HEY FAMILY! WATCH to the end… I get a little passionate (emotional). Let me know what you think in the comments and be sure to subscribe my channel @LOVESAMANTHALEE! I’m posting content as frequently as possible and don’t want you to miss one bit! ❤️ watch to the end… I get a little passionate (emotional).
Thank you 🙏 so much…. Your voice of reason gives me hope.. but it also makes me evaluate myself, constantly making calculated moves… For real from the bottom of my heart ❤ 🙏 thank you
I’m in Bahrain right now for work… your content keeps me motivated You are the true essence of a diamond … cliche… maybe But your ability to relate and call a ♠️ a ♠️ I wish u all the happiness in the world ❤❤❤❤ Because when I find mine, just know you had a direct influence These are the thing no one want to say or admit Thank u for keeping it a buck
I feel your pain💘🌹🌹🌹🌹 I've been there before but 1. Why did you and your love1one breakup 2. I feel like only a "Pretty Boy" with good "D" & "$" or Possibly any man with "$$" will definitely be the type who would play games on women as beautiful as you 3. I feel like Only the woman could ruined the relationship between her & I because im too much of a "Fun type guy" Being serious when needed is cool. But never the Drama lol 😂 I rather have a good time(s) that's why I've learned to love "Fun Women" 🥃😤💭💭💭
Spending time alone will make you face your true self. See yourself the way God sees you. I learned also that when you trust God with you you don't need a man but you will want one. I am enough
If most people took time being alone and figuring themselves out and addressing their issues and letting God lead them the world would definitely be a better place and marriages would last at a higher rate .
Hi Samantha, I want to first thank you for being open and honest with us. I truly appreciate your time, knowledge and experiences that you have gone thru to give us such wonderful advice. Second I have recently joined an on line dating site and with absolutely no self confidence, I am not sure what I have gotten myself into. Without The good Lord being by my side, I would be lost. I watch you daily and you have helped from afar, and I thank you for that. Third hold that beautiful daughter of yours tight. I lost mine in a car accident on 9/11/04. My blessing is that she went directly to Heaven and now I have a personal angel. You are beautiful inside and out and God has put you in my life. Love you Sam!!
It's good to see how far you have come. One of the most important lessons I have learned from heartbreak is to not lose yourself in the sorrow. To not allow what happened to you to change the core person within, providing you like who you are ;-) It also taught me that it is unfair to hold someone accountable for what someone else has done to you in the past. A few key things I love about this message from you Samantha is "Pretty doesn't give you a license to mistreat and abuse anyone" and "People aren't responsible for tiptoeing around your triggers, you, not them, are responsible for managing your triggers" You have a loyal subscriber for life my dear.
For me, healing came with completely cutting myself off from the other person -- after realizing that cheating had most likely been a factor in the distance creeping in between us. I explored the situation through writing and self-published a paperback which naturally consumed my focus at the time of the split. (It was a form of therapy, you could say). And now, years later, I can be grateful that the relationship did not continue. God was also instrumental in my journey. Thanks for your content. I have now subscribed.
Lesson learned you can’t proceed with a new relationship without taking time to get to know yourself. Thank your the important words and sharing life own experience.
In my industry, if you don't like change, you will like being irrelevant even less. This applies to relationships. Sometimes people don't want to change their behavior and expect everyone else to conform to them. You have to learn how to evolve and mature or you will quickly find yourself singing "All By Myself"
I needed this msg my ex left me because of these exact reasons u mentioned. When he left me to be with someone else I felt like I was gona die !!! U are absolutely so beautiful inside and out and ur a woman of God I’m so happy I found ur chanelle ❤❤❤
Thanks for this message. Do know that you are indeed blessed to have learned these lessons at just 22 years old. Most people don’t figure these things out until much later in life.
Only a VIRTUOUS Woman can possess this level of understanding!! Look at you! I’m so proud of you! Very intelligent!! 1000% truth It’s the only thing that matters to a REAL MAN.
I suspect the majority of us have been in your relationship situation. I’ve had a bad breakup or two. I also look back at the one or two women in my life that I mistakenly did not give the opportunity to be in a relationship with me. They were there everyday but I was blind. I was immature and truly unwise to what was better for me as a man. I realize now that I was not ready to be in a healthy relationship with anyone because I needed to learn how to love me first. Once you can truly love yourself first, life and people look completely different. And you are 100% right. Once I realized and began my relationship with God, my life has skyrocketed to success. My life is so good now. I am so so blessed, at peace, and happy. God is my foundation and I don’t move without Him.
Six years ago, I met a beautiful Norwegian woman. We got on like a house on fire. She even moved over to the UK and live with me for a while. She promised to set up an online business and we were going to give it a go. She did have a few health problems, but I didn’t worry about that because she was my everything. But when I had a head injury, Boyd that change. I was unable to work for four years suffering with constant pain and a lot of medical problems. She stood by me. But after a while she give up and said I was not worth it. Three years ago, she left me I’ve never got over losing her. I’m a lot better now and doing a lot better. I don’t require so much medication. I do live with a constant headache but I’m doing not too bad. But still feel the loss. How does one get over it?
I learned that I shouldn’t be too forgiving. See people for who they are and not who I want them to be. Love yourself, even if that brings heartache. Never change who you are, because the other person is disrespectful to you. Just know that relationship is not for you. Never give up on love! Just as God has made Adam and Eve for each other, there’s a person out there that’s right for me. Respect and love others, but never forget to respect and love yourself as well. I just found this channel. I like this channel, because god is implemented into the section. Great job!.. so, now I have liked, commented and subscribed! May god bless you and your channel to continue to grow! Amen! 🙌🏿
@@LoveSamanthaLee Respect and blessing queen! I thank God for crossing our path on RUclips and I thank you for sacrificing your time to send a word. Your channel will do very well when you keep his message and energy going. May God continue to bless you and your family. Have a great day!
WOW.....this almost brought a tear to my eye....I'm not going to lie! LOL I'm 54 and I have been through many heartbreaks. One nearly took my life. From then on, as you did, I literally screamed out to the lord to help me. I felt like a total failure and worthless. I was truly broken and it ended my military career at the time. This was back in 1995. I got out of the military after service one tour and ended up divorcing my wife. With God's help, I moved on and built myself back up, and was able to have a successful career in IT which is what I'm doing now. I met my soulmate and have re-married. A lovely Brazilian lady whose personality reminds you of Sophia Vergara! LOL She's a firecracker but she keeps me on my toes. LOL and life is good. It's been a ride since then. But as you said, you cannot live life without God! I love your video and I have shared it with a friend of mine who is going through some stuff. You are truly inspirational! Keep doing what you're doing baby girl! You resemble one of my daughters who is your age.
(2) I Feel for your heartbreak. I was deep in that spell after 18 yrs with my HS sweetheart. As men, when we are young and up and coming . Sometimes, we can be overconfident to much pride and not attentive enough to the ladies we love. And what you just taught me is it's been10yrs since and my work in healing is not done yet.
Yo real talk that’s why I filed divorce from my wife the disrespect was unreal and I just got tired of being treated like I was nothing. I wanted to be somewhere I was celebrated.
There are many terrible feelings in life that we can endure the most would be losing your child. You can always date and start a whole new family with another person but that child's never going to come back that is the worst heartbreak in my opinion .Great video
When I pray for a relationship, the Lord always works in my favor! I dated some girl 13 years ago. She's pretty and well educated. We went on a few dates, everything was perfectly fine. Then, she ghosted me for like 2 weeks. (Back then, I didn't know what ghosting meant lol) She came back and asked to see me cuz she was going through some personal stuff. We went out, she said she didn't want to see me anymore while I was driving her home. I was devastated since I really thought I was going to marry her. So, I moved on and found someone else. Out of the blue, she started calling me again. I told her I was seeing someone else. She couldn't believe it, her ego was crushed lol. She asked to see me at the mall(bad idea) and I told I didn't have any more feelings for her. She didn't care! I made my girl meet us at the mall; I had nothing to hide. She saw my girl and she couldn't believe it cuz she's prettier than her. You should have seen the look on her face. Is that your girlfriend? Arrogantly, I said yeah. From that day forward, she started blowing up my phone. She was saying stuff like "I told my parents about you". "I'll come to your house and cook for you". I was like nah. She got married a few years ago and she reached out to me via Facebook. She realized I was feeling her anymore lol. The last thing I heard was she went through a divorce. Guess who cheated?
These are facts! In my experience, when most women first see their ex man’s new woman, they are insulted that the new woman is physically less attractive than her. She forgets that as men get older, they value PEACE over a pretty face and a hot body. A lot of pretty women think all they have to bring to a man is her look ANNND because she got some many men chasing her, she thinks she can talk to her man any way she likes. I know pretty women in their 50s who constantly stay single because of their MOUTH, always barking at men. After a certain age, all that pretty ain’t worth the relationship headache. Most men would rather get with an average looking woman who gives him peace.
Ok Samantha ✨ my dad was a pastor Growing up I use to hide my shoes so that I not have to go to Church,my dad would go and buy some more, Still I made lots of Mistakes, but now I am much better behaved and I His better ways of luv I think that Now I am Worthy to be in Your family too 💕✨🌞🙏
It’s hard for a person who cheated stay with one person in long run. They will eventually break. They leaned too early that the significant others can be replaced… or multiple people can be used for their benefit. Selfish people will be selfish. Why would you be heartbroken… when you cheated around… you created the reality. “I was too young…” Is excuse they use. Many people find their soulmate in their early 20’s No men wants “baddy” in the long run.
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having serous issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 23years just end that way.
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
Infinite knowledge... I've been thru it so I know it.. I don't speak any situation I haven't been through honestly... Some woman are so lost it's not funny but you're a Queen I must admit .. Beautiful Melanin Queen 💫✨💫
One thing that I've learned from my heartbreak is broken people don't really appreciate all the love, affection and attention that you give them and will still sleep with others behind your back and will exhaust all of their energy to hurt you as bad as they can. Now, I run from broken bitches
The passion and emotion you express speaks to they authenticity of your message. It's part of communication. It's not just the words we say, but how we say it and body language. That's were you connect with your viewer...at least that's what it says to me.
Fascinating. The primary issue with the relationship identified in the video was youth, but it seemed like the issue was infidelity. Her partner didn’t want to be exclusive with one woman. She says the man left her for a woman with a better personality, but if he started that new relationship by cheating he probably also cheated on the woman with the more loving, caring, and kind personality too… I think a major lesson to learn might be that one can’t force someone to live by your values - example someone who values monogamy can’t force someone who values cheating to change. Insecurity, mentioned in context of therapy, is also a major issue. If one thinks their toxic relationship is as good as it gets, that they don’t deserve better or able to get anything better then one will stay in a bad relationship because of these insecurities.
What i learned from the Heartbreak . And it wasnt right away. Was how to Self reflect, and to truly hear the other persons words of how my words and actions affected her. That wisdom told me that my heartbreak was imminent. Moreover an equal and pass due respones from her.
Holy Shux…that was intense…even when your talking about it…I’m sitting here quiet because of how relatable this was…you’ve got a lot of guts wearing your heart on your sleeve…but this will benefit a lot of people immensely..this is truely humbling man!
That's why I determine relationships off of personality. A woman in my past had strong feelings towards me but the way she made me feel at times, didn't sit well with my spirit. We weren't a couple at any point but could've been but it was better to go separate ways because on top of the disrespect, I was being played and dragged for not rushing into anything. I'm not a person who jumps into relationships just to be in one. I'd rather build with a person and build something meaningful together. What I learned from previous relationships, stop giving my all from the jump because women seem to love who I am and trample over my heart in no time. I've dealt with lies, cheating, being used and manipulated. All things I'm against. It tarnished my trust, I'd rather remain single till the heavenly father puts someone in my life who has morals and values they stand upon as well. Though I be wanting to give up on relationships. I know all women aren't the same but to have an old soul in modern times can at times be daunting
Yes ma'am, no one loves us more than God. AMEN. I'm wizening up and seeking out the "God first" woman for a blessed marriage, God willing. I really appreciate your channel, keep it up!
Love the video, appreciate your authenticity opening up about your personal life and keeping it 100 foreal!! Keep up the great work.Your influence with all the lives you touch is part of your legacy Continued success God bless.
Ur patience is ur weapon that forces deception to reveal itself learn n cherish this weapon it will delete n stop a lots of hurt n pain n keep u honorable
Howdy Ms Samantha...Young Lady You definitely told the truth about yourself and us ALL...I Love you for sharing your testimony. Carry ON my dear...You have an admirerer HERE...
PROVERBS 8:13. PROVERBS 11:2. PROVERBS 16:5 You were blessed to see and hear; be humble and appreciative always and NEVER forget we are nothing without the Him.
Wow it is rare to even see a unicorn but to have one open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable is absolutely beautiful I enjoy your testimony I truly believe God is the perfect matchmaker and we must always put her first I've looked at a lot of your content and I truly believe that this is the best one. You have so much to offer the right man now the one thing about our father is that he heels from the inside out may he continue to bless you on your journey Sam I know that we are just passing through but I wanted to say it was nice to notice you again God bless❤
All that was said is true when no kids are involved, but once married with a kid(s), it's a different matter altogether. I wanted to leave my wife when she was off the rails for 7 years, but I stayed because I didn' t care for her friends and people she met. In the end, I didn't want any of her potential next spouse raising our kid, especially when the kid is super bright.
14:10 You cannot give what you don't have and you cannot receive what you don't know, Love... 15:30 The one who is not capable to look like a fool/naive/childish for the other is the one who is not truly in love...
Hey Sam, I feel you on everything. people just dont seem to TRULY UNDERSTAND what a REAL FOLLOWER of CHRIST looks like, so they only PARTICIPATE the weekly TRADITION of going to church without beginning a RELATIONSHIP with Jesus. so much gets lost in translation. Im an EX player and ive had it MY way for a long time, but GODS WORD says no sex till marriage, amongst many other things ive learned since ive been a TRUE follower. so far im 2 1/4 years with no sex. lolI used to believe it was impossible but GOD.....my point is this, I TOTALLY AGREE with you, and as I SEE, youve grown and become a much better woman and person overall. I share many of the same things on my channel. much love to you sis. keep reppin for GOD!!!
Indeed and thank you 1st for KNOWING the TRUTH of God's word and 2nd for communicating His through your message. I do the EXACT SAME thing on my channel. I need to get back to it...been really busy...lol...anyway, keep the TRUTH CONSISTENT sis. Much ❤️!!
None of my exes were good for mental health so yes I ended the craziness, I'm happy all my exes are married,better her than me. It's a no DUSTY ZONE 🚨🛑⚠️ They are bitter , I never went back and I left for a million reasons God knows my ex wasn't healthy for me. Endings are a beautiful blessing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YES! It’s all about Love! Without Love life is valueless, and without self-Love you can’t Live. God is Love, and the Love of God is the Life of the Christ, and the Life of the Christ is the Light of Man, and the Light of Man is the Glory of God. Love is 360 degrees; Love comes full circle, without Love there is nothing of value in the Universe.
It's ironic, I have said this for most of my adult life. We teach our children lies, many of them. And of of the greatest lies is that time heals all wounds. No it just messes you up more. I would be intrigued to hear how you can tell if a person does not like themselves.
@LoveSamanthaLee. please just stop. Everyone knows your not her. I have reported more than 25 of these scam accounts now. Don't keep it up. Only warning.
Smart- articulate - wisdom- life lessons- Discernment - beautiful from inside & outside- you've done a lot of work in this healing journey- I get it- Big ups praise for YOU❤️💯 God First- much RESPECT FOR YOU
Some times we have to go through the pain to see and understand our own bullshit. And that's what happened to me. I've never been hurt that way in my life when me and my fiancé broke up. It was not good y'all. I had to for the first time in my life look at myself to see why things happened the way it did. I had to draw all of my strength from God and lean and trust in what He was telling me. That was the best thing that ever happened to me. Now there is no way I can be in a relationship or live my life without Gods approval or guidance. God is good. I am...
I agree with you on most of what you said. I think like you, when something isnt working you let it go with difficulty. At the end of the day we have to love ourselves, before we love others, and we do by being attached to God as you said.
HEY FAMILY! WATCH to the end… I get a little passionate (emotional). Let me know what you think in the comments and be sure to subscribe my channel @LOVESAMANTHALEE! I’m posting content as frequently as possible and don’t want you to miss one bit! ❤️ watch to the end… I get a little passionate (emotional).
Thank you 🙏 so much….
Your voice of reason gives me hope.. but it also makes me evaluate myself, constantly making calculated moves…
For real from the bottom of my heart ❤
🙏 thank you
I’m in Bahrain right now for work… your content keeps me motivated
You are the true essence of a diamond … cliche… maybe
But your ability to relate and call a ♠️ a ♠️
I wish u all the happiness in the world ❤❤❤❤
Because when I find mine, just know you had a direct influence
These are the thing no one want to say or admit
Thank u for keeping it a buck
Even in defeat its lessons learned beautiful 😍
Hear break is a lesson
Take the best part of a bad situation
I feel your pain💘🌹🌹🌹🌹
I've been there before but
1. Why did you and your love1one breakup
2. I feel like only a "Pretty Boy" with good "D" & "$" or Possibly any man with "$$" will definitely be the type who would play games on women as beautiful as you
3. I feel like Only the woman could ruined the relationship between her & I because im too much of a "Fun type guy"
Being serious when needed is cool. But never the Drama lol 😂 I rather have a good time(s) that's why I've learned to love "Fun Women"
🥃😤💭💭💭
You matter, thanks for being transparent, standing in the spotlight.
Disrespect from a woman no matter how pretty she is, kills everything.
Exactly
Strong facts
I know dats right!
Spending time alone will make you face your true self. See yourself the way God sees you. I learned also that when you trust God with you you don't need a man but you will want one. I am enough
Just the fact that you have a relationship with God means you're probably on the right track
God Bless you. You’re absolutely right ❤️
If most people took time being alone and figuring themselves out and addressing their issues and letting God lead them the world would definitely be a better place and marriages would last at a higher rate .
Thanks 💪🏽💯💯
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Hi Samantha, I want to first thank you for being open and honest with us. I truly appreciate your time, knowledge and experiences that you have gone thru to give us such wonderful advice. Second I have recently joined an on line dating site and with absolutely no self confidence, I am not sure what I have gotten myself into. Without The good Lord being by my side, I would be lost. I watch you daily and you have helped from afar, and I thank you for that. Third hold that beautiful daughter of yours tight. I lost mine in a car accident on 9/11/04. My blessing is that she went directly to Heaven and now I have a personal angel. You are beautiful inside and out and God has put you in my life. Love you Sam!!
God Bless you Jill! ❤️ thanks so much for your kind words. It really means a lot to me
All young ladies need to watch this.
It's good to see how far you have come. One of the most important lessons I have learned from heartbreak is to not lose yourself in the sorrow. To not allow what happened to you to change the core person within, providing you like who you are ;-) It also taught me that it is unfair to hold someone accountable for what someone else has done to you in the past. A few key things I love about this message from you Samantha is "Pretty doesn't give you a license to mistreat and abuse anyone" and "People aren't responsible for tiptoeing around your triggers, you, not them, are responsible for managing your triggers" You have a loyal subscriber for life my dear.
But she caused the heartbreak, what you been smoking 😂
My heartbreak also led me to God. I’m grateful
❤️
For me, healing came with completely cutting myself off from the other person -- after realizing that cheating had most likely been a factor in the distance creeping in between us. I explored the situation through writing and self-published a paperback which naturally consumed my focus at the time of the split. (It was a form of therapy, you could say). And now, years later, I can be grateful that the relationship did not continue. God was also instrumental in my journey. Thanks for your content. I have now subscribed.
Lesson learned you can’t proceed with a new relationship without taking time to get to know yourself. Thank your the important words and sharing life own experience.
Thank you for watching. This means a lot to me ❤️
She made a valid point about women talking to men reckless because you’re pretty. Samantha Lee is one cool chick…
Thank you. Lesson I had to learn ❤️
I really, really appreciate you being honest. You are 100 percent correct. He was begging you inside to turn the corner and be good for him.
Absolutely ☺️❤️
Glad she gave insight into how attractive women feels it gives them a license to be rude. Many are not aware of this.
Yes no excuse to be that way ❤️
In my industry, if you don't like change, you will like being irrelevant even less. This applies to relationships. Sometimes people don't want to change their behavior and expect everyone else to conform to them. You have to learn how to evolve and mature or you will quickly find yourself singing "All By Myself"
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Your #1 reason ,,, is what has happened to me !!! I lost myself in her ,, that door has been closed … the pain , is the best lesson ..
Pain teaches the best but harshly
Yes ,, oh yes ..
I needed this msg my ex left me because of these exact reasons u mentioned. When he left me to be with someone else I felt like I was gona die !!! U are absolutely so beautiful inside and out and ur a woman of God I’m so happy I found ur chanelle ❤❤❤
Thanks for this message. Do know that you are indeed blessed to have learned these lessons at just 22 years old. Most people don’t figure these things out until much later in life.
I’m fortunate and blessed to have learned this at an early age. Thank you for the support ❤️
Only a VIRTUOUS Woman can possess this level of understanding!!
Look at you!
I’m so proud of you!
Very intelligent!!
1000% truth
It’s the only thing that matters to a REAL MAN.
Looks are only temporary but when you find a good woman with a good heart knows her position in a relationship you have found a Jewel in your crown
This was deep and so real. I married a narcissist while in the love bomb stage. The recovery was looooong! 😅
The worst thing you can do to someone is break their heart. Money and all material things become worthless with a broken 💔.
When they break up with me, its forever ♾️
Lesson that I learned every man is not for me and I am not for every man.
All you need is one good one.
That's it
Yes this is very true ❤️
She's a beautiful woman.
I suspect the majority of us have been in your relationship situation. I’ve had a bad breakup or two.
I also look back at the one or two women in my life that I mistakenly did not give the opportunity to be in a relationship with me. They were there everyday but I was blind.
I was immature and truly unwise to what was better for me as a man.
I realize now that I was not ready to be in a healthy relationship with anyone because I needed to learn how to love me first. Once you can truly love yourself first, life and people look completely different.
And you are 100% right. Once I realized and began my relationship with God, my life has skyrocketed to success. My life is so good now. I am so so blessed, at peace, and happy.
God is my foundation and I don’t move without Him.
Yes God is the foundation! ❤️
Breakup are a real wake up if you love yourself. Applaud your openness
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Six years ago, I met a beautiful Norwegian woman. We got on like a house on fire. She even moved over to the UK and live with me for a while. She promised to set up an online business and we were going to give it a go. She did have a few health problems, but I didn’t worry about that because she was my everything. But when I had a head injury, Boyd that change. I was unable to work for four years suffering with constant pain and a lot of medical problems. She stood by me. But after a while she give up and said I was not worth it. Three years ago, she left me I’ve never got over losing her. I’m a lot better now and doing a lot better. I don’t require so much medication. I do live with a constant headache but I’m doing not too bad. But still feel the loss. How does one get over it?
You are right...life is nothing without God.....I struggle with this everyday, but I know in my heart nothing is more true on this planet....
Absolutely we are all figuring this thing called life out ❤️
I SEE WHY YOU ARE SO WISE...!
☺️❤️
I learned that I shouldn’t be too forgiving. See people for who they are and not who I want them to be. Love yourself, even if that brings heartache. Never change who you are, because the other person is disrespectful to you. Just know that relationship is not for you. Never give up on love! Just as God has made Adam and Eve for each other, there’s a person out there that’s right for me. Respect and love others, but never forget to respect and love yourself as well.
I just found this channel. I like this channel, because god is implemented into the section. Great job!.. so, now I have liked, commented and subscribed! May god bless you and your channel to continue to grow! Amen! 🙌🏿
This means a lot to me. Welcome to the family! And thank you for subscribing ❤️❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee Respect and blessing queen! I thank God for crossing our path on RUclips and I thank you for sacrificing your time to send a word. Your channel will do very well when you keep his message and energy going. May God continue to bless you and your family. Have a great day!
WOW.....this almost brought a tear to my eye....I'm not going to lie! LOL I'm 54 and I have been through many heartbreaks. One nearly took my life. From then on, as you did, I literally screamed out to the lord to help me. I felt like a total failure and worthless. I was truly broken and it ended my military career at the time. This was back in 1995. I got out of the military after service one tour and ended up divorcing my wife. With God's help, I moved on and built myself back up, and was able to have a successful career in IT which is what I'm doing now. I met my soulmate and have re-married. A lovely Brazilian lady whose personality reminds you of Sophia Vergara! LOL She's a firecracker but she keeps me on my toes. LOL and life is good. It's been a ride since then. But as you said, you cannot live life without God! I love your video and I have shared it with a friend of mine who is going through some stuff. You are truly inspirational! Keep doing what you're doing baby girl! You resemble one of my daughters who is your age.
FACTS!!!! God 1st Always. Beauty does not give anyone a pass. Self love is the Greatest.
Yes thank you Ed ❤️
You got it cause if we don't have a relationship with God nothing matters ..So great full for your story..
Yes our relationship with God is the most important ❤️
Love your transparency, humbleness and growth. It's wisdom manifested🔥🔥🔥
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(2) I Feel for your heartbreak. I was deep in that spell after 18 yrs with my HS sweetheart. As men, when we are young and up and coming . Sometimes, we can be overconfident to much pride and not attentive enough to the ladies we love. And what you just taught me is it's been10yrs since and my work in healing is not done yet.
SAMANTHA, YOU ARE THE FIRST WOMAN THAT I'VE HEARD WITH SUCH A HIGH DEGREE OF REFLECTIVE PRUDENCE. I WOULD LOVE TO BE DEVOTED TO YOU...
Yo real talk that’s why I filed divorce from my wife the disrespect was unreal and I just got tired of being treated like I was nothing. I wanted to be somewhere I was celebrated.
Yes you deserved better ❤️
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There are many terrible feelings in life that we can endure the most would be losing your child. You can always date and start a whole new family with another person but that child's never going to come back that is the worst heartbreak in my opinion .Great video
Thank you!
I really appreciate you sharing.
When I pray for a relationship, the Lord always works in my favor!
I dated some girl 13 years ago. She's pretty and well educated. We went on a few dates, everything was perfectly fine.
Then, she ghosted me for like 2 weeks. (Back then, I didn't know what ghosting meant lol)
She came back and asked to see me cuz she was going through some personal stuff. We went out, she said she didn't want to see me anymore while I was driving her home.
I was devastated since I really thought I was going to marry her. So, I moved on and found someone else.
Out of the blue, she started calling me again. I told her I was seeing someone else. She couldn't believe it, her ego was crushed lol.
She asked to see me at the mall(bad idea) and I told I didn't have any more feelings for her. She didn't care!
I made my girl meet us at the mall; I had nothing to hide. She saw my girl and she couldn't believe it cuz she's prettier than her.
You should have seen the look on her face. Is that your girlfriend? Arrogantly, I said yeah.
From that day forward, she started blowing up my phone. She was saying stuff like "I told my parents about you".
"I'll come to your house and cook for you". I was like nah. She got married a few years ago and she reached out to me via Facebook.
She realized I was feeling her anymore lol.
The last thing I heard was she went through a divorce. Guess who cheated?
Our father will literally let you take the lead but still be right there with you when we’re in our storms.
You are so real. I enjoy listening to your RUclips channel. Always great advice. Thank you!
Thanks Nicole ❤️
Humility leads to Healing which leads to Wholeness 🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Yes
These are facts!
In my experience, when most women first see their ex man’s new woman, they are insulted that the new woman is physically less attractive than her. She forgets that as men get older, they value PEACE over a pretty face and a hot body. A lot of pretty women think all they have to bring to a man is her look ANNND because she got some many men chasing her, she thinks she can talk to her man any way she likes. I know pretty women in their 50s who constantly stay single because of their MOUTH, always barking at men. After a certain age, all that pretty ain’t worth the relationship headache. Most men would rather get with an average looking woman who gives him peace.
Yesss! 👌🏼
Love God with all your heart...So he can teach you to love everyone else from the heart 🙏🏽
Yes ❤️
The number 1 lesson l also had to learn it the hard way through a very bad breakup. Sis l can relate
Ok Samantha ✨ my dad was a pastor
Growing up I use to hide my shoes so that I not have to go to Church,my dad would go and buy some more, Still I made lots of
Mistakes, but now I am much better behaved and I His better ways of luv
I think that Now I am Worthy to be in
Your family too 💕✨🌞🙏
It’s hard for a person who cheated stay with one person in long run.
They will eventually break. They leaned too early that the significant others can be replaced… or multiple people can be used for their benefit. Selfish people will be selfish.
Why would you be heartbroken… when you cheated around… you created the reality.
“I was too young…” Is excuse they use. Many people find their soulmate in their early 20’s
No men wants “baddy” in the long run.
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having serous issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 23years just end that way.
Amazing I am kinda in a similar situation, how did you solve it
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual spell caster who help me out.
Please where can I find her
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
I just reached out thank you so much 😊
Infinite knowledge... I've been thru it so I know it.. I don't speak any situation I haven't been through honestly... Some woman are so lost it's not funny but you're a Queen I must admit .. Beautiful Melanin Queen 💫✨💫
One thing that I've learned from my heartbreak is broken people don't really appreciate all the love, affection and attention that you give them and will still sleep with others behind your back and will exhaust all of their energy to hurt you as bad as they can. Now, I run from broken bitches
Great testimony my Sister! God will truly bless you for it. I am confident someone was blessed by what they heard I cannot be the only one.
The passion and emotion you express speaks to they authenticity of your message. It's part of communication. It's not just the words we say, but how we say it and body language. That's were you connect with your viewer...at least that's what it says to me.
Fascinating. The primary issue with the relationship identified in the video was youth, but it seemed like the issue was infidelity.
Her partner didn’t want to be exclusive with one woman.
She says the man left her for a woman with a better personality, but if he started that new relationship by cheating he probably also cheated on the woman with the more loving, caring, and kind personality too…
I think a major lesson to learn might be that one can’t force someone to live by your values - example someone who values monogamy can’t force someone who values cheating to change.
Insecurity, mentioned in context of therapy, is also a major issue. If one thinks their toxic relationship is as good as it gets, that they don’t deserve better or able to get anything better then one will stay in a bad relationship because of these insecurities.
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Good point time doesn't heal wounds. It takes treatment and effort.
Yes!
What i learned from the Heartbreak . And it wasnt right away. Was how to Self reflect, and to truly hear the other persons words of how my words and actions affected her. That wisdom told me that my heartbreak was imminent. Moreover an equal and pass due respones from her.
THE ALL SEEING EYE IS WATCHING AND LISTENING LOOK UPON THE DIVINE LIGHT SAYS THE ONE ❤❤❤❤❤
Holy Shux…that was intense…even when your talking about it…I’m sitting here quiet because of how relatable this was…you’ve got a lot of guts wearing your heart on your sleeve…but this will benefit a lot of people immensely..this is truely humbling man!
Hi Sam. I really enjoy your videos. Yes God is good and loves us no matter what we’ve done in the past.
That's why I determine relationships off of personality. A woman in my past had strong feelings towards me but the way she made me feel at times, didn't sit well with my spirit. We weren't a couple at any point but could've been but it was better to go separate ways because on top of the disrespect, I was being played and dragged for not rushing into anything. I'm not a person who jumps into relationships just to be in one. I'd rather build with a person and build something meaningful together.
What I learned from previous relationships, stop giving my all from the jump because women seem to love who I am and trample over my heart in no time. I've dealt with lies, cheating, being used and manipulated. All things I'm against. It tarnished my trust, I'd rather remain single till the heavenly father puts someone in my life who has morals and values they stand upon as well. Though I be wanting to give up on relationships. I know all women aren't the same but to have an old soul in modern times can at times be daunting
Yes ma'am, no one loves us more than God. AMEN. I'm wizening up and seeking out the "God first" woman for a blessed marriage, God willing. I really appreciate your channel, keep it up!
I love your channel so much ❤️🙏 you had so much knowledge and God fearing woman ❤️🙏
This hit home so much for me even to the dealing with the heartbreak years after it happen. Girl
It’s very difficult
I pray for you Samantha
Love the video, appreciate your authenticity opening up about your personal life and keeping it 100 foreal!! Keep up the great work.Your influence with all the lives you touch is part of your legacy Continued success God bless.
Samantha I am feeling that.. Been there done that. Thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching Regina ❤️
Those who created the pain of yesterday do not control ur pleasures of tomorrow. When u change ur focus you will change ur feelings
Ur patience is ur weapon that forces deception to reveal itself learn n cherish this weapon it will delete n stop a lots of hurt n pain n keep u honorable
Speaking truth through the ether, it's appreciated
Thank you ❤️
Wow you learned enough for for you and me and a lot of folk in this heart break. Keeping God first in your life is for real.
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Good morning 🌅 lesson learned from heart 💔 ummm you CAN'T change no one... They have to change on their own 💯
God bless you Sis for finding your way and doing the work! 🙌
God Bless you! Thank you ☺️ ❤️
Howdy Ms Samantha...Young Lady You definitely told the truth about yourself and us ALL...I Love you for sharing your testimony. Carry ON my dear...You have an admirerer HERE...
Touching video. Thanks for sharing Sam.
Thanks for watching Tajuan
When we trust we let our guard down thats when we get hurt.
This is true ❤️
PROVERBS 8:13. PROVERBS 11:2. PROVERBS 16:5
You were blessed to see and hear; be humble and appreciative always and NEVER forget we are nothing without the Him.
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Hey, my sister. I did not know you had a RUclips channel until now. I have been watching your contact for quite all some time. God bless you
Welcome to the fam
Samantha your awesome, I 100 percent love your faith! One of the most beautiful things a person can have! God bless 🙏
Thanks Larry ☺️❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee God bless you.
my last heartbreak evolved that relationship with God to a whole notha level. So true on #1 lesson. Mahalo Samantha!!!!
Wow it is rare to even see a unicorn but to have one open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable is absolutely beautiful I enjoy your testimony I truly believe God is the perfect matchmaker and we must always put her first I've looked at a lot of your content and I truly believe that this is the best one. You have so much to offer the right man now the one thing about our father is that he heels from the inside out may he continue to bless you on your journey Sam I know that we are just passing through but I wanted to say it was nice to notice you again God bless❤
God Bless you Maurice ❤️
All that was said is true when no kids are involved, but once married with a kid(s), it's a different matter altogether. I wanted to leave my wife when she was off the rails for 7 years, but I stayed because I didn' t care for her friends and people she met. In the end, I didn't want any of her potential next spouse raising our kid, especially when the kid is super bright.
I always felt like pretty women felt this way based on their actions. Great internal work.
Thanks so much ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee You’re an inspiration, beautiful inside and out. I can see the Lord in you.
14:10 You cannot give what you don't have and you cannot receive what you don't know, Love...
15:30 The one who is not capable to look like a fool/naive/childish for the other is the one who is not truly in love...
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You the realist woman I've ever heard speak! Seems like you know my whole life about women lol
Thank ya thank ya
Hey Sam, I feel you on everything. people just dont seem to TRULY UNDERSTAND what a REAL FOLLOWER of CHRIST looks like, so they only PARTICIPATE the weekly TRADITION of going to church without beginning a RELATIONSHIP with Jesus. so much gets lost in translation. Im an EX player and ive had it MY way for a long time, but GODS WORD says no sex till marriage, amongst many other things ive learned since ive been a TRUE follower. so far im 2 1/4 years with no sex. lolI used to believe it was impossible but GOD.....my point is this, I TOTALLY AGREE with you, and as I SEE, youve grown and become a much better woman and person overall. I share many of the same things on my channel. much love to you sis. keep reppin for GOD!!!
Thank you for your kind words. God Bless You! ❤️
Indeed and thank you 1st for KNOWING the TRUTH of God's word and 2nd for communicating His through your message. I do the EXACT SAME thing on my channel. I need to get back to it...been really busy...lol...anyway, keep the TRUTH CONSISTENT sis. Much ❤️!!
I'm loving the contents, Amanda!
None of my exes were good for mental health so yes I ended the craziness, I'm happy all my exes are married,better her than me. It's a no DUSTY ZONE 🚨🛑⚠️ They are bitter , I never went back and I left for a million reasons
God knows my ex wasn't healthy for me. Endings are a beautiful blessing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YES! It’s all about Love! Without Love life is valueless, and without self-Love you can’t Live. God is Love, and the Love of God is the Life of the Christ, and the Life of the Christ is the Light of Man, and the Light of Man is the Glory of God. Love is 360 degrees; Love comes full circle, without Love there is nothing of value in the Universe.
God Is Love ❤️
It's ironic, I have said this for most of my adult life. We teach our children lies, many of them. And of of the greatest lies is that time heals all wounds. No it just messes you up more.
I would be intrigued to hear how you can tell if a person does not like themselves.
@LoveSamanthaLee. please just stop. Everyone knows your not her. I have reported more than 25 of these scam accounts now. Don't keep it up. Only warning.
Discernment: God’s great gift…We must pray and strive to constantly possess it!
Yes discernment ❤️
Smart- articulate - wisdom- life lessons- Discernment - beautiful from inside & outside- you've done a lot of work in this healing journey- I get it- Big ups praise for YOU❤️💯 God First- much RESPECT FOR YOU
Thank you ❤️
Some times we have to go through the pain to see and understand our own bullshit. And that's what happened to me. I've never been hurt that way in my life when me and my fiancé broke up. It was not good y'all. I had to for the first time in my life look at myself to see why things happened the way it did. I had to draw all of my strength from God and lean and trust in what He was telling me. That was the best thing that ever happened to me. Now there is no way I can be in a relationship or live my life without Gods approval or guidance. God is good. I am...
You are beautiful. Thank you for the wisdom ❤️
Thank you. Happy to share
Wow, ..., amazing. I know some folks that need to hear this!
Thanks for listening ❤️
You're such a beautiful woman, may all your blessings come to existence.
Awesome video, especially your #1 lesson! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching! ❤️
I agree with you on most of what you said. I think like you, when something isnt working you let it go with difficulty. At the end of the day we have to love ourselves, before we love others, and we do by being attached to God as you said.
Some women believe having a pretty face is the entire gateway to a real man's heart and that's totally wrong.
Yes it is definitely wrong ❤️
She here to Heal and I wouldnt take her advice.
He is going to go where he is celebrated and not where he is tolerated at!
God works for any situation 🙏🏾
Yes HE does ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee I’m Samuel Lee Sam for short I love your name ..
Amen. Amazing testimony. It’s a process is the lesson.