I f*cked up the first 40 years of my life | Mel Robbins
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This man desperately wants to change his life but says he JUST CAN’T bring himself to make his dreams a reality. Sound familiar?
It’s easy to avoid the things you’re scared of. He used video games to distract himself from what he actually had to do. I used drinking.
The first 40 years of my life, I was a hot mess - learning every lesson the HARD way, drinking through my feelings and beating myself up for not being where I wanted to be.
I am where I am today because I lived through the hard shit and LEARNED from it.
I stopped AVOIDING the things I knew I had to do.
I CHANGED my habits and my mindset so I could focus on my dreams.
My wish for you ➡️ Use this hard moment in your life to catapult yourself forward toward your dreams.
Every day you have a choice:
Am I going to avoid doing what I have to do?
Or am I going to make shit happen and push myself to change?
Get up every damn day and high five your way forward. Cheer for yourself.
⬆️That’s how you make your dreams come true.⬆️
What’s one thing you want for yourself that you can take action on TODAY?
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I am 52 and just had a failed business leaving me in a lot of debt. But I'm ready to begin again. I know I can succeed at any age. Thank you, Mel!
At least you did something you wanted to do and took control of your life. You took a risk, probably learned a tonne and will bounce back from it. I just turned 40 and have nothing but regret.
I feel you - I'm the same age and in a similar position. I'm cheering for you and sending you good vibes for much success!!
@@Paulo-nf7ms lol the hell you say. there's a lot of things in life you don't objectively recover parity from.
I remember an article about this young Indian couple that came to the US to study and then managed to get a green card. They eventually married , had a couple of kids etc. Initially worked for someone else and then made the jump to owning one McDonalds, then two, then three etc , lots of ups and downs and today they are wealthy . They said that in India if your business goes down , that little nugget will go on your gravestone with you one day. You are never forgiven. Here in the US, you get a second, third and fifth chance and the only thing that people are really interested in is ...."and what are you planning to do next?" As an immigrant from another country I can fully vouch for what the Indian couple said. Most countries will make sure that your failures are advertised....not here in the US
Well, it's a motivational phrase which IMHO is full of wisdom. You can interpret it as you choose. Whilst I don't necessarily dispute what you say, other phrases that come to mind are "EVERYTING is an opportunity" and "Today is the first day of the rest of your life". Even in the bleakest of situations, it's up to you whether you decide to focus on the negative, or on the opportunity.@@GonzoT38
Thank You! I’m 43 and feel like I wasted my life just partying it away, dead end job, single, no kids, and just feel lost. I’m ready to make a change to better my life. I’m tired!!!
Your life like mine, we same age too! Isn't embarrassing to see how far ahead people you knew in the past are in life. But when you were good friends with them or last saw them, you were just a pair of party goers, drinking the nights away in bliss. Now these people are directors of businesses, doctors, heads of education, etc.
We're the same age and similar issues, but I always say if there's life, then there's still room for change, we can still change, good luck on your/our journeys!
If it makes you feel better. At least you got to party your life away, some people are your age no money AND never got to have fun or party. So at least you had some fun 🤷🏻♀️just trying to help you think about your situation in a better way
Waiter: “Would you like to hear about our specials?”
Mel: “I...f****d up my life.”
That's exactly what I thought! "Uh, my shift ends in ten. Did you want me to bring the dessert menu or can I go now?" lol I do like her advice though.
Si, si, senora 😂
@@professorlayabout4878 😂
😆 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for the belly laugh today - I needed it. You win the internet today. Cheers.
I f****d up the first 27 years of my life... it sucks.. while others my age are excelling, im unemployed, broke and lost... but I havent given up hope... praying for everyone that is in the same situation
Same
Mee to you are not alone
Can I join your club guys? I am 28, and today will be my 1001th attempt to start life anew.
I wish I could have started my life with 27. I am 40. And I am slowly, very slowly just starting my life. It was so bad that I never even had a real job. Shame and all. Very hard to forgive myself.
Same here but we are here to change it
My 39th birthday was in March and without even realizing it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. All this time I’ve wasted from depression because of my parents divorce and then my moms death also how many decisions I’ve made out of fear. It’s time to put that stuff behind me and move on. I started going to the gym and working on my broken heart...the road to recovery is going to be tough but I have decided that I am worth it!
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You are! You go girl!!!!
Exactly right. It is so darn easy to procrastinate. But you never get that time back. It slips away. Do it now.
Yes, you are right🙏🏻 !
Totally agree. I'm 50. Where did the years go? I had dreams. I would like to start my own business but, working as a litigation secretary (defense side) for 30 years, I've seen so much crap it's terrified me.
@@tee1974 you can do. Go and get your dream. The guy who started KFC never stopped
I am there, start my work out... its damm hard!
@@tee1974do it x
I f*ucked all 53 years of my life. I have cancer now, I’ve given up. I’m just happy the cancer has come along to remove the pain forever. I didn't drink or do anything that was addictive. I just worked on my career and never thought about having quality of life. I missed out on so much-chasing money and trying to be successful
So sorry to hear that. How are you doing now?
I'm 41 now and finally have reconciled enough of my childhood trauma to allow unshakeable courage to break through. Just this year, I've finally allowed myself the chance to try everything I couldn't try or pursue when I was 10-20 years younger. This includes planning for a career pivot and choosing my own life path.
F Yeah!
Similar man
Love this. I’m 38 and feel the same as you do! Praying the best for you!
Love that for you! 👏👏👏 I had a similar experience in terms of working on healing generational cycles and traumas on both sides of the family. We can underestimate the impact of past trauma in the present. Healing work is essential and now, we are more free to pursue our respective dreams and goals. It's not too late while we are 6 ft above ground and have access to resources that can help us along the way. Best wishes! 🙂
*Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of the fear.*
Well said
Stealing a quote from Will Smith huh? smh
@@alexortega714....Who stole it from Jack Canfield....so...whose the thief....???
@@alexortega714 Alas...there was also Tony Robbins, who 20 plus years ago was saying this. It would appear your idol was not the first...nor will he likely be the last...
It’s still a great quote.
So true...I started changing last 2weeks...stopped drinking every night and feel so good..thank you ...Mel
Awesome! You are on the path of true love, self-love. Never forget,, your life matters and you are divine. Love and blessings in your journey into you. ❤
Mel is my internet mom ,
I love Mel ❣ (the 5 sec rule is gold )
"Don’t expect change to happen overnight, even if it’s not always visible it’s making more impact than you think" ❤
hello beautiful❤😂
I really like your thought over here❤😂
Love how down to earth Mel is, a real gem to the world 🙌
@Happy👩Healthy 💪Healing🌹 bless my love 😃🙌
I wouldnt say using a waiter as an therapist is beeing down to earth 🤣
I've learned that every loss has an inherent gain to be found and every failure has a lesson to be learned. Most of all, never give up.
Guy probably quit at the end of his shift 😂
Two years on, we need a follow up conversation with this dude
He didn't even start this conversation; he just came to take her order 😂
Hahahahahaha!!!!
Yea bro
I think that the waiter ended up drinking himself to sleep after listening to this!!!!
Decided to be an artist at 40. Never did art since I was a kid. Growing, learning, being who you want to be...is the easy part. Forgetting the past and who you were is trickier. 1 day at a time. Win the day.
I admire this. I’m 38 and want to become a singer, yes I can actually do it. But you know 40 year old new artist 🤣🤣. Hope you’re enjoying yourself and making strides!
You got this!
But how do you pay your bills?
the worst part of life is when you are surrounded with people full of negativity. to the point no matter how much you push yourself, they are just there.
Sometimes you need to move on. 😊
I love you Mel! I turned 40 this year and your video gives me hope. I'll be one year sober next month and you have been one of the angels that are making me realize how things can change for the better. Kisses from Bogotá, Colombia.
I love that this helped you too dear! I just noticed you got a “fake” reply too from someone claiming to be “Mel Robbins”, sad that people go out of their way to pretend to be someone else, and try to scam you.
If you check my comments, you’ll see this fake person sent me the same exact messages.
Escobar country?
Congrats.
Hello beautiful
I really love your sense of belonging here❤😂
Mel I wish I had more women like you in my life. I'm super grateful for your encouragement, Thanks
So wonderful to help others, as you do too Mel! I waited till my 40s to go to College, and I learned a lot, but I didn’t experience as much until I started taking action! I wasted 40 years of my life too! I stayed in an abusive relationship, I ran from my fears, I hid behind lies, and I lacked confidence! These past few years have started my journey to where I want to be! Thank you for doing what you do Mel!! Looking forward to what your going to share with us in Atlanta in September!!
I’m confused on your reply. And that code doesn’t make sense.
@@briluv44 It's not Mel, somebody created an account with the same name to confuse people. Good luck on your journey Becky! You are still a young person, today 40s are new 30s so you have time to start from scratch and live your most wonderful life you've always wanted.
can you pls send me your email address❤
needed to chat with you privately ❤🙏🌹🥰
53... I have finally QUIT MY FAMILY... they are awful people to try to survive... living my own life now, free from their attacks. Alone but so daymn happy
This just appeared in my feed in one of the most stressed days I've had in so long. I'm at a turning point in life. 33 years old and I keep failing at everything I do. I needed this.
Miss Robbins, I know you will likely never see this comment but I just saw this title and watched your short video. I've wasted more than my share of the last 5 years sttuggling with all that you mentioned in the video. For today this helped me get up and moving. I'm hopefully that I may get into a daily routine of motivation as I have many people & 8 grandchildren that could benefit from all that I can offer if I can find the courage to do it daily. Bless you and your time to help just one person make a difference to so many other lives. Much peace and happiness in your own journey.
Frikkin love Mel. I can't believe how much her teachings helped me. Virtual hugs and love Mel. x
EXACTLY what I needed to hear!!! Thank you, Mel!
I'm 42 yrs. old and going from solo entrepreneur to staff/brick and mortar with the end goal of going country wide. Feeling like it's maybe too late for me, and that my bad habits of procrastination/ lack of follow-through will return. But it's happening less and less with my new efforts!
Winners are the ones that keep getting up✊🏻
I hope to hire Mel to come speak at my company someday 🤓❤️
I’m 38 halfway to 39 and feel the same way. Sure, I’ve had hard things happen to me too personal to name here, but wow, have I left grief, fear, and low self-esteem steal so much time due to the heartache of those losses. Like many people here, it looks like this realization hits us around the same time. I woke up on my 38th birthday more depressed than I’ve been in years because I realized how much I had let slip by due to heartache, fear, and loss. Mel Robbins has helped me get a grip and finally wake up to what can be. Now, I just have to figure out how to do it and find the courage to push through when I can’t see the end of the tunnel. Many peace and blessings to all you others out there in similar situations. We will all get through this together. As my brother would say, just keep grinding. God bless!❤
Just wanted to say, yes indeed same age. And I noticed it's also often roughly the same problems. I lost a decade to burnout and depression, and the previous decades weren't that great either. I missed out on a couple things, which still saddens me sometimes.
I'm 40 and it took me many years to crawl out of a dark place, regain some strength and confidence and since a couple months I'm feeling much better and am in the process of cleaning up my entire life and get rid of all old baggage. I'm feeling that I currently start a new chapter. With many lessons learned.
I realized in recent years that I don't need to be ashamed of my life and my shortcomings/issues because almost everyone seems to be some sort of screwed up. Some are just not aware of it, amd most try to hide it even from friends amd family.
I am 25 and had just written in a google doc how I felt like I’ve wasted my life, but wow I’m glad I came across this video ❤ much love to you all, we are all on time, I believe in you ❤
25 still very young
I've f-d up the first 41 years of my life culminating in a motorcycle accident. Lost my job because I couldn't walk for months, license expired, had to move in with family to be nursed back to health. Every day is a battle against the dark voices in my head and my girlfriend is ghosting me dealing with her own struggles leaving no support system. I have to claw my way out of this situation.
Whatever you do dont rely on your GF.
How nice that you really took the time to chat with that young man and offer him advice. It meant a lot to him i think.
He looks ready to scram. I don’t think he asked for any advice.
He did ask for advice. Mel said he kept coming back to ask questions. He probably was just nervous talking to her.
I wrote down something similar the other day
“I deserve to love myself ENOUGH to change my life for the better”
It always helps to hear someone else say it. Thank you 🙏
My bad habits are procrastinating because of perfectionism and fear of failure, and imposter syndrome.
I've had the same experience - I also F*CKED UP the first 40 years of my life - by just deciding to have fun without making the sacrifices and putting in the work to reach my goals and achieve my dreams. That's changed now and I am putting all the work I can! I subscribed based on this video by the way ;-)
We are All love and worthy of love and respect.
I'm in my 40s. And still don't figured it all out. I don't want to blame anyone. It's my own responsibility.
I’m 37 and RUclips knows what I need to hear more than I do! I’ve never been a drinker and over the last month I’ve started to drink a beer or two before bed…am I on a slippery slope?
Tremendous courage Mel, well done…
Hi beautiful?
I'm 25 and I feel like I fucked up the first 25 years of my life too. Stuff like this help. I see so many 25 or younger seeming to have it all figure out, grinding, getting there then there's me riddled in fear
I'm with you
Well that's your first problem stop comparing yourself to other people and that fear will greatly reduce. Everyone has a different starting position but the finish line is the same for everyone and it's being content with who and where you are in life.
Instead compare yourself to who you were yesterday and strive to be better than that person even small increments of improvement matter. Doing so will serve as your motivation to keep going until you have so much momentum that the struggle to improve and learn won't feel like your struggling any more. It doesn't matter how long it takes for you to get to where you want to be just as long as you get there.
25 is still so young!!! I know not comparing yourself to others is hard, but remember, your peers only post the good stuff in social media. It's all just a facade.
On same boat.
I can relate to the learning from resucing myself, I had a life changing accident which took me from my 9-5 but also woke me up spiritually, I was on the bottom dealing with depression and anxiety and everything was heightend from my brain injury I just survived.. I though back at what made me happy as a child and that was making videos and so I deceided to take my story and post it onto the internet just to raise awareness, then i started about posting videos about Amsterdam which eventually led me to meet Uncle Stoner who then flew me to Jamaica as his videographer for a month, EVERYONE doubted me, and it was scary flying to a place I have never been to with only $17 but I did it, and fast forward to today, Jamaica has become a huge part of my life and now I try and show the beauty it has to the world!
I needed to hear this!
They always got mad I asked so many questions, thank you for embracing that from him!
Loved that title, summary of my own life. At 40, 2 years ago now, I said enough is enough. My goal for 2022 was having my own flourishing business, I achieved that, my goal for 2023 is fantastic health. 2024 marrying the wife I found in 2023, or if I don't find her in 2023 then that will be my main goal in 2024. Then having one kid four years in a row. Life will be amazing for me at 50.
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I really messed up my 20s. At 36 I've managed to turn a few things around. New subscriber!! 💚
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I am 30 i am studying psychiatry, my mother wanted to study psychology but she did not and she always said.My son do whatever the fruk u want, this is only one fricking life, enjoy it, hug, kiss, run, eat, just don't waste it. It looks like u r gonna live 100 years but u r not, u r living seconds of a life, be happy. And thats why i am not scare of life, lets see what tomorrow brings. Lets enjoy today, tonight, now, this amazing present.
Sounds like he recognized Mel & asked her some life questions... It's easier for some commenters to be sarcastic & envious 🥀 There's no happiness being that sad, jealous, envious person🌹
@@biancadelarosa7986 - this makes no sense. What are you trying to say???
I made mistakes and went through hell, but it all made me what I am. I wouldn't change it a bit.
I have changed everything in my life. I had to so I didn't drown from everything. Also realized how much my hsp affected even though I didn't understand it. This didn't happen overnight. But collapsed in August 2021. That was the turning point. Now standing at the crossroads and choosing new paths. Where I myself am involved in my own life. Where I make decisions like an adult. Became an adult late in life. Almost 49 years old. Started going out of my programming. Become who I was meant to be without programming. It feels a little unusual not to take or use what I previously turned to. Like a bird without feathers, I feel naked. I walk the road and see where it takes me. Do something that scares me every day. Get to know myself. So dating myself. A bit exciting to discover a new world. Without the ones I had in my luggage. But has the baggage of experience.❤Walk the walk.🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
beautifully said ❤
I’m 40 and lost every, I don’t even own a spoon as I write this but praying for better days ❤
Oh I totally relate , I needed to hear that, thank you for sharing your vibrant energy with us.
I love that they’re talking and engaging with the visitors and the workers alike. The message is even better ✨
I was just thinking about having another 'talk' with my adult son. Too much alcohol. He has a new job making double the money but it's getting frittered away. His wife drinks alcohol out of a McDonalds cup on the way home from work. I don't want to be a nag but I can't let him just waste his life. I have encouraged him to invest but I still pay for his cel phone and he's made no move to repay the thousands I've 'loaned' him the past few months. I guess the difference is that I literally starved once, and he never has :(
Skip the talk, cut off the cell phone, no more loans and stop enabling him. Tough love is hard but it’s the best thing you can do for him.
Put him on a repayment plan even if just $25 a month. Do not pay for his phone. Talking won’t likely make a difference, but having to take responsibility for his actions will; you’d be doing him a favor.
You sometimes have to be cruel to be kind mama but cut the cord, he will thank you eventually, that is a grown ass married man. May god give you strength to guide you through, saying no to children is tough 💫
Go to Al Anon! It’s the only way you’ll get better. It’s not about him it’s about you! Please get to a meeting you’ll feel better and maybe you can help him. You cannot, I repeat cannot be of help to him coming from fear!
Thrown in the water and see how fast he can swim to stay afloat! He’s a man. Not a baby. Stop talking and let him learn the hard way like a man!
I’m grateful I found this
Perfect timing! ❤🙏🏽
I got a f*ck*d up life at 46. I had fever for 5 years in my 20ies and massive health problems again after c*vid for now the past 2 years. I am stuck and alone! What a life experience!
I just looooooooove you Mel...your videos have changed my mind set....you are freaking awesome.... On my way to success ☺️☺️🤞
@Mel Robbins by using someone else's name and picture you have proven that you are a fraud.
@Mel Robbins and by the way cryptocurrercy itself is a big fraud.
Im 35 , and lost . Thanks for your words ❤
@@Uiaqvids I like that 👌
Me too, Mel! I believed my fearfull thoughts.
No more!
Loved the way you ignite the fire in people who doubt in themselves and in the life they do deserve. It’s choices at the end one makes for themselves - so beautifully done Mel!!!
I messed up too. Still messing up.
I fucked up over 50 yrs and still can do it through patterns...but I learned I am not my patterns ...I can change them
I love her.
Talk about shit you need to hear... wow... thank you so much for this. 🙏
I love it Mel. I'm going to keep cheering for myself. It may take time but I'm going to make it happen! 💪👌👍😘
Just got a new subscriber. The part about waking up in the mirror and choices really struck home for me. Im 36 and just starting life over now, in a new school (massage therapy) for something i really loved my entire life but never had the balls to pursue.
Love you Mel♡
I LOVE your videos and share with friends and my adult children. Thanks Mel for being real! 💖
👉 *Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional. Let this be a sign that you've got a big heart and aren't afraid to let others see it.*
*Showing your emotions is a sign of strength.* 🖤
Wow Thank you so much 💖
Wow!! Needed to hear this ☺
Society always portrays your vulnerable as a sign of weakness
Being sensitive and emotional is actually a great strength which many people don't have coz they are full of ignorance, resentment, self pity , ego or just lost . Important is to take the power and decide who and which situation is worthy of your feelings and put energy in it. don't waste it , it ain't for the people who don't appreciate it. Have compassion but you can't do the healing work for them . If we are able to have a clear distinguishable understanding between being practical and emotional.. we can help others while not draining own self. :)
You have to discern when it is appropriate to show your emotions. It’s hard to see an emotional outburst about a trivial incident and see that person as strong. Being able to manage emotions appropriately is very important and actually shows a great deal of strength, restraint and self control. Allow yourself to feel and process your emotions so you can deal with life’s difficulties with a calm demeanor and clear head.
My 48th birthday is in two days. I love this advice. This for me is like an early birthday present. It could be the best one I have for this birthday. Thank you.
I’m 53 and still can’t figure it out!😅. Your a rock star. Keep posting those life nuggets! Priceless wisdom is awesome!!!
You inspire me Mel. I know everyone goes thru stuff it is part of living but you make sense
That line hit me. I’m grateful that I finally woke up.
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You brought tears to my eyes. I love and appreciate you! That young man was blessed to have been put in your path. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. That is the only way we can affect change is by looking ourselves in the mirror and seeing those hard truths.
I'm even better! I f*cked up the first 44 years of my life. 😁
But now I'm very happy.
In what way did you fuck up?
If you have a dream, you don't just sit there. Gather courage to believe that you can succeed and leave no stone unturned to make it reality.
I believe in you. 🚀♥
It’s funny on here as most the negative comments seem to cone from men ? Yet the positive from women 🤔
It's nice to see you helping people live. God bless
The Experiences of the Past Collectively Catapult you to the next level, provided you have the Quest to want Something.
This was so encouraging Mel, for me and I’m sure for the person you were speaking to in the video also. It was heart-warming to see you share your life’s wisdom with another. Really grateful of you and you’ve done such a good deed by posting this video here. Thank you!
The real issue isn't getting your life together. It's finally not procrastinating and crying over wasted time and making peace with the past and the biggest fear of all - that you won't get as far as you hoped you would, because you wasted so much time.
I get the mindset, I actually felt like this a lot in my late 20s, early 30s. Then at 34 circa, I had almost an epiphany one month, one moment, where it finally started to fall into place for me. Suddenly like 90 percent of my neurotic thoughts, doubts went out the window, because I just kinda thought it's pointless to focus on them. But, then I made one mistake at work, I kinda snapped, and I continued to snap until I pretty much undid or destroyed my relationships I had established since my teens and in my family. Just as I was on the right track, one mistake and it all crumbled and the worst thing is this was a real biggie for me - the relationships and they're all gone. So honestly, the past two-three years have been me trying to stubbornly push through my own snapping and self-imposed isolation by convincing myself everyone I ditched is toxic. Which they might've been? IDK really anymore. But I know it's not getting me anywhere.
And I'm kinda resigned now, just enjoying stuff, TV, no real ambitions, because it feels very comfy, easy, and mostly because I know I'm genetically not really that strong, or resilient, have some bad genes since mom has mental issues and was an alcoholic and I feel like at 39, I'm just not going to turn this all around when I couldn't even in my early 20s and 30s and I know I'm going to be behind everyone I know. At everything. And I can't stand that notion, so I just decided to just kinda give up, like "fuck it, who cares" and the idea of putting it together is so aggravating, because it's too much work and really I'm never going to be at the level I dreamed of.
Good advice I think for those who want to get back on track - I figured this out during the short epiphany. Just focus the emotions you have about others, how they perceive you and what they're doing to you inwards and just process them, curve them up into a ball and mentally ditch them. No matter what you do, unless you're insulting others. Just force yourself to constantly reassure yourself you don't care what others think.
Exactly so. There's not such thing as the wrong choice, as long as you're making one. Rinse and repeat.
Needed to hear this. Life is just beginning for me at 44.
Came to comment "Miss, this is a Wendy's" but having known that he was the one that came and go and ask for advice, it was so sweet of her to give him this words, they are of use for most people nowadays, thanks!
My college sweetheart left me a year after we got engaged. I was 35 years old… crushed/devastated. We were just about to start a family after she finished her residency as a doctor. I went into a dark place…alcohol, drugs, women etc.. at 39 I finally feel I have regained control as a grounded person with targeted goals. This video should give hope to those who have stumbled in their later years in Life. We all have our own journey, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to your siblings and friends. Fuck all that! Focus on yourself and getting better everyday. The trials and tribulations you endure and overcome only makes you more stronger, wiser, resillient if you maximize them for positive change. Keep pushing to being the best you and live your life on your terms, not others.
The waiter is cute. He is really listening her. I would not listen probably. Or I would ask at the end for my payment as a therapist.
I Fu&k up life too Mel, for over 50 yrs!!! Thank you Mel for starting this much needed conversation!!! Blessings to us ALL!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻✨♥️✨💝✨♥️✨🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for being so authentic. I too F!#¥ up my life the first 3 and a half decades.
Waiter:That's not the tip I wanted!
Brought me to tears at work.
Al he wanted was her order ...
High five yourself! That’s how I’ve found my way through this life/world so far!
Mel, you're so real, thank you!!
I just asked “is there anything else?” And I get a lecture😳🤣
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When taking an order turns into a therapy session.... that poor waiter
Thank you Mel! Right on time! ❤️🛼🥰
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@@melrobbins1342 Thank you Mel for your reply. I don’t know what this means ❤️
Thank you Mel for speaking what I have been feeling. You are a constant source of inspiration and strength. A true shining " Yeah, you know what, she is right" beacon of hope.
Ty Mel! 🙏 ❤
When Winston Churchill was asked how he'll define success..."it is going from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm " . Show me the person for whom everything they did just worked out great and I'll show you someone that set very low targets or goals.
I have lived every single day of my life with the correct intention. I am so grateful I have not wasted my life.
I needed to hear this ❤ thank u
Her dialogue can help a million people change their lives today!
Whoa I wasted my 43 years of my life and I think I am to far gone in mental health to change and start over. It sounds easy but it isn't when everything you do is destructive. Life isn't worth it.
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The same with me, turning 41. Only ONE thing ever helped me. And that is meditation. Without it I would not have survived. And now I am even slowly getting out of self-paralysis so that I can start doing things although it is not a perfect life. Do meditation and if you can get a good healing practicioner or spirit healer, it really works. It is a difference like night and day.
It is said, that the real conscious human life starts at 42, when the human starts to be capable of making real self-made decisions. This is my comfort. That it is quite natural that up until 42 you only live in patterns, some people good, some people with bad patterns. And with 42 you get the ability to start choosing, gradually more and more.
Kinda needed a gentle reminder like 🙏🏼
Respect for you lady....⚘