7 MISTAKES I MADE IN MY LIFE THAT YOU SHOULD NOT - OVERSHARING PERSONAL HISTORY

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  • @thedigitalmehwishrafiq
    @thedigitalmehwishrafiq Год назад +27

    People try to control us. Family, friends, relatives, everyone pull us in wrong direction and destroy our dreams

    • @Aamna_Rizwan
      @Aamna_Rizwan 15 дней назад

      Uff so true can’t agree more 😢

  • @shanzaysikandar5448
    @shanzaysikandar5448 Год назад +40

    You have no idea I much you have helped me by speaking those things out ! I myself am a 3 year MBBS student and I realised that I was letting the people's judgement affect my life , and a similar heartbreaking incident happened in my life and there was hardly 1 or 2 people supporting me through it , all the closed ones turned their backs on me and this made me realize how shallow and selfish people are ! Loved how you openly talked about this topic . Sending you much more power , love - shanzay

  • @thatgirlstudies1304
    @thatgirlstudies1304 Год назад +24

    This video had me in tears 😭
    As a 22 year old medical student, I’m emotionally going through a lot, but now I’m starting to gain strength because Allah has a better plan for me , I’m hopeful and praying that everyone who’s going through any hardship gets better reward for this ameen!
    Thank you for being so transparent on this platform! Honest and kind people like you motivates me so much ❤❤❤❤

  • @alishbaanwer327
    @alishbaanwer327 11 месяцев назад +9

    7. Being people pleaser at your own expense
    6. Always feeling guilty
    5.
    4. Complicating my life because of other people
    3.
    2. Negative self talk
    1. Not understanding heart break make you stronger

  • @user-uo5eo9fq5t
    @user-uo5eo9fq5t Год назад +13

    hats off to you !!! In my opinion there are only few people in this era who are so honest and humble like you.There are many people on social media who share all things except these most important things that plays most important role in almost everybody s life . Actually I am 20 years old and WHAT I LEARNED IS DO CARE ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR MOST CLOSE PEOPLE ( like your family ,and 1-2 closest friends or who ever you are close with) Thats all .Try to be happy as much as you can.Most imp thing in last is have a strong connection with Allah who is the only one who can give you peace.

  • @user-jo6ey3uf3l
    @user-jo6ey3uf3l Год назад +22

    It takes a lot of guts for a person like you who is known over the social media to come over such platform and tell stories about their life journey. Hats off to you!! I have always liked you but after watching today's video, my respect for you has grown because you spoke the reality of the life rather than just showing the good parts of your life on the internet.

  • @aliusamaasif
    @aliusamaasif Год назад +9

    100 bato ki 1 bat, OVERTHINKING is the worst enemy of humans. and that's prevailing too much. the sooner u realize better it's fr us. bt the problem is even we know this most of us including ME can't accept this 😐. and overthinking will come automatically like I drink water daily.

  • @user-cb6lu7vk2e
    @user-cb6lu7vk2e Год назад +12

    I just cried after watching this video. How accurate you tell what other people and your own family make you feel. your words are so beautiful and so powerful . More power to you and all people like me who go through this. Ameen❤

  • @ayeshatariq9610
    @ayeshatariq9610 Год назад +7

    This girl is an inspiration. I’m never one to watch any uploads on youtube but it was worth it. Honest talk depicting sad realities of life and solutions to overcome them too. She’s beautiful. ♥️

  • @saroshsubhan29
    @saroshsubhan29 Год назад +15

    DAMN!! You literally spoke my heart.. I can relate with you as I'm also the kind of person who's considered as rival and rule breaker in my family and faced same situations like you !!!

  • @aminaabdulrehman1923
    @aminaabdulrehman1923 Год назад +11

    Thank you so much for such talk, it is an open secret of everyone but not everyone has the courage to speak the world out. More power to you girlie.

  • @umerzaibkhan88
    @umerzaibkhan88 21 час назад

    I like this video very much. All of these mistakes are present in myself and one of my best friend told me the exact reality of life and guide me the right path. May Allah give us towards a right path. Thank you.

  • @maheenjunaid8138
    @maheenjunaid8138 Год назад +2

    So relatable, really needed this,
    جزاک اللہ خیر۔❤

  • @user-jh2su3mu4d
    @user-jh2su3mu4d 11 месяцев назад +2

    As a psychology student i want to suggest u one thing...itna mt sncha kro koun kya snchega koun kya smjhega agr aap video bna rhi ho toh dil se khushi se bnao aap har kisiko khush nhi kr skti ho kehtai haina agr insaan ko pta chlai ki mrnai ke baad logo ko insaan kitna jldi bhool jata hai toh insaan logo ko khush krna bnd kr degga u r so sweet......so kind .....be the way u r ...bcx jbh aap apnai aapse satisfy hogi life se tbhi aap khush rhegi tbhi apka environment ass pass ka khush rhega may allah bless u olways 😊😊😊

  • @iqra9228
    @iqra9228 Год назад +6

    So relatable finally someone has told the truth. More power to you 🎉

  • @zoyai.4435
    @zoyai.4435 Год назад +7

    I'm going through a difficult phase currently & this is exactly what I needed. Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @haarisinamkhan5813
    @haarisinamkhan5813 10 месяцев назад +3

    Bad times perfect you. Here you are. Good luck. You are definitely moving toward something huge. Best of luck for plab 2 and having done that remember all your efforts have finally paid off.

  • @syedafatimah005
    @syedafatimah005 Год назад +2

    You are beautifully authentic and we appreciate it. We need more people like you. Prayers for you.

  • @maryamjaved6226
    @maryamjaved6226 Год назад +31

    Literally the most honest talk on YT

  • @zuhairfan2490
    @zuhairfan2490 Год назад +4

    I too feel like I think different then others but thanks to few chosen people in my college, I can share my thoughts without judgement. Also, I never judge anybody regarding there situations and believes.

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 Год назад +6

    I was v judgemental before. Alhumdulilah i have realized we need to give people space as we want people not to judge us.

  • @Alishba18
    @Alishba18 Год назад +6

    These deep talksss are mich needed yrrr jhooti duniyaa ma kuch sachyy logo ki zaroorat haa ❤

  • @luckystars6078
    @luckystars6078 Год назад +5

    Very relatable. Ironically people who we most worry about if they like us or what they would think about us are the ones who care about us the least....once we stop worrying if them things change

  • @Simrankumari-vm1uz
    @Simrankumari-vm1uz 11 дней назад

    Kash ap mere dost hotii arooba I literally feel Jo Jo mistakes ap na btae ha woh sbh exact same mjh mn ho just imagine Kash hum dost hotey to hmre Kitna maza ke bonding bantii ❤️ but literally headsoff to you girl buht himat chahae sachae ko khul ka Bolna or apne weakness ko point out krna lots n lots of love 😍

  • @sahermahmood7457
    @sahermahmood7457 Год назад +3

    Hatts off Arooba
    You got that courage to speak the reality to everyone...
    May Allah be with you and us
    Besttttttt vdo on RUclips ever
    Love you
    Stay blessed ❤

  • @ciinnxmonroll
    @ciinnxmonroll Год назад +5

    Im only 17 but I somehow relate with you so much I think most of these things has happened to me alot of times. I wanna be like you someday because you are so inspiring

  • @user-ir5by3qe5l
    @user-ir5by3qe5l Год назад +2

    I also always felt that I am different from others always felt like nobody think like me nobody accept me… and now I understand that it was all different opinions and it’s okay if we don’t think same .. it’s not that we are bad .. happy to see you thinking like me ❤ 👍🏻

  • @mahnoormn
    @mahnoormn Год назад +1

    Really Appreciate your Talk ❤ . Even I also learn the same Lessons after 5 years of my marriage with support of my husband jo kuch esi same hi batain hain ! Like cheez koi kharab hogai ya tooot gai tu hogai And same like koi bura manata hai manya in sub baato sy koi farak ni parta hum jo hain so hain 😊 khud ko accept karain aur positive rahain 😊

  • @medfreak
    @medfreak Год назад +5

    Absolutely loved it❤
    I feel like i have did all the mistake u have mentioned 😢 i still do needs gut to overcome all of this😥

  • @MariummmAmeen
    @MariummmAmeen Год назад +6

    Can’t explain how much this video made me feel better right now🥹🫶🏻, my surroundings are also getting very toxic... and I am trying my best to make myself happy. Thankyou Dr. Arooba❤

  • @misskhaluzai7400
    @misskhaluzai7400 Год назад +5

    You are such an amazing lady …..I really needed this video during this situation I’m going through…..you have gain lot of respect in my heart ….I really consider you as my inspiration now onwards and I’m preparing for mdcat coz I wanna be a doctor …it’s my goal for the future …and this is another reason for liking you 😊….anyways you are looking so beautiful in this look….kindly mention the products you used for this look ….stay bless ❤️

  • @sadiadeol1165
    @sadiadeol1165 Год назад

    Api apne ek ek bat Sahi ki Hy,,, trust me 24 mint kab r kesy guzry pata e nai chala ... You are too good... And apki ye bat sab sy achi Hy that we should be honest and should not show others only our perfect side as no one has fairy tale life it's a roller coaster ride during which we should enjoy,learn and grow.. that's it it's life ..
    I am also writing a book on life's journey mentioning all the ups and downs with so much emotional things and also relation with ALLAH... It would be over sharing but I think it would help a lot of people to deal with their harsh situations as I went through and trust me I was in pain but I really enjoyed it because it connected me to ALLAH PAK..
    I know I would be judged by people and I was little scared if not writing it for so many times then I thought no I would write it and today your talk assure this thing k Kuch nai hota over sharing sy agr ap ki neyat saaf Hy r ap dosry ka bhala chahty hein to oversharing isn't bad.

  • @ThePositiveVoicee
    @ThePositiveVoicee Год назад +2

    In this video u sounds like a Psychologist and ur words are very motivating ! Most Honest RUclipsr ❤

  • @fatimamaqbool777
    @fatimamaqbool777 Год назад +3

    You are so nice.....I randomly found Ur video..... I'm also becoming Dr and I am facing also problems like U ....may Allah bless U.....U gave me many lessons thank you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Crzayyyy
    @Crzayyyy 7 дней назад

    THANK YOUUU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS VIDEO
    I LOVED IT AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE A VERY STRONG PERSON IM PROUD OF UUUU

  • @Purplegirl_lifestyle
    @Purplegirl_lifestyle Год назад +1

    MashAllah such a gentle and charming girl ,you desrve milllions followers

  • @Umama-Tul-Fajar.
    @Umama-Tul-Fajar. Год назад +1

    Assalam o Alaikum. Aapi I never thought that other people can also go through such things which I got through but after watching your video i realised that everybody goes through it but their stories are different. I found this video so relatable and helpful. Do make this type of videos. Much appreciated.

  • @sundaskhalidarain
    @sundaskhalidarain Год назад +1

    That kind of video i want to learn experience from those people who suffer from that period jahan s m guzrny wali hun ❤️ thank u so much for making this video
    That is so nice topic ap apni galtiyon s apny followers ko wo glatiyan krny s bachty ho very nice 👍👍

  • @Ntp606
    @Ntp606 Год назад +1

    Completely true each and every word. I am still living in mistakes trying to get out of mistakes and going through silent panic attacks due to patents.I can't hurt anyone else in the family but hurt and kill my feelings for them. Slowly and gradually I am dying due to this

  • @misbahkhan514
    @misbahkhan514 12 дней назад

    One of the best videos I've seen on RUclips ❤

  • @aliabashir508
    @aliabashir508 Год назад +2

    Arooba Mam thankyouu Im a student of pre med 2nd year and You Know what i feel soo Proud That The change you are feeling after those misktakes the same thing is happening to Me..Its might br experience that i leart so much in very early stages of my life and Thnkyou for making me beleive that these mistakes have been done by everyone(mostly )At some point in school i also feel shame of my thoughts i thought this is negativity but no Today i realized i was right..

  • @sanamlaghari-g6w
    @sanamlaghari-g6w Год назад +1

    You are Amazing, I feel there are few people who can speak and share your own life experience , to make others life better . I feel proud that I come to about you , such a beautiful and Greta human you are.

  • @abdulrasheedphulpoto5957
    @abdulrasheedphulpoto5957 Год назад +1

    Deep words and true words I think we are same people but worse people at the same time . That's why one must have to be self-sufficient to cope this all. Dr Rasheed, jazakAllah

  • @ayeshasajal5903
    @ayeshasajal5903 11 месяцев назад +1

    No words for this beautiful,heart touching, and honest talk 💕

  • @hajraahmed5411
    @hajraahmed5411 Год назад +2

    I always Love your videos but specially those in which you are talking from your heart❤....
    we really need more educated and sensible people on the internet!

  • @AliaAmmar-wh9cy
    @AliaAmmar-wh9cy Год назад +8

    This same happened with me I took a gap year after my fsc I have always been a very good student in my metric and fsc but the gap year totally ruined my life har koi bas tumhara admission nhi hua all that all of my parents never understood me I was at a point where I want to die I am still so stucked found this video and completely bust into tears

    • @mahnoorawan2575
      @mahnoorawan2575 Год назад

      Same here 😞

    • @sadiaqureshi1279
      @sadiaqureshi1279 Год назад

      Same here 😣

    • @inertgas9857
      @inertgas9857 11 месяцев назад +3

      I have alqo recently passed my fsc and i intentionally took a gap year, i actually had planed for it a year ago because i think that all my college and school years went by just focusinh on getting good grades but i never focuse on myself, my skills, my looks, my knowledge and my mind set. I am not clear in my thoughts because i never gave myself enough time, every day of my life went by in a rush to go to school go to tution prepare for exams make assignment etc,.and i could not be psychologically strong..in past fue months that i spent at home i worked on my disciple my habits my mentality my thought process so that i could evolve into a new person and it really helped me alot... Taking a gap year is a blessing Because you get a year for your self grooming before going into a more practical world

    • @heybro-s3k
      @heybro-s3k 20 дней назад

      I'm so sorry u faced that girl but Pain is Strenght this is what I believe. U always grow stronger after this phase of pain.Thats all what I am able to say it's the reality

  • @fizzamaheen516
    @fizzamaheen516 Год назад +4

    I learned this 2 years ago towards the end of my MBBS and its very valuable information

  • @zunairaahsan1903
    @zunairaahsan1903 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this❤ your kohl eyes are looking gorgeous dont be afraid of people's judgements, just be your self. Carry everything with confidence, its the key😊

  • @worldofclay_slime8768
    @worldofclay_slime8768 19 дней назад

    Literally i have no words for her such a relatable and peaceful video the way she explains all the points and the way she is talking amaaazinnggggg……………❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shiningop02_11
    @shiningop02_11 5 месяцев назад +1

    Well said We support you ❤❤ Never Give up ✨✨&You look Fabulous ❤️🫀

  • @FarihaMalik425
    @FarihaMalik425 5 дней назад

    Shukr Alhamdullillah shadi sy phly dekh li apki video mai ny😢 ab mai bht strong ho jaoungi

  • @MahamRizwan-i7b
    @MahamRizwan-i7b 3 дня назад

    I really liked this video and it made me feel so good.

  • @aneesaabbas3557
    @aneesaabbas3557 11 месяцев назад

    Ma shaa Allah
    Your single word in this hit my heart ❤️
    I learned a lot from this vedio
    Thank u

  • @Emanwaheed001-jq5xk
    @Emanwaheed001-jq5xk Год назад +1

    Amazing video....Dr Arooba AP mujy hameeshaa se bhoat inspire karti hain ❤ AP suchh mn bhoaaat achiiii hain.

  • @fatimaaqeel722
    @fatimaaqeel722 Год назад +1

    Thankyou so much for giving me so much confidence, Seriously I just wanted to switch my field because the one which I am following right now is just to please others! BUT now I am going to do what I want to... Jazak'Allah❤ and once again thankyou sooooo much❣💕

  • @laibabilal442
    @laibabilal442 3 месяца назад

    Idk whether you’d see this comment or not but I can’t be grateful enough that you have made a video on the topic i relate to so much. Honestly i am going through all these 7 points and although the society has inculcated this in my mind that i have to respect their opinions, i’d try to respect my own and spend the rest of the years in my med school as a wise person

  • @sabamanzoor9340
    @sabamanzoor9340 11 месяцев назад +1

    being honest is rare .in tears ,literally no words

  • @RanaSaim-bc5sx
    @RanaSaim-bc5sx 17 дней назад

    Truly I wanna say this Dr.
    Your seven points truly relate to me
    I listen so many influencers but I don't feel like this today I feel this time
    Your video is sooooo much inspirational for me
    Thanks Dr for making this video
    😊

  • @bunchofknowledge7474
    @bunchofknowledge7474 23 дня назад

    you raised the most valid points, most of the peoples face but you have mentioned it clearly

  • @mariabatool9632
    @mariabatool9632 Год назад +2

    Sending you love. I know everyone could relate to at least one point you discussed.

  • @tabassumabid2850
    @tabassumabid2850 11 дней назад

    Tysm. For being honest. Really liked your video. You made my day.

  • @Dr.Nauman-dc9od
    @Dr.Nauman-dc9od 18 дней назад

    Really appreciating you 😊 and your new subscriber too .

  • @sanamemon9314
    @sanamemon9314 Год назад +1

    Thi is the best video till date. More power to you girl♥️

  • @nehanehu3476
    @nehanehu3476 11 месяцев назад

    api vd sy motivation mili bht...jazak ALLAH DR AROOBA

  • @FatimaKhan-lt4sb
    @FatimaKhan-lt4sb Год назад +2

    Loved this video
    It’s the first video I watched of yours ❤
    Wishing you lots of happiness ❤

  • @FarihaMalik425
    @FarihaMalik425 5 дней назад

    Plzz zruur bnay aisi..bcz Soooooo relatable ❤❤❤❤

  • @maryamaurangzeb6084
    @maryamaurangzeb6084 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing👏👏👏tbh I never wrote comments under yt videos but this video really needs to be appreciated. Trust me you have spoke the whole truth and everyone in this world experience 1 or 2 or all the points u mentioned. And the level of honesty u had while telling bout you. You really are very courageous and strong girl. May Allah ease yr journey and may He bestow His blessings in your way . Ameen

  • @maleehajoohi4729
    @maleehajoohi4729 11 месяцев назад

    only content creator whom I love to watch, very relatable and quality content for sure!

  • @sanaali3891
    @sanaali3891 Год назад +1

    Ur first vlog i liked the most 👍🏻
    At the end u still apologized and thinking again about people 😊

  • @AsiyaAsiyakhan-k3r
    @AsiyaAsiyakhan-k3r Месяц назад

    Same my nature to think about others ..now a days im jst try to solve my self ..why im thinking a lot about others ..i waste my self ...so u r absolutely ri8 .. nobody can happy wth ur happiness ...so pamper ur self is mosst important

  • @user-ie8sv2pz3t
    @user-ie8sv2pz3t Год назад +1

    Super honest talk totally love it❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ especially for students medical students teenager's ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @DreamHomeShorts.
    @DreamHomeShorts. Год назад +1

    Such a Great video so far, Loved it and Thank you so much for guiding.❤❤

  • @sairahali67
    @sairahali67 Год назад

    Mashallah very practical lady really appreciate your efforts God bless you and your family and your strength.

  • @Crzayyyy
    @Crzayyyy 7 дней назад

    LOOK TURNED OUT GREAT!!!!

  • @rehmahasan2732
    @rehmahasan2732 11 месяцев назад

    You are beautiful inside and out ❤ i want more videos like this , lots and lots of prayers for you , these beautiful advices are your sadqa e jaria ❤

  • @Moonlight-sb8tg
    @Moonlight-sb8tg Год назад +2

    I just loved this video, each and every word was related❤ make more videos like this,

  • @poeticjustice3969
    @poeticjustice3969 Год назад +1

    Arooba you are a true gem!!!!

  • @wajihaanwar1067
    @wajihaanwar1067 Год назад +4

    I have also facing these issues, n still hurting through others opinions Arooba ...

  • @daniainduniya
    @daniainduniya Год назад +2

    You go girly! May Allah bless you ❤

  • @ihabibkhan5129
    @ihabibkhan5129 Год назад +1

    I love your honesty.....❤️💯 more power to you gurl

  • @Scrubs_ndstories
    @Scrubs_ndstories Год назад +1

    Such a positive energy you are. MA❤

  • @Learnhowtogrow-fm
    @Learnhowtogrow-fm Месяц назад +2

    Don’t care about others judgement when you are right

  • @Celebrities426
    @Celebrities426 11 месяцев назад

    I was going through the same feeling while scrolling through my YT thank you for making this video .. This actually made me feel so comforted ❤ May Allah bless you

  • @sadiam8450
    @sadiam8450 Год назад +4

    Truly deep talk I learnt much in this and also I realized that I am making many mistakes
    So l will try not to do them
    Thank you so much for your life lessons they are actually diamond 💎 and you are too ❤

  • @rameen1999
    @rameen1999 Год назад +2

    So honest and relatable. More power to you doctor arooba❤

  • @noorfatima-bz8pm
    @noorfatima-bz8pm 9 дней назад

    I love you this was much needed ❤❤

  • @rabiaalikorai
    @rabiaalikorai 17 дней назад

    I am 19 years old and literally I was the same like u as u told about Ur school transport and all other things , and I got u I am going to apply all these affirmations that u have told us , a big thank u ❤

  • @missmcblush6548
    @missmcblush6548 Год назад +1

    Thankyou so much 🎀💕Intelligent people aren’t offended by the truth.

  • @lalala-ux3yo
    @lalala-ux3yo 11 месяцев назад

    Amazing video. It actually gave an insight of some things which I am doing wrong too and I am really trying to cope with them. But one small step at a time.

  • @wardaarooj3928
    @wardaarooj3928 Год назад +2

    Aaaaww thank you so much for such beautiful kind words... Passing through same phase during my mbbs ... But this video is giving me hope and answers that one day things will be already...
    You are Soo sweetie @drarooba such a humble and kind lady...
    Stay blessed

  • @sarahhobbs5766
    @sarahhobbs5766 Год назад

    The reason I liked your video is atleast humare Pakistan main koi to honest hai and ur last words be strong but be humble.this is the best thing to advice ppl. Liked ur saree, could you share where did you get it from?

  • @kjalalhshb29209
    @kjalalhshb29209 Месяц назад

    Love you Dr.Arooba
    Loved each and every word of yours
    You are a pure gem

  • @muhammadawaismuhammadawais9644
    @muhammadawaismuhammadawais9644 Год назад +1

    Tremendous ❤️ video it's change my life thanks🎉🎉

  • @nasreenmalik4375
    @nasreenmalik4375 Год назад +1

    This video revolves around apna kaam banta bhar me jaye janta 😂😂 just kidding
    Very good message diliverd
    First love is important 💓

  • @umairkhalid8980
    @umairkhalid8980 15 дней назад

    This video is really helpful. Can't thank you enough!!!!!

  • @User123-jl6gu
    @User123-jl6gu 24 дня назад

    It's very helpful mam , thanks alot

  • @Mahnoornadeemm
    @Mahnoornadeemm Год назад +2

    Can you please make a video on how to stay awake for long study sessions andd how to get rid of headache while studying 😭

  • @kinzashahid9816
    @kinzashahid9816 Год назад +1

    Yr i can relate you. Your life is a kind of reflection of my life.

  • @digitalcanvasbymahi1234
    @digitalcanvasbymahi1234 Год назад +1

    You are so amazing ..more power to you❤

  • @hareemilyas9
    @hareemilyas9 Год назад

    this video changed something inside me, thank you so much for this video