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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024

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  • @blairgivens1014
    @blairgivens1014 Год назад +14068

    Wait...did he legit say "get over it"? how the eff would he feel if it were him that was constantly cat called? How would he feel if it were him that was constantly harassed and verbally assaulted? Does he have a sister? A mom? How would he feel if they were in this position? I bet bottom dollar that his words and thoughts would change if it was someone he loved in this position.

    • @edits.by_clove
      @edits.by_clove Год назад

      Petition for 📌 🔝
      Sign here ⬇️

    • @lovelysavagequeen._.
      @lovelysavagequeen._. Год назад +364

      Exactly that was my reaction like literally what horrible life for us women who just want to be left alone

    • @luciferia.1313
      @luciferia.1313 Год назад +230

      They don't care. They never will. They won't get any consequenzes, pain or in the worst case, they will not get pregnant or die so why bother? They get their ego boost and pleasure and thats enough.

    • @Blackskull007Yt
      @Blackskull007Yt Год назад +112

      Bro you are so correct keep up the good work and words for women

    • @sofiajean6430
      @sofiajean6430 Год назад +87

      For real like is women go through a lot in this world it’s like we were only here to make babies and clean hoses but we’re not we get educations and learn things we have fun but when they don’t get what they want they leave us

  • @Mikkytherat
    @Mikkytherat Год назад +2557

    At my school the boys have to follow the same dress code as the girls because our principals a girl boss and sometimes the boys would roll up there shorts to make fun of us and the teachers yelled at them💀💀
    Edit: Omg my school just got voted the most distinguished school in my state💀

    • @LailaChap2
      @LailaChap2 Год назад +99

      Good.

    • @sybersisters3688
      @sybersisters3688 Год назад +113

      Love this rule! “Girl Boss” LoL.

    • @Brianna-mw7io
      @Brianna-mw7io Год назад +58

      I love that rule

    • @BL_Lover777
      @BL_Lover777 11 месяцев назад +54

      As she should ❤

    • @CobraBluFrogz
      @CobraBluFrogz 11 месяцев назад +46

      That principal is amazing, if you still go there, can you say thanks so much.

  • @courtneyburris1490
    @courtneyburris1490 Год назад +363

    I really just wanna find the person who wrote "omg get over it already" and really just show them what we have to go through.. my mom and dad door dash I go with them and my mom tells me to cover up all the time just because old men are staring me down. Ir following me. Or just because my mom doesn't trust them. It's honestly so annoying and disgusting. And getting cat called is just a while other story

    • @GreekmusicalzLov3r
      @GreekmusicalzLov3r Год назад +6

      Same 😢

    • @CrazyGal4life
      @CrazyGal4life Год назад +3

      It say the user actually I think it’s Ashton Highfill’s I’ll see if I can find it

    • @Kay52662R
      @Kay52662R Год назад +3

      Yeah I've been told so many times by schools to cover up and because of that I'm insecure about it.😔

    • @UrFavLaysChips1234
      @UrFavLaysChips1234 Год назад +2

      Same

    • @aytenibrahim2052
      @aytenibrahim2052 11 месяцев назад +6

      I found him 😂

  • @hametdguru7706
    @hametdguru7706 9 месяцев назад +87

    It is wonderful how she always stands up for us girls

  • @JenBea19
    @JenBea19 Год назад +1288

    I love all the songs you do it is ridiculous us girls have to cover up but boys can wear whatever 😡

    • @EaterOfFlesh
      @EaterOfFlesh Год назад

      Boys can't wear what they want. Goofy

    • @deimosisbored5125
      @deimosisbored5125 Год назад +16

      nah we cant exactly be naked half the time too
      we wear what we want cuz we wear like 3 things for 5 years before changing it
      we are simple creatures

    • @haisleydinius
      @haisleydinius Год назад +1

      @@deimosisbored5125simple creatures that like to touch women

    • @polarstorm1424
      @polarstorm1424 Год назад +38

      @@deimosisbored5125you could walk around shirtless all you want. You don’t understand wearing a “perfectly normal” outfit and people saying horrible things about you and your body

    • @deimosisbored5125
      @deimosisbored5125 Год назад +4

      @@polarstorm1424 describe perfectly normal outfits
      the main reason you guys are being cat called and shamed is because yall expose half of yourself
      (i also apologize for my english

  • @midnightultramoon7279
    @midnightultramoon7279 Год назад +2911

    this guy should live his life as a girl

  • @PANWAD69
    @PANWAD69 11 месяцев назад +910

    He should be the one who has to get over it. It's how she feels

    • @MichelleHarutunian
      @MichelleHarutunian 11 месяцев назад +4

      I totally agree

    • @Ellapauza
      @Ellapauza 11 месяцев назад +3

      Me too but I love the song so much

    • @Heaven4yall
      @Heaven4yall 11 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry for ruining your 555 lke😢 I kinda made it 556 likes 😢

    • @BeatrixGaming-Bea
      @BeatrixGaming-Bea 11 месяцев назад +2

      I agree

    • @michellemurtagh5880
      @michellemurtagh5880 11 месяцев назад +2

      I5s not just her wio feels it😔

  • @shantacools2570
    @shantacools2570 9 месяцев назад +39

    I know right that's what we needed for a girl to stand up for she self

  • @sraelorielyortiz8409
    @sraelorielyortiz8409 10 месяцев назад +3087

    She gets so much hate for no reason
    People who support
    👇🏽

  • @XCookieEaterX
    @XCookieEaterX 11 месяцев назад +930

    I remember when I was at a mall, I saw a guy catcalling a woman with her little kid. She kept saying she was uncomfortable and the guy was like "It was compliment" Like really dude? The kid then pulled the guy's shorts down and started screaming in his ear. It was the best thing I've ever seen. Needless to say, the guy left in embarrassment. God bless that kid.

  • @MillieJo-t4j
    @MillieJo-t4j 9 месяцев назад +31

    Thank you for giving this message to the world

  • @TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth
    @TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth 11 месяцев назад +775

    “Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons.” -Lala❤️
    SORRY IF IT’S WRONG😭
    Okay ik this isn’t much.. but this is the most liked I’ve ever had- TYSM FOR 144 LIKES!

    • @bobobob3036
      @bobobob3036 11 месяцев назад +15

      It's not wrong that's what she said

    • @TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth
      @TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth 11 месяцев назад +14

      @@bobobob3036 phew, thought I was gonna get a bunch of hate saying that’s not right ☠️ thanks for letting me know☺️

    • @bobobob3036
      @bobobob3036 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth mhm it's np😁😊

    • @jonathanzaworski1739
      @jonathanzaworski1739 11 месяцев назад +11

      This is so true!

    • @Katie-Angel
      @Katie-Angel 11 месяцев назад +9

      Yeah

  • @officially.st4r
    @officially.st4r 11 месяцев назад +631

    “Instead of “protecting” your daughters, teach your sons”
    -lala

  • @Callamae251
    @Callamae251 Год назад +308

    He be the one that wouldn’t control himself

  • @Em.p666
    @Em.p666 9 месяцев назад +457

    This is so true and so nice for the girls
    People who agree
    👇

  • @Joemama-zy4vg
    @Joemama-zy4vg 11 месяцев назад +570

    Girls who got mad af that he said omg get over it
    👇🏼

    • @BeatrixGaming-Bea
      @BeatrixGaming-Bea 11 месяцев назад +10

      Me like he should get over it 😡

    • @JulissaZavala-n3u
      @JulissaZavala-n3u 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yaassssssss

    • @horses4you
      @horses4you 11 месяцев назад +3

      ME😡😡

    • @Thebest_kid
      @Thebest_kid 11 месяцев назад +3

      Me😡

    • @Rehinaxclara
      @Rehinaxclara 11 месяцев назад +5

      Don't use them being upset for likes and yes I did get extremely mad

  • @Gunley
    @Gunley 10 месяцев назад +235

    Bro this song just hits different its so relatable!

    • @Rockchomp
      @Rockchomp 10 месяцев назад +1

      Girl or boy your right it it relatable because girls like us go through this stuff and it is stupid and like she says in the song they should consider trying to control there actions

    • @Monkeman4
      @Monkeman4 10 месяцев назад

      Men are woman in anyway we’re not taking anything from you. I just hate how woman are just like. Oh yeah men are making us suffer even though we give you we gave you right we gave you Control of our lives and people better than us. You have way more things to trust you woman so I understand why you’re making it sound like your life is so horrible

    • @Kingcrab1234
      @Kingcrab1234 10 месяцев назад

      Fr

  • @thierryplayz
    @thierryplayz Год назад +629

    The nerve they have to say “get over it already” when they’ve never had to deal with being sexualized for every single thing they do.

    • @Lyrenaie
      @Lyrenaie 11 месяцев назад +6

      Me personally as a girl I've never been catcalled or sexualized but I'm sure it will happen soon.

    • @aPerson6257_
      @aPerson6257_ 11 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@Lyrenaiewell, you shouldn't hope for it

    • @Mr_can_doVR
      @Mr_can_doVR 11 месяцев назад +6

      Y’all we get this all the time it’s not just you women

    • @rampagedaughter7947
      @rampagedaughter7947 11 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@Mr_can_doVRRight, except the only difference being men lean more towards acting on those desires.... Not saying all men obviously but statistically women are more at risk for violent SA.

    • @Yourfavegirlkay
      @Yourfavegirlkay 11 месяцев назад +5

      Being girls and woman is hard there is no get over it!

  • @lyricmyers110
    @lyricmyers110 9 месяцев назад +317

    Boys have to start respecting girls
    👇 who agrees with me

    • @noahsaltzman5876
      @noahsaltzman5876 9 месяцев назад +1

      No we don’t have to

    • @marycallon8358
      @marycallon8358 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@noahsaltzman5876
      You do u less the girls are being rude

    • @Yukiiiiii_110
      @Yukiiiiii_110 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@noahsaltzman5876 why?

    • @BellaTheDoggie
      @BellaTheDoggie 9 месяцев назад

      @@Yukiiiiii_110bc guys will cry when the get complemented and girls will cry when they dont

    • @Elshadine1
      @Elshadine1 9 месяцев назад +15

      Everyone needs to start respecting everyone!

  • @Gracynsosik
    @Gracynsosik 10 месяцев назад +262

    Thanks for standing up for girls! Girl power

    • @samgibson9477
      @samgibson9477 9 месяцев назад +5

      YES

    • @gweedo1067able
      @gweedo1067able 9 месяцев назад +6

      GIRL POWER

    • @WyattNorton11
      @WyattNorton11 9 месяцев назад +2

      Ay men have it bad to. Just not the same way all the time. 💀💀💀💀

    • @HannahSnow59
      @HannahSnow59 9 месяцев назад +3

      YESSSS

    • @Ruffoish
      @Ruffoish 9 месяцев назад +1

      Girl power

  • @jdsoto08
    @jdsoto08 10 месяцев назад +43

    my anxiety went from 0 to 1000 when i saw the train tracks

  • @myrabelubanan2671
    @myrabelubanan2671 10 месяцев назад +597

    People who supports
    👇

  • @oluchimadubuike4289
    @oluchimadubuike4289 9 месяцев назад +112

    Btw ppl who support her😊
    👇🏽

    • @daryunnansen9607
      @daryunnansen9607 9 месяцев назад +1

      I suppport her because some boy's won't stop but we can't control them.

    • @Titancam_13
      @Titancam_13 9 месяцев назад

      I dont

    • @LailaAlyse-qv3ut
      @LailaAlyse-qv3ut 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Titancam_13 shut up no one asked for a haters opinion now go back to second grade little boy

    • @bombozao27
      @bombozao27 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Titancam_13 Good for you.

    • @Cjthepickle395
      @Cjthepickle395 8 месяцев назад

      Don’t

  • @laibarboli8318
    @laibarboli8318 10 месяцев назад +346

    Finally a girl stands up for all of the girls in the world that are getting bulled ❤❤ 👏 👏 👏😊

    • @Lexithebozz
      @Lexithebozz 9 месяцев назад

      Good that's me❤*boys🖕🖕*
      *girls❤✍I'm a girl💅!

    • @Willow-p6k
      @Willow-p6k 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yay I used to get bullied cuz i couldn’t talk good

    • @_Meee_831...
      @_Meee_831... 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yayy ✨

    • @NotPringle
      @NotPringle 9 месяцев назад

      Bullied*

    • @gweedo1067able
      @gweedo1067able 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes ❤❤❤

  • @chlxeee7560
    @chlxeee7560 Год назад +201

    but yet guys can wear grey sweatpants, crop tops, booty shorts, tank tops, and probably go shirtless in gym class ._. how is tht fair? (btw i love skydxddy so much fr her songs are amazing)

    • @littleralsei07
      @littleralsei07 11 месяцев назад +6

      No boys can’t wear that in gym class they also dress code the males that’s why they give them PE uniforms to wear same with females. At least at my high school

    • @BelleLoves_Jesus
      @BelleLoves_Jesus 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@littleralsei07 it’s different for each school like but fr

    • @AizanOG
      @AizanOG 11 месяцев назад +2

      Its annoying for guys too theu make us look like perverts and weirdos

    • @BBL_DRIZZY.334
      @BBL_DRIZZY.334 11 месяцев назад +2

      Fr tho

    • @KaiAOL
      @KaiAOL 11 месяцев назад +2

      Ikr- wait, know skydxddy too? 😃

  • @Chicken_rat123
    @Chicken_rat123 11 месяцев назад +253

    LETS GO QUEEN!!! That’s what I’m talking about!!!! We NEED moor people like this!!!

    • @jasonwilson5630
      @jasonwilson5630 11 месяцев назад +1

      I know support the girls

    • @Eastpark459
      @Eastpark459 11 месяцев назад

      More*

    • @ariannajohn6792
      @ariannajohn6792 11 месяцев назад +1

      I love this

    • @Imjayfrfr
      @Imjayfrfr 11 месяцев назад

      Is this focused on all men or sum? Jus curious

    • @roylamcdaniel7451
      @roylamcdaniel7451 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@Imjayfrfrsome because most boy's/men aren't that way

  • @melissastubelt7169
    @melissastubelt7169 9 месяцев назад +59

    Just let us girls do what we want
    👇if you agree

    • @mr.man.2910
      @mr.man.2910 8 месяцев назад +2

      Let the men do what they want like going of a sinking Ship First it was prob the men that Built the Ship💀

    • @georgedewet1919
      @georgedewet1919 8 месяцев назад +3

      I agree

    • @georgedewet1919
      @georgedewet1919 8 месяцев назад +3

      I always get call by e all the boys in school

    • @georgedewet1919
      @georgedewet1919 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@mr.man.2910you are mean

    • @CripazoidRBLX
      @CripazoidRBLX 8 месяцев назад

      @georgedewet1919 bruh it’s not our fault that girls have to be so annoying to me

  • @rarghGAY
    @rarghGAY 11 месяцев назад +405

    “trying to take what’s not theirs”
    a list of what they take that isn’t theirs:
    virginity
    innocence
    happiness
    safety
    feeling comfortable
    wearing clothes you like
    edit: “they” isn’t just men. it’s also women. men get sexually assaulted, harassed, abused, and raped too.

    • @JuddWilliams
      @JuddWilliams 11 месяцев назад +18

      You forgot ✨LIFE✨ 😡🤬

    • @cynthiarobb2481
      @cynthiarobb2481 11 месяцев назад +12

      I don't know why but boys should stop cat calling it is dum

    • @rarghGAY
      @rarghGAY 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@cynthiarobb2481 fr like everyone who catcalls needs to shut their yapper

    • @shondavillanova7679
      @shondavillanova7679 11 месяцев назад

      The ONLY way virginity is theirs is if the woman they're taking it from GIVES it to them. In other words CONSENT

    • @adelchapman6438
      @adelchapman6438 11 месяцев назад

      These days all boy children trouble us girl

  • @Scotland4scotland
    @Scotland4scotland 11 месяцев назад +268

    As a guy i am incredibly sorry to all the women who have to go through this horrible experience. If i could i would literally snap all the rude men out of reality 😭

    • @sophiasoto6946
      @sophiasoto6946 11 месяцев назад +14

      Thank you😊

    • @Cocoa_pup14
      @Cocoa_pup14 11 месяцев назад +18

      Give this guy some respect, bro ❤😭 it's rare for people like you man

    • @Playmaker-_-
      @Playmaker-_- 11 месяцев назад

      Women are rude too 😒

    • @Foot903
      @Foot903 11 месяцев назад +9

      Thanks

    • @Playmaker-_-
      @Playmaker-_- 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@Foot903 np

  • @ninjc1628
    @ninjc1628 11 месяцев назад +137

    honestly last night i got cat called in a restaurant trying to eat with my GRANDPARENTS LIKE SERIOUSLY THIS HAS TO STOP WE ARE NOT OBJECTS THEY CANT JUST MESS WITH WE. ARE. PEOPLE.❤

    • @andreacalverley4497
      @andreacalverley4497 11 месяцев назад +8

      I know right we are not just used to be looked at 🩷

    • @melissalamfalusi8208
      @melissalamfalusi8208 11 месяцев назад

      Apparently some women are objects, some girls at my school like the idea of not being human and like being objectified.

    • @zorroloaf293
      @zorroloaf293 10 месяцев назад

      And boys such as me aren't wallets

    • @ninjc1628
      @ninjc1628 10 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@zorroloaf293honestly whoever uses men for their money is disgusting because the women that do should work hard for money they can’t just use men and boys for money because it’s not fair to the men and boys that do work hard for their earnings just for another person to waste it. i’m not saying all men and boys are bad just some are same goes for women as well because i have met very terrible and nasty women and girls in my life. my sincere apologies if my original comment made you think i was talking about all men. i hope you understand.

  • @Accusations331
    @Accusations331 9 месяцев назад +8

    I feel u . U must feel really annoyed and scared when this happens and u must have it hard . But men have it hard to, their friends constantly pointing out everything we do then $3xu4lizing it then making us. Feel bad,sometimes they even will be like “ she doesn’t like you bro get over it” when we are hiding while playing tag with a girl . We’re not all ruthless.
    But stay safe out there ❤

  • @kavyazworld730
    @kavyazworld730 11 месяцев назад +292

    SHE’S SPEAKING TRUE FACTS THO-😮‍💨😮‍💨🔥🔥

    • @BeatrixGaming-Bea
      @BeatrixGaming-Bea 11 месяцев назад +1

      Fr

    • @sierrasalas138
      @sierrasalas138 11 месяцев назад +1

      True❤

    • @RFY1NX
      @RFY1NX 11 месяцев назад +1

      Cap

    • @SpiritSurvivor89
      @SpiritSurvivor89 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@RFY1NXWell it’s both Some do get cat called but the boys all ways get ganged Up on because one did something wrong/bad

    • @gabagaba7422
      @gabagaba7422 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@RFY1NXno its actually not a cap

  • @ambersong3001
    @ambersong3001 11 месяцев назад +206

    wow i can’t believe that man said “get over it” he should live a day in our shoes.

    • @sirveer6112
      @sirveer6112 11 месяцев назад +7

      How do you know this person is a man? And why do yall assume all of us boys are bad and dont suffer? Do you know who gets draafted in wars? Do you know who nobody cares of they get sexually harrased? I mean, I agree, but stereotyping men doesn't help, either. I even saw a comment stating "Men don't die or feel pain." Like, honey? We all do

    • @Yoshidog111
      @Yoshidog111 11 месяцев назад

      @@sirveer6112FR

    • @eggsareyummyyy
      @eggsareyummyyy 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@sirveer6112maybe bc their profile is a boy and their name is a boys name

    • @eggsareyummyyy
      @eggsareyummyyy 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@sirveer6112yes I understand that boys also have a hard time

    • @eggsareyummyyy
      @eggsareyummyyy 11 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@sirveer6112ikr just bc someone is a boy doesn’t mean they’re rude and are cheaters, I’m a girl and I’m giving death stares to my classmates everyday

  • @sophia5089
    @sophia5089 11 месяцев назад +30

    If someone in my daughter’s class would complain bout her shoulder or some shit like that I’d just say: “So you admit that you looked at my daughter inappropriately?”

  • @Pawswithclover
    @Pawswithclover 9 месяцев назад +36

    "Don't teach your daughters to be afraid"
    "Teach your sons to be polite."

    • @William_afton_purple_gui
      @William_afton_purple_gui 8 месяцев назад +6

      "don't protect your daughters"
      "teach your sons"

    • @Tru3_d3c4y
      @Tru3_d3c4y 8 месяцев назад

      Maybe teach the daughters to have any sort of respect for boys instead of them having to do all the changes make it 50/50 yeah crazy right

    • @rachelecklund9128
      @rachelecklund9128 8 месяцев назад +1

      " teach your sons"
      "Teach your daughters"

    • @William_afton_purple_gui
      @William_afton_purple_gui 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@rachelecklund9128 way better version 👍

    • @R-Bo_Playz
      @R-Bo_Playz 8 месяцев назад +1

      Sadly, I've met many people who's son's are are not taught.
      All sorts of ages.
      Teens, Adults,
      My bfff has delt with it from elderly people aswell,
      I can't wear anything without it happening.

  • @ΓιώργοςΚαραγκοζιδης
    @ΓιώργοςΚαραγκοζιδης 11 месяцев назад +84

    She definitely slayed❤❤❤❤
    I understand you🙏

    • @User-io3nx
      @User-io3nx 11 месяцев назад

      Hey, what's the song name?

    • @illiafauteux
      @illiafauteux 11 месяцев назад

      @@User-io3nxpretty distraction

  • @its_venus_lol
    @its_venus_lol 11 месяцев назад +224

    My anxiety watching her calmly standing on a frikin railway track : 📈📈📈📈📈
    Edit: I found she was not standing on it I'm sorry-

    • @eugeniolimasilva9716
      @eugeniolimasilva9716 11 месяцев назад +3

      well she was standing inbetween so anxiety:📈📈📈📈

    • @jolabdon
      @jolabdon 11 месяцев назад +2

      I was more concerned about the fire 🔥😯

    • @scampaboy
      @scampaboy 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yassssss

    • @Melidacheese
      @Melidacheese 11 месяцев назад

      She was in between 2 train tracks

  • @liya455
    @liya455 10 месяцев назад +137

    Team don’t stand in train tracks
    👇 ( for safety, no hate)

    • @MBTA-1028
      @MBTA-1028 10 месяцев назад +4

      Operation live safer! Stop. Look. Listen. Live. Tracks are for trains, not people.

    • @Kordsxxxzx.-
      @Kordsxxxzx.- 10 месяцев назад +3

      It's edited there's no trains and pretty obvious that is edited no hate

    • @DuckyPLasma786
      @DuckyPLasma786 10 месяцев назад +2

      First of all she’s not standing in the train tracks you can see on the sides the tracks

    • @EdytheRennier
      @EdytheRennier 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah she is fine but no hate

    • @Azrael.on.paws._
      @Azrael.on.paws._ 10 месяцев назад +1

      She’s not standing in the train tracks, she’s standing between two different tracks 😭

  • @AlaylaPearce
    @AlaylaPearce 10 месяцев назад +217

    Finally someone is standing up for the girls ❤

    • @nealspeer3744
      @nealspeer3744 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was standing up for a girl in my class who was getting catcalled

    • @nealspeer3744
      @nealspeer3744 10 месяцев назад +1

      Btw I'm a girl

    • @IrizarryDiane
      @IrizarryDiane 10 месяцев назад

      Boys think they're better than us but they're not

    • @lacykampsnider4239
      @lacykampsnider4239 10 месяцев назад +1

      Your amazing

    • @Bradley_mtb
      @Bradley_mtb 10 месяцев назад

      Like no one is standing up for girls.

  • @Jessica-.o.-8i8-.o.-Raven
    @Jessica-.o.-8i8-.o.-Raven 9 месяцев назад +11

    Sing it!! Take your power back! I love it!

  • @solidazsteele5500
    @solidazsteele5500 Год назад +94

    🖤🖤🖤 I cant get enough of her content ❤❤❤

  • @TheatreWithTheresa
    @TheatreWithTheresa 11 месяцев назад +388

    thank you to all of the men in the comment section being supportive. you did not disappoint ❤❤❤❤

    • @sketchy-chan
      @sketchy-chan 11 месяцев назад +8

      i second this

    • @btsgirl2430
      @btsgirl2430 11 месяцев назад

      👎🏻

    • @thcat6995
      @thcat6995 11 месяцев назад +2

      👍🏽

    • @TheatreWithTheresa
      @TheatreWithTheresa 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@btsgirl2430 is that a thumbs down or a hit the like?

    • @why2kii
      @why2kii 11 месяцев назад +1

      I third this (your a real one ❤)

  • @LexGames-21
    @LexGames-21 11 месяцев назад +68

    She slays so well yall who watched the premiere to the song ❤️
    👇

  • @sophiaarmijo-schultz-rz3vl
    @sophiaarmijo-schultz-rz3vl 9 месяцев назад +5

    Girl i know what ur going through im still going through that like the boys gotta just mind there own business, Actions

  • @Amongyou_nice
    @Amongyou_nice 10 месяцев назад +97

    Thx for standing up for me, you, and other girls.

    • @StephanKoegelenberg
      @StephanKoegelenberg 9 месяцев назад

      👆🏻
      Team her
      😢😢😢
      This girl must be good
      I feel the same way 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Amongyou_nice
      @Amongyou_nice 9 месяцев назад

      Thx

    • @shondadennard6364
      @shondadennard6364 9 месяцев назад

      Agreed

    • @imaaraali2721
      @imaaraali2721 9 месяцев назад

      It's ok but like just, don't say the world is horrible, there is a war and ppl don't even have food and they ALWAYS get kidnapped. Always be greatful. Or I will do this hate to u

  • @KATELYN244
    @KATELYN244 11 месяцев назад +386

    I love this song, the beats and the way everything is put together just sounds amazing

    • @Flowers4Tuktuky
      @Flowers4Tuktuky 11 месяцев назад +2

      song name please please

    • @KATELYN244
      @KATELYN244 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry I’m not sure of the name😢

    • @Sunnyfrenchie789
      @Sunnyfrenchie789 11 месяцев назад

      @@KATELYN244 pretty distraction

    • @saphstar
      @saphstar 11 месяцев назад

      @@Flowers4Tuktukypretty distraction

    • @Ur-pookie-SLAYS
      @Ur-pookie-SLAYS 11 месяцев назад

      Samee

  • @rosebuddy6002
    @rosebuddy6002 11 месяцев назад +526

    I feel SO bad for all the ladies out there. Us guys can go out shirtless but when girls show their shoulders they’re at risk of being catcalled or worse. Stay strong ladies, you got this ❤

  • @maryjosmith4006
    @maryjosmith4006 9 месяцев назад +9

    Lovely if you had a show I would go

  • @JolyndaSettles-Troutman
    @JolyndaSettles-Troutman 9 месяцев назад +258

    I’m so happy that there is people out in the world standing up for girls

  • @SkyDxddy
    @SkyDxddy 11 месяцев назад +46

    Appreciate you❤

    • @Paige_Schriber
      @Paige_Schriber 10 месяцев назад

      Love u too girly. ❤

    • @Skye_the_Furry_Official
      @Skye_the_Furry_Official 10 месяцев назад

      Hi!

    • @hvxnxly
      @hvxnxly 10 месяцев назад

      omg i love ur songs especially this one 💗💗

    • @koik22
      @koik22 10 месяцев назад

      OMMG

    • @diamondbunni332
      @diamondbunni332 10 месяцев назад

      thx for making this song. At least the boys can understand

  • @LandC954
    @LandC954 10 месяцев назад +31

    in 5th grade, a boy who was always considered "the bad kid". I believe he had cognitive problems but he attacked a girl in our class during gym and lifted up her shirt and some of the other boys tried to hold him back, but couldn't bc of the adrenaline. He wasn't suspended but just the teacher yelled at him and he was called to the office a lot that day. Later in the year, some people told me that twice he said I had a nice a$$ and I just pretended it was fine. Don't let anyone get away with this!! I'm in 7th grade now and have not had any other incidents, but wanted to raise awareness!

    • @snowecaddel9454
      @snowecaddel9454 10 месяцев назад +3

      5th grade? he must have great parents 💀

    • @goon_ass1675
      @goon_ass1675 10 месяцев назад +3

      jesus christ 7th grade?? im so sorry

    • @skebedeeeeh
      @skebedeeeeh 10 месяцев назад +2

      omg thats so horrible😕

    • @Someonessomewheres
      @Someonessomewheres 10 месяцев назад

      EXUSE ME?! DID THAT COMMENT SAYS GET OVER IT ALREADY?! Ok how would it feel how would ot f*** feel if girl u got cat called i am so sure u woulndt over it in days weeks or even months trust me and i appreciate u even lifted too write a useless comment thats just say get over it im suprised u even writed an emoji girl thx but nobody likes ur comment. Say thanks too the tiktoker for even standing up for us girl !

  • @hockheechua4523
    @hockheechua4523 9 месяцев назад +16

    She looks like a angel 😇

  • @brittanysmith4660
    @brittanysmith4660 11 месяцев назад +326

    I’m glad you made this song so all the women can stand up for themselves by singing this❤

    • @Mrz.KMill06
      @Mrz.KMill06 10 месяцев назад

      I think she didn’t make this song

    • @Alisonseveride
      @Alisonseveride 10 месяцев назад +4

      The person in the video did

    • @Alisonseveride
      @Alisonseveride 10 месяцев назад

      @aidensfnfchannel5174 why would the men have to stand up for themselves i mean woman are raped by men sexually assaulted harassed catcalled the list goes on

    • @I3Like3Fish
      @I3Like3Fish 10 месяцев назад +2

      This person didn't make it 😂 the person in the title did. And the original has 39 likes while this has 138k 💀💀

    • @Tanciafifi
      @Tanciafifi 10 месяцев назад +1

      You know what the girls should do they should stand up for there self

  • @sofiasworld3150
    @sofiasworld3150 10 месяцев назад +68

    finally you have someone standing up for the girls this song is so true

  • @1Huia
    @1Huia 9 месяцев назад +5

    She gets so much hate. And nobody should be going through being hated
    People who support
    👇

  • @JuliaHennessey-g9f
    @JuliaHennessey-g9f Год назад +85

    I have this song on repeat every time I turn on my music! I love this song SO MUCH!!!!❤❤❤

  • @Olyvia-gn4js
    @Olyvia-gn4js 11 месяцев назад +37

    Girl you proved how we feel! Thank you!

  • @marcusgodfrey3090
    @marcusgodfrey3090 10 месяцев назад +16

    us girls need to stick together cause we get the most of this song its so relaitable

    • @MissyGeiter
      @MissyGeiter 9 месяцев назад +1

      I agree we get miss treaded by boys too often 😢

  • @Random_stuff1097
    @Random_stuff1097 9 месяцев назад +9

    I wish they would stop staring at us girls thanks so much for standing up for women GIRL POWER

  • @katelynw5605
    @katelynw5605 Год назад +122

    Can't wait for this to finally drop

    • @MakeupNerd53
      @MakeupNerd53 Год назад +6

      It dropped!!!❤❤❤

    • @katelynw5605
      @katelynw5605 Год назад +4

      @@MakeupNerd53 ik! I'm obsessed with it!

    • @3fl_Tw1nk
      @3fl_Tw1nk 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@MakeupNerd53what’s it called

    • @Isabellas_lovely_world
      @Isabellas_lovely_world 11 месяцев назад

      @@3fl_Tw1nkit’s called pretty distraction ❤

    • @livvyb9280
      @livvyb9280 11 месяцев назад

      @@3fl_Tw1nkpretty distraction

  • @solareclipse7527
    @solareclipse7527 11 месяцев назад +104

    As a male I totally understand the whole situation and have never liked how some treat females.

    • @rbbisool
      @rbbisool 11 месяцев назад +6

      ikr its honestly really bad

    • @AudweyPaintnut
      @AudweyPaintnut 11 месяцев назад +5

      I found out one of my friends was sexist yesterday so I blocked him

    • @MICAH_YAYZZ
      @MICAH_YAYZZ 10 месяцев назад +5

      I remember in 3rd grade we did a sitting arrangement I was sitted next to a boy and he was making me uncomfortable like sniffing me and other stuff with my other boy seatmates too my 2nd seatmate was absent at that time so I changed seats with the absent student and putted the bag in the middle which is my seat. And we were only 8 YEARS OLD.

    • @AudweyPaintnut
      @AudweyPaintnut 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@MICAH_YAYZZ did you tell the teacher

    • @MICAH_YAYZZ
      @MICAH_YAYZZ 10 месяцев назад

      @@AudweyPaintnutyes he also smacked me on the head I told the teacher he also slapped me I told hat to the teach too

  • @Nicole_gacha_love
    @Nicole_gacha_love 11 месяцев назад +12

    Bro... He seriously said: "get over it already🙄" LIKE DO YOU KNOW HOW UNCOMFORTABLE IT IS FOR ALL OF US!???? Like one day I was putting books to my teacher office and when I went back I went past a boy (standard 6) he was a pervert all around the school. He picks girls everytime. And when I went pass him he whistle on me and I WAS SO UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT so like keep quiet 😒

  • @mercieng610
    @mercieng610 9 месяцев назад +6

    😢😢😢😢😢😢 finally someone to stand up for it looked like she was the original singer

    • @mercieng610
      @mercieng610 8 месяцев назад

      @GigaChadShrek oooh ok

  • @AlexisKilshaw
    @AlexisKilshaw 11 месяцев назад +26

    It's so good to see people saying these things in the comments and speaking the truth. Girls remember we are all worth it! Oh and just a shout out to the men/boys who aren't disrespectful to us ladies we really need more men like you!

    • @nighttimeflames
      @nighttimeflames 11 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you for acknowledging the guys that don’t this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @ASimpleCarpAngler
      @ASimpleCarpAngler 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for being the only person to take notice that its not all of is boys that are freaks like that.

  • @Genevie_G30
    @Genevie_G30 11 месяцев назад +41

    Honestly the boys at school don’t get distracted the teachers do

    • @Its_Josie.
      @Its_Josie. 11 месяцев назад +2

      😂😭 fr tho

    • @BlueNinja15
      @BlueNinja15 11 месяцев назад

      but girls do get catcalled by boys and boys always are trying to get a girls attention

    • @ItsRandomstuff2
      @ItsRandomstuff2 11 месяцев назад +2

      Fr some1 needs to teach them

    • @Smileyy1-n1q
      @Smileyy1-n1q 11 месяцев назад +1

      Fr!!

    • @Randomperson123-qj1ex
      @Randomperson123-qj1ex 11 месяцев назад +2

      YES OMG THE FRENCH TEACHER SAID “ don’t wear crop tops it distracts me “

  • @LaceyLenoraDarling
    @LaceyLenoraDarling 11 месяцев назад +43

    A friend of mine showed me this song only yesterday, now I find it here! Love it!❤

    • @torsmccors9360
      @torsmccors9360 11 месяцев назад

      What’s the name?

    • @LaceyLenoraDarling
      @LaceyLenoraDarling 11 месяцев назад

      ​​@@torsmccors9360It's called Pretty Distraction😄

  • @jamesheath8594
    @jamesheath8594 Год назад +26

    your songs r amazing don't let them shut you down fuck them keep miss 👍

  • @mabelsmith4005
    @mabelsmith4005 11 месяцев назад +80

    I said to my male therapist that I’m uncomfortable when I get cat called while walking home and he told me that I should take it as a compliment that guys like me so much they can’t control themselves I can confirm I don’t have a therapist anymore 😂

    • @AshTheWeird15
      @AshTheWeird15 11 месяцев назад +8

      having a therapist is a good idea still, reporting your old therapist is am am better idea though because hell. no.

    • @kaylee_art_more
      @kaylee_art_more 11 месяцев назад +8

      What the hell this is why all my therapists are female 😅

    • @Wolfgirl-tz4mc
      @Wolfgirl-tz4mc 11 месяцев назад +7

      That is how you can tell if they are just a creep

    • @Mini_roblox4
      @Mini_roblox4 11 месяцев назад +5

      Maybe get a female therapist because they would definitely understand

    • @OMGELLAX
      @OMGELLAX 11 месяцев назад +1

      Have a girl therapist

  • @OliviaMarie-x4l
    @OliviaMarie-x4l 9 месяцев назад +5

    She's so beautiful
    Poepple who supports her

  • @brooklynrae4
    @brooklynrae4 10 месяцев назад +20

    i'm a thirteen year-old girl, my mom is very protective for her own reasons so the only time i'm really walking alone is to or from my bus stop, but even then i'm super afraid. i've never been catcalled or SA'd that i can remember but i feel terrible that i can't comfort people about their experiences properly. i'm grateful that i haven't experienced that yet, i just wish i knew how to properly comfort the people that have.

  • @SaraSpreadborough-c4n
    @SaraSpreadborough-c4n 11 месяцев назад +48

    Yes queen 👑
    My bloodline has been sexually assaulted for generations, my grandmother was assaulted by her math teacher from the age of none to when she Graduated high school and once she told her mom nobody believed her and she slowly went crazy (as my mom puts it) she got married had two children she got divorced, diagnosed with breast cancer, began hallucinating and died around her late forties before her grandchildren were born and my sister has been assaulted by a boy her age (they are eight) it started in second grade he was eventually expelled a few weeks ago after my parents tried to get a restraining order again him. I know it has happened in the past to other women in my family

    • @Arachnoph0bia333
      @Arachnoph0bia333 11 месяцев назад +2

      Oh wow... I hope you and your family is okay that sounds terrible.

  • @Evie-i7j
    @Evie-i7j 10 месяцев назад +29

    Tbh you actually just roasted him so badly SLAY

    • @Bennet8233
      @Bennet8233 10 месяцев назад

      She roasted who and what is on that a roast

    • @Binodtharubolebinod
      @Binodtharubolebinod 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Bennet8233the coment

    • @Stroudds
      @Stroudds 10 месяцев назад

      This world is full of pussies and retards. Idk why but I’m commenting this.

    • @freebot10
      @freebot10 10 месяцев назад

      How is playing a song roasting 💀

    • @Evie-i7j
      @Evie-i7j 10 месяцев назад

      @@freebot10 because the person was being rude

  • @Fairy_Nixi
    @Fairy_Nixi 9 месяцев назад +4

    If I have a son
    THAT MAN WILL LEARN THE FOLLOWING
    never to disrespect someone
    Treat others how you want to be treated
    Mistakes are ok
    Never harass someone
    Do your best in school
    Be nice
    Sharing is caring
    The more respect you give, the more respect you get
    Be careful what you tell your friends, because today, they could be your best friend,
    but tmmr they could be your worst enemy

    • @Accusations331
      @Accusations331 9 месяцев назад

      You can’t assume your son’s going to do that and make his whole life about it . Treat him normally

    • @trinhowl
      @trinhowl  8 месяцев назад +1

      They could be an example and show their future son how a man should act/ treat people (women especially).

  • @Conerupt
    @Conerupt 11 месяцев назад +57

    I’m not a woman, but I totally agree that women should be treated better. And yet men still wonder why (some) women are so mean to them.
    Edit: AHHHH YALL ARE BLOWING UP MY NOTIFICATIONSSS

    • @lissieehr8440
      @lissieehr8440 11 месяцев назад

      Nothing really even happens to women...

    • @TheOfficialMr.E
      @TheOfficialMr.E 11 месяцев назад +6

      @@lissieehr8440Are you slow or sum? Did you not listen to the song?

    • @lissieehr8440
      @lissieehr8440 11 месяцев назад

      @@TheOfficialMr.E I listened. The song is wrong tho

    • @XCookieEaterX
      @XCookieEaterX 11 месяцев назад +1

      🌷🌸🌷🌸
      🌸🌷🌸🌷🌸
      Λ🌷🌸🌷🌸🌷
      ( ˘ ᵕ ˘🌷🌸🌷
      ヽ つ\ /
      UU / 🎀 \

    • @XCookieEaterX
      @XCookieEaterX 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@TheOfficialMr.E Pretty sure it's rage bait.

  • @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen
    @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen 11 месяцев назад +136

    when i was 10 i went to a science camp and on the 4th day one of my friends said that she overheard a boy say that i have a "nice a$$" they had to hold me back from beating him up but eventually i controlled my anger and told one of the counselors i saw his mom come and pick him up for the rest of the day (it was a day camp) but before they left she forced him to apologize to me and when he did i said "its ok i guess..." but the mom told me that i don't need to say "its ok" because its not i should just say "ok" because if i say "its ok" it makes it seem like it is ok for boys to say that. dont ever EVER say "its ok" if someone apologizes for something as bad as getting catcalled plz take care of yourself girls and dont let their words get to your head 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

    • @succmarbals910
      @succmarbals910 10 месяцев назад

      Was the RUMOUR ever confirmed

    • @succmarbals910
      @succmarbals910 10 месяцев назад

      Also the girl IN MY YEAR 7 CLASS a couple years ago said she wanted to date me because of my 🍆 and said it was big
      I WAS TWEVLE

    • @succmarbals910
      @succmarbals910 10 месяцев назад +1

      Also getting kicked in the nuts is sexual harassment

    • @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen
      @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@succmarbals910 I was 10

    • @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen
      @The_One_And_Only_Cat_Queen 10 месяцев назад

      @@succmarbals910 his friend confirmed it

  • @pretzle-456
    @pretzle-456 11 месяцев назад +38

    Thank you for making this song people need to know about this and people do need to teach their sons to control his actions ❤😊

  • @LindaDaniels-r1s
    @LindaDaniels-r1s 9 месяцев назад +3

    I'm always detentioned but I'm gonna rebel for her I finally can feel better cause this song tysm😊❤❤ even my mom agrees with this

  • @Txcabxcagurl
    @Txcabxcagurl 11 месяцев назад +13

    I’m so thankful this song exists bc when I was 13 or 14 I remember getting catcalled and got raped and no one cared and they said it was my fault 😢
    Edit 1: I NEVER GOT THIS MANY LIKES TY SO MUCH ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @LILYPAD404
      @LILYPAD404 11 месяцев назад +3

      omg I am so sorry that happened to you! and I hope now you are finally around people who help/care 🫶

    • @whyhellothere...
      @whyhellothere... 11 месяцев назад +2

      I'm very sorry that happened to you :(
      Please don't blame yourself. It isn't your fault!!!

    • @Txcabxcagurl
      @Txcabxcagurl 11 месяцев назад

      They said it’s her fault for walking alone at night

    • @Txcabxcagurl
      @Txcabxcagurl 11 месяцев назад

      @@LILYPAD404 and thank you

    • @SamAndColbyAreForEver
      @SamAndColbyAreForEver 11 месяцев назад +1

      This actually happened to my aunt a few years ago. She was walking at night to get antidepressants because she forgot to get them someone grabbed her from behind and idk where or who took her or how she like got out of their but I have a cousin now…

  • @Tenzley_12
    @Tenzley_12 9 месяцев назад +11

    In summer camp I wore a tank top and they said here put this on it was and oversized shirt and I had to leave it on all day thank you so much for making this I hope one day everyone will understand the same😊

  • @CookieMelon-vk5lr
    @CookieMelon-vk5lr 10 месяцев назад +33

    I love this song. I’m a teenage girl and I can freaking relate. Tell the damn boys to know how to fucking control themselves! We should be able to fucking wear what we want without being called a whore or slut. Literally if my bra strap shows suddenly I’m somehow fucking asking to get raped IT’S NOT FUCKING FAIR!!

    • @Chilled_K
      @Chilled_K 10 месяцев назад +1

      Person: Boys
      Reality: woke boys*

    • @jlove517
      @jlove517 10 месяцев назад +1

      so fucking true also coming from a teenager

    • @tammybrown2826
      @tammybrown2826 10 месяцев назад +1

      I know right

    • @The_Roasted_Flame_official
      @The_Roasted_Flame_official 10 месяцев назад

      I mean I'm a boy and I agree u guys have it rough

  • @MaxMegalodon
    @MaxMegalodon 9 месяцев назад +3

    We can’t even walk out at night in cities because of man it’s finally someone stood up for us women

  • @eggcat2589
    @eggcat2589 11 месяцев назад +70

    I know, I hate it when boys try to steal my shoulders too 😭😭😭
    In all seriousness though, this is a great song and I'm really happy songs like this exist because its actually insane that this kind if stuff happens to women and people dont bat an eye at it. Like, its 2023, people really need to move past misogyny, sexism and any other kinds of discrimination and hate. Thank you for making this song and raising awareness 🫶

    • @Hi_besties1
      @Hi_besties1 11 месяцев назад

      u a gre

    • @Hi_besties1
      @Hi_besties1 11 месяцев назад +1

      u hate when they do that🥺🥺😭😭

    • @nighttimeflames
      @nighttimeflames 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sexism can happen to anyone no matter the gender, sure some men will do disgusting things like that, but women can do it too and everyone points the blame at just guys rather than people who do that in general.

    • @Real_ThatOnePerson
      @Real_ThatOnePerson 11 месяцев назад

      @@nighttimeflames Yes, but it’s often seen as men going it more. Both genders can do it, it women often experience it more.

    • @nighttimeflames
      @nighttimeflames 11 месяцев назад

      @@Real_ThatOnePerson Ok thank you for correcting me

  • @ElodiePlayz
    @ElodiePlayz 11 месяцев назад +17

    they say women needs to be perfect but when WE try they're like "your so fat eat less, Your so skinny eat more" it was never enough after saying that some of us even cry our selves to sleep and questioning our existence it was never enough for them. and being scared to go alone at night and always looking our back every minute we are enough and we are perfect the way we are every skin,body EVERYTHING IS PERFECT we all shine❤

    • @BeatrixGaming-Bea
      @BeatrixGaming-Bea 11 месяцев назад +1

      UR SO RIGHT WE DO CRY OURSELVES TO SLEEP

    • @sorenwestcoast
      @sorenwestcoast 11 месяцев назад

      do y’all not think men go through the same thing like we have feelings too stop acting like you matter that much just because your a woman

    • @therain344
      @therain344 11 месяцев назад

      We know you men go through a lot but no one said you don't......

    • @zorroloaf293
      @zorroloaf293 10 месяцев назад

      AND U GIRLS DO THE SAME TO US BOYS BC U GIRLS JUDGE US AND IF WE DONT GOT ABS U REJECT US BC U ONLY WANNA SEE BOYS WITH ABS LIKE BRUH AND US BOYS AINT WALLETS

    • @JucyKola
      @JucyKola 9 месяцев назад

      @@therain344ya but people just don’t care and if your a guys showing feelings your known as weak so no one shows it

  • @38saanvighosh21
    @38saanvighosh21 9 месяцев назад +2

    Everyone= YEAH UR RIGHT!
    While me= GIRL LIFE IS MORE IMPORTANT GET OF THE RAILWAYYYY!!!!!!

  • @sohanjitkaur3704
    @sohanjitkaur3704 Год назад +18

    Bro just said get over when he doesn’t even know what girls have to go through with in life and I luv this song it is so relatable

    • @annabeth8815
      @annabeth8815 11 месяцев назад

      So true

    • @Mr_can_doVR
      @Mr_can_doVR 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yo our life is hard too,most girls expect us to be strong,handsome,tall,rich,etc

    • @sohanjitkaur3704
      @sohanjitkaur3704 11 месяцев назад

      @@Mr_can_doVRI know your guys life is hard to but I’m saying to the person that said “Omg get over it already” so I’m trying to only our life’s are hard

    • @CLEAN_CARD
      @CLEAN_CARD 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@Mr_can_doVRwe know but... No one offended y'all rn right?

    • @The_Roasted_Flame_official
      @The_Roasted_Flame_official 10 месяцев назад

      I'm a boy, 5th-6th grade and I feel for u but still it isn't all of us but I do think it is unfair cos the kid who sits next to me makes sexist jokes and is probably 1 of the naughtiest kids in school plus we are entering puberty so good luck girls and stay safe

  • @Jaxine77997
    @Jaxine77997 11 месяцев назад +8

    Bro I got cat called for wearing a black skirt with socks like tf

  • @scisafersal1
    @scisafersal1 Год назад +29

    I'm a man with a daughter who loves this music. We live in rural Virginia were harassment isn't very common. I've asked her if she's experienced this, and she says she has not, but she feels something nonetheless about it because of this music. I don't know how to feel about a problem that doesn't exist to me or mine. She is so impressionable and takes things so seriously, I had to take notice. I understand the nature of this song, and it is certainly a fact for so many, but I don't want my daughter, who is struggling with her identity, to find a victim mentality where there is no source of villainy. The world is very complex. Good men will not understand. You only see what you're looking at. Terrible things happen to every type of person every moment of the day around the world. I'm torn between knowing the horrors and trying to be positive for her.

    • @faeri_
      @faeri_ Год назад +12

      Here are the benefits of your daughter listening to this music:
      1. *You don’t know how to feel about a problem that doesn’t exist to you or yours.*
      _But you daughter might, regardless of what she said. She might find herself in a scary situation with a bad person in the future. I absolutely pray this path doesn’t happen for her, no doubt. But she is a girl in a world where girls still can’t win at times. And maybe she herself has not experienced anything like this, but maybe her best friends have or will. You literally do not know and you cannot expect that these instances will never happen for her. Statistics from May 2023 state that 1 in 6 US women are r*pëd annually. 82% of juvenile SA victims are female. 90% of adult SA victims are female. 14-17 year olds were the mostly likely to be victims at 16.3% of the age statistics. Almost 80% of female victims were victimized prior to age 25. And less than 20% of attempts or complete SAs are reported annually. These are scary numbers to look at._
      2. *She’s already just aware of these issues as is.*
      _At least she is aware and self aware enough to feel something about this song. She could develop crucial skills that females should learn in the current climate to preserve their lives in case they catch the attention of a bad person._
      3. *How many cases got handled properly in Virginia?*
      In 2019, a news article with statistics about the clearance rate of SA crimes compared to kidnapping showed that only 19% of r*pë reported got cleared by an arrest, raise that to 22% for sex-related offenses in general. In 10% of _those cases,_ victims did end up refusing to cooperate. However, in 13% of those cases, prosecutors didn’t pursue the case. Meanwhile, kidnapping cases were 73% cleared by an arrest, 2% of victims didn’t cooperate and 2% didn’t get picked up by the prosecution. Those are skewed numbers for recognizing rapists and holding them accountable. Now, of course I don’t know your rural area better than you do. I also don’t care to ask for it for their specific statistics. It could be better there than it is over the state. Still calls to be aware of situations in surrounding areas._
      4. *Puberty*
      _I want to preface this with I do not care to know anything that specific to your daughter. I do not need any of that information. But if she’s not an adult and hasn’t hit puberty yet, things definitely change when your body starts changing. I was 13 when a grown man hit on me as a freshman in high school. I wore a D cup, you couldn’t really miss them. When I was in 7th grade, fresh out of middle school, I wore a C cup. I started puberty at 9, in the fifth grade. Guys looked. Guys commented. It’s still happening. My 14 year old niece started wearing more tomboy clothing a few years ago because she did not want people looking at her body like they had been. She was 11-12. These things do happen and they will happen until we teach everyone how to respect others and keep some comments to ourselves._
      These horrors exist in the world around us. They’re fears of most women in the world. Be proud that your daughter doesn’t lack empathy or awareness of herself and the social world she could be growing up in if we don’t do something to help SA victims.
      And again, I do not say this to wish ill on your daughter or be a pessimist. This is just real. And I can link you to where I found my information as well if need be.

    • @nix-on-the-rise
      @nix-on-the-rise Год назад +5

      I don't mean to say you're unaware of things. But as somebody who lives in a rural area as well. That has nothing to do with it. I grew up in a small town. My graduating class was 42. I was wearing a tank top at school that did not violate the dress code. We were told it had to be 2 fingers width for the strap. That strap was almost 4 fingers width and I was still told that I either needed to go home and change or put on a hoodie. Yeah, that's a problem. Your daughter is going to face this as she gets older because it's "distracting", and it's not just distracting to her fellow classmates, it's gonna be distracting for the male teachers too. It doesn't matter if you live in a rural area and stuff like that just doesn't happen because it does happen unfortunately and as somebody who still lives in a rural area, I can tell you that. Yeah, it's even worse I have a twelve-year-old niece. She is, unfortunately a victim of SA. And you know, you never wanna get that phone call from your sibling. Who is hysterically crying? because of what they walked in on and saw what was happening to their child and then being told by the child psychologist that had to interview, said 10 year old at the time. That 1 in 5 girls under the age of 12 will be sexually abused. That's not a percentage that is a 100% chance. Thankfully, we got lucky and the Justice system actually came through for once, and the perpetrator got 15 years, which is more than most, pedophiles may be get a couple years to get out early and then repeat a offend. And you don't understand why your daughter resonates of this music, maybe you should ask her why she resonates with it. Because she may not know that she has actually experienced an issue because it's so normalized. Maybe ask Her to explain in detail , talk to your wife and ask her about it. Because I guarantee your wife has probably experienced something similar. Don't be hating on a song that is very much pointing out a problem in our society.

    • @ashleyk327
      @ashleyk327 Год назад +2

      Good job teaching her dad wo to with these songs she will know she has a choice to her body noone I mean no one has a right to touch her

    • @ashleyk327
      @ashleyk327 Год назад +2

      M​y kiddo is 4 songs these songs with her whole chest out lol. I'm rasing her differently then I was

  • @helicoptervlogs3603
    @helicoptervlogs3603 9 месяцев назад +2

    Her: 💃💃💃💃💃💃🎶🎶🎶
    Train: IT’S TIMEEEEEEE 🎶🎶🎶🎶🚂🚂
    Edit: I’m sorry, this is a wrong time.. but I had to hehehh

  • @CassidyDeVries-uh6oy
    @CassidyDeVries-uh6oy 9 месяцев назад +59

    I love the message of the video, the filming, the emotion, and your style!

  • @MtlTank
    @MtlTank Год назад +21

    sept 8th cant come soon enuff

  • @sophia7322
    @sophia7322 11 месяцев назад +13

    Growing up i convinced myself this stuff wouldnt happen to me, i was chubby and the awkward kid. It was crazy when i realized that didnt matter. That it can actually make you more vulnerable and more of a target. Ive been told i look 16 and then hit on, im 23 now but its so scary to know they like that.

    • @ballerjuike
      @ballerjuike 11 месяцев назад

      that just sucks. The fact that girls can be any age, can look any way, but still get harassed. like there's no running away. hope you guys get treated better 🫂

  • @Arielisok2
    @Arielisok2 6 месяцев назад +2

    You know what my teacher said when ALL the girls in my grade walked in the gym and started going off on the guys for being sexist? SHE SAID “GUYS MATTER MORE THEN YALL” next day we all wore dresses that were under our fingers we wore crop tops and then that teacher was fired and then no more unfair dress code

  • @Collages4you
    @Collages4you 10 месяцев назад +17

    Guys can go to school with an 80’s thong on and not get dress coded, us as women/girls are always the blame for why men/boys can’t control themselves

  • @madysonw2036
    @madysonw2036 Год назад +11

    Girl u deserve better also i love the song ❤

  • @cinna.lover11
    @cinna.lover11 Год назад +9

    this is so relatable like the boys can have no shirt on and his abs showing or whatever but then they get made at us for just showing our shoulders? Like boys can wear tank tops show their shoulders, and girls don’t even care about it it’s just normal. But suddenly when a girl pulls her jacket down her shoulder the teachers are like: 😱😱😱YOU YOUUU 🫵🏻🫵🏻🫵🏻 DETENTION

    • @SilaxAngel
      @SilaxAngel Год назад +1

      Fr like just let us have freedom

  • @fairytalehomeland6662
    @fairytalehomeland6662 9 месяцев назад +11

    Love it so much ❤

  • @ryansims1142
    @ryansims1142 10 месяцев назад +15

    My mom listens to this song multiple times when she's cleaning.

  • @LanaColon-c7g
    @LanaColon-c7g 10 месяцев назад +55

    This song is so true to us girls are always getting hurt or insulted or abused by boys its such a horrible life that we’re living in like boys just leave us alone

    • @Mase8089
      @Mase8089 10 месяцев назад

      Yeah girls get all the attention most of the time and girls is the one that mostly cheat

    • @Mase8089
      @Mase8089 10 месяцев назад

      Like boys have worse lives

    • @lisaaldred692
      @lisaaldred692 10 месяцев назад

      Very true…

    • @UltraMonkey-s3m
      @UltraMonkey-s3m 10 месяцев назад

      So I don’t understand if a girl physically beast the living shit out of a boy at high school it’s fine but when a guy lays hands on a girl it’s sexual harassment y’all are freaking insecure

    • @winxclubgirl
      @winxclubgirl 10 месяцев назад

      Very true

  • @Fig.RaeOnPawz0_0
    @Fig.RaeOnPawz0_0 Год назад +9

    Did a GUY just say get over it?How would you feel if you were being mistreated and cat called because of your gender?I hate people like this

    • @sorenwestcoast
      @sorenwestcoast 11 месяцев назад +1

      bcuz guys have enough problems too. they go through stuff too stop acting like ur special

    • @Demoncraft79
      @Demoncraft79 10 месяцев назад +1

      How would you feel if a girl hits a guy but if a guy hits a girl, everyone gonna be simpin for the girl and disrespecting the guy. As I've seen
      All the girls in these comment section are acting special. Maybe most women feel like this too

  • @jaxtenplace4711
    @jaxtenplace4711 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yes yes yes but it isn’t like that I don’t know who and what boys you know but most of them aren’t rude and like what your saying unless for like high school and college boys like just wait a few years and nobody is rude and every is nice it’s only the teenager and content creators like boys feel the same with different thing like this song can back us up like this is what they fell like this this is what they feel like that but you aren’t talking about every other boy that’s nice like girls are the same the percent of married women that do the dirty with other people has gone up 40% in the last 20 years and that isn’t counting the people who didn’t admit and not including all the people using men for money girls show of things men like for the exact reason that to get a man’s attention and have you seen the amount of people doing OF you can’t side with the girls when boys are getting used in the same way teen girls are admitting that all they do is use boys just to play around and to make a person jealous which if we did that as much as they do that to us you would make a another song but we don’t have to just think how depressed men are after a girl does that to us it’s not the same as a person cat calling or pointing something out about you that you wanted another person to point out just because you like them so in general it’s not the same
    If someone is coming in the comments and being like your wrong I don’t care I proved my points I got the message through so I don’t care what you think or if your like but we are girls you should be less rude but your a human and you set your expectations way higher then you set your own so if you made it hear thank you for hearing my opinion and fact