he should move on quickly for her own happiness and peace.

  • @kianaCAB
    @kianaCAB 7 месяцев назад

    I think we're all over Ariana, but I think it's because we're looking at it like, geesh get over it already, it's been however much time, and we forget that for them it's still in the now, because they're filming almost immediately after it came out, so it's still new and feelings are still hurt!

  • @acardona49
    @acardona49 7 месяцев назад

    I heard of ride or die, but I would not stop being friends with someone base on one cheating on the other. No one is perfect we all have faults and Ariana was done a solid really. Move on and stop milking it already....milk is getting sour for real.

  • @erinreamensnyder2248
    @erinreamensnyder2248 7 месяцев назад +1

    What confuses me about the whole money argument that Arianna doesn’t want to pay rent plus a mortgage so they could live apart- according to Tom (which, eh, debatable source) she hasn’t paid the mortgage in 8 months or something anyway? Idk

    • @lindawarren6457
      @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад +1

      Ariana was actually overpaying Tom as she was making a check out directly to Tom and then she asked Tom to give her a breakdown of her portion that she was paying and he could not come present it to her so she was overpaying for years - very shady and then his cheating news came out.

  • @endorasmom6460
    @endorasmom6460 7 месяцев назад +1

    As someone who’s worked jobs like that and continues to…you can take it because it offers you a great story later on, and something more. Whatever it is for Anne IDK, but for me it’s an honest paycheck with insurance.

  • @Artexpression91
    @Artexpression91 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m a firm believer in different people bring out different attributes in us so if you are consistently dating toxic men who you cant pick a good quality about them when it comes to having a future marriage and children we’re both parents are involved 50/50 b/c you both agreed it’s what yall signed up to do. If someone you’re seeing can’t give you a clear picture of what those ideas will look like. it kind of tanks the whole idea in general, and it makes you not wanna do it. It’s like all or nothing mantra..

  • @pattyolson1864
    @pattyolson1864 7 месяцев назад +2

    Arianna is pushing the mean because it’s popular it’s been the best thing ever happened to her, she is doing very good & taking advantage of all of it & talking about kids or marriage is just to get to Tom. She never truly loved him or she couldn’t watch him go through all this & laugh. She always talked down to him.

  • @robertasaujon2680
    @robertasaujon2680 7 месяцев назад

    Arianna your choice to stay in the house where not paying anything your name isn't on the deed. Arianna is a bore always has been now any news is good for u cancel the show already

  • @sildor3
    @sildor3 7 месяцев назад +1

    Unrelated Emily, but you look STUNNING, this bun is giving me life! ❤️

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +1

      THIS MESSY BUN WAS EVERYTHING!! I literally try to do a messy bun every other day and they NEVER work. This one happened and I said DO NOT TOUCH IT JUST RECORD!

  • @veracity-
    @veracity- 7 месяцев назад

    Yesss Emily! Idk why people are babying Ann (I saw people calling her the sweetheart of the season). She's a full grown adult doing a job. Shes an assistant who should be used to relayng correspondence between two parties?? Idk why she was so awkward about it and acting like a kicked puppy everytime she talked to Ariana?? Like girl, it's your job?? And Ariana wasnt even being as nasty as she could've been.
    Ann was acting like it was her birthday party that Ariana was saying no to, lmao. Idky she couldnt just plainly and simply relay Tom's message, get her response and relay it back to Tom.

    • @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks
      @shesspeakingwithemilyhanks  7 месяцев назад +1

      omg I so agree. the way she has to giggle nervously and not just spit it out. but I guess she got hired in 2020! according to her podcast. isn't that surprising? more like, why would tom need an assistant at that point lol.

  • @Artexpression91
    @Artexpression91 7 месяцев назад

    Is it just me or does it look like Ann is scared of Ariana like she’s very timid.

  • @pinkunicorn30335
    @pinkunicorn30335 7 месяцев назад

    I highly doubt sheana feels that way !! Reading the title of the video !!

  • @dawnw8745
    @dawnw8745 7 месяцев назад

    Ann is now Ariana's assistant and posted a pic in a Team Ariana cheerleader outfit.

  • @Kikithewildling
    @Kikithewildling 7 месяцев назад

    Wow this didn’t age well. Ann now works for Arianna.

  • @candifardoe6124
    @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +2

    It's not surprising that Lala and Scheanna are jealous of Ariana. She's always been a hustler outside of the show. She's acted, done the cocktail book to name a couple that she didn't really let bleed into the show. All Lala and Scheanna have is the show. They wouldnt be known or relevant without it. They both profitted off the scandal with Ariana's blessing. So they can both go pound sand and leave Ariana alone to feel whatever She's feeling and act however she is.

  • @Desaree1
    @Desaree1 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great title and ME2!!!
    Many women go through breakups.
    She's acting like 20 year-oldShe's In her Late 30s. It's time She realizes that she is an individual who is treated cheated on by an individual The whole world don't have to hate The cheater Much less is close friends and Cast mates.
    GROW UP AIRIANA

  • @barbriley583
    @barbriley583 7 месяцев назад +6

    Nah…I’m w Tom on this…they still live together…she doesn’t want the house…she wants to win an argument…they both have issues but when has arianna talked about her role in the demise of their relationship??? I’ll hold your beer

    • @chelseabradley2118
      @chelseabradley2118 7 месяцев назад +10

      The house is probably worth more than he’s offering her, and if he would’ve not had an affair I’m sure she would’ve broken things off amicably, she doesn’t have to explain why he cheated on her 😅

    • @andreaarcher6046
      @andreaarcher6046 7 месяцев назад

      He probably only offered her the money she paid on the mortgage and nothing else. @@chelseabradley2118

    • @karleet
      @karleet 7 месяцев назад +4

      She wants to win the argument he started!

    • @lindawarren6457
      @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад +1

      I will tell you one thing - if Ariana wanted out of the relationship she would have freakin told him right away instead of cheating and gaslighting

    • @lindawarren6457
      @lindawarren6457 7 месяцев назад

      He needs to agree to sell the house and move on with his life. They both have issues and so do you and so does everyone but guess what ? Ariana would not lived a lie for 10 months - 10 years …. If she was done with the relationship, she would have told him and got out. Sandoval cheated for yearssssss. This is more than cheating - this is someone who set out to do whatever he could do to hurt someone in the most evil sadistic way possible and still won’t own it. He cheated over the years and set out to set it up for people to believe he did all this stuff due to her bad treatment (if it was so bad he sure stayed for years). He wanted her off the show. He wanted her to fail. He also could have cheated with anyone - ANYONE So why did he cheat with Rachel - the person she was so close to? Why have sex with Rachel in her home while Ariana was in the home while she was grieving over the death of her Grandmother?People need to stop being so jealous of Ariana. Ariana should be able to freakin do whatever she wants with the house. The most fairest action to take is to sell that house and everyone gets their correct split - end of. If he wants to repurchase it that is on him …

  • @candifardoe6124
    @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +2

    Totally off topic, however your eye colour is really popping in this recap!😍

  • @robertasaujon2680
    @robertasaujon2680 7 месяцев назад

    What happened to nothing about her😂

  • @Jeng6616
    @Jeng6616 7 месяцев назад

    Ariana chooses to stay in the house.

  • @lg4372
    @lg4372 7 месяцев назад

    Brock was awful. It was gross

  • @Hi_Felisha
    @Hi_Felisha 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think Ariana is trying to be firm with Tom through Ann, not necessarily being rude to Ann. All of this is uncomfortable because of what Tom did and Ariana is allowed to be something other than charming and sweet and pleasing, especially being only 3 months out from when this was revealed to her. Tom couldn’t have the party at one of his “friends” homes? Where does Billie live? Just sayin…

  • @sleekspeech
    @sleekspeech 7 месяцев назад

    I also 100% agree with her stance on not wanting to have kids with Tom. You can love someone and be in love with someone and just not see that path for yourselves because you know that he likes to have parties until 6:00 a.m. and he's always out and it will all be on you. She wasn't trying to change him. She was just understanding that that wasn't going to be a part of their lives and I'm sure having animals together she's had to take on the majority of their care. That said, when she says she can think about having kids with Dan, I think what she means is in the future. Someone LIKE him. She doesn't see it as being something she doesn't want 100% like she did with Tom. Anyone who doesn't understand that clearly doesn't have children or didn't have children with an unsupported partner. I have...

  • @dianneplus4736
    @dianneplus4736 7 месяцев назад

    isn't Scheana going through post partum OCD during the filming of this season -- think she has a lot more going on then having to stand up for Ariana because of Lala's bulling. She is probably grateful that LaLa's abuse isn't directed at her, after being attacked by Rachel ..

  • @Artexpression91
    @Artexpression91 7 месяцев назад

    Not for nothing but that scene with Sheena and her mom and Brock and Tory was a bit cringe because Sheena kind of mimics the behavior of someone who possibly could have been (SA) as a young child or been around someone who was hence the reason why she doesn’t wanna leave summer moon alone with anyone else. I think something from her past has triggered her and that’s why she has his compulsive disorder now.

  • @miaclark1043
    @miaclark1043 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why is everyone looking over that James was like 24 when he was cheating. Tom was almost 40 years old. Maturity counts

  • @sandrajansen1736
    @sandrajansen1736 7 месяцев назад

    Its his house too

  • @candifardoe6124
    @candifardoe6124 7 месяцев назад +1

    Scheanna and Lala need to shut it aboht Ariana's finances. A good chunk of it would tied up in the house and the upside down mortgage.