Hi there sweetie.... I totally understand what you're talking about when you say "unconditional love" for people. I was raised by a Marine & both my parents were judgmental people; well my Mom was ... Dad wasn't around a lot & he was a closed book regarding feelings, etc. I, of course, grew up judgmental but reached a point in time that I knew I didn't want to be that person anymore. I'm so happy since I reached that point... I meet new peeps all the time and even if they dress weird/act different from what I consider normal/ or just plain DIFFERENT.... I'm excited to meet them & learn their story. Always a story that lets me know how wonderful they really are; they just hide it somehow and get judged.... all anyone has to do is just start with "Hello" and act interested; I'm always surprised how easy it is. You are an awesome lady and I'm so happy you are my friend. ♥♥♥
You Brenda, are one of the most kind inclusive people I know. The way you re-learned how to see the world is astounding! Im glad you were able to overcome your parent view of the world. ♥️ 🤗 im glad to know you as well
Rebecca, I totally get it when you said that you couldn't choose your values growing up, but instead, they were superimposed upon you by narcissistic parents and then by society, perhaps the USMC. It feels weird now, doesn't it, that you now have autonomy to choose your own personal values, when everything was always decided for you? Self discovery is a profound thing, though not always flattering. It was Jesus who taught that we should love our enemies. This can be a mountainous challenge, since it goes against our nature. Learning to love unconditionally without trying to change someone is the greatest challenge to even the very best of us. Oh, it's time to check your email again! 🤭
@@c2dvr I try not to focus on what other “should” or “should not” do, because I cannot control what others do. What I can control is how I respond and that is what I try to focus on. So I don’t hold the expectations that others “need” to do anything for me. That’s a recipe for dissatisfaction and unhappiness
Hopefully you find the psychological balance. Also, please try and maybe write down your feelings more. Also, try to love your personalities as well. Like the Archetypical Personalities as per Psychology. Love can mean also just a hug in your imagination to your own personalities of your mum, the little girl all of them are your shadows...
Write a script my friend. You have great thoughts .unconditional love is dangerous. I love my kids unconditionally is all. It’s our need to be accepted like you said before. Edit some bits and pieces just as an editors point of view. But I love what’s inside your mind! Emotional intelligence is a mofo figure out your love language and blood type . Come to Baja foo! I would love to make a CASTRO PRODUCTIONS for one of my favorite Marines
Unedited and unscripted is how I make my videos. I believe unconditional love is the answer - not only to me and in my life, but the world. I’ve still got some things I’ve gotta do on this trip. And I don’t know what the future holds for me, maybe I’ll find myself in Baja
Hi there sweetie.... I totally understand what you're talking about when you say "unconditional love" for people. I was raised by a Marine & both my parents were judgmental people; well my Mom was ... Dad wasn't around a lot & he was a closed book regarding feelings, etc. I, of course, grew up judgmental but reached a point in time that I knew I didn't want to be that person anymore. I'm so happy since I reached that point... I meet new peeps all the time and even if they dress weird/act different from what I consider normal/ or just plain DIFFERENT.... I'm excited to meet them & learn their story. Always a story that lets me know how wonderful they really are; they just hide it somehow and get judged.... all anyone has to do is just start with "Hello" and act interested; I'm always surprised how easy it is. You are an awesome lady and I'm so happy you are my friend. ♥♥♥
You Brenda, are one of the most kind inclusive people I know. The way you re-learned how to see the world is astounding! Im glad you were able to overcome your parent view of the world. ♥️ 🤗 im glad to know you as well
Love the book reference! I love the quote u shared!! Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing ur story!
🥰 thank you
Much prayers and healing Rebecca
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Rebecca, I totally get it when you said that you couldn't choose your values growing up, but instead, they were superimposed upon you by narcissistic parents and then by society, perhaps the USMC. It feels weird now, doesn't it, that you now have autonomy to choose your own personal values, when everything was always decided for you? Self discovery is a profound thing, though not always flattering. It was Jesus who taught that we should love our enemies. This can be a mountainous challenge, since it goes against our nature. Learning to love unconditionally without trying to change someone is the greatest challenge to even the very best of us. Oh, it's time to check your email again! 🤭
I felt angry when you said “its time to check your email again.” I can manage my own email.
@@HammzRadio No harm was meant. 🙃
What our enemies need is accountability!Atleast amends made by them.Committing crimes is not a right!
U.S.Navy retired.
@@c2dvr I try not to focus on what other “should” or “should not” do, because I cannot control what others do.
What I can control is how I respond and that is what I try to focus on.
So I don’t hold the expectations that others “need” to do anything for me. That’s a recipe for dissatisfaction and unhappiness
Hopefully you find the psychological balance. Also, please try and maybe write down your feelings more. Also, try to love your personalities as well. Like the Archetypical Personalities as per Psychology. Love can mean also just a hug in your imagination to your own personalities of your mum, the little girl all of them are your shadows...
Write a script my friend. You have great thoughts .unconditional love is dangerous. I love my kids unconditionally is all. It’s our need to be accepted like you said before. Edit some bits and pieces just as an editors point of view. But I love what’s inside your mind! Emotional intelligence is a mofo figure out your love language and blood type . Come to Baja foo! I would love to make a CASTRO PRODUCTIONS for one of my favorite Marines
Unedited and unscripted is how I make my videos.
I believe unconditional love is the answer - not only to me and in my life, but the world.
I’ve still got some things I’ve gotta do on this trip. And I don’t know what the future holds for me, maybe I’ll find myself in Baja
Hello….i hope you have nothing but goodness coming your way…
Lovely I hope you’re well, I was just thinking about you and wanted to stop by and say hey